What if your child’s hardest moments aren’t defiance—but communication? In this episode of The Divine Decode, hosted by Nazish, we explore a powerful shift: seeing behavior as a skill gap, not a character flaw.
This conversation is for parents, caregivers, and anyone supporting children who feel stuck in cycles of frustration. You’ll walk away with a calmer lens, practical ways to respond without reacting, and a deeper sense of connection over control.
About the Guest:
Dr. Beth Long is a Licensed Professional Counselor and Board Certified Behavior Analyst. She is the founder of Works of Wonder Therapy and has over 20 years of experience supporting children and families. She is also a parenting author and speaker.
Episode Chapter:
00:00 – A different way to see “difficult” behavior
03:40 – The moment that changed Beth’s parenting lens
08:10 – Why punishment doesn’t teach real skills
12:25 – Defiance vs misunderstanding: what parents miss
17:40 – The truth about “manipulative” children
22:10 – Skill gaps: communication, regulation, social growth
27:30 – Moving from blame to connection in real life
Key Takeaways:
- Behavior often signals a missing skill, not bad intent
- Stop assumptions; start observing with curiosity
- Children learn best through practice, not punishment
- Emotional regulation is built over time, not demanded
- Connection grows when parents shift from control to support
How to Connect With the Guest:
Instagram, TikTok, Facebook, Pinterest: Dr. Beth Long
Website: https://worksofwondertherapy.com/
Book: Beyond Words (available on Amazon)
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