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Reclaim Your Freedom and Happiness after Narcissistic Abuse with Dr. Tara Perry
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Revitalize Your Life: Embrace Meditation, Cold Therapy, and Learning for Freedom and Happiness

In this practical episode we delve deep into the transformative practices of meditation, cold therapy, and the power of books as tools to claim your freedom and happiness.

Join us as we share our special guest, the renowned Dr. Tara Perry, a leading expert in holistic well-being. She is empowering lives through holistic wellness. Tara: Your guide to health, happiness, and balance.

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Dr. Tara Perry of https://consulttara.com/about brings her extensive knowledge and experience to the table, guiding us on a journey of self-discovery and personal growth. She shares her insights into how these practices can refresh your desire to live life to the fullest.

  • Meditation, known for its profound effects on mental and emotional well-being, is explored in depth. Dr. Perry discusses the benefits of mindfulness and meditation, offering practical tips on incorporating them into your daily routine to reduce stress, enhance focus, and find inner peace.

  • Cold therapy, an unconventional yet powerful method to boost vitality, is another topic of discussion. Discover how exposing your body to controlled cold can improve circulation, increase resilience, and awaken a newfound energy within you. Dr. Tara Perry provides insights on incorporating cold therapy into your life safely and effectively.

  • Books have always been a source of knowledge, inspiration, and transformation. Dr. Perry shares her favorite books that have the potential to spark profound changes in your life. Explore the world of literature and discover how the right books can nourish your mind and spirit, leading you towards a freer and happier existence.

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Speaker:

welcome to the Empath Rising

podcast, where we are healing

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from narcissistic abuse, with

human design, taro, and astrology.

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I'm your host, Raven, Scott.

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Make sure to share this

podcast with a friend.

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Spread the love spread the light.

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And subscribe./

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This is reclaiming your freedom and

happiness after narcissistic abuse.

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You dear Empath, have

a S special individual.

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Blessed with the remarkable

ability to feel and understand

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the emotions of others.

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While this gift allows you to

connect deeply with others.

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It can also become

overwhelming and burdens sun.

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If it is not managed properly

or connected to a person.

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With negative energy.

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So in this episode, we will explore

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how you can claim your freedom and

happiness back by taking care of

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yourself and focusing on your healing.

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And embracing their unique

qualities through mindset reframe.

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Our guests today, we'll

introduce you to the work of Dr.

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Joe Dispenza, Wim Hoff, and Byron Katie.

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All whom drastically

molded my healing journey.

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During the path of healing from

PTSD and narcissistic abuse.

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Our guest today is Dr.

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Tara Perry.

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She is.

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The founder of core trauma transformation.

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For over 25 years, Dr.

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Tara Perry has successfully assisted

first responders, celebrities,

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entrepreneurs, teachers, doctors,

and all sorts of human beings.

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Tim physically and mentally and

spiritually heal faster and more

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deeply than they thought possible.

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She is a licensed clinical hypnotherapist.

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And a doctor of acupuncture

and Chinese medicine.

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So let's listen in to her message

for us today Well, hello there.

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I'm so excited to be here with

you on the empath rising podcast.

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I think that's a wonderful theme

because I think a lot of us are

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getting a lot more attuned and

sensitive to what's going on around us.

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We're living in

interesting times for sure.

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So I find that a lot of people reach

out to me because they're experiencing,

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feeling stuck or anxiety, stress they're,

they could have an addiction problem

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because they're so desperate to get

out of whatever state they're in that

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they are reaching for drugs or shopping

or sex or some type of distraction.

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Another big reason that people

reach out to me is because

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they're stuck in fight or flight.

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And if you're in that state,

it's like the fire alarm going

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off in your house all the time.

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You know, it, how useful is that?

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If you've got a fire, fire alarm,

that's blasting in your ear all the

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time, it's not telling you anything.

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It's exhausting.

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It's stressful.

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You start to tune it out.

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You, you become numb, you, you

know, just basically tune out and

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that's not a healthy place to be.

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So in this little Demonstration

we're doing today.

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I am giving you a bunch of tools that

you can use either on your own or if

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you want to reach out and work with a

personalized program to get you from

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where you are to where you want to go.

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Either is great.

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I would love to give you any and

all resources available to me

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in this next 15 to 20 minutes.

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My name is Dr.

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Tara Perry.

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I've been helping gosh first responders,

Celebrities, moms, dads, people

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just like you for 25 years now.

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I started out with acupuncture

and nutritional medicine and love

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that and still utilize a lot of

those tools because if you're.

