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Real Talk: Extracting Authenticity in Podcasting
Episode 86th February 2024 • Podjunction • Sadaf Beynon and Matt Edmundson
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In this episode of Podjunction we explore the art of crafting authentic and engaging podcast content. Our guest, Adam Pearce, shares his invaluable insights on creating genuine dialogues and extracting compelling stories from guests. This episode is a treasure trove for podcasters seeking to elevate their content and connect more deeply with their audience.

In this episode, you'll discover:

  • The vital role of a curious mind in podcasting and how it can unveil deeper layers of guest stories.
  • Strategies for extracting genuine and compelling narratives from podcast guests.
  • The importance of the host's authenticity in shaping the podcast's narrative and creating engaging content.
  • Tactics to handle interviews that don't align with the intended authenticity, including when to steer the conversation back or make tough calls.
  • Adam Pearce's journey and experiences in the world of podcasting, offering a behind-the-scenes look at professional podcast production.

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Sadaf Beynon:

Welcome to Podjunction, where business meets podcasting.

Sadaf Beynon:

Whether you're on a morning jog, driving to work, whipping up a meal, or just

Sadaf Beynon:

taking a moment for yourself, our weekly bite sized episodes promise fresh

Sadaf Beynon:

insights from successful podcasters who have cracked the code of using

Sadaf Beynon:

podcasts to grow their business.

Sadaf Beynon:

So whether you're a podcasting newbie or seasoned podcaster,

Sadaf Beynon:

grab your notebooks and get ready.

Matt Edmundson:

Welcome to Podjunction.

Matt Edmundson:

My name is Matt Edmundson, beside me is the beautiful and, let's just

Matt Edmundson:

say you're a podcast specialist.

Matt Edmundson:

I

Sadaf Beynon:

do know how to use a microphone.

Sadaf Beynon:

Podcasting 101.

Matt Edmundson:

We were just, before we hit the record button, we were

Matt Edmundson:

doing this thing where we were like, we do the sound checks, right?

Matt Edmundson:

So we do a simple sound check on the microphone.

Matt Edmundson:

You can't see it on the screen, but, and if you're listening to the

Matt Edmundson:

audio, you definitely can't see it.

Matt Edmundson:

But next to me is a very nice sound desk.

Matt Edmundson:

And so we were doing like the sound check, weren't we?

Matt Edmundson:

And I'm thinking this is not sounding right and then I looked over at Sadaf

Matt Edmundson:

and her microphone was like, what, six foot away from where it should be?

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah, pretty much.

Matt Edmundson:

So I said to Sadaf, I said, I was like, what's the first rule of podcasting?

Matt Edmundson:

And you were like, I don't know, what is the first, like it was a joke.

Sadaf Beynon:

I was waiting for the punchline.

Matt Edmundson:

And then it was like, oh, yes, I've got to use

Matt Edmundson:

my, I'm just taking my chair here.

Matt Edmundson:

I've got to use a microphone.

Matt Edmundson:

So yes, we are professionals, ladies and gentlemen.

Matt Edmundson:

Warm welcome to you.

Matt Edmundson:

Warm welcome to the show.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah, it's great to be here.

Matt Edmundson:

It is great to be here.

Matt Edmundson:

It is, absolutely.

Matt Edmundson:

For those of you who don't know, if this isn't, if you're new to us, because

Matt Edmundson:

we're still quite a new podcast, but if you're new to us, warm welcome to you.

Matt Edmundson:

We're a podcasting about podcasting.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

It's full business, actually, it's probably should just clarify.

Matt Edmundson:

So if you use podcasting to help grow your business, you're in the right

Matt Edmundson:

place because we chat about that.

Matt Edmundson:

And today we have

Sadaf Beynon:

Adam Pearce.

Sadaf Beynon:

We had him last week as well.

Sadaf Beynon:

So he's back again.

Sadaf Beynon:

And he is host of Shopify Across The Pond and he's CEO of Blend Commerce.

Matt Edmundson:

CEO.

Matt Edmundson:

CEO.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah, the dude in charge Blend Commerce.

Matt Edmundson:

I've known Adam for a little while actually.

Matt Edmundson:

And so he, his podcast Shopify Across The Pond is is all about Shopify,

Matt Edmundson:

which is an e-commerce platform.

Matt Edmundson:

, which is, the other part of what we do.

Matt Edmundson:

And Adam's business is all about attracting agency, isn't it?

Matt Edmundson:

That's or attracting businesses to his agency.

Matt Edmundson:

To his agency.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

E-Commerce guys to his agency to come use his services.

Matt Edmundson:

And so he uses podcasts for that.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Sadaf Beynon:

And he's talking about authentic stories.

Sadaf Beynon:

So how do we, as podcast hosts, extract real authentic stories from

Sadaf Beynon:

our guests to make a great podcast?

Matt Edmundson:

Wow, that's going to be fun.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

I know it's fun because I did the interview.

