After 30 days of livestreaming every single day, I’ve got a few things to say about video confidence, consistency, and doing things before you’re ready. I didn’t start this challenge with a plan to beat video anxiety, start a podcast, or build a mountain of repurposable content. But that’s what happened.
In this episode, I’m sharing the messy truth about what it really takes to show up on camera when you're not feeling confident, when the tech fails, and when you’d honestly rather hide under a doona. Spoiler alert: your audience does not care if your lighting is dodgy or you cough mid-sentence. What they care about is that you’re showing up.
I talk through how I prepped content without over-prepping, what gear I actually use (and what you don’t need), and how livestreaming gave me my spark back after a rough start to the year.
There’s also a bunch in here about the power of repurposing and why going live with zero people watching might be the best thing that ever happens to you.
If you’ve ever wanted to make video, livestreams, or any kind of content more consistently but felt stuck, nervous, or like you had to wait until you had it all figured out, this one’s for you.
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Today marks almost a month since
I decided to do something a little
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:bit different in my business.
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:I started a live streaming
challenge for myself.
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:No one told me to, no one suggested it.
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:I came up with it along with, uh, chat,
DPT as an idea to get myself out of
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:a bit of a funk that I found myself
after taking some time off work from
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:holidays and then getting really sick
afterwards and just feeling a little
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:bit disconnected, and I thought it
would be a really great reflection as.
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:This was something that pushed me very
much outside of my comfort zone as someone
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:who is self-described video anxious.
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:And I've learned some cool
stuff and it feels almost a
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:little bit weird sharing it.
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:But when I was, um, going through
and prepping the notes for this
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:session, firstly I thought I was
gonna do a session on how to actually
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:set up tech and how to use streamy
yard and, and things like that.
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:The, the actual tools that
I have been using for this.
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:Live streaming challenge just in
case it's motivated you and you're
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:like, yeah, I wanna do it too.
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:But as I was prepping those notes
and I got past that kind of, you
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:know, surface level of, Hey, this
is what you do and, you know, use
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:this software and blah, blah, blah.
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:I realized that this has had a much
deeper and better purpose for me
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:than I ever could have realized.
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:I have kissed goodbye to video anxiety.
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:Maybe not completely.
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:I've nearly eliminated video anxiety,
but it's just not something that I even
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:think of anymore because I have done
the thing where the more you do it, the
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:more you get comfortable with doing it.
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:So I wanted to share some of the
experiences and lessons that I have had
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:in case it inspires you to do something
that makes you feel a little bit awkward
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:or uncomfortable, or is pushing you
outside of your comfort zone because.
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:I know it sounds like some sort
of cheesy card or, you know,
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:inspirational bro quote on Twitter, but.
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:There really is so much magic
outside of the comfort zone, and
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:sometimes until you actually do these
things, you can't experience it.
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:So I wanted to share with you today, and
please let me know in the comments if
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:this inspires you to do something similar.
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:Maybe it's live streaming,
maybe it's something else.
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:Um, but the thing is.
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:Whatever it is that is scaring
you, I am here today to really
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:encourage you to do it and do it.
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:In all its messy, glorious goodness.
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:There have been some disasters
during this live stream, and none
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:of them have impacted any of the
good stuff that has come out of it.
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:There was one session where I had
coughing fit in the middle of it,
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:about two minutes, I had to turn
my camera off, my microphone off.
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:I was worried I wasn't even
gonna be able to restart.
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:And then even the audio after
that, I'm barely able to.
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:Speak as I was still trying
to stop myself from coughing.
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first two because I forgot to connect
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microphone, uh, sorry, the camera audio.
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:There was one day where I didn't even
have audio at all for the first three
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:minutes, and thankfully some people were
on that day and were able to tell me
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:a little sad that I was exceptionally
brilliant in that silent part, and I
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:These are all things that happened
and things that can happen as you do.
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:Things that you don't yet feel comfortable
with and you're not yet good at.
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:The point of doing it is to get good.
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:The point of doing it is to learn a
new skill, and sometimes learning the
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:new skill can only be learned by doing
and failing and making mistakes, doing
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to get to being really good at it.
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:There is a big lesson that I
have learned in the getting
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something that really held me back.
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:I was like, oh, I, I'll live stream
once I know how to do it better.
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:I watched so many, I.
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:YouTube videos and other things.
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:You know, I, I put off versions of
doing, you know, any kind of video.
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my reason for not doing things.
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like it kind of gave me an excuse
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:Um, and obviously, you know, there's
a whole lot of, um, life challenges
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like that that can contribute to that.
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it kind of took over my.
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this block or this inability to do video.
