Last year we shared this episode discussing Pride as a riot, why business should care about pride, and how to create a riot of your own. Since what we offered to listeners is even more relevant right now, we thought we'd bring the episode back to share with you a refreshed perspective.
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Hey everyone.
Jeff Melnyk:Welcome back to Re-Imagining Work From Within.
Jeff Melnyk:I'm Jeff Melnick.
Jeff Melnyk:It's June, which means it's Pride Month in most places around the world.
Jeff Melnyk:Last year we shared an episode discussing Pride as a riot, why
Jeff Melnyk:business should care about pride, and how to create a riot of your own.
Jeff Melnyk:And since what we offer to listeners is even more relevant right now, we thought
Jeff Melnyk:we'd bring the episode back again.
Jeff Melnyk:The G B T Q fight for equality is everyone's fight.
Jeff Melnyk:A basic principle of equality is that if one group is not free, no one is,
Jeff Melnyk:the rights could be taken away from any group of people at any time.
Jeff Melnyk:This year we're seeing the usual attempts at corporate allyship.
Jeff Melnyk:And the backlash against businesses supporting Pride has intensified with
Jeff Melnyk:companies like Budweiser and Target backing down from their commitments
Jeff Melnyk:because of attacks by pressure groups and threats to their employees.
Jeff Melnyk:But all of this is with a backdrop of increasing intolerance.
Jeff Melnyk:So let's just paint a picture to give everyone a bit of the context
Jeff Melnyk:of where we are now here in 2023
Jeff Melnyk:in the last year, schools are being pressured to remove
Jeff Melnyk:books from libraries for fear.
Jeff Melnyk:They may coerce children to becoming homosexual or transgender.
Jeff Melnyk:This growing censorship movement has taken place in 138 school districts and
Jeff Melnyk:32 states impacting 4 million students.
Jeff Melnyk:Drag performances are being banned.
Jeff Melnyk:In Tennessee Republican senator Jack Johnson said that parents can
Jeff Melnyk:now take their kids to a public or private show and not be blindsided
Jeff Melnyk:by a sexualized performance.
Jeff Melnyk:This week in Canada, an adult verbally attacked a nine-year-old
Jeff Melnyk:child participating in a track and field event because he believed the
Jeff Melnyk:child was transgender and called her parents groomers and pedophiles.
Jeff Melnyk:Meanwhile, uganda has legislated the death penalty for homosexuals.
Jeff Melnyk:This legislation comes after years of lobbying from American Christian groups.
Jeff Melnyk:Anyone found guilty of promoting homosexuality in the country could
Jeff Melnyk:face up to 20 years in prison or death.
Jeff Melnyk:Uganda is now one of 11 countries where being gay can be punishable
Jeff Melnyk:by death, and 67 countries have national laws criminalizing same sex
Jeff Melnyk:relations between consenting adults.
Jeff Melnyk:But why does this matter for business?
Jeff Melnyk:Well, it matters even more than ever.
Jeff Melnyk:As a marginalized group, LGBTQ people are not visible.
Jeff Melnyk:Maybe like your Black or Asian employees or some of your disabled employees,
Jeff Melnyk:you cannot always see them, but they're there and they need to know that
Jeff Melnyk:they belong so that they can be free to be themselves without judgment.
Jeff Melnyk:If your employees are not gay, they may be the parents of LGBTQ children.
Jeff Melnyk:They need to know that where they work is an ally to them and has their
Jeff Melnyk:back, that their children can grow up unafraid of the world, that their kids
Jeff Melnyk:who may be gay, lesbian, or transgender are accepted, loved, and safe.
Jeff Melnyk:A next generation of kids who may one day soon come to work in your
Jeff Melnyk:business, but more than ever, the LGBTQ community does not need allies.
Jeff Melnyk:We need accomplices.
Jeff Melnyk:To fight alongside us to stop the injustice that persists and is growing
Jeff Melnyk:in our governments and to refuse to tolerate any intolerance towards any
Jeff Melnyk:human being for simply being who they are.
Jeff Melnyk:This podcast looks at the shift away from rainbow logos and sponsored pride
Jeff Melnyk:floats to real action you can take.
Jeff Melnyk:I hope it inspires you to think a little bit differently about not
Jeff Melnyk:only pride, but how your business can create social change from within.
Jeff Melnyk:I.
Anique Coffee:Why don't we just get started by just talking about
Anique Coffee:what Pride Month even means to us?
Anique Coffee:Cuz I think that's a really awesome , place to start.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah.
Jeff Melnyk:Well, what does it mean to you?
Anique Coffee:Well, for me, pride Month is, it kind of brings up two things.
Anique Coffee:I get quite frustrated that we even need to have a month, which is kind of
Anique Coffee:a different part of this conversation.
Anique Coffee:But then I also do feel wildly proud to be bisexual and own that and have
Anique Coffee:a space to really like celebrate that and bring awareness to it.
Anique Coffee:So it's sort of two things.
Anique Coffee:It, it means being able to.
Anique Coffee:Celebrate who I am in a way that feels really safe actually and accepted.
Anique Coffee:And I can do that every day, but there's like a month for it, which is really nice.
Anique Coffee:And I think what it does is also create a space for us to talk
Anique Coffee:about our experiences in this community like we're gonna do today.