Sadaf Beynon:

But before we do that, before we do that,

Sadaf Beynon:

I have a question, Matt.

Sadaf Beynon:

It's still not working?

Sadaf Beynon:

No, there we go.

Sadaf Beynon:

There you

Matt Edmundson:

go.

Matt Edmundson:

Talk into the microphone.

Matt Edmundson:

I think I got

Sadaf Beynon:

stuck in it.

Sadaf Beynon:

All right.

Sadaf Beynon:

All right.

Sadaf Beynon:

Matt, I wondered if you had an all expenses paid trip to anywhere in the

Sadaf Beynon:

world that you would want to go to, the only catch was you had to do a

Sadaf Beynon:

podcast recording while you were there.

Sadaf Beynon:

Where would that

Matt Edmundson:

be?

Matt Edmundson:

I don't think it would change it.

Matt Edmundson:

I think the one place that I've visited, there's a lot of places that I've been

Matt Edmundson:

to that I've been privileged to go to.

Matt Edmundson:

I have flown around the world.

Matt Edmundson:

I've been to many places, but there are definite places on my

Matt Edmundson:

list that I have not been to.

Matt Edmundson:

And one of the places I want to go to it's a real tension for me because I

Matt Edmundson:

want to go to the Maldives before they disappear, but they disappear because

Matt Edmundson:

people keep going to the Maldives, right?

Matt Edmundson:

It's a catch 22.

Matt Edmundson:

So the it just is what it is.

Matt Edmundson:

But I'd love to go just hang out in the Maldives two weeks to see what it's like.

Matt Edmundson:

Friends who have been say it's just the most amazing place, but to be

Matt Edmundson:

fair, anywhere that's not England on a cold, dreary day would be good.

Matt Edmundson:

And yeah, as long as I don't have to take the podcast recording equipment, if it's

Matt Edmundson:

all there set up for me, that's fine.

Matt Edmundson:

It's all good.

Sadaf Beynon:

Clock's ticking.

Sadaf Beynon:

Book it.

Matt Edmundson:

I am flying out to Dallas to do a podcast,

Matt Edmundson:

a live podcast event there.

Matt Edmundson:

There's a eCommerce event called Sub Summit.

Matt Edmundson:

I was at there last year and love Sub Summit.

Matt Edmundson:

It's great if you're into the eCommerce business or subscription

Matt Edmundson:

business, you should definitely go.

Matt Edmundson:

Quick plug.

Matt Edmundson:

But what happens is I actually record a live eCommerce podcast whilst I'm there.

Matt Edmundson:

And so they set all the podcast equipment up, which is a beautiful thing.

Matt Edmundson:

You just walk up.

Matt Edmundson:

I just rock up and I just literally start talking to people about

Matt Edmundson:

eCommerce, which is a beautiful thing.

Matt Edmundson:

It's one of my favorite topics, if you know me.

Matt Edmundson:

And so yeah, I am actually flying out somewhere to do some podcast recordings.

Matt Edmundson:

Dallas at the moment for 2024 is the most exotic place.

Matt Edmundson:

So if you would like me to do a live podcast recording somewhere

Matt Edmundson:

more exotic than Dallas, which is not difficult, is it really?

Matt Edmundson:

Dallas is okay.

Matt Edmundson:

It's just not exotic.

Matt Edmundson:

It'll be hot though.

Matt Edmundson:

You'll get that.

Matt Edmundson:

It'll be hot.

Matt Edmundson:

And I'll get to hang out with some friends, which is always nice.

Matt Edmundson:

So yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

Cool.

Matt Edmundson:

All right.

Matt Edmundson:

Does that answer your question?

Matt Edmundson:

Where would you go?

Sadaf Beynon:

Somewhere hot.

Sadaf Beynon:

Somewhere hot with lots and lots of space.

Matt Edmundson:

Somewhere hot with lots and lots of space.

Sadaf Beynon:

England's a bit cold and like Small.

Matt Edmundson:

Need more space.

Matt Edmundson:

Need more space, okay.

Matt Edmundson:

Somewhere hot with lots of space.

Matt Edmundson:

Yes.

Matt Edmundson:

So not Wales.

Matt Edmundson:

No.

Matt Edmundson:

India?

Sadaf Beynon:

No.

Sadaf Beynon:

My background is Pakistani, you know that, right?

Sadaf Beynon:

Yeah,

Matt Edmundson:

that's what I'm saying, India, just to wind you up.

Matt Edmundson:

It's a bit like asking me if I want to go to Manchester when I live in Liverpool.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah, no, I don't really.

Matt Edmundson:

Africa?

Matt Edmundson:

No.

Sadaf Beynon:

Asia?

Sadaf Beynon:

I think I would I would go to.

Sadaf Beynon:

Italy, I have not been to Italy, but it's not very big, is it?

Sadaf Beynon:

Okay,

Matt Edmundson:

I think, so hang on, anywhere as long as it's

Matt Edmundson:

hot and there's lots of space, Africa, no, India, no, Asia, no.

