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This is the after party with Big Party and Molly, where we overshare for entertainment and call it healing.

Welcome to the after party.

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We're into March.

Fascinating how some things just grow so fast.

Weather man.

Yeah, it's just been awesome.

Everything's just been awesome.

So I went and spoke to the sweet Wylene.

We kind of left the big party show.

We're talking about the.

The vest that she has.

Oh, yes, the weighted vest.

And what did she say?

I went right to her and I said, hey, why do you have that vest?

What are you wearing this for?

Is it for bone density type stuff?

And she looked me straight in the eyes and said, yes.

Told you.

I can't say.

You're right.

I will say it.

You're 100% right.

Yeah.

And I said, well, I didn't know what to think because Molly was talking about how it's a woman of a certain age and all this other stuff.

And I was getting defensive because, you know, I'm like, you're not a woman of a certain age.

And then she goes, well, why don't you to go ahead and ask smarty pants, which is my.

My AI friend about it, and see what they say, because that's kind of what they Is recommended, is for, you know, people to wear those vests because it builds muscles and it helps with the bone density and stuff like that.

Okay.

All right, so.

Bingo.

Told you.

Look at that.

See

the.

The amount of doubt that always, like, doubt.

It's like you and my husband Peter's always like, do you ever get tired of being right?

I'm like, I'm never exhausting being questioned at every turn.

Well, I want to make sure that.

Well, when you.

When you say a woman of a certain age to me, that you're.

You're saying that she's like, 90s.

The way I took that.

That's not what that means.

Defending my queen is what I was doing.

So a woman of a certain age is like any age.

I mean, it doesn't.

I'm just saying there is a point that you reach in life where you start worrying about things like bone density and muscle.

It doesn't mean you're old.

It just means that you've hit a point where it's like, you know what?

I've got to think ahead to the future so that when I am 80, I'm not walking off a curb like your grandmother and snapping a hip.

So you're.

It's a woman thing or a guy thing?

You're talking about both of us.

We both need to be doing that because I'm not paying attention.

I'm older than her, and I'm not paying attention to bone density.

I probably should.

Women, historically, I mean, it's.

It's a.

It's a female issue.

And especially if you've had children,

they just zap your calcium and all that stuff out of your bones.

Yeah.

Just.

How dare.

Robs you of all sorts of stuff.

So that's the thing with women.

There's always that push for awareness about osteoporosis.

Like, be sure to keep up on your vitamin D. Be sure to keep up on your muscle density, because it helps with your bone health.

Like, all of this stuff feeds into each other, so hence the weighted vest.

The idea is, is that you're building up those muscles.

You're building up that bone density by doing it.

All right.

See, I'm so glad Wylene's got my back.

Sisterhood.

Women unite.

Yeah.

Women unite.

Yeah, I was.

Yeah.

I didn't know what to say when she.

When she clarified what you had said.

You know, I just.

I've got to go back on the show and tell her she's right.

Thank you for ruining the rest of my day.

Hey, I could have left it.

I could have left it go, but I didn't want to leave it go, you know?

All right, so we left the big party show with.

I mean, the after party is a little bit different.

We tackle different things on the After Party with Big Party Molly podcast.

All right, so there's a new dating trend out there, which is horrifying.

I can't believe people do this to people.

I can't.

Something's bad will happen eventually, and if it hasn't already, but it's called Alpine divorce.

So basically, you go, what's it say?

On a hike anyway?

Or hike, Go anywhere.

Anywhere.

Go for a walk in the woods.

You go on a camping trip.

You decide to, I don't know, go out in the middle of nowhere and just hang out.

And then all of a sudden, you're like, where did.

Where did he go?

Where is he?

And you realize that he or she, though it seems more like a he thing than a she thing, has left you.

Just left you alone in nature by Yourself probably taken the car, like, has just like they have disappeared on you.

I saw one story, Molly, where a girl was walking, saying it was a point of view type video.

And it mentioned, you know, she's saying how, you know, he just disappeared.

It left her and she's walking along like it looked like in a.

In.

In like Nevada or something, or even Utah, those type of cavernous stuff.

And then the guy took the car and left for her to try to make it back home.

Oh, my God.

These are people that are going on dates and maybe have been on several dates.

Yeah.

In some cases it's couples.

