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Episode 1457th September 2026 • Wellness Big Sis: The Pod • Dr. Kelsy Vick
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Hormone balance has become a marketing machine, so we brought in a dietitian to tell us what it actually means. In this episode, Dr. Kelsy Vick talks with Bayleigh Wessel, a registered dietitian, about what hormonal health really looks like day to day: predictable cycles, consistent ovulation, manageable PMS, steady energy and hunger cues, restorative sleep, steady digestion, and normal workout recovery. They reframe hormones as responsive messengers shaped by fueling, stress, inflammation, sleep, training, blood sugar, and nutrient status, rather than numbers to force into a perfect range. Bayleigh breaks down the red flags worth noticing, including severe PMS, intense cravings, irregular cycles, and the wired but tired pattern, then lays out the foundational nutrition priorities: eating before coffee, balancing meals with protein, carbs, fat, and fiber, and improving blood sugar stability and insulin resistance, including in PCOS (PMOS). They also cover which labs to discuss with a doctor, how to time hormone testing so it actually means something, realistic timelines for change, and what preconception, or trimester zero, support looks like. Smart, practical, and refreshingly calm.

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Speaker:

Welcome to Wellness Fixes the Pod, a

by Maven Media production, where we

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believe you deserve real education

from real experts, delivered

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in a way you can actually use.

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I'm Dr.

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Kelsey Vick, your board certified

orthopedic doctor of physical therapy, and

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this podcast was built for the girl who

is done feeling overwhelmed and frustrated

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by conflicting health noise and is ready

for something she can actually trust.

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Every week we have honest, science-backed

conversations about your health,

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your hormones, your brain, your

body, and everything in between.

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No fluff, no fear-mongering,

just the truth.

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Because understanding your

body is the most powerful

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thing you can do for yourself.

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A table full of experts built for

the curious girl who wants the truth.

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So welcome.

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Your seat is waiting for you.

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Kelsy: let's talk about what it

actually means to be hormonally

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healthy or hormonally balanced.

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What does that look like in

someone's day-to-day life?

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Bayleigh: It's one of those things

to where like hormone health

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doesn't mean your hormones are flat,

perfect, or the same every day.

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It's gonna change depending on

your cycle, what's going on in your

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life, especially for women, right?

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Hormones are supposed to fluctuate.

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So that could look like a

variety of different things.

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So your cycle is readily predictable.

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You are ovulating consistently.

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PMS exists.

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Now, PMS, I feel like gets a bad

rap, but it exists, but it's not

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necessarily debilitating, right?

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Your period is not extremely heavy.

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It's not severely painful.

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It's not like wiping you out like we're

hearing from a lot of women today.

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Your energy is readily stable, right?

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It's not like you get to your

period or you get to your luteal

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phase, and you just absolutely tank.

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Your hunger cues make sense.

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You're not just like having

constant swings over to like just

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those intense sweet cravings.

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Your sleep feels more restorative

most of the time, right?

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Because again, different things

can happen in life that just

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totally mess it up overall So

that sleep is overall restorative.

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Digestion is not constantly

cre- or chaotic, right?

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We're not having, some really bad poops.

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It's pretty consistent, right?

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And you recover from workouts or stress.

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You're not having to fully stop your

full routine closer to your period.

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You can still go and work out, right?

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So it's one of those things like

if we think of hormones, right?

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Because again, what it doesn't

mean to be hor- hormonally healthy.

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our hormones are messengers, right?

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And when they're off, we have to ask

what message the body is receiving.

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Is it under-fueled?

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Is it over-stressed?

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Is it inflamed?

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Are we not getting enough sleep?

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Are we not getting enough macronutrients

or even micronutrients, right?

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Because those micronutrients

are just as important.

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I think a lot of times we really focus on

those macronutrients: protein, fat, carbs.

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We don't talk necessarily about

those micronutrients too much.

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So are our micronutrients depleted?

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Are we experienced blood sugar swings?

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Because again, blood sugar can play a lot

of a role in terms of hormones, right?

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So are we having those swings?

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Are we dealing with thyroid dysfunction?

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one of those things too, like we think

in terms of women, I think a lot of women

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hear the phrase hormone balance, and they

assume that it means that we need to force

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estrogen, progesterone, cortisol, thyroid

hormones into this like perfect range.

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But if we really wanna be honest and

again, our bodies are ever-changing, it's

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always different depending on the season

we're in, whether we're adolescents,

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whether we're in adulthood, whether

we're pregnant, perimenopause, menopause,

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all these different things, right?

