In this episode, our host Joseph Grech is joined by Patrick Mullarkey, an experienced learning and leadership professional who works in startups and scale-ups within the tech sector. Patrick shares his insights into coaching practice and the way that it supports leadership practices and organizational development.
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Hello everyone and welcome to our latest episode of Coaching In Focus.
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:I am joined today by the
wonderful Patrick Malarkey.
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:Patrick, how are you doing today?
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:Patrick: I'm great.
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:I'm good.
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:It's been a good week.
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:Life is good.
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:I'm talking to you which
makes life even better.
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:And my week all the brighter.
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:So yeah, how are you?
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:You good?
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:Joseph: I'm here.
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:I'm doing very well.
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:And thanks for being here today.
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:Patrick is a learning and
leadership professional.
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:He works across a number of
different sectors and most recently
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:in startups and scale ups in tech.
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:As a learning professional, Patrick
and I have worked together for quite
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:a few years actually and Patrick
also has an interest in coaching and
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:mentoring, particularly how these
support leadership practices, leadership
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:development across organizations.
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:So I thought it would be great for us to
have a conversation in relation to this.
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:So Patrick, thank you for spending
a bit of time with me today.
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:I really appreciate it.
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:Maybe tell us a little bit about
yourself, your work, what are some type
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:of L& D and coaching stuff that you do?
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:Patrick: I like to view myself as
being like consciously incompetent to
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:a certain degree of coaching and we
might come on to this a little bit.
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:I'm a learning professional by trade.
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:10 years working on learning
development in various roles, managerial
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:consultancies, public sector and so on.
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:But most recently, found a
home in tech essentially.
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:And I love the sector and the kind of,
the people and the teams you get to work
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:with, and it's a very dynamic environment.
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:How and where kind of coaching
comes into some of this?
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:I think there's lots of nuance in
coaching, but there's also a lot of
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:misunderstanding sometimes around it.
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:And I think sometimes organizations and
learning teams, we suffer from like,
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:there's a lack of barriers to entry.
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:in parts of coaching, which I think
sometimes skews the views of what a
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:good or great coach can look like.
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:For me, I feel a confident say, you know,
about my expertise and ability around
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:being a learning leadership management
professional, whatever label you use.
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:But I've got like a respect and reverence
in terms of what good coaching looks like.
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:The notion around What makes a great
coach, what effective coaching looks like,
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:also how that scales in organizations,
because it doesn't necessarily always
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:does, which is tricky, can be quite
drastically different to the realities
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:of what people say or how people
present themselves as a exec, life
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:coach, however you want to describe it.
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:Um, I do think that's
changing, fortunately.
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:I feel like the last, uh, It's been
refined and people have been more
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:deliberate about it, but I believe
there's massive, massive value to
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:how aware you apply your skills, um,
and using the coach as a resource
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:and support through that journey.
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:Joseph: Oh, thank you,
Patrick, for sharing that.
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:So much richness, I feel, and what
you said, and I found myself like
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:writing things down because I want
to ask you questions about it.
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:Um, and I can echo that sentiment
having worked in L& D and how I got into
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:coaching in a way I found myself being.
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:I'm not saying he pushed, I wanted
to do it, but it feels like it's
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:a natural progression for NLD
professionals to move from Working
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:with groups to working individually.
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:And sometimes there isn't that
development, that training, that
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:focus on how we use coaching
skills differently from training.
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:We kind of go, well, you train
big groups, train in quotes.
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:One person.
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:Yeah.
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:Patrick: Yeah.
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:Joseph: You mentioned that word conscious
incompetence in relation to coaching.
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:Uh, let's unpick that a bit.
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:Patrick: Yeah, yeah.
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:So I won't bore people if you're
listening to this part You've
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:probably got a sense of that cycle
of like consciously incompetence.
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:I'm gonna get the order wrong So
I'm not gonna try and repeat it.
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:Put it in the show notes.
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:Yeah, the classic put
it in the show notes.
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:What, how, why do I describe myself as
falling into that bracket is that I've
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:got a notion around kind of certain
coaching models, uh, in conversations
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:and techniques, but in terms of
formalized deliberate practice for
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:myself as a coach or mentor, it's been
quite piecemeal and not deliberate.
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:As strategic as say, I think of some
of the individuals you've had on this
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:podcast previously and people who are
full time coaches who have been accredited
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:via programs that you run or elsewhere.