Anique Coffee:Like you and I have spoken about the word queer, we've spoken about
Anique Coffee:a few things, but it sort of gives like an invitation for a deep dive to
Anique Coffee:talk about things and to really like bring things into other our awareness
Anique Coffee:and other people's awareness too.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah, it's almost like it's our time.
Jeff Melnyk:Goonies never say die.
Jeff Melnyk:It's our time now.
Jeff Melnyk:Which It's interesting though, to think like.
Jeff Melnyk:This is a thing that happens now, right?
Jeff Melnyk:Like why do we need these times or these observances?
Jeff Melnyk:But I think you've raised the point is like, if we don't shine a light
Jeff Melnyk:on something, how does the light get the chance to beam across the world?
Jeff Melnyk:And so mm-hmm.
Jeff Melnyk:So we get a month and I think it's different for me now that I live in San
Jeff Melnyk:Francisco cuz like, it's like living in.
Jeff Melnyk:The, the fault line of the epicenter of American queerness, and it means
Jeff Melnyk:more now and I think . I moved here in the pandemic and, and it shut down
Jeff Melnyk:and I got really angry about that.
Jeff Melnyk:I got really angry that they would cancel the pride march.
Jeff Melnyk:Because of Covid and I thought, a, this doesn't make any scientific sense
Jeff Melnyk:to me cuz like, can't we just march in like a really long elongated march.
Jeff Melnyk:But it was like, okay, now you've, someone else has decided that we
Jeff Melnyk:don't get to do the thing that.
Jeff Melnyk:That means something to us.
Jeff Melnyk:And pride was a riot.
Jeff Melnyk:And the march is important.
Jeff Melnyk:That's right.
Jeff Melnyk:So in the same way that churches were like, what do you mean we can't worship?
Jeff Melnyk:And the government said, oh, okay, maybe you can.
Jeff Melnyk:It was like, how did the government get to decide that Pride marches
Jeff Melnyk:across the nation would be canceled?
Jeff Melnyk:And I, I see that as homophobic and I see it as an affront to our culture.
Jeff Melnyk:So then last year there was a slightly diluted march as well, cuz we had
Jeff Melnyk:another kind of uptick this year.
Jeff Melnyk:Let's see what happens.
Jeff Melnyk:I think it's, it's all, it's all a go, but it, it does mean something
Jeff Melnyk:different and it means showing up.
Jeff Melnyk:It means stepping up as well.
Jeff Melnyk:And I think it's a reminder to us that the riot isn't over.
Jeff Melnyk:And I think for me, in my sort of journey of that is like, okay, now I really wanna
Jeff Melnyk:start a riot, so what's it gonna be?
Jeff Melnyk:Cuz I think as you, you know, maybe when you're in your activist youth era,
Jeff Melnyk:everything was a riot and everything's a revolution because that's how we
Jeff Melnyk:process things in our, in our youth.
Jeff Melnyk:And then you kind of get like complacent, don't you?
Jeff Melnyk:Like a riot is like, how am I gonna get a table at foreign cinema?
Jeff Melnyk:Right.
Jeff Melnyk:But it's not, so it's a reminder.
Jeff Melnyk:No, the fight's not over.
Jeff Melnyk:Let's go.
Jeff Melnyk:And I think that's really important for this, for this month to
Jeff Melnyk:remember, and especially with some of the SH that is going down.
Anique Coffee:Let's get into that.
Anique Coffee:So we know on this podcast we always kind of talk about workplace culture
Anique Coffee:and leadership obviously, but we're bringing this Pride month lens to
Anique Coffee:it, and we thought we could kind of highlight a little bit of why
Anique Coffee:companies, why organizations support pride should they, how do they.
Anique Coffee:Where perhaps are the missteps and things they could be doing
Anique Coffee:a little bit differently?
Anique Coffee:Cause we've got a lot of that out there.
Anique Coffee:But where do you think we should start?
Jeff Melnyk:Well, what do you think about corporations supporting Pride Month?
Anique Coffee:I think similarly to how we share with our leaders committed to
Anique Coffee:change that d e I should be integrated in everything, so should pride.
Anique Coffee:And that doesn't mean that you need to have like a rainbow logo year
Anique Coffee:round, but it does mean that inclusive behavior and inclusive activities should
Anique Coffee:just be happening all year, perhaps still celebrating during this month.
Anique Coffee:Cuz as we said, it brings a lot, it's a reminder, it gives us a
Anique Coffee:chance to share stories, to connect, to feel proud, all those things.
Anique Coffee:But, Again, it's one of those things, I'm a Libra, okay.
Anique Coffee:I'm balancing scales.
Anique Coffee:I can kind of see both sides.
Anique Coffee:I both am annoyed that this is a thing that we have to celebrate
Anique Coffee:and people put rainbow logos and I can see why it's important.
Anique Coffee:And I also just wish it was something that lived throughout the whole year.
Anique Coffee:And I used to work at WeWork and I was on our queer community, our
Anique Coffee:employer resource group, basically.
Anique Coffee:And one of the big last initiatives before I got unceremoniously
Anique Coffee:exited, Was the pride or not.
Anique Coffee:Another podcast was the Pride Parade.
Anique Coffee:So I got to help to design our whole float.
Anique Coffee:I got to be on the committee.
Anique Coffee:We put together a whole series of events.
Anique Coffee:It was incredible.
