I talk with Magalie René about rebuilding her business after getting diagnosed with hyperthyroidism. I loved this conversation because of the fact that I have hypothyroidism. We're dealing with opposite thyroid issues, but so much of what she's going through landed for me.
Magalie ended up in the ER three times with racing heart and anxiety attacks before she finally asked for a thyroid panel herself. Once she got the diagnosis, she had to completely restructure how she runs her business—because hyperthyroidism puts your body on overdrive, and she was already in hustle mode. Something had to give.
We get into what hyperthyroidism symptoms actually feel like, why 80% of people with autoimmune disease are women, and this connection between poor boundaries and autoimmune issues that honestly blew my mind. Magalie also talks about becoming "unavailable for bullshit" in both her personal life and work, which is something I'm also working on. I hope you get as much out of our conversation as I did.
"Listen to your body and love your life. If there's something you don't love about your life right now, shift it. Shift it now. Work on shifting it now because your body eventually will respond to that."
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Welcome to Sharing the Middle, where we share the stories
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:of the messy middles of our life.
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:I'm Lacey, your Guide for the Middle,
whose claim to fame that this week is
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our Joyful Support Movement website.
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thought I won an Olympic gold
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off hooting and hollering.
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love, love that feeling.
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who I have a really interesting
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have, chronic ill illness with our
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just for me was very interesting to
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similar these things are.
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if you go to lacey shares.com,
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designing with my virtual art that are.
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a friendly reminder for someone who is
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conversation with Magley, and you
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:Welcome to sharing the Middle.
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:I'm here today with Magley Renee.
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:She is one of the superstars who
rescheduled with me, and as listeners
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:of this podcast know, they're always
my favorite because life is chaos
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she's been making it work with me.
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:Hello.
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:Magalie: Hi.
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:Thank you so much for giving me this space
and this opportunity to connect and chat.
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:Lacey: Well, why don't you take a moment
and introduce yourself to our listeners.
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:Magalie: Sure.
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and I'm so happy to be here.
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:I am a reinvention architect and I also
like to call myself a legacy creator
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life transitions to creating their
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feel really passionate about.
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:Lacey: we are so much about life
transitions here at during the
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:middle because that's where a
lot of the big work happens.
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transition of going from not
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:But when you first heard of, the
concept of the middle or thought of the
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:Magalie: first I love the title.
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not enough people talk about.
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:I attempted a series years
ago, and it was all about.
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aftermath and the pretty picture and what,
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what's real, talking about what
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it takes to get to the other side
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:Lacey: Yeah, I don't know about you,
but I want to be on the other side.
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messiness, because I'm a masochist,
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think maybe I'll get better at it.
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people are talking about.
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:what are their coping mechanisms and how
are they navigating the messy middle?
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for me about your podcast was
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ill, because I can relate to that.
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talk about kind of generally, but don't
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and potentially high functioning
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while your body isn't cooperating.
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really important topic.
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:Lacey: Yeah, and I think the
definition of what a good life
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realized lately of had a lot of stories.
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and what I thought I should
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:Magalie: Yep.
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:Lacey: but instead it's just
become a lot more clear of oh no,
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and a lot better to do that.
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:Magalie: that's amazing.
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:Lacey: we like to dive into a specific
messy middle and then I'm gonna ask you
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gonna talk about today?
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:Magalie: okay, so.
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my business right now after getting
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which has changed my energy level
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of mine complimented me and she said,
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meaning I get so much done and I'm
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:Magalie: right in my life that she
was basically saying it's amazing what
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so much more than most people can do.
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and it's really challenging.
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:Lacey: Well, okay, so
I'm a hypothyroid gal.
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and what that even looks like.
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as much though hypo for me is.
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you're hyper and you lose weight.
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going on and I was in like, I don't
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the thyroid is like, what manages and
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among other things, but essentially
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illnesses are affecting and autoimmune
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share exactly what it does
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autoimmune issues is actually what
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it's due to a lot of factors.