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:They've got a very deliberate set
of toolkits and frameworks they
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:can refer back on, but also that
sense of deliberate practice.
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:And there's something here, and
this is where it gets a bit gray,
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:I think, and this is where the
barriers to entry suddenly lower.
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:There's something around temperament.
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:There's something around application
of skills that are akin to
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:counselors as well that you bring in.
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:And then suddenly you bring certain
coaches start bringing techniques around.
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:So for example, cognitive behavior
therapy and stuff like that just to
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:help challenge limiting beliefs and
all of that stuff I find fascinating.
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:But I am, I feel as though across
the board, there's very levels of
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:competence, but I'd bucket it as
like, I would not feel as though I'm
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:an expert, which is partly why I say
to my stakeholders when I work with
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:them, here's my benefit of value add.
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:Here's the areas like, okay.
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:You, I'm nailed on succeeding for
you, but here's the gaps as well.
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:We might not need these skills or gaps
for our projects or in the organization,
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:but let's be really deliberate.
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:So we're kind of on the same page.
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:And then the flip side is as well,
to your point earlier, and this might
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:be a slight tangent is, um, I've seen
it a lot as a natural progression
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:for learning professionals who've
gone from these group settings to
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:gradually more intimate, refined,
single group experiences as they perhaps
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:they've gone up the management chain.
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:They become nearer C suite
or senior leadership roles.
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:And those can be really fulfilling
and as well, frankly, commercially
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:more impactful for your bank balance,
but they are exposing as well.
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:And again, that's where the
piece around, I suppose.
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:You've got to treat access
to those opportunities as a
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:consequence, not a reward.
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:So it's a consequence of your
behaviors, your, uh, deliberate
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:practice and stuff you're doing.
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:Not just the reward for tenure
or service sometimes or framing
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:yourself as some sort of I hesitate
to use the phrase life coach.
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:I'm not trying to damn any One
in that element of the coaching
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:industry, but presenting yourself
as, as a self declared coach.
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:I think it'd be tricky.
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:Joseph: That's the trick of it, isn't it?
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:Whether you're a life coach or executive
coach or business coaches of a aspect.
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:It's how, because the
industry is unregulated.
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:So to a degree, anyone can
call themselves a coach.
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:If we think from an L& D point of view,
like the CIPD has got quite a strong
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:hold in terms of a qualification pathway.
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:Yeah, we do have that from coaching,
like the ICF and other awarding bodies.
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:But there's a lot of differences.
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:Like if you do an ILM program in
coaching, it is very organizational based.
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:It's very much so transactional.
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:So you might probably not
go into cognitive behavioral
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:work or limiting beliefs.
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:But if you're doing an
ICF one, which is broader.
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:But there isn't this unified kind of
standard that L& D professionals or anyone
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:can just pick up on and get trained on.
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:There's a lot of different
training programs, lots of ways
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:how you can become a coach.
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:Patrick: Yeah, and it's partly as
well, and that's before, it's funny,
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:that's what I thought you were saying
then, that's before you even put like
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:regional variants in, like of like say,
established providers or bodies in the U.
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:versus EMEA and so on and so forth.
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:And then there's even like the
cultural rapport pieces that layer
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:underneath around like, you know,
how people interact and around
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:communication and culture and so on.
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:But again, that's why as well,
I think it's really valuable
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:for like a learning function.
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:If you have a learning professional who's
moving in that direction and goes down one
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:of the paths you've outlined, fantastic,
like they're refining their craft towards
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:an outcome or goal of being perhaps a full
time coach or that being a key feature
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:of their offer as an employee, but this
strength and power and saying, actually,
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:like, you know, I, I find those areas
fascinating, but I'm not in this point in
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:the career where I'm about to, you know,
Narrow in and do a specific qualification.
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:I might be in the next 18 months
full depreciation to anyone who sees
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:my LinkedIn in the next two years.
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:You're always welcome to join
one of our Yeah, I knew that.
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:A warm lead for you Joseph.
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:Joseph: You'll be very welcome.
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:Patrick: Joseph will also
include his mate's rates
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:discount in the show notes too.
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:Yeah.
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:Um, but again, I don't think
there's frictional tension.
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:In between, if I was to say the two camps
of learning and coaching professionals
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:per se, but I have seen certain
stakeholders in the learning camp who
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:not, it's threatened the right word.
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:I don't know, but like slight cynicism
around like, Oh, what does that coach do?
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:Is it, isn't it just the grow model?
