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Putting People First with Michelle Haimowitz
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Michelle Haimowitz, the executive director of Holy Ground PBC, discusses their mission to promote generational change and disrupt systems that suppress at-risk populations, specifically women and children. The program is a two to four-year program that focuses on building trust and creating generational change. They provide direct client care and have on-site resources such as a community suite and an afterschool program called the Learning Tree. The program addresses generational trauma and adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) through ACE-informed counseling and therapy. Michelle shares success stories of clients who have gained confidence, achieved academic success, and secured stable housing. Holy Ground PBC is privately funded through grants, community partnerships, and generous donors. The conversation covers topics such as post-case management, affordable housing, dual diagnosis, client-centered approach, good fit, language and vocabulary, education, housing crisis, and ways to help.

Takeaways

  • Holy Ground PBC promotes generational change and disrupts systems that suppress at-risk populations.
  • They provide direct client care and have on-site resources such as a community suite and an afterschool program called the Learning Tree.
  • The program addresses generational trauma and adverse childhood experiences (ACEs) through ACE-informed counseling and therapy.
  • Holy Ground PBC is privately funded through grants, community partnerships, and generous donors. Post-case management is provided to clients leaving the program to ensure sustainability and connect them with resources.
  • Affordable housing is a challenge to obtain, but some clients have successfully secured Section 8 housing.
  • The program focuses on client-centered approach and finding a good fit for both the client and the program.
  • Language and vocabulary are important in treating individuals with respect and avoiding stigmatization.
  • Education is a key factor in expanding opportunities for unhoused individuals.
  • The housing crisis in Florida is a major obstacle for individuals and families.
  • Ways to help include being empathetic, treating unhoused individuals with respect, and getting involved in programs and organizations that support them.

Titles

  • Success Stories of Empowered Clients
  • Addressing Generational Trauma and ACEs The Housing Crisis in Florida
  • Ways to Help Unhoused Individuals

Keywords

Holy Ground PBC, generational change, at-risk populations, direct client care, community suite, Learning Tree, generational trauma, ACEs, ACE-informed counseling, therapy, success stories, stable housing, grants, community partnerships, donors, post-case management, affordable housing, dual diagnosis, client-centered approach, good fit, language and vocabulary, education, housing crisis, ways to help

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Hey everyone, welcome to the second

episode of the Bloom Scrolling Podcast.

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We appreciate all your support so far.

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We're super excited to continue doing this

with y 'all.

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Today we're going to be interviewing

Michelle Hamowitz.

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She's the executive director of Holy

Ground PBC.

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Their mission is to promote generational

change and disrupt systems that suppress

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at -risk populations, which sounds super

badass.

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So thanks again for tuning in and we hope

you enjoy the episode.

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Here you go.

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Love like we're done

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Let's stay awake under the stars Pretend

the world is ours And love like we're

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dying

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I actually don't know very much at all.

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What I do know is that your program's in

Riviera Beach, which I didn't know, which

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is really cool because I used to live in

Riviera Beach and I know like that kind of

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demographic.

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So basically how I want to start is who

are you and what do you do?

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Okay, so I'm Michelle Hamowitz and I'm

currently the executive director of Holy

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Ground PBC.

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Our biggest goals are to promote

generational change and disrupt the

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systems that suppress our most at -risk

populations, specifically women and

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children.

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How did you get started in this work?

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Social work or this job particularly?

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Yeah, like what were you doing before?

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And then how did that lead you to what

you're doing right now?

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So, um...

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I don't know, my dad always said I wanted

to save the world when I was a kid.

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And while that might not be in my current

purview, I've always really loved social

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work and helping others.

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So I went to Florida State, got my

master's degree in social work, did some

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internships internationally, came home,

found a job in Broward serving veterans

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experiencing homelessness.

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I was really struggling, you know, just.

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I felt like maybe social work wasn't for

me.

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I felt out of touch and just burnt out, I

guess, you know?

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And my husband actually found this job for

me because he was sick of me coming home

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from work, just feeling so lost.

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And he was like, you know, I don't know if

you're qualified, but give it a shot.

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I applied.

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I got an interview and I just knew from

from then on, it was going to be amazing.

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It just felt like family.

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authentic and true.

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And I think those are really important

qualities in the job.

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So that's kind of how I found this and the

rest was history.

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That's amazing.

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That's super cool.

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Where, why didn't I know you like five

years ago when I was a homeless veteran?

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Are you connected?

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Do you have percentage?

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No, I was national guard.

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And like I tried to fight it a little bit

and then I just kind of gave up.

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But if you ever want any resources, I've

got a guy who is amazing.

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He can really help if you're interested.

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Hell, yeah.

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That's super cool.

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I guess we could probably link that stuff

to in the show notes for anybody else that

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is experienced.

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Yeah, any veterans experience in homeless

veterans in general needing any type of

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resources.

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It's a breeze to try to get veterans

percentages, money from the government,

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education, housing, subsidized housing.

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Home ownership programs, all types of

stuff.

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So if you've got anyone, you know, that's

not my current situation, but I can

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definitely help connect you with somebody

who could help.

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Yeah, we'll put it out there.

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Is that countrywide help or just in

Florida?

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Yeah, I don't see why not.

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It might not be it.

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I may not know all the resources

countrywide, but this is stuff that is

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pretty synonymous on the federal level,

especially with like.

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voucher housing vouchers and disability

connections.

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So yeah.

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Cool.

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I wanted to ask too, how direct is your

client care?

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Like how hands on are you with the women

that come through your program?

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Well, they live here.

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We have eight units here on this campus

that I'm on right now, which one of the

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apartments is used as our community suite.

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So our clients can come in if they need

some quiet.

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you know, place to apply for a job or have

an interview or meet with our case

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manager.

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We make it very welcoming in this

community suite so they can feel

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comfortable coming in anytime.

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We have like a pantry and a fridge and you

know, a lot of donations often we'll put

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out.

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And if someone wants the code to get

inside, they'll come inside, they'll do

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what they need and leave.

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So very direct, I guess.

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That's cool.

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What does your day to day look like?

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Oh goodness, I feel like it's so

different.

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And social work in general, it's always

such a different day.

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I think that's why I love it so much and

really just bringing it down to the

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mission.

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But I guess a typical day, a couple

different things, a lot of networking,

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going out and meeting community partners.

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Every week for the past three weeks, we've

had site visits every Friday.

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So for people who are interested in our

program, who want to come visit us.

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We'll set it up so they can meet with our

case manager and just our staff in

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general.

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So those are some days, professional

lunches, which is strange to me as well.

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It's very new.

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Timesheets, a lot of timesheets, hours,

signing off checks and paperwork.

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I really do miss the, I guess the case

management portion of it because I've kind

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of been taken away from that a little bit

because I have to have.

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you know, like 90 foot view from above,

like someone has to be steering the ship.

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A lot of pressure on that side over there

steering the ship as well.

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So there are definitely days where I miss

case management, just sitting down with a

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client, helping them figure out what they

need and what direction they want to go

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in.

