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EP.31 How to keep an open mind and have a deeper understanding of your environment [self-awareness]
Episode 3122nd August 2022 • The Borealis Experience • Aurora Eggert
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How to keep an open mind and have a deeper understanding of your environment 

Why is having an open mind more important than ever ?

What has travelling to do with it ?

How come we take things for granted in our daily life? 

What I have learnt along my journey is that when I travel and leave my daily life behind for a little while I can look at my whole life with fresh eyes. This way I can find out what I dearly miss and want to hold onto or I will find out what I need to let go off of. 

What are some things that you will hold on to and what are these other things that really need to go but you can’t quite put a finger on it ?


Let’s explore together



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Hello, hello, and welcome to the Borealis

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experience. I'm your host Aurora, life coach and companion

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on this beautiful journey called life. I'm so happy to be

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spending some time with you today, it's a very hot day out

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there had shows 40 degrees Celsius. And I'm in my very cool

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little forest house. And it's just so nice to be able to hide

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away from this heat, I hope you're doing well, I hope you

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are in a good place. I hope you feel loved and understood and

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free. Freedom is such a big thing nowadays, right we, we all

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felt stuck and caught and crammed. During those COVID

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years, and now we want to feel free we want to explore we want

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to feel as if what we do matters, we want to feel a sense

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of purpose. So I really hope that you have found that chances

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are if you are listening to my podcast, you might be still in a

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place of uncertainty and maybe feeling a little bit stuck. And

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if that's the case, I hope I can provide a space for you where

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you can feel yourself, rest and recharge your batteries. And

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make some time to reflect and to grow. Or go deeper or understand

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yourself and others on a deeper level.

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Today I want to talk about the importance of traveling.

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Traveling, you don't have to be a travel bag. You don't have to

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be that kind of person, you know who discovers a new country each

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month of the year.

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You can be a person who's actually very content with where

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they live. But I what I invite you to do is to be open to

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perceive an old place a place that you feel, you know, very

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comfortable and with new fresh eyes and perspective. And that

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if you travel and go drive, walk to a new place that you look at

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the new place through the eyes of a child very curious. Very,

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very inquisitive. very open minded. I've learned that in

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recent years. I'm I'm not an extreme travel bug, but I

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traveled a lot and the benefits of traveling, have having an

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open mind. Meeting new people seeing new places is wonderful.

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It's just so great. And all of a sudden, all those little

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problems that you had in your daily life, vanish, or even get

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resolved.

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If we go into birds perspective, like I say all too often, or if

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we have a little bit of you know distance from our current life

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from our daily life. It's sometimes it's easier to see

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what is not going well for us. And we can also start missing.

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What is going very well for us right you can miss your

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children, your partner, your hobbies, your house, your

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apartment, your pets, whatever it is that you leave behind for

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a little while. You will start missing if you truly love it and

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enjoy it in your life and when we come back home, then, most of

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the time we have this feeling of a full heart, a grateful heart

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and we promise ourselves someday I was even that we want to be

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more grateful for what we have, because we missed it so much now

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that we didn't have the people in our life or the things or the

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hobbies. And now, we promised ourselves that when we engaged

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again, then we want to be more mindful. And it's really

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important to remind ourselves of that, and to not forget to be

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grateful for what we have. And that yeah, we will be coming

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back to our daily daily life, but maybe we can look at it with

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fresh eyes. And maybe if you travel to a new place, you can

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be curious about everything that's going on, sometimes we

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traveled to a new place, and we want to make sure that our

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comfort zone is being preserved read, we want the same coffee,

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we want the same breakfast, we want the same way of living in a

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new country. And that's sometimes very hard to find. So

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if we start to be more open and more relaxed, and know that we

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have everything that we need to feel comfortable, we don't need,

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what we have at home, but we can learn new things that make us

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feel comfortable and good and safe. To have that open

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mindedness is such a gift, it opens extremely valuable

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precious doors to your life. I traveled to a nearby city two

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weekends ago, and we went to a Japanese garden. And we entered

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this garden. And he just thought and felt all of a sudden as if

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you were in a new world. And I started moving differently and

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thinking differently, and seeing details that I wouldn't see if

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it wasn't in a sacred space like that Japanese garden Enos. And

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it really initiated a shift inside of myself. And that is

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what inspired my episode today is that you don't have to travel

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far. You don't have to pay expensive. How do you say that?

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You don't have to pay for expensive flight tickets. But

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you can travel to a close by place and go to a new cafe, go

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to an art gallery, do something that you would usually never do.

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And by physically engaging in something that we never do, of

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course, it's it's a safe activity, it's an activity that

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makes you good, feel good. It's nothing dangerous. It's nothing,

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you know, too, out there and too challenging. As soon as we put

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ourselves in a new environment, our mind opens again, and our

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heart will do the same.

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And that is what I'm inviting people to do. Most of the time

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in my workshop that I hosted here in over the last couple of

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months. I invite people to listen with their heart, put

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your pen away, put your mind away for a second, turn the

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volume down and simply listen with your heart and see how

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differently it hits you how it stimulates your nervous system

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and a different way. I feel all too often we approach situations

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difficult people, our work our life, our love life from a very

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heavy space. And then we get upset that we don't get the

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results that we want. And I don't have the solution to that

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I'm not, you know, hovering above you. I'm right next to you

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in this mess. But what I've noticed this, once I turned the

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volume down of my mind, I can switch my heart on and I'm

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curious and hoping and in a place of you know wanting to

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learn new things. needing to understand my environment.

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Instead of having opinions making assumptions, or having

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harsh judgments. I feel much better with myself. I sleep much

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better. I feel much better. In my skin. So make the time to go

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visit new places, say yes to an invitation, of course, only if

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it's safe, that you usually would decline, you know, there's

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little community fests festivals, or there is, like I

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said earlier art galleries, that host events, there is theatres,

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movies, live music, cooking classes, you can learn a musical

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instrument, learn to stimulate your brain in a way that you

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haven't stimulated in a long time, and then change it up. You

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don't have to go too deep, you can just try it out once. And if

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you like it, you try it out twice. But the physical location

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can usually help us to be that open minded again. We forget

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about it. And we need to get reminded that this world is so

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big. And we're just so small. And to have that humble feeling

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in your chest, that you're just a little creature trying to do

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her or his way. Not by diminishing yourself and looking

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down on yourself. And, you know, thinking thoughts like, Oh, my

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God, I'm just so unimportant. And I'm just this little wheel,

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and I will never make a difference in other people's

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lives. No, that's not what I mean. But to see how different

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people approach situations in a different way, can be so mind

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blowing at times. It's so fascinating how a different

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culture would approach a specific topic like, you know,

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anger management, or love dilemmas, or eating disorders,

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with such a different mindset. And we can learn so much. If we

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have an open mind. And then you come home, get back into your

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daily life. And we'll be more grateful for what you have, or

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will introduce into your life new practices. And when you meet

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people, and it doesn't matter if you're single or in a

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relationship, you will also look at them in a different way, you

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will maybe listen to them more closely. You will see that,

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yeah, you know that person for several years now. But they

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still have secrets, they still have ways of thinking that you

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could never imagine they would have. And to be curious to be

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open minded will help you deepen your relationships

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enormously to a point that you can really press a reset button

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in a relationship, just by being curious. You don't need to get

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fancy, you can just ask questions. I feel we we don't

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wander enough anymore. Right? Because everything is at the tip

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of our fingers. We can Google CellTech right away. But you can

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google your partner, you can google your children. You have

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to ask questions, be inquisitive and observe them with the

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kindest, most loving eyes and learn to understand them. And by

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traveling by leaving your comfort zone. You will feel that

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deep appreciation for sure for what you have, and for what you

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want and desire in your life for what you want to change in your

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life for what doesn't fit anymore, and really has to go

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now. So, my dear friend, my dear listener, I'm going to leave you

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with this. I'm sending my love out to you. As always, if you

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want to request an episode Don't hold back. I'm also available

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for one on one coaching or if you're a group of people, and

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you want me to hold workshops So be it in your friends circle or

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at work with your co workers, or you want to pass on my details

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to your boss and invite them to host workshops with me together.

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Then I'm open and available for this as well. All right, thank

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you so much for being here. I hope I was able to bring you

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lots of value and peace and hope and self reflection to take good

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care of yourself and I'll be out there very soon again. Bye bye

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