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do it better, and I was like, all right,
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this camera, like I have my, you know,
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that I'm yet to make a single vlog on.
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:Thankfully, it's also a fantastic webcam
as well, but I've had that for a year
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yet used it because I have done hours
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things, you know, thinking that another
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:lesson or you know, a how to set it
up is the thing that's going to tip me
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:The reason that this livestream challenge
has actually got me to make video again
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feeling a lot of resistance and not
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had to show up and do it imperfectly.
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:There was no, oh look, you
know, my hair's not good today.
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all of the excuses in the world
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video's the problem.
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out how to get over that.
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audio would be something super
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:I, if you don't know, am an ex radio
person who spent 10 years working
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voiceover projects.
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:My voice is everywhere I recorded
for a living, so I have all the fancy
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:Do you think I did it?
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:There were still things holding
me back, reasons, excuses, my head
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that stopped that from happening.
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gremlins that are telling you stories
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oh, I'll just record things on the fly.
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record in this space.
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foam sitting in the living room of
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in kl thinking that that was the
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gonna make to make it sound better
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release audio without it sounding good.
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:These are all stories we tell ourselves,
these stories, and the reason I
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:Thankfully I have had experience
where I've done it before.
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:I think in 2021, I did a live
streaming challenge for myself.
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which this time I'm like, I'm getting
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of these is gonna come to you live
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Japan this weekend, but.
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:The fact is, when you commit
to doing something, you are
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:If it has a time and date, if there
is an appointment for it, you are
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:And how I made it easier for myself is
that I didn't make the appointment the
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had done that, something would've come up.
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can't do it at 10 o'clock on this day.
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:So my commitment to myself with doing
the 30 days is that it doesn't matter
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show up every day and you better
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:believe there are days that I didn't
want to do it in the first week.
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:And I apologize if this was annoying.
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:I even changed the time until I realized
that when I was changing the time,
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:it kept sending out notifications
saying This event has been canceled.
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there is a new event.
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I was like, okay, no.
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:And even though, and again, I apologize if
you've waited around for my live streams,
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that fear and I've ended up going late, if
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talk myself into it, I've still done
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good as I wanted it to be.
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:I got really high standards for myself,
which can be really frustrating, and
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videos wasn't working for me.
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and I have showed up every day, and
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next few days to get to the end of it.
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:That has taught me that
I can be consistent.
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:I've had this message, again, this
is these mindset gremlins that,
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and thinking we can't do things.
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a message that is preached
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have to be consistent.
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be consistent, you know there's
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prolific for a period of time, and
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not making it, that I have to be really
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to show up, I'm going to do it, and
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set for myself as a challenge, and
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off myself, if I let my perfectionism
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wanted to do with this live stream,
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learning how to, you know, maybe add
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add some slides and stuff like that.
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and trying to do that live.
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just felt like another barrier and another
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the, turn the camera on, show up.
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gonna show in the technical part, not the,
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:I'm gonna go through some of
the things that I have actually
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showing up on a live stream.
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some kind of content more regularly.
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set that goal for yourself that you are
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that I've done that have allowed me
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I'm not consistent and allowed me to
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even though I have video anxiety and
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mindset because I don't think I do.
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I get nervous before I turn the camera on.
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all going to get nervous.
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virtual stage when you turn the camera
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and you can't even see their reaction.
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your own, talking to a camera,
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and I kind of think I turned that
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kind of block that made me feel like
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wrong with me that fulfilling.
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realized is that every day, even as
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if I keep doing this for a year, not
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still gonna have those feelings.
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have to do the, okay, okay, I'm good.
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gonna let that stop me from now on.
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I'm gonna be okay with not being
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Folio TV or any of those, you know,
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that you see online because those
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with heaps of cool transitions and um,
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hooks and all of that kind of stuff.
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doing it by themselves.
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result of them doing this for years.
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in one of the other live streams I.
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it to where you are at.
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at where they were in the beginning.
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here because I was gonna tell the story of
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looking at my older videos on YouTube.
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really see the difference.
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until you do it more, and you do
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those cheesy LinkedIn bro sayings.
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is by implementing them and doing them.
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of feeling like we have to learn
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another checklist or something else.
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and then we can do it.
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taught me that the only way
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because you'll get things better
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get to that, you know, version five
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all of the other versions first.
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I have, um, learned in this 30 days
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technical how to, the stuff I tend to
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safe, like sharing some of this stuff.
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out of my comfort zone.
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business, if you've followed me for a
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I help people with the tech and it's
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more sharing about what I think
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you know, the online digital product
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that people can come up against.
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the tactics and strategies.