Matt Edmundson:

Where?

Matt Edmundson:

Italy.

Matt Edmundson:

I just, I,

Sadaf Beynon:

If we're, going somewhere, I want to go somewhere,

Matt Edmundson:

you understand what I have to work with ladies and gentlemen,

Matt Edmundson:

yeah, he loves it on a daily basis.

Matt Edmundson:

It's awesome.

Matt Edmundson:

Let's play this video.

Matt Edmundson:

We've got Adam chatting away.

Matt Edmundson:

We're going to play this clip.

Matt Edmundson:

Listen to it, take your notes, then Sadaf and I will be back

Matt Edmundson:

to check check to chat about it.

Matt Edmundson:

And to go through our takeaways.

Matt Edmundson:

So here is Adam.

Adam Pearce:

It actually, the episode itself was pretty conversational.

Adam Pearce:

And I think, what I've found is that's pretty much been, the general

Adam Pearce:

ebb and flow for all of the kind of guests that we've had on the show.

Adam Pearce:

Yeah.

Adam Pearce:

It's interesting, obviously we live in a time where we all have a very curated.

Adam Pearce:

Social media presence, I think, and we talk about personal branding and

Adam Pearce:

all this kind of thing, and people pay consultants, but what I've always

Adam Pearce:

found out about you, Matt, is that when you get someone on a podcast,

Adam Pearce:

there's almost this, if you can get it to a point where it is a conversation.

Adam Pearce:

I find I get a lot more out of them than you would do on what

Adam Pearce:

they give, from a LinkedIn post or, TikTok video, whatever it might be.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah, I agree.

Matt Edmundson:

And they're always the memorable ones, aren't they?

Matt Edmundson:

Both from their point of view and from your point of view.

Matt Edmundson:

As a podcast host, I've, I, it's lovely to hear when people come on your show

Matt Edmundson:

and they say to you, that was great.

Matt Edmundson:

You did a great job.

Matt Edmundson:

I felt really comfortable because I always say you'd probably do

Matt Edmundson:

the same, Adam, say to guests at the end, how was that for you?

Matt Edmundson:

How did you find that?

Matt Edmundson:

And I'm really intrigued to hear what they have to say.

Matt Edmundson:

Most of the people say it was great, it was fine.

Matt Edmundson:

Not many people say you were rubbish because that's not what they want to do.

Matt Edmundson:

They want to still be on your podcast.

Matt Edmundson:

But it's, there are some people who actually will just give you some

Matt Edmundson:

little nuggets when you ask them that question, which is always lovely to hear.

Matt Edmundson:

And you tend to find those that are conversational and intent

Matt Edmundson:

on delivering value would be the other thing make the best guess.

Matt Edmundson:

No, I

Adam Pearce:

agree.

Adam Pearce:

And look, I've had some absolute stinkers, I can't lie.

Adam Pearce:

I've had a lot of, I wouldn't say a lot of, I've probably got five or six

Adam Pearce:

whereby someone has come in essentially with the answers all prepped and it is

Adam Pearce:

essentially a veiled sales conversation.

Adam Pearce:

And what unfortunately I've had to do in this situation is basically stop

Adam Pearce:

the recording and say, look, this isn't really going to work if we are basically,

Adam Pearce:

exchanging verbatim between one another.

Adam Pearce:

Yeah people know when that's being done and I think, also as a podcast host, you

Adam Pearce:

have to protect that because ultimately if someone jumps into your podcast on

Adam Pearce:

that episode, you know what it's like, Matt, they're probably not going to

Adam Pearce:

give you the opportunity to show them that you can do something different.

Adam Pearce:

So it's I think for, from both people as a guest.

Adam Pearce:

I think you need to be mindful of that because podcasts.

Adam Pearce:

Secondly, you're not going to actually convey the message you want to.

Adam Pearce:

And then from the actual, podcaster themselves, they've got a podcast

Adam Pearce:

reputation to uphold as well.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah, that's very true.

Matt Edmundson:

Very true.

Matt Edmundson:

So what are some of the other things that you think make great guests that you found

Matt Edmundson:

in your three and a half year tenure?

Adam Pearce:

I I think the thing for me is.

Adam Pearce:

When you have someone that has almost gone against the grain of what people

Adam Pearce:

are expecting what I mean by that is that, there are a lot of brilliant

Adam Pearce:

entrepreneurs that have started businesses that are completely unrelated.

Adam Pearce:

To the field that they then end up, end ended up in.

Adam Pearce:

Yeah.

Adam Pearce:

And yeah, there, there seems to be, sometimes there's a particular

Adam Pearce:

trajectory that, people might follow.

Adam Pearce:

Look they've gone to university, they've then gone to work for a big corporate.

Adam Pearce:

They see an opportunity in the market.

Adam Pearce:

They start up a, an e-commerce line.

Adam Pearce:

They sell.