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hormones are going to swing overall, okay?

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hormones, we want them

to be responsive, right?

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They respond to energy.

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They respond to stress.

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They respond to inflammation,

gut function, sleep, training,

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blood sugar, nutrient status.

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And I think, whenever people hear the

word hormone balance, they just assume

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that we're talking about some like

super complicated, something that only

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matters if you're trying to get pregnant.

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But again, hormones are

just chemical messengers.

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They are going to be present

throughout your entire life, and it's

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how the body communicates, right?

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So- It tells our body-- Our hormones

help tell our body multiple things.

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So helps build the uterine lining,

helps release eggs, hold onto a

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pregnancy, respond to stress, regulate

energy, manage metabolism, support

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sleep, digest food, and recover.

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Our hormones do a lot for our body, so

I feel like it's almost one of those

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things, especially in today's society,

yeah, it gets brought up a lot around

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pregnancy and, pre-pregnancy, but hormones

are around all the time, and they do

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a lot of things for our body overall

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Kelsy: What are some of the common

things in your clients that might tell

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you how they're fueling or the level

of stress in their environment or the

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stage of their life that they're in

is affecting their hormone levels?

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Bayleigh: So it's one of those

things to where I, I see it

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a lot around cycles, right?

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So similar to what I was talking

about earlier, we see, PMS that

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is just like off the deep end.

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We are just like raging angry

and that's not normal, right?

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Yes, you have PMS, but you should not

be like raging at one week of the month.

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It shouldn't be debilitating, right?

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It shouldn't be affecting the way you

work, the way your relationships flow

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with your boyfriend, your husband, your

significant other, your spouse, whatever.

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It shouldn't affect that

relationship, the, that PMS overall.

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The other thing I see too is,

again, so those severe cravings,

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that's another one I really see.

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I see a lot of women really

honing in on those sweets.

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so especially around the period,

they just like binge or they eat…

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they're really hungry and they want

more, and we have to fuel accordingly.

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But it's one of those things to where,

again, if we're eating primarily a

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carbohydrate-based meal, that's gonna

also really mess with those blood sugar

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swings overall, so there's a wide variety

of different things that I see in practice

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that is always ooh, that's kind of a

red flag and we need to focus on that

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Kelsy: How do you work

backwards from that?

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So let's say someone comes to

you and says, "I have irregular

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periods, and I am a raging, queen

come this certain time of my month."

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Like, how do you work back and say,

"Okay how can we address some of

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these symptoms that they're reporting

with how we are fueling the body?"

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What role does nutrition

play in that hormone balance?

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Bayleigh: So one of the things that

I really focus on, especially if we

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have really intense periods or we have

intense PMS, or we have intense cravings,

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blood sugar management, actually.

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So when we talk about blood sugar, okay?

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So blood sugar is basically the

amount of glucose or sugar that's

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circulating within your bloodstream.

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It's not that glucose is bad.

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Your body will use it for energy.

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It uses it for your brain,

your muscles, your cells.

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They all rely on it.

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So the goal is not necessarily to have

blood sugar spikes, but what really helps

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in terms of regulating those cycles and

not making them so intense is having

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that blood sugar rise and fall in a way

that your body can manage well, right?

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So when you eat carbohydrates, Your

body's gonna break that down into glucose.

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The glucose is gonna then enter the

bloodstream, and then the insulin is

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gonna help move that glucose out of our

blood into our cells, where it can be

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used for energy, and it's also gonna be

stored later, So if we think of insulin,

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So think of insulin as like a key, okay?

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It's gonna help unlock the

door so glucose can move from

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the bloodstream into the cell.

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All right?

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And so it's important for that overall

hormone health that the blood sugar

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is not isolated, Blood sugar affects

energy, cravings, mood, sleep, cortisol,

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inflammation, reproductive hormones.

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So if I have a client that comes to me

and they are regularly skipping meals,

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they're under-eating, they're drinking

coffee on an empty stomach, right?

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Because that is my big no-no.

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That is like one of the first things we

correct whenever a client comes to me,

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and I'm like, "Are you drinking coffee?"

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"Yeah."

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"Do you eat?"

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"No."

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"Okay, we're gonna start eating

before we drink coffee 'cause that

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is not gonna sit on your stomach

like a brick, my friend," right?

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eating the most quickly digesting

carbohydrates without a protein,

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fat, and fiber, That blood sugar

can rise and fall more dramatically.