Like, it's not like a first date and you didn't know.

These are people that like, hey, you know, John and I have been together for a year.

He wants to go out hiking in the woods.

And next thing you know, you're like, well, what happened?

It's like, John left me in the woods by myself alone, and I had to walk back to town.

Walk back.

And especially, like, if you were somebody like me who's not particularly outdoorsy, like, I'm fine.

I mean, I grew up in Nebraska.

It's not like I don't have an outdoor, you know, aspect to my personality.

But I'm a city mouse.

Like, I. I like city rat.

We'll call you rat.

I'm a city rat.

Yeah.

Not a country mouse.

So.

And I like, went out and he was like, I will be right back.

I'm just going to duck over here and go to the bathroom.

And then it was like one hour later, you're thinking, did he get mauled by a bear?

Like, did you realize that?

Like, no, no, he just left.

He got tired of me and he left me alone in nature.

Because that's the, that's the thing that's going on.

It's.

I mean, it's not only just leaving somebody in like that to try to find their way back, but it's also what's going through that person's head.

Like you said, did they get mauled by a bear?

Did what happened to them?

Are they lost?

So then now you got to have to make the decision of whether do you go looking for that person or do you just try to make your way back to the car hoping that that's where your end all place will be.

You'll meet back there if you get lost or whatever the case is.

So I couldn't imagine what you'd be through your head the whole time just to find out later that that person just abandoned you because they thought it was funny.

Well, how about, like, what if you.

What if you say to yourself, okay, I am going to walk back to the car because that is going to be that.

That'll be the end point.

So no matter what, we've got to end up.

And then you get to the parking lot or you get to wherever and it's gone.

That's what that lady said.

She said.

And that's the thing, like, you just had that moment where you're like, am I losing my.

Like, were there multiple parking lots?

Because that would also be my thing where I'm like, did I go to the wrong parking lot?

Like, no, that's the.

That's the bathroom over there that I remember using before we decided to go on this walk.

Like, I ran across the parking lot and used that trail bathroom before.

Like, no, no, the car's not here.

The car is gone.

He left.

That's what that story was with that lady.

She said that by the time she made it back, he took the car.

And by the.

By the time she made it back to her apartment, somehow he.

She just.

He tried calling her and he.

She just blocked him immediately.

Yeah.

Oh, my God.

How awful is this thing?

Alpine divorce.

That's not how you dump somebody, people.

That's not how you do it.

If something bad happens, you're going to be in trouble.

Yeah.

We're going to be watching you on the news.

You'll be.

I just thought it was crazy that.

That it's happened with such, like, it's happened enough or like, with enough frequency that they've given it a term.

Yeah.

Like, I, I mean, I could understand a one off or even like a two.

Like, where you just think like, that's.

But the fact that it has happened with enough frequency that people are like, we need to.

We need to name this something.

Like, besides divorce.

Crazy.

Alpine divorce, there's so many other ways in which

you heard it heard people ghosting walking out of restaurants.

Is that a breakup way?

I think that seems like that somebody walks out.

If somebody's like, I will be right back.

I'm gonna go use the bathroom.

And they never come back to the table.

Yeah, that's.

You don't get back together with that person.

You're not like, yeah, for so many.

Well, and also it's like, okay, I guess.

I guess I'm paying the bill.

There's that.

Would it make any difference if the bill was already paid for?

Yeah, it would.

Okay.

All right.

Because that.

That, that's like the one, two punch.

I mean, you left Me, you're already in the hole, so I guess you could just walk out on the bill, too.

But at least if you paid the bill, it shows some humanity.

Like, it.

It shows some sort of.

Like, I'm not a complete.

Like, I am a monster, but I'm not a complete monster.

What kind of coward does that?

That's a.

That's just.

You know, that's amazing that people have the.

I guess if you feel like you're never going to see that person again, then it's okay.

But once you do it out on a date, I don't think I ever have.

I one time was at a bar with a buddy, and it was hardly anyone there.

And we're sitting at the bar, we ate something, got beers, and then I'm like, I got to go to the restroom.

And then I came back out, and he was gone.

And the bartender was just standing there, like, where did you go?

And I think he was surprised that I was still there.

So I didn't know what to do.

So I sat there and ordered another beer.

Then I drank it, paid the bill.