Adam Pearce:

Okay, that, and I'm not knocking that, fair play to people, but it's when

Adam Pearce:

you get people, that are saying, look actually, you know what I didn't go

Adam Pearce:

to university, I had no interest in eCommerce, and then one day I'm walking

Adam Pearce:

down the street, and basically I see this thing in front of me, and I'm like,

Adam Pearce:

look, there's something that's got to be different to be done about that, and

Adam Pearce:

I started developing this product, and it was in my shed and all this thing,

Adam Pearce:

and it's just the one that I think, probably a lot of people know about, He's

Adam Pearce:

probably someone like Ben Francis who started Gymshark, great for him, a young

Adam Pearce:

lad delivering pizzas, buys a t shirt printing press, does it in his mum and

Adam Pearce:

dad's garage and starts selling it online.

Adam Pearce:

It's when it's a little bit different to maybe what people expect because I think

Adam Pearce:

our responsibility as a podcast host is to present different avenues in the industry

Adam Pearce:

that we podcast in and inspire people.

Adam Pearce:

Having the same story about, going to work for a consultancy or accountancy

Adam Pearce:

firm and then, blah, blah, blah, spotting the opportunity is fine,

Adam Pearce:

but we don't want to keep hearing that same story again and again.

Matt Edmundson:

That's super true.

Matt Edmundson:

Because especially with podcasts, I've found that like with the

Matt Edmundson:

agencies that contact you and say, do you mind having this guest on?

Matt Edmundson:

It becomes very hard to differentiate between a bunch of the guests that

Matt Edmundson:

they merge and blend into this sort of beige vanilla flavoring.

Matt Edmundson:

You're like I've had one.

Matt Edmundson:

I don't really need any more in that sort of field or genre.

Matt Edmundson:

So you have to work hard to get it to stick out, I think.

Matt Edmundson:

But I'm curious, Adam, when you have interviewed people, Matt,

Matt Edmundson:

how do you get to the story?

Matt Edmundson:

What sort of, do you have a specific strategy?

Matt Edmundson:

Are you just naturally curious?

Matt Edmundson:

Do you have preset questions which you're intrigued about that person?

Matt Edmundson:

Do you do a lot of research?

Matt Edmundson:

I don't know.

Matt Edmundson:

How do you get to the story of the guests that you've got on?

Adam Pearce:

Yeah, no, I think, the, my strategy usually is that when I'm

Adam Pearce:

doing a podcast, I will have basically five set questions I've nailed down.

Adam Pearce:

What I tend to find with that is that I almost look at these as like

Adam Pearce:

chapters of the book, and then what I try to do then is basically off the

Adam Pearce:

back of their responses, almost a mini subsection with each of those questions.

Adam Pearce:

So I ask something that's quite open as a question, and then I

Adam Pearce:

just try and keep drilling into layer down within that question.

Adam Pearce:

Because I think by doing that, for example, If if I've got a guest on the

Adam Pearce:

show who is, say, for example, from a reviews platform for eCommerce, my first

Adam Pearce:

question usually is why actually, how did you initially get into eCommerce?

Adam Pearce:

And then they'll tell me, a story about their work with a company.

Adam Pearce:

And then, I'll say why is it in that case that you picked reviews?

Adam Pearce:

Isn't reviews quite a boring aspect of eCommerce?

Adam Pearce:

So you throw a bit of that kind of, challenging sort of thing in there.

Adam Pearce:

And then, what do you think about people that think this way

Adam Pearce:

about that particular aspect?

Adam Pearce:

So it's just that sort of, I try and just keep drilling down into that detail.

Adam Pearce:

And that's when I think you get, those nuggets that you talked about earlier on.

Matt Edmundson:

So welcome back to Podjunction.

Matt Edmundson:

Great conversation there with Adam.

Sadaf Beynon:

Yeah, gave me lots of food for thought, actually.

Sadaf Beynon:

I don't think I was quite finished processing that.

Matt Edmundson:

It was quite an abrupt ending to that sort of little

Matt Edmundson:

clip, wasn't it, from Adam there.

Matt Edmundson:

So again, huge thank you to Adam for coming onto the show and just telling us

Matt Edmundson:

how he how he operates with his podcast.

Matt Edmundson:

Do check it out.

Matt Edmundson:

It's Shopify Across The Pond is his podcast.

Matt Edmundson:

But yeah, so you took lots of notes.

Matt Edmundson:

What did you get from that?

Sadaf Beynon:

First thing he started off talking about was social

Sadaf Beynon:

media and how it's highly curated and it, yeah, it, very polished.

Sadaf Beynon:

Yeah.

Sadaf Beynon:

And it does impact our understanding of what is authentic or not.

Sadaf Beynon:

Yeah.

Sadaf Beynon:

Isn't it?

Sadaf Beynon:

It has so much to do with that.

Sadaf Beynon:

And yet we're all scrolling all the

Matt Edmundson:

time, doom scrolling as they like to call it now, don't they?

