Find out exactly how to manage distractions, what impacts high vs low engagement, how emotions play a role, why determining your values is key and the importance of asking quality questions to increase your engagement, enthusiasm and productivity in any area of life.
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Welcome everyone. My name is Emile van Biljon.
Speaker:I'm part of the team here at the Demartini Institute.
Speaker:It's inspiring to bring you Dr. Demartini live today.
Speaker:Let's just give everybody a chance to join.
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Speaker:where you're from, it's always interesting to see where you're coming in from,
Speaker:from all over the world.
Speaker:The topic for today we're going to discuss is managing or manage distractions
Speaker:and increase your engagements.
Speaker:These were questions or this was the main topic we got from the questions
Speaker:engagement we did with Dr. Demartini. Dr. Demartini, are you there? Great. So
Speaker:the first one Dr. Demartini
Speaker:or what are the factors that drive high versus low engagement when it
Speaker:comes to kids or staff or ourselves?
Speaker:Well engagement, hi everybody.
Speaker:Engagement is being
Speaker:present and inspired to participate
Speaker:in what's whatever's going on or whatever the responsibilities you have in life.
Speaker:So engagement at work could be being present and productive at
Speaker:work,
Speaker:engagement at school could be present and productive at school,
Speaker:in a relationship you could have engagement in relationship
Speaker:inspired by being with that person.
Speaker:So engagement can be in any of the seven areas of life, but engagement is
Speaker:a perception that
Speaker:whatever is happening or you're doing,
Speaker:through your sensory perceptions or your actions,
Speaker:is helping you fulfill what's most deeply meaningful and most,
Speaker:most important what's highest priority, what's highest and value in your life.
Speaker:So to increase engagement in an individual,
Speaker:one of the greatest questions that an individual
Speaker:can do is ask,
Speaker:'How specifically is what I'm perceiving or learning or taking
Speaker:in', in my senses,
Speaker:or 'how specifically is what I'm doing with my motor
Speaker:actions, attentions, or intentions, how specifically is doing that,
Speaker:helping me fulfill what is most deeply meaningful
Speaker:to me, what is what's most priority to me, what's most highest value to me.
Speaker:If one can ask that question, answewr that question,
Speaker:hold yourself to that question and make a link.
Speaker:The more links you make in your brain, neurologically, plastically,
Speaker:you become engaged.
Speaker:So I think everybody has had a situation where they've read a book
Speaker:and they've just been engaged in the book and they didn't want to put it down.
Speaker:And other times they've read a book and that just put them to sleep and they and
Speaker:they just, they just couldn't,
Speaker:it just would fade and they just wouldn't remember what they were doing.
Speaker:One was engaged. One of them was disengaged. The same thing in a movie.
Speaker:You could be in totally engaged in a movie and won't miss a thing of it,
Speaker:but at the same time, another movie, you could just be faded out in seconds.
Speaker:So anything that grabs your attention like that that's engaging is because you
Speaker:perceive it helping you fulfill what's meaningful to you.
Speaker:So by asking the question,
Speaker:'How specifically is whatever's happening helped you fulfill what's most deeply
Speaker:meaningful?'. Of course you need to know what's really priority to you.
Speaker:A lot of times,
Speaker:people haven't really narrowed that down and they haven't taken the time to do a
Speaker:value determination, for instance,
Speaker:to find out what really is their life is demonstrating is important to them.
Speaker:And they think something's valuable to them, but then when they do it, it isn't,
Speaker:they're not engaged because what they're actually thinking is important isn't
Speaker:what's really important. And that happens a lot. I've asked people about,
Speaker:how many want to be financially independent and
Speaker:but actually how many people want to be financially independent is very low.
Speaker:They want to spend money on lifestyle and not buy assets that accumulate
Speaker:wealth, for instance. So what they think is important, financial independence
Speaker:isn't what it is,
Speaker:it's about spending money when consumerism and buying things for immediate
Speaker:gratification So whatever's highest on one's value,
Speaker:if you can link whatever you're perceiving and doing to that, you're engaged.
Speaker:We've had people at work who were not inspired by their job.
Speaker:And we've asked them a simple question.
Speaker:So let's take the job responsibilities that you have,
Speaker:the individual actions you do in a day and itemize them down. Not broad,
Speaker:vague generalities, like accounting, but the specific actions.
Speaker:And 'how specifically is doing that, helping you fulfill what you value most?',
Speaker:after we've defined what the values are. And at first they go, 'It's not', well,
Speaker:then they're going to be disengaged. If they can't see,
Speaker:a child who's not inspired at school is because they can't see
Speaker:how that class is going to help them do what they want to do. They love,
Speaker:children, love learning, they just want to learn what's important to them,
Speaker:but if they don't see how that's going to be important to them,
Speaker:they're not going to engage.
Speaker:I personally think that it's a responsibility of every teacher to
Speaker:share, identify what the values of their students are,
Speaker:and then share how that class is going to help them fulfill their values,
Speaker:so they're engaged. I think it'd just be a standard procedure.
Speaker:And if they do that makes a difference,,
Speaker:we've made a big difference in education by doing that.
Speaker:So identifying what it is thatt's
Speaker:really valuable to you,
Speaker:identifying how specifically some job action is helping you do it.
Speaker:If they answer that question and make links, keep making links,
Speaker:the more links they make, the more engaged they become.
Speaker:I can take a person who's not inspired at work and who
Speaker:is distracted, not focused, wanting to take breaks, wanting to eat,
Speaker:wanting to consume, go on the internet, whatever,
Speaker:and sit down and ask them that question.
Speaker:'How specifically is doing THIS job duty, and these series of responsibilities,
Speaker:are going to help you fulfill what's really meaningful to you?' And in a matter
Speaker:of minutes to hours, if I make, the more links I make,
Speaker:the more engaged they become and their focus, their productivity,
Speaker:their creativity, their willingness to endure challenge,
Speaker:their resilience their innovation all go up. It's really so simple,
Speaker:it's being overlooked. It's just mind boggling how simple it is,
Speaker:but it's the taking the time to do it.
Speaker:And most people would rather bitch and be frustrated and disengaged than
Speaker:just simply do the things that actually make it work.
Speaker:So it doesn't matter what it is,
Speaker:it really doesn't matter what's happening around you.
Speaker:You can take whatever's happening around you and even whatever you're doing,
Speaker:t doesn't matter,
Speaker:'How does this help you fulfill your highest values?' The more links you make,
Speaker:the more engaged you become.
Speaker:And Dr. Demartini can you just quickly briefly walk us through just the steps of
Speaker:the value determination that you've got in terms of just to see how somebody can
Speaker:get to their engagement?
Speaker:Well, if you ask somebody about what their values are most
Speaker:people unknowingly are, because
Speaker:they've been raised by mothers, fathers, preachers, teachers,
Speaker:and because they've been, inculcating,
Speaker:the mores, traditions,
Speaker:conventions of peer groups of different scaled sizes,
Speaker:they have been injecting the values of those that
Speaker:are leaders in society's ideals.