Oh, so your friend left you with the tab as well?

He left me with the tab as a funny joke.

It was so uncomfortably awkward.

I know.

And then when I got to the car, he sitting in the car because I drove.

Is this Bo?

Yeah, it was Bo.

I think he's just looking for any reason to not have to pay a tab from what you said.

I don't understand how you guys were as friendly as friends as long as you were.

He never.

Yeah.

Had a dollar.

He constantly was sticking you with the bill.

This is why.

This is why he was like that.

Because.

And I hated this, because he.

He had met this millionaire, right.

Some guy's very, very wealthy.

And he asked them, he said, how did you become a millionaire?

How did you.

How were you able to become this rich person?

What did you do?

Did you invest?

What did you case?

The guy told him, I spend other people's money.

I don't spend my money.

I spend their money.

You know, I mean, there's ways of doing that.

I understand what he's saying, but he's not saying, try to get a freebie every chance you get and spend your friend's money.

Yeah.

He's not saying that's how he made the millionaire, but that's how he took it.

And so, therefore, I mean, that's what he did.

When he walked out, I was like, oh, my God.

I was so upset.

I'm like, geez, now this is uncomfortable.

This Guy doesn't trust me.

This guy's staring at me just watching every move I make.

Yeah.

Yeah.

That was Beau.

He makes a lot of the show, doesn't he?

Well, it's not for the best reasons.

No, it's not.

Rest in peace, buddy.

We miss you.

Did he leave a fortune behind?

Did he manage to make, like, a million dollars with all this bad behavior?

No, not at all.

You know, it was just amazing.

Like I said, we have a lot

of friends besides you.

Yes, he's great.

He had ton of friends, but there's just.

There's a.

Like.

Like most people, we have our little circle of friends.

You know, it's like there's like three or four of us, guys that.

That were friends forever in death, even.

It doesn't even matter.

Yeah.

You know, I mean, if it wasn't for him, Molly, I wouldn't be where I'm at right now.

He's the one that got me where I'm at just by being who he is and help me out through.

Through my challenges and not quitting.

Remember I told you he.

He had said that.

Why start the race if you're not going to finish it?

He said all these great things when I was having the hardest time, and that's what friends do.

But also, I mean, he's also like,

why pay for the tab if somebody else will?

Why stick around if you can go wait in the car if somebody else pay for your bears?

Get a lot of them.

Get a lot of really sage advice.

Yeah.

So anybody that walks on people, you're monsters.

I mean, I don't know how you get back at someone like that.

I recently saw this website, a Facebook page.

Molly.

I think it's entitled somebody Help me out if I'm wrong.

It's something like, are we dating the same person?

Yes.

I saw that thing, and I went down that rabbit hole.

Oh.

Oh, my God.

This is a local.

This is the local one in Omaha.

And I'm reading these things, and people are sharing pictures of people.

Like, give me the lowdown on this guy.

This is.

There's several different scenarios that I've looked at.

One of them is, give me the lowdown on this guy if you know him.

And people will go and respond and describe everything, like, don't date this jerk.

He.

I mean, all this stuff.

I know someone.

Oh, who knew someone.

Really?

Like, I know someone.

Who.

That was a guy.

Like, I know a woman who had to comment because she's like, yes, I am dating that guy.

Oh, no.

Yeah.

And like, somebody reached out.

And they're like, you know, I happen to go on the Omaha Facebook page and isn't this your boyfriend?

And they were like, yeah.

And somebody had put his picture up.

Like, hey, just wanted to know, like,

I think, is anyone dating him?

So, yeah, no, I am familiar with that page.

I couldn't believe it.

Guess what?

It works.

It works.

It works.

I mean, if you really.

Because a lot of times people are going on it just out of, like, curiosity, right?

Like that.

Like the human nature of just, like, will I know anyone?

I mean, but you never think you're really gonna know anybody.

You think you're just gonna kind of like, be a voyeur and just sort of go down and be like, oh, this guy's really getting lit up, or what have you.

Oh, no.

Yeah, Sometimes you really do.

I don't know how I know a person.

I don't know how I found that page, but it landed.

And, yeah, I just.

I couldn't believe it.

And then I felt.

I'm like, you guys are idiots.

I mean.

I mean, in this 20, 26, who's it?

You're going to date people?