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So really just every day is different,

truly.

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That's really cool.

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I'm looking at swapping to social work

major too, for that same reason.

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I work with...

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direct clients to him as a detox counselor

at Harmony.

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So just right in there and in acute detox,

like you never know what's going to

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happen.

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Like, seriously.

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Yeah, it can get a little wild.

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Yeah.

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So being in the being in the field, I

learned that like social work is probably

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the best way to lean to, you know, because

that opens so many different avenues, you

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know, like you're doing veterans.

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Yeah, exactly.

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So that's kind of the goal there.

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And we need more men.

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We do.

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I'm few and far between, I've noticed.

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You are.

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I don't know why that is.

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Are we out of touch?

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I don't know the reason.

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In the overview, you were talking about

the learning tree and how a lot of the

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women are single mothers and they have

children.

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Can you talk about that and how your

program addresses generational trauma?

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Okay, so those are big, giant questions.

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I'll kind of give you a back.

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of our program and I'll don't even get

distracted.

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I'm gonna try to get into the learning

tree too.

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So here's the spiel.

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So basically we are a two to four year

program which is quite different in the

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community.

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Most programs are about 90 days or three

months.

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And what we found is there's a lot of

turnaround.

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It's like a revolving door.

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You have clients come in, they get

services, they leave and they come right

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back.

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They're right back on the doorstep needing

just as much help or if not more than they

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needed before.

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So we've really found it takes a

significant time not only to build trust,

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but to create generational change as you

can imagine.

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So like I said, it's a two to four year

program.

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All of our women, all of our moms are

required to either work or go to school.

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I tell everybody progress is not linear.

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It does not happen in a straight line and

everyone's journey is different.

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And my whole point is, is if you leave

this program better than you came here,

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I'm happy.

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You know, if you're, if we want you to

leave here and not have to go to another

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program, depend on another community

resource, we want you to be independent

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and sustainable.

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And we want the same for your kids.

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And so on our other campus, the Learning

Tree, we have, just like we have a

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community suite here, one of our

apartments over at our WALS campus is used

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as the Learning Tree.

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It's an afterschool program, it's an

onsite tutoring center, and it's

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phenomenal.

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It's run by two volunteers, Pat and

Ginger.

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These girls like PB and J, I swear.

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They're amazing.

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When I first got this job, I thought they

were paid employees because they were here

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so much.

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So dedication, obvious.

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But anyway, so the kids will come in and

they run a program every Tuesdays and

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Thursdays.

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During the summer, it's more, they do a

lot of excursions, extracurriculars.

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And what is so cool about the Learning

Tree is that it's not just, yes, it's...

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an on -site tutoring center.

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They provide one -on -one attention to the

kids.

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They'll help parents understand the report

cards.

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They'll call teachers if they're finding

that a student needs a little extra push

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in a certain way.

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But not only that, they teach the children

emotional intelligence and emotional

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understanding, which is like far and few

between, I feel.

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And to learn that from such a young age,

like that's spectacular.

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So they have what's called the learning

tree.

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And every time that a child does something

nice or empathetic or encourages another

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student to do that, they get to put their

name on the learning tree.

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It's very exciting for them as well.

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And they do all kinds of stuff.

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They plant gardens, they learn to cook

from the food that they've grown, and it's

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just wrap around all around a program to

really...

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just fill all the gaps.

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You know, it's hard to be a single mom.

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It's hard to be a parent in general.

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And especially now with the housing

crisis, to be a single mom on one salary,

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trying to work, trying to go to school,

trying to better your life.

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You know, it can sometimes be hard to give

your kids all the stuff they need.

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So these two volunteers come in and they

really provide those extracurriculars.

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I mean, we have kids who even on off days,

they're crying.

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If Pat and Ginger are there, like maybe

even cleaning the learning tree, they're

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like.

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crying to go over there.

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It's ridiculous.

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It's adorable.

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So we really are promoting generational

change.

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And a big focus of ours is actually ACEs,

which are adverse childhood experiences.

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And many of our clients, many of our moms

come in.

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It's an amount of 10.

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You can get 10 ACEs.

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Most of our moms come upwards of six.

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And adverse childhood experiences can

negatively affect your ability to function

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in everyday life in the future.

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Some things that might have been effective

as a child, maybe some type of

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manipulation to get survival needs, which

was effective at the time, is no longer

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effective in everyday life as a parent, as

an employee, as a student, whatever it

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might be.

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And so our big goal is to help our clients

understand ACEs, understand their trauma.

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And once you can look at it with a clear

view, it's pretty incredible what can

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happen.

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You know, you're able to recognize the

triggers, you're able to recognize the

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traumas and they're able to avoid doing it

or avoid teaching that to their children.

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You know what I mean?

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So we have ACE informed counseling.

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So our moms are required to attend therapy

sessions twice a month.

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And if I could suggest anything to

everybody on this planet, it would be

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therapy.

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I don't know if you all are in therapy,

but if you're not, you should be.

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Even if, you know,

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People are like, well, I'm not sad or

nothing's wrong.

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And I'm like, that's not, that's not what

it's about.

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Like therapy is helping you to understand

yourself.

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And it's, it's like life coaching.

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My therapist would kill me for calling it

that, but I'm telling you like therapy is

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so important to understand your life, to

understand your reaction, to understand

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everything.

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Things that I thought were intrinsic or

things that I thought were biological for

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my behavior.

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In fact, I realized was simply something

that I learned.

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Um, so I truly believe that.

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Ace informed counseling, trauma informed

counseling are crucial for our residents

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of this program.

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We're really big believers in a feedback

loop.

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We're always asking for feedback from our

clients.

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We want to make sure that this program is

working for them.

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I am not a professional in their lives.

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They are.

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So I always make sure to ask what's

working or what's not working.

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And the one response that is consistent

across the board is Ms.

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Monique and her counseling sessions.

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We've had clients leave the program asking

to continue their therapy.

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So really effective and really good stuff.

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That's so cool.

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I like to see that the trauma -informed

care is going on everywhere.

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I know that that's something we learned is

really important to focus on and not even

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up until the last couple of years, which

is wild.

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But I just want to point out the crazy

parallel is the place that I'm going is a

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two to four month, not year, two to four

month women's facility where it's a

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treatment center for substance use

disorder, but their kids can live in

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there.

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up to age 12.

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And there's like nothing right.

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There's nothing else like that in this

state at least.

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So I'm really, really excited.

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And it's cool to hear that we're kind of

doing something similar, you know, helping

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single moms.

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Yeah, but like so often overlooked and so

many so under resourced.

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Is that a little word?

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I don't know.

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But yeah, yeah.

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Under resourced.

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Under resourced.

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Yeah.

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So I just think that's really cool.

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We're kind of

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going down the same avenue?

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It was really hard for me to come from

working with veterans to single moms.

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It was shocking to me the limited

resources available.

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I had top metrics at my last position in

regards to getting our veterans housed,

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connected with services and financial

assistance.

