Bob Strachan's Musical Resurgence: Healing Through Songwriting and Rediscovery
In this episode of 'Second Verse,' host Becky Boyland interviews Bob Strachan, an award-winning singer-songwriter from Scotland. Bob shares his journey of returning to music during the lockdown after initial success in the 2000s. He discusses his upbringing amidst diverse musical influences, experiences of personal loss, and how music has been a pivotal tool for healing and reconnecting with his roots. Bob opens up about dealing with grief over his father's death, his experiences with cult-like churches, and his diagnosis of neurodivergence. His journey highlights the transformative power of music and the importance of embracing one’s story and creativity. Becky and Bob also touch on the evolving music industry, the impact of creativity on education, and the significance of being not only skilled but also good to be around.
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One of my theme songs that I've written is called "The Journey."
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:It talks about the opportunities I
thought I was going to go for, and
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:how things were going to work out.
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:When it didn't come, I
realized that wasn't the plan.
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:And if I'd gone that way, how
much more I would have missed.
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:So it's kind of been
my theme song of life.
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:We have a phrase in Scotland, that
says, "Whit’s fur ye’ll no go by ye."
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:What's for you will not go by you.
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:If it's meant to be, it will be,
just watch for those opportunities
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:and grab them when they come.
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:Becky Boyland: Welcome to Second Verse,
the podcast where indie artists share
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:their stories of coming back to music and
where we celebrate the messy, meaningful
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:journey of chasing your creative calling.
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:I'm Becky Boyland, singer-songwriter,
StoryBrand-certified brand
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:messaging expert and web developer.
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:Like many of my guests, I've
taken a winding path in my music.
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:Now I help artists step confidently
into their second act, both
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:creatively and professionally.
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:Today's guest is Bob Strachan, an
award-winning singer-songwriter from
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:Scotland with a story that's equal parts
heart, humor, and hard-won insight.
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:Bob first found success in the
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:from the music business until
lockdown reignited his passion.
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:Since then, he's written for film and
TV, performed internationally, and
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:even gone viral for a Johnny Cash-style
cover of "Gangsta's Paradise."
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:He's also a pastor, a producer,
and a proud neurodivergent creative
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:whose personal healing has fueled
a powerful musical resurgence.
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:In this conversation, Bob opens up about
grief, rediscovery, faith, and why being
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:good at what you do isn't enough...
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:you also have to be good to be around.
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:This one's got depth, laughter,
and plenty of truth bombs.
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:Let's dive in to Bob
Strachan's Second Verse.
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:Welcome, Bob.
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:Thank you for joining Second Verse.
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:Bob Strachan: You're very welcome.
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:It's good to be here.
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:Thank you.
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:Becky Boyland: I'm so excited to have you.
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:And I love what I've been
learning about your story.
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:There are so many things that I know are
going to be really fun to talk about.
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:Let me just start at the beginning.
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:You grew up around music and it clearly
was a part of your life for a long time.
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:Tell me how everything got
started with you and music.
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:Bob Strachan: Okay, so it
goes way back to childhood.
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:My dad was the song leader for the
church I grew up in, so he had a piano
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:in the house, in the old house, and, and,
you know, there's music all the time.
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:There's all those times people
coming around and playing, and he
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:could just pick up about anything.
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:He even got the saw with a
violin bow, and he would play.
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:He would play the saw, harmonicas,
flutes and, he was a good fiddler as
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:well, but he never could get the guitar.
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:He just didn't have the
fingers for the guitar.
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:But piano, everything else he could
do so I'm guessing I've kind of
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:inherited some of that talent from him.
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:That was basically the beginning of music.
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:It was always around and then, going
to the dances, growing up, the Scottish
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:country dances, and then folks coming by
when we would visit, the ancestral home
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:of my mother's folks over on the islands.
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:There was always folks
playing an accordion or some
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:Celtic music or, folk music.
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:It was a great upbringing.
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:a lot centered around music.
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:I remember sitting on my dad's, knee
and sometimes beside him while he
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:played for church and things like that.
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:There was always something going on.
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:Becky Boyland: Oh my
gosh, that's so exciting.
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:Now you mentioned the islands,
whereabouts, not like I'm going
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:to know everywhere, but I spent, a
week or so in Knoydart Peninsula.
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:Bob Strachan: Oh yeah.
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:Yep.
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:Yep.
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:Yep.
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:Becky Boyland: I just loved it so much.
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:It was so beautiful.
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:Bob Strachan: It's very similar.
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:It's the island called Gigha.
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:It's spelled G I G H A.
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:And I usually tell people, so my mum lives
on a little island off the west coast.
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:Unfortunately, that's Hawaii.
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:I'm like, no, it's a little island.
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:not many people know about it, but
those that do, it's strange, they have
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:very much an affinity to that island.
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:A lot of people's, families have
exploded and they end up coming back,
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:to find their ancestry on this little
island just off the Kintyre coastline.
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:I was privileged to have that kind
of music for like the Western Folk
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:music as well as growing up in
the northeast, to where it was the
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:northeastern stuff of Scotland.
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:So, two different, very different
cultures, but very, very much connected
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:by fishing and certainly by music.
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:Becky Boyland: And I think that's really
exciting because folks who maybe aren't
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:familiar with Scotland would not realize
that there would be that diversity and
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:a variety of styles even throughout the
United States where I am there are so
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:many different styles some that have a
similar heritage and come from a common
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:background and others that diverge and
come from so many different places.
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:we tend to think that there might
just be one or two different versions
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:so I think it's exciting that you're
able to bring that into your music
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:and introduce your listeners to
different variations and types.
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:Bob Strachan: Absolutely, I did a
Western concept track the other week
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:and I posted it in a group for some
feedback and somebody said, that's
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:really, I love the country feel as
well as it's, it's really Celtic.
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:And I'm like, you just
summed up my personality.
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:There's definitely that influence.
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:And as you say, when people say
Celtic music, it's, like saying
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:country music or pop music.
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:There's so much diversity in it.
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:You've got Scottish dance music, which
is usually centered around an accordion
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:or a fiddle as the lead instrument.
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:But then you have other things
called bothy ballads and mouth music.
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:I'll refrain from using the Gaelic
terms, but there's mouth music,
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:and then way up in the islands,
they had call and response.
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:The minister would sing, a psalm,
the first line of the psalm in
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:Gaelic and then the congregation
would repeat it, but usually slower.
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:These Gaelic services
lasted about three hours.
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:But it's just so much diversity in it.
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:And a lot of it based
around the pentatonic scale.
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:You're going to write a piece of
Scottish folk music, a lot of it is
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:based around that pentatonic scale.
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:Which, a lot of cultures,
music is kind of based around.
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:That's why things like Amazing Grace
lend itself so well to the Scottish
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:culture because it's in that pentatonic
scale you know, obviously it's the
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:famous tune on the bagpipe probably
the most famous bagpipe tune out there.
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:We've got the bagpipes, the
penny whistles, there's a lot of
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:Irish, connections there as well.
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:Some things are inherently Irish,
some things are inherently Scottish,
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:but there's definitely that blend.
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:Then we bring the mandolin, not really
a typical Scottish instrument, but you
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:do find it a lot now in Celtic music.
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:So you see that bluegrass kind
of, crossover where, bluegrass
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:has brought the banjo in.
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:Now the banjo has been
brought into Celtic music.
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:and then we have, what we call is
a, a bodhrán or as the Americans
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:say, a "bod-run", which it just
makes me, you know, every time,
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:obviously, no, isn't, it's a bodhrán.
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:It's a bodhrán, it's a Gaelic word.
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:Becky Boyland: We're, we're very sorry.
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:Bob Strachan: It's okay,
you know, we forgive you for
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:Braveheart too, by the way.