Anique Coffee:And I felt good doing that, and I felt empowered that WeWork
Anique Coffee:was like, please, let's do this.
Anique Coffee:And it was sort of a like, shouldn't we just be always doing this?
Anique Coffee:So I'm kind of of two minds.
Anique Coffee:I
Jeff Melnyk:don't know.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah.
Jeff Melnyk:So, so you felt it must have felt good to make that float
Jeff Melnyk:and be represented in that way.
Jeff Melnyk:Right.
Jeff Melnyk:And feel proud of your company.
Jeff Melnyk:Right.
Jeff Melnyk:And I think there's, there's a bit of a corporation halo effect
Jeff Melnyk:that goes there from internal engagement point of view, right?
Jeff Melnyk:Like, we can be proud cause we're supporting.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah.
Jeff Melnyk:I do think it, the, the story behind it has to go way further back around
Jeff Melnyk:the acknowledgement that actually this.
Jeff Melnyk:Is a group of people, the L G B LGBTQ Q community who are a segment of
Jeff Melnyk:the population that can spend money.
Jeff Melnyk:So it's, it's in many sense, it's a marketer's dream to go
Jeff Melnyk:in Pride Month we support you.
Jeff Melnyk:Please spend your dollars with us.
Jeff Melnyk:In America, it's known as the Dorothy Dollar, and in the
Jeff Melnyk:UK it's known as the pink.
Jeff Melnyk:Pound and the pink pound is worth an estimated sort of 6 billion a year to
Jeff Melnyk:the UK economy, and it's estimated being as a global force over several trillion.
Jeff Melnyk:Right.
Jeff Melnyk:Okay.
Jeff Melnyk:But those, those are big numbers, but is that what we're here for?
Jeff Melnyk:Are we a marketing segment, right?
Jeff Melnyk:Are we an ABC one, LGBTQ plus one?
Jeff Melnyk:Like that's not what Pride is about, and I think that's why people get.
Jeff Melnyk:Angry with the commercialization of it.
Jeff Melnyk:And if I walk into Target and I see the pride outfits that you've
Jeff Melnyk:got hanging on your cheap plastic like hangers, as I walked past the
Jeff Melnyk:chocolate aisle, that can infuriate me.
Jeff Melnyk:But I did see a post the other day on Instagram, which
Jeff Melnyk:I thought was really great.
Jeff Melnyk:I think it was a post to someone's tweet that said, Hey, yeah, it's
Jeff Melnyk:kind of gross what Walmart and Target are doing, but as somebody.
Jeff Melnyk:And I think this person was maybe late or early stage Gen X, so quite
Jeff Melnyk:a bit, a little bit older than me as someone who used to not be able to
Jeff Melnyk:walk into a store and feel that they could hold hands or be themselves with
Jeff Melnyk:the person they loved to walk into Target, which was one of the first.
Jeff Melnyk:Businesses to kind of support, I think and celebrate.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah.
Jeff Melnyk:This is, and celebrate.
Jeff Melnyk:To walk into store now and see them celebrating our identity
Jeff Melnyk:is fundamentally different.
Jeff Melnyk:And so how do we understand that?
Jeff Melnyk:Not just go, oh, it's gross because the corporates are stealing our money.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah.
Jeff Melnyk:But actually understand how much, how far we've come, where it used to be
Jeff Melnyk:shameful or hurtful to walk into a store and, and let's acknowledge that in
Jeff Melnyk:many places in the world and still many places in America, it is still that way.
Jeff Melnyk:And that.
Jeff Melnyk:Until the Equality Act passes.
Jeff Melnyk:Many stores in many states could still say, Hey, you can't come in here and buy
Jeff Melnyk:something from us because you are queer.
Jeff Melnyk:And so that's insane.
Jeff Melnyk:There's far to go and so, so yeah.
Jeff Melnyk:It's interesting to think, actually, can we see the positive
Jeff Melnyk:in the commercialization?
Jeff Melnyk:Of of our, not of our flag.
Jeff Melnyk:Cuz as you know, I don't believe in that.
Jeff Melnyk:We can't take an identity and merge it into our own and say, Hey look
Jeff Melnyk:for a month we are rainbow too.
Jeff Melnyk:That doesn't really work for me.
Jeff Melnyk:But can we say, Hey, we support you and actually we are doing something.
Jeff Melnyk:We're doing something in the community and we're doing something inside our business.
Jeff Melnyk:And that's where I think this really needs to move to.
Jeff Melnyk:Can we have in June companies saying We're not done yet?
Jeff Melnyk:We have a lot more in terms of equity and equality that, and inclusion that
Jeff Melnyk:we really need to do in our business.
Jeff Melnyk:I
Anique Coffee:really like that.
Anique Coffee:And when you were speaking, what was coming up for me is like, I think I
Anique Coffee:also really need to check my privilege when I feel the frustration because I.
Anique Coffee:Unlike you and other people, even older generations and people of my exact same
Anique Coffee:age, I have not had a traumatic experience as someone in this community really.
Anique Coffee:I had a couple of times when I was like ostracized and outed when I
Anique Coffee:was living in Utah and like was not allowed to do certain things.
Anique Coffee:But I've always been accepted by my family.
Anique Coffee:I've always been.