Matt Edmundson:

But no, it's interesting what you said about that with the.

Matt Edmundson:

Because we do like to put on these sort of highly polished versions

Matt Edmundson:

of life, don't we, on social media.

Matt Edmundson:

And I think I totally agree with Adam that actually when you take those same folks

Matt Edmundson:

and get them onto a podcast and actually can engage them into a real conversation,

Matt Edmundson:

then the sort of the polishness goes and actually it starts to become authentic.

Matt Edmundson:

And I think it's a, when you'll know as a podcaster, if you've had guests

Matt Edmundson:

on your show, you will know as a podcaster, or if you're just starting

Matt Edmundson:

out and you're going to get guests on your show, you'll know when you have

Matt Edmundson:

hit something with that guest where you go, this is just sweet or beautiful.

Matt Edmundson:

It's genuine.

Matt Edmundson:

It's authentic.

Matt Edmundson:

This is the reason why I do it.

Matt Edmundson:

This is a great conversation.

Matt Edmundson:

And you get some guests that are just so amazing with that.

Matt Edmundson:

And then you get some guests who are closed up like a duck's butt really as

Matt Edmundson:

we like to say but they're so closed that actually it's talking to their social

Matt Edmundson:

media profile, do you know what I mean?

Matt Edmundson:

And yeah, I thought it was a good analogy.

Matt Edmundson:

You take away the polish, I think, with the podcast.

Sadaf Beynon:

He talked about having a few set questions as chapters akin

Sadaf Beynon:

to chapters in a book and how he would ask, he asked a question and

Sadaf Beynon:

kind of digs into it layer by layer.

Sadaf Beynon:

I was thinking, what if you've got guests who just you ask them a

Sadaf Beynon:

question and they just love to talk.

Sadaf Beynon:

They talk good stuff.

Sadaf Beynon:

They're giving away, like it's genuine, it's all of that, all of

Sadaf Beynon:

those things, but they like to talk.

Sadaf Beynon:

Yeah.

Sadaf Beynon:

So how do you then, as a host, how do you keep them on track in one sense,

Sadaf Beynon:

but also be able to still extract the things you want because your listeners

Sadaf Beynon:

are after that particular information.

Sadaf Beynon:

How would you do

Matt Edmundson:

that?

Matt Edmundson:

I think there's so many things that you can do there that will help you.

Matt Edmundson:

So the reason I'm laughing is because I recorded a podcast yesterday.

Matt Edmundson:

I won't mention who I recorded it with, but I, the opening question

Matt Edmundson:

you're just thinking was 10 minutes later, he's still talking.

Matt Edmundson:

And you're like, so there's a number of things to think about.

Matt Edmundson:

What helped me with that guest was number one, I think we prepped

Matt Edmundson:

him well, so he knew what was coming up and he knew the kind of

Matt Edmundson:

questions that we were going to ask.

Matt Edmundson:

I didn't give him a list of all the questions like Adam

Matt Edmundson:

on that particular part.

Matt Edmundson:

I don't do it on every podcast, but on that particular one we have three.

Matt Edmundson:

Key themes that we want to hit.

Matt Edmundson:

It is, what's the story?

Matt Edmundson:

You do that podcast as well.

Matt Edmundson:

And so there's three key, key three questions that we have.

Matt Edmundson:

. We're not gonna ask the same the question the same way, but we want those answers

Matt Edmundson:

to those three questions every time.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

So he knew what was coming up.

Matt Edmundson:

So he, I think he, once he got off on the first one, he kinda he

Matt Edmundson:

knows what's coming up, so he knows he can't keep going and going.

Matt Edmundson:

, two, I think actually you've got to ask is what they're saying interesting,

Matt Edmundson:

because sometimes we panic that they've gone on for five or six

Matt Edmundson:

minutes, but actually that's okay.

Matt Edmundson:

If those five or six minutes are really interesting if they're not interesting,

Matt Edmundson:

then I think you need to learn from that as a host, and that's when you interrupt.

Matt Edmundson:

That's when you become a little bit more forceful with how you ask questions and

Matt Edmundson:

not being afraid to do that, because it will actually come across quite naturally.

Matt Edmundson:

On the podcast, if you're talking and I'm in a conversation with you and

Matt Edmundson:

sometimes we think because we're recording it, we've got to be a bit more polite.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah, but if it's that conversation, just like you were in a pub or

Matt Edmundson:

in a coffee shop or something you would make some kind of comment.

Matt Edmundson:

And I think you can do that and it does interrupt people when they're talking.

Matt Edmundson:

The other thing that I found as well is you can say to people if you think

Matt Edmundson:

they're going to be a bit of a talker.

Matt Edmundson:

Usually they know it.

Matt Edmundson:

It's normally people that have not really been on podcasts before or if they have,

Matt Edmundson:

they know they're a bit of a talker.

Matt Edmundson:

You have some sort of an agreement which says, if I do this, then that's the

Matt Edmundson:

sign you need to stop talking, right?