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:Is that it?
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:Is that all they got?
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:And it could be, but actually more
often than not, there's a lot more
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:to it that they actually bring
to the, to the table challenge.
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:I think in organizations that are.
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:Changing rapidly or growing fast, like,
you know, that's the story of my previous
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:three or four years is, um, trying to
get coaching practices that scale is
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:very, very difficult because just the
cost involved and in the quality control.
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organizations and some companies
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:who are doing some brilliant stuff.
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:Uh, using technology to
address that challenge.
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:And I think it's, it will not become
as big a challenge as it currently
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:feels today, but I can see as well,
like the notion of democratizing
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:coaching can be tricky 'cause giving
it to the c-suite, senior leaders,
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:you'll see ime you can, you can, the
impacts can resonate really clearly.
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:And then if you try and spread that
out over hundreds of people, that's
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:trickier to manage, but also deliver on.
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:Did
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:Joseph: you know that at Become, we offer
a number of different coach training
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:programs to people just like you.
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:If you're new to coaching, there is a
level one diploma in integrative coaching.
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:If you've been coaching for a while,
or perhaps you're already an ACC coach,
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:then we have the advanced diploma in
integrative coaching, which leads all
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:the way to the PCC credential by the ICF.
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:We also have a number of CPD
programs and certificates,
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:including mentoring and supervision.
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:To find out more, go to tubicam.
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:org or just check the show notes.
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:There's an analogy that
came to mind actually.
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:It's like where you have a really
good Sales practitioner and then
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:they get promoted to a sales manager,
but actually they don't understand
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:this, that like they, that they've
not been trained as a manager.
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:And I think sometimes in L& D, we're
a really good trainer facilitator.
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:We, we then start doing coaching, but
we don't get trained into coaching and
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:there's different, you know, there's the
expectation that we can, we can do both.
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democratizing coaching.
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:That is a challenge because in a
lot of organization coaching is
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:offered at like at exec levels.
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:What I'm finding is there's a lot
more kind of train the trainer
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:approaches where L& D is coming in and
let's say training line managers on.
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:I do generally believe that not
everyone It needs to be a coach.
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:I mean, kind of like, I do think everyone
would benefit with coaching skills, but
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:just, uh, like knowing the growth model is
better than not knowing anything, knowing
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:some CBT kind of type discussions that
you could have with your team members
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:is better than not knowing anything.
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:So a little bit, I feel
like goes a long way.
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:Um, and an L and D I'm
finding that we're doing.
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:We're doing some of that.
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:Like a lot of NLP practitioners are
becoming coaches so that they then
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:train their own managers on how to
have coaching conversations rather
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:I mean, what do you think?
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:Are you seeing this more in practice?
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:Patrick: Yeah.
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:And part of it is skills building
for the individual concerned.
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:Like that's definitely a motivator, but
there is a perception around if, you
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:know, that train the trainer approach.
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:I'm not necessarily It has its moments
depending on the topic or task.
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:I always say to people though, that can
work, but let's be conscious around who's
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out their preferences and biases as well.
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they're bringing to the table.
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:And I, and when I say that, I
include myself in that is like, you
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:know, I've got certain preferences
and work style facilitation,
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:however you want to label it.
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:Are we happy to duplicate those?
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:and amplify those behaviors.
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:If so, great.
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:But if not, or we have a risk
or concern we need to manage,
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:let's have that conversation.
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:And this kind of feeds into more
broadly, like, have you done an effective
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:analysis or discovery piece at the start?
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:I think as well, frankly, that there's,
I hesitate to say this, but like, I
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:think sometimes we, I say we, learning
industry, learning professionals,
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:learning leaders, we have to deal with
our stakeholders perception, their own
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:So, for example, I'm going to
make wild generalizations now just
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:for the benefit of this, but just
stay with me, Lister and Joseph.
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:C suite individuals have got to their
point in time in their career via certain
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:Their point of reference,
therefore, for success, i.
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:how do we help people get to my level,
is based on their own lived experience.
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:So that might be a trainer trainer
approach, but it's not necessarily
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:the most effective in terms of
dealing or rolling out behaviours.
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:And then that's where it gets
interesting to say, well look, and go
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:Would we benefit from using a third party
or a supplier to scale this up and out?