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we can typically see with those

patients too, especially the ones

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who are skipping meals or under

eating or different things like that,

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they're shaky, they're lightheaded.

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They get irritable, okay?

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Especially in between meals.

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That hangry.

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I get hangry.

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I am the queen of hangry.

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God bless my husband.

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But hangry, right?

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Okay, we don't wanna get hangry.

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We crave sugar or

caffeine in the afternoon.

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We have that 2:00 or 3:00

PM drop or that crash.

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We feel wired but tired.

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Okay, we're ready to go, but we

are just exhausted overall, right?

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We're waking up in the

middle of the night.

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Typically have clients who are like,

"Yeah, I'm waking up at 2:00 or 3:00 AM."

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All right.

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Let's talk about our eating patterns,

Some other things are like feeling anxious

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or, especially after too much caffeine.

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We just are like shaky and we

are just-- that our mind is

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just constantly racing overall.

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We're needing snacks constantly

because we never feel satisfied.

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Our energy crashes after we eat, right?

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So we're like good.

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We eat a meal, and then

we go and we crash.

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And then you feel like you need

something sweet after every meal.

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So from a hormone perspective, the body

sees unstable blood sugar as a stressor.

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If blood sugar drops too low or drops

too quickly, the body may release stress

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hormones like cortisol and adrenaline to

really help stabilize that blood sugar

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and bring that blood sugar back up.

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That's normal physiology.

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But the issue happens when the

pattern is happening repeatedly, okay?

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And we're seeing it happening

over and over again.

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And so this is why, you may feel anxious,

you may feel tired, you may feel shaky

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or even wired after skipping meals, or

drinking coffee-- anxious after drinking

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coffee on an empty stomach, okay?

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It's not always just anxiety.

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Sometimes the body is just

stabilizing that blood sugar, okay?

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It's also one of those

things with insulin, too.

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It also matters because, when we have

chronically high insulin or insulin

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resistance, okay, that can also

affect reproductive hormone cycling.

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So in women, insulin resistance can

be connected to irregular cycles.

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It can be connected to ovulatory

disorders or androgen symptoms like

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acne, facial hair growing or PCOS

or now PMOS type patterns, right?

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So it doesn't mean that every

hormone issue is insulin-related.

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It's just a part of the puzzle, right?

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It's a major part of that puzzle

overall The other thing too here, that

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I'll touch on here too is protein.

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Protein is also super important, right?

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So protein is one of the biggest

foundations of hormone health.

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It's not like a flashy way or It's just

not a hormone hack, if that makes sense.

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It's basic physiology.

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So protein breaks down those amino acids.

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The amino acids, when we think

of amino acids, I want you

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to think of building blocks.

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So the body's gonna use them

to build and repair tissue.

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it also helps support that immune system,

make enzymes, support detoxification

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pathways, make neurotransmitters, maintain

lean muscle or muscle mass, right?

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So it's one of those things, protein

matters for satiety, and a lot of

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women feel like they have no willpower,

they're constantly craving sugar.

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But a lot of times they may just be

under eating protein in the day, right?

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So again, if we do coffee and then a

bite of something small, and then our

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lunch is mostly carbohydrates with very

little protein, our body may start pushing

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back harder for that quick energy later.

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So for hormones specifically, protein

indirectly supports the whole system.

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So it supports blood sugar stability.

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I always tell my patients, always

do a protein with every meal, okay?

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Do a protein, a fiber, and a carb.

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Always try and include

the three, all right?

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And a fat too.

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It supports liver detoxification pathways.

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It supports immune function.

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It supports muscle maintenance

and metabolic health.

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It supports neurotransmitters

like serotonin and It supports

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recovery from training, right?

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So if you're working out or even

stress or pregnancy demands.

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So specifically in that trimester

zero, protein is important because

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your body is preparing for a very

high demand state, And that pregnancy

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requires tissue growth, blood volume

expansion, fetal development, placental

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development, immune adaption, recovery.

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So a lot of things going on.

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It is a high demand state there, right?

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And so that protein becomes a major

piece of that overall foundation.

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other thing I typically look

at as well is fat, okay?

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So that dietary fat, and I feel like

fat has been demonized for years, right?

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Like we, God bless fat.

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It's really not that bad.

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I promise, you need fat in

your diet, my friends, okay?

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And it's incredibly

important for women's health.

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I really wish a lot more women

would get that through their

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head and not demonize all fat.

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It's not that bad, I promise.

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Okay and fat does a lot of things, right?

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Fat helps the body absorb

fat-soluble vitamins.