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and the feeling confident to do it.
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you can have the blueprints.
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dollar, you know, course templates from
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difference is the actual.
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stuck there, hey, I get stuck there too.
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so I'm like, let's get out of it together.
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I'll share what I'm learning as someone
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so that, you know, you can get some
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confidence and, um, getting out there.
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actually in a way our biggest strength
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people in order to show trust, to get
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selling the knowledge and skills of us.
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thing that sets us apart from ai.
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like AI is so accessible.
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tools like ai, but what people really
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where you can allow that you part to
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is why it is, um, so helpful.
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not do things because you're like,
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where there've been zero people on.
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watching the replays.
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podcast that I have created out of this.
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more than a hundred pieces of short
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haven't had massive reach in the
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audience of people that are like, oh, I'm
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the fact as well.
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is until a day because you know,
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getting myself out of the funk to do
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more used to being on camera and all
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on looking at the camera because when
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was something that I struggled with.
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struggled with keeping my eyes on the
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need to learn and that you need to train.
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I haven't had coffee before my session.
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will allow people to connect with you.
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you can repurpose, and I'll
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beautiful benefits about having a small
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fit or if your sound isn't working
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doing it in front of a smaller audience.
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to do it in front of a smaller audience
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thousands, but even when you are,
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that you will learn a skill, you will do
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10,000 hours, hey, I've got about
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of just putting the reps in, of
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presenting in order to get better.
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video and, and keep it somewhere
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my confidence up to go live and see
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stage somewhere and this will be
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it's not designed to get you to
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on the journey to get there.
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some tech of what you need.
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here because that is what I've been
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video and some kind of way to have audio.
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webcam on your camera.
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my beautiful dj I Osmo pocket
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I can use it as webcam.
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apart from the overhead light, which is
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the same awesome setup that I had
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I had, you know, beautiful lights
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with a battery and it's.
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to actually position it somewhere.
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this camera so much is because I
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it gives me that, you know, good enough.
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crappy, fluoro overhead, a bit of
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a bit of light from a door there.
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:And you know, it.
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:Does good enough light.
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:I do have this little microphone
that came with the, uh, DJI, I
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:think there's a creator combo.
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:I actually ended up buying them separately
because I bought the microphone first.
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:But it's a DJI, uh, mic.
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:Uh, not the mic mini.
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:I just have the DJ JI mic two.
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:The reason I got it as well is
that it connects up to my iPhone
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:because iPhone says I discovered.
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:Do not record the audio from your
headphones that records it in the
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:phone when you're making videos.
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:Um, but the DJ I mic, you can actually
plug that into your phone and connect up.
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:It's got a little box.
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:Uh, I won't, I won't show you.
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:It's got this.
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:This little thing that I've got
connected to my shirt, I actually
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:have a lav mic, um, attached to it.
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:I like using the lav mic.
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:I find that the mic's a bit heavy and it
pulls your shirt forward, but also the
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:lav mic, you can get it nice and close.
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:So that is what I use.
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:It's a little fancy.
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:Before, up until I bought this, um,
this camera, I had used a $99 Logitech
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:C 9 22 Pro, and I've made every other
video in my business before using that.
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:So this Osmo was a bit of an upgrade, but.
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:I love it and one day I'm gonna
make vlogs with it as well,
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:and you'll get to see those.
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:I can share some of my travel adventures.
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:Um, so what I would suggest
is start with what you have.
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:You could use.
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:EarPods, like I'm using the EarPods
just to sort of hear back, to make
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:sure everything is okay, but the actual
audio's coming through the microphone.
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:However, if you didn't have that, I've
made plenty of videos just using AirPods,
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:and that's a great way to get started.
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:So some sort of audio.
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:Um, ideally not the room audio, but
like I said, for the first two or
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:maybe three videos that I made, I
didn't even realize that the mic wasn't
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:connected to my camera because the
Bluetooth had dropped out and the audio.
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:It wasn't probably the best
still used, it still did.
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:It still, you know, made something that is
usable and helpful for people regardless
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:of the fact that it wasn't perfect.
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:So use what you have got.
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:Um, one of the things that I do find
really helpful is the second monitor.
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:So just because when you're
running the streaming.
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:Software.
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:Um, I'm using Streamy Yard, which
I'll talk about a little bit.
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:Um, I find that having my notes
on one screen and having Streamy
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:yard controls on another is easier.
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:I get a little flustered when I've
gotta go through, um, tabs and
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:different screens, and when I'm
trying to look at the camera, I.
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:It's a little bit hard when I'm
also trying to look at other things.