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exposed to in this country.
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our, my hustle and grind mentality.
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issues and chronic illnesses are women.
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this hyper-masculine energy
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for me to get things done.
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:Magalie: So yeah, it feels so
good to check it off the list,
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accomplish, we're just meant to accomplish
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hyperthyroidism is the
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my body's on overdrive.
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the nutrients, it just goes like this.
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to kind of try and take in nutrients.
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to do right when it comes to that.
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the weight loss if I don't really
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speed and supercharge, which makes so
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of who I am and my friends that here
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body is basically overheating.
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exercise I was in the ER three times at
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asked for the thyroid panel, and then
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advocated for myself, which is bananas.
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questions 'cause I'll just go on.
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the hospital three times, that's bananas.
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:Magalie: is crazy and like the symptoms
were so obvious that all it took me doing
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really looking into the specific symptoms.
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many doctors miss this and
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is what you just said of, there's
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to go, do all these different things.
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about the hyperthyroidism of
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weight, you need or be small, you need to
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I don't wanna say naturally
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reconcile with in your brain.
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that's why my body sucks.
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that's so mind-boggling in a way.
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how do those go together?
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just to, it's a just notice around how
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like, how we think of the body, what
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are, and how irrelevance they
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live and whether we're thriving, right?
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media, some women in particular
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beauty standards and we have no idea
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physical, emotional, spiritual life,
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of what we think success and thriving
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talking, it really kind of hit me.
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metabolizing food that fast, you're
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interesting way of looking at it,
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fast, you're missing out on so much.
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can lead to a bigger picture as well.
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interesting because that what you just
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attempting to create is a business.
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from me and something that is
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in the way that I go about it.
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my creativity and on ideas that
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quicker because I'm moving so fast.
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things are, traditionally done.
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is to go, move, move, move.
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myself, but when I slow down and allow
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be in nature, that could be resting,
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stroll after dinner, right?
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much more creative, and much more,
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I get to the goal much easier.
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than the way that we've been taught
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of discipline from me now to not beat
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realization of, what I like to say is I
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if my body didn't make me, essentially
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had the opposite, obviously you were
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but you have to be a lot more conscious
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but two, that's brave.
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bit more about that mind shift of
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:Magalie: That's beautiful.
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don't really see myself.
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of reflect that back to me.
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no, and what has it taken from me
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boundaries and say no to things?
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know where I heard it or read it.
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oh, I was doing okay.
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with this, chiropractor and somebody that
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he said, yeah, autoimmune issues.
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boundaries, and I was like.
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so many women, right?
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with autoimmune issues and.
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to have poor boundaries.
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overgive, be there for everybody.
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when your body is not having it.
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too, like I had a lot of little, I
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of little resentments, little things.
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much as I was, I was calling them.
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conversation, how are you doing?
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kind of like dumping on me.
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normally brush under the rug and just
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conversation and say, Hey, which is super
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feels kind of like instead of holding.
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with or the issue, instead of holding
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ah, I'll just deal with it and change the
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saying, this is how that made me feel.
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respond to me in a specific
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that information, but I'm not gonna
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how I feel, and then people meet me at
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make a decision, right?
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friendship and reciprocity, then
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I'm not in a back and forth argument.
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at, and I choose differently in terms
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life and then in my work life, I
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good, if it doesn't feel good and
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gets to be a different way to do it.
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or I am delegating it.
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hope that's a solid answer to
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parallel of realization.
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because, that's what we're supposed
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everybody as comfortable as possible
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I'm like, oh, yeah, that's what I'm
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no, I'm allowed to not do that.
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the opposite, what were your symptoms
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I get making fun of.
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is anxiety, which I understand why
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like, what is this anxiety attack?
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tackling about it and like two days
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like hyperventilating head down,
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attacks over the next You know, six months
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to feel like I was sick.
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care, my heart rate was at 1 31
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miles marathon, and so it was 1 31.
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Uber and go to the er.