Anique Coffee:I'm a, a cis woman, like I can, I'm presenting, you know, like I
Anique Coffee:can show up and just be myself.
Anique Coffee:And that is, there's a real privilege to that.
Anique Coffee:So the trauma of walking into target and seeing rainbows is not
Anique Coffee:something that I have experienced.
Anique Coffee:I can empathize with that, of not being accepted into a target, but I,
Anique Coffee:it's not something I've experienced and there's a real privilege to
Anique Coffee:that, that I have to remember.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah.
Jeff Melnyk:And I think it's like where we are now is great.
Jeff Melnyk:It's, we're not done, but where other places in the
Jeff Melnyk:world haven't even started yet.
Jeff Melnyk:And I think that checking our privilege of like, if we're fighting the
Jeff Melnyk:fight, but we live in San Francisco, the fight feels different, right?
Jeff Melnyk:Can we remember we're fighting the fight for people around the world in seven
Jeff Melnyk:countries that you can still face the death penalty just for being who you are.
Jeff Melnyk:You know, legal marriage is only what in 15.
Jeff Melnyk:D countries, I might get that wrong.
Jeff Melnyk:Apologies.
Jeff Melnyk:Uh, but it's, it's low compared, you know, so, so there's a lot more to do and so
Jeff Melnyk:can, if you're in a place of privilege of where you live and things feel good,
Jeff Melnyk:can you remember that you're here also as a community to fight for others?
Jeff Melnyk:And can corporations then, or businesses understand that they.
Jeff Melnyk:May have a role to play in that too.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah.
Jeff Melnyk:And that that role is based around how do they create a system of
Jeff Melnyk:equity, inclusion, and equality in their own macro micro world where
Jeff Melnyk:they can actually affect change.
Anique Coffee:Yeah.
Anique Coffee:I really like the idea of like using June to say we're not done yet.
Anique Coffee:I think that is really powerful cuz I mean, don't say gay bill just passed
Anique Coffee:in Florida like a few months ago.
Anique Coffee:Like, hello, what are we doing people
Jeff Melnyk:right.
Jeff Melnyk:And there's many other bills on the docket in many other
Jeff Melnyk:states where it's That's right.
Jeff Melnyk:You know, there's gonna be a lot of don't saying gay and so how
Jeff Melnyk:are corporations right now saying gay and can they put their money.
Jeff Melnyk:Where their mouth is cuz always follow the money.
Jeff Melnyk:Listeners of this podcast know that that's where I believe the truth lies.
Jeff Melnyk:So if you believe in equity and equality and you've, and you want to change your
Jeff Melnyk:logo rainbow this month, can you tell us how are you gonna get behind that?
Jeff Melnyk:Like, are you willing to defund your PAC for politicians who will
Jeff Melnyk:not pass the equity act into law?
Jeff Melnyk:And if you're not, why?
Jeff Melnyk:And can you stand up as a leader in front of your business and say, this
Jeff Melnyk:is why we are not willing to defund politicians who will actively seek
Jeff Melnyk:to discriminate in our communities.
Jeff Melnyk:And I think we saw the backlash with Disney.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah.
Jeff Melnyk:Where they wouldn't withdraw their support of the, don't say gay bill.
Jeff Melnyk:And then the bill passed and then, oh, wait a second.
Jeff Melnyk:Actually we do.
Jeff Melnyk:Mm-hmm.
Jeff Melnyk:Um, a little bit too late there, Mickey.
Jeff Melnyk:But the backlash internally and.
Jeff Melnyk:Externally for, for Disney fans was was very real.
Jeff Melnyk:And of course now Disney gets the backlash from the Florida
Jeff Melnyk:politicians, but who will win?
Jeff Melnyk:Mickey or Ron,
Anique Coffee:please let Mickey win.
Anique Coffee:I'm Team Mickey.
Anique Coffee:Okay.
Anique Coffee:So what should corporations be doing?
Anique Coffee:We started to get into that, but rather than just the rainbow logo, what?
Anique Coffee:What can we do?
Jeff Melnyk:Well, I've, I've sort of alluded to it already with my,
Jeff Melnyk:let's go with the defunding option.
Jeff Melnyk:I mean, I think that's the far end of the scale, obviously, the, like, how do
Jeff Melnyk:you listen to people understand the, the issues in the community that is important?
Jeff Melnyk:Like you said, this is a time for space, so how do we give space for those stories?
Jeff Melnyk:How do we actually hear and understand them?
Jeff Melnyk:I think one thing that I'd love to highlight is, I, I think it's time that
Jeff Melnyk:if you have a policy in your business that is equitable and inclusive, say
Jeff Melnyk:for example, adoption leave for same-sex parents or healthcare provided at the
Jeff Melnyk:fullest extent of your insurance, that might be quite different to what the state
Jeff Melnyk:would provide, say for H I V medication or something like that, that really
Jeff Melnyk:understands the needs of the community.
Jeff Melnyk:How are you extending that?
Jeff Melnyk:To everyone in your global workforce.
Jeff Melnyk:So if you've got employees in America, and I'm just gonna be bold here, and you
Jeff Melnyk:have operations in Saudi Arabia, how are you going to bring that level of equity
Jeff Melnyk:and understanding to your employees there?
Jeff Melnyk:And that's edgy.
Jeff Melnyk:Because that's going against the cultural norms of what's
Jeff Melnyk:happening in your business.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah.