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:And if I have my notes just here,
I can just do a quick look down at
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:them and I can just scroll through.
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:So I've got my notes on
the screen off to the side.
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:Um, and then I can see if any
comments or anything that come
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:up on Streamy Yard on this side.
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:If you don't have a second
monitor, it doesn't need to be
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:some perfect second monitor.
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:You can get like the
cheapest $5,000 thing.
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:Facebook marketplace.
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:You can probably get a secondhand
monitor really easily, um, or you can
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:get, um, an iPad or something like
that to put your notes on a tablet.
453
:Um, but two monitors
definitely makes it easier.
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:I have done it with one.
455
:Um, but yeah, I do find the, I get a
little flustered with the tabs, so.
456
:Um, you know, up to you and
how comfortable you feel.
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:I could probably set up some shortcut
keys, but then that just all got too hard.
458
:So I did not, um, I am using
Streamy Yard for this, um, for
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:the software for what I'm doing.
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:The reason I'm using Streamy Yard
is because it allows you to stream
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:in multiple places at once, and I
am a little bit lazy in that way.
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:Um.
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:Like one software, I can go in there and
check the places that I want it to go.
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:So this stream is going live
to my Facebook business page.
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:It is going to my Facebook personal
page, which is actually the place
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:where I'm finding I'm getting the most
interaction, which is really interesting.
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:Um, it is also going to LinkedIn and
it is going onto YouTube, so I can
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:just check the box for each of those.
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:And it's gonna send out to
multiple places at once.
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:And.
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:Given that tomorrow's, um, little
Sue livestream pep talk is all
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:about how to not use social
media because I freaking hate it.
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:Um, it makes it really helpful
to be able to, you know, spread
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:yourself widely without technically
having to be in every place.
475
:Uh, you can go live straight onto
platforms like Facebook, Instagram, live.
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:The only reason I'm not going onto
Instagram Live is that was another
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:roadblock that was gonna stop me from
doing it and put it off into the next day.
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:It's probably a five minute
thing, but I was just like, I.
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:You know what?
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:I don't even use Instagram much
anymore, so I'm not, I'm not
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:gonna worry about setting that up.
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:But you can also use Instagram
and depending on the streaming
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:software that you're using, there's
probably other options as well.
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:I used to post to Twitter back
when Twitter wasn't a cesspool.
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:Um, but I just don't bother now.
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:Um.
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:And with the Streamy Yard
software, I have a love hate
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:relationship with Streamy Yard.
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:I really like the software.
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:It's my favorite streaming
software that I've tried.
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:I've, you know, got the very, very
fancy ones and Streamy Yard is the best
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:combination of being very simple, but
also looks really good and is easy to use.
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:Um, it's very expensive though.
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:That's one of the things
that frustrates me.
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:They doubled their prices at the end
of last year and I was gonna try and
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:find something else and I was like.
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:I already know how to use it.
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:I'll pay for it for this month, and
then maybe I'll, I'll do some research
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:into finding something better.
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:It's one of those, um, you know,
like, I know it's expensive, but it
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:is good and it does work really well.
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:So I'm gonna stick with it for now.
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:Um, so I, with the stream,
actually also stream it through
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:to a landing page on my website.
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:Probably a bit of overkill for this
to actually do that because I needed
506
:to go up to the next plan because
you need to stream it as a webinar.
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:However, um, I already had the page that
I had set up for the Kajabi fireside chat,
508
:so I just needed to, you know, duplicate
it and make some changes to the page.
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:And it's been a really helpful
sort of home page for this
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:livestream, um, sessions.
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:But, you know, that is
totally extra and not needed.
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:I think I just did it because
that's how I did it the last
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:time I streamed and I was like.
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:Minimum viable.
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:Do it.
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:Do it exactly the same.
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:Um, is good.
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:Um, all right, so prepping content.
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:So how I prep the content, I could,
if, depending on what the topic was,
520
:probably just put some bullet points on a
post-it note and stick it onto my screen.
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:However, because I wanted to feel
a little bit more comfortable
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:and 'cause I was really nervous.
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:Um, I wanted to have show notes to
follow so I didn't get off track.
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:I can get really rambly sometimes
and I, you know, can forget
525
:and go down rabbit holes.
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:So I wanted to have like
some notes to follow.
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:So.
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:I do a brain dump into my friend,
my favorite current app chat.
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:GPT is not my friend.
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:I was being facetious.
531
:Um, so I brain dump my ideas about
that topic into chat, GPT, and
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:then say, can you organize these
thoughts for me into talking points?
533
:So, you know, it'll take the tangents,
it'll, you know, organize things together.
534
:And then I'll have some bullet pointed
out, show notes that I can follow.