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Blood sugar is going all over the place.

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You're not going to feel good.

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If your brain is in chronic

inflammation if you're not

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exercising, bodies were meant to move.

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So I, I make a very customized program

for people to again, get them from

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where they are to where they want to go.

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I often feel like Glenda, the

good witch I, I don't give people

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what they didn't have already.

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I just help them become aware of the,

the jewels inside of them that are

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seeking to get out, that want to be

expressed, that want to be free, that

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want to expand so that they're not living

in this dumbed down constricted place.

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I had a medical practice for 25

years in Southern California, in

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Beverly Hills, in Santa Monica.

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I taught at Embers College and UCLA

and ended up in Belmont shore, which

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was a great beach community until I

left in:

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way that I'm very good at helping

people reprogram their subconscious

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mind, find out what's stuck in there.

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And then rewire it.

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I find the brain is very

much like a computer.

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And this is, these are not new concepts.

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Anybody that, you know, Bruce Lipton,

Joe Dispenza, you know, there's lots

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of people who have delved into this

area and talk about these technologies.

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But it, it doesn't really

matter what happens to us.

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It's our interpretation

about what happens to us.

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That's so critical.

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So you know, something happens to us

and it can be something minor like, you

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know, dad's scolded us when we were doing

our homework or, you know, it could be

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something very bad that a parent was

either physically or sexually abusive when

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we were growing up, but it's, it's not the

event that ends up harming us over time.

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It's our interpretation of the event.

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It's you know, what is your

interpretation of yourself, the world,

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other people that got wired in there.

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And in order for that to change, it's

usually stuck way in the subconscious

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mind, which scientists now know

is 90 to 95 percent of our brain.

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So it's really, really hard to

solve that issue with just five

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to 10 percent of your brain.

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So I find a lot of people I work with

have been through years and years

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and years of therapy, often decades,

and they're still having daily panic

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attacks or health anxiety, or don't

feel good about themselves or having

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work problems, relationship problems.

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And it's not until we get in to

the subconscious mind, find the.

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root of the problem.

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Again, Chinese medicine teaches that

you always want to go to the root.

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You don't want to treat a branch of

the problem because then if the roots

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are still there, it, it will come back.

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So a lot of people that I work with

often say, you know, I did this type

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of practice, that type of practice

meditation this program, that program

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read this book, did this seminar and it

was helpful for a while, but it didn't

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change them, you know, permanently.

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So what I'm looking for is that

permanent change, taking people out

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of that stressful, nervous anxiety,

you know, in whatever form that

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takes to that deep confident piece

that really is available to you.

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It's just obscured by filters

that got placed in along the way.

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And if you look at babies, they

are, you know, generally happy.

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They.

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yell and scream for what they need

but, and if something bad happens, they

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typically, you know, react, but then

they're back to you know, their normal,

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happy, giggly self, which is why we

love interacting with them so much.

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So my personal journey I graduated

from UCLA and ended up working in the

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entertainment business for five years.

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I ended up at one of the biggest,

arguably at the time, the biggest

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talent agency in Hollywood.

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The head of that company was always

rated the most powerful man in Hollywood.

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And I was approached to work

directly for him and for the head

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of the television department.

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And I just...

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didn't feel like I could stay

in that environment anymore.

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I felt like I was suffocating.

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So I called up my homeopath and said, what

would I do if I want to do what you do?

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Cause I was really impressed

with how he healed people.

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And when he told me the answer, I,

the, basically the lights went on.

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It felt like the clouds parted and

God said, this is what you're going

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to go do, which was crazy because

nobody at that time had basically even

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heard of acupuncture months, much less

had an acupuncturist at that time.

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I hadn't even tried it myself.

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When I.

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Decided to go down that path.

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But I did know that I wanted

to profoundly help people.

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And when I saw that this fellow was

doing that, I wanted to be part of that.

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So I started night classes a couple

of weeks later and then gave notice

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a quarter later and ended up going to

China for a year to study at one of the.

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Top five traditional

medical hospitals there.

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And that was just two years after

Tiananmen Square had occurred.

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So it was really a very, very different

world at that time, but life changing

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for sure, and a great experience.

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I'm, I'm deeply grateful

for, for having done that.

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So I would say that, you know,

for many, many years, I, you

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know, had imposter syndrome.

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I felt like I wasn't good enough.

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I would always be getting another degree,

another certificate another award because

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I felt like something was missing.

