The affair with the banker Lance revved up, but it was a rocky ride. There was clearly a strong sexual attraction, but since Lance the Lover was married, things became complicated…and often frustrating. Michele had to once again grapple with the familiar conundrum of what to do about being in relationship with a married man. It became a taffy pull of emotion. There were many erotic moments and some very disappointing ones as well. One particularly dramatic event happened which involved her mother. You need to listen to the episode to find out what that was about. This affair of the heart actually went on for a number of years but finally ended in a very dramatic way! Was it worth it you might ask? Michele answers that question at the end of the chapter.