Speaker:And they confuse what is really important to
Speaker:them, individualistically, compared to what they think it should be.
Speaker:Whenever you hear yourself saying, 'I should do this',
Speaker:'I ought to be doing this', 'I need to do this', 'I gotta do this',
Speaker:'I have to do this', 'I must do this,' 'I have to do this',
Speaker:that's an imperative, deontological duty that you feel
Speaker:you're going to do.
Speaker:You're living by 'ought to's' instead of what you would really
Speaker:'love to's'. And most people don't even know what their values are.
Speaker:And I've asked gosh,
Speaker:tens of thousands of people over the years to define and write,
Speaker:what they think their values are. And then I do a more objective evaluation,
Speaker:and it's not the same, what they write are ideals,
Speaker:you know, honesty, integrity, peace, and all this other stuff.
Speaker:It's just bullshit,
Speaker:instead of what their life is actually demonstrating as important to them.
Speaker:So I had to develop, as a result of that,
Speaker:a series of value determinants that gave at least
Speaker:a little bit more objective view based on what their life is actually
Speaker:demonstrating. Because if you go by what they say,
Speaker:they'll give you an idealism or they'll give you an injected value by outside
Speaker:authorities. And that starts at a young age, for instance, it starts at age one,
Speaker:the second you stand up and start to walk around and everything else,
Speaker:you got to baby proof the house, your mom starts saying, no, yes, no, no, no.
Speaker:Yes, yes.
Speaker:And they start inculcating as a result of dependency on the mother,
Speaker:the values of the mother.
Speaker:And so now there's a conflict between their own values and the mother's values.
Speaker:And we've called that socialization,
Speaker:we've called that how to fit in and conform to society.
Speaker:But that's great if you want to conform,
Speaker:but society doesn't evolve by conformists.
Speaker:It evolves by individuals that are innovative,
Speaker:that are willing to possibly be ridiculed for having new ideas.
Speaker:So most people conform,
Speaker:99% of the population conform,
Speaker:and you have varying degrees of injected values instead of their own true
Speaker:life demonstrating values.
Speaker:So I had to go through there and identify something that would indicate what
Speaker:their life is demonstrating, not what they think it should be.
Speaker:And I look at how they fill their space because even a
Speaker:baby in a little, a baby crib or bed, will,
Speaker:if you toss something into the baby crib the playpen or whatever, it will,
Speaker:if it's something that it wants,
Speaker:that's really valuable to it'll stick in its mouth and it hold onto it and look
Speaker:at it and observe it and explore it and keep it close to it,
Speaker:to the baby. But if it's something that it doesn't want,
Speaker:and it has no value on it, it will kick it out, throw scream, cry, push it away.
Speaker:Because anything that is close to us, that's proximal to us is valuable.
Speaker:Anything that we push away and don't want around our space is obviously less
Speaker:valuable. And so the,
Speaker:what is measured in our intimate and personal space,
Speaker:our foot and a half to four feet around us has a lot to do with what we value.
Speaker:So on the first value determinant is, 'What do we fill our space with,
Speaker:our intimate space and personal space?' What are the three highest priority
Speaker:items that most consistently we have around us?
Speaker:It could be our cell phone. It could be our computer. It could be our children.
Speaker:It could be technology. It could be food, clothes,
Speaker:it depends on what we value.
Speaker:My daughter is involved in fashion,
Speaker:so around her were fashion items and clothes and things,
Speaker:so that was, she was looking at creative ideas. Myself,
Speaker:it was books for many years, and now it's a computer, really?
Speaker:So if you look at what a person's space is
Speaker:filled with, it tells you what they value. The second one is time. You know,
Speaker:if you look carefully at what you spend your time on, you make time, find time,
Speaker:spend time on things that are really valuable to you. You run out of time,
Speaker:don't want to spend time and can't find time for things aren't,
Speaker:and you may have a moment to moment variation based on the urgencies,
Speaker:but overall, the scheme of your life is demonstrating this.
Speaker:So you look at how you fill your space and how you spend your time.
Speaker:Those are two really great indicators of what's really valuable to you,
Speaker:because if you say, 'I want to be financially independent',
Speaker:but your life doesn't demonstrate that you're accumulating wealth and there's no
Speaker:demonstration of working and investing in money and stuff like that,
Speaker:then it's just a fantasy.
Speaker:The third thing is 'What energizes you?' When you're really around something
Speaker:that's valuable to you, your energy goes up. And when you're not,
Speaker:your energy goes down. So you look at what energizes you most.
Speaker:You know, I love, I always have energy for doing presentations and educating,
Speaker:and also my research, but I don't have energy, or patience you might say,
Speaker:a lot of energy for going to a cooking class for instance or a driving class.
Speaker:Or going to a car show or something. That means nothing to me. So I would have,
Speaker:I'd be bored with that.
Speaker:So you look at where you're energized and where you're not, and that energy,
Speaker:what grows your energy, and you always have energy for it.
Speaker:You're energized by doing it. And you can wake up and you're animated.
Speaker:Your reticular activating system is alive when you're doing it.
Speaker:That's an indication of what you value.
Speaker:The next one is what you spend your money on and find money for.
Speaker:You'll find money, you'll make money,
Speaker:you'll spend money on things that are valuable.
Speaker:And you won't want to spend money on something that's devalued.
Speaker:Who wants to spend money on something that they don't think there's a value.
Speaker:They don't want to exchange that way.
Speaker:So look at where you spend your money and it tells you what you value.
Speaker:When I was in my twenties, I was buying 40 to 70 books a week on average.
Speaker:And so I obviously had a value on learning and books and was reading
Speaker:voluminously books. Later on in my life. It was different things,
Speaker:but right now it's investments and education and getting messages out
Speaker:to the world. So you look at what you were spending your money on.
Speaker:The fourth, fifth thing, pardon me, is where are you most organized and ordered?
Speaker:Because things that are not really important to you,
Speaker:you don't put order to them,
Speaker:it's chaotic and etcetera but where your highest order is?
Speaker:My highest order is the knowledge that I've accumulated.
Speaker:My research is organized. My traveling is organized. My speaking is organized.
Speaker:So I look at where I'm most organized, and that's what you value.
Speaker:And if you say, 'Well, I'm not organized,' you are,
Speaker:you're not paying attention to it,
Speaker:and if you think you're not organized it's because you're comparing yourself to
Speaker:other people and you're expecting to be organized in something that's not really
Speaker:important to you, but you think it is because you've injected that value.
Speaker:And that's confusing. So people are 'not organized', yes, you are.
Speaker:You're organizing what's valuable to you. I've been doing it a long time.
Speaker:I guarantee you it's true. The next one is,
Speaker:'Where are you most disciplined and reliable?'.
Speaker:You can count on me to be researching every day you can count on me to be
Speaker:looking up articles.
