Revitalize Your Life: Embrace Meditation, Cold Therapy, and Learning for Freedom and Happiness
In this practical episode we delve deep into the transformative practices of meditation, cold therapy, and the power of books as tools to claim your freedom and happiness.
Join us as we share our special guest, the renowned Dr. Tara Perry, a leading expert in holistic well-being. She is empowering lives through holistic wellness. Tara: Your guide to health, happiness, and balance.
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Whether you're looking to revitalize your life, seeking inner peace, or simply eager to explore new avenues of personal growth, this episode promises to be an enlightening journey. Dr. Tara Perry's wisdom and expertise will inspire you to embrace these practices and reclaim your freedom and happiness.
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:Our guest today is Dr.
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:Tara Perry.
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:Tara Perry has successfully assisted
first responders, celebrities,
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and all sorts of human beings.
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spiritually heal faster and more
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:She is a licensed clinical hypnotherapist.
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and Chinese medicine.
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for us today Well, hello there.
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:I'm so excited to be here with
you on the empath rising podcast.
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:I think that's a wonderful theme
because I think a lot of us are
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sensitive to what's going on around us.
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interesting times for sure.
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:So I find that a lot of people reach
out to me because they're experiencing,
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:feeling stuck or anxiety, stress they're,
they could have an addiction problem
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out of whatever state they're in that
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or sex or some type of distraction.
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reach out to me is because
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it's like the fire alarm going
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that's blasting in your ear all the
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we're doing today.
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you can use either on your own or if
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personalized program to get you from
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:I would love to give you any and
all resources available to me
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:My name is Dr.
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:Tara Perry.
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:I've been helping gosh first responders,
Celebrities, moms, dads, people
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:just like you for 25 years now.
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:I started out with acupuncture
and nutritional medicine and love
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those tools because if you're.
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inflammation if you're not
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for people to again, get them from
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:I often feel like Glenda, the
good witch I, I don't give people
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the jewels inside of them that are
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expressed, that want to be free, that
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in this dumbed down constricted place.
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:I had a medical practice for 25
years in Southern California, in
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:I taught at Embers College and UCLA
and ended up in Belmont shore, which
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left in:
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people reprogram their subconscious
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:I find the brain is very
much like a computer.
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Joe Dispenza, you know, there's lots
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area and talk about these technologies.
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matter what happens to us.
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about what happens to us.
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:So you know, something happens to us
and it can be something minor like, you
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our homework or, you know, it could be
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either physically or sexually abusive when
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event that ends up harming us over time.
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interpretation of yourself, the world,
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usually stuck way in the subconscious
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is 90 to 95 percent of our brain.
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solve that issue with just five
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have been through years and years
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and they're still having daily panic
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feel good about themselves or having
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the subconscious mind, find the.
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you always want to go to the root.
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the problem because then if the roots
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often say, you know, I did this type
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meditation this program, that program
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was helpful for a while, but it didn't
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permanent change, taking people out
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you know, in whatever form that
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that really is available to you.
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that got placed in along the way.
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are, you know, generally happy.
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but, and if something bad happens, they
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they're back to you know, their normal,
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love interacting with them so much.
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from UCLA and ended up working in the
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arguably at the time, the biggest
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rated the most powerful man in Hollywood.
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directly for him and for the head
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in that environment anymore.
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would I do if I want to do what you do?
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with how he healed people.
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the, basically the lights went on.
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God said, this is what you're going
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nobody at that time had basically even
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had an acupuncturist at that time.
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to profoundly help people.
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doing that, I wanted to be part of that.
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of weeks later and then gave notice
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China for a year to study at one of the.
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medical hospitals there.
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Tiananmen Square had occurred.
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world at that time, but life changing
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for, for having done that.
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for many, many years, I, you
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another certificate another award because
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then five minutes later, literally, I'd be
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Fantastic book written about that.
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called the gap and the gain.
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as well as looking forward because looking
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what the direction you want to head in.
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to feel good about itself, it also
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like three months, six months, years, it
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that your nervous system can go, oh, okay.
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and applying the tools that I'm so
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go on my website, I do have I'm starting
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because I hear from my clients on a
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think I've read every book on the planet.
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curious and I probably have over
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get a very customized program from
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extra help with nutrition.