Jeff Melnyk:And in the places that you operate.
Jeff Melnyk:But I'm gonna plant a flag there and say, you own your system leader.
Jeff Melnyk:So if you believe in equity, then that has to go across the board.
Jeff Melnyk:It can't just be, oh, you live in California, so it must be more liberal,
Jeff Melnyk:so we're gonna give you more things.
Jeff Melnyk:Right.
Jeff Melnyk:. Yeah, so just extending it because I think as companies get more global
Jeff Melnyk:and also as the workforce gets more global, so we can work from anywhere.
Jeff Melnyk:Now if you live and work in certain places, not if you work for Elon.
Jeff Melnyk:Um, more on that maybe later.
Jeff Melnyk:Are we extending that same understanding of equity across our business?
Jeff Melnyk:Are we, are we packaging it up in more liberal places so that we
Jeff Melnyk:can attract the people who might be living more in those zones?
Jeff Melnyk:What do you think about that though?
Jeff Melnyk:I know
Anique Coffee:that's kind of interesting.
Anique Coffee:I'm just thinking like, so much of the work we're doing now as a
Anique Coffee:partnership is about attracting.
Anique Coffee:Talent because that is what workplace culture is calling for at the moment,
Anique Coffee:and I like the idea of it being something that's available for everyone
Anique Coffee:and making that equitable globally.
Anique Coffee:And it's a curious thing to package it up for more liberal areas if that's where you
Anique Coffee:are, hyper locally and wanting to attract that kind of folks because it's, I don't
Anique Coffee:know how I feel about that, to be honest.
Anique Coffee:Mm-hmm.
Anique Coffee:It's a really difficult one.
Anique Coffee:I mean, I, in my heart I'm like equitable globally, obviously, and I can see the
Anique Coffee:challenge of that for employers for sure.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah.
Jeff Melnyk:And strategically, I mean it's right, you sort of go, okay, well we're probably
Jeff Melnyk:gonna have to spend more to attract certain people in certain markets
Jeff Melnyk:and we can make cuts in other places.
Jeff Melnyk:Right.
Anique Coffee:But I guess the other thing that's coming up for me now is
Anique Coffee:if you're in Saudi Arabia and you're a person who doesn't align with our
Anique Coffee:beliefs and your company has on their culture page or on their job description,
Anique Coffee:equitable working practices, and that is for some reason offensive to you.
Anique Coffee:Perhaps bug her off.
Anique Coffee:And maybe it comes back to like aligning on our values.
Anique Coffee:Like who are the people that we wanna
Jeff Melnyk:attract?
Jeff Melnyk:Right, globally, and this is always the crux, right?
Jeff Melnyk:It's always the thing is like, Ooh, maybe we don't wanna stick our heads
Jeff Melnyk:too above the parapet because we're gonna have people out there that
Jeff Melnyk:aren't gonna like what we stand for.
Jeff Melnyk:Well, you don't stand for it unless you're standing on the fricking.
Jeff Melnyk:Parapet bouncing up and down and saying, this is what we stand for.
Jeff Melnyk:So that's why I hate the word humble when it comes to businesses talking
Jeff Melnyk:about themselves around stuff like this.
Jeff Melnyk:It's like, we don't wanna rock the boat, we don't wanna shake things up.
Jeff Melnyk:The world needs shaking up.
Jeff Melnyk:And if you're gonna say that these are the things that are important
Jeff Melnyk:to you, you've gotta stand by them.
Jeff Melnyk:And so this is a challenge that I'm putting out there cuz I know it's hard
Jeff Melnyk:and I know it's particularly hard in regions where that's difficult and we've
Jeff Melnyk:seen a lot of things over the um, Over the past couple years as well, especially
Jeff Melnyk:with with social media where we can see what's going on in other parts of the
Jeff Melnyk:world and other parts of our community where you've got American posts saying
Jeff Melnyk:like, yeah, it's time for everyone to come out and here's our media, and
Jeff Melnyk:like, have a public outing and like, here we go, rebel Wilson's come out.
Jeff Melnyk:Isn't she great?
Jeff Melnyk:Let's like.
Jeff Melnyk:Post that and post that and post that.
Jeff Melnyk:And then you've got people in countries where they can't come out because doing
Jeff Melnyk:so would be harmful to their life going, well, that's really great that you guys
Jeff Melnyk:are saying that this is so important.
Jeff Melnyk:We can't do that.
Jeff Melnyk:Mm-hmm.
Jeff Melnyk:And I think it's not for us to go, oh, you should, but rather for us
Jeff Melnyk:to go, oh wait, how do we use our privilege to help you do that?
Jeff Melnyk:And that's gonna be a journey for your nation to get there or your culture.
Jeff Melnyk:But if we stand for.
Jeff Melnyk:Equity and equality and belief in who we are, then we have to be able
Jeff Melnyk:to stand for that in everything.
Jeff Melnyk:And as a company, I just believe you're gonna have to take that journey and
Jeff Melnyk:take that step, and you do it because it's the right thing to do, and you
Jeff Melnyk:do it because it makes good business sense, because the more you are able
Jeff Melnyk:to bring freedom into your business.
Jeff Melnyk:The more your people are gonna thrive, the more that you're gonna thrive.