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And it's shocking to me how I've come from

that environment into this environment

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where I mean, I'm not sure.

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you know, how much you know, obviously

you're a veteran, so I hope you do know,

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but HUD -VASH, which is a section eight

program, so for affordable housing, it was

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a breeze.

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You know, you'd advocate for your veteran,

you'd get them into HUD -VASH, they'd have

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subsidized housing, and it was wonderful.

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I come here and you're thrown into the

lottery.

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There's, that's it, and it's crazy.

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I wish I knew the math behind it, like

what percentage of people who join the

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waiting list actually get selected.

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It is so rare.

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And you'd think that single mothers and

children would be at the top of the list,

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but it's shocking to me that there's not a

specific designated program like there

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would be for veterans, for our mothers,

you know, who are birthing the next

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generation.

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You know, how are we not providing them

with the best possible resources to create

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the

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the best generation, the best children

that we could possibly be.

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I mean, to think of the learning tree,

right?

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Who we are developing with our parents as

a team, emotionally intelligent children.

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I'm sure you guys have seen like, well,

maybe not, I don't know, maybe it's my

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TikTok, but these TikToks of these young

kids coming out and they're like

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explaining their emotions or how they feel

as their dad is like yelling at them for

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something.

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And I'm looking at this and I'm like,

what?

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That's amazing.

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That is a skill that will take you so far

in life, like to be able to, instead of

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react, to think and then have a reaction.

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You know, it's, it's not a reaction, you

know, it's thought and it's planned and,

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and that all comes from emotional

intelligence and raising smart, strong,

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you know, young adults.

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This is more pieces.

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Wait, what was that?

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I just think there'd be more resources.

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It would only benefit everybody to have

that taxpayer dollars.

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I mean, everything.

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I've always had the thought that, and

maybe this is a little farfetched because

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I don't love relying on the government,

but shouldn't it be a responsibility of

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our education system to teach emotional

intelligence?

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And I've always wondered why that's not a

thing.

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I'm telling you, a couple years it will

be.

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People are, I think this new generation,

this Gen Z and all these new generations

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are very in touch with emotions and like

what life is all about.

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And so I really think that, I think we'll

see that soon.

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And I hope so.

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Because it's, that's crucial.

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You know, fingers crossed.

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Do you have any client stories?

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Any success stories?

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Oh yeah.

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Absolutely.

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It's my favorite part.

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Like I said, success is not linear.

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It doesn't happen in a straight line.

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We have clients who have come into this

program from very different circumstances.

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They take very different paths.

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So I'll give you an example.

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I know she wouldn't mind me sharing her

name, so I am gonna share her name.

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Her name is Nyree, and she is amazing.

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She came into this program, not a lot of

direction, very little confidence, self

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-reported, very little confidence.

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And came to this program just not really

knowing what to do.

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She was driving illegally, no driver's

license, no insurance, all that good

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stuff.

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And we were like, right, okay, you need to

get your driver's license.

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We can't be letting you drive around

illegally.

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It's a risk to you, risk to your children,

risk to the environment, whatever.

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She got her driver's license after a lot

of work and here was a level up.

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So she got her driver's license, she had

this little level up.

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And it's this point where she's never

gonna look back at that.

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She's got her driver's license, she

secured it and her confidence took this

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boost.

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And...

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Slowly but surely, wins like this continue

to happen.

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And now we've got a client who is, who has

taken a culinary class, has now been

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placed in an upscale, why do I always

forget the name of this, upscale, what are

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those fancy neighborhoods called?

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Why can't I think of one of those fancy

neighborhoods?

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She's at an upscale restaurant, absolutely

killing the game.

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And not only that,

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She's now been offered board of director

roles.

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She has spoken at events and she's now an

advocate for clients like her who have

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been nervous about utilizing, you know,

programs like ours.

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We had a referral from her that emailed us

and was like, you know, I've seen Nyree

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and I was afraid to do something like

this, but after seeing her huge successes,

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I want a piece of that.

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And that's pretty incredible.

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And that's pretty moving.

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And then we've had clients who, um, client

came in, no GED, really wasn't sure what

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she wanted to do, got her GED, got her

medical assistance certification, and is

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now trying to find a vocation in, or a job

in medical assistance.

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And it's just, it's incredible to watch

these wins and these clients who have come

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from a very, a place of very little

confidence to knowing that they are

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hustling, they are killing the game.

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They are.

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opening doors, running through them,

slamming them shut behind them.

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And I swear to God, they are never looking

back.

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These clients are just, it's like a level

up.

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I don't know.

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Like you can't ever go back.

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We have a client who came in and was

really nervous about asking about going to

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school.

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And it's the same thing I said to y 'all.

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Like she knows she has to pay rent and,

and, you know, go to work and all.

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And she was really nervous to talk to us

about possibly doing something part time

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so that she could go to school part time.

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And I just was like, this is perfect.

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You're amazing.

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Like, don't be nervous to ask for these

things.

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That's what this program is for.

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And again, as long as you leave this

program better than you ended up, better

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than you arrived here, I am happy.

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We've had clients who come from

experiencing homelessness to leaving our

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program and becoming homeowners.

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We have children who have gone from

scoring below academic standard to

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achieving honor roll.

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It's, I mean, it's proofs in the pudding,

you know?

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I mean, it's pretty incredible.

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So yeah, those are some of the wins and I

could go probably on and on, but those are

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just a quick snippet of them.

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What does funding look like?

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If I think of any more, I reserve the

right to yell them in.

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Yeah, definitely.

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Please.

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Yeah, it's super gratifying.

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I know the feeling.

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So it's really exciting to see the

progress and it takes as long as it takes,

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you know, meet them where they're at.

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It takes as long as it takes.

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Yup.

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That's right.

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Even baby steps is like better, better

than anything else.

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So.

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Okay.

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Can we just talk about how getting your

documents in on time is a huge win?

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Paying rent is a huge win.

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Communicating what you want is a huge win.

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Are clients learning to advocate for

themselves?

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We have a client who, she was on her mom's

food stamps, moved into our program, so

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she has to have her own case.

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Really nervous to go to the DMV and talk

to them about her case.

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And our case manager was like, look them

in the eye and speak boldly and advocate

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for yourself.

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And she did, she got her own case.

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And it might seem simple to you or I or to

someone who's looking this on the outside,

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but this is a girl who couldn't make eye

contact.

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She couldn't speak above a whisper.

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and she was in the line of the DMV for

hours, looked them in the face and

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advocated for her case.

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Now, I'm only wondering, with this small

win, how many more times is this gonna

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happen for her?

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Where she realizes it's in her best

interest to advocate for herself, to be

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bold, to speak up and advocate.

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And so these small wins are just simply

growing and growing to develop someone who

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is confident.

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assured and just absolutely ready to take

on life.

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You know, that's, it's the small things

that are huge.

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That's good stuff.

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That's good stuff right there.

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Thank you.

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I love that.

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I love the excitement as you're sharing

that.

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Like I can tell that you're truly

passionate.

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Wait, sorry.

