In this episode, Heather shares seven tips for being a good ally and why being a good ally to your Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgender, or Queer loved one is so important.
1. Be a good listener
2. Don't be afraid to ask questions, but do your own research
3. Get comfortable with being uncomfortable
4. Speak up
5. Support equality
6. Learn the language
7. Offer financial support if you are able
Resources mentioned in the episode:
GLSEN - www.glsen.org
The Trevor Project - www.thetrevorproject.org
SAGE - www.sage.org
How to be an LGBTQ Ally - Next Avenue
LGBTQ Ally Tips - UCDavis LGBTQIA Resource Center
Ways to be an LGBTQ Ally and Supporter - Oprah Magazine
Being an Ally - Youth for Change
What a Good LGBTQ Ally Looks Like - Vox
Terminology glossaries - Human Rights Campaign, Lambda Legal, The Trevor Project, PLFAG
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More Human. More Kind. formerly Just Breathe: Parenting Your LGBTQ Teen is a safe and supportive podcast in a heartfelt and empowering space where a mom and advocate offers the wisdom of lived experience and practical guidance and education to parents and allies, teaching empathy, kindness, love, and strong boundaries while supporting LGBTQ teens and the diverse LGBTQ community, including gay, lesbian, bisexual, trans, transgender, and queer individuals, through conversations about mental health, grief, gender identity, sexual orientation, human rights, social justice, parenting, parent support, and meaningful LGBTQ allyship and allyship in action.