Speaker:You can count on me to be updating and writing in my manuals for seminars.
Speaker:You can count on me for up until recently, traveling.
Speaker:So whatever's highest on your value you're extremely disciplined in and
Speaker:you spontaneously do things and that tells you what you value.
Speaker:The next three are, 'What do you think about,
Speaker:what do you visualize and what do you internally dialogue with
Speaker:yourself about most, about how you would love your life to be,
Speaker:that shows evidence of coming true. And you take each one of those and your top,
Speaker:write down the top three answers to each, one after another,
Speaker:and they may be slightly different answers,
Speaker:but there will probably be a scheme there, a theme there, it will be reiterated,
Speaker:but what is it you think about, visualize and affirm,
Speaker:about how you would love your life?
Speaker:And make sure it's how you would love your life, not how you don't want it.
Speaker:And make sure there's evidence that you're making progress on it.
Speaker:If there's no evidence, don't write it down because that's a whim or a fantasy.
Speaker:I need to know what is the evidence.
Speaker:I have evidence that I wanted to travel the world teach.
Speaker:I don't have evidence of other things that I fantasize about that don't show up.
Speaker:Don't write down things that aren't showing any evidence, write down what is.
Speaker:And you'll see a pattern. I guarantee there will be a pattern there.
Speaker:The next one is, what do you want to converse with other people about most?
Speaker:And what do you keep engaging in conversations with people? If you do,
Speaker:you start to be extroverted and talk and you tend to be engaged and listening,
Speaker:that tells you what you value.
Speaker:The next one is 'What is inspiring to you,
Speaker:and what's consistent to the people who inspire you?' If I look at who've
Speaker:inspired me, it's been the great Nobel prize winners and all their works,
Speaker:all the great philosophers and thinkers,
Speaker:all the leaders in various fields that were innovative,
Speaker:that created a new form or 'the father of this', 'the mother of this',
Speaker:'the originator of this' - anybody who's creative and original in their ideas.
Speaker:I've been inspired to read and study their biographies.
Speaker:So look at what is inspiring to you and people,
Speaker:and what is the things that you do that bring tears to your eyes.
Speaker:Every moment you actually get a teary eye from anything,
Speaker:listening to music or going to a movie or whatever, and you get a tear,
Speaker:write down what it was that was in your mind at the moment of the tear and
Speaker:document the inspirations because they're guides.
Speaker:The next one is what are the three most consistent things that you,
Speaker:three most consistent,
Speaker:persistent goals you have about what you want to create in your life that you're
Speaker:showing evidence of coming true?
Speaker:What are the goals that are actually coming true? You know,
Speaker:I had desire to travel world,
Speaker:I had a desire to gather a vast amount of information and share it.
Speaker:They are coming true.
Speaker:There's other things that I thought were whims that I wanted to do,
Speaker:but never got around to doing them.
Speaker:Those eventually fade out and you realize that they're just whims,
Speaker:they're not real.
Speaker:You gotta look at what your life is really demonstrating to know what's really
Speaker:important to you. And the last one is what do you love studying about,
Speaker:reading about, learning about, listening to about, most,
Speaker:that you just spontaneously want to learn,
Speaker:because you want to learn what's important to you. You don't want
Speaker:to learn things that aren't, you want to fill your mind with what's important.
Speaker:But what's interesting. So,
Speaker:what's interesting is that if you answer all 13 of those questions and
Speaker:answer it with integrity and not write down what you fantasize or what you wish
Speaker:it would be or hope it would be what it used to be, but what it is now,
Speaker:and recently, and most consistently,
Speaker:if you do and answer three answers each,
Speaker:it'll summarize and you'll look at which of those answers are repeated
Speaker:most, second most, third most, fourth most,
Speaker:and you'll have three to five answers that will be the top three values in your
Speaker:life. And if you look at that, you'll,
Speaker:get a sensor and it'll be obvious and you'll see your identity revolves around
Speaker:it. You'll see that the thing you love learning, it revolves around it.
Speaker:You'll see that that's where you're most disciplined.
Speaker:You'll see your identity as I said, revolves, you'll see that you're actually,
Speaker:there you have an engagement,
Speaker:but by identifying through the value determination process,
Speaker:the 13 value determinants that I created,
Speaker:it increases the probability of being clear about what it is.
Speaker:And if you link what you perceive, what you decide,
Speaker:what you act on to that you're going to be engaged.
Speaker:There's absolutely no reason why we can't be engaged. I tell people,
Speaker:either go do what you love through delegating.
Speaker:Or go love what you do through linking.
Speaker:And engaging is about linking whatever you're doing, whatever you're perceiving,
Speaker:to whatever's highest on your values, so you start to see things on the way,
Speaker:not in the way. And you see things as feedback, not frustration or failure.
Speaker:A lot of people feel,
Speaker:I had a woman who was in a marriage and the marriage broke apart
Speaker:and she was beating herself up because she felt that she did things to undermine
Speaker:the marriage. She had a fantasy that it was supposed to be forever.
Speaker:And so then she failed and labeled herself a failure.
Speaker:She actually went around and said,
Speaker:'I failed my marriage.' I' had a failed marriage.' And I asked her a
Speaker:simple question.
Speaker:'What specifically are you defining as a failed marriage?' And she wrote them
Speaker:all down. I said,
Speaker:'How is each one of those helping you fulfill what's highest on your value?' We
Speaker:first determined her values by doing the value determination.
Speaker:And I just asked that question.
Speaker:And in two hours, yes,
Speaker:it took two hours to me about 40 minutes or so to get the values out of her.
Speaker:And then it took another hour and 20 minutes to make the links.
Speaker:And when I got through, she goes, 'I didn't have a failed marriage.' I said,
Speaker:'No, you had a clarity about what your real values are.
Speaker:You realize that you had a higher value on your children and on your career than
Speaker:on your husband.
Speaker:He went off with somebody else because he wanted to get more appreciation.
Speaker:And that's not a failure. It's just learning about who you are,
Speaker:and that you wanted to have babies. And you used the man to get the babies.
Speaker:And, and now,
Speaker:and now you're seeing that it's actually helping you because that made you
Speaker:become more independent, helped you build your career and not rely on a guy.
Speaker:And when we started looking at what her values are,
Speaker:it was actually in line with what she really wanted.
Speaker:And she goes, 'I didn't. So the whole story about I failed,
Speaker:it's not true.' I said, 'No, you were unconscious of what your values were.
Speaker:And you were manifesting them unconsciously, and
Speaker:And she goes, 'I did really.' I said, 'So don't be a failure, just thank him,
Speaker:thank yourself, move forward.
Speaker:We only perceive ourselves making mistakes when we compare our actions to
Speaker:other people's values,
Speaker:and we only perceive other people making mistakes when we compare their actions
Speaker:to ours, but they live in their own values,
Speaker:Eevery decision they make is based on what they believe will give them the
Speaker:greatest advantage over disadvantage at that moment. And the same thing for us,
Speaker:we make decisions based on what we think will give the greatest advantage over
Speaker:disadvantage in our own values.