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So your fat-soluble vitamins are

vitamin A, D, E, and K, okay?

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And these vitamins are important for

a wide variety of different things.

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So immune function, hormone health,

blood hea- or bone health, antioxidant

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protection, reproductive health.

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And again, that fat also

helps with that satiety.

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So if the meal is too low in fat, the

wo- women typically may feel hungry and

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they may have more cravings and, the

meals don't necessarily stick, right?

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And so again, if we talk about

hormones, the fat matters because

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steroid hormones are made from

chole- cholesterol-based pathways.

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That includes estrogen,

progesterone, testosterone, cortisol.

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That doesn't mean eating fat

automatically fixes your hormones,

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but it means that extremely low-fat

dieting can be a problem for some women.

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The other thing I'll touch

on here too is fiber.

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Huge fiber girlie.

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Love fiber.

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I cannot tell people to eat enough fiber.

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Now mind you, depends on the person.

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It is individualized.

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If we have some IBS or something going

on and a really like sensitive tummy,

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we wanna be careful with our fiber.

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But fiber is amazing, right?

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And fiber is one of the most underrated

tools for hormone health, okay?

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So when you think of fiber, I

want you to think of fiber in a

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multitude of different things.

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Typically in fruits, vegetables,

beans, lentils, whole grains,

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nuts and seeds, right?

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And our body doesn't fully digest fiber.

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But the gut microbiome can

use certain fibers as fuel.

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So those fibers can do a wide

variety of different things.

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Help support gut bowel regularity,

gut microbiome diversity.

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I know the microbiome is a

huge topic of discussion.

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I love the microbiome, cannot

talk enough about the microbiome.

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Also, fun fact, not just one microbiome.

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It's not just the gut.

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We have a wide variety of different

microbiomes, but for this specifically,

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talking about the gut, okay?

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sugar stability, cortisol metabolism,

satiety, estrogen elimination,

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short-chain fatty acid, okay?

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So it's one of those things to where

when we think of fiber does a lot

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for our overall hormones, right?

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So fiber helps your gut

take out the trash, right?

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So it helps support those regular

bowel movements, feeds those beneficial

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but our gut bacteria, helps stabilize

that blood sugar, and helps support

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healthy hormone metabolites, right?

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So a lot of different things there.

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Kelsy: That was wonderful.

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I love the breakdown too.

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So if I'm understanding correctly, when

it comes to fueling for someone who

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says, who comes to you saying "Okay, I

feel like my hormones are imbalanced.

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I'm experiencing X, Y, and Z.

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Here's what do I do?"

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It sounds like your first line of

action is not like, "Okay, here's

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estrogen-building foods, here's

progesterone-building foods, here's

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blood-building foods," or whatever.

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It's more of just let's get it all

under control a little bit more with

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the basics, like the foundations, right?

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Where coming back to the foundations

of food before caffeine, food before

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your coffee, protein, fats, fibers,

carbs, like getting all of that really

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dialed in because I'm trying to, mirror

what you're saying to how I understand

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hormonal balance in my own sort of realm.

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But it's this song and dance.

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It's this elevation.

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It's this rhythm that happens within

our bodies, and it's not necessarily

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that we need to time a certain food

intake for that rise in estrogen.

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It's just that no, those hormones

will send the signals that they need

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to send in the right way if we're

fueling our bodies appropriately.

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Is all of that sort of like correct?

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Bayleigh: Exactly.

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So it's one of those things, so like

when we think about hormone health,

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if we gave, somebody specifically

and they're just like, "Okay, I wanna

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balance a specific hormone," I'm

like, "Okay what about the rest?"

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That's one of my questions.

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But two, it's okay, we can't just

give you one food or one thing, or we

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can't just hyper-fixate on one thing.

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We wanna look at the person as a whole.

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And also, if we think about, ourselves

and if h- if we could even do that,

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it's sometimes that's not even possible.

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So we wanna focus on the basics.

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Fo- focus on those that

balance those foundations.

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No extremes, right?

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And just really focus on, okay,

every meal, we're getting a protein,

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a fat, a fiber, a carb, okay?

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We're really focusing on not

getting those blood sugar spikes.

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We're really focusing

on insulin resistance.

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We're really focusing on how do we

manage this and break it down to

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make it as easy as possible from the

start, then we can build from there

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Kelsy: I think that goes into what

you were talking about PMOS too.

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And for those of you guys who are

new to that term, if you have PCOS,

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they're now changing the term to be

a little bit more all-encompassing of

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the entire root cause of the condition.

