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9. OCD Recovery: What Most People Miss About Healing Obsessive Thoughts
Episode 9 • 8th May 2026 • Mental Health In A Modern World • Greg Schmaus
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“You resist persists. If you want to shrink something, let it expand. If you want to get rid of something, allow it to flourish. As soon as you make one thing good, another thing becomes bad,” says Greg Schmaus, holistic health practitioner and founder of Healing 4D, who joins Mental Health in a Modern World to share his deeply personal and professional journey healing obsessive compulsive disorder.

In this episode, Greg Schmaus unpacks why OCD is skyrocketing today and how conventional approaches may miss its true roots. Drawing from his experience healing his own severe OCD after a Division 1 collegiate athletic career, he explains how trauma fragments the psyche, why unaddressed gut infections and inflammation can inflame the mind, and how true healing requires a blend of somatic work, Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy, mindfulness, and paradoxical spiritual practice.

He busts common myths, shares paradoxes drawn from Zen and Taoist teachings, and outlines his integrated, holistic approach—rooted in his Four Doctors philosophy and real-world case experience—to address the entire mind-body-spirit landscape.

Tune in to Mental Health in a Modern World to discover why, for Greg Schmaus, OCD became not just something to overcome, but his greatest spiritual teacher, guiding him and his clients back to unity consciousness and genuine self-healing.

5 Key Takeaways

Healing OCD requires a comprehensive and compassionate approach—explore these five actionable steps to begin your transformation today:

  1. Address unresolved trauma using Internal Family Systems (IFS) therapy by working with protector and exile parts of your psyche.
  2. Shift focus from obsessive thoughts to bodily sensations—practice somatic awareness to feel and process stored emotions.
  3. Embrace mindfulness and non-judgmental awareness, allowing thoughts and feelings to arise and pass without resistance or attachment.
  4. Build a strong healing foundation by prioritizing lifestyle essentials: a nourishing diet, restorative sleep, regular movement, and time for happiness.
  5. Contemplate and practice spiritual paradoxes: let go of resisting thoughts, allow them to expand, and observe how this creates inner quiet.

Start with one of these steps today—your path to wholeness and relief begins with a single, intentional action.

Memorable Quotes

"You resist, persists. If you want to shrink something, let it expand. If you want to get rid of something, allow it to flourish. As soon as you make one thing good, another thing becomes bad."
"You cannot heal OCD in the mind; you heal it in the body. The language of the mind is thinking. The language of the body is feeling."
"OCD was the greatest spiritual teacher I've ever had because it taught me how the mind works, how reality works, how energy works, and how to eventually find my way back to that place of witnessing, that place of observing, and that mindfulness space of non-attachment and non-aversion."

Resources Mentioned

Internal Family Systems (Richard Schwartz, IFS Model) – https://ifs-institute.com/

Tao Te Ching by Lao Tzu - https://amzn.to/4nijMpF

Connect with Greg

Website - https://www.healing4d.com/

Instagram - https://www.instagram.com/4d_healing/

YouTube - https://www.youtube.com/@gregschmaus

LinkedIn - https://www.linkedin.com/in/greg-schmaus-22929589/

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You resist persists. If you want to shrink something, let it expand. If you want

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to get rid of something, allow it to flourish. As soon as you make one

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thing good, another thing becomes bad. So working with some of these

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deep spiritual truths and practicing them and contemplating

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them and working with the different meditation practices

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that can allow you to get into those states is really, really helpful. In a

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world moving faster than our minds were designed to handle, mental health is becoming

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one of the defining challenges of our time. Welcome to Mental Health in a

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Modern World with holistic health practitioner Greg Schmauss.

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After overcoming severe anxiety and OCD in his own life,

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Greg dedicated the past decade to helping others heal through a fully

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integrated approach to mental health, combining lifestyle coaching, psycho

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emotional healing, mindfulness, and archetypal work. Over

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the years, he's facilitated thousands of sessions guiding people back to

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peace, clarity, and a deeper connection with themselves.

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Each week, Greg shares powerful solo insights, conversations with

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leading voices in holistic healing, and immersive live coaching sessions that

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take you inside the healing process itself. New episodes every

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Friday follow the show and start reclaiming sovereignty over your mind

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in a modern world. Here's Greg. Welcome to this

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week's episode on Mental Health in a modern World. So this

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week we're diving into healing obsessive compulsive

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disorder, healing ocd, which is a topic that is

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near and dear to my heart because this is something that I struggled

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with for many years, going back to when I was an

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athlete playing Division 1 golf at the University of Houston. When I was 19 years

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old, I began struggling with severe OCD.