Speaker:So anytime we expect ourselves to live outside our values and in somebody else's
Speaker:values, we're going to perceive ourselves as making mistakes. But we don't.
Speaker:We just think we did because we've compared it.
Speaker:When we finally realize that we're making decisions based on our own values and
Speaker:once we can get clear that whatever's happening in our life is helping us do
Speaker:that, then we see things on the way, life is on the way, it's not in the way,
Speaker:there's no mistakes and failures on there, it's just perception.
Speaker:So if you want to be more engaged, you want to be more inspired,
Speaker:identify what your values are and set sail as captain of your ship,
Speaker:master of your fate in the direction of what you value most,
Speaker:find out what's really,
Speaker:truly highest on value and prioritize your daily life to fit that Delegate
Speaker:the rest.
Speaker:That means you will have the accountability of going
Speaker:people that earns an income to be able to pay for the delegation,
Speaker:or, take whatever you're doing, that may be a little lower on your values,
Speaker:and link it to what is higher on your values,
Speaker:so you can take all of those things and super-task them, not multitask them,
Speaker:but super-task them, because once you see them on the way,
Speaker:they're not in the way, and you're energized again,
Speaker:and you're vital again, and you're engaged again.
Speaker:I do both of those in the Breakthrough Experience.
Speaker:I teach people how to do both of those mechanisms in the Breakthrough to expand
Speaker:because it's a science and it,
Speaker:because if you don't know how to, you have control over your perceptions,
Speaker:decisions, and actions,
Speaker:if you don't know how to take command of your perceptions and link whatever
Speaker:happens in your life to what you value most,
Speaker:you don't know how to take command of your actions and prioritize your actions
Speaker:according to your highest values - you're not going to have a fulfilling and
Speaker:inspired life, it's that simple. There's no rocket science here,
Speaker:mastering those two things,
Speaker:which I explain in the Breakthrough Experiences and show you what to do,
Speaker:make you do It, are two extremely crucial actions to master your life.
Speaker:And many people think they're victims of the world on the outside.
Speaker:There's no victims in the world on the outside.
Speaker:There's just people who have taken events and seen them in the way and
Speaker:labeled them, and made them bad or good or whatever.
Speaker:And didn't realize it had nothing to do with what happened out there,
Speaker:it has everything to do with your perception.
Speaker:You can see that an event in your life that starts out terrible, a day,
Speaker:a week, a month, a year, five years later,
Speaker:when you discover the links of how it's helped you in your life,
Speaker:you're now going, 'Wow, thank God that occurred. I didn't see it,
Speaker:but now I can see if it wasn't for that, I wouldn't be where I am'.
Speaker:And the things you think are terrific. You think, 'Wow!'. And then you,
Speaker:sometimes weeks, months or years later, you look back, 'Oh God, I was blind',
Speaker:but it's all perception.
Speaker:And if you can take whatever's happening and find out how it's fulfilling your
Speaker:highest value, you're engaged and inspired and adaptable and resilient.
Speaker:You're more objective. You're more expanded. You're more leader.
Speaker:You're more innovative. There's just, you get the most self-actualizing results
Speaker:by doing that. In the Breakthrough Experience,
Speaker:I teach people how to take whatever they perceive and whatever they're doing and
Speaker:how to link it or prioritize it so they can maximize
Speaker:their potential in life. And it's, and it's amazing. It's really amazing.
Speaker:And it's, it has nothing to do with what we perceived or did.
Speaker:It's all about our mindset towards it.
Speaker:And knowing how to do that is partly what the Breakthrough Experience is about.
Speaker:Partly why I do that because I found for myself,
Speaker:that's what allowed me to be resilient and move forward and accomplish more,
Speaker:and it also allowed me to help other people do the same.
Speaker:And there's no reason why you can't do that in life.
Speaker:It's just a matter of taking the time and learning a few simple exercises and
Speaker:steps, and then practicing them and making them part of your daily life.
Speaker:Dr. Demartini. Another question I've got from one of the attendees is:
Speaker:'I run my own business and I have a big team that always asks me for help.
Speaker:I find that distracts me from being super focused on one task.' What
Speaker:advice can you give to this attendee?
Speaker:Well,
Speaker:there's a number of possibilities here I can speculate cause without talking to
Speaker:him I can guess. First of all,
Speaker:you want to make sure that you don't
Speaker:feed and thrive on being the solution for the
Speaker:people's problems in the sense that sometimes
Speaker:we say, 'this is distracting and bothering me', but at the same time, you go in,
Speaker:engage, instead of them figuring things out themselves,
Speaker:and answering questions themselves, they keep relying on you. So instead of,
Speaker:they brain offload,
Speaker:they don't want to take on the accountability and so you just solve it.
Speaker:And then you're distracted,
Speaker:cause you're now sort of of halfway delegating it and not really releasing
Speaker:it. So, if the individual that you hire,
Speaker:when you're hiring them is not seeing how the job description
Speaker:that they have is going to help them fulfill what they value most,
Speaker:they're not going to be engaged and when they're not engaged,
Speaker:they don't want to solve problems,
Speaker:hey'd rather offload them onto you. And then if you rescue them,
Speaker:they're not going to ever do it themselves.
Speaker:So this is why if you take the time to have them do a job description,
Speaker:first identify their own top values and do a job description and link it to
Speaker:their job description,
Speaker:their job description to their highest values and get them more engaged.
Speaker:The more engaged they are, the more they actually enjoy tackling problems,
Speaker:coming up with solutions, innovating,
Speaker:and the more freed you are to go on and do what you want.
Speaker:So you want to make sure that you're not actually feeding their dependencies
Speaker:by one, rescuing them, so they can't make a decision,
Speaker:or judging their decisions and punishing them if they're not right,
Speaker:so they don't want to make decisions and take on the answers.
Speaker:Or you're not,
Speaker:you're not showing them the resources where they can look up those answers and
Speaker:you're answering it more than once instead of writing it down and giving it a
Speaker:policy
Speaker:so they know what the answers are, or you're not, you're just rescuing them.
Speaker:And if you do, you're going to be distracted.
Speaker:So you have to stick to your own priorities and then
Speaker:own accountabilities. I remember many years ago when I was in practice,
Speaker:we wanted,
Speaker:the the staff was bitching because we'd go past six o'clock and they
Speaker:wanted to go home at six because we worked from a certain time to six o'clock
Speaker:and I said, 'Well, then finish out your paperwork.
Speaker:'So we can't finish out the paperwork until you're through with the patients.' I
Speaker:said, 'Okay, well then finish the paperwork before they go back,
Speaker:take care of the transactions before they go back after 5:45,
Speaker:anybody that comes in after 5:45, have them do the payments upfront,
Speaker:everything else because, you know what the procedure's going to be,
Speaker:cause it's already signed,
Speaker:and do it all.' And and so what happened is they,
Speaker:they came up with a solution and they figured out the solution and they did it
Speaker:and they took it on and I made a suggestion, just do that in a simple way.