Matt Edmundson:

If you're doing the video, don't do this.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

Have you ever had to use that?

Matt Edmundson:

This, sorry, if you're listening to the audio, what I'm doing is I'm doing that

Matt Edmundson:

thing, where you move your hand underneath your chin, kill ya, kill it dead.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah no, it's just simple things like I might just put my

Matt Edmundson:

pencil up in the air like that.

Matt Edmundson:

Cause I've always got a pen or a pencil in my hand because I'm always making notes.

Matt Edmundson:

That's one of the great ways of getting conversation out of people

Matt Edmundson:

is you make notes, active listening.

Matt Edmundson:

But yeah, that's one way it is.

Matt Edmundson:

But I don't do it like, like I'm at school, hello teacher I've got

Matt Edmundson:

the answer, just put my hand, no, it's just a real subtle thing yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

And you might watch that podcast and go, you would never know if you're watching

Matt Edmundson:

the video, but the guest sees it and goes, okay, I should probably wrap it up.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

Cool.

Matt Edmundson:

But there have been a few occasions where I've just literally talked over them and

Matt Edmundson:

I didn't care because it was my podcast.

Sadaf Beynon:

And they didn't notice.

Matt Edmundson:

No, not at all.

Matt Edmundson:

Not at all.

Matt Edmundson:

And if they did, they're Oh yeah, sorry, I was going on a little bit there.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah, you were, you little git.

Matt Edmundson:

Stop it.

Matt Edmundson:

It's one of those where I think, actually, it's okay to make

Matt Edmundson:

fun of it, to joke about it.

Matt Edmundson:

Sometimes we feel like we have to take it a little bit too serious.

Matt Edmundson:

And that would be, yeah, that would be how I would handle those situations.

Matt Edmundson:

Just be rude.

Sadaf Beynon:

Yeah.

Sadaf Beynon:

I guess what you're saying is that even as we're looking for authenticity in

Sadaf Beynon:

our guest stories, there's a level of authenticity for us as a host as well.

Sadaf Beynon:

That's a mic drop

Matt Edmundson:

moment.

Matt Edmundson:

It's very true.

Matt Edmundson:

That's right.

Matt Edmundson:

It's a good way of putting it.

Matt Edmundson:

You've got to, you've got to do it how you would do the way I think about it.

Matt Edmundson:

Some people have different names for it.

Matt Edmundson:

I'm like, imagine if you were sat in a coffee shop talking to this person

Matt Edmundson:

and someone just put microphones on the table and you forgot they were there and

Matt Edmundson:

you were just having that conversation.

Matt Edmundson:

Or if you're in the pub, if you're in the UK Rob Brown calls it the fireside chat,

Matt Edmundson:

like you're sitting around a fireplace just chatting away, whatever that

Matt Edmundson:

scenario, whatever that setting is that works for you, however you do it, if you

Matt Edmundson:

imagine that's the kind of conversation you want to have with the guest.

Matt Edmundson:

You want them to be authentic.

Matt Edmundson:

You've got to be authentic and vulnerable and share what's going on.

Matt Edmundson:

But also I know full well, if we're sat in a coffee shop and I'm talking

Matt Edmundson:

too much, you're going to interrupt me.

Matt Edmundson:

So why would you not do it on a podcast?

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah, don't be, stupid about it, but it's okay.

Sadaf Beynon:

Alright, next.

Sadaf Beynon:

I was just going to interrupt you there.

Sadaf Beynon:

I

Matt Edmundson:

knew what I could see in you.

Matt Edmundson:

So it's good, Matt, you're talking too much now.

Matt Edmundson:

How do I interrupt you?

Matt Edmundson:

I was going to try and make some jokes.

Matt Edmundson:

Didn't work, did it?

Matt Edmundson:

No, okay.

Matt Edmundson:

Okay.

Matt Edmundson:

See, banter's good.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah, banter's good.

Matt Edmundson:

Banter's very good, and that's a good way to interrupt people as well.

Sadaf Beynon:

So what's in your notes, Matt?

Matt Edmundson:

One of the things that Adam mentioned was how he

Matt Edmundson:

dealt with stinkers, which I thought was such a great phrase.

Matt Edmundson:

We've had a few stinkers on our podcast and that if you're outside of maybe

Matt Edmundson:

the UK and that doesn't translate, it basically means he's had a few bad

Matt Edmundson:

guests, some guests that really were not great and they were going bad.

Matt Edmundson:

And actually what Adam did, I think takes a lot of courage as a podcaster.

Matt Edmundson:

So if I'm doing a podcast and I'm recording with somebody,

Matt Edmundson:

I don't mind if I'm getting on well with them, interrupting

Matt Edmundson:

them, I don't mind that banter.

Matt Edmundson:

That's authentic conversation.

Matt Edmundson:

So that's the first hurdle you've got to overcome.