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And so a lot of my healing journey was initiated

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from, you know, the challenges that I struggled with OCD. And I've

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spent the last 10 to 15 years coaching many, many

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clients and students and, you know, overcoming

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this challenge. And so it's pretty widespread, especially with

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a lot of the current mental health challenges that, you know,

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rates are really increasing. Anxiety, depression, adhd,

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ocd, they're kind of skyrocketing at the moment for many

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reasons. So I just wanted to do an episode specifically

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on OCD because I have so many people reach out to me as

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students, as clients, as people tuning into the show on how

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to heal ocd. So today we're going to take a deep dive into it.

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So we're going to start with what is ocd? So a basic definition is

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OCD is a chronic mental health condition characterized

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by uncontrollable, reoccurring thoughts, which we would call

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obsessions and repetitive behaviors which we would call

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compulsions that a person feels driven to perform.

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So the obsessive, compulsive nature, the obsessions,

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are usually the thought patterns, and then the compulsions are

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usually the behavior patterns that follow that

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sometimes feel uncontrollable and that someone

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needs to constantly perform and loop on. Now,

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most conventional treatments are either the use of medications

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like SSRIs or therapies, including

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exposure and response prevention, or. Or cognitive

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behavioral therapy, or a combination of medication and

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therapies. And I just want to say that there is a time and place for

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medications. There's a time and place for these therapies. So,

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you know, I take a holistic approach. And holistic means not just

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natural, holistic means, whole holistic means, all

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inclusive. And sometimes that includes medication, sometimes

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that includes some of these conventional therapies. So I just want people

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to understand that when I talk about a holistic approach, it is all

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inclusive. Now, the root causes of

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ocd, from my experience, are

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two. Two of the most common root causes that I've seen. Number one is

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trauma. I would say that would be number one. Top of the list is

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unhealed or unresolved trauma that creates

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OCD as an adaptive strategy. And number two is

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actually chronic infections. So actually going into the

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body and biologically looking at chronic infections, chronic

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inflammation, and certain autoimmune patterns that end up

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creating a lot of neural inflammation. A lot of people that

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have OCD very often have gut

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dysbiosis or chronic strep infections,

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parasite infections, things like that. So whenever we cause

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inflammation or permeability in the gut, a lot of times it ends

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up in creating permeability and inflammation in the brain as

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well. So today we'll focus on trauma,

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chronic infections, and we're going to address it, we could say, from

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different vantage points. We're going to look at it from different angles. We're

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going to peel it back one layer at a time, and we'll go

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through the different approaches that we can take. Getting to the root

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cause. Now, if we start with trauma, trauma, I

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would say, is the root cause of most mental health conditions,

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especially ocd. And so if we define

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trauma, you know, trauma is an experience that we have

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that obviously creates a stress response. But what happens

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when we experience trauma is there's some part of us,

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some part of the psyche that fragments off and almost gets

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frozen in time. So when we experience trauma, we're

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experiencing some events that some part of us actually

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gets stuck in. Some part of us gets frozen in time,

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and some part of us almost fragments off from the whole of us

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and stays trapped in that experience. And what

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happens when some part of us fragments during trauma

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and get stuck in time or stuck in an experience

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is we end up creating or recruiting protectors

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to keep that traumatized part locked away

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or deactivated. Right? So the psyche recruits

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a protective system to keep that

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traumatized part locked away, to keep it safe

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and to keep it from getting triggered or activated.

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And also, remember, trauma is stored in the body. Memory is

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stored in the mind. Memory can be stored in the brain, but

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trauma is really stored in the tissues. It's stored in

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our fascia, it's stored in our organs. It's stored really in the

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body. And so when we're approaching

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the healing of trauma, we really want to approach it from a

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somatic standpoint. But we will talk about how the psyches

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involved, but in reality, things like ocd, they're really

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healed through the body. Now, one of my favorite approaches to

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working with OCD and working with the psyche in general

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is an approach called ifs, which stands for

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internal family systems. So this system developed by

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Richard Schwartz, who's an amazing family therapist, who

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developed this system about 30 years ago,

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it's a way of working with the psyche using what's called

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parts work. And essentially, parts work

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takes the psyche and it breaks it down into this

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multiplicity of parts where there's not just one self, there's almost

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like many different parts involved in this one

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self. Right. So a lot of people might call that multiple

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personality disorder, where there's multiple voices

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speaking all the time. But the truth is, we all have parts. Like,

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you've had this time or this experience in your life where you've said, well, a

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part of me feels this way, but another part of me feels this way. Or

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a part of me wants to do this, but another part of me wants to

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do that. Right? So we have, in our language, this idea of

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parts. And so IFS is a way of working with

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the psyche through that lens of parts.