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thing was, I thought I was in like
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sense because my body, my, my, gyno
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I'm in that good, I don't know what
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my feminine, like feminine shape.
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health in that area.
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like severe hot flashes.
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a huge event and I was, I had to take my
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and it was freezing and I was literally.
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coming outta my jacket.
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it wasn't very menopause.
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'cause of my overactive thyroid.
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you're gonna pass out was another one.
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so depressed and then I'd be so happy.
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but that's what was going on when
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having anxiety attacks and your
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body is like releasing adrenaline
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you're, if there's anything that
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to be in a certain way.
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to study women's bodies, so
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men dominated the field.
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field that was open to women.
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women the way women would study women.
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then you say, give me these tests.
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or were you frustrated?
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third visit when I asked, and the
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your thyroid is a little bit off.
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literally my friend goes.
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about like, but you could tell
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probably wasn't allowed to diagnose me,
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over me was beyond, I was like.
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why are you happy right now?
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like to know that your body isn't
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of the worst case scenario.
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trying to rush menopause like.
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but I'd like to live this out a
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I'm like, could it be cancer?
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is, for me it didn't change how I
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I could talk to people about it.
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to say, this is what this is, and that
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not all in my head because a big part
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yes, of course I think about what is
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my thought is what is making it happen.
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the culture of go do da, we're
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on ourselves and this like hyper
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have the thought because it's happening.
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yeah, when I think, oh, I'm tired.
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:Magalie: Yeah, that's powerful.
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:Lacey: has
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:Magalie: That's really powerful.
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:, Lacey: You said, I wanna make
sure I understand this right.
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change your business.
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:Magalie: Yeah.
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:Magalie: Oh yeah.
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the backend of my business.
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wanna say, the idea of the masculine
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in my flow and actually operate at
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masculine structures in my business
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structures, the way things happen, the
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need to be kind of fundamentally
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with cycle in my cycle, right?
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because certain things are gonna
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present in it, doing it or not.
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:I just had something called the
Renaissance Women Virtual Retreat,
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through life reinventions and wanna
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it, wanna alchemize it and become the
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a business or start a passion project
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and about 50 that were like the strong.
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throughout, just about, and what's
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of colleagues and coaches and
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zoom management was handled.
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with women and having them do some
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was just so much ease and flow in me
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a way that was supportive to my needs.
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tight and the marketing plan, everything
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a rush, rush, get it done, freaking
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in my backend, but also.
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who are launching projects and
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an actual company called Workplace
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and Citi group and a bunch of names.
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facilitators that support the process.
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one doing the facilitating.
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process and I teach them and
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into, the Renaissance woman who's
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in, even what I teach these women.
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it embodied achievement, right?
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we're learning how to do.
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how to get things done without
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highest level with ease, with flow,
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but also like connecting to our bodies
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more at ease when you're doing work Body
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my business, and then I'm also
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:Lacey: Do you feel like you've
gotten to a quote unquote end
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:Magalie: I'm so in the middle
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think there's gonna be this other,
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if it does, there's always a chance
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side of the diagnosis and I no
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the change is a permanent change.
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upgraded version of who I am.
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:Lacey: I feel like that's a
good end point to your story.
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:I do like to ask people for
like a piece of tangible advice.
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something that maybe would've helped
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about your life right now, shift it.
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body eventually will respond to that.
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piece of it all is listen to your body.
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sure that you love your life.
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:Lacey: how can people find you,
work with you, all that jazz?
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:Magalie: Yeah, jump onto Instagram.
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:I think that's one of the best places.
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:It's Maglie Renee, that's
M-A-G-A-L-I, eCore, RENE.
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:, I'll send a link and like with a gift
that anyone who's going through a
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something powerful or is in the
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on the other side of their, maybe
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or something, I'll give them a special
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the Renaissance Woman Virtual Retreat.
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called Divorce to Destiny.
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gonna be on October 26th and 27th,
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:Lacey: Awesome.
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:Thank you so much for sharing your
story and everything you've gone through
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