Jeff Melnyk:And I think if you close that down and think, well, we're gonna, we're
Jeff Melnyk:gonna lose consumers or we're gonna be pushed out of areas where we, where
Jeff Melnyk:we're not accepted anymore, where will you, where will you be accepted?
Jeff Melnyk:How and how are you standing up for that?
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah.
Anique Coffee:Yeah.
Anique Coffee:And perhaps like the more they're standing up on the platform and being
Anique Coffee:explicit about values aligned or not, but the people they wanna attract,
Anique Coffee:the more allies they'll create.
Anique Coffee:Yeah, which is kind of interesting cuz then you've got like global allies
Anique Coffee:where, you know, there's the people in this community are struggling every
Anique Coffee:day to overcome bias that they're, they're having and it's, there's so much
Anique Coffee:discrimination in the workplace still.
Anique Coffee:Yeah.
Anique Coffee:And there's something about, if we talk about what corporations should
Anique Coffee:do, it's creating that safe space to hear from employees to make it okay.
Anique Coffee:To be able to talk about who they are and embrace their authenticity.
Anique Coffee:And really, I.
Anique Coffee:Each of us have a role to play in that.
Anique Coffee:And so if you have a, uh, a team full of allies, then you've got more people on
Anique Coffee:your side doing what's needed to be done.
Anique Coffee:And you kind of started to talk about this for a second, but the idea of
Anique Coffee:our really deeply held belief that diversity is actually what helps us grow.
Anique Coffee:Diversity unlocks creativity, unlocks collaboration, unlocks learning.
Anique Coffee:So the more room you make for it, the better you'll be as a
Anique Coffee:company commercially as well.
Anique Coffee:So one thing that I've been thinking a lot about is that the idea of being
Anique Coffee:mindful that LGBTQ inclusion doesn't fall behind diversity priorities on
Anique Coffee:gender or race, it's a part of it.
Anique Coffee:It should be a part of it.
Anique Coffee:And intrinsic throughout your organization.
Anique Coffee:Just like we feel the same way about d e I.
Anique Coffee:It shouldn't be just a D E I policy that stands alone.
Anique Coffee:It's.
Anique Coffee:Integrated into your employee experience at every place.
Anique Coffee:And part of that is representation at the leadership level.
Anique Coffee:Like we don't work with many leaders that are part of our community.
Anique Coffee:And there's something really interesting about that, and I'm curious what you kind
Anique Coffee:of think about that representation on leadership teams that can actually be a
Anique Coffee:reflection of the diversity that we're trying to create in, in our workplace.
Jeff Melnyk:Why do you think that gender and race win in the d e I conversations,
Jeff Melnyk:why did those get popped to the top?
Anique Coffee:First thing that popped in my mind was that sometimes
Anique Coffee:those things are more visual, where sexuality perhaps isn't.
Anique Coffee:Yes, but I don't know.
Anique Coffee:Why do you think
Jeff Melnyk:I've struggled with this as well?
Jeff Melnyk:I think there's two things there apart, uh, like visibility being number one.
Jeff Melnyk:I think number two is probably also volume, which is linked to.
Jeff Melnyk:Visibility.
Jeff Melnyk:So we have 50% women, we have 50% men.
Jeff Melnyk:Why don't we have equality and equity between gender?
Jeff Melnyk:So that's a basic one.
Jeff Melnyk:And why do we still not have that is an ongoing battle.
Jeff Melnyk:So there you go with that one.
Jeff Melnyk:I think in America, race is really important and as it
Jeff Melnyk:should be, and so it does.
Jeff Melnyk:Have a prime position.
Jeff Melnyk:So why aren't we seeing more people of color in leadership positions
Jeff Melnyk:is a really important discussion.
Jeff Melnyk:Whereas you hear that discussion in Europe, but not in the same way because
Jeff Melnyk:Europe isn't processing that trauma of inequity in the same way that America is.
Jeff Melnyk:Doesn't mean it doesn't exist, it's just not processing it.
Jeff Melnyk:And again, there's a numbers game there because people of color,
Jeff Melnyk:you know, Are also in America.
Jeff Melnyk:I think it's, we're gonna get to the point where if you, it's a bit of a
Jeff Melnyk:weird conglomerate, but like 50% white and 50% people of color, which in which
Jeff Melnyk:they've lumped in just other things.
Jeff Melnyk:So much intersectionality.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah.
Jeff Melnyk:So that's a segmentation issue that I'm still not understanding.
Jeff Melnyk:But hey, so that's a numbers game as well.
Jeff Melnyk:So then people go, well, there's not that many gays is there.
Jeff Melnyk:And then I think the other thing that comes along with it in line with that
Jeff Melnyk:is like, well, gay men are still men.
Jeff Melnyk:So they still are in positions of power.
Jeff Melnyk:Well, that's interesting and possibly true, but that doesn't
Jeff Melnyk:mean we're not marginalized, right?
Jeff Melnyk:And so we're still not represented.
Jeff Melnyk:And at the moment, in the foots C 100, there are zero.
Jeff Melnyk:CEOs who are B LGBTQ Q are out as L g, BT Q, and in the Fortune 500 there are four.
Jeff Melnyk:That's insane.
Jeff Melnyk:So even in a numbers game, so if you go by the McKinsey rule of 10% representation of
Jeff Melnyk:G BT Q, I think McKinsey data is maybe a bit outdated because we were looking at.