Matt Edmundson:

But if you do get this person on the podcast and you just go, this is not

Matt Edmundson:

going the way it needs to go there.

Matt Edmundson:

And often it's because they're really salesy.

Matt Edmundson:

Or they do keep talking about utter nonsense in a monotone voice, right?

Matt Edmundson:

But usually it's because they're salesy.

Matt Edmundson:

Normally they've come on, they've got an agenda.

Matt Edmundson:

It's I've got to promote to your audience my product.

Matt Edmundson:

And I've always said to guests in the past, actually, listen,

Matt Edmundson:

if you come across as salesy, the guests are just going to turn off.

Matt Edmundson:

The ones we know from the evidence that if you get a guest on the

Matt Edmundson:

show, the guests always do well.

Matt Edmundson:

All the ones that deliver the most value, right?

Matt Edmundson:

So we say this to people that come onto our podcast, just deliver, if you focus on

Matt Edmundson:

delivering value, it's going to be great.

Matt Edmundson:

And that's got rid of most of the stinkers, but he, what Adam did or does

Matt Edmundson:

takes a lot of courage I think as a podcaster and certainly in the early

Matt Edmundson:

days is the ability to stop the recording or to stop the guest and to say to the

Matt Edmundson:

guest, dude, listen, I'm really sorry.

Matt Edmundson:

Maybe I've not prep well enough, but fundamentally, this is not going to work

Matt Edmundson:

and it's not going to work because of X, Y and Z so we can either redo what

Matt Edmundson:

we've been doing and make it a bit more relevant or we can we can just stop if you

Matt Edmundson:

don't think that this is going to work.

Matt Edmundson:

I think it's a really, it's a really tricky thing to be able to.

Matt Edmundson:

to do that.

Matt Edmundson:

It takes a lot of bravery.

Matt Edmundson:

It takes a lot of courage.

Matt Edmundson:

And good on Adam for doing it,

Sadaf Beynon:

yeah.

Sadaf Beynon:

Yeah.

Sadaf Beynon:

I don't know if I'd be able to.

Sadaf Beynon:

I'd have, I think I'd have to do quite a few podcasts to get to that point.

Sadaf Beynon:

To get the confidence.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

I think it's, it is a confidence thing and it's the ability to sit there

Matt Edmundson:

and think about your audience and go, actually, what does my audience want here?

Matt Edmundson:

The way I know some people deal with this, because Adam.

Matt Edmundson:

It's a bit like me.

Matt Edmundson:

I don't mind actually stopping people mid interview and

Matt Edmundson:

just going, I'm really sorry.

Matt Edmundson:

I probably, I maybe would be a bit more tactful if I was doing a live stream,

Matt Edmundson:

that would be a bit more interesting, but if I'm just doing a straightforward

Matt Edmundson:

recording, I don't mind interrupting people and having that chat with them.

Matt Edmundson:

But the other way I've seen people doing it is to say at the end of the

Matt Edmundson:

podcast, just record the podcast as normal, but then not air the podcast.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

And then just, write to the guests, say, thanks for coming on the show.

Matt Edmundson:

We've decided not to wear the podcast because of this, and this was, the

Matt Edmundson:

production team didn't think it was right.

Matt Edmundson:

We don't, and as long as you're putting your terms and conditions,

Matt Edmundson:

when people come on the show, we don't always, every podcast we record.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah, I think, but I thought it was interesting.

Matt Edmundson:

Like I say, the courage to stand up to, to interrupt somebody and

Matt Edmundson:

go, you stink, stop stinking.

Matt Edmundson:

This is how you stop stinking.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

Do you want to stop stinking?

Matt Edmundson:

Yes or no?

Matt Edmundson:

If yes, we'll carry on if No, thanks for coming on this far, man.

Matt Edmundson:

Appreciate it.

Matt Edmundson:

God bless you.

Matt Edmundson:

Don't let the door hit you on the way out.

Matt Edmundson:

That kind of thing.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

Does that answer that question?

Matt Edmundson:

It does, yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah, that was what was in my notes.

Matt Edmundson:

So what's your top tip then?

Matt Edmundson:

'cause you've, obviously you're starting out with podcasting.

Matt Edmundson:

You're, you've done a fair few now what, 2030 of your own podcast episodes maybe?

Matt Edmundson:

I dunno, not really counted.

Matt Edmundson:

No, not that many.

Matt Edmundson:

Not

Sadaf Beynon:

really counted.

Matt Edmundson:

Not that really.

Matt Edmundson:

We'll sit close to your microphone.

Matt Edmundson:

Sorry.

Matt Edmundson:

We're still learning.

Matt Edmundson:

We're still learning every, all of it.

Matt Edmundson:

We're on a journey.

Matt Edmundson:

We're all learning.

Matt Edmundson:

We are.

Matt Edmundson:

We are.

Sadaf Beynon:

Very much.