535
:Um, that has been the most helpful
way that I've been able to do it.
536
:If the notes are too long and I have
to read it, um, it's, I don't end up
537
:always using them, so I try and keep it.
538
:So the bullet points are short,
just like if you're presenting
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:slides, um, on a screen.
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:Like if, um, it's, I.
541
:Too much information and you have to
actually sit there and read through it.
542
:It's, it's distracting for the viewer,
I think, and it's also been a little bit
543
:distracting for me, so I go through that.
544
:I sometimes will go back and forth.
545
:Sometimes I'll ask Chatt BT, Hey, is
there anything else that you can suggest?
546
:To add to this, that would make it helpful
and it might give me some suggestions, and
547
:I'll then go through the suggestions and
give my thoughts about the suggestions.
548
:So I don't want it to be some chat
GPT thing, like I wanna just be able
549
:to speak and in order to be able to
speak, it has to be something that
550
:I have an opinion about or thoughts
about, not just reading it because.
551
:Chat, GPT said I should read it, or
it's on slides or something like that.
552
:Um, so you could just do some bullet
points on a notepad that you have.
553
:I just find having it sort of
somewhere close to the camera is
554
:easier than having to look down.
555
:Like I feel like looking down like that
is a bit, you know, viewer distracting
556
:rather than just like, you know, like
glancing over to notes, um, on the side.
557
:Um, and scripting everything is
definitely not going to be helpful
558
:for a live stream sometimes.
559
:Um, chat, GBT has given me these
really helpful hooks to start.
560
:I try to start with something,
you know, interesting to keep
561
:people's, you know, attention.
562
:Um, but if it's too long,
again, I won't read it.
563
:It needs to be just a
sentence and I try to start.
564
:And this is one of the things that I'm,
you know, hoping to improve and get
565
:better on is starting with something kind
of really snappy and attention getting.
566
:Like in the start I was like, Hey,
it's Sue and this is what I do
567
:with and giving that introduction.
568
:Um, but I'm trying to not worry so much
about that and, you know, just get to kind
569
:of the point and go into it from there.
570
:And okay.
571
:Oh, look at that.
572
:Here's my notes.
573
:See, I've gone off on my ramble
and now I just got the bit
574
:where I get to stream yard.
575
:That was in my notes that I thought
maybe I forgot to put in and it
576
:was just in a different order.
577
:Anyway, that is the
downside of using the notes.
578
:I will say one of the things that,
um, I would suggest, and I think I
579
:will do going forward with this is
because I want to get the, the next
580
:day stream scheduled before this one
starts, so that, um, you know, that's.
581
:Locked in the bag.
582
:I don't even know why.
583
:Like I've just got it in my
head that I should do that.
584
:Maybe that's the thing that helps me
stay accountable is that before the first
585
:one starts, the next one is scheduled.
586
:That's when I need to do my brain dump.
587
:So I'm actually doing the brain
dump the day before the session,
588
:and then I get the notes.
589
:The day of.
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:So I think going forward what I'll do if I
keep doing the livestream is try and keep
591
:the brain dump and the notes the same when
everything's a bit more fresh so that you
592
:know, when I'm reading things, you know,
a I'll need to rely less on the notes.
593
:And B, if something like this happens
where things are a little bit out of
594
:the order that I would've expected
them to be in, um, then, you know, I'm
595
:not gonna be having to scroll through
the notes going, where am I up to?
596
:I did wanna say something about, um,
if you do commit to doing some kind of
597
:challenge where you are needing to be
consistent with it, pushing through low
598
:energy days I think is really important.
599
:Um, teaching yourself that muscle that you
can be consistent and something doesn't
600
:need to be at your 100%, that's still
okay, but you know, being okay with.
601
:Publishing, like, you know,
B minus work or even C work.
602
:So for me, and this is completely up to
you and, and how you want to work, but
603
:I found that I just got so much value
and I have so much more confidence in
604
:myself just being consistent and even if.
605
:Things didn't go as planned.
606
:And even if I didn't feel like that was my
best work, and I was like, you know what?
607
:I did it like I did it.
608
:I'm key.
609
:I'm sticking to this, I'm seeing
it through all the way to the
610
:end, and that was a really,
really valuable thing for me.
611
:Um, so, so they're just showing it up.
612
:Again, like I said before, like I
didn't wanna set the time because
613
:if I did, that would've probably
stopped me from showing up.
614
:I have absolutely no doubt about it.
615
:Sometimes I've thought that I scheduled
the session for like nine 30 and
616
:then I've got up and it's 10 30.
