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Hello, hello, and welcome to the Borealis
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experience. I'm your host Aurora, life coach and companion
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on this beautiful journey called life. I hope you feel good, you
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feel good in your skin. I hope you feel good with yourself and
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the people around you. And hope I can bring you value with my
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episode today. First off, I want to thank everybody who has
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reached out in between episodes to ask questions to request
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episodes or to simply comment or to rate. We had a couple of
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donators and so very, very appreciative. This is a donation
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powered podcast without any advertisement. So we highly,
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highly rely on your generosity. So thank you so much. And thank
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you for listening. Thank you for being here. And I respect you so
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much for having the courage to reflect about your life, about
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yourself about your behaviors and your relationships. Not
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everybody does that. And the people who do I simply look up
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to and feel drawn to. So thank you so much for being here.
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Today, I want to talk about your life. That's very simple and
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small, right? Very straightforward. But I went on
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my my little walk here today, and I wondered how other people
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experience life. Because the more I coached people, the more
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I realized that we all have such a different perspective on life,
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on experiences. We make very different conclusions about
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life, even though we went through the very same thing. So
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today's episode is basically a question. How do you experience
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life? Do you see your life on a timeline, from when you were
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born until you'll be dead? Or on your deathbed, or transitioning?
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To not be as harsh? If you go into birds perspective? Do you
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see yourself being born and then going to kindergarten, maybe
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spending time with your friends and siblings or caregivers went
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to high school and now you see yourself where you are in the
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present moment and then into the future? And then all the way
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into the future where you'll be transitioning? Or do you see and
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experience your life? Like a list of accomplishments you know
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like boxes that you want to take off a bucket list that you want
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to attend to. And you go from accomplishment to Accomplishment
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from goal to goal or are you a dreamer to your dream and just
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float like a feather in the air and just see where life takes
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you. That's totally valid as well. Or do you got other
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experiences you have something in mind that you want to
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experience and then you go chase that experience those feelings
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Yeah, I know a couple of people who would live like that they
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want to it's not always adrenaline or dopamine driven.
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But sometimes they're always thirsty for something new and
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something else and something different and then they feel
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satisfied. And they feel they can go lay on their deathbed one
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day and feel good about themselves, but not everybody is
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like that. And then I have other people who gather memories
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throughout life. They live in the past, basically. And it's
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hard for me to understand how somebody can have so much in the
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past, because how do you go forward that and but some people
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just, you know live their life on autopilot. And their mind is
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always drawn to the past to memories. They're very nostalgic
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and, and deeply feeling people. But they're always drawn back.
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They love to be alone lots and they love to have very, you
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know, old friendships that they can share memories with. And
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it's not so much about making new memories, but about holding
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on to old memories. Maybe there's many, many, many
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different ways that you can live your life, maybe you live, you
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live through somebody else, maybe you have children and you
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live your life through their eyes. Maybe you have a job that
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you are totally immersed in. And you are at the mercy of that job
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of the company you lead. I just find that. Yeah, I find it very
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interesting to ask people these questions. Because we're always
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rushed. We always run around accomplished to do less we get
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our job done better or not so good on other days. We socialize
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we fulfills social, like societal expectations and then
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we feel good. That's another one. You keep chasing the
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fulfilling of society, expectations, societal
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expectations. Is that what drives you? Yeah, basically what
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that question boils down to is what drives you? What, Where
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does your mind spend most of the time and energy Some people live
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in regrets and pain, past pain. Some people live in deep anxiety
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because they keep thinking about the future and because
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everything is uncertain and everything changes all the time.
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They live in constant anxiety for some people's stress of
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which depression and anxiety is part of it. But you know, high
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strung stress is how they experience life. It always has
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to be fast paced, and pushy and runny and just exhausting. But
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then they feel life then they feel good. That's normal for
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them. What is it for you? So I invite you to sit down on times
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and just to reflect about how you lead your life. And if you
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were to fast forward, if you'd be happy on how you live your
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life. I wonder for myself it's It's important though, because
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you don't want to regret and a couple of years because you can
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turn that time. All right. I'm gonna leave you with that little
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bit of wandering, a little bit of calm and quietness. And once
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again if you have a comment if you have a request. If you just
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want to connect, never hold back, you can reach me on
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Facebook, Aurora Eggert does my profile or Aurora Eggert
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coaching, or my website Aurora Eggert coaching.com And if you
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feel curious and ready to to engage in a, in a coaching
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journey to address these juicy questions with me and to go deep
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down to the root of your soul and your core being you know
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where you can find me. And if you feel you want to connect
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physically in a year through a relaxation class, then I can
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send you the details and we can meet and connect and my physical
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location. All right, I'll leave you with that with lots of love.
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And I'll be out there very soon again. Bye bye