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:But, but, these instruments are,
very much traditional and you find
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:them in both Scottish and Irish
folk music because, the Islanders.
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:crossed paths with each other.
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:A lot of the culture does cross over,
but even with Irish, you've got the Irish
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:style, you've got Irish country, you've
got Scottish folk, you've got the dance,
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:you've got puirt à beul, the mouth music,
you've got pipe music, the waulking songs
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:and stop me if I'm rambling, but the,
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:Becky Boyland: like I'm getting a great
education here, so I'm just enjoying it.
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:Bob Strachan: That's good.
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:That's good.
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:You know, we have what's called
a waulking song and it's not
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:just like walking along the road.
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:it's spelled waulking.
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:The women would sing these
songs as they waulk the tweed.
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:They would sit around on a table.
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:Once the tweed had been, woven, they
would put it on the table and use
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:certain liquids, I'll not say what
they were, that were used to treat
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:the tweed and help make it waterproof.
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:And so they would, they would make this
motion, put it on the table, bring it
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:back, and pass it on to the next one.
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:So it was forward, back, around,
and then this way, whatever way
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:they did it, grab the next one.
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:The way they did the
waulking would make the beat.
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:it was very much synonymous with the
ladies singing these walking songs.
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:there's just so much in the culture.
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:And of course we get reels
and jigs and strathspeys.
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:I'll stop there.
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:Becky Boyland: I love it because
just that concept of almost a
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:utilitarianism for it, but at
the same time to make it fun.
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:And so that it's not just utter drudgery.
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:And it's fascinating how those
songs and those styles continue
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:through the culture well past the
time when they were a necessity.
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:But it clearly was a beautiful thing that
people latched onto and connected with.
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:And so now we are able to rediscover
that or at least on this side of the
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:pond, discover it for the first time
as we get exposed to, new music
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:by writers and creators like you, who
can introduce us to these sounds or
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:even help us to make the connections
of, oh, that sounds kind of familiar,
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:but I don't know the history.
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:I don't know what that's about.
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:And that's just so exciting and so fun
that there's so much more behind it than
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:just, this has this familiarity and it
kind of makes me think of the British
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:Isles, you know, or something like that.
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:And there's so much more to it.
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:And as we talked about so much more
variety, which is super exciting.
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:But let me go back to, you then
had a bit of a music career you can
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:either go all the way back because I
know there's also some stuff in your
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:childhood that we want to talk about.
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:But if you wanted to go ahead into
your early music career and then
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:bring us back to how you were out
of that and then came back around.
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:Bob Strachan: Sure.
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:Sure.
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:So, music has always been a
big part of things with me at
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:school and things like that.
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:Studying music at school and doing
classical training I was always
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:in the orchestra band folk group
choir or whatever we were doing.
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:I was always in the middle of it, doing
music of some sort, learning everything
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:I could, about it and writing songs.
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:And, you know, right back
to very early age, I wrote.
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:They weren't very good, but
you know, it was a start.
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:some of the teachers loved it
because, it was written by one
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:of the students about the class.
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:So, it's one of those things, if
you write a song for your mom,
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:she's going to love it regardless.
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:You're not writing it for the next
big pop anthem, it's a personal thing.
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:I learned more and developed a passion
for country music, really, and I think,
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:you know, there's a lot of the Scottish
things, and there was a point where, you
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:know, I got bored with the Scottish stuff
because that's what everybody was doing.
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:And so, you know, this
country was exciting.
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:It was Johnny Cash and
it was kind of new to me.
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:So there's lots of discovering different
genres and through school that had a
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:big influence, in my teens as well.
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:And then, so when I went to university, I
was out gigging and doing things anywhere
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:we could do a gig and we had a little
band and we kept on writing and stuff.
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:And then I started writing gospel music.
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:I'd been out of church for many years
and got back into church, started writing
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:gospel music and connected with a couple
of people within Nashville and around.
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:I would sing my songs in different places.
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:Through that, I was able to
get a couple of cuts in gospel
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:music, through some people.
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:That was really, really, really cool.
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:One of the guys I was pitching to and
sending CDs back in the day, you know,
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:and even mini discs, to, he sadly died.
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:And the guy that took over,
didn't really want to know.
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:So that ended that, then we fell in, um,
there's not a really easy way to say this,
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:but into a very cultic group, where, I
felt I had to abandon a lot of things,
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:abandon songwriting and things like that.
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:The folks in church would kind of
appreciate some of the songs I was
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:writing, but if I did them out with
the other groups of people, the
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:churches that we fellowship with, they
would sit there like this, you know,
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:all the way through I was singing.
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:If I brought my guitar to any fellowships
or anything like that, they would
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:make sure they knew what I was singing
so that it was going to be approved.
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:I couldn't sing one of my own
songs because this was the devil's
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:music and anything after 1922
was clearly the devil's music.
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:It was contemporary Christian music
and I'm like, you don't even know the
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:definition of what you're talking about.
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:They're like, well, the stuff
you're singing has got a beat.
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:So, you know, it was just this
ignorance about what music was.
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:I'm not going into the discussions
I had because it makes them look
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:very ignorant, which they were.
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:So I kind of fell away from, pushing
things or trying to do things with
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:that, for a long while, still kind of
wrote, but only when the mood took me.
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:And then, during lockdown, in 2020,
we had to close the church and, there
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:wasn't much else going on and I'm just
thinking, okay, we've done the garden,
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:we've walked today, what else can we do?
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:Cause I like to be busy.
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:I saw on Facebook there was an
art group that was doing this art
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:challenge so I joined that and
we did a couple of art things.
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:We had to make something out of things
around the house so I got wax and I made
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:this little figure and I enjoyed that
and it was kind of cool but it wasn't
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:fulfilling after a couple of days.
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:I thought, what did I really enjoy doing
that I could do and it just came to me.
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:Go back to songwriting.
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:And so I got on Facebook and looked
up every songwriting group I could
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:find and joined them Some of them were
absolutely terrible and other ones I
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:thought, no, this is, this is actually
got some really good stuff in it.
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:And there was a couple that
were doing Zoom meetings.
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:And one of these guys was talking
about, a songwriting course, I
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:thought, that would be really good.
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:I would like to learn, some
new stuff and see where I'm at.
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:It was a six month kind of thing, on
and off, I was challenged all the time
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:and we would go through the songs and
it showed me the things I was doing
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:really well that I instinctively knew,
but I wasn't doing them consistently.
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:So, that helped me to, it's
like, well, this song is right.
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:You've done everything right in
this song, but this song, you've
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:just thrown it all to the wind.
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:And I'm like, see, now that makes sense.
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:So, that helped me kind of get a
focus back on there and get back
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:into what I really wanted to do.
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:And so I was churning out songs and I
was trying, you know, at least get a
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:song completely finished to do for for
Sunday morning, even though we were
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:just our family by ourselves in church.
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:We were broadcasting, but at least it
was something that I could encourage
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:people, to do and I started sharing them.
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:And then I started sharing songs on my
Facebook and people started enjoying that.
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:I started improving and figuring
out what the next stage was.
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:And so just these little things
fell into place with different
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:people that I met to bring me.
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:And then somebody said, well,
have you ever thought about
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:putting your music and film in TV?
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:And I was like, no.
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:He's like, well, do you watch TV?
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:I'm like, yes.
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:Is there music in that?
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:Yes.
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:Who do you think writes that music?
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:Huh?
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:That's a point.
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:So that's what then just led onto there.
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:And that's, you know, where I'm at now.
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:Becky Boyland: I love how even though it
was a challenge for all of us to kind of
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:retreat from the world, by being driven
online, it opened up the opportunity for
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:us to find people and learn about things
like that, that we would have been so
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:limited if we don't live around people who
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:have this experience.
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:So it's really sort of an exciting thing.