617
:I'm like, yes, thank you past
Sue for making life easier.
618
:Um, the earlier it is in the morning, I
found it a little bit harder to show up.
619
:I prefer to do it, um, later in the day.
620
:The time zone challenge is a
big thing and that's why there
621
:isn't a lot of attendance.
622
:'cause pretty much every one of these
sessions has been in the night or
623
:even middle of the night for where
the majority of my audience is.
624
:But because I didn't go into these
sessions with the goal to, you know,
625
:I'm not thinking, I'm not doing a
launch or anything at the end of this,
626
:I just wanted to get, you know, back
into the swing of, I just wanted to
627
:start doing what I love again and, you
know, creating this kind of content.
628
:And it has, you know, the, just
doing that has given me my spark back
629
:doing things without having that.
630
:Specific purpose and just having
a bit of fun with it again, has
631
:been the purpose and the benefit.
632
:So because I'm not stressing
about people turning up and being
633
:there at a certain time, the time
hasn't been as much of an issue.
634
:So worst case scenario, you know,
I think on one of the days I
635
:pushed it back two hours 'cause
I was just really not feeling it.
636
:But I still did it anyway.
637
:The doing it anyway I think is
the most, um, important thing.
638
:Um, I have had a couple of topics where
I've sort of had them where they were.
639
:I'd say almost easier topics, but
interestingly, the ones that I thought
640
:would be my easy topics ended up because
I realized I had so much to say about it,
641
:ended up being some of the longer ones.
642
:Um, but you can always do that, like have
a little list of things where, you know,
643
:if it was a, you know, really bad day and
you just weren't really feeling it, what
644
:is something that you could do quickly?
645
:Like, these are varied from I
think 15 minutes through to over
646
:an hour was the longest one.
647
:So what can you do to make
it easier for yourself?
648
:What can you take out?
649
:To make it so that you
actually get it done.
650
:That would be my suggestion.
651
:If you're finding it hard, you're
probably overcomplicating it in some way.
652
:What's something less that you could do?
653
:For example, I wanted to also, you
know, in my mission for repurposing the
654
:content was turn these into blog posts.
655
:I have not been able to do that.
656
:That was just one extra thing.
657
:Like even just doing the
podcast was probably a stretch.
658
:I'm glad that I did it, but that was,
you know, possibly, you know, if I,
659
:if I did something like this again,
I would just do the thing and worry
660
:about the repurposing afterwards
because of, you know, current capacity.
661
:Like, I'm still sort of recovering
from illness to a degree, but
662
:that is, you know, up to you like.
663
:What can you take out to make it so
that you'll actually achieve the thing?
664
:Because, um, maybe it is that
you are doing too much prep.
665
:Maybe instead of, you know, prepping
and doing the notes into chat GBT and
666
:getting, you know, all of that, you're
like, you know what, I'll just chuck
667
:a post-it note up with three points.
668
:Bam, let's go.
669
:If that makes it easier and that will
make you, you know, actually do it,
670
:then that can be a good way to go.
671
:Um.
672
:I've got some little rituals
that help me feel better.
673
:Um, and this is, I, I don't know
if it's a generational thing.
674
:I just can't show up on camera
with my messy pajama hair.
675
:Like I just can't do it
and I have curly hair.
676
:So that's one of the reasons why the
morning ones are really challenging
677
:because I have to wet my hair slash have
a shower in the morning so that it looks.
678
:Nice and curly and not messy and a
frizzy whatever, you know, again,
679
:maybe that is my own mindset
gremlins, and I know that people do
680
:just show up live in whatever form.
681
:I'm not there yet.
682
:Maybe that'll come in future,
but at the moment I would like
683
:to show up a little bit polished.
684
:So I do my hair, I put makeup on, um,
and you know, because that helps me,
685
:that helps me feel confident if that
isn't a big deal for you, no worries.
686
:One of the things I do as well is I do
a little spray of my favorite perfume.
687
:'cause it makes me feel good, makes me
feel confident, and it's then I feel
688
:like I'm associating that happy smell
with something that feels good and happy.
689
:I 100% now will always keep
a glass of water on hand,
690
:especially after my coughing fit.
691
:'cause that was a bit of a challenge.
692
:So, um, so keep some water handy and
maybe, you know, have a little like.
693
:Pre go live ritual.
694
:Something you can do to to pump
yourself up or calm yourself
695
:down, whichever you need.
696
:Just be like, all right, I got this.
697
:I can do it.
698
:And just know that the more that
you do it, it will 100% get easier.
699
:I remember when I did my very
first webinar, it was pre covid.
700
:I.
701
:Just about had a anxiety meltdown.