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:I often think organizations are quite
receptive to a conversation around not
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:an ongoing engagement like people joke
about like a supplier being like a
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:barnacle on the side of a ship you just
can't get it off once it's on in but
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:taking like a phased approach and being
honest with suppliers say look first
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:three to six months We're going to be
leveraging so many of your people to
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:roll this out during our embed phase.
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:But gradually a metric for success
is growing our own and embedding the
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:behaviors that we want to mirror.
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:If the people you're getting in the
supplies are good, effective at what
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:they do, I don't think it's, I think
it might be overambitious to try and
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:match their expertise, but try and
get like 78 percent of the way, and
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:then the 20 percent might be nuanced,
that's organizational specific.
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:Joseph: I'm also getting the feeling
around, you know, Some of the advantages
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for the coaching itself, not just
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:about building the programs and the
strength trainer approach, but also
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:this idea that that's why a lot of
organizations still kind of really
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:Patrick: that.
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:And they play the role
of a neutral third party.
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:I think my most prior to where
I am now, my second to last
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:organization, there was like.
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program that was rolled out.
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who continued the engagement with
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:that coach privately, not like on an
ongoing yearly basis year on year, but
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:like for a specific period, because
what they found was the program that
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:brought them together as a coach,
coachee had a specific aim or outcome.
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they found really, you know, The problem
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:outcome, the organization one, was
actually not what the coachee needed
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:help with, and that was kind of separate.
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both, so they're exploring both.
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:They couldn't have done that, say, in the
same way or same effectiveness of say, me
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:as a fellow peer employee was the coach.
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:They'd get some value, but they
perhaps wouldn't have gone to as
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:That they did in the end, some of
those individuals, I won't breach any
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:confidence for going in detail about it.
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:And again, going back to your point
around that we talked about earlier on
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:quality, I would be able to get them
so far in terms of that, the depth and
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:value of that coaching interaction.
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:But someone who has that wealth of
experience qualifications was able to go
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:really deep and in a way that was, um, I
don't know if safeguarding is the right
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:You, you can uncover some really deep
stuff that's sensitive linked to someone's
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:identity and personality not just their
professionalism and their skill set But
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:there could be anchors you're raising
from the ground that have created limiting
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:beliefs or behaviors that have held them
back for decades That's again, that's
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:where you need someone who's not just,
you know, effective at, you know, looking
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:like you Um, signals and signs around
safeguarding or challenging conversations,
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coaches bringing out some of
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:That's where you see it shine through.
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:Don't get me wrong.
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:Sometimes it's just not feasible.
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:And also it's not the top
priority to, to use coach
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:suppliers in your in house space.
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:But, um, look at it this way.
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:If, um, this is too simple, but I had
a friend who used to talk about it
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:in this context, if I break my arm.
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:Do I go to a GP to then get triaged
and referred, or do I go to hospital
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:to speak to the arm specialist?
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:If I've got a choice, I'm going to the
hospital to speak to the arm specialist,
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:same way if I've got like a coaching
engagement who someone's gonna work
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:through a challenge, would I rather do
that or use the learning professional who
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:Joseph: What's really interesting
in what you're saying is though your
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sometimes when I'm speaking to coaches who
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uh, have been fully trained, that's one
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that in you, this idea around
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:And you know, the example that you said
around not being to enter into dialogue
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:around some sensitive information,
that's also the coach's awareness.
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:of their own boundaries, uh,
in the coaching relationship.
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:So there is also that professionalism
and that increased self awareness.
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:Patrick: Yeah, absolutely.
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:And it's interesting when, um, I hate
the phrase, but people recognize it.
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:Like the beauty parade you go
through sometimes with suppliers
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:and they're presenting like their
model and products and how it fits.
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:I always do it whether it's
a learning or coaching thing.
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:By the way, here's a list of FAQs.
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:Can you clarify what?
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:mechanisms or tools you have in
place for some of these questions.
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:And there'll always be something
around what do you do when you have
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:a safeguarding risk or concern?
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:How do you manage that in a way that,
uh, doesn't compromise integrity and
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:the confidentiality of the relationship?
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:How or whenever have you dealt
with instances in the past?
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:I've raised that in sales calls
sometimes with the sellers, the sales
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:team for the coach and provider.
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:And when you throw that out there, that's
quite telling because the amount of
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:I don't quite understand.
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:Versus the sales teams who say,
we've got a process for that.
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:I don't have its hand.
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:I can email it straight after
this call and I can get a
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:coach to talk you through it.
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:It's really important because
the thing is, is, you know, I'm
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:You can correct it.