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So PMOS is polyendocrine metabolic

ovarian syndrome rather than

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polycystic ovarian syndrome.

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And I love this terminology, I'm sure you

do as well, because it, it does really

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play into that root cause where a lot of

people with PCOS would say things like, I,

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I have fertility issues because of PCOS,

because I have polycystic ovarian disease.

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I have cysts on my ovaries."

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And they're finding that's

not actually the case, that

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it's really this metabolic…

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Insulin resistance is a huge

component of it But it's really these

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fertility challenges that are what is

presented on the surface, but it's not

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necessarily what the root cause is.

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The metabolic issues, the insulin

resistance, the hormonal song and

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dance, all of those things are

playing into those fertility issues.

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So it's, knowing what I know now about

PMOS and hearing what you're saying, it

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makes total sense that of course if you're

having some of these fertility hormonal

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issues, why not start with those root

cause things like the insulin resistance,

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like the blood sugar regulations, like

all of those really granular things, that

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then can help that hormonal song and dance

to, to help with those fertility issues

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Bayleigh: No, 100%.

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And it's one of those things with PMOS

too, like it can be connected to a wide

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variety of different things, right?

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And with PMOS too, like we've seen,

time and time again, and I'm sure you've

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heard about it too, like a lot of women

are d- dismissed until they're trying

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to get pregnant, especially with PMOS.

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And then, it's just this constant

cycle and it's back and forth, and

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they may feel bounced around from

doctor to doctor, and it's frustrating.

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And it's one of those things,

PMOS can be connected to a wide

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variety of different things.

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So insulin resistance, if they're

pre-diabetic or if they have type

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2 bi- diabetes or even the risk,

cholesterol changes, irregular

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cycles, inflammation, sleep issues,

anxiety or depression symptoms, or

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that endometrial lining concerns if

the periods are infrequent, right?

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So blood sugar stability, protein at

meals, similar to what I was talking

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about earlier, fiber-rich carbohydrates

or fruits or vegetables, that fiber in

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general, strength training, walking,

sleep, stress regulation, nutrient

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status, focusing on thyroid health, gut

health, inflammation, consistent meals.

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And it's one of those things, when

you have PMOS, I think a lot of times

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people think they just have to cut out

all carbs, and that's not the case.

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I am the biggest supporter of carbs.

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I don't-- I think anybody that tells

you should not eat carbs or cut

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out carbs from your diet, w- might

wanna talk to somebody else, okay?

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Because carbs play an

important role, right?

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does our brain feed off of?

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Carbohydrates, right?

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It's it…

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Carbs are super, super important.

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It's one of those things, you

don't have to cut out arc- all

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carbohydrates, but there's ways

that we can really finesse that.

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There's better types of carbohydrates,

and there's different ways we can really

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help the blood sugar not like fully swing.

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Again, partnering with the protein,

partnering with the fiber, right?

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To make sure we don't

get those big spikes.

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Kelsy: Literally this was two days

ago, I guess on Sunday we were having

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a wonderful meal with someone I love

dearly, but they said something along

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the lines of, I figured we didn't need

X and X side because of the amount

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of starch and carbs that are in it."

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And I I was like, " Carbs are brain food.

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We need carbs."

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I literally said carbs are brain food.

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I was like,

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Bayleigh: Yes.

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Kelsy: we need carbs,"

and, carbs are fuel.

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Like what we were talking about last

time, All of these like macronutrients,

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macronutrie- they're building blocks.

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So I…

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It was funny that you said brain food.

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I'm like, "That was

literally what I had said."

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I was like, "No, carbs are brain food.

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We need them for our brain health."

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Bayleigh: Just things like, yes, there

are certain conditions to where you

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need to lower your carbohydrate intake.

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Fine.

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Epilepsy is one.

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one of the medical nutrition

therapy treatments for epilepsy

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is the ketogenic diet, right?

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So you have different diets

like that, but still we're not

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cutting out carbs completely.

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Our body still needs them

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Kelsy: Totally.

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So for someone who has PMOS or just

thinks their hormones are a little

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bit out of balance, are there formal

labs that you recommend or different

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tests that they need to get done to

see okay, I need to figure out what's

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actually happening within my body.

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My labs came back normal.

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What other tests and things might there be

for them to get a little bit more specific

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on what's happening within their body?

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Bayleigh: so it's one of those things

with labs, like There's not like a

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concrete, like you need to get this

lab ran to figure out XYZ, okay?

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Not every woman needs

every single lab ran.

