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Why Praising Children Matters More Than You Think: How to Praise Your Child with Julia Lair
Episode 2914th October 2025 • Educated Parent: Evidence-Based Parenting Tips to Solve Everyday Parenting Problems • Dr. Leah Clionsky
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Have you ever wondered if you’re doing it right when it comes to how to praise your child? 

So many parents second-guess the benefits of praising a child, but the truth is that the right kind of praise can completely change the tone of your home. In this episode, I talk with licensed clinical social worker and PCIT therapist Julia Lair about why praising children is one of the most powerful parenting tools we have and how to use it well.

We talk about the science-backed benefits of praising a child, practical examples of how to praise a child with words, and simple ways of promoting positive behaviour that you can start using today. Julia and I also discuss the fears many parents have about “too much praise” and how those worries often get in the way of connection and growth.

In this episode, we’ll explore:

  • Why the real benefits of praising a child go far beyond good manners, and how it shapes your child’s self-worth
  • What makes praising children so effective, and how to avoid the common mistakes parents make when giving praise
  • Simple strategies for how to praise a child with words that feel natural and genuine
  • The most effective ways of promoting positive behaviour through everyday interactions
  • How to praise your child in a way that builds confidence and connection

If you’ve ever hesitated about how to praise your child or wondered whether it really makes a difference, this episode will help you see why praising children is one of the best investments you can make in your relationship with your child.

Listen now to learn authentic, research-based ways of promoting positive behaviour and discover the lasting benefits of praising a child.

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