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And just to break this down through an

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IFS lens, we have the core self, which we could say

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is our higher self, our essential self. Then we have what's called

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protector parts and protectors parts. Their job

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is to protect the wounds, the traumas, the exiles

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that experienced trauma once upon a time. Now,

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when it comes to protector parts, we have two categories of

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protectors. We have what's called managers, and we

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have firefighters. So managers are the

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proactive parts that try and manage the system

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to make sure that exiles or traumas don't get

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activated. Firefighters are

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reactive Parts that once the traumas do

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get activated, the firefighters are there to put out the

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fire, right? So managers are proactive and

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prevention oriented. Firefighters are

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reactive and go to extreme measures to put out the

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fire when a, when an exile or a wound or

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a trauma gets activated. Now, when it

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comes to ocd, we have the obsessive and

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compulsive peace. So if we break that down, the obsessive

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piece are very often the managers. The intrusive

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thoughts, the looping thoughts, the obsessions, the micromanaging, the

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controlling, the perfectionism, the worrying,

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the avoidance, the planning. A lot of the obsessive

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nature of ocd, the obsessive parts are

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the managers and the compulsive parts are

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the firefighters, right? So you can see how OCD is

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actually a perfect representation of

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managers and firefighters. Obsessions being

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managers, compulsions being firefighters. So the

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firefighters compulsively react to put out

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the fire once the trauma is triggered. This could be

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cleaning, reassurance seeking, checking,

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ordering, micromanaging. But, but the

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micromanaging would be more the managers. But the cleaning, the

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reassurance, the checking, the ordering, these are ways that once

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something gets triggered, the compulsion the firefighter is

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there to, to soothe, to put out the fire, to make sure

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that whatever gets activated, you know, gets put out

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immediately. Right? So you can see all protectors

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are assigned to these traumatized parts, what

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we call exiles, as a result of the trauma they

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experienced, right? So to try and get rid of

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or treat OCD without addressing the trauma

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or the exile, a lot of times does more harm than

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good because you're trying to eliminate an

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exiled parts protective system which you're going to create

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what's called backlash. So a lot of times the

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conventional therapies that try and eradicate the OCD

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symptoms, or try and manage the OCD symptoms, or

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try and lessen the OCD symptoms without

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addressing the original trauma can often do more

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harm than good because you're trying to get rid of the

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protective system before the exile or the core

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trauma has been addressed, right? So we have to work from,

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with the protectors first until we can get down

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to the exiles and the trauma. And once we heal the

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trauma, a lot of times the protectors aren't as needed anymore and

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they can take on different roles. So working with

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OCD on a psychological level,

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ifs, from my experience, is the best

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modality for working with the protector parts.

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The managers, which are the obsessions, the

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firefighters, which are the compulsions, working with the

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protectors, then getting to the exiles, healing the

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trauma, and then the protectors can take on new

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roles. And it almost has to be like that order of

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operations. If you try and get to the exiles too

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quickly, or if you try and get rid of the protectors,

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you're going to create even more stress in the system.

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Right. So it's a beautiful approach to working with the

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psyche in a very compassionate way, a very gentle way,

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and it's very nuanced, very surgical, and

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really goes a long way. So I've had a lot of great success with that.

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Now, healing ocd, like we said, happens in the body.

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So there's a somatic approach that we need to take when it comes to

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healing ocd. Healing OCD is. OCD is a lot of

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mental activity, a lot of looping, a lot of obsessing, a lot

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of intrusive thinking. And so, you know, there's an old saying, you

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can't heal a problem at the same level that created it. So

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the mind is what generates ocd. So we can't heal a

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problem in the mind with more mind. We have to go

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one level deeper, which is into the body. You cannot

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heal OCD in the mind, you heal it in the body. And

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a framework that I want to share with you that's really important to

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understand is that the language of the mind

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is thinking. The language of the mind is thought.