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:You'll probably notice better than I was
like, you're not coaching the problem.
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person in front of you.
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:You're dealing with all their You know,
sometimes there's not just a stakeholder
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:relationships in a professional
life, but their personal life too.
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:And their own, um, I use that word
again, their sense of identity, their
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:So that like, again, this is all coming
back around to that point of like, you
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:know, patriarchy can do apply coaching
principles and grow model behaviors,
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:whatever it might be a framework.
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:But Dealing with some of these really,
really like detailed facets of an
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:individual requires like, you know, a
certain level of professionalism that
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:you should not accept anything less.
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:Joseph: That element of coaching is
not just a transactional activity
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:where you are saying, you know,
typically like grow, I find is
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:used in a very transactional way.
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:Like, what's your problem?
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:Whereabouts are you with it now?
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:What can you do about it?
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:Let's move on.
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:Patrick: The end user, the
coachee, is very aware of that.
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:Like the proliferation of the model.
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:And again, this isn't a
critique of the model.
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:It's just, it's out there everywhere.
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:And I seen it the flip side,
like, um, it's like tangent.
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times I've used counselling services
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:I remember the second time I could
laugh about it now, but the way the
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:counsellor managed the conversation, I
was like, we're doing a grow model here.
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:Like, And we're literally,
we're navigating through this
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:And I even got a fact sheet at the
end, like this little crib sheet.
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:I was like, hang on, what is this?
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:And I was like, it was a great
example, like the same principle
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:of like, um, I think sometimes your
intrinsic motivation will come out
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:quite starkly in your behavior.
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:Again, like the grow model is fantastic.
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:We can, by the way, if anyone's listened
to this, we're not bashing the grow model.
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:It's just kind of, it's just so
familiar and normally present.
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:Joseph: A lot of our listeners though,
just, and this is not, this sometimes
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:come up, that's one thing that we actually
talk about quite a lot on the Diploma
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:that The whole reason why I created the
Diploma is because in my experience, I was
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:putting the model in front of the person.
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:I learned Grow when I was
just using Grow all the time.
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:Then I learned CBT stuff and I
was using those all the time.
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:And I found it was
really highly unethical.
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:So, irrelevant of any model
that we're choosing, if we're
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:stamping out that model onto the
individual, It doesn't feel right.
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:And the integrative diploma focuses on
how do we integrate coaching principles?
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:How do we integrate your own values?
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different models are psychologically
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supports the client and not just.
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then because suddenly you're talking about
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moment, which can have value to
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the conversation, because if you're
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my principles of behavior as well.
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of performance and professionalism
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personality, that isn't a thing.
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much broader, I suppose, um,
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change and they're sustainable.
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we already talking about some of
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misconceptions that L& D professionals,
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I'm going to say, but I'll share it.
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flip side, learning professionals a
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organization or, or, or a team.
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speak on that for a moment.
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consultancy years ago and, um, I had
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always grabbed a coffee now and again.
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Oh, We were talking about some of
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I said something about coaching or
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my coaching qualification.
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what are you talking about?
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and junior I was at that point.
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know, I like, I want to apply some of
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hustle, but also my day to day work.
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conversation that just, we used to laugh
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there's a misconception sometimes around,
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again, competency, or we're starting
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peers in other functions or areas.
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of coaching skills I've seen have
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areas with leaders who just get the
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to the person in front of them and
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it's more of an, I'd say as well,
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my biases are coming out here.
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shout too much if you disagree.
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learning functions have that more broadly
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seen it with certain learning functions,
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that are just an easy one to talk about.
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that skill set when actually some
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people facilitating and running the
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we're starting with a head start because
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and the person in front of you
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emotional maturity in a way is more
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program, a lot of lawyers, um, teachers,
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do it for myself because I want to
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through some sort of program, they've
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expectation was one thing, but the
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they didn't, they hoped for or did
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that stuff, you can't go back.
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:Joseph: We're getting pretty close
towards the end of this podcast.
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about, you know, some of these applied
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you know, some of your knowledge.
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that our viewers will also
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:Patrick: Nice.
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:No, it's been great to talk about it.
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about for hours about this and
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as, as like a coach, a manager, a leader.
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you're doing now with the pod and the
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:Joseph: it.
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:Patrick: Everyone's been sick,
cringing, listening to us now.
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:Joseph: No, they're
not, they're not at all.
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Patrick, and lovely to see you.
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