Sadaf Beynon:

I think for me, what, and I know this, but I think just hearing it from someone,

Sadaf Beynon:

you hear other people saying the same type of thing, it just helps stick the point.

Sadaf Beynon:

But I think to be a good host.

Sadaf Beynon:

You and you said it too, in the interview that you have to have a curious mind.

Sadaf Beynon:

Yeah.

Sadaf Beynon:

And I don't, cause I think for me, it was always like you have to have the

Sadaf Beynon:

experience to be able to understand the kind of questions you need to ask.

Sadaf Beynon:

And I think you do to some degree, but it's not everything and asking

Sadaf Beynon:

those questions that dig and go beneath the layers, layer after

Sadaf Beynon:

layer, I think that's where you get the authenticity and the stories.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah, it's a very powerful point because there have been occasions

Matt Edmundson:

whereby I've had guests who I thought were maybe a little bit dull at the start or

Matt Edmundson:

wasn't really going the right direction.

Matt Edmundson:

And I thought to myself you think through several things.

Matt Edmundson:

Do I need to stop this interview?

Matt Edmundson:

Do I need to restart it, which we've talked about?

Matt Edmundson:

Do I need to maybe do that?

Matt Edmundson:

Or sometimes it's a bit of a challenge where I set myself

Matt Edmundson:

where I go, no, I'm not, I am.

Matt Edmundson:

For me as a host, the challenge here is to make this as interesting as

Matt Edmundson:

possible, as quickly as possible, right?

Matt Edmundson:

And so how skilled am I at asking a question that can bring this

Matt Edmundson:

back on track straight away and actually be quite interesting?

Matt Edmundson:

That is a skill.

Matt Edmundson:

And as I think as long as you're doing active listening it's a lot easier to do

Matt Edmundson:

if you do the old active listening thing.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah.

Matt Edmundson:

I have used that skill, that tactic and that comes from that always having that

Matt Edmundson:

curious mind just as people are saying stuff that's, we were joking around the

Matt Edmundson:

office earlier on we were in a meeting that was just a bit dull last week.

Matt Edmundson:

One guy went on for about 45 minutes and we're just like, and actually

Matt Edmundson:

whilst he was going on for those 45 minutes, some of the others zoned out.

Matt Edmundson:

I didn't I was doing other things, but I was listening and my ear was listening

Matt Edmundson:

because I think sometimes people say, like this particular guy I knew he was going

Matt Edmundson:

to give him enough rope to hang himself.

Matt Edmundson:

If you just let him talk it's just one of those guys.

Matt Edmundson:

And so just one or two key things came out of that actually,

Matt Edmundson:

which was really helpful for me.

Matt Edmundson:

Really helpful.

Matt Edmundson:

So it's that skill, that talent.

Matt Edmundson:

I think when things are boring to either pick up on something that's interesting

Matt Edmundson:

and ask great questions to make it interesting again, or if you don't,

Matt Edmundson:

if you can't, if there's no obvious route to do that, stop it, kill it.

Matt Edmundson:

And start again or end it.

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah, no, I like that.

Matt Edmundson:

Top tips.

Matt Edmundson:

Top tips.

Matt Edmundson:

Look at the time, we've been, this is, we're coming up for the 30 minute mock.

Matt Edmundson:

I think we should probably end it there, should we?

Matt Edmundson:

Yeah, we should.

Matt Edmundson:

Anything else from you?

Matt Edmundson:

No, we're good.

Matt Edmundson:

We're good.

Matt Edmundson:

Today, key takeaways.

Matt Edmundson:

Number one, use your microphone correctly.

Matt Edmundson:

Yes.

Matt Edmundson:

Number two, if you have those guests on that are stinkers

Matt Edmundson:

questions to ask yourself.

Matt Edmundson:

Can I get this interesting straight away by asking a really good question here?

Matt Edmundson:

Or, do I need to stop it and kill it?

Matt Edmundson:

What was your key takeaway?

Sadaf Beynon:

Mine was about The stories, so have a curious mind.

Sadaf Beynon:

So active listening, as you said, let's, we can instill it all in, distill it

Sadaf Beynon:

rather in down into those two words.

Sadaf Beynon:

Have

Matt Edmundson:

a curious mind sounds much better.

Matt Edmundson:

Yes.

Matt Edmundson:

Cool.

Matt Edmundson:

Okay.

Matt Edmundson:

Awesome.

Matt Edmundson:

Thank you so much for joining us.

Matt Edmundson:

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Matt Edmundson:

sign up to the newsletter on the website.

Matt Edmundson:

You can find out more information about us on the website, podjunction.

Matt Edmundson:

com.

Matt Edmundson:

It'd be great to see you in there.

Matt Edmundson:

So yeah, thanks for joining us.

Matt Edmundson:

We will see you next time.

Matt Edmundson:

Bye for now.

Matt Edmundson:

Bye.

Sadaf Beynon:

And that brings us to the end of today's episode at PodJunction,

Sadaf Beynon:

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Sadaf Beynon:

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