Jeff Melnyk:The binaries of sort of gay or lesbian, and now we know
Jeff Melnyk:there's much more of a spectrum.
Jeff Melnyk:If you're looking at that, we're still way below the curve, but the stat that
Jeff Melnyk:I saw the other day was 25 out of 5,670 board seats at the Fortune 500 companies
Jeff Melnyk:are occupied by openly lgbtq plus people.
Jeff Melnyk:So that's 0.4%.
Jeff Melnyk:So when I, so you go four or 500, well that's okay.
Jeff Melnyk:You guys are in there.
Jeff Melnyk:You got four, you got Tim Cook.
Jeff Melnyk:I'm not sure I would include him as openly, L g Bt Q, but
Jeff Melnyk:that's for another podcast.
Jeff Melnyk:But four to 500, you could, people go, oh, you're there.
Jeff Melnyk:You got a number, but 0.4% of board seats.
Jeff Melnyk:Mm-hmm.
Jeff Melnyk:That sucks.
Jeff Melnyk:Not.
Jeff Melnyk:Okay.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah, so, so this is called, again, with the, with the terms, I don't know why
Jeff Melnyk:everything has to be pink, but fine.
Jeff Melnyk:It's, why couldn't it be the rainbow ceiling?
Jeff Melnyk:But it's the pink ceiling.
Jeff Melnyk:There seems to be a point where representation at
Jeff Melnyk:senior levels is not there.
Jeff Melnyk:So why do you think that is an, is it the same for women and people of color to get
Anique Coffee:to the top?
Anique Coffee:I think there's some similar practices perhaps happening.
Anique Coffee:Yeah, like senior leaders, we talk to our clients a lot about this.
Anique Coffee:You have to stop hiring in your image.
Anique Coffee:If we go out and try to find people just like us, all of a sudden we're
Anique Coffee:surrounded by a team just like us, right?
Anique Coffee:So there's a real intentionality that has to happen about creating some
Anique Coffee:really real and serious diversity instead of Yeah, hiring in our image.
Anique Coffee:And what's interesting too is the like looking externally to hire folks, like
Anique Coffee:hiring from within and looking at your own community within, so that it's like a real
Anique Coffee:representation of who you already are.
Anique Coffee:Putting people in leadership and them representing who you
Anique Coffee:already are is another really interesting way to think about it.
Anique Coffee:And focusing on the growth and development of your people and like bringing
Anique Coffee:up the next generation of leaders.
Anique Coffee:Yeah, that's, you know, part of this community, part of the people of color,
Anique Coffee:community, whatever that one is for you.
Anique Coffee:But looking at how you can kind of grow your people from within
Anique Coffee:and hire people who, who should be in leadership positions.
Anique Coffee:We need more representation.
Anique Coffee:It's very important.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah, it's, it's interesting to think like how many
Jeff Melnyk:transgender employees do you know, across the clients we've worked with
Jeff Melnyk:or in the businesses we've worked with.
Jeff Melnyk:I can only name a, a couple and, and I, yeah, me too.
Jeff Melnyk:Seen that journey happen over time as well.
Jeff Melnyk:If I think about when I started my career Zero and where I'm at now,
Jeff Melnyk:now I'm seeing a handful, so, I'm old, so 20 years of working at least.
Jeff Melnyk:So I haven't seen enough.
Jeff Melnyk:I haven't seen a lot of change, but maybe it's a hockey stick.
Jeff Melnyk:Let's see what happens.
Jeff Melnyk:So are the safe spaces being created in our corporate worlds and our
Jeff Melnyk:companies for people to come out is the first question because the, the
Jeff Melnyk:stats are openly LGBTQ plus people.
Jeff Melnyk:That does not mean that in their lives they're not.
Jeff Melnyk:Like even in their private lives or in their social life, perhaps they're openly
Jeff Melnyk:out, but at work, maybe they're not.
Jeff Melnyk:And so that's the number one thing.
Jeff Melnyk:But when are we gonna see a transgender c e o?
Jeff Melnyk:When, when do we imagine that's gonna happen?
Jeff Melnyk:So we think about the progress that's needed now, where transgender people
Jeff Melnyk:don't even have equal rights, right?
Jeff Melnyk:In this country and beyond to.
Jeff Melnyk:So to have one as a C E O, think of the power that would have in representation
Jeff Melnyk:for our youth and for politic.
Jeff Melnyk:Petitions to see that this is a person who is just as clever and just as good
Jeff Melnyk:and just as brilliant at what they do, and that this aspect of their cultural
Jeff Melnyk:dynamic is hugely important to them being a successful business person
Jeff Melnyk:in the mind of corporate America.
Jeff Melnyk:That kind of representation is really important and we don't have
Jeff Melnyk:it, and this is why I even advocate for if you are a LGBTQ sports.
Jeff Melnyk:Professional, how important it is for you to come out because the world
Jeff Melnyk:is needing you to stand on your own parapet and say, look, here I am, and
Jeff Melnyk:there are more of us because we know.
Jeff Melnyk:We know that there are way more gay footballers in the United Kingdom.
Jeff Melnyk:Yes, we know that there are way more lesbian sports people in across
Jeff Melnyk:the world, and we know that trans kids have the right to play for the
Jeff Melnyk:sports team that they choose to.