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The language of the body is feeling.

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The language of the mind is thinking. The language of the body

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is feeling. Now, thinking and feeling are

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complementary opposites. If you imagine a

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seesaw, when one side goes up, the other side goes down,

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and vice versa. If thinking is on one side of

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the seesaw and feeling is on the other side of the

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seesaw, the more we think, the less we feel.

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The more we feel, the less we need to think.

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And so whenever there is OCD in the mind, there's a lot of mental

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activity. And a lot of times those are the protectors that are

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trying to downregulate feeling. Because feeling in

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the body, the body is where the trauma is. So a lot of times we

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upregulate thought as a way of trying to down

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regulate feeling, upregulate activity in

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the mind, to down regulate awareness and

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activity in the body, because the body is where the trauma is stored.

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The unprocessed emotions are stored in the body.

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So the more you are able to access and feel the

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emotions in the body, the less activity there is in

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the mind. Right? So one of the big questions I always ask,

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whether it's myself, when I was healing from it, clients that I work with

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Is what is the mind trying to keep me

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away from feeling in my body? It's an

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incredible question. What is my mind through all the mental activity?

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And you can apply this to things other than ocd. You can apply this to

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anxiety, you can apply this to adhd, you can apply

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this to just racing thoughts. What is my mind

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trying to keep me away from feeling in my body? Is

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it grief and sadness? Is it

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anger? Is it fear? Right. So what

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is my mind, through thought, trying to keep me away

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from feeling in the body? So a somatic approach

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to healing OCD is very important. And once we're able

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to access the feelings and emotions in the

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body, the quieter the mind gets. The mind

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gets quieter and quieter, the more we're able to

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feel, but the less we're able to feel, the more

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the mind has to upregulate thought as a way of

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keeping us away from the unprocessed emotions

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or traumas in the body. Right. And I always use a

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blend of ifs and

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somatic work. We can call it somatic ifs work,

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you know, which is parts work in the psyche, but orienting

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to the body. So working with the mind and the

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psyche from the lens or perspective of parts and

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then bringing the awareness and the healing work into the body,

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it's a great combination, and it works really, really well.

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Next, we're going to address it from a spiritual perspective.

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So OCD is something we heal in the psyche, it's

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something we heal in the body. But there's also a

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spiritual crisis that we want to explore, and

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there's a spiritual process that we want to address

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and acknowledge when it comes to healing ocd.

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So as a basic framework, the mind

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is like an ocean. So imagine the mind like an ocean,

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and each thought is a wave or a

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ripple on the surface of the ocean. You

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could say the waves are your conscious thoughts. What's

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under the surface of the ocean is the unconscious.

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But just in general, the ocean would be the mind,

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and each wave would be a thought. Right

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now, OCD is

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kind of like swimming against the tide. Someone

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who has OCD is not really able to go with the flow,

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because OCD comes with a lot of rigidity. So OCD is kind of like

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the opposite of flow. When we're going with the flow, it's very

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different than the obsessive compulsive nature of ocd.

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So OCD is kind of like the rigidity, which is the

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opposite of flow. So OCD is very much

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swimming against the tide or swimming against the

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flow, or the Natural current of the ocean.

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Now, mindfulness is learning how to

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surf the waves, right? Awareness, Mindfulness

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is learning how to surf the waves of the ocean

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rather than swimming against the tide of all the time, which

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first of all creates exhaustion, it creates suffering,

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and eventually we drown in it. And a lot of people feel like they're

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drowning in the ocd, they're drowning in their own minds. And

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it's really when we're trying to swim against the tide, which

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once again is always a result of unhealed trauma.

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So mindfulness, the practice of mindfulness,

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which I would define mindfulness as a

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non judgmental awareness of your moment to

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moment experience. So mindfulness, just my

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definition. A non judgmental awareness

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of your moment to moment experience. So a

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non judgmental awareness of a moment to moment experience

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allows you to ride the wave of each thought,

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each emotion, each body sensation, and

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each experience. Moment to moment.

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And so mindfulness allows us to surf the waves

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rather than ocd, swimming against the tide. So just wanted to

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open it up with that analogy. And also

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when I was healing ocd, I started to read a lot of

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Eastern philosophy, a lot of Eastern scripture,

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like Taoism and Zen Buddhism and a lot

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of these beautiful ancient traditions of the Far East.

