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Nonprofit Myths: Stories We Need to Stop Telling Ourselves
Episode 2320th January 2026 • The NonProfit Nook • Wendy Kidd
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In this episode of The NonProfit Nook, host Wendy Kidd tackles prevalent myths that hinder nonprofit organizations. She addresses misconceptions such as non-profits shouldn't make a profit, nonprofits can't pay well, nonprofits are competitors, and the anxiety around fundraising. Wendy emphasizes the importance of financial sustainability, fair compensation, collaboration, and relationship-based fundraising to build stronger and more effective nonprofits. Tune in to learn how to challenge these myths and improve your organization's practices.

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00:00 Welcome to The NonProfit Nook

00:52 Myth Busting for Nonprofits

01:52 Myth 1: Nonprofits Aren't Supposed to Make a Profit

03:39 Myth 2: Nonprofits Can't or Won't Pay Well

05:28 Myth 3: Nonprofits Are Each Other's Competition

07:02 Myth 4: I'm Not Good at Fundraising

08:35 Conclusion and Call to Action

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Speaker:

Welcome to The NonProfit Nook, the podcast for nonprofit

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leaders, board members, and community

change makers who want to build

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stronger, smarter organizations.

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I'm your host, Wendy Kidd, a longtime

business owner and nonprofit leader,

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and I'm here to bring you real talk,

real tools and real stories to help

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you thrive in the nonprofit world.

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I'll be talking with

local nonprofit leaders.

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Community change makers and experts

in everything from board development

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to fundraising and digital tools,

sharing real stories and simple

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strategies you can actually use,

because running a nonprofit is hard,

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but you don't have to do it alone.

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Let's get started.

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Wendy Kidd: Hey everyone.

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Welcome back to The NonProfit Nook.

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Today I'm talking about myth busting

for nonprofits, the stories we

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need to stop telling ourselves.

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So today I wanna talk about

something that quietly holds a lot

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of nonprofits back, and that's myths,

not laws, not best practices, myths.

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And I use that term because I am

a fan of the TV show, MythBusters.

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I love that show.

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I love that they blew things

up and did all the research.

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It's fantastic.

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Unfortunately, I can't blow

anything up physically, but I

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hope I blow some of these things

out of your belief system today.

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These are the things

that nonprofits are told.

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Donors repeat it and leaders internalize

it until they start shaping decisions,

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often in ways that hurt sustainability,

staff and ultimately impact.

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And the thing is, most of these myths

sound noble on the surface, but when

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you actually live this work, you

realize how damaging they can be.

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So today we're gonna bust

a few of the big ones.

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So myth number one, nonprofits

aren't supposed to make a profit.

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This one is probably the most

common and the most misunderstood.

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When people hear the word nonprofit,

they assume it means you can't make

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a profit like you're supposed to just

break even or be unprofitable every

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year and feel guilty if you don't.

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But non-profit is just a tax status, guys.

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It's not a financial philosophy.

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It simply means that there's no owners

or shareholders taking the profits home.

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It does not mean the organization

shouldn't generate more money than

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it spends In reality, this surplus

is what allows nonprofits to breathe.

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It's what covers delayed grant

payments, unexpected expenses, and

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quite honestly, moments of crisis.

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It's what allows leaders to plan

instead of constantly reacting and

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honestly, running an organization

without margin isn't noble.

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It's risky.

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Donors want to see that your nonprofit

is stable, that you can deal with

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the unexpected when it happens.

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They don't wanna be the

only thing holding you up.

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If a nonprofit collapses because

it can't sustain itself, the people

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who lose aren't the spreadsheets.

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It's the staff, the

clients, and the community.

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Planning for surplus is not greedy.

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It's responsibility.

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I love this quote.

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Sustainability isn't selfish.

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It's how nonprofits stay

in service long term.

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And no, I don't know who said it.

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So now that we've started talking about

money, the next myth usually shows

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up right behind it, especially when

that money is connected to people.

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Number two, nonprofits

can't or won't pay well.

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Let's be honest, this myth hurts.

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There's this unspoken belief that

nonprofit professionals should accept

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lower pay because the work is meaningful.

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As if purpose is supposed

to replace a paycheck.

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It drives me crazy.

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Nonprofit jobs are not lesser jobs.