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But I do have a few that I definitely

think are worth discussing,

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especially based on symptoms, cycle,

goals, different things like that.

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So again, with labs, there's multiple

different types of labs, right?

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You have your foundational labs, the

ones I typically recommend, all right?

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Talking to your doctor, getting those ran.

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And a lot of times the doctors, your

OB will probably run these anyways.

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CBC, okay?

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So that's gonna screen your

red blood cells, white blood

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cells, hemoglobin, hematocrit.

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It's helpful for anemia patterns or

if there's any sort of like infection,

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inflammation clues, inflammation patterns.

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Another was, one is a CMP, right?

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So this is gonna give information on

our liver enzymes, kidney markers,

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electrolytes, glucose, or protein status.

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I also typically recommend

like a lipid panel, okay?

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This is helpful for metabolic health

and especially that hormone context

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especially if we are thinking we are

having some issues with blood glucose.

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A1C and a fasting glucose, that's gonna

give us that blood sugar overview.

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It's not gonna give us a full

picture, but it is gonna give

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us that starting point there.

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A helpful add-on to that one is that

fasting insulin, So that can give

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more context around that insulin

resistance before glucose and A1C looks

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abnormal because, again, when we think

of A1C, A1C is that average, right?

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And fasting glucose is

gonna give that picture.

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So that fasting glucose is gonna be good.

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The other ones I typically recommend

are like a ferritin and an iron panel.

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So the ferritin reflects that iron

storage, and it can explain whether, if

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you have fatigue issues and why you're

having those fatigue issues potentially

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when hemoglobin especially looks abnormal.

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Vitamin D is a really good

o-one to add on as well.

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It's helpful for immune,

bone, and endocrine context.

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B12 and folate are other good ones too.

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Those are helpful for energy, right?

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Our B vitamins.

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When I think of B vitamins, I

instantly think energy, right?

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Methylation, red blood cells, and

also neurological symptoms, okay?

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one you can ask for and really

dive into, a thyroid panel, okay?

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So that's gonna be like your TSH,

your T3, T4, thyroid antibodies, okay?

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The TSH alone is not always gonna

tell the full thyroid story, so asking

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for that T4, the T3, the thyroid

antibo-antibodies, that full picture.

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is another good one.

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That one's gonna really dive

into those inflammatory markers.

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Magnesium, omega-3 and then there's

also, those hormone-specific labs.

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It's-- But you wanna get

those ran when indicated.

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Again, all of these are

ran when indicated, right?

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So you have your LH, your

FSH, your estradiol, right?

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So those are often cycle day

dependent, but they're helpful

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in that ferti-fe-fertility or

regular cycle workups, okay?

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Progesterone.

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You can check your progesterone.

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It's best checked about seven

days after ovulation, not right

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Randomly on day 21, right?

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So seven is pretty much,

usually the best day.

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Prolactin, right?

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This is important for irregular cycles

or if you have missing periods or

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nipple discharge or ovulation concerns.

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Another one, so total testosterone

free testosterone, DHEA or SHBG.

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Okay, so this is helpful if we

have some acne, some hair growth,

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hair loss, the PMOS type symptoms,

androgen concerns, AMH, right?

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So this is can be part of

that fertility context.

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And it's one of those things, again,

and I know I just listed off a ton of

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labs of "Oh, you could look at this.

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Oh, you could look at this," right?

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Labs are data, okay?

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Labs are not an identity.

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They're gonna give us

a part of the picture.

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They're gonna give us clues, but they're

still not gonna tell the full story, okay?

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So that's why we have to partner it

along with symptoms, intake, cycle

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history, medications, sl-sleep,

stress, and our goals overall, right?

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Whether, how often we're working

out or different things like that.

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It takes the full picture approach

to really look into things.

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And again, those labs should

be individualized based off of

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what's going on in your case

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Kelsy: So for someone who is in this sort

of like trimester zero phase looking to

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get pregnant, maybe they have a bit of

symptoms that might indicate hormonal

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irregularities and they're looking

to use food as medicine and work with

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food first in order to help regulate

their hormones a little bit better.

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Maybe they get some of those labs run.

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What does that timeline look like?

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how long might it be before they start

certain things like changing certain

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things in their fueling and nutrition

and exercise patterns to when they might

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actually see the results of those changes?

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Bayleigh: So honestly, it depends.

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And it depends on the patient, it

depends on the client, it depends on

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the person, and it also depends on

what we're trying to shift overall.