702
:Like I was so scared.
703
:You would think being someone who's
been in broadcasting for years and
704
:years and years would not get scared.
705
:But no, there's something
about the camera.
706
:It just does things with my head.
707
:I prepped for hours.
708
:I was like doing um, meditations, trying
to calm myself down and even still.
709
:I was so nervous, I
completely freaked out.
710
:However, I did that
webinar again and again.
711
:I think I did it like
six times over six weeks.
712
:I think I was doing it weekly.
713
:By the sixth time I was
like, yeah, we're fine.
714
:Like let's go.
715
:Because everything was more familiar.
716
:When you do things for the first time,
it is gonna be as scary as hell, and
717
:that's okay because it's not gonna
stop being scary until you just.
718
:Do it and you, you know, deal with those
first few times being rough and each time
719
:you do it, you'll learn one little thing.
720
:You get that 1% better or you know,
you'll, you'll feel more confident
721
:with the software, with the tech,
with the, just doing the thing, maybe
722
:reading notes and going through.
723
:It's all gonna layer on and
that's why doing things again
724
:and again and again is so useful.
725
:Um, okay.
726
:So audience engagement without stressing
about it, that is one of the things that
727
:I'm still learning and getting better
at because I can see comments, then I
728
:kind of feel like, oh, there's a comment
and I wanna stop and, and read it.
729
:And that can be distracting in the middle.
730
:So I try to, if at all possible, even if
I see comments come up, stop when I can.
731
:Cope with it.
732
:You know, some presenters will
be like, oh yeah, blah, blah.
733
:Blah's in the chat.
734
:Yeah, and they'll just keep going.
735
:I find that a little bit disrupting,
and maybe that's just a, I need to
736
:do a live stream one day where I
encourage comments and I get used
737
:to how to actually do that and read
the comments and respond while live.
738
:Maybe just do a little sneaky glasses in.
739
:Competitor speed reading, I'm not sure.
740
:Um, but what I would suggest
though is don't worry necessarily.
741
:If you do miss comments, you can
always come back to them afterwards.
742
:You can always check in on the
comments in the end on stream.
743
:Now the comments are actually in
a different tab to where these
744
:banners, so I've got these banners
that I can bring up on screen.
745
:They're in a different place.
746
:And then, so you've gotta click around.
747
:So it means I've gotta look at the
screen, which I try not to 'cause
748
:I'm trying to look at the camera.
749
:Um.
750
:But I have got better at it.
751
:And you know, one of the things that
I want to improve on is like learning
752
:short keys or maybe even using a
stream deck or something so I can just
753
:press a button, which will help move
things around and make stuff happen.
754
:Um, but.
755
:Um, even if you don't have a
heap of comments, don't stress.
756
:Like I said, the replay is where I'm
getting the most of the value from these
757
:sessions because the time zones when I'm
running them suit me, not the viewers.
758
:'cause that's what I needed
to do to make it happen.
759
:Um, and you can always come back
and reply to comments afterwards.
760
:One thing though for Stream Yard, which
was a little bit frustrating, is that the
761
:live comments don't always stick to the
video in, I think it's YouTube, Facebook.
762
:They do.
763
:Um, and I'm not sure about LinkedIn
either, because I know that there was
764
:one day where I was like, comment,
if you want the free resource that
765
:I was doing, and then I went to.
766
:Send it.
767
:And I was like, oh, oh, oh.
768
:I know there was like at least
three people that said yes please.
769
:And then I couldn't find the comments
to be able to send it to them.
770
:Um, so that's just one little challenge.
771
:But, um, for the most part you can do cool
things in stream yard and I won't do it
772
:'cause Stacey's left to comment for me.
773
:But you can actually put people's
comments up on stream, which is cool.
774
:Again, you know, that's.
775
:Extra level of stuff that I will
start to bring in as I get more
776
:comfortable with streaming in general,
and then try and make these shows a
777
:little bit more visually interesting
and interactive skills gotta build.
778
:Um.
779
:And the thing that has been the most
beneficial and powerful, apart from all
780
:the mindset stuff, like my mindset has
just completely changed since the start.
781
:I feel like it's almost weird saying it
like, um, like, you know, it, it really
782
:does feel like I've had a transformation
in energy, in, um, passion for my
783
:business in loving what I am doing.
784
:Um, in no longer, you know.
785
:Feeling like video anxiety is
this enemy that I have to slay.
786
:I am just like, no, it's just there.
787
:It's always gonna be there.
788
:That's cool.
789
:We're friends now.
790
:Um, so that side of it has been amazing,
but what has been really, really helpful
791
:from a business perspective is the
power of repurposing the content that
792
:I've made through these livestreams.
