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Episode 47: "God Ordained It"...How the Rewiring of a Child's Brain Rewired a Family's Spiritual Schema with Jason and Michelle Fraser
24th August 2021 • Your Biggest Breakthrough • Wendie Pett, ND and Todd Isberner
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"Still the seat encroaches into your daughters headspace and cracks her skull open, it kills people worldwide, it maims people worldwide." - Jason Fraser

On Thanksgiving day, 2016, Jayden Faith Fraser was in the backseat of her fathers Sudan, heading home from feeding the homeless on thanksgiving 2016 when another car rear ended them on the highway. The drivers seat collapsed backward, slamming into Jay-Fay's head. Her mother, Michelle recounted, "it was a 360 degree fracture around her skull."

Jay-Fay, who was only 12 at the time, had been a state champion gymnast and a nationally performing dancer. These days, she is wheel chair bound, unable to speak and fed through a tube in her stomach. Her parents are on a mission to make sure this doesn't happen to any other family.

Today, we talk to the Fraser's about their journey, their faith and their effort to make a difference. Let's dive in

In this conversation, you'll hear...

-The event that changed the Fraser family's lives forever...02:35

  • "Whoa, there's something wrong with vehicles"

-What happened just after impact...06:40

-How the family embodies such positive attitudes after such trauma...11:30

  • "This was ordained by God"
  • Miracle Monday
  • #pray4jayfay Facebook, Instagram & Twitter

-Why Jason says this accident was something that God ordained...14:00

-How the Fraser family's faith has held up throughout Jay-Fay's healing journey...15:50

-Michelle's advise on how to choose faith over fear...19:55

  • "I think that if anyone in the world could do this, we can do this"

-How to handle anger, sorrow or regret after a tragedy...25:10

  • Romans 8
  • "The reason why anger feels bad is because it's not the truth, it's not what God promises"
  • "Things work out best for those who make the best of the way things work out" - Abe Lincoln

-The profound simplicity involved in making difficult decisions...28:30

-Jay-Fay's healing and rewiring journey from the accident until now...29:30

-How the Fraser's are trying to make a difference and how you can get involved...32:30

  • Modernizing Seat Back Safety Act
  • Invest America Act through the House of Representatives
  • Contact senators directly and push for quicker response to the Modernizing Seat Back Safety Act

-How to trust that God has a plan, even in the darkest of times...37:30

  • "Believing is seeing"

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