Yeah, the people who are dating.

Dating around, like, clear, Just pick one.

I mean, why do you want all of that?

Why not?

Oh, my God.

Why would you want more than one man in your life?

I'd be tired of trying to date.

You've dated multiple people at the same time.

No, I didn't.

I've never.

Lies.

No, I have never dated someone twice multiple people at the same time.

I wasn't a serial dater.

I didn't need it.

And I definitely wouldn't date someone for an X amount of time and date someone else at the same time.

How do you even manage that now?

I can tell your face.

You have.

I mean, you're a serial dater.

You just date everybody in Omaha, didn't you?

No.

Yeah.

Don't deny.

Don't deny.

No, I never did that.

That's a chick thing or a jabroni thing.

That's what women do, guys.

I don't see a lot of dudes that just date women constantly.

Yeah, you do.

Give me a break.

Are you not my circle?

I don't.

I.

You know, leaving people with the tab, they're lucky to get one woman.

They're trying to find one person is what they're, you know, the right person.

And then eventually, sadly enough, it at when you hit a certain age, and I know a lot of these guys right now, they just give up on trying to find a person.

I Wonder if women do the same thing.

Do they just give up?

I guess.

I mean, at some point you're just like, I think it's less about.

I don't know.

I mean, in the few instances of friends of mine that are single and either are divorced single or never been married single, it's a.

It's a choice.

Like, it's kind of like I like the.

The friends of mine that have never been married.

It's sort of like at this point it'd be really hard.

Yeah.

To share a life.

That's where my.

And I really do think so.

It's kind of like when you've lived on your own and all of a sudden you try to have a roommate and you're like, I gotta go back to living on my own.

Like, I don't want to share a space.

You're like, my friends that are divorced and single, they're happy with either just dating or being on their own.

They're like, I already know what it's like to be in a miserable relationship living situation.

Like, why would I go back to that?

Like, well, that doesn't mean that you would go back to that.

I mean.

I mean, you're saying that every marriage from then on out is going to be a bad situation.

No, I'm saying they are in a situation where it's like, I've been liberated of that I'm ready to be on my own for a while and do it on my own terms.

God, I get it.

You know, I mean, I married.

I married late, you know, because I didn't want to marry more than once.

I'm a product of divorce and several divorces, and I hated every single one of them, you know, So I never wanted that.

That's the reason why I waited.

I didn't just surrender to.

To everything.

And I could have.

I could have made the bad, wrong decisions.

And those relationships, looking back, never would have lasted.

I'd be paying alimony, people, child support.

I'd be paying all that stuff.

Yeah.

So then when the sweet white lane came around, I just felt like it was the right time.

But again, back to this Alpine divorce.

People don't do that.

It's awful to put someone through hell, you know?

Scary.

Yeah.

To be terrified.

Especially like, if you're really, really, really out in the middle of nowhere.

Like, it's not.

It's not like, oh, there was a convenience store a mile down the road, you know, but if you really were, like, backwoods and it was gonna be a ways, and there was nobody around like, at least, like, oh, there were other cars in the parking lot where you could just wait and see if somebody comes back and be like, my boyfriend left me.

Can I get a ride back to town with you, please?

Like, yeah.

Then you're stuck.

They don't think that you're some, like, serial killer who's, like, pulling a fast one.

Like, yes, let me into your car.

Well, she would be easy for you to find a ride home.

Did it say it was just dudes doing this or just because I know?

No, I think it's anybody, but I. I think it's probably.

It sounds, from what I read, that it seems like more of a guy thing.

The jerk.

A guy leaving the girl high and dry, trying to think if I've ever been left somewhere.

I have.

I have.

You've been left somewhere.

I have been left.

Oh, my God.

I have been left.

That just came out of nowhere.

I went to a concert with a.

A woman.

It was widespread panic at the Ranch Bowl.

It was an outdoor show.

I remember clearly as day I was dating this girl for, I don't know, long enough to say I was dating her.

I didn't know what it was.

She disappeared, okay.

And just left.

And she left with.

I'm assuming with someone else, because why would you just leave?

So she just left, and then now I'm stuck wondering what happened.

I mean, did she get kidnapped?

All this stuff, like, we talked about went through my head, and then I eventually got a hold of her the next day at home, and she said, yeah, I left.

