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In this episode of The Dwelling Place from Entrusted Ministries, Stephanie Hickox begins a journey through the Book of Proverbs—one of the most practical and life-changing books in all of Scripture for Christian parents.
Whether you're reading the Bible for the first time, leading family devotions, discipling your children, or simply longing for greater wisdom in your own life, Proverbs offers timeless guidance rooted in the fear of the Lord.
Together, we'll explore how biblical wisdom shapes our parenting, our relationships, our decisions, and our walk with Christ. We'll also discover why Proverbs is much more than self-help—it is God's invitation to practical righteousness and wholehearted dependence on Him.
If you've ever wondered:
This episode will encourage you to anchor your parenting in God's Word rather than trends, formulas, or fear.
Proverbs reminds us that our greatest goal is not simply raising well-behaved children, but helping our children develop hearts that fear the Lord, treasure His wisdom, and walk faithfully with Him.
Stephanie also discusses Entrusted With a Child's Heart, a discipleship resource from Entrusted Ministries designed to help parents move beyond behavior modification and address the heart issues driving their children's actions through the truth of Scripture.
This episode concludes with a powerful prayer based on Proverbs 2, asking God to help our children:
If you're looking for a Bible-reading podcast for moms, Christian parenting encouragement, practical biblical wisdom, and guided prayer rooted in Scripture, this episode will equip and encourage you to keep walking faithfully with the Lord.
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Learn more about Entrusted Ministries and discover additional resources for Christian families at Entrusted Ministries.
Commentaries Most Referenced: Moody Commentary, MacArthur Commentary, Spurgeon's Treasury of David
This is The Dwelling Place from Entrusted Ministries.
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:I'm Stephanie Hickox, and today
we're beginning the Book of Proverbs.
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:I promise you that every moment
that you put into this book will
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:benefit you for life in general,
and especially in your parenting.
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:Whether your children are struggling
with dishonesty, pride, greed, anger,
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:foolishness, or impulsivity, God's
Word has something to say about it.
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:And even though Solomon himself would fall
short of following his own wisdom, we'll
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:keep our eyes focused on Jesus because He
personified wisdom as He walked this earth
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:If I had to give a two-word synopsis
of Proverbs, I would say practical
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:righteousness, and you might be amazed at
how much of it applies to our lives, even
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:though the cultural context has changed
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:verse 1:1 tells us, "These
are the proverbs of Solomon,
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:son of David, king of Israel."
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:As 1 Kings tells us, Solomon
recited over 3,000 proverbs.
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:It's likely that someone recorded
his wisdom and included 513 of
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:these that are attributed to him.
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:And then at the end, some other
authors get their work included as well
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:But it wasn't until Hezekiah and his
men compiled them between 716 and 687
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:BC That the book of Proverbs resulted
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:In terms of the setting and the audience,
much of this is general wisdom for life.
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:But a lot of guidance would've come
out of these royal court situations.
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:Think about those two women that
came before Solomon with the baby,
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:and he had to judge their situation
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:But I think you and I are going to
most love the sections that are a
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:father speaking truth to his son
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:In a way, Proverbs is the fulfillment of
those commands in Deuteronomy that parents
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:would train and teach their children
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:Tomorrow I'll explain an activity I had my
kids do so they could understand this book
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:Some of the main themes are that wisdom
is available as general revelation.
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:God is the source of wisdom.
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:Often we read self-help books or
encounter experts in different areas.
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:They've discovered truth, but they don't
even realize it's coming from the Lord.
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:That is the grace of general
revelation Next, we find that walking
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:in wisdom is actually a way of
worshiping and honoring the Lord.
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:One of the most well-known verses
is 1:7, " The fear of the Lord is
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:the beginning of knowledge; fools
despise wisdom and instruction."
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:That'll preach for your parenting, right?
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:We'll often see the contrast between
the wise and the foolish, and
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:Proverbs will help us understand
this is a matter of life and death
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:But there's not just one type of fool
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:We can be foolish out of ignorance, pride,
laziness, wickedness, and stubbornness
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:But what we really need to keep
in mind is that these proverbs
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:are general principles for life.