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:And I think that's a common thread
for a number of us independent
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:artists that this was an opportunity
to do a lot of things that we
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:wouldn't have been able to do before.
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:So, I know that was true for me too.
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:Bob Strachan: Oh, absolutely.
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:There's people I met through lockdown and
on Zoom calls and network meetings that
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:I would never got past their gatekeepers.
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:Some of them I'm really good friends
with now, because we were all in the same
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:boat, these are, major, major players in
the music business that have been around.
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:I know them on first name
terms and, can message them.
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:Then it comes to the point where they're
actually messaging me, asking what I
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:think of this song that they're doing.
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:I'm just like, I'm sorry, what?
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:As I was saying to my wife, I said, such
and such just messaged me and asked for
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:a review on this song that they're doing.
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:You know who this is?
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:And she's like, well, obviously
he respects your opinion.
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:So I did, I gave him my opinion,
he wrote back, he's like, yep,
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:great, that's exactly what I
was looking for, and, thank you.
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:It kind of helped me sit at the big
boys table, not in an arrogant way,
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:but once I started learning and could
realize and started seeing those things
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:and learning from these guys, being
able to sit and know what they're
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:talking about, being able to write and
to have reviews and then, I started
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:putting things into song contests and
getting five star ratings on them.
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:So I'm like, "Hey, you know what?
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:I can sit at the big boys table now."
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:That was a big encouragement
for me, to do that.
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:So yeah, lockdown was hard.
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:And there's other sides of,
of that, that, that wasn't so
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:great, but, for music it was.
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:Becky Boyland: This is also such
a different time in the industry.
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:the opportunities you have now, you
would probably never have had then.
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:I think that's even more exciting.
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:I feel that myself.
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:So yeah, I think that's just incredible.
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:Bob Strachan: I totally agree.
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:One of my theme songs that I've
written is called "The Journey."
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:It's basically about that, written a
long time ago, before this happened.
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:it talks about the opportunities I
thought I was going to go for, and
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:how things were going to work out.
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:When it didn't come, I
realized that wasn't the plan.
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:And if I'd gone that way, how much
more would I would have missed?
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:So it's kind of been
my theme song of life.
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:We have a phrase in Scotland,
but it's called, that says,
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:"Whit’s fur ye’ll no go by ye."
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:What's for you will not go by you.
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:If it's meant to be, it will be
just watch for those opportunities
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:and grab them when they come.
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:Becky Boyland: I'm gonna quilt
that, put that up behind me.
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:Bob Strachan: What's for
you, I'll no gone by you.
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:Becky Boyland: I love that too, because
so many times we'll say, things happen
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:for a reason the challenge for me is
things happen for a reason that sometimes
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:we're dumb and we make stupid mistakes,
but at the same time, if you're keeping
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:your eye out for the blessings that
are going to come and are just ready,
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:even if nothing's happening right now,
you won't miss it if you're ready.
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:And I think that's a beautiful
elevated Scottish way to say that.
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:Bob Strachan: Thank you.
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:Becky Boyland: Now, you're
a pastor as well, right?
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:Bob Strachan: Yes.
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:Becky Boyland: And I'm a music minister,
so I understand, understand that amazing
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:opportunity to, do things with your
music and what God has called you to.
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:And then also have these opportunities
to do broader messages and create music
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:that has lots of different purposes.
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:It just makes me more excited
to make more and more music.
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:Anything else you'd like
to share about that?
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:Bob Strachan: That was one of my
things when I started back on this
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:journey writing songs for our church,
people were talking about, Oh,
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:getting to worship and write for the
global church and stuff like that.
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:I'm like, there's not
really any such thing.
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:We're local churches here.
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:That's what needs to happen.
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:People asked, I think it was Matt Redman.
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:how do you write these
songs for the global church?
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:He says, I don't.
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:I write them for my church and they just
happened to go global and that resonated
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:with me that this was a calling at that
time to write music for our church.
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:I tried to reach out to some
people and write with them and
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:some things just didn't happen.
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:I was like, Oh, okay.
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:I'd met a lot of people, but I
wasn't meeting in my section, I knew
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:a lot of people in pop and rap but
I wasn't meeting people in this.
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:I knew a lot of people in the business.
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:The genre I was trying to get into,
then I found out was probably not the
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:best thing to get into, just for various
reasons, but it was an experience.
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:And so, that became, my thing
was writing songs for our church.
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:So I would write worship songs, I would
write a song to go with the message, so
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:if, you know, whatever it was going to be.
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:The challenge was to take that
message because I kind of knew
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:what I was going to speak on.
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:and take the points that I was going to
make and turn it into three and a half
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:minute song that folks remember even if
they don't remember a 30 minute message
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:they might go away with the chorus
of the song which would have the crux
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:of what we were talking about and so
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:that became the driving force of it was
to do that and I came out with some really
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:good songs some I just did for the one
time and others that I've kept on in
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:my catalogue but it really fueled that
passion to keep going and to do things.
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:And through the process of the last couple
of years, we really sat down as a family
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:and started to come together again because
there have been a lot of issues in our
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:family unit with the cultic mindset it
was hard for us to start to walk away
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:from that because we've lost friends
this was over a period of about 10 years
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:but lots of things happened that really
helped us, move forward and get to a place
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:within our family that's, really great.
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:And our church is really great,
putting away a lot of these
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:cultic ideas and really getting
to a place where it's a family.
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:We're there just as a family,
you know, and stop being so
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:pharisaical about things.
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:It's okay to listen to Johnny Cash, you
know, there's there's things out there.
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:It's, you know, learning to say no.
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:There were just so many
things that was there.
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:one of the things we were expected to do
as part of this cult like church was to
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:just do everything for anybody that asked.
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:So we basically had to
drop everything and run.
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:And that's what was the big dividing
thing in our family because the kids
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:were left at home while we went and
looked after somebody else's kids.
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:Our kids were getting neglected.
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:I'm like, no, this is not right.
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:The scripture clearly says that
if I'm to be a pastor, I'm to
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:take care of my own house first.
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:Therefore, my kids come
first before anybody else's.
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:My family does.
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:I'm first and foremost, a
family man rather than a pastor.
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:And then I realized when Jesus sent
out the disciples, he told him, he
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:said, look, when you go into a place,
find who is worthy and stay with
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:them and let your peace come upon it.
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:But if they're not worthy, take
your peace back, shake off the
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:dust of your feet and move on.
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:And so that was, a big thing for me.
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:I was like, wow, we can say no,
because if people are just wasting
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:our time and we don't see that they're
worthy to receive the ministry then
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:we are to move on to the next person.
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:If we spend the time casting our
pearls before swine with them, we
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:are robbing from the person that
we're supposed to be going to.
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:And that really resonated with me both
in church life and family life, but
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:also musically there were some people
that I could waste my time with, but
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:there was other people that really did
either need my help or could help me.
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:So to prove myself worthy to them and,
prove who people were worthy to me.
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:So that.
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:focusing and really realizing time is
precious and who I work with and who I do
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:for is very specific now that I make those
decisions because time is precious and we
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:want to do the best job that we can and
not waste the opportunity that we have.
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:Becky Boyland: Sometimes the greatest
maturity in this whole process is the
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:unlearning of the things that we've
been taught for years and years.
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:And I remember, early on in my
journey, learning a lot of viewpoints
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:that were not quite to that degree.
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:But as I look back now, I realize how
unhealthy and unhelpful they were to me.
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:Many of them I was able to quickly
shed when I went off to study Bible
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:and educational ministries and have
a completely different perspective.
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:Every once in a while, something will
come up and I realize that, Oh, that
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:sort of took root and I start to see the
insidiousness of that or how that may
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:have impacted other people that I know.
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:It is so difficult when it, has all these
relationship connections and has that
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:impact of losing friends and, essentially
a spiritual family in the process.