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And when you would read these scriptures and these

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proverbs and these, these teachings and offerings,

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what I found was the deepest truths. I would always find it

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would be a paradox. Like, we know the, the paradox what you

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resist persists. There's a paradox.

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I would read something that would say, if you want to shrink something, let it

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expand. I would read another proverb that would say, if you want to get

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rid of something, let it flourish, right? And

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at first you're like, that doesn't make sense. But what I did was I

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took those, you know, scriptures, those teachings, and I

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applied it to my own mind. I applied it to my own psyche.

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And what I found was if I

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went the opposite direction versus trying to get rid of

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the ocd, if I said, okay, I'm going to allow these

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obsessive thoughts to expand, just going to tell my

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mind, all right, whatever you want to think about, just go do it. You know,

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I'm just going to sit back here, go do it. And all of a sudden

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the mind would go calm, the mind would go silent.

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Or if my mind was looping on something, I would just say to, okay, you

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know, go, flourish. Do whatever it is that you want to do. I'll

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give you space. And all of a sudden it would go quiet.

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And I noticed that the mind works on A paradox.

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The more space I gave my mind, the less it would take,

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the more I would would allow it to roam free, the more it would stay

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by my side. And so healing the mind

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became this paradox where if I would try and get

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rid of it, it would make it worse. If I would try and push it

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away, it would push back. If I would resist, it would

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persist. But if I allowed it to expand and

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flourish, it would quiet down and go silent pretty immediately,

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right? The other teaching that I found in Scripture was in the

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Dao Te Ching, as soon as you make one thing good,

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another thing becomes bad. Very simple teaching on

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duality. And so I said, okay, well, if mindfulness is

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a non judgmental awareness, that means

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I can't judge one thought as good and another thought is bad.

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I can't judge one thought or one feeling as good and

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another feeling as bad as I need to be equally willing

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to be present with the negative thoughts just as much

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as the positive thoughts, be present with the uncomfortable feelings

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just as much as the comfortable feelings, and actually enter

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this state of what we would call non attachment and non

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aversion. So non attachment and non aversion is a Buddhist

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term where we're not attaching to all the positive

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things and we're not in aversion to all the negative things.

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Attachment and aversion creates a polarized experience in

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the mind and body. A lot of times we spend our life

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attaching to all the positive thoughts and living in

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aversion to all the negative ones, attaching to all the

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positive and pleasurable feelings and experiences, and

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living in aversion to all the uncomfortable or negative

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ones. And so to heal OCD and to enter

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a state of mindfulness, I needed to move into a

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state of non attachment and non aversion. So a

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positive thought comes up or a positive feeling comes up. I don't

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attach to it. A negative thought or a negative feeling comes

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up. I'm not in aversion to it. And that starts to open

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this spaciousness, this space of awareness, this space

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of the witness or the observer that is beyond polarity,

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right? And that's a spiritual experience. That's a spiritual process. That's

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real spiritual healing. And so that's why OCD

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is really this constant state of attachment and aversion. It's this

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constant state of swimming against the tide. So healing

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OCD is about surrendering attachment and

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aversion and surrendering to the flow or

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the way, what we would call the dao, right?

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So healing OCD is surrendering to the Flow of the dao

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and the practice of mindfulness through non attachment and non

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aversion. And so this is why I wanted to bring this spiritual

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piece. And because on a very deep level, you know, I've said this many times

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on podcasts, OCD was the greatest spiritual teacher I've ever had

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because it taught me how the mind works, it taught me how reality works, it

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taught me how energy works, and it taught me how to

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eventually find my way back to that

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place of witnessing, that place of observing,

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and that mindfulness space of non attachment and non

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aversion. And we might call that unity consciousness,

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right? And so OCD brought me back to that space

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of unity consciousness that is beyond polarity, that is

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beyond duality, and it's what we would call a non dual awareness.

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I want to also, you know, lastly address the

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lifestyle piece. You know, when I'm working with clients, we

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always need to address diet and lifestyle. And

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now I'm trained by Paul Check at the Czech Institute. So I always

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look at it from what we call a four doctor perspective, which is Dr. Diet,

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Dr. Quiet, Dr. Movement, and Dr. Happiness.

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So Dr. Diet is how you're feeding your body. Dr. Quiet

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is how you're resting your body. Dr. Movement is how you're moving your

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body. And Dr. Happiness is how you engage your mind,

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your emotions, and how you create happiness for yourself.