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help with business goals.
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with relationship issues.
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are and then customize a program for them.
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to go onto my website consult Tara.
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fill out the 10 questions and, and
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interview, I'm going to.
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that I use and have found valuable for
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nothing makes me happier personally than
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:seeing people discard what no longer
serves them and claim a freer, happier
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:life because that spreads not only am I
helping you but you go on and help other
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:people, and that ripple effect can be
tremendous just smiling at somebody at
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a suicide and that's what we're here to
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the pivotal point for you and your
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of key points, but I, I do feel that
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included, you know, you, you peel
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lighter and so much healthier and so
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life happens and things come up and.
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if we look at them as opportunities
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pain that have to be suffered through,
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make a big difference all by itself.
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along the way definitely meditation.
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countless Joe Dispenza meditations.
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people prefer a different voice.
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:meditations available, but,
or, and sometimes you don't
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meditate in pure quiet.
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gotten the hang of it and you understand
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is coming into that stillness.
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quiet, and whatever is unquiet in there,
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it down, pressing against it, trying to
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my meditation teacher described it as,
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it to open like a flower in the sun.
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as like a knot in the body, and if you can
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than fighting it it often just lets go.
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is a big tool that I use.
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that all over the world.
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Hof 11 minute breath work he does a
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which has been viewed by I think almost
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know, not when you're driving.
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can relax and, and participate in that.
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worldwide in terms of notable figures
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in ice cold waters, but because of
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other people doing this, I stopped taking
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ago and in the winter time here, that
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:gets pretty crispy but it, it has such
tremendous effects on your hormones, on
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injected him, I believe with salmonella
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mean, he was a mail carrier in
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and ended up committing suicide.
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:He then was so distraught and in such
a horrible place that just out of sheer
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to regain his desire to live really his
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:sense of peace, his will to live and
in that state of cold and, you know,
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cubes, I've done this more than once,
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:and just go in that some people have
actual tubs outside that in the colder
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:weather get very chilly, some people
have regulated tubs which are quite
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conditions, you have to, you know,
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that that's not an issue for you.
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off the top of my head,
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is no such thing like is available
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you, you, by submersing yourself in a
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:cold tub, a cold plunge, some people call
them you, you have to get very present
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minutes in 47 degrees.
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Fahrenheit confused, but it's
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when, you know, both of them and.
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which is a good amount of time
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you, you can drop in, become fully, fully
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:You take the steps and do it at
whatever pace is right for you.
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Vimhof has an app for that.
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that's available to you is
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:forgiveness and gratitude.
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:The scientific evidence out
on that is also tremendous.
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to really master those because We often
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and a lot of not gratitude and sometimes
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that the last person, and I would
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well to forgive is often yourself.
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or something for somebody else, it's.
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poison every single day and
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that, but in the interest of time, I'm
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two amazing keys for instantly up
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keynote speaker on that.
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:Who's an author on my, Podcast
next level healing, you can
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on next level healing cause I've
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of life and different disciplines.
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really helpful for people, I'll interview
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:So I think we're getting close to running
out of time here, but I want to just
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focus is really critically important.
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:So if you're focused on failing, whatever
that looks like for you, then we tend to
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you think you can or think you can't.
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you can't accomplish something that
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:you're not worthy or you aren't
good enough, you will attract that.
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worthy about you, what is amazing about
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what is lovable about you, and really
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focus, your attention then it can grow.
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bad wolf and which one's going to survive.
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:As far as reading recommendations,
there are so many, I wouldn't
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find I recommend to my clients on
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is Loving What Is by Byron Katie.
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:If you are an audible person, you
will actually listen to her working
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in in some state of complete disarray
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they are laughing and completely
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magic that I do as well when I'm working
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:I, I am kind of a hybrid.
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nutritional medicine, hypnotherapy
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people on planet earth as far as rapid
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to be in a time where we get to
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little close to time here.
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:I just want to again, thank you so
much for having me on the program.
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offering a new free meditation.
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section of my website consult Tara.
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me at Nashville healer.
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currently enmeshed with, and step
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not inclusive of all the limitations.
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more, there's a button that says let's
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and heal within yourself.
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:already, or just have, then just
keep sharing it with a friend.
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:And remember, always keep
your unique light shining.