Therefore, when you do a charitable deed, do not sound a trumpet before you as the hypocrites do in the synagogues and in the streets, that they may have glory from men. Assuredly, I say to you, they have their reward.
Jesus. Matthew 6:2. Hi, it’s Nathan, and this is Day 2 of 30 Days on the Mount of Blessing, PT 2.
Here’s the painful truth: a whole lot of good is done purely for the attention it gets the doer. We post the pics and videos of our actions—tell the painful story of sacrifice—and then check to see how quickly our post gains likes. Just so you know, I’m not dinging anybody for sharing a story of generosity on social media—or with a friend—and I don’t think Jesus is either. But I am inviting all of us to reflect on our motives. Truth: I find myself all too often desperately hoping somebody will recognize my generous act or (wink, wink) my sage wisdom. I find, too, that often when I don’t get the positive reaction I’m hoping for, it kind of stings. And I realize I’m missing the whole point of doing good. Next time you go out of your way to help somebody, deliberately try to do so in a way that nobody can even tell—maybe someone else will even end up getting the credit. And then see how your heart responds. Does it sting? Is there a let-down? Is it enough for you to simply do good—or are you just holding up a big sign that says “clap-for-me”?