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So if we're thinking in

terms of like timeline, okay?

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Now, from days to weeks, okay,

we're gonna be focusing more on

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that blood sugar stability, bloating

and bowel patterns, energy from

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meal timing, cravings and support.

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If we're in that four to eight-week

range, we're gonna start to see, and look

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into PMS changes, better recovery, more

stable appetite, improved digestion, or

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early changes in inflammation markers.

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Around that eight to 12-week mark, this

is when we're gonna really recheck our

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vitamin D window, our cycle patterns.

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We're gonna make more meaningful

metabolic changes or we're gonna

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see a better read on consistency.

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that three to six months change,

we're gonna look at, okay, we need

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to start looking at iron and ferritin

rebuilding, hor- hormone rhythm

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changes, ovulation consistency,

preconception reserve building, or

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even like sustainable metabolic shifts.

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So it's one of those things,

like it honestly depends on what

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we're trying to shift and when

we're trying to shift overall.

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Kelsy: So that timeline, is that

when you expect to see those changes?

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Or…

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Explain that timeline.

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Bayleigh: Yeah

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Kelsy: Awesome.

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That's, I feel like, good to know

too, because in this, like again,

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trimester zero, I consider myself

there, where I'm like, "Okay, hang on."

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Some of the time, I have a period one

or two days off, or, a little bit of

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things where I'm like, "Okay, how can I

better prepare my body for supporting a

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healthy pregnancy when that time comes?"

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And so these are some of the just

little helpful things to understand.

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It's not just, two weeks

and all of a sudden.

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It's, it might take a little bit of

forethought, which is why I like this

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whole push for trimester zero, where

it's yeah, sometimes we want to have

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this phase of preparing our bodies for

this healthy next stage of pregnancy

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if that's what we're choosing to do

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Bayleigh: 100%.

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And it's one of those things too,

like at the end of the day, like what

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are we really focusing on, right?

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We really wanna set the foundation

because we wanna prepare our

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bodies to carry a child, right?

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And we wanna become the best versions

of ourself, just physically, but even

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like mentally, spiritually, everything.

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We wanna become the best versions.

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So if that's cleaning up our diet a

little bit, okay, really focusing on

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getting those clean macronutrients

in, getting more micronutrients in,

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eating the rainbow, getting a wide

variety of fruits and vegetables into

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our diet so we can really start to

balance those hormones per se, right?

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Getting into the gym, start

strength training, start walking,

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start getting active, right?

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We wanna prepare our bodies for that.

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And even from a mental standpoint, right?

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Taking time to meditate, really

focusing on stress management.

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Doing that full body approach

is going to be super important,

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especially in that trimester zero

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Kelsy: So just a little bit of rapid fire.

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if someone comes to you saying

"Okay, I'm looking to get pregnant

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in the next few months," are there

foods that they should prioritize?

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Or the best bang for their buck a

little bit when it comes to all of

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the macronutrients and micronutrients,

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Bayleigh: Yeah, so it's one of those

things to where food-wise, it gets

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so funky because I don't scaling

people down to a very specific diet.

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I think it's so important to eat a wide

variety of different foods, not eating

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the same foods at all time, because

again, if we are eating the same meal

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over and over and over and over again,

we're gonna really limit the type of

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macronutrients and micronutrients we

are getting into our diet overall.

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Yeah, you might be taking a prenatal,

but eating a wide variety of different

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types of foods is gonna be important.

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What I would really focus on instead of

a very specific food or a very specific,

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drink or different things like that, would

be more in terms of a vitamin or mineral.

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So making sure we're getting enough

folate, making sure we're eating

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foods that have iron, vitamin D,

B12, choline, magnesium, zinc.

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You know what I mean?

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And it's one of those things,

too, to where even getting, good

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sources of omega-3 in our diet

from fatty fish, like, all of those

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are gonna be incredibly important.

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And the way we do that is

just changing up our diet.

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You know what I mean?

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Making sure we're eating fruits and

vegetables at every single meal,

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doing a protein at every single meal.

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You know what I mean?

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Getting some carbs in, eating

some whole grains, a wide

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variety of different things.

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That's gonna set us up for success the

most, rather than just hyper-fixating

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on one food, nutrition's not a cure-all.

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It's not like you take one food,

and you're just cured, boom, bam.

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You know what I mean?

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We have to focus on the

full picture overall

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Kelsy: I think there was a girl and

now that I've had it in my algorithm,

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there's been a lot of other girls that

I've seen do this, but their New Year's

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resolution for the beginning of the year

was like, "I'm gonna eat 50 different

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types of herbs or vegetables," or that

could be even cilantro, basil, celery.