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And yet I would achieve something and

then five minutes later, literally, I'd be

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like, okay, that wasn't such a big deal.

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I I'm looking onto the next thing.

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And by the way, there's a

Fantastic book written about that.

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It's a tiny little book

called the gap and the gain.

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And what it teaches you to do is look back

as well as looking forward because looking

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forward gives you your kind of North star,

what the direction you want to head in.

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But in order for your nervous system

to feel good about itself, it also

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has to look back in time and measure.

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What has been accomplished in the last

like three months, six months, years, it

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helps to look at it in varying chunks so

that your nervous system can go, oh, okay.

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I'm not wasting my time.

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I'm not stupid.

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I'm not spinning my wheels.

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I'm actually heading in the direction

and applying the tools that I'm so

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desperately want to enjoy in my life.

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So that is another precious tip if you

go on my website, I do have I'm starting

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on Tuesday's Tara's Tuesday book read

because I hear from my clients on a

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fairly regular basis that they, they

think I've read every book on the planet.

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And it's just because I'm insatiably

curious and I probably have over

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400 books on my audible account.

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And love to share that information.

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So people that do work with me directly

get a very customized program from

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where they are to where they want to go.

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And some people need

extra help with nutrition.

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Some people need extra help with exercise.

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Some people need extra

help with business goals.

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Some people need extra help

with relationship issues.

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So.

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I, I listen deeply to what their needs

are and then customize a program for them.

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So if that's of interest, you're welcome

to go onto my website consult Tara.

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com and just click the button and

fill out the 10 questions and, and

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see if it's a good fit for you.

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But throughout this

interview, I'm going to.

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Make available to you any other tools

that I use and have found valuable for

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myself and my clients because I think

nothing makes me happier personally than

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seeing people discard what no longer

serves them and claim a freer, happier

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life because that spreads not only am I

helping you but you go on and help other

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people, and that ripple effect can be

tremendous just smiling at somebody at

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the grocery store can, you know, prevent

a suicide and that's what we're here to

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do is just make the world a better place.

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So as I, and I I'm

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When, when people say, well, what was

the pivotal point for you and your

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personal journey to better health?

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And for me personally, there were a lot

of key points, but I, I do feel that

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people are often like onions, myself

included, you know, you, you peel

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off a layer and then you feel so much

lighter and so much healthier and so

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much better able to navigate life, but

life happens and things come up and.

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Each opportunity that comes our way,

if we look at them as opportunities

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rather than obstacles or points of

pain that have to be suffered through,

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then that shift in awareness can

make a big difference all by itself.

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So other tools that I found useful

along the way definitely meditation.

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I'm a big Joe Dispenza fan.

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So if you go online, you can find

countless Joe Dispenza meditations.

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If that's not your style, cause some

people prefer a different voice.

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meditations available, but,

or, and sometimes you don't

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need To have anything at all.

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I often choose to just

meditate in pure quiet.

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That's a little harder until you've

gotten the hang of it and you understand

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what meditation is actually giving you.

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But the, the beauty of meditation

is coming into that stillness.

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Coming into that peace, coming into that

quiet, and whatever is unquiet in there,

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whatever is painful, rather than pushing

it down, pressing against it, trying to

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run away from it, if we can go into it

my meditation teacher described it as,

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you know, sitting with it and allowing

it to open like a flower in the sun.

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Or many meditation practices describe it

as like a knot in the body, and if you can

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go deep, deep, deep into the knot rather

than fighting it it often just lets go.

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I mean, that's typically what happens.

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So for sure, meditation

is a big tool that I use.

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I'm a big fan of cold therapy.

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Wim Hof is teaching

that all over the world.

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If you go on YouTube and type in Wim

Hof 11 minute breath work he does a

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very, very powerful 11 minute breath,

which has been viewed by I think almost

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70 million people all over the planet.

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So that's extremely powerful.

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Of course, do it someplace, you

know, not when you're driving.

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Just be someplace, you know, safe that you

can relax and, and participate in that.

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He also is the probably the forerunner

worldwide in terms of notable figures

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who meditates on icebergs and swims

in ice cold waters, but because of

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him and the science that's coming out.

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As a result of people studying him and

other people doing this, I stopped taking

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a warm shower probably, ooh, three years

ago and in the winter time here, that

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gets pretty crispy but it, it has such

tremendous effects on your hormones, on

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your Your immune system that they even

injected him, I believe with salmonella

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and it did not even give him a fever.

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He's become so strong.

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And he was not originally, I

mean, he was a mail carrier in

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the UK that had to help his wife.