Speaker:But they went on and figured out all the strategies and figured out and we're
Speaker:out at six o'clock. And that means it didn't shortcut their services.
Speaker:They didn't short cut their responsibilities.
Speaker:They just figured out how to do it more efficiently because I didn't rescue
Speaker:them. I gave them an idea, but they went out and figured it out.
Speaker:And every time that you let them figure it out,
Speaker:they become more confident to make decisions.
Speaker:And eventually you want to be surrounded by people that can make decisions,
Speaker:so you're not bombarded by decisions.
Speaker:Otherwise you're creating a dependency on you and they're offloading their
Speaker:decisions onto you.
Speaker:And you're now distracting yourself from what are higher priority decisions,
Speaker:higher priority actions.
Speaker:So you have to stick to your own priorities if you want them to.
Speaker:And you need to hire people that are engaged or you need to get them engaged
Speaker:with a value determination process and the value linking process.
Speaker:I have a Values Training program just for that for companies to help them do
Speaker:that, to maximize productivity and profitability andthings of this nature,
Speaker:but in the Breakthrough Experience,
Speaker:I also show you the science of asking those questions and the
Speaker:spillover,
Speaker:If you've got kids that are having difficulty in school,
Speaker:if you're having people at work that are unengaged,
Speaker:you got people that are not connecting in their relationship,
Speaker:you're disengaged in relationship.
Speaker:You got kids that are not inspired by what they're doing in school or whatever.
Speaker:I assure you, what I teach you in the Breakthrough Experience,
Speaker:and also the linking process is a gold mine.
Speaker:It can save you a lot of aggravation because for some bizarre reason,
Speaker:nobody's taught this. I devoured the literature, it just isn't out there.
Speaker:So I've introduced something that apparently is somewhat
Speaker:because it's a major need and it works and it's reproducible,
Speaker:but it hasn't been thought through. I think people are so used to thinking,
Speaker:'Well here's the values, this is what you have to do,
Speaker:and it's autocratic and that's what you have to live'.
Speaker:And most people think that's what you're supposed to do.
Speaker:They're so used to subordinating to outside authority they never think about
Speaker:their own values.
Speaker:And they don't ever think about how they could take whatever's happened to them
Speaker:and link it. So when I've introduced that it's novel,
Speaker:and it's spreading and it's helping companies and individuals and families and
Speaker:people at school and educational systems and guidance counseling systems,
Speaker:it's spreading.
Speaker:So I'm absolutely certain that you can take the
Speaker:people at work, get them more engaged. They'll take on more responsibilities.
Speaker:Don't rescue them, ask them what is their decision.
Speaker:And if they say the right decision, say great, that's exactly what I do.
Speaker:Trust yourself, and go make decisions and allow you to learn by trial and error.
Speaker:And don't distract yourself from the higher priorities and train them and let
Speaker:them go, let them learn. And don't robb them of accountability.
Speaker:If you rob them of accountability, productivity, and dignity,
Speaker:they won't produce. And then you'll be, you know,
Speaker:be micromanaging people all day long and putting fires out and distracting
Speaker:yourself from what's higher.
Speaker:And you could be producing way more by going on what's priority.
Speaker:And the cost of having to go down instead of up,
Speaker:costs the company and everybody else from producing their fullest.
Speaker:And Dr. Demartini any advice on what the leader in a business would be
Speaker:wise to do during this time to keep their team moral high and to help the
Speaker:team to stay focused on the business goals.
Speaker:Well,
Speaker:if you're sitting there and not seeing it as a leader,
Speaker:not seeing the benefits of what's happening in your own business
Speaker:and you're showing crisis and adding to the insecurity,
Speaker:that's obviously gonna have a ripple effect down.
Speaker:So you have ultimately the ultimate responsibility to link
Speaker:whatever's happening, on the way,
Speaker:because the second you see whatever's happening on the way your executive center
Speaker:comes online and you get creative and you come up with solutions and you
Speaker:innovate and you come up with more powerful and more
Speaker:what you want done. So I'm a firm believer in the asking first,
Speaker:write down every single thing that you think is in the way and challenge and
Speaker:problems or whatever, write them down and ask,
Speaker:'How specifically is it on the way?', If you have a solution,
Speaker:immediate solution for it, on what you can do, great.
Speaker:But a lot of times there's fantasies about the way it's supposed to be.
Speaker:And you're comparing what's happening to what the fantasy is instead of
Speaker:actually, and not discerning between a fantasy and a problem.
Speaker:And a problem is something that you can come up with a solution to. A fantasy,
Speaker:you've got to break your fantasy.
Speaker:And if you're expecting something that's unrealistic and you then create
Speaker:problems because of that, you need to know what those are. But most of the time,
Speaker:if you just ask, 'How specific is whatever's happening,
Speaker:how can we use it to our greatest advantage to fulfill what's highest on our
Speaker:value and link it, how is it on the way?'right amazing
Speaker:The morale goes up because people now see new ideas.
Speaker:They learn how to process challenge. They learn how to innovate.
Speaker:They learn lots of things.
Speaker:And you can be an example of what's possible as a leader and initiate that.
Speaker:And that's, you know,
Speaker:in the Breakthrough Experience I have people coming to the Breakthrough
Speaker:Experience and they're saying, 'Well,
Speaker:my husband had an affair.' 'My wife had an affair.' 'My wife had to,
Speaker:is having this problem, or they did this.
Speaker:And so and so this.' And I ask a really simple question, 'Great,
Speaker:how'd that serve you? And they go, 'But it didn't.' I go,
Speaker:'That's because you're choosing to see only the downside.
Speaker:And that's not the whole picture.
Speaker:So how is it helping you get what you want in life?' 'Well it's not.'
Speaker:I go, 'No. How specifically, answer the question, be accountable.
Speaker:You want my help,
Speaker:but now you're wanting to not do what I'm telling you will work.
Speaker:So ask how specifically is what has happened, serve you?
Speaker:Does it teach you about communication.
Speaker:Did it teach you about what your husband's values are,
Speaker:did it teach you how to communicate effectively with your husband?
Speaker:Did it teach you that if you don't meet your customers needs they can go
Speaker:somewhere else? Has it made you realize they're not committed to you.
Speaker:They're committed to their own values.
Speaker:And you've been living in a fantasy and you need to break your fantasy and grow
Speaker:up and mature? How is it helping you fulfill your values?
Speaker:How is it getting you empowered in your life. And once they dig,
Speaker:it's always there. I've yet to see anything that the
Speaker:that you can't turn into opportunity and thank you. So once they do that,
Speaker:their morale goes up, their appreciation goes up, their engagement goes up,
Speaker:their creativity goes up. So you as a leader,
Speaker:have the responsibility to find that out and set the standard for everyone
Speaker:below in the chain of command there to do the same and
Speaker:holding them accountable,
Speaker:to ask them the questions and getting them to come up with creative ways of
Speaker:finding out whatever is going on, is helping them.