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It…

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I forget how they phrased it, but

basically trying to count how many

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different I guess nature-based foods

that they're getting in their diet

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each week, and I really love that.

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I was like, that seems like a very good

thing to focus on to, to get that variety

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Bayleigh: Yeah.

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One that I typically recommend…

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50, 50's a lot.

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Even that's a lot for me, and I know

that's a lot for a lot of people.

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I typically recommend 30 plus, right?

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And that's what I mean whenever I say

eat the rainbow, is, we are literally…

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Go to your local grocery store.

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I have a Fresh Thyme where I'm at, and you

walk in there, and it is just colorful.

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When I say eat the rainbow, when I

say eat 30 plus you might be grabbing

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a purple cabbage, you might be

grabbing a little bit of dill, right?

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It doesn't have to be, like, a full apple.

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It doesn't have to be a full

watermelon or a full thing of cabbage.

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It can be those herbs as well.

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But starting at that 30 plus and not

going, e- eating above that, of course,

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but not setting those expectations

so high to where you're almost

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gonna set yourself up for failure.

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Because that's the thing, too.

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And this is what I work a lot on

with my clients, is we want…

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And I, everybody g- has

very good intentions, 100%.

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I have good intentions whenever

I set myself high like that, too.

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But at the end of the

day, is that sustainable?

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Is that something that's going to last?

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Maybe not.

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You know what I mean?

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You might be brilliant, and you

might be incredible, and you may

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just stick to your guns and do it.

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Fantastic, my friends.

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But majority of us are not

built like that, right?

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Start small.

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Okay, I'm going to choose 10 new

fruits and vegetables to try this

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week, and I'm going to do two a day.

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All right?

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Start there, and then build up.

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Next week, we're gonna do 15.

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The week after that, we

can bump up to 30, right?

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start small and work your way up slowly

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Kelsy: I love it.

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Thank you so much, Bailey, for

coming on again and chatting all

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things hormonal health, fertility.

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I just, I love our conversations.

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I wanted to ask you, I know

this is a big passion of yours.

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Is there anything that we didn't get to

today that you wish girls understood?

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Is there something where

you're like, "I can't leave

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without saying this one thing"?

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Bayleigh: So it's one of those things

to where I feel like a lot of people who

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are probably listening to this episode,

you guys are probably in a really hard

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time, and it's probably a really hard

season especially for those who are

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really struggling to get pregnant.

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It's going to take time, and I want you

to know that this is not your fault, okay?

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Things happen.

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W- you know, there's different things

and different stages and different

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things that happen throughout

life that, may, influence this.

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But at the end of the day, you

truly got this, and you have a

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full support team behind you.

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I got your back.

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You may not even know me personally,

but my friend, I got your back.

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I'm here, praying for you, and

whatever you guys need I got you.

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Because I know we have a lot of women

really struggling with fertility

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issues and a lot of women on getting

pregnant and having those babies.

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So whatever I can do to help

support you guys, I gotcha

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Kelsy: I also love that it's starting to

become not just a female conversation,

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but a male conversation too.

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There's a whole other side

of the equation, right?

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Bayleigh: my gosh, yes.

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There is a massive whole other side

to the equation, which could be a

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whole other episode, but no it's not

just the women, it's the men, too,

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and everything I talked about today,

it's the same thing for the men.

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You know what I mean?

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They are eating fruits and vegetables,

eating their protein, eating their fiber,

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working out, alcohol can have a massive

impact on this as well really watching

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our alcohol intake and nicotine can

play a massive role in this as well.

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So looking at the full picture,

looking at sleep, stress, everything

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as a whole, evaluating that and

saying, "Okay, what can I do?"

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And then again, don't

start big, all right?

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Because again, if we start with just this

massive goal, it's hard to carry out.

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Start small and work your way up

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Kelsy: I love it.

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Bailey, thank you so very much.

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I will leave all of her links

for booking with her below,

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her website, her social media.

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We also did an episode back

in early summer with her, so

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I'll leave that link there too.

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But she also has a podcast out called

No Extremes on Spotify, Apple, like all

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of the podcasting platforms if you guys

wanna go hear her voice every single week

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and just hear her light and hear her joy.

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It's been an absolute pleasure

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Bayleigh: Thank you, Kelsey, for having

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Kelsy: Of course.

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I hope you guys learned so much from

Bailey, and I'll see you guys again on the

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