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No, I'm sorry.

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This guy, one of our community partners

had come in to do a site visit and I just

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like,

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I don't know, I get on a roll.

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I get so hyped about these women and just

like what they do.

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And he's like, girl, preach it.

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You sound like you're preaching.

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And I was like, God, I just get, I get so

hyped about just what we've got going on

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here.

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And I truly believe in the work that we're

doing, you know, give me one second.

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I have to turn the AC thing off.

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It's really loud.

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I was asking before, but what does the

funding look like?

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What do you mean?

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Like where do our funders come from?

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Yeah, like, um,

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Do you have a foundation behind you?

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What's happening there?

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I don't I don't know if I know what I'm

talking about, but I'm just going to roll

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with it.

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I'll kind of tell you how it works.

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So we are not government funded.

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While I do very much believe in government

funding and the programs that they have,

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such as Housing First, which basically

means that no matter your circumstances,

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no matter if you have a job, if you have

substance use issues, whatever it is,

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Housing First.

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get you into housing, everything else kind

of falls into place after that.

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And while that's an incredible program, we

all have our niche.

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And so because we're not government

funded, we're able to be a little bit more

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flexible.

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Like for example, certain programs and

government funding have to do certain

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things or accept certain clientele.

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We can be very flexible with.

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what we do because we're not stuck to the

same type of rules as government funding

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would be.

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So we're privately funded.

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We have community partners.

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So we apply for grants in the community.

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That's why we do some of the site visits.

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We'll have grantors, which really we

should call them community partners, are

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coming in to view our program to see if

it's worth funding, basically, and to see

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if it's a good community partnership.

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And so we'll get grants through that.

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And then we have very generous donors who

are willing to take their money and

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contribute it to our program.

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We also have a bi -monthly giving program

for those in the community who maybe just

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want to send like small donations on a bi

-monthly basis.

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We'll send you a little no card or remind

you to do it and stuff like that.

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So we have a lot of different avenues of

funding.

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We also have a partnership with the court

system for

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Reunification Family Treatment Court.

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Basically, we have families who are at

reunification but simply cannot because

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they do not have a stable housing.

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So we have a partnership with the court

system so that we have two of the units

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that we rent out to them so they can help

reunify families.

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So it's discounted rent and so we have

some income through that.

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That's cool.

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We'll link the donation in the show notes.

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Because people should give.

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Yeah, I can give you our link.

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:

After the women leave your program, do you

have other community based programs that

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you refer them to where they can access a

support system?

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So we have what's called our graduate

program.

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So three months post.

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leaving our program, they still receive

case management.

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They can always be recertified if they

need more or would prefer like longer case

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management.

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And the whole goal of this is to make sure

that it's to sustainability, right?

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We want to make sure that this client can

sustain themselves in the environment.

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So we do three months of post -case

management.

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We connect them with resources like, so

for example, we have a client leaving

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right now.

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I know I said Section 8 is so hard to get

and like it's a million and one type of

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thing.

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One of our clients actually did get it.

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And I didn't want to say that at first

because I didn't want it to seem like it

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was so easy to get.

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But she's been here for a couple years and

she didn't get it, which is like

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ridiculously exciting.

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So she's able to move into affordable

housing.

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So this independent living model.

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So she's going to leave our program for

three months.

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She will still have case management,

therapy, all that good stuff.

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that comes with our program.

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And of course, upon exit, we'll make sure

that she's connected with different

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community resources.

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So for example, the LIHEAP program, the

low income, low income energy assistance,

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I'm missing the H, I don't know, low

income something energy assistance

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program.

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So basically it subsidizes utilities.

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So we'll just make sure that whenever the

client leaves, the mom leaves, the family

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leaves, they're able to access resources

that they need.

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But like I said, the whole goal is for

them to lead this program and not,

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need another intensive program.

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So yes, we provide continued case

management and make sure that our families

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are sustainable.

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Our whole goal is to stop that revolving

door, you know?

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And you know, our clients, it's

generational, like generations and

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generations of families, you know, are

dependent on programs and do the same

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thing that their mom did or their father

did.

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And our whole goal is to show them it

doesn't have, it can be like that if you

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want it to be like that, whatever you

want, you know, that's client centered.

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There's other options out there.

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And so our whole goal is to enlighten our

clients, just to educate our clients, to

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show them that their potential is as large

as they want it to be.

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:

There was something else I was going to

say and I lost it.

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:

I'm so bummed.

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I'm sure it'll come back to me though.

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:

It'll come back.

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:

So do you guys, are you dual diagnosis or

is that more of a term that we use in

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substance use disorder treatment?

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We do not diagnose.

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If that's what that means.

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I mean, dual diagnosis, I know what that

means, but I don't know what it means in

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the situation that you're basically like

treating somebody with like acute mental

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health issues on top of like active

addiction or active alcoholism or

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something.

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No.

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Okay.

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:

Right.

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:

So, um, we, um, we're not so intensive,

you know, our program is supposed to be

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sort of like a building block.

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Um, so we do not have like a substance use

counselor on staff.

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So if we have someone in the.

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current throws of substance use trauma

issues, we won't accept them into our

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program.

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And simply not because we don't want to, I

would love to.

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We don't have Narcan in the office.

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We do not have a substance use counselor.

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So it would not be appropriate for us to

take a client such as that because it

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wouldn't be safe.

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It would put that client at risk.

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It would put their children at risk.

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It would put our program and our other

moms at risk.

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So, um...

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We try to, we would connect them with

other community resources, but they would

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not be in our program.

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:

Yeah.

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:

Yeah.

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That makes sense.

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They'd go someplace like us for 28 days or

30 days.

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Take care of that.

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That's the most important thing right

there is getting that out of their life

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and starting that recovery journey.

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It's kind of like, it's kind of like

trying to take new like antidepressants

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while like drinking.

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lots and lots of alcohol and like

wondering why the antidepressants don't

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work.

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And it's like, well, you're drinking a

depressive and you're inactive alcoholism.

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Our whole goal is to fit the need.

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You know, I really don't like this whole

idea of not accepting a client or, you

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:

know, whatever.

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:

And I'm a very big advocate of proper

vocabulary.

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It's very important to me that our team

uses correct vocabulary.

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So for example, person first language.

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You don't have an autistic person.

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You have a person who has autism.

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Person first language comes first.

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That way you don't put this person in a

box.

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Like for example, I never say a homeless

person.

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I will not say a homeless woman.

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I will not say a homeless mom.

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I will say a mom or a person experiencing

homeless because homelessness is not

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forever.

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It is a situational experience.

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It does not define the person.

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And I brought this up for a certain

reason.

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I'm trying to remember why.

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I think it's the good fit thing.

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:

And so.

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We used to call basically our intake

process.

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There are a couple steps.

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We're a little bit longer than the typical

agency because we're not an emergency

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:

shelter.

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We are long -term transitional housing.

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:

So we used to call it interviews.

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You had to have three interviews in the

intake process with a few of our staff

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:

members.