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:They're not guarantees or promises.
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:They're probabilities, and
they're generally true.
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:But our God is anything but a formula,
and we cannot reduce Him to such.
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:That's why we need to study the whole
counsel of scripture When we study Job
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:and Ecclesiastes, we quickly realize that
life doesn't get tied up with a pretty
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:bow Because God is steadfastly loving,
blessings often do come our way when
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:we walk according to God's principles.
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:But it may not feel as formulaic as
Proverbs lays out We may have to be more
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:patient than we want to, and that's why we
need to keep the view of eternity in mind
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:And it's the fact that kids and parenting
isn't a formula that partially inspired
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:Betsy Corning to write Entrusted With
a Child's Heart It really focuses
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:on getting to the heart of our kids
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:instead of just behavior modification.
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:And much of the wisdom in
the study is from Proverbs.
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:So if you would like someone to take
you by the hand and explain what
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:God's word says about parenting, As
always, it's linked in our show notes
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:One of the key ideas included is that
there are blessings when we fear the Lord.
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:And as a refresher, it's a good thing,
this reverence and respect of a holy God.
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:I've mentioned Betsy's analogy before
that it's like standing before the ocean,
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:watching the powerful waves come in.
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:You recognize the beauty of it, and
you can delight in the enjoyment
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:of it, but you appreciate how
minuscule you are compared to it
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:and respect the power that it has
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:When we consider the sins that we're
struggling to overcome in our life,
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:whether it's something we wanna
stop doing or something we know we
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:should be doing that we're not If
we were to really meditate on the
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:fear of God We would be transformed
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:I heard a story recently of a young
pastor who visited an older pastor who
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:had fallen and he was in prison for
his crimes This fallen pastor declared
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:that prison was God's grace to him.
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:And the young man asked, " When did
you fall out of love with Jesus?"
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:The elder looked at him squarely
in the eyes saying, " I didn't.
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:I just didn't fear him."
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:It's scary, isn't it?
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:That's such a wake-up call for our
generation that wants to villainize
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:any attempt to present authority or
draw boundary lines for our kids.
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:A healthy awe of the Lord is necessary
for the Christian life, and in the words
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:of Josh Howerton, " You'd need a scissors
to cut that concept out of scripture."
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:As we begin the first section of the
book, which includes the first nine
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:chapters, instead of those brief sayings,
they're actually longer discourses
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:Part of which are that father imparting
wisdom to his son, and then wisdom
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:herself calling out to be followed
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:All right,, let's start
digging into some passages
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:Beginning in one seven, " The fear of
the Lord is the beginning of knowledge.
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:Fools despise wisdom and instruction.
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:Hear, my son, your father's instruction,
and forsake not your mother's teaching:
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:for they are a graceful garland for
your head, and pennance for your neck.
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:My son, if sinners entice you,
do not consent " My son, do
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:not walk in the way with them.
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:Hold back your foot from their
paths, for their feet run to evil
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:and they make haste to shed blood."
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:In 120, wisdom cries aloud in the street.
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:In the markets, she raises her voice.
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:At the head of the noisy
streets, she cries out.
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:At the entrance of the
city gates, she speaks.
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:How long, O simple ones,
will you love being simple?
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:How long will scoffers delight in their
scoffing and fools hate knowledge?
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:If you turn at my reproof, behold,
I will pour out my spirit to you
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:I will make my words known to you.
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:Because they hated knowledge and did
not choose the fear of the Lord, would
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:have none of my counsel and despised
all my reproof, therefore they shall
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:eat the fruit of their way and have
their fill of their own devices.
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:For the simple are killed by
their turning away, and the
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:complacency of fools destroys them.
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:But whoever listens to me will
dwell secure and will be at
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:ease without dread of disaster
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:These are powerful warnings
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:I'm sure you've also been encouraged
by Proverbs 3, trust in the Lord
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:with all your heart, and do not
lean on your own understanding.
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:In all your ways acknowledge Him,
and He will make straight your paths.