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:It's a maturing and it's a
thing that is so hard but so
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:helpful and so important to do.
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:Bob Strachan: It certainly is.
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:And that's key to just follow those paths.
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:Not that you're making your own
way, but you're following the true
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:way, if you like, not man's way.
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:And that's what it becomes, is
we're following this set of rules.
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:given commandments that Jesus faced
in his time with the Pharisees.
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:And there really is not much
difference to what's going on
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:in a lot of churches today.
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:So it's been a freeing thing.
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:And it really brings true that when
Jesus said, you shall know the truth
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:and the truth shall make you free.
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:A lot of people quote it as set you
free, but it's not because set free, we
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:could be brought under that lie again.
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:But when we're made free by the truth,
that lie has no bearing on us anymore.
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:It's the same thing, for
imposter syndrome or, whatever.
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:I'm not musical.
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:I'm not artistic.
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:A lot of these things were put on
us as kids or whoever, or you'll
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:never be able to make it in this.
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:these are all lies that have
been told to us that we have
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:to shed to be able to do that.
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:I think that's one of the things
when I come to realize that, you
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:know, I can call myself a pro.
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:Because I can write with the pros.
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:I can do the things that I need to do.
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:I've been recognized as such.
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:And it's like, Hey, that's what I am.
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:And you know, and there's always
that little niggles at, well, are
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:you really, but you know, I don't
think it's an arrogant thing.
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:I think when you're sitting at that
table, you have to believe that you
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:have the right to sit at that table.
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:Becky Boyland: Oh yeah, yeah, definitely.
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:and it really is also defining the
direction that we want to have.
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:I am.
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:a songwriter.
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:I am, you know, a guitarist.
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:My first instrument was trumpet, and
so I was a trumpeter, and that was
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:easy to say for a really long time.
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:But when I started playing guitar I
was a trumpeter who's playing guitar
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:And I remember the point, I don't
remember exactly when it happened,
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:but I remember the feeling of when I
realized I am a guitarist and I could
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:say that and own that and recognize that.
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:But now I realize part of that maturity
is I'm going to say it and own it
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:just a little bit before I feel it.
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:And that way I know that I'm actually
on the right trajectory because I also
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:have enough experience in other jobs
to remember when I was faking it till
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:I made it, just like everybody is, and,
still had the title for those things,
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:and so I might as well confer that
title on myself, that this is the thing
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:that I am, because this is what I do.
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:Songwriters write, guitarists guitar.
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:Bob Strachan: Absolutely.
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:I love that.
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:Exactly.
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:Exactly it.
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:Becky Boyland: We'll be back
with more after the break.
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:So let's go back a bit.
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:I know that when you were a child,
you also had a very difficult loss.
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:And yet now music has helped you to really
grow from that and make a reconnection.
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:So share a bit about that.
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:Bob Strachan: Yeah, sure.
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:Well, two weeks before my ninth
birthday, my mom came up my room
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:and told me my dad was going to die.
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:I didn't know the details
until I was much older.
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:It about, you know, it was over, I
think it was he was 16 or or 17 when
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:mom actually told me all the details.
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:But Dad had been infected.
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:through a product called Factor VIII
because he was a haemophiliac, Haemophilia
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:is, is a blood disease, which means
you don't really clot, so if he cut
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:himself, it was off to the hospital.
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:There wasn't any other option.
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:And so there's a lot of things,
uh, that they hadn't before.
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:There's cryoprecipitate, and then there's
the thing that's called Factor VIII.
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:It could be used as a prophylactic.
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:So if he was going to go out to do
work in the garden, fishing, or,
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:woodwork he could take the injection
of Factor VIII, which meant if he did
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:cut himself, It would clot, This was a
numerical thing he was pretty much going
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:to guarantee to cut or nick himself
in some way, and this would help.
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:So anyway, he was injecting himself
with this, but then come to find
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:out this was infected with HIV.
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:And there was lots of different blood
products, infected, with HIV, and Hep
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:C, and Creutzfeldt Jakob's disease,
and some other things like that.
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:Dad had also contracted Hep B in the
early 70s, through much the same process.
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:This was a massive scandal, and
still is one of the biggest,
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:cover ups in our health system.
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:And we're still fighting it.
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:Last May we won a massive
victory by having the report
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:published about what all happened.
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:So that brought a whole new light to
things and really found out all the
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:things that happened and sadly all
the people that have died and are
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:continuing to die through this sad thing.
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:And so just trying to get the government
to take responsibility for these things
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:because it went from the 70s till 1995.
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:They were still giving out these
infected blood products and it's really
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:scary because I had a surgery in 1995.
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:I didn't need a blood transfusion,
but I had a surgery in:
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:That really put it in perspective that,
you know, had I been a hemophiliac I
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:would have had to have a blood transfusion
There's a massive possibility that
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:it might have infected me as well.
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:But, Dad was very careful and Mum,
being a registered nurse, was very
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:careful with everything that they did.
569
:So, she had, a lot to do with
stopping any infection from him.
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:Even though he didn't know
that he had been infected.
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:And from the time he was infected
until the time he actually found
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:out was about the space of a year.
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:And they didn't actually tell him
for six months, and so he was very
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:mad at them, as you can imagine.
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:Um...
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:Becky Boyland: Yeah, absolutely.
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:Bob Strachan: You know, when he found out
about that, he didn't have any knowledge
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:of how it was transferred, so he didn't
hug us, he wouldn't touch us, because
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:he didn't know if he could spread this.
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:So I don't remember this, but
there was evidently a time
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:where my dad couldn't hug me.
582
:And that just really hit me.
583
:I don't remember it, I must have
blocked it out, but I can't imagine.
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:being five or six when he was
infected and not understanding
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:why Dad couldn't give me a hug.
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:He passed away, just
before my ninth birthday.
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:That was the day my world fell apart.
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:I didn't know a lot about it at the time.
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:Knowing what he died of
doesn't change the fact.
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:mum just told me that he died of
kidney failure, which he did because
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:the cryoprecipitate he was given in
the seventies wrecked his kidneys.
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:So you had to have dialysis as well.
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:So it wasn't a lie.
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:She just left out some details which I'm
actually really glad she did because this
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:was the 80s and the stigma and everything
that was attached to it was really bad.
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:And then, you know, later in life
finding out more about it, finding out
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:that one of the ladies in our church,
was one of the medical secretaries and
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:decided to tell everybody in the church
that Dad had been infected with HIV,
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:but not tell them how he got infected.
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:And so that would have spread like
wildfire and I think at some point mum
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:would have realised that, you know, this
would have gotten out in the community
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:and, that would have affected our lives.
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:And she didn't get the support she needed.
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:And so I didn't understand, but we
left and went to New Zealand and
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:then we came back then we went to
Canada and then we came back and we
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:moved down to the Stirling area to
be closer to mum's parents because
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:she was getting support from them.
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:Then the year after that, my
grandparents in Peterhead passed away.
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:My dad's parents, after my dad died,
my grandfather, just shut down.
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:He never really interacted
with me much, just sat and
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:watched TV when he came to ours.
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:My dad died and then my grandfather
just kind of, just, reclused, so
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:it was like losing two of them.
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:At that point, so you know, it was a
massive trauma, growing up without a
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:father there, in hindsight, the move to
sterling was really the right thing to do.
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:My mom's dad became my surrogate father.
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:Here I am being raised by this ex
serviceman, ex army, been through the
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:second world war and everything like that.
619
:So a lot of the ways I
have are like boomer ways.
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:you know, cause I was raised by him.
621
:So a lot of ways I was raised
as a boomer, not as a Gen Xer.
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:there's some things that I do that people
are like, You know, my dad does that!