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First thing I did when I got here is

change that to consultations because we're

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not interviewing you to make sure that you

are good enough for us.

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We want to make sure that we're good

enough for you too.

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:

We want to make sure that we're a good

fit, that we're not going to have you in

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:

this program and realize, oh, this isn't a

good fit and have to uproot your whole

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:

life again.

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:

So the whole goal of this program and our

consultations and the language that we use

631

:

is all to make sure it's a good fit.

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:

We don't want to take someone who is in

the absolute throws of the substance use

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:

issue because we're not readily available

to handle the extensive need, whereas your

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:

program...

635

:

Sounds like it definitely would be.

636

:

And so we wouldn't want to, it's like

putting on a shoe that doesn't fit.

637

:

You know, we just want to make sure it's a

good fit so that it's comfortable for

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:

everybody.

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:

And, you know, the best opportunities to

be successful, you know, we're building,

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:

we are a building block to help you get

there.

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:

We are not here to keep you down or put

you in a box.

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:

Like we are just here to lift you up and

it needs to be a good fit for that.

643

:

You know, you have to want it.

644

:

So more than we do.

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:

I would buy your motivational interviewing

tapes or something if you did some Tony

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:

Robbins thing.

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:

I love that you know the terminology.

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:

That's good stuff.

649

:

Oh, I've seen so many classes.

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:

I use it all the time.

651

:

Dude, you can use Motiv.

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:

Anybody can use motivational interviewing.

653

:

I don't care if you work in clinical or

whatever setting, but it's such an

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:

effective tool.

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:

Like I find myself using it in daily life.

656

:

You know, it's super cool.

657

:

So look it up.

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:

Look it up.

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:

There's

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:

plenty of stuff on YouTube about it.

661

:

This program, it's 50 -50.

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:

You have to, we cannot, our job is not

here to motivate you.

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:

Obviously we want to recognize that

there's trauma and trauma can sometimes

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:

rear its ugly face in a way that looks

like a lack of motivation or laziness.

665

:

And obviously we recognize that we would

never want to pose a barrier.

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:

And at the end of the day, I mean, it's

like you said, it's all about motivation.

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:

It's all about 50 -50.

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:

It's all about, do you want it?

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:

Cause...

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:

I'm not here to want it more than you.

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:

We had a client actually, I'll just tell

you a little funny story.

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:

We had a client come in and like I said,

everyone's path is different, linear.

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:

We had a client for a while who wasn't

paying rent.

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:

She wasn't, she's off track.

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:

She was getting off track and I think she

was talking about it with some other

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:

clients, which can be, it happens, you

know, but it causes us, puts us in a

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:

little bit of a pickle, you know, cause

she's coming in and she's like, well, this

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:

client's not paying rent.

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:

Why do I have to pay rent?

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:

And.

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:

I'm like, well, it's up to you.

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:

When I first met you, I could clearly see

that you were going places.

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:

You were going to make something of

yourself.

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:

I can see it.

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:

I got your energy.

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:

I knew it.

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:

From the frigging start, I saw you.

688

:

You're going to kill the game.

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:

So now you're coming to us with this

issue.

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:

And I can understand.

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:

It's frustrating.

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:

And it's up to you.

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:

Do you want to set your bar there?

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:

Do you want to set your bar higher?

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:

It's up to you.

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:

The choice is yours.

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:

You can set your bar wherever you want.

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:

Now, I know where I see your bar because I

know how credible you are and what you can

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:

do.

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:

And like I said, from the moment I met

you, I knew you were right for this

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:

program and you would make something

yourself.

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:

Like, you're amazing.

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:

So, choice is yours.

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:

And I'm a very stubborn person.

705

:

I think my dad would probably tell you

that for sure.

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:

I was stubborn growing up, stubborn now.

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:

I don't like for people to tell me what to

do.

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:

I usually do the opposite.

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:

And so I really try to use that

understanding with our clients.

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:

Like, it's all about choice, all about

choice and change.

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:

I don't believe in consequences.

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:

I believe in natural consequences.

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:

I believe in rewarding and natural

consequences.

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:

Consequences that come up based on your

actions, not because that we're telling

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:

you that this is bad or you shouldn't be

doing it that way.

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:

I find that that can be so much more

effective when someone makes the choice on

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:

their own, you know?

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:

Yeah, that's awesome.

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:

I'm glad to see the shift from like, oh,

we're going to teach you by giving you

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:

consequences, telling you you're you're

fucking up.

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:

You know, you're not doing this right

rather than rewarding good behavior.

722

:

You know, like that's so much more

effective.

723

:

That's why I like to see drug court.

724

:

There needs to be more drug court and not

that it's perfect.

725

:

But yeah, just being able to reinforce the

positive behaviors, you know, and

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:

empowering them to like make their own

decisions and do the right thing.

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:

Do you want to come work for me?

728

:

Like.

729

:

Do I come join this team?

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:

Because I love your vibe.

731

:

I'm loving this.

732

:

You don't have a substance use disorder

counselor.

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:

So yeah.

734

:

Yeah, we'll talk.

735

:

It's Florida though.

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:

And you don't have AC.

737

:

You're not really.

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:

No, we do have AC.

739

:

It's just not central.

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:

I just have a box, an AC box over there.

741

:

It's noisy.

742

:

I swear we have AC.

743

:

Our clients would be like, not happy if we

did not have AC.

744

:

That sounds bad.

745

:

Is it nice where you're at?

746

:

Where is this place?

747

:

Riviera Beach?

748

:

Is that what you said?

749

:

Yeah, it's um, gosh, I don't know how

honest I should answer that question.

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:

It's not great.

751

:

I lived there.

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:

Can I say because I live there.

753

:

We had a stabbing in our gated community

in Riviera Beach.

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:

Is that okay to say?

755

:

Do you think that sums it up?

756

:

I mean, whatever.

757

:

I mean, it's the truth.

758

:

Like,

759

:

So I'll show you my view really quick.

760

:

So I don't know if y 'all can see it, but

here, let me unplug you first.

761

:

So I have a view of the street, you know,

right outside campus.

762

:

And that's an empty lot out there.

763

:

And I feel what, whenever there's an empty

lot, there's danger.

764

:

You know, in South Florida, it's like you

turn a left and you're in a great area,

765

:

take a right and nod.

766

:

So.

767

:

Or cross a bridge.

768

:

Right.

769

:

Northwood is right there.

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:

Northwood's.

771

:

they're really developing Northwood, you

know, so.

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:

Have you noticed the homeless problem

getting better or worse in Florida in the

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:

past few years?

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:

So I wouldn't even call it a homeless

problem.

775

:

I'd call it a housing problem.

776

:

Oh, sorry.

777

:

No, not at all.

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:

It's a housing problem.

779

:

It's a crisis.

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:

I mean, I'm on, my husband and I both make

decent money.

781

:

He makes better money, obviously.

782

:

But we both make decent money, dual

income, and we're trying to buy a house.

783

:

And what used to be

784

:

you know, $500 ,000 is a million dollars.