793
:I think livestreams where I'm just talking
like this, are probably a little bit
794
:hard to sit down and watch for hours.
795
:You know, to watch hours of that
kind of content, there's not
796
:a lot happening on the screen.
797
:There's a reason why YouTube videos
and, you know, TV and films have lots of
798
:cuts and go between, you know, different
styles of footage, blah, blah, blah.
799
:Um, it's harder to do that on a live
stream, but do you know what is not hard
800
:to do, to take the livestream content
and turn it into other awesome things?
801
:So as well as the full live stream
being able to live on in YouTube.
802
:It can also live on as a blog post.
803
:I can take the transcript
from the live stream.
804
:I can pull it out, I can put
it into chat DPT and use that
805
:transcript to help write a blog post.
806
:Pretty much in my words,
because I've said the words.
807
:It's organizing, you know, 30 minutes,
I'm up to 40 minutes now of content.
808
:It's organizing that.
809
:Into something that is a non ramly
blog post, which is incredible.
810
:Um, I will then be able to cut out
clips from these, uh, recordings.
811
:Some videos I'll get more than others,
but there's short form content I have
812
:not posted on social media forever.
813
:I think I've done like two
posts on Instagram like a year.
814
:But in the last week or so,
I've now got five reels up there
815
:and they are getting views.
816
:I have those shorts now on YouTube.
817
:So I have created Shortform
video without actually having
818
:to create short form video.
819
:I'm able to use AI tools like script.
820
:I'm also playing around with Opus, um, to
go through that video and pull out those.
821
:Cool bits and then, you know,
give me the other content.
822
:So after this, these 30 videos are
going to be a fantastic resource.
823
:I've also done something with it that
I am so damn proud of and this is why
824
:it's, we've probably been a little bit
of a stretch and, um, you know, I'm
825
:gonna change the pace of this in future
and maybe do it weekly or fortnightly.
826
:I have a podcast.
827
:I'm an audio person.
828
:I started my, you know, my first job
out of high school was working in radio.
829
:I am someone who uses my voice.
830
:I have fancy, expensive
microphones and all the bit,
831
:but I have never done a podcast.
832
:Something has stopped me
and I think it was all the
833
:podcast learning, to be honest.
834
:It was, I, I don't even
know how many podcasts.
835
:Courses and, you know, playlist
for YouTube tutorials and
836
:all the things that I've got.
837
:And do you know what I just did?
838
:I just did it, put it up.
839
:I didn't refer to a single bit of it.
840
:I just created the podcast,
stripped the audio.
841
:Voila.
842
:Now I have a podcast.
843
:I use chat t to do the show
notes from the transcript.
844
:Um, I linked to the YouTube video.
845
:I'm sure there are better things that
I can do, and I'm sure that over time
846
:as I do more with it, I'll probably
learn more, do better, et cetera.
847
:But now I have had a way for over a
hundred people to connect via their ears.
848
:These sessions, these live sessions
are perfect for podcast format.
849
:Um, I love podcasts myself and um.
850
:Now I have one.
851
:So hoorah, Gobi, um, repurposing.
852
:It's able to take that one
piece of content and make it so
853
:much more useful and versatile.
854
:There is a heap of people that would
probably never be able to want to feel
855
:inclined to sit down and listen to
half an hour or 40 minute chats about
856
:creator economy, you know, working
as a digital product creator courses.
857
:Thoughts on launching perfectionism,
all the things that I've been
858
:talking about, but they could be
really happy to listen on a podcast.
859
:And they are.
860
:And, um, yeah, I think it's,
um, repurposing is one of the
861
:great things about livestream.
862
:That's, that's the end of my, my talk.
863
:If you have questions about
livestreaming though, please let me know.
864
:I'm certainly not a live streaming expert.
865
:I'm just sharing the things that I've
learned out of pushing myself out
866
:of the comfort zone, doing something
different and stretching myself and.
867
:Damn.
868
:I feel good that I have done it.
869
:I feel so proud that I'm gonna
get to 30 days of live streaming.
870
:My goal, I'm gonna hit it.
871
:This is day 27, so I've
got three more to go.
872
:Um, and I hope it's been really
useful and helpful for you as well.
873
:Um.
874
:I was being completely selfish with this.
875
:I didn't do it with some goal.
876
:I did it to help myself and hopefully
it's helped you in the process as well.
877
:Um, and hopefully I'm gonna be able
to figure out a way to continue
878
:doing it in some form going forward.
879
:Um.
880
:Tomorrow though, I'm gonna be back
talking about what to do if