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Ep. 19 Life lessons from a 89 year old soul [society, self-care]
Episode 1913th June 2021 • The Borealis Experience • Aurora Eggert
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Some people on this planet reach 89 and are still full of life and energy

What are these people doing differently than others.

Why are some people so resilient and not others

I feel It all starts in the mind

If you have a healthy mind you will make decisions that support you and your health but also others around you 

If you know you body you will be able to give it what it needs and it will reward you with health and resilience

If you have a mission you will never feel bored and lonely 


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Hello, and welcome to the Borealis experience. I'm

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your host Aurora, and I'm very happy to be spending some time

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with you today. I hope you're doing well. I hope Life is good,

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and if its a little rough. Rig t now. I hope I can give you ho

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e and peace and help you o reconnect to yourself. Today

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I want to talk about life lesso s that I've learned from an

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9 year old. Some of you know th t I live in Canada, on a litt

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e cottage in the Rocky Mountai s with my grandma. My mom is he

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e as well. But today I want o talk about the life lessons

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I learned from my 89 year o d French grandma. She doesn

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t speak English. And over 20 yea s ago, they decided to move to t

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e English part of Canada. So y u can imagine that it was pret

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y difficult at times for them. B t they made it friends. They, as

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I said, have this beautiful litt e cottage out here. And yeah, h

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d a really, really good li e together. My grandpa passed

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n 2016. And ever since my grand a is very busy in the gardens, s

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e plays the piano. She eats wel . She keeps herself busy eve

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y day. So the first lesson I' e learned is that if you have

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a dream, there is no obstacle . There is times where you wi

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l feel you're going through. Yea , uncertainty, there's times th

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t you will feel you a e encountering obstacles when y

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u pursuing your dreams. But if y u really want something so badl

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, nothing can really hold y u back. So self doubt and doubti

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g their dreams was never a part f my grandparents life. The seco

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d thing I've learned from her s that you have to live

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n moderation and de p appreciation. She is from Fran

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e and French people apprecia e good wine, and very good foo

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. But you have to enjoy the e things in moderation. You can

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t indulge. You can't let yourse f go. You have to enjoy your foo

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, appreciate your food and n t exaggerate of the good thing

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. The third thing she taught me s that you have to learn a litt

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e bit about everythin

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She has no day where she is depressed or bored or doesn't

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know what to do with herself. When she has nothing to do

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around the gardens, nothing to cook or bake as she loves to do.

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She learned something new. Funny thing is that she never really

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learned to speak English because that would have helped her

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enormously. I don't know if it is the French pride or whatever

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it is if she believes that she can learn English or that she

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sounds funny. But she knows how to sew. She knows how to knit.

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She knows how to cook and bake all different kinds of meals and

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pastries. She plays the piano and learns new songs on a weekly

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I would say and many more things when it comes to the garden. She

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never gets tired of learning new things and failing at the

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beginning, but then succeeding. Because the more you do a new

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task, the better you get, there is no way around when you put

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your focus in. When you have good intentions. When you're

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consistent, then you will get better and something new. So

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also when it comes to repairing things, like doing an oil change

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on a truck on a car, she's curious about how it works. I

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feel a lot of times we have resistance to learning things

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that we think was too dumb or is other people can do it. So the

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third thing would be curiosity. Be curious and excited to learn

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new things. Another thing that I've learned is keep in touch

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with your close friends, and the people you love in your life,

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never wonder if the other person is doing enough, investing

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enough. Always make sure that you are giving your all in your

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relationships. Don't forget your friends birthdays. Just message

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them randomly and ask them how they're doing, how they're

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feeling. What their mind is busy with. Be curious about your

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friends lives and how they handle situations. My grandma

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and grandpa's sailed around the world before they settled in

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Canada.

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And

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throughout the years, they always kept in touch with their

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friends. And back then you have to imagine there was no

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WhatsApp. There was no Facebook, of course, no emails, she had to

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send and written letters. And then go to the post office, pay

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a lot of money. And then send a letter that would take 10 days

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at times to reach their friends. But you would always make sure

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that they know what they are doing right now and share their

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adventures. and wonder how her friends back home are doing. And

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it's very important for your heart for your soul to keep in

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touch with at least one person. Next thing that I've learned

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from her as travel, travel as much as you can, with at least

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amount of baggage as you can really learn to be a minimalist.

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Learn from other cultures learn to see that we all want the

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same. We all need the same on this planet. Yet, we might use a

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different language, different body language, different tools

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to satisfy our needs to go about our days. She saw to poverty

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back in Bolivia. And it really touched her so deeply. And when

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she came back home and really changed the way she cooked and

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used water and appreciated what she had. The other day I've

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learned that traveling is not only good for the mind and

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opening your heart, but on a biological level. On a gut

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level. It is so important to strengthen your immune system

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because he can maybe imagine that if you've traveled to

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Africa or Australia or South America. You take in way

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different bacteria and ingest them and it's exciting for your

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immune system. To sometimes fight them off, but sometimes to

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integrate them and make your gut more biodiverse. So, traveling,

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being open to learn from new cultures, and especially to

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learn to live with very, very minimal resources is a very

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important lesson you can learn in life. And there's really

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never an excuse not to travel, you can

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go and travel in a camper van, you can go and work your little

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ass off and put money aside so that you can travel

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is really important to open up your mind to, to feel and see

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new cultures in order to learn, but in also, order to appreciate

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what you have at home. The last lesson that I've learned from my

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grandma is to be disciplined to wake up every morning at the

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same time, even though you don't have a job to go to. You make

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yourself busy. I know that every night she goes to bed, she knows

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exactly what she's gonna do the next day. And she really takes

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it serious, and does it with full attention

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and focus and love. And it really does matter what it is.

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But most of the time it is to serve others.

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And I feel that's a very, very important lesson to learn.

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Because sometimes we feel depressed, we feel lonely. And

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all it is is that we are too focused on ourselves and not

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enough on other people around us. And we are herd animals by

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nature. So if we start being there for others, serving

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others, we will be connected again to community and feel less

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lonely and feel as if we have a purpose. And this is so

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incredibly important. I hope these little lessons here helped

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you. And I know they will certainly help you on a dark day

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that you can go back and listen to this and know that Yeah,

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there's a couple of very specific things that you can do

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in order to feel better right away. I'm sure there's many more

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lessons that I forgot here now today, but those were the core

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lessons said, I've learned from my grandma so far living with

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her

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first seven years, I think so yeah, I speak French with her

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every day. I speak English with you guys. And with my friends

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back home and with my mom here I speak German.

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And my brain loves it. Tried to learn a little bit about

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everything. And you will feel rich, and you will feel you can

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connect with more people. Thank you so much for listening to the

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Borealis experience. Be sure to subscribe and leave me a review

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