785

:

What used to be $100 ,000 is nonexistent.

786

:

You know what I mean?

787

:

So it's, it's the housing crisis is a big

problem.

788

:

I mean, really, if I can barely afford

things with a joint income with my

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:

husband, how on earth is a single mother

raising children, mouths to feed, going to

790

:

school and trying to work?

791

:

How is it even possible?

792

:

The math doesn't math.

793

:

Do you think income is the biggest

detriment to unhoused women or do you

794

:

think it's a combination of not having

substance use resources or past trauma?

795

:

Interesting.

796

:

All right, don't quote me on it, because I

wouldn't say I'm a professional, but I

797

:

would definitely say education.

798

:

That's a big goal of our program is

education.

799

:

We really try to get our clients connected

to vocational, educational resources,

800

:

because we really want to broaden the

horizon.

801

:

You come in with no GED, you're getting

minimum wage.

802

:

So our goal is 90 % of our clients who

successfully graduate from our program

803

:

have their GED or equivalent high school

diploma.

804

:

So I really feel that expanding education

expands your opportunities.

805

:

But it's, I mean, really at the end of the

day, Florida is expensive.

806

:

South Florida is insane.

807

:

We're on that, one of those lists, you

know, where housing is so expensive, you

808

:

want to free and shove your head in a

hole.

809

:

You know, don't come to Florida.

810

:

Or Colorado, don't come here either.

811

:

Well, it's cold there.

812

:

I don't know if we want to go there

anyway.

813

:

Hey, planning people apparently.

814

:

Yeah, I guess so.

815

:

I wound up here.

816

:

Yeah, I think it's no.

817

:

Gone.

818

:

What?

819

:

Oh, I was just gonna dovetail into what

you're saying.

820

:

It's kind of it's income.

821

:

It's education.

822

:

I mean, it's it's generational.

823

:

It's it's where you raised in poverty, you

know, like what was your childhood like

824

:

adverse experiences?

825

:

Like you said, it's it.

826

:

I feel like the worst of it is a

combination of all of that.

827

:

So I mean, it's

828

:

to treat that, that's gonna be a big thing

to undertake, but I think treating it in

829

:

each way rather than just saying, all

right, we gotta solve the income problem.

830

:

I mean, that's still not gonna fix it.

831

:

It's looking at a person as a whole.

832

:

You can't just look at a part of it.

833

:

I love that.

834

:

Oh my God, you're amazing.

835

:

I love where you're at with this.

836

:

That's so great.

837

:

Thank you.

838

:

You have such a great mindset about...

839

:

where the issues lie and how to approach

some of these things.

840

:

It's not, it is wraparound services.

841

:

You cannot look at a symptom by itself.

842

:

You have to see the entire setting.

843

:

You know what I mean?

844

:

You just can't solve a problem with one

piece of the puzzle.

845

:

You gotta have all the puzzle pieces.

846

:

She's being nice to me.

847

:

I don't know what to do.

848

:

Thank you.

849

:

Right.

850

:

This is one of your traumatic responses.

851

:

You're not used to it.

852

:

I'm going to therapy every week, too.

853

:

We're getting there.

854

:

Shout out to Micah, my homie.

855

:

I love him.

856

:

He's coming to my wedding when I have it.

857

:

Your therapist that you said would murder

you, your murderous therapist.

858

:

Wait, why did I say he'd murder me?

859

:

For what?

860

:

What did I say?

861

:

For calling him a life coach.

862

:

Oh, yeah, he would not be happy with that.

863

:

He's like, it's just called therapy.

864

:

And I'm like, for people who are funny

about that word, you know, therapy,

865

:

they're like, something's wrong with me.

866

:

I'm like, no, it's just life is hard.

867

:

Help you navigate it.

868

:

So yeah, him Micah.

869

:

Amazing.

870

:

Go Micah.

871

:

My man Stephanie.

872

:

She's cool.

873

:

So we have about five minutes left or so.

874

:

So if you wanted to give a shout out to

any

875

:

other programs that you think are doing

good work, any links available or anything

876

:

where people can get involved and help you

guys.

877

:

This is your moment.

878

:

Okay, so I want to hit two things on there

because I actually read one of these

879

:

questions before we got on here and it was

about who do I look up to most?

880

:

I really I'm very excited for this

question.

881

:

I want to hit these two people.

882

:

Number one, Ricky Aiken.

883

:

He is from the streets.

884

:

He is making incredible

885

:

freaking change in this community.

886

:

Inner City Innovators, amazing program,

doing amazing work.

887

:

And then we've got Jeff DiMario, who is,

other than my husband, maybe the love of

888

:

my life.

889

:

Love that guy.

890

:

He runs Vita Nova, a program for youth.

891

:

Incredible program, incredible guy.

892

:

If I want to be someone when I grow up,

it's him.

893

:

To have authentic and crucial

conversations from a place of love is a

894

:

skill that I am like trying so hard to

have.

895

:

And he just naturally is so amazing at it.

896

:

So shout out to both them.

897

:

They're incredible inner city innovators

and Vita Nova, amazing CEOs, amazing

898

:

programs, just properly amazing people

doing amazing stuff.

899

:

Our program, you can find us on Facebook,

Instagram, although we do need a little

900

:

facelift on Instagram and Facebook.

901

:

So if any social media interns out there

want to help us, we'd be very, very

902

:

grateful.

903

:

Holy Ground PBC, we are interfaith, we are

not faith -based, and we're really doing

904

:

very good work.

905

:

You guys can donate, we have a donate page

on our website.

906

:

We're in a desperate need for volunteers,

second and fourth Wednesdays of each month

907

:

we have life skills and girl talk classes

and we need babysitters for our kids.

908

:

Sometimes our moms are trying to work nine

to five jobs.

909

:

daycare is closed at 530.

910

:

They have to take two buses and they can't

pick up their kids in time.

911

:

So we have a serious need for babysitters

and just like people who are ready to be

912

:

here and disrupt the systems that suppress

our most at risk.

913

:

That's what we're looking for.

914

:

I love that.

915

:

It's such a cool mission statement.

916

:

Not good.

917

:

Right?

918

:

Yeah.

919

:

It's like my tagline.

920

:

Did you come up with that?

921

:

I'm trying to remember how it's on my

LinkedIn.

922

:

I've had it on my LinkedIn for so long.

923

:

I want to take credit for it because it's

so good.

924

:

I just, I'm sure I've seen it somewhere, I

would say, but can I just take credit for

925

:

it for it anyway?

926

:

Yeah, it's yours.

927

:

Yeah.

928

:

Thank you.

929

:

You know, the reason I wrote that is

because I felt like saying our mission

930

:

statement to, you know, just wasn't strong

enough.

931

:

Like literally we are disrupting the

systems that suppress our most at risk

932

:

populations.

933

:

That's just moving, you know?

934

:

Motivational.

935

:

Even.

936

:

Yeah, it goes along with your motivational

speaking.

937

:

I love that.

938

:

Yeah.