623
:Okay, but, it was really important for
me because I realized how important it is
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:for a boy to have a father figure in their
life whether it is their actual dad or
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:not, but have someone that they can look
up to someone that can get advice from
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:someone that they can model themselves on.
627
:And especially we bring that to spiritual
concept that if we're trying to look
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:to God as a father, and we have no
one, that we can look to as a physical
629
:father, whoever we look to as a physical
father, whatever attributes they
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:have are how we're going to see God.
631
:If we have a terrible father, we have
a difficult time relating to God as
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:a father but if we have someone that
demonstrates, characteristics of love
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:compassion, discipline order and hard
work then we have a better relationship
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:with God as a father because we can
see our actual fathers and model that.
635
:So I was very fortunate to have
my grandfather, as my second dad.
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:When he passed away, it was
like another kick in the chest,
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:because now all of them were gone.
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:he did survive to see both my
kids, which was, was amazing.
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:And, and see, and, and he finally
was proud of me for my choice
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:in occupation or my calling.
641
:At my grandmother's funeral, I was able
to take the funeral and he realized
642
:this is what I'm supposed to be doing.
643
:Things changed with him as well, because
we kind of had a little bit where we
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:weren't really on the same wavelength, you
know, with the church and stuff like that.
645
:But anyway, he was a great
man and really helped me.
646
:And so coming back to the
music, music helped me, heal.
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:The biggest thing in that was writing
songs about my dad or to my dad
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:and about my grandfather as well.
649
:Connecting with them through music
and, just having the opportunity
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:to write, to sing it, to cry, to
pour my heart out, whatever it is.
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:Some songs I've written
and I've thrown them away.
652
:I don't usually do that.
653
:I usually keep everything that I write,
even if it's rubbish or not, because maybe
654
:sometime there'll be something good in it.
655
:But sometimes these were just
moments of, an outpouring, a bit
656
:like David did with the Psalms.
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:And just a moment of outpouring,
that this is me just singing a song,
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:and that was it, that was for that
moment, to move on to the next thing.
659
:But there's been a couple of songs that
I've kept and performed for other people.
660
:One I got to do at the Bluebird
Cafe in Nashville last year.
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:Apparently everybody was in tears.
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:Somebody came up to afterward
and said, they'd lost their
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:father a couple of years ago.
664
:Me telling the story and singing that
song really helped them that night.
665
:So I'm like, that's great.
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:that's exactly what I love to hear.
667
:It should be to help and to bring someone
a little bit of happiness or closure
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:or joy or encouragement from the music
and that's what really gets me going.
669
:Becky Boyland: Even when there's a
specificity about your experience, that
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:just adds to the authenticity so that
someone who is going through something
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:similar, even if the details don't quite
line up, they will get that experience.
672
:And that's what's so powerful about being
able to draw on all of that and I love
673
:that you were able to then speak to your
dad and, get all of this out to him in
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:a way that you couldn't do when he was
here, but there's no wonder that it's so
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:powerful and would move so many people.
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:Bob Strachan: I really was mad a lot
of times and I think I had rightfully
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:so to be mad that he was stolen
from me because it should never have
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:happened and then to think about
what we could have done as musicians.
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:The things that we could have done
together and now with the technology
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:we have, he was, big into tech.
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:He'd sit and program stuff and, so I
was introduced to computers at a very
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:early age as well because of Dad.
683
:There's a lot of things that I
think we could have done with that.
684
:Sometimes that really, hurts to think
what might have been I can't change that
685
:fact and maybe because of that has fueled
my passion for music maybe I wouldn't
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:be doing that I don't know there's
lots of ifs and buts and what could be
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:for the most part, it's been helpful.
688
:The biggest thing that came to
me is through the, support scheme
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:for the infected blood, scandal.
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:And, and, finally through
prompting, put in a self referral.
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:As a psychology graduate, you
know, kind of, you can have that
692
:prideful thing, I can fix myself.
693
:You really can't.
694
:It's just like, it's not going to happen.
695
:And as a pastor too, you're like,
wow, he's supposed to have it all
696
:together, and then yeah, I don't.
697
:So there was, a couple of years of,
darkness, coming out of the cult and
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:stresses putting on weight because of all
these things, going through, interviews
699
:again about the tainted blood and stuff
and really, just coming back to music to
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:try and get temporary healing, but the
thing that really got me was this guy, the
701
:psychologist, and, we were talking about
things and he just brought it in summary.
702
:He said, it seems like you're looking
for a point to tell your dad bye.
703
:I said yeah, because I don't
remember the last time I saw him.
704
:I don't remember what he said to me.
705
:When mum asked me if I wanted to
go into the hospital, I said no.
706
:I didn't want to go and see him.
707
:I couldn't.
708
:I don't know why, I just didn't.
709
:but he was so doped up on morphine.
710
:There's a good chance he wouldn't have
known we were there, but at the same
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:time, you know, when your son comes
into the room, you know he's there.
712
:It's just something there.
713
:Anyway, you know, that transpires.
714
:So that was a lot of regrets there,
especially hitting milestones
715
:where my son got to the age I was,
where I got to the age my dad was.
716
:Things like that kind of resonated.
717
:The psychologist the other day said,
have you ever told him goodbye?
718
:You know, just actually told him goodbye.
719
:And I said, no.
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:I didn't, so I went in myself and I
pictured Dad with Jesus and I said,
721
:"Dad, bye, but I'll see you again."
722
:And just everything just left.
723
:It just, all the darkness, the hurt, the
regret, just everything just went, um, and
724
:it just, I, just sank in my chair and I
couldn't believe what had just happened.
725
:And all these years of all these
things, all I was looking for was
726
:that point to say goodbye to Dad.
727
:And I did, and you know, as
we believe it's not goodbye.
728
:And that's an encouragement to know that,
whether he can see us or whatever it is.
729
:I sometimes pray and I'm like, Hey
Jesus, will you tell Dad, you know, it's
730
:kind of like, I don't know if he does
or not, but I'd like to think he does.
731
:You can just imagine everybody
standing there and okay, I
732
:got message for John Strachan.
733
:Mail call.
734
:Just the way my brain works.
735
:Um, But...
736
:Becky Boyland: I think that's great.
737
:Bob Strachan: So yeah, There's the
song "Holes in the Floor of Heaven,"
738
:It's like the concept is there.
739
:Which is a great song, I love that song.
740
:That just became a massive thing
and, I just sat and bathed I would
741
:say, and just basked in that feeling.
742
:And since then, I don't know what has
happened, but I have been churning
743
:out songs like nothing before.
744
:My production has just
suddenly leveled up.
745
:I never used to be able to harmonize with
myself, I could harmonize with anybody
746
:else, but I never used to be able to,
like when I was doing tracking my own
747
:vocals, I never used to be able to do
my own harmonies unless I was bass.
748
:I could do lead vocals and bass, not a
problem, but tenor and alto parts, never
749
:could do with myself, could do with
other people, but never with myself.
750
:This last week I was doing something
and I was doing some harmonies.
751
:I thought I'll just throw them
in and then I'll use Melodyne to
752
:fix them and then I'll go back in
and sing them the way I need to.
753
:I went in, I was doing jazz harmonies and
seventh harmonies and things like that.
754
:I'm just like, where is this coming from?
755
:And it's just amazing.
756
:And it's because, that weight,
that healing just went and suddenly
757
:my music is leveled up as well.
758
:So it's been that cycle that
music helped me heal, but also the
759
:healing has helped the music too.
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:Becky Boyland: That is so amazing.
761
:Those messages are
definitely getting through.
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:Bob Strachan: Hmm, maybe, maybe,
763
:Becky Boyland: Jesus is
passing on those messages.
764
:Well talk about some of the projects
you've got going on right now.
765
:You've got some exciting stuff on the way.
766
:Bob Strachan: I do.