Speaker:Well, how do we solve it?
Speaker:Ultimately it's about filling clients and customers and consumers needs
Speaker:and doing it in a way that's inspiring to us. So we asked,
Speaker:'How specifically can we serve the greatest number of people and be the most
Speaker:inspired and efficient at doing it? If we asked that question,
Speaker:'How's it helping us fulfill what's most valuable to us?' We'll get that
Speaker:outcome. And there's,
Speaker:nothing that you can experience that can't be turned into that. And, and,
Speaker:and if you have difficulties knowing how to do it,
Speaker:come to the Breakthrough Experience and let me show you how to do it.
Speaker:It's not that hard. It's just a matter of doing it. And once you learn it,
Speaker:you got it for life.
Speaker:And it's a powerful tool for the rest of your life actually on how to
Speaker:how to basically be resilient and adaptable and creative and innovative and
Speaker:productive. And that's when we feel the most fulfilment,
Speaker:when we're making some sort of contribution to people anyway,
Speaker:and we feel the most fulfilled when we can solve our own problems,
Speaker:depending on being,
Speaker:and having to depend on other people to solve our own problems,
Speaker:or is a dependency. Now, things that are low on your values,
Speaker:you want to delegate people to do it, but things that are inspiring to you,
Speaker:you want to keep at the cutting edge and keep tackling new challenges.
Speaker:The greater,
Speaker:the challenges and problems you solve in your life will be the greater the life
Speaker:that you live.
Speaker:How big a problem have you solved in life that will tell you how big a life
Speaker:you're going to have,
Speaker:how valuable you'll be in the world and how much income you'll probably
Speaker:generate,
Speaker:because income is a result of solving people's problems and solving your own.
Speaker:And Dr. Demartini what about emotions impacting the focus of engagements?
Speaker:If somebody is highly angry or depressed you know,
Speaker:then what can they do to get back into their focus?
Speaker:Well, anger is unmet expectation and
Speaker:99% of all anger is, if it's directed to somebody else,
Speaker:it's a self righteous perception of the individual
Speaker:projecting their expectations in their own values onto somebody else and
Speaker:expecting somebody else to live in their values. And/or,
Speaker:they're expecting them to live one sided lives positive without negative,
Speaker:Nice without mean, kind without cruel, delusions. And they're,
Speaker:or they're expecting them to match the fantasy that they have about how they're
Speaker:supposed to be, which is just a plain delusion. See,
Speaker:the reality is which reality is, and anytime you're not,
Speaker:you're expecting something other than reality with reality,
Speaker:you're going to be upset. You're going to be angry. You know, I had a,
Speaker:a woman that, she said, 'Well, my husband's late every night.' 'Okay. Okay.
Speaker:And what's he doing?' 'He's working.' 'Okay. So he's,
Speaker:he's feeling like he's, so I've got a question for you.
Speaker:Is there something you're doing,
Speaker:that's making him not want to come home early?' She goes, 'No.' And I said,
Speaker:'Are you sure? You might want to ask him that. And two,
Speaker:is it because he's got a high priority things that is important to him because
Speaker:you're focusing on the kids and he's focusing at work and he wants the freedom
Speaker:to do it.
Speaker:So he's mind is clear when he comes home and you might want to ask these
Speaker:questions.' I said, 'How's it benefiting you?' 'It's not.' 'Well, no.
Speaker:How does it benefit? I didn't ask if it was, I said, how is it benefiting you?
Speaker:Is it making sure that you say, okay, you have a, you have a box,
Speaker:a fantasy that you have to have kids and family eating every single night.
Speaker:And that's ideal, but that's not always going to be real.
Speaker:He does that about five out of seven nights a week or five out of six,
Speaker:but maybe one night, a week, he's going to be late.
Speaker:So how does that serve you?' 'Well,
Speaker:he should do that.' People don't live by other people's 'shoulds',
Speaker:that's not how to live your life.
Speaker:You got to wake up and quit projecting self-righteously your values onto other
Speaker:people. And then if you're angry at yourself,
Speaker:you can't live in other people's values.
Speaker:Nobody can sustain and accept moments of infatuation,
Speaker:when you first get together with them,
Speaker:you can sacrifice yourself for other people temporarily,
Speaker:but eventually that wanes.
Speaker:So if you're expecting yourself to live in other people's values,
Speaker:you're going to beat yourself up. In the Breakthrough Experience every weekend,
Speaker:I'm shattering those myths, showing people how to get real,
Speaker:showing people what their values are, showing how to communicate,
Speaker:helping people break through those delusions,
Speaker:because that undermines more marriages, more business dynamics,
Speaker:more customer arrangements,
Speaker:more friendships by living in a delusion that people
Speaker:are supposed to live in your values,
Speaker:and they're supposed to be one sided and you're supposed to live in their
Speaker:values, and you're supposed to be one sided.
Speaker:I crack the 15 most common myths in the Breakthrough Experience that people
Speaker:cause anger with and depression is a comparison of your current reality to
Speaker:a fantasy about what it once was or what it's 'supposed to' be.
Speaker:I've yet to see a depression. By God,
Speaker:I'm so frustrated sometimes with this, this delusion,
Speaker:that it's a pharmaceutical problem with depression.
Speaker:I've not seen one clinical depression in all the years I've been working with
Speaker:people that didn't have completely delusionary,
Speaker:unrealistic fantasy expectations, running their lives.
Speaker:One or many of them. There's 15 I outline in the Breakthrough Experience.
Speaker:And I watch it every single weekend. And there's people come in with, you know,
Speaker:Paxil or drugs or whatever. And they have this fantasy. And the process,
Speaker:what they're doing is they're comparing their reality to these fantasies and
Speaker:these unrealistic expectations,
Speaker:and they ended up beating themselves up and feeling depressed.
Speaker:And it's rewarding to be able to break that and show them how to dissolve it and
Speaker:take them off the medications in many cases.I don't do it. They do it.
Speaker:But the point is that,
Speaker:but it's just showing them how to do it and freeing themselves up with that.
Speaker:Because people are walking around thinking they have a deficiency of drugs.
Speaker:They don't, they have a delusion about how they run their life.
Speaker:And it's insane,
Speaker:hat goes on in the world today that people just run for a pill instead of
Speaker:learning how to master their friggin life.
Speaker:I'm interested in teaching people how to master their life and how to ask new
Speaker:questions and how to prioritize their life and how to engage themselves and how
Speaker:to get inspired at work and get inspired to learn and get inspired in their
Speaker:actions.
Speaker:There's absolutely no reason why you can't do that in life. No reason.
Speaker:All the bullshit that's basically been taught, about the quick fix,
Speaker:take a pill for every ill and everything else,
Speaker:there's a place for it when you have a true emergency and a true crisis and a
Speaker:true issue, and a brain that's not working, that's fine,
Speaker:but that's not 99% of the population.