939

:

How can like a normal person help?

940

:

Let's say they they can't donate right

now, but they want to help.

941

:

What's something that they can do even if

they don't live there?

942

:

Like how about like the way that they

treat the on -house population, for

943

:

example, or something that they could do

population?

944

:

I love that.

945

:

That's so good.

946

:

Um,

947

:

Recognize your language.

948

:

Be empathetic.

949

:

Remember that it's situational and not

forever.

950

:

You can be that one person that makes a

difference in someone's life by giving

951

:

them a smile, looking them in the face.

952

:

Even if you don't have money, a smile and

a good luck, I hope you're doing okay

953

:

today.

954

:

Freaking human respect is what I would

say.

955

:

And if you're local and you're a female

and you want a mentor, come on over.

956

:

Hell yeah.

957

:

Hell yeah.

958

:

So I got any closers from you or do you

have any questions for us?

959

:

Well, I had one which is kind of

pretentious, but I wanted to know if you

960

:

had read anything good recently.

961

:

Or do you have a book that you love?

962

:

Yes.

963

:

Okay.

964

:

I'm reading one right now that I didn't

think I was going to like that much.

965

:

My husband is so perfect.

966

:

He every once in a while he'll gift me a

book and I love the books he gets me

967

:

because they're kind of...

968

:

Out of my normal vibe, I just really love

Greek mythology, so I read a lot of that.

969

:

He'll throw some random stuff in there and

it's hit or miss, but this most recent one

970

:

is so freaking moving.

971

:

It's called The Last Lecture.

972

:

I'm an idiot for not knowing the author

and I'm sorry, Google it, it's out there.

973

:

The Last Lecture, and it's about this

professor, this lecturer who was diagnosed

974

:

with terminal pancreatic cancer, and he

has the opportunity to give one last

975

:

lecture.

976

:

And he asks, he's really struggling to

find the answer.

977

:

And like, how do you possibly...

978

:

culminate life into one last lecture and

he brought it down to what makes me

979

:

unique.

980

:

And that question is obviously very

thought provoking for everyone internally.

981

:

And then he says the thing that makes him

unique is that he has accomplished every

982

:

single one of his childhood dreams.

983

:

And then he goes through the list of

childhood dreams, each of his chapters,

984

:

and it's pretty phenomenal.

985

:

And it just makes you think, what are your

childhood dreams?

986

:

What did you dream about when you were a

kid and where are you at now?

987

:

And how does that correlate and connect?

988

:

And what are the parallels there?

989

:

And

990

:

This whole idea of positivity and family,

you know, he has a family and they're all

991

:

dealing with this diagnosis and they're

respecting his wishes of throwing himself

992

:

into his last lecture.

993

:

So it's just this beautiful combination of

family, faith, faith in yourself,

994

:

recognizing your dreams, what makes you

unique and just taking on life.

995

:

So it's really good.

996

:

I haven't finished it yet.

997

:

It's really, really good.

998

:

I love that.

999

:

That's a good answer.

:

00:48:29,786 --> 00:48:32,046

I'll look into it.

:

00:48:32,046 --> 00:48:34,146

It's so uplifting.

:

00:48:34,346 --> 00:48:34,986

It's shocking.

:

00:48:34,986 --> 00:48:36,686

I didn't think it would be so uplifting.

:

00:48:36,686 --> 00:48:38,326

It's so uplifting.

:

00:48:38,326 --> 00:48:42,646

I'm like one of those people who's like

itching to read my book when I get home.

:

00:48:43,046 --> 00:48:44,166

You know, Hey, this is you.

:

00:48:44,166 --> 00:48:45,006

You do that.

:

00:48:45,006 --> 00:48:46,296

Yeah, she does that.

:

00:48:46,296 --> 00:48:48,526

It's great to see it.

:

00:48:48,526 --> 00:48:50,426

Yeah.

:

00:48:50,486 --> 00:48:52,226

How about y 'all any like book

suggestions?

:

00:48:52,226 --> 00:48:54,166

I'm totally open.

:

00:48:54,946 --> 00:48:56,046

Well,

:

00:48:56,046 --> 00:49:03,086

I've been reading a little bit of George

Saunders recently, and I don't know too

:

00:49:03,086 --> 00:49:03,686

much about him.

:

00:49:03,686 --> 00:49:08,286

He's a professor at Syracuse, but he

writes all these little weird short

:

00:49:08,286 --> 00:49:09,056

stories.

:

00:49:09,056 --> 00:49:12,536

I think he won the MacArthur Genius Grant

or something.

:

00:49:12,536 --> 00:49:18,006

One of my friends recommended him to me,

and he's really funny and really witty.

:

00:49:18,006 --> 00:49:22,478

And he has this short story called Fox

Eight, which is like...

:

00:49:22,478 --> 00:49:27,878

the weirdest thing that you'll ever read,

but moving and also hilarious.

:

00:49:27,878 --> 00:49:32,798

And if you look that up, it's really, it's

really something.

:

00:49:32,798 --> 00:49:33,728

That sounds good.

:

00:49:33,728 --> 00:49:34,918

I will look it up.

:

00:49:36,654 --> 00:49:38,894

Yeah.

:

00:49:39,154 --> 00:49:40,114

Cool.

:

00:49:40,114 --> 00:49:45,314

If you had to bring what, like an album,

this is the worst last question ever, but

:

00:49:45,314 --> 00:49:46,394

I didn't look at anything.

:

00:49:46,394 --> 00:49:49,844

But like one album to what is it?

:

00:49:49,844 --> 00:49:53,434

The proverbial desert island that you're

just going to die in and you can't pull

:

00:49:53,434 --> 00:49:56,934

some Tom Hanks shit and you have to listen

to this on repeat forever.

:

00:49:56,934 --> 00:49:57,834

Oh my God.

:

00:49:57,834 --> 00:49:58,454

You know what?

:

00:49:58,454 --> 00:49:59,384

I was really impressed.

:

00:49:59,384 --> 00:50:00,554

I had a book answer.

:

00:50:00,554 --> 00:50:02,394

Now you're killing me with this.

:

00:50:02,594 --> 00:50:04,274

It's off the cuff.

:

00:50:04,274 --> 00:50:05,518

It's off the cuff.

:

00:50:05,518 --> 00:50:08,478

I am the shallowest music person on the

face of the planet.

:

00:50:08,478 --> 00:50:10,298

I'm just like, whatever.

:

00:50:10,958 --> 00:50:11,778

You know what?

:

00:50:11,778 --> 00:50:13,258

What song I would die on?

:

00:50:13,258 --> 00:50:14,658

American Pie.

:

00:50:14,978 --> 00:50:17,958

I just know every single word, every

single lyric.

:

00:50:17,958 --> 00:50:19,038

I don't know.

:

00:50:19,038 --> 00:50:20,338

It's as a kid.

:

00:50:20,338 --> 00:50:20,928

I don't know.

:

00:50:20,928 --> 00:50:22,258

It's one song.