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Now, it's very hard to heal the mind or heal OCD if you're

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staying up till 3am every morning or every night. It's very hard to

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heal OCD if you're eating processed foods and you're

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inflaming your body all the time. It's very hard to heal OCD if

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you're sedentary all the time and you're not moving your body. Right? So

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the mind can only be as healthy as the body that it's living in.

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And so getting the body healthy, reducing

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chronic inflammation, clearing chronic infections, these

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are the absolute essential building blocks to healing

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the mind or healing ocd. It's very much the foundation. So

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when I'm working with clients, I always make sure that the diet

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and lifestyle piece is not overlooked and then that we're not

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always just doing deep inner trauma healing work. If we're

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eating Rice Krispies and Cheerios all

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day, it's never going to work. And the reason for that is

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the more unhealthy the body is, the more the nervous

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system's in a chronic stress response, and the more the

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nervous system's in a chronic stress response, the more the mind

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is Living in a state of fear and survival. And we always

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revert back to our old programs. So you can't really

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heal deep trauma if the body and nervous system

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is in a constant fight or flight state. So by healing the

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body and reducing inflammation and clearing infections,

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getting the diet cleaned up, getting to bed on time, exercising

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regularly, drinking quality water, getting out in nature

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and grounding, getting your feet on the earth, getting a good amount of

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sunshine each day on your body, these are really the building blocks

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that allow healing to take place. So it's really important that we

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address what Paul Check calls the four doctors prior

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to doing any deeper trauma work. Now sometimes

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you need to do a little trauma healing work before someone has the

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capacity to make lifestyle changes because there's a strong

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saboteur or patterns of self sabotage. So sometimes

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you need to work backwards. But most of the time it's

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really, really helpful to address, you know,

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the foundational principles of diet and lifestyle prior to

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doing some of the deeper healing work. So just in

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summary, trauma, chronic infections

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and inflammation, these are usually the root causes of ocd.

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Trauma being number one. We talked about addressing it

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from a psychological standpoint and, and working with

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the psyche through the lens of ifs or parts work. Working

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with the psyche as a collection of parts where we have protector

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parts managers which are proactive and

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prevention oriented, firefighters that are reactive,

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the obsessive parts being the managers, the compulsive parts being the

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firefighters, working with the protective system so we can

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then get to the exiles, heal the trauma, so then the

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protectors can release their roles, take on new roles

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rather than being what we would call ocd. So working

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with the psyche from a parts perspective and then working with

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the body somatically, we talked about the complimentary

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opposites of thinking and feeling. And the more we think, the

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less we feel, the more we feel, the quieter the mind can get. And

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so really orienting into the body, working with

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unprocessed feelings and emotions in the body. And once that energy

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gets freed up, then the mind can begin to quiet down.

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The mind is almost like a release valve or a pressure valve

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for where there's energetic or emotional blocks in the body.

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So working somatically and then working

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spiritually, working with some of these concepts of non

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duality, of moving beyond polarity, of moving

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into a non judgmental awareness, which is what we would call

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mindfulness. And working with the paradoxes of

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healing the mind right, what you resist, persists. If you want to

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shrink something, let it expand. If you want to get rid of something, allow it

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to flourish. As soon as you make one thing good, another thing

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becomes bad. So working with some of these deep spiritual

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truths and practicing them and contemplating them and

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working with the different meditation practices that can

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allow you to get into those states is really, really helpful. And

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then finally we have lifestyle approach, which is really

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addressing diet, quiet, movement,

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happiness for doctors, and making sure that we're setting the

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foundation of holistic healing rather than just trying

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to do targeted specific work. We have to address the

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whole organism because like I've said in previous podcasts, we are

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biopsychosocial spiritual beings. Bio is your

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biology, psycho is your psyche, social is your environment,

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and spiritual is your energetic or soul nature.

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And so we have to address all four levels in order to

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really have a complete system. And if you enjoyed this

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off. And then you can always reach out to me for one on one coaching

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by going to my website at healing4d.com so I hope

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you enjoyed this journey today exploring the

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nuances of O C D. I hope this podcast really supports you

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in your own healing journey or anyone that you know that might struggle

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with O C D. I invite you to share it with them. It's important that

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we spread and share the love as much as possible because the

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world really needs a lot of healing right now and I look forward to sharing

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more with you in next week's podcast. Have a beautiful rest of your

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day. Bye bye.

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