I mean, it.

It was.

She act like nothing happen happened.

I was like, all right, this is sucky, man.

So, yeah, that's what happened.

Have you done that to somebody?

It sounds like.

I mean, that's.

Maybe I. I mean, so you have Less someone.

I don't rem.

Sounds.

Sounds like something I could have done.

The young Molly.

It sounds like something I would have been like, I'm bored of this situation.

I don't want to.

But that's a newbie, huh?

That's not a.

A relationship.

You're not doing that on a.

Like, you've been dating, like, running into them at home.

And it seems like that.

That seems to sound familiar to me, that, like, there'd been, like, fallout where it was like, you just left.

And I'd be like, yeah, I guess I did.

Okay.

You were talking to somebody, and I was annoyed, and you just left.

Bye.

So I just left.

So you have.

I think I don't have any memory of doing it.

But then you probably didn't do it.

Yeah, it, I mean, I don't, I

mean, you'd be a bad person to do that.

I mean, just a bail on someone.

I was not a good person to date.

Well, that's fun to hear.

Really.

I was not a good person.

There was a long stretch where I was probably not a great person to do so.

You were selfish is what you were.

A selfish dater.

I don't know if it was so much.

I don't think it was selfish.

I just, I, I, I'm not a very good community.

I wasn't a very good communicator.

Okay.

You know what I mean?

So like, instead of, instead of having an awkward conversation, it was just like, he's ghosted him.

Yeah, exactly.

Or we could just never talk about this.

God, you'd be terrible to date.

Yeah, awful.

You know, terrible to do.

Terrible.

When did you stop being like this?

I mean, was it Peter that changed your evil ways?

I'm not evil.

I mean, listen, you know, you get not evil.

Let's just say you're, you're, we'll say selfish ways when it comes to.

I wasn't selfish.

I think I was just inexperienced.

I was immature.

I was immature.

I, I didn't realize how to have a grown up conversation and have grown up relationships.

I just would be like, I'm taking my toys and going home.

Okay.

And, and that was sort of it.

Like it wasn't, it wasn't from a mean or, or like a mine kind of way.

It was more just like, I don't know what to do, so I'll just.

Poof.

Like, you'll leave.

Yeah.

That's probably because you dated so many people at the same time.

Yeah.

You know, that's probably how it is, how that works.

I didn't date a lot of people at the same time.

Often.

Okay.

Also, if you're not in a committed relationship, you don't know anybody.

You should date as many as you want.

If you're not coming.

Yeah, I, I'm.

With a committed relationship.

I mean, what makes it committed to you?

I think a conversation.

A conversation makes it committed, meaning talking about it like, yeah, we're doing this.

I want, like, I don't want to see anybody else.

I just want to see you and me being like, you know what?

I don't want to see anybody else either.

I want to just see you.

I don't think people have those conversations anymore.

And guess what?

Yeah, I don't think they do.

I really don't think some guy driving Your.

Your girlfriend's car.

And you think to yourself, huh, I don't know that guy, but I do know that car.

You're not talking about me, are you?

Because that happened to me once.

It did.

Oh, my God.

Molly was awful.

And I was living with the chick, we're living together, and she had a very specific vehicle.

I don't think there was another one in Omaha.

Well, anyway, I was.

This is before radio.

I was doing painting and stuff like that, you know, with my boss.

And we're driving down 72nd street, and all of a sudden this car, the same car, zoomed by us.

And I saw it and I was like, oh, my God, who the heck is that?

And why is he driving that car?

That's not his car.

That's her car.

Yeah, I thought you knew the story and that's why you said that.

Yeah.

So my boss goes, you want to follow him?

I'm like, no, I don't.

I don't want to go anywhere.

I just want to die right now.

You're like, I just want to go home and cry my bellow.

Yeah, that was happening.

That's how you.

That's how.

That's a bad way of catching somebody cheating on you.

But, yeah, that's what happened.

So, yeah, we did have that conversation.

So you had a conversation where you, you're like, seeing anybody else?

I've never had that.

I've never had a conversation like that.

No, I think I just assumed.

But I do recall people having those conversations.

Like, I want to be exclusive.

And are you.

Do you want to date other people?

Because kind of like you want to do this at that point where you, you.

You want to make sure that person's committed as well.