:

00:50:22,838 --> 00:50:23,938

I wish I had time to think of this

question.

:

00:50:23,938 --> 00:50:25,698

Don McQueen, right?

:

00:50:25,698 --> 00:50:26,818

Yeah.

:

00:50:26,818 --> 00:50:27,828

That's so funny.

:

00:50:27,828 --> 00:50:30,038

Do you want to close singing it?

:

00:50:30,038 --> 00:50:30,838

Bye.

:

00:50:30,858 --> 00:50:33,538

I don't want to hear my voice.

:

00:50:33,582 --> 00:50:34,702

It's shocking.

:

00:50:34,702 --> 00:50:35,152

I'm scary.

:

00:50:35,152 --> 00:50:38,182

I could really send my ABCs with a tune.

:

00:50:38,302 --> 00:50:39,102

Cool.

:

00:50:39,102 --> 00:50:40,282

Well, thank you so much.

:

00:50:40,282 --> 00:50:41,692

This was really awesome.

:

00:50:41,692 --> 00:50:44,602

I think we got into some good stuff.

:

00:50:44,602 --> 00:50:47,022

We got into ways people can help.

:

00:50:47,182 --> 00:50:49,422

So thanks for taking the time to do this.

:

00:50:49,422 --> 00:50:50,662

We appreciate it.

:

00:50:50,662 --> 00:50:51,762

Yeah, it's a good vibe.

:

00:50:51,762 --> 00:50:53,762

I really enjoyed it.

:

00:50:53,822 --> 00:50:59,302

And I just think it's really cool because

we're really trying to connect with a

:

00:50:59,302 --> 00:51:01,042

younger population.

:

00:51:01,422 --> 00:51:02,926

We have a lot of older...

:

00:51:02,926 --> 00:51:06,106

women and men who are involved with our

program, but I'd really like to see some

:

00:51:06,106 --> 00:51:11,806

of my community, you know, 20s, 30s,

whatever, you know, a little bit more

:

00:51:11,806 --> 00:51:16,246

involved in our program and understanding

that just because you might not be

:

00:51:16,246 --> 00:51:22,106

financially readily available to help in

that way, like there's so much opportunity

:

00:51:22,106 --> 00:51:27,886

to be involved and to help and just to

even show your support.

:

00:51:27,886 --> 00:51:31,662

I'm really grateful this is gonna go out

to some of the younger kids out there.

:

00:51:31,662 --> 00:51:33,542

I sound like an old person.

:

00:51:33,962 --> 00:51:37,912

Just going out to my community, you know,

I don't have a lot of resources for that.

:

00:51:37,912 --> 00:51:42,522

And so it's really nice to have people

like you who are messaging me and saying

:

00:51:42,522 --> 00:51:46,422

that you want to show that, you know, the

world is not as dark as it may seem.

:

00:51:46,422 --> 00:51:49,222

And there are opportunities out there and

get involved.

:

00:51:49,222 --> 00:51:51,702

It feels good to give back.

:

00:51:51,702 --> 00:51:55,442

So I'm excited to have that population in

the community.

:

00:51:55,462 --> 00:51:55,662

Yeah.

:

00:51:55,662 --> 00:51:59,942

And you can throw them our way to if you

have anybody who would be good on this or

:

00:51:59,942 --> 00:52:01,294

anybody listening that.

:

00:52:01,294 --> 00:52:04,154

has something in mind, Bloom's scrolling

podcast.

:

00:52:04,154 --> 00:52:06,894

That's our Instagram handle and also our

Gmail.

:

00:52:06,894 --> 00:52:09,054

So just shoot us a message.

:

00:52:09,233 --> 00:52:09,674

Absolutely.

:

00:52:09,674 --> 00:52:14,064

And then how long does it take to like get

out there?

:

00:52:14,064 --> 00:52:15,444

How long is it?

:

00:52:15,444 --> 00:52:19,494

Like three or four years, I think.

:

00:52:20,054 --> 00:52:23,790

Well, you have to edit it and you're not,

you're in between.

:

00:52:23,790 --> 00:52:25,710

positions right now.

:

00:52:25,710 --> 00:52:28,510

So if it's not done by tomorrow, I'm going

to be.

:

00:52:28,510 --> 00:52:30,560

I'll have it done within by the end of the

week.

:

00:52:30,560 --> 00:52:32,350

I'm going to, I'll come to that.

:

00:52:32,350 --> 00:52:35,470

I'd love to post this on our Facebook or

whatever.

:

00:52:35,470 --> 00:52:36,730

You know, this is super cool.

:

00:52:36,730 --> 00:52:37,910

It would be so cool.

:

00:52:37,910 --> 00:52:38,520

Yeah.

:

00:52:38,520 --> 00:52:39,010

Perfect.

:

00:52:39,010 --> 00:52:39,250

Yeah.

:

00:52:39,250 --> 00:52:40,990

We'll, we'll send it to you first.

:

00:52:40,990 --> 00:52:41,700

Send it to you first.

:

00:52:41,700 --> 00:52:42,890

That would be great.

:

00:52:42,890 --> 00:52:43,870

Yeah.

:

00:52:43,870 --> 00:52:45,670

Thank you so much.

:

00:52:45,670 --> 00:52:46,390

Yeah.

:

00:52:46,390 --> 00:52:48,060

This is awesome.

:

00:52:48,060 --> 00:52:50,926

What a cool origin story to like.

:

00:52:50,926 --> 00:52:54,986

Yeah, from nightclubs to this, anything's

possible.

:

00:52:55,766 --> 00:52:58,466

Oh my gosh, that's another funny thing.

:

00:52:58,466 --> 00:53:04,446

It's like, you're kind of from my past

environment, not my past environment, a

:

00:53:04,446 --> 00:53:08,396

different part of myself, you know, and

it's really cool.

:

00:53:08,396 --> 00:53:10,696

This is what I was telling my husband and

some of my coworkers.

:

00:53:10,696 --> 00:53:15,406

It's really cool to be able to bring these

two parts of my life together, which I

:

00:53:15,406 --> 00:53:16,816

feel I've been struggling with.

:

00:53:16,816 --> 00:53:18,342

I've been wanting to.

:

00:53:18,702 --> 00:53:20,282

join these parts of my life.

:

00:53:20,282 --> 00:53:23,262

And I feel that you've really given me the

opportunity to do that.

:

00:53:23,262 --> 00:53:25,242

So I'm really, I'm like eternally

grateful.

:

00:53:25,242 --> 00:53:29,182

This is so cool that I have the ability,

you guys have provided me with the ability

:

00:53:29,182 --> 00:53:29,932

to do that.

:

00:53:29,932 --> 00:53:31,362

So thank you.

:

00:53:31,622 --> 00:53:32,822

Yeah, amazing.

:

00:53:32,822 --> 00:53:34,962

Thank you so much.

:

00:53:34,962 --> 00:53:36,582

All right, see you guys later.

:

00:53:36,582 --> 00:53:37,472

See you later.

:

00:53:37,472 --> 00:53:38,382

Bye.

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