Speaker:I'd rather teach people how to regain their power and claim their,
Speaker:and how to get grounded.
Speaker:I've seen hundreds and hundreds of people that have been quote "clinically
Speaker:depressed," dissolve it by learning how to crack their fantasy,
Speaker:set realistic expectations, not be angry.
Speaker:I call it the anger, anger and aggression, blame and betrayal,
Speaker:criticism and challenge, despair and depression, desire to exit and escape,
Speaker:frustration, futility grouchiness and grief, hatred and hurt,
Speaker:and insanity and irritability.
Speaker:Those are the ABCDFGHI's of negativity that are underlying every depression
Speaker:and anger. And it's so simple on how to dissolve.
Speaker:I show people how to do it in the Breakthrough Experience,
Speaker:and it's insane that people aren't just taking advantage of their power inside
Speaker:instead of running and taking some pill and with all the side effects
Speaker:and the psychosis and the symptoms of the pills over time,
Speaker:and half of them are placebo anyway.
Speaker:And thanks for that, Dr. Demartini I know as a result,
Speaker:what's happening in the world,
Speaker:we've made the Breakthrough Experience available online. Now,
Speaker:can you speak to the attendees,
Speaker:what they could expect if they could attend the breakthrough experience
Speaker:experience with you?
Speaker:Well, yeah.
Speaker:And what is the objective of the breakthrough experience?
Speaker:What do you want people to get out of the Breathrough Experience?
Speaker:I want them, I'm interested in, I had a dream since I was 17,
Speaker:18 years old to, you know, do something amazing with my life.
Speaker:I wanted to empower my life. 18 to 20 I wanted to,
Speaker:I set a goal to you know,
Speaker:create original ideas that served on this planet.
Speaker:I wanted to create an international business.
Speaker:I wanted to create financial independence.
Speaker:I wanted to create a global family dynamic.
Speaker:I want to create a social influence and hanging out with moving, amazing people.
Speaker:I wanted to have a vital body. I wanted to have an inspired life.
Speaker:And so I set out to do that at that age.
Speaker:I'm 66 now, almost,
Speaker:so I'm going on 66, 65 going on 66.
Speaker:And I'm absolutely certain that's attainable.
Speaker:And I've gotten the opportunity to live that way.
Speaker:And what I've done in the Breakthrough Experience is summarize and condense
Speaker:highly intense information,
Speaker:designed specifically to empower the seven areas of life.
Speaker:And I teach the people how to basically identify what your values are,
Speaker:how to structure your life.
Speaker:So you can live congruently according to their highest values,
Speaker:so you're filling your day with high priority action,
Speaker:so it doesn't fill up the low priority distractions, how to delegate,
Speaker:how to free yourself up, how to link whatever happens on the way,
Speaker:not in the way. I teach the Demartini Method on how to dissolve any emotion,
Speaker:any emotion; anger, resentment, infatuations, pride, shames, grief,
Speaker:any emotion that is any way other
Speaker:than, thank you, I love you. I appreciate you. I'm certain, I'm grateful.
Speaker:I'm inspired. I'm present.
Speaker:I'm only interested in what I call the transcendental states.
Speaker:And I show you a science with the Demartini Method on how to transform any
Speaker:emotional baggage that's stored in the subconscious mind onto how to liberate it
Speaker:and get on with your life and be fueled and inspired by what's happening because
Speaker:there's nothing in your way of doing something extraordinary on the planet,
Speaker:nothing.
Speaker:And the Breakthrough Experience is my science and methods to do that,
Speaker:that I've used for myself, and I've helped thousands of people do it,
Speaker:I've been doing the Breakthrough Experience for, this is going on 32 years.
Speaker:And I've done it 1000, almost 100 times.
Speaker:Just getting almost at that point this year, this, this next weekend.
Speaker:And I also show you how to not subordinate to people on
Speaker:the outside. Cause as long as you subordinate to the world on the outside,
Speaker:you're not going to recognize your genius and power on the inside.
Speaker:Any area of your life, you don't empower. People are gonna overpower you.
Speaker:And so I show you how to empower those seven areas of life.
Speaker:Because if you don't empower yourself intellectually,
Speaker:you'll be told what to think. You don't empower ourselves in business.
Speaker:You'll be told what to do. If you don't empower ourselves in finances,
Speaker:you'll be told what you're worth.
Speaker:If you don't empower ourselves in relationship, you'll
Speaker:you know 'how you're supposed to be honey'.
Speaker:If you don't empower yourself socially,
Speaker:you'll be told propaganda that you live by,
Speaker:if you don't empower yourself physically you'll be told what drug to take and
Speaker:organ to remove, which is crazy. If you don't empower yourself spiritually,
Speaker:you'll probably be taught some antiquated model that, God knows how old it is,
Speaker:that's really not up to date. And if you empower those areas,
Speaker:you're free to get on with doing something that's meaningful to your life.
Speaker:And I want people in the Breakthrough Experience to go do something
Speaker:extraordinary with their lives. I want them to show you how,
Speaker:as Abraham Maslow would describe it,
Speaker:to self-actualize your existence and how to own the traits of the greats so
Speaker:you're not liberating and living in the shadows of people,
Speaker:you're making your own wise decisions and becoming captain of your ship and
Speaker:master of your fate and living by design, not default.
Speaker:And not victims of history, So you can be masters of destiny.
Speaker:I'm interested in people learning how to manifest things and following a formula
Speaker:and taking their inner most dominant thought andmaking it their outtermost
Speaker:tangible reality and taking command of what they want in life.
Speaker:And so the Breakthrough Experience is very powerful, you know,
Speaker:24 hours with me doing whatever I can to share what I've learned over these
Speaker:years. And I've taught literally tens and tens of thousands,
Speaker:hundreds of thousands of people of how to master their life.
Speaker:I'm very much inspired by that. I love it. If you're there, if you're,
Speaker:if you have any interest in that,
Speaker:if you're interested in not living in the shadows of people,
Speaker:but standing up and not brain offloading and giving everybody else to,
Speaker:you're having to depend on them,
Speaker:but you want to be more autonomous and you want to build in power in
Speaker:those areas come, let me help you.
Speaker:I'm absolutely certain that what I'm going to share is going to be valuable.
Speaker:I've proven it. It's, there's no question in my mind about its impact. And yeah,
Speaker:it's the Breakthrough Experience.
Speaker:One gentleman made a difference in my life when I was 17, 18,
Speaker:I set out to do the same for as many people as I can.
Speaker:I learned from Zig Ziglar when I was 20,
Speaker:if I help other people get what they want to get in life,
Speaker:it helps me get what I want to get in life. I'm committed to that.
Speaker:I think I got a good track record of it. The Breakthrough's got a track record.
Speaker:And so all I know is all you gotta do is sign up and make it happen,
Speaker:and you'll see, the result will be the result. You'll see it.