767
:I've been composing music for different
projects and I'm doing a children's
768
:project, which I'm really excited about.
769
:And so kind of watch
this space for that one.
770
:I'm writing more albums for sync, doing
more sync placements and connecting
771
:with so many more people, in town.
772
:We've got an opportunity to establish,
a music cafe, a community centre.
773
:So this is really exciting for me to be
able to bring live music to our wee town.
774
:And a lot of people are
coming out the woodwork.
775
:We've got a songwriters night started
every month and there's just people
776
:I never thought would come along.
777
:They're starting to come along
and writing songs and it's great
778
:to be able to pass that knowledge
onto them, and be able to connect.
779
:And I hope to build on the connection
between Jedburgh and Nashville, because
780
:I already have, friends there, in
music, gospel music and country music.
781
:I spent, a good while there back in
November and, and made some really
782
:great connections there, made really
good friends and, and so building
783
:on those to kind of, bring more
music, not just the country music,
784
:but all kinds of things, but people
really do love country music here.
785
:So really cool to kind of do that.
786
:So, you know, looking at the live
music scene, I do the old folks
787
:homes as well in the care homes
and the assisted living facilities.
788
:I love going in to play for them, because
you have a captive audience and nobody
789
:is on their phone and they love it.
790
:They might be asleep, but
they're not on their phone.
791
:Um, so I'm okay with that.
792
:I mean, when I sing Jim Reeves
and Don Williams, I used to
793
:put my kids to sleep with that.
794
:Apparently the old folks do the same
thing, but they come alive, especially
795
:when I do rock and roll or some classics
from the sixties or these kinds of things.
796
:They absolutely just,
you see it in their eyes.
797
:they could be sitting there
drooling in their soup all day,
798
:but you get up and sing a song
and music just, transforms them.
799
:That part of their brain
is still so very active.
800
:They know all the words.
801
:They sing along with it.
802
:Some of them even get up and dance.
803
:there was one, I was doing "Stand by Me."
804
:And one of the residents took
this as a personal challenge and
805
:literally came and stood by me.
806
:I absolutely love doing that.
807
:My gigs are usually centered
around the community for the old
808
:folks and these kind of things.
809
:I just love it because
it gives me a kick that.
810
:I'm actually making a difference, not
just singing to a bunch of people that
811
:are having a meal and not really caring
if it's the radio or live music at all.
812
:And of course writing for myself and,
wanting to do a lot more personal projects
813
:this year, as well as the Sync stuff,
but actually do stuff for me as well.
814
:And maybe also another television
appearance this year, but
815
:that's still in discussion.
816
:Becky Boyland: That's amazing.
817
:I love that.
818
:so where can people
find out more about you?
819
:And, uh, besides obviously finding
you at the local rest homes.
820
:Bob Strachan: There you go.
821
:I'm just going around to see
which one I want to go to,
822
:which ones get the best vibe.
823
:I'll tell the kids.
824
:so just Google Bob Strachan
and it will come up with stuff.
825
:I don't have a lot of stuff on Spotify.
826
:I've only got about three or four
songs on Spotify and streaming at the
827
:minute, mainly because I've focused on
pitching to others and doing for sync.
828
:So didn't want to release things.
829
:You know, obviously, because if
you're wanting to get cuts and
830
:things like that, you don't want
to have it as a first release.
831
:Hopefully in time, I'll start
building some more things.
832
:I've got two songs in production right
now for release in the next couple
833
:of weeks that I'm very excited about.
834
:My YouTube probably has the most
of different music and little
835
:shorts and videos and fun things.
836
:I have Facebook as well.
837
:That's where my main follower base is I
went viral with a Johnny Cash version of
838
:"Gangster's Paradise" a couple of years
ago, which was amazing but trying to keep
839
:up with everybody and doing this every
week kind of just ended up burning out.
840
:Cause at that point I didn't
realize I was autistic.
841
:I did appreciate the ADHD, but I didn't
really know I was autistic as well.
842
:So that was news.
843
:But not apparently to my
family and to other people.
844
:It does make a lot of sense
about my growing up and
845
:things that I did back then.
846
:And, I've just embraced it, not to make
it, part of my personality, but it's
847
:who I am and accepting that fact and
then using that fact to plow into music.
848
:It is a special interest and I can sit
here for four hours and do production,
849
:sit and listen to all the intricate
frequencies and utilize those, those
850
:those things that my brain does that
other people's doesn't and and so
851
:it makes me have really good ears
for listening to things and knowing
852
:when frequencies are clashing.
853
:I might not always know what to
do about it but that's why I have
854
:a good mate that's an engineer
he doesn't hear what I hear.
855
:But he knows what to do, so I tell him
what I'm hearing, and he knows what
856
:to do, and he fixes it, that's it.
857
:So, again, working with
different people, with different
858
:skill sets, is a great thing.
859
:And, of course, now we've gone on
an ADHD tangent, and I completely
860
:forgot what we were talking about.
861
:Projects!
862
:That's what it was.
863
:Woohoo!
864
:Becky Boyland: And it's totally fine
because I also was recently diagnosed with
865
:ADHD and it gives you the freedom to play
to your strengths, to play to your brain
866
:strength and also to allow your brain
to, have some downtime and do some other
867
:things so that you can come back and lean
into that focus So yeah, totally get it.
868
:I think that was actually a perfect and
wonderful tangent because I think that's
869
:also a feature and not a bug with a
lot of other artists that I have known
870
:and how many of us are neurodivergent
because, that's just how we're wired.
871
:It should, of course,
come out in creativity.
872
:It really makes a lot of sense.
873
:So I think it's important for
people to recognize, especially
874
:those who are artists or wanting
to be artists who may not yet have
875
:made that decision to lean into it.
876
:like we were, talking about here of
coming to music after life has gone
877
:different directions and a little
bit of that fear sometimes as well.
878
:I don't know, maybe this is just a silly
whim or some tangent I want to follow.
879
:But the reality is that it's just that
gnawing creativity saying, I need to get
880
:out there and I need to get in front of
people so they can also hear their stories
881
:in my music or see their stories in my
art And so I think it's a beautiful thing.
882
:Bob Strachan: I appreciate it.
883
:It is.
884
:And I think that's why I am at the point
I'm at now is embracing those things.
885
:Also the medication helps.
886
:that has been a massive
game changer for me.
887
:because like I said, after that
Johnny Cash thing, I just burnt
888
:out and it was, so overwhelming.
889
:And again, lots of other things going
on with the inquiry and stuff like that.
890
:But, just being able to, know,
what my strengths and weaknesses
891
:are and then being able to accept
myself for this and this is who
892
:I am and be real with yourself.
893
:I think that's such an important
thing is just to be real with you.
894
:It's like, this is the way that
we are created, you know, and the
895
:world needs creatives, It's that
whole square peg kind of thing.
896
:we are designed to be creative and
that's part of the ADHD autistic.
897
:The thing is that we can be creatives
and although there's different places
898
:on the spectrum, high functioning, low
function, different things like that.
899
:You know, each of us have been is,
is there and we have our own talents.
900
:We have our own little special interests.
901
:We need the artists, we need that
in our family is, is quite diverse.
902
:Even within neurodivergence.
903
:We're, we're neurodivergent diverse.
904
:So my daughter is an amazing artist.
905
:She really is and that's her creativity
I've never really gotten into art.
906
:I did enjoy it.
907
:I was quite good at it, but
it was never my passion.
908
:Music is my thing.
909
:And then my son, he's really
gifted at doing accents and
910
:voices and things like that.
911
:And I want to take credit for
that, for doing them around him.
912
:But, he's sometimes
leveling up what I can do.
913
:and it's great to see your kids that.
914
:you've given them the start and then
they've just taken it and run with it.