Because you don't want to commit to someone that's not committed to you, because then that's how you get hurt, you know?

And that's how, you know, you find out some other dudes driving your girlfriend's car,

or the person that you thought was your girlfriend, but you never had a conversation with them about it.

And I'm like, we are, but not exclusively.

Yeah, that was dating and not be exclusive.

That was a tough one.

That was a tough relationship, too.

That's not.

You guys lived together.

Yeah, we lived together.

She came, she is at a party, I guess, in a work party.

This is a co worker of her too, by the way.

And so what happened is then she came home one night and then she had hickeys all over her neck.

And I'm like, what is going on here?

And she's like, we were just having fun at this party.

That's what they do at parties.

I'm like, they give each other hickeys.

How many times have you been.

I don't know.

I don't want to know anymore.

I don't know enough to not.

I mean, it happens.

I know of at least now, telling that story.

That's at least three times that I know of that you've been cheated on.

I'm trusting is what I am.

I'm not controlling.

I'm trusting.

And if someone wants to go off and do something, I mean, I look at it like this, Molly, if they don't want to be with me, why do I want to be with them?

If this is how it's going to go, there's got to be more fish in the sea.

And there is.

So it's like, why do you want to be with someone that doesn't want to be with you?

So if they're going to go off and get hickeys, they're going to leave you at a concert, stuff like that, then you don't need them in your life.

So that's how I've always lived as.

Maybe I should have those conversations.

Yeah.

Because I. I don't.

You.

I've never cheated on anyone I've been in a serious relationship with.

That's good.

There is.

I mean, serious person.

If we really are, like, we've had the conversation.

I'm seeing you, you're seeing me.

This is it.

That's it.

I do not.

I'm not a cheater, but I am somebody where it's like, you gotta nail me down.

Like, what do you mean, nail you down?

I mean, we gotta have that conversation.

Making assumptions and being like, well, I know, but it's been like six months.

I'll be like six months of dating.

Yeah.

A lot of people.

I mean.

Yeah.

See, I never had that.

I don't remember having that conversation.

Maybe I did when I was younger, but.

Yeah, I just kind of let it morph into what it.

Whatever it is, and it always morphed into, I wonder if Eileen and I had that conversation.

I think we had some sort of conversation, you know, or we just had an understanding, you know, I just.

I won't leave her at a.

At a state park by herself.

That's for sure.

Alpine divorces for you guys.

I know she's gonna be nervous.

You guys actually hike and stuff?

I would have to be.

Yes.

If Peter took me and was like, let's go hiking.

I'd be like you're gonna push me off a cliff.

You've never wanted to go hiking in your life.

Like, there are easier ways to get rid of me than to pretend like you want to be in nature.

And those are another monster.

There's another monster scenario.

The guy that pushes your date or whatever you're doing.

Well, that's how this term.

That's how it was like a short story divorce.

And it was about a husband taking a wife out into the woods because he wanted to push her off the mountain.

I remember.

I remember that.

I remember that's happened a couple times.

That.

That was like an actual short story, that one.

I think one of them survived.

Can you imagine that?

You go through all that and push your wife off a cliff, and then she survives and you gotta face her.

You're like, hey.

She's like, huh?

Yeah, I survived the fall and found my way back home.

You should be really worried because I'm obviously pretty resilient.

Yeah.

And scared.

And you will find out how resilient you are.

I mean, I know I can be pushed off a mountain and find my way back home.

Can you?

Oh, people.

You guys are funny.

We're all funny when it comes to that stuff.

It all.

It all goes down to one thing, Molly.

It's all just your emotions.

It's just emotions, you know, that cloud everything, you know, because, I mean, we've all been in a.

In a bad type relationship where it's so foggy, you can't see through the fog.

You know, you kind of wait for that to.

To clear, and then you hope you have friends that can help you do that a little bit, you know?

But yeah, that's how you get pushed off a cliff.

The guy was in a fog and he was an idiot is what he was.

The only way out.

There's also just breaking up with somebody

that's easier.

Or if you're like me and it's a difficult conversation to have, just disappear.

You don't have to disappear them.

You can do the disappear.

Yeah, you could do the disappearing.

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So we'll get to that on on on Wednesday's podcast.

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All right.

Don't do what everything we talked about.

Be a good person.

Be a good person.

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