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They require leadership, compliance

knowledge, financial oversight,

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fundraising skills, emotional

intelligence and crisis management.

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Yeah, all, all at once.

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And on top of that, many nonprofit

roles are really emotionally heavy.

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People working in housing, food

insecurity, domestic violence,

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healthcare, mental health, grief support.

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They're absorbing trauma every day.

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Secondary trauma and burnout are not

side effects, their occupational hazards.

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So honestly, some nonprofit roles

deserve hazard pay, or at least

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additional support and benefits.

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Paying market-based, documented

reasonable compensation is not

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only allowed, it's necessary.

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Better talent demands better pay,

and wouldn't you want the best

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people to provide the best services?

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Underpaying staff leads to

burnout, turnover and instability.

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And instability hurts the mission far

more than fair salaries ever could.

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You can't build strong programs

on burned out people, so you

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must pay your people fairly.

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Once nonprofits start paying

fairly and think sustainably,

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another fear often pops up.

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The idea that everyone else doing

similar work is somehow the enemy.

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And that gets us to myth number three.

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Nonprofits are each other's competition.

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And I wanna talk about this one through

a small business lens for a moment.

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As a business owner, collaborating with

others who offer similar services has

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been a complete game changer for me.

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We share what tools work, what technology

helps, what the market is doing, and how

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we handle all those fun challenges that

come along with small business ownership.

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But maybe just as importantly,

we support each other.

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There is something incredibly

powerful about having a peer who

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understands the pressure, the stress,

and the responsibility of the work.

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Nonprofits can benefit from this

exact same kind of collaboration.

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So many times people tell me they

feel like they're in competition with

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others who do the same things simply

because they're competing for the

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same grants or the same sponsors.

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But that's not true.

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From a funding perspective, collaboration

often makes things easier, not harder.

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Donors and funders don't

always want to choose between

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organizations doing similar work.

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They wanna invest in solutions and

partnerships create stronger ones.

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No one organization has to do

everything alone, and when organizations

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partner, each can focus on what

they do best, collaboration doesn't

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dilute impact, it multiplies it.

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So reach out to other nonprofits,

I promise you won't regret it.

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And finally, let's talk about the

myth I hear most often, especially

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from nonprofit leaders themselves.

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I'm not good at fundraising.

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This one usually comes with a lot of

anxiety, and I hear people say things

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like, I'm not good at asking for money.

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I don't wanna sound salesy,

or I'm just not a fundraiser.

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Here's the reframe.

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Fundraising is not about asking for money.

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It's about relationships.

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It's about listening.

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It's about sharing stories.

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It's about helping someone connect

their values to your mission.

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The actual ask is just one small

moment in a much longer relationship.

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And honestly, stewardship

matters more than the ask anyway.

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You should have a much more in-depth

relationship with your donors.

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Think of some of your touch points

with your donors: the thank you notes

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that you send, updates through things

like newsletters, engaging them as

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volunteers, or seeing them at your events.

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It's all about transparency and

letting people see the impact

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of their support even before

they've contributed financially.

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It's about building that

relationship, and I know you guys

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are great at building relationships.

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Fundraising is ongoing.

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It's not something you do only

when you're desperate and it's

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not just one person's job.

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Boards, staff, volunteers.

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Anyone who builds relationships is

already contributing to fundraising.

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And if you can build

relationships, you can fundraise.

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Here's the thing, these myths,

they're what keep nonprofits

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underpaid, overworked, isolated,

and afraid of money conversations.

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But when we let them go, we make space

for conversation and consideration.

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We create healthier nonprofits

and healthier people when we

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stop believing in these myths.

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Sustainability, collaboration, fair

pay and relationship-based fundraising

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are not failures of mission.

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They're commitments to it.

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So I'll leave you with

this question today.

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Which of these myths have

you believed or been told?

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And what would you change if you

stopped believing in those myths?

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I wanna hear from you.

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I'm serious.

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I want to hear from you.

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Let me know if I busted any of these myths

for you and how it changes your mindset.

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Shoot me an email, or better

yet, let's chat about it in

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my podcast Facebook group.

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I'd love to hear what other myths we can

bust, and maybe I'll do another episode

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like this with more myths that come up.

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Thanks so much for listening today.

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I truly appreciate you letting

me stand on my soapbox and try

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to bust some of these myths.

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