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His wife suffered terribly from depression

and ended up committing suicide.

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He then was so distraught and in such

a horrible place that just out of sheer

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desperation, he turned to cult therapy

to regain his desire to live really his

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sense of peace, his will to live and

in that state of cold and, you know,

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some people fill up a bathtub with ice

cubes, I've done this more than once,

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and just go in that some people have

actual tubs outside that in the colder

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weather get very chilly, some people

have regulated tubs which are quite

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a bit more expensive, but if you can.

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Submerge yourself in cold water safely.

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And if you've got any medical

conditions, you have to, you know,

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check off the boxes and make sure

that that's not an issue for you.

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I don't know of any contraindications

off the top of my head,

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but just getting into cold.

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And I don't mean a cryo and there

is no such thing like is available

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in your chiropractor office.

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Although that does have medical value

you, you, by submersing yourself in a

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cold tub, a cold plunge, some people call

them you, you have to get very present

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and it's a beautiful meditative state.

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I recently spent seven

minutes in 47 degrees.

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And I always get Celsius and

Fahrenheit confused, but it's

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obvious I can think when you,

when, you know, both of them and.

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I stayed in for seven minutes,

which is a good amount of time

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to stay in that chili of water.

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But it really, really is delicious when

you, you can drop in, become fully, fully

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present and stop being in fear of course.

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You take the steps and do it at

whatever pace is right for you.

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But that is a tool and

Vimhof has an app for that.

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A very, very simple free tool

that's available to you is

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forgiveness and gratitude.

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The scientific evidence out

on that is also tremendous.

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And it takes some awareness and some time

to really master those because We often

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carry around a lot of not forgiveness

and a lot of not gratitude and sometimes

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we're not even really aware of it.

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And I have found with my clients

that the last person, and I would

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say this is true for myself as

well to forgive is often yourself.

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So if you're carrying hatred or grudge

or something for somebody else, it's.

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been likened to drinking

poison every single day and

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expecting somebody else to die.

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It's not helping you.

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I do have additional stories about

that, but in the interest of time, I'm

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not going to go into them right now.

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But gratitude and forgiveness are

two amazing keys for instantly up

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leveling your life and your health.

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And there are many resources for that.

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I just interviewed a

keynote speaker on that.

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Who's an author on my, Podcast

next level healing, you can

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go on there, check that out.

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There's a variety of resources

on next level healing cause I've

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interviewed people from all walks

of life and different disciplines.

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Whenever I find something that I think is

really helpful for people, I'll interview

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the subject matter of expert on that.

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Thank you.

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Thank you.

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So I think we're getting close to running

out of time here, but I want to just

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mention a couple of other things I think

focus is really critically important.

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So if you're focused on failing, whatever

that looks like for you, then we tend to

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attract whatever it is we're focused on.

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So one of my favorite quotes is whether

you think you can or think you can't.

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You are correct.

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So if you're focused on thinking

you can't accomplish something that

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you're not worthy or you aren't

good enough, you will attract that.

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If you shift the focus to what is

worthy about you, what is amazing about

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you, what is resourceful about you,

what is lovable about you, and really

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give that your energy, your juju, your

focus, your attention then it can grow.

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It's like watering a plant, really.

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There's the theme of the good wolf and the

bad wolf and which one's going to survive.

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Well, it's the one that you feed.

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As far as reading recommendations,

there are so many, I wouldn't

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know where to begin to start.

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One of my favorite books that I

find I recommend to my clients on

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a regular, regular, regular basis

is Loving What Is by Byron Katie.

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She is a master.

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I hope to meet her one day.

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If you are an audible person, you

will actually listen to her working

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with people and they typically come

in in some state of complete disarray

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complete upset and in 15, 20 minutes,

they are laughing and completely

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seeing it from a different perspective.

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And I would say that is part of the

magic that I do as well when I'm working

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with people is shifting perspective.

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I, I am kind of a hybrid.

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I've had a multitude of different.

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Areas in which I've studied acupuncture,

nutritional medicine, hypnotherapy

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I've trained with some of the greatest

people on planet earth as far as rapid

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change and am incredibly grateful

to be in a time where we get to

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stand on the shoulders of giants.

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So I think we're getting a

little close to time here.

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I just want to again, thank you so

much for having me on the program.

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I hope that was helpful.

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If anybody would like I am

offering a new free meditation.

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You can just message me on the comment

section of my website consult Tara.

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com, or you can find

me at Nashville healer.

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It pours over and heals others

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