#208 – The #1 Mistake Sports Parents Make (And What to Do Instead) 
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Episode Summary: 
Every parent wants their child to succeed in sport: to perform well, improve, and love the game. But as Ian explains in this heartfelt episode, there’s one behaviour that quietly holds so many young athletes back: constant correction and criticism. Drawing on his experience as a coach, parent, and performance mentor, Ian unpacks why focusing on mistakes destroys confidence and connection, and how encouragement and belief drive long-term success. 
Through real-life stories from community football and examples from elite sport, Ian shows why even top athletes like Reece Walsh still make mistakes, and why that’s part of the journey. He reveals what parents can do instead: spot bright moments, praise effort and controllables, and give validation, recognition, and certainty that fuels trust and motivation. 
Whether you’re a coach, parent, or athlete, this episode reframes what real high performance looks like. Because lasting confidence doesn’t come from fear or pressure; it grows from encouragement, connection, and love. 
About the Host:  
Ian Hawkins is dedicated to showing how sports can transform lives. With extensive experience as an athlete, a coach, PE teacher, community volunteer, and manager at Fox Sports, Ian brings a wealth of knowledge to the podcast. His journey began in his backyard, mentored by his older brother, and has since evolved into coaching elite athletes and business leaders. Ian's commitment to sports and personal development is evident in his roles as a performance coach and active community member. Through "Sport Is Life," Ian shares inspiring stories and valuable lessons to help listeners apply sports principles to all areas of life.  
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