915
:It's like, wow, what they're doing,
my wife is also getting into that
916
:and having grown up in that kind of,
mindset that I was talking about.
917
:These kind of things were
frowned upon for her.
918
:So she's now finally able to
embrace her creativity and do art
919
:and music and do other things.
920
:Also, she can play the keyboard.
921
:It was mainly for church, but, you
know, as a family, we're able to
922
:embrace our neurodivergence and this is
who we are, We are a creative family.
923
:Yes, we're going to go to Comic-Con.
924
:Yes, I'm going to dress
up as Captain Caveman.
925
:Of course.
926
:you know, there's, there's, you know, it
just, that's part of whoever we are, is
927
:if we are an artist or if we are a singer
or a guitarist or, you know, whatever
928
:it is, we are, is, is just embracing
our strengths and weaknesses and finding
929
:that happy place within us that sometimes
our special interests can actually
930
:be a job and we can do what we love.
931
:That's what I encourage the kids to
do is like, well, if you love this
932
:and you get at it, do as a job, find
out how you can make money from this
933
:rather than get stuck in an office doing
something you hate and only getting
934
:this hobby that you do on weekends.
935
:And then sometimes work gets in the
way and you can't do your hobby.
936
:You're gonna be miserable.
937
:So, do something that you love.
938
:Be good at it and get paid for
939
:Becky Boyland: Absolutely.
940
:Absolutely.
941
:And I'm glad that we're really
at a point now in culture where
942
:we're starting to accept that more.
943
:I think for many generations, it
was go do that thing, make good
944
:money, even if you do hate it.
945
:And that was expected.
946
:And the reality is if we celebrate our
artists and give them the opportunity
947
:to make a living from it, we'll get
more art and there will be more joy and
948
:so much more beauty out in the world.
949
:And I think that that is good living.
950
:Bob Strachan: It is.
951
:It really is.
952
:And I just echo what you're saying
there, because, you know, for me
953
:it was like, finish high school,
go to university, get a job.
954
:You know, but realizing the struggles I
had in school and university with being
955
:neurodivergent and having no support
that way, and, you know, not realizing
956
:why I'm being brought down and being
made fun of and not fitting in but
957
:now realizing that hey, this is why I
didn't fit in but I have found my tribe.
958
:I have found my family
that I do fit in with.
959
:Most creatives are neurodivergent of
some sort, a lot of people that I work
960
:with, they're like, they're like, I
think I might be neurodivergent as well.
961
:But you think, you know, and one of
the things somebody said to me that
962
:when I was in the States, he said, "Do
you really think I'm neurodivergent?"
963
:I said, "Yeah, you are."
964
:They said, "What makes you think that?"
965
:I said, "The fact that we are
actually friends, because all
966
:my friends, the people I'm
friends with are neurodivergent."
967
:It's the people I get on with the most.
968
:It doesn't have to be
musicians or whatever.
969
:It's really funny.
970
:and, yeah, I agree with you that
I'm glad we're at this place in
971
:time that we can allow ourselves.
972
:to do different things.
973
:It's acceptable to do that, you
know, to where people are doing art
974
:on selling it on, on, you know, on,
on websites or, wherever they can.
975
:And people are buying their
art, whether it's niche.
976
:I mean, my daughter did
that and sold stuff.
977
:It was amazing art.
978
:It was just like how easy it was to do.
979
:Back in the day it would have
been, really hard to do that.
980
:And, like us for music, we've
got access, we can do this here,
981
:sitting in two different continents.
982
:We can have access to people around
the world to produce with, to write
983
:with, to sing with, to place with.
984
:It's such an amazing time.
985
:You know, there's the dark side of
technology, but I think we have to look
986
:at the good side of it, that it has made
us connect with so many people and make
987
:the world a more beautiful place because
we can create these things together as a
988
:community, as churches or whatever it is,
expanding that and these songs wouldn't
989
:be there without those connections and
if I would just sat in my little bubble
990
:there's probably not a lot of people that
I could write with or produce with or
991
:learn from and so I'd be still stuck in
that little rut of writing these little
992
:mediocre songs but now having had those
opportunities to learn from people and
993
:to do those things it's like yeah it
can level up to this game so embrace it
994
:look for it you know if people have been
out of music for a while really you know
995
:if this is a passion even if we just
do it as a hobby carve out some time.
996
:You're working for what,
you know, pay the bills.
997
:But that hobby can also pay too.
998
:We also have to have that creativeness
because one of the things we
999
:found here in Scotland is some
schools are not performing as well.
:
00:50:58,366 --> 00:51:02,096
And when you look at those schools,
they don't have music programs as good.
:
00:51:02,186 --> 00:51:05,532
The create, the drama, things
like that are not high priority.
:
00:51:05,926 --> 00:51:09,596
So you take out that creativity and
you take out the academia as well.
:
00:51:10,106 --> 00:51:11,926
You have to have both
to balance this thing.
:
00:51:11,926 --> 00:51:13,716
Creativity fuels academia.
:
00:51:14,216 --> 00:51:17,906
And, we can have work, yes,
but we also need play time too.
:
00:51:18,156 --> 00:51:18,986
It helps fuel it.
:
00:51:19,086 --> 00:51:21,036
We can release our tensions.
:
00:51:21,036 --> 00:51:22,176
We can release our passions.
:
00:51:22,536 --> 00:51:24,736
If you're learning an instrument, do it.
:
00:51:24,796 --> 00:51:25,956
Get to an open mic.
:
00:51:26,006 --> 00:51:26,376
Play it.
:
00:51:26,876 --> 00:51:30,106
A lot of these places nobody
cares if you're just starting out.
:
00:51:30,646 --> 00:51:31,996
They'll see your growth.
:
00:51:32,861 --> 00:51:36,321
and they'll see those things and
anybody that's negative just they're
:
00:51:36,321 --> 00:51:39,221
not worthy of your time, they're not
worthy of your song, just move on.
:
00:51:39,521 --> 00:51:43,161
Find people that are whether you're just
starting out or you're seasoned find
:
00:51:43,161 --> 00:51:46,647
those people that will cheer with you
and they will encourage your growth and
:
00:51:46,647 --> 00:51:50,407
that's what I think the professional
attitude is, is not how much money you
:
00:51:50,407 --> 00:51:53,357
make, but the attitude of being able to
sit at the table, but also being able
:
00:51:53,357 --> 00:51:57,667
to pass on these skills and be able
to support anybody that's coming up.
:
00:51:57,777 --> 00:52:01,947
Yes, we will critique, but critique
in a positive way to say, okay,
:
00:52:02,007 --> 00:52:04,587
here's some mistakes you're making,
this is how you make it right.
:
00:52:05,177 --> 00:52:07,337
And just have that attitude.
:
00:52:07,717 --> 00:52:10,747
And that's what I believe
makes one a professional.
:
00:52:11,464 --> 00:52:13,074
Becky Boyland: Beauty is not optional.
:
00:52:13,614 --> 00:52:18,574
It's something that we really do
need, and it's not just a luxury item.
:
00:52:19,214 --> 00:52:23,404
And I think that's such a beautiful
insight, too, about education and what
:
00:52:23,404 --> 00:52:29,224
an incredible impact it has, because you
start to wither on the vine when you don't
:
00:52:29,234 --> 00:52:32,072
have anything to contribute aesthetically.
:
00:52:32,636 --> 00:52:37,336
The massive importance of being someone
who's building into other people and
:
00:52:37,336 --> 00:52:42,042
a joy to spend time with makes so much
more of an impact than whether or not
:
00:52:42,042 --> 00:52:43,612
you're just really good at something.
:
00:52:44,082 --> 00:52:46,012
And obviously we want to be good at it.
:
00:52:46,022 --> 00:52:50,552
We want to continue to build our craft,
but we want to be good to be around too.