Speaker:They'll see the impact.
Speaker:Thank you for that, Dr. Demartini.
Speaker:So you'll see on your screen now we've got an offer for the Breakthrough
Speaker:Experience that Dr. Demartini is doing online.
Speaker:We've put this package together for you where you get the Breakthrough
Speaker:Experience online and you also get Dr. Demartini 's phenomenal course.
Speaker:Inspired Destiny based to need where that so the value of this program is 2,399.
Speaker:If you click through,
Speaker:you'll see there's a link and the link also be in the common sections
Speaker:Demartini.ink/engage.
Speaker:It will take you through to a landing page to see the dates and the time
Speaker:zones that suits you. Dr. Demartini is doing in a few times zones.
Speaker:You'll see it's over a weekend.
Speaker:Dr. Demartini can you just quickly explain how the day in the format or the
Speaker:weekend looks like for if they attend the Breakthrough Experience with you?
Speaker:different time zones, but I start at 8:00 AM and I get the principles and the,
Speaker:the theoretical principles in the morning. And, and it's, that is amazing.
Speaker:That's all I can say.
Speaker:The people that when they go there,
Speaker:I've had people come just to watch that again, to listen,
Speaker:It is so packed with valuable information that shatters myths. You know,
Speaker:Paul Dirac, the Nobel prize winner said,
Speaker:'It's not that we don't know so much.
Speaker:We know so much that isn't so.' We are bombarded by stuff out there that's not
Speaker:so, that we don't even realize what is. And so,
Speaker:I'm going to condense and breakthrough that we're going to go, starting out,
Speaker:breaking through the delusions and myths that we're taught.
Speaker:Then we're going to go and put it in the afternoon.
Speaker:And that's going to determine your values.
Speaker:That's going to show you how to empower the seven areas of life.
Speaker:That's going to show you how to dissolve fears and guilts and Fred and James.
Speaker:Then we're going to go put it in operation in the afternoon.
Speaker:So the whole afternoon is the application of what I just went over her and the
Speaker:theory.
Speaker:So I'm going to take all of the theory and we're going to now put it in a
Speaker:practical. So you get the application of it.
Speaker:So not only understood practically, but you get the principles behind it.
Speaker:And, uh, we work on that throughout the evening.
Speaker:So we're just dissolving resentments. And in factual,
Speaker:anything that's distracting, you mean present, empowered, prioritize,
Speaker:purposeful, patiently, productively, uh, empowered in your life.
Speaker:We show you exactly what to do and how to resolve it.
Speaker:So there's nothing in there in your subconscious mind that has to distract you
Speaker:from where you want to go. Then on Sunday,
Speaker:it's practical and inspirational.
Speaker:We go through any questions about anything that people have in there that they
Speaker:have that's private.
Speaker:And we show you how to define goals that are real goals and not fantasies.
Speaker:And the distinction between being present versus fantasies of the future that
Speaker:undermine you. What, what anxiety, fear and phobia,
Speaker:what is the illusion of self-sabotage and not being,
Speaker:staying focused and what all those mean and why those occur in their minds
Speaker:and what they really are.
Speaker:I will show you how to not subordinate to people on the outside and how to,
Speaker:how to level the playing field. So whenever you see in great people,
Speaker:you can find out you, you're not missing it,
Speaker:At the level of the soul nothing's missing in you. At the level of the sensus,
Speaker:things appear to be missing.
Speaker:I show you what those voids are and how to dissolve them and how to be more
Speaker:fulfilled in life. I show you how to stay more prioritized.
Speaker:How to get over the distractions and let go of those things and let other people
Speaker:take on accountabilities and let you delegate and free yourself up to produce
Speaker:more and serve more. I show you how to manifest in the afternoon.
Speaker:And we actually go through a formula, a manifestation,
Speaker:and we also look at what is your mission. What is your mission? Let's define it.
Speaker:Let's look at what your life and values are dictating.
Speaker:Let's look at what inspires you. Let's get it down.
Speaker:So you get clear because people who aren't clear about where they're going are
Speaker:going to be told what to do by other people,
Speaker:and they're going to live by subordination. So it's going to be a very,
Speaker:very packed weekend. It's very inspiring.
Speaker:It usually goes from eight till around Oh nine or 10 o'clock at night.
Speaker:And then it goes all the way to around six,
Speaker:seven six o'clock or so on the, on the last day.
Speaker:And so we've shortened it a little bit online to try to make it where people are
Speaker:not having to stay up late in case they're in different time zones,
Speaker:but it's packed, it's intense and yeah, it's inspiring.
Speaker:I have people that at the end, I ask them,
Speaker:'How many of you learned something this weekend?
Speaker:You could have gone your whole life and you're absolutely certain you would
Speaker:never have learned this?' Every hand goes up.
Speaker:Thank you very much for that. Dr. Demartini so,
Speaker:if you'd like to take us up on the offer and spend the weekend or the weekend
Speaker:that suits you and what time zone suits you with Dr. Demartini,
Speaker:please take up that offer, you'll see again,
Speaker:the link is going to be the comment section demartini.info/engage. And you'll
Speaker:see, you'll get about a 60% discount on that offer as also,
Speaker:please click through, see,
Speaker:and then you can be able to join us and Dr. Demartini on the Breakthrough
Speaker:Experience Online. Dr. Demartini. Do you have any last words for us?
Speaker:Yeah. there's
Speaker:no reason why you can't be engaged daily. You know,
Speaker:people always ask me,
Speaker:'Where do I get all my energy?' And it's because I'm engaged. And your,
Speaker:your vitality in life is directly proportionate to
Speaker:In the Breakthrough Experience, I want to help you get clear on your vision.
Speaker:So you're more engaged. So you,
Speaker:you don't let little things distract you from big visions,
Speaker:and there's no reason why you can't be fully engaged in your life.
Speaker:It's your life.
Speaker:You can make a heaven or hell out of it as Shelley in Milton said,
Speaker:or you can make something of a masterpiece out of it.
Speaker:I would like to help you make it a masterpiece.
Speaker:Okay. Thank you for that, Dr. Demartini and for those of you that joined us,
Speaker:thank you very much for joining us in this livetime.
Speaker:We really hope to see you on the breakthrough experience
Speaker:thank you very much for your time.
Speaker:And we look forward to seeing you again in a week,
Speaker:or two's time again on this platform.
Speaker:Yes. Thank you everybody. And have a great week.
Speaker:And I look forward to seeing you at the Breakthrough Experience.
Speaker:Thank you Emile.
Speaker:Thanks, Dr. Demartini. Okay. Yep.
Speaker:For those of you that still online, if you do have any further questions,
Speaker:you can also go through to the website.
Speaker:We'll be able to answer your questions there, it's drdemartini.com.
Speaker:You will see there is somebody online that you can also communicate through
Speaker:them, but we look forward to having you on the Breakthrough Experience online.
Speaker:And we look forward to having you again on one of Dr. Demartini's livetimes.