Jeff Melnyk:And until we start seeing more representation, that is not gonna happen.
Jeff Melnyk:We know how important that is.
Anique Coffee:Yeah, we spoke about that today also, while
Anique Coffee:I was getting my haircut.
Anique Coffee:Did the maths of all the football teams across and there's like
Anique Coffee:something around 4,000 athletes.
Anique Coffee:Yeah.
Anique Coffee:And there's like one bisexual.
Anique Coffee:That's impossible.
Anique Coffee:Yeah.
Anique Coffee:There's definitely more.
Anique Coffee:Its not, it's not a safe space, so it's really difficult.
Anique Coffee:And imagine what representation would unlock for future generations
Anique Coffee:and just the people around them.
Anique Coffee:Their peers as well.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah.
Anique Coffee:Hmm.
Anique Coffee:Okay, so we've been talking for quite a while and I'm really
Anique Coffee:happy to be in this conversation.
Anique Coffee:And what do you think is important for us to talk
Jeff Melnyk:about now?
Jeff Melnyk:Well, what do you wanna see in this pride month?
Jeff Melnyk:What would be your dream?
Anique Coffee:My dream would be cis white men and women that are leading companies.
Anique Coffee:Going to the employees in the L G B T Q community and saying, Hey,
Anique Coffee:I really wanna create a space for you and I wanna support you.
Anique Coffee:How can we co-create together?
Anique Coffee:Hmm.
Anique Coffee:Because I think that in a lot of employee resource groups, there's many people in
Anique Coffee:our community who don't feel safe enough to create the space even for themselves.
Anique Coffee:Yeah.
Anique Coffee:And I think we need to see a lot more allyship from leaders to actually be
Anique Coffee:creating, or at least opening the door.
Anique Coffee:Putting the power in the hands of the community.
Anique Coffee:But we need some of these allies to open the door that are in senior
Anique Coffee:leader positions to say, I see you.
Anique Coffee:I wanna support you.
Anique Coffee:I wanna hold a safe space with you and alongside you, tell me what you
Jeff Melnyk:need.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah.
Jeff Melnyk:Beautiful.
Jeff Melnyk:I think that it's such a simple thing to do and yet seems so hard, doesn't it?
Jeff Melnyk:And every leader could do that.
Jeff Melnyk:I champion your vision.
Jeff Melnyk:Oh, it's such a about you.
Jeff Melnyk:Hard question, isn't it?
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah, it's definitely rainbow mayo.
Jeff Melnyk:That was definitely what I wanted to see.
Jeff Melnyk:This pride month.
Jeff Melnyk:I would like to see pride become political again.
Jeff Melnyk:And I know we're in a very divisive political environment at the moment and
Jeff Melnyk:I'm all for it cuz we need to get to break down before we get to breakthrough.
Jeff Melnyk:I would like that breakdown to not be violent, but in many cases we have
Jeff Melnyk:to remember that bricks were thrown.
Jeff Melnyk:So what are the things that we're gonna overhaul?
Jeff Melnyk:. And I guess to put one more wish, if I may, Anique is I would love
Jeff Melnyk:in Pride month, and I know we have.
Jeff Melnyk:LGBTQ history month as well.
Jeff Melnyk:But I would like us always to listen to our elders, understand
Jeff Melnyk:our past and grow from that.
Jeff Melnyk:Cuz I think our history has been repressed for so long that there's so
Jeff Melnyk:many good stories to watch and learn from and listen to and we're missing that.
Jeff Melnyk:And I think if we can use this month to connect even just
Jeff Melnyk:to one that's very powerful.
Jeff Melnyk:I'd like to give a shout out to season three pose.
Jeff Melnyk:I don't know if you've watched Yes.
Jeff Melnyk:Yet.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah.
Jeff Melnyk:Oh my God.
Jeff Melnyk:The blubbering mess.
Jeff Melnyk:I was, when Pray Tell Goes back, I'm just in the, so no spoilers everyone.
Jeff Melnyk:Yeah.
Jeff Melnyk:If you haven't watched it yet.
Anique Coffee:Yeah.
Anique Coffee:Oh man.
Anique Coffee:Watching the L word hoof.
Anique Coffee:Woo.
Anique Coffee:Anyways, this was an amazing conversation.
Anique Coffee:As always, you brought us some really good stuff, and I'm grateful to
Anique Coffee:be in this space with you, in this community, with you, and thank you so
Anique Coffee:much for the space to talk about this.
Jeff Melnyk:It's wonderful to be here.
Jeff Melnyk:I'd like to give a shout out to Emily, our producer, who's always
Jeff Melnyk:behind the scenes and has been giving thumbs up and claps and hands raised.
Jeff Melnyk:Preach girl.
Jeff Melnyk:We are here and thank you, Emily, for everything you've done.
Jeff Melnyk:For our podcast as well, cuz it's awesome.
Anique Coffee:It's so awesome.
Anique Coffee:Thanks, Emily.
Anique Coffee:Close
Jeff Melnyk:out.
Jeff Melnyk:I love being a part of it.
Jeff Melnyk:Thank
Anique Coffee:you.
Anique Coffee:So good.
Anique Coffee:Thanks everyone for listening.
Anique Coffee:Thanks for being here, Jeff and Emily.
Anique Coffee:It was an absolute pleasure.
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