:
00:52:50,852 --> 00:52:54,222
And so I think that's what's so
beautiful about this opportunity with
:
00:52:54,322 --> 00:52:58,932
independent artists now being able
to get out there in the world and
:
00:52:58,932 --> 00:53:03,642
contribute and not just be another
commodity, but be people with incredible
:
00:53:03,642 --> 00:53:05,432
stories like what we've just heard.
:
00:53:05,732 --> 00:53:06,282
Bob Strachan: That's great.
:
00:53:06,282 --> 00:53:07,432
I'll say amen to that.
:
00:53:07,819 --> 00:53:11,671
One of the points you just brought up,
was that about be good to be around.
:
00:53:11,785 --> 00:53:16,265
And that's the key, I've worked with some
people and they were the best at what they
:
00:53:16,265 --> 00:53:19,205
did, but they were horrible to be around.
:
00:53:19,305 --> 00:53:23,785
Most people at this level want to work
with people that they can get on with.
:
00:53:24,325 --> 00:53:27,285
It's about who you are as a
person, not what you can do.
:
00:53:27,901 --> 00:53:30,101
And, one of the things that,
you know, networking, learning
:
00:53:30,111 --> 00:53:31,021
really how to network.
:
00:53:31,021 --> 00:53:33,321
I've always, apparently I've always
been a really good networker,
:
00:53:33,601 --> 00:53:34,911
now realizing what we do.
:
00:53:35,381 --> 00:53:40,051
Um, that it's about coming into the room
and letting people know who you are.
:
00:53:40,236 --> 00:53:43,406
And once they know who you are, they're
far more likely to work with you.
:
00:53:43,836 --> 00:53:48,836
Even if your skills are not the top
level, you're much more likely to
:
00:53:48,836 --> 00:53:51,626
get the gig because of who you are,
not necessarily what you can do.
:
00:53:51,958 --> 00:53:54,268
Becky Boyland: It's so true and I
think it's modeled for us that
:
00:53:54,369 --> 00:53:58,299
those with great power and lots
of money can do whatever they want
:
00:53:58,299 --> 00:53:59,589
and behave the way that they want.
:
00:53:59,589 --> 00:54:03,279
But at the end of the day, when you
get out of the limelight the reality is
:
00:54:03,279 --> 00:54:07,189
that the people who go the farthest and.
:
00:54:07,924 --> 00:54:12,434
who really get the best opportunities are
those who've shown that they really do
:
00:54:12,434 --> 00:54:17,234
want to be great people and they want to
be someone that people want to be around.
:
00:54:17,264 --> 00:54:21,264
And then those people who are steps
ahead of them, those are the same people
:
00:54:21,264 --> 00:54:22,674
that want to hang out with those people.
:
00:54:22,994 --> 00:54:27,424
And so it really does matter who you
are and how you behave and how kind
:
00:54:27,424 --> 00:54:32,084
and generous you are And so on the days
when we feel like that might not be
:
00:54:32,084 --> 00:54:33,754
true anymore, it really is still true.
:
00:54:34,674 --> 00:54:35,424
Bob Strachan: Absolutely.
:
00:54:36,024 --> 00:54:36,774
Absolutely.
:
00:54:37,699 --> 00:54:39,829
Becky Boyland: Well, and this has
been one of those times when it's been
:
00:54:39,829 --> 00:54:41,259
really cool to hang out with somebody.
:
00:54:41,289 --> 00:54:42,594
Bob Strachan: Oh yeah,
I've really enjoyed it.
:
00:54:42,615 --> 00:54:43,625
Becky Boyland: Thank you so much, Bob.
:
00:54:43,625 --> 00:54:45,005
This has just been really great.
:
00:54:45,045 --> 00:54:46,485
Thanks for being on Second Verse.
:
00:54:46,620 --> 00:54:47,210
Bob Strachan: Thank you very much.
:
00:54:47,240 --> 00:54:48,070
I don't know if you want to.
:
00:54:48,515 --> 00:54:51,765
do this later on, but I've got
this Indian flute here and I was
:
00:54:51,875 --> 00:54:53,395
going to demonstrate right quick.
:
00:54:53,448 --> 00:54:54,268
Becky Boyland: Absolutely.
:
00:54:54,478 --> 00:54:55,008
Go for it.
:
00:54:55,029 --> 00:54:57,489
Bob Strachan: I bought this
in, uh, Cherokee, Oklahoma.
:
00:54:58,114 --> 00:55:00,916
I wanted to buy a Native American,
I'll say Cherokee, because that's my
:
00:55:00,916 --> 00:55:04,136
wife's family actually, some Cherokee
because she's from the States.
:
00:55:04,456 --> 00:55:07,546
I wanted to buy one of these, flutes,
and so I went in and I bought it and he
:
00:55:07,546 --> 00:55:08,466
said, "Have you played anything like it?"
:
00:55:08,466 --> 00:55:10,536
And he showed me what the scale
was and he said, "It's a pentatonic
:
00:55:10,536 --> 00:55:11,386
scale," and I said, "Oh right."
:
00:55:11,836 --> 00:55:15,236
And, uh, and so then, look
at this for aesthetics.
:
00:55:15,276 --> 00:55:15,926
This is what I played.
:
00:55:31,576 --> 00:55:36,006
And he said to me, " Wow, that
really does sound Indian."
:
00:55:36,006 --> 00:55:36,836
I said, "Really?"
:
00:55:36,856 --> 00:55:39,166
He said, "Yes, it really
does sound Native American."
:
00:55:39,166 --> 00:55:39,726
I said, "That's funny.
:
00:55:39,726 --> 00:55:40,833
It's the theme tune to Braveheart."
:
00:55:45,306 --> 00:55:46,081
Becky Boyland: Oh, that's great.
:
00:55:46,141 --> 00:55:46,641
Bob Strachan: There you go.
:
00:55:49,461 --> 00:55:49,981
Becky Boyland: I love that.
:
00:55:49,981 --> 00:55:50,861
Well, thank you for that.
:
00:55:50,876 --> 00:55:51,356
Bob Strachan: You're welcome.
:
00:55:52,186 --> 00:55:52,596
No worries.
:
00:55:55,795 --> 00:55:58,415
Becky Boyland: What a powerful
conversation with Bob Strachan.
:
00:55:58,615 --> 00:56:02,755
His story reminds us that music
isn't just what we do, it's how we
:
00:56:02,755 --> 00:56:05,185
heal, grow, and connect with others.
:
00:56:05,425 --> 00:56:06,865
Here are just a few takeaways.
:
00:56:07,345 --> 00:56:10,135
First, rediscovery starts
with a single step.
:
00:56:10,465 --> 00:56:13,555
Bob reconnected with his
creativity during lockdown by
:
00:56:13,555 --> 00:56:15,355
joining songwriting groups online.
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Just saying, yes, opened new doors.
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Next healing fuels creativity.
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Bob's deeply personal journey of grieving
his father and finding emotional release
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through music allowed his creativity and
even his vocal abilities to flourish.
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And then your story is
part of your strength.
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Whether he's sharing songs or simply
being present in his local music
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community, Bob embraces his full
story, including his neurodivergence as
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part of what makes his work resonate.
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So now it's time for your
action steps, StoryBrand style.
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In StoryBrand, we talk about being
the guide, not just the hero.
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And a good guide has
authority and empathy.
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Think about your own artist story.
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What challenges have you overcome?
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How could your past struggles
give you credibility and
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connection with your audience now?
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That's not baggage.
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It's your superpower.
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Your story doesn't have to
be perfect to be powerful.
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If you need help figuring out how
to communicate that in your artist
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brand or website, I'd love to help
you through Attitude Creativity.
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If this episode moved you, inspired you,
and made you laugh, please subscribe,
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leave a review and share it with a friend.
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their way back to their Second Verse.