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:" Be not wise in your own eyes.
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:Fear the Lord and turn away from evil.
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:It will be healing to your flesh
and refreshment to your bones.
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:Honor the Lord with your wealth and with
the first fruits of all your produce.
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:Then your barns will be filled
with plenty, and your vats
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:will be bursting with wine.
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:My son, do not despise the Lord's
discipline or be weary of His reproof,
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:for the Lord reproves him whom He loves,
as a father the son in whom he delights.
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:Blessed is the one who finds wisdom and
the one who gets understanding, For the
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:gain from her is better than gain from
silver and her profit better than gold.
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:She is more precious than jewels, and
nothing you desire can compare with her
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:The rest of the chapter tells us wisdom is
a tree of life and that the Lord founded
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:and established the earth by wisdom
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:And even that God blesses the
dwelling of the righteous.
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:I know that's what you and I are
seeking Let's continue to hear
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:how this father disciples his son.
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:In 4:10, " Hear, my son, and
accept my words, that the
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:years of your life may be many.
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:I have taught you the way of wisdom.
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:I have led you in the
paths of uprightness.
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:When you walk, your step will
not be hampered, and if you
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:run, you will not stumble.
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:Keep hold of instruction.
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:Do not let go.
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:Guard her, for she is your life."
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:Do not enter the path of the wicked
and do not walk in the way of the evil.
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:Avoid it.
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:Do not go on it.
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:Turn away from it and pass on.
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:For they cannot sleep
unless they have done wrong.
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:They are robbed of sleep unless
they have made someone stumble
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:For they eat the bread of wickedness
and drink the wine of violence.
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:But the path of the righteous is
like the light of dawn, which shines
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:brighter and brighter until full day.
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:And jumping to verse 23, " Keep
your heart with all vigilance, for
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:from it flow the springs of life.
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:Put away from you crooked speech,
and put devious talk far from you.
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:Let your eyes look directly forward,
and your gaze be straight before you.
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:Ponder the path of your feet,
then all your ways will be sure.
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:Do not swerve to the right or to the left.
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:Turn your foot away from evil."
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:Over and over, we heard about our
feet and the path on which we walk.
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:I particularly loved that admonition
in 4:26, " Ponder the path of your
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:feet, then all your ways will be sure."
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:Especially as our kids get older, it's
important to train them to consider the
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:impact of their choices before they act
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:trusting that as chapter three,
verses five and six told us, if
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:we acknowledge God in everything,
He will make our path straight.
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:But we should seek Him first instead
of continuing to go down the wrong path
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:and then crying out for help because
we reached dead, end We wanna be people
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:who dwell and walk with the Lord, not
just cry out when they have a problem
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:It may be hard work to get the
wise answer, but I'm so encouraged
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:that 2:7 declared that God stores
up sound wisdom for the upright.
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:Doesn't that make you wanna storm the
gates of heaven with your prayers, asking
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:God to rain down the wisdom upon you?
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:Let's do that as we pray
a section of Proverbs 2.
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:Heavenly Father, thank you that
you are a God of all wisdom, and
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:that you set up your creation
to operate in wisdom as well.
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:We pray our children would
treasure your commands
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:And may their ears be
attentive to your wisdom.
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:Our deep desire is that they
would call to you for insight
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:and seek you as hidden treasure
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:Incline their hearts To understand
the blessing of fearing You.
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:Thank You that You store up wisdom
for the upright, and that at
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:the right time, You will give us
just what we need to honor You
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:We're abundantly grateful that you
are a shield to those who walk in
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:integrity, and that you guard the paths
and watch over the way of your saints.
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:You are a good Father,
protecting and guiding us
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:Remind us to be a people that walk
and dwell with you and prevent us
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:from relying on the technology that
is all around us that falsely promises
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:to solve all of our problems when
instead we have a Savior who alone
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:is our and alone can satisfy us.
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:We love you, Jesus, and we know
that in you are hidden all the
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:treasures of wisdom and knowledge.
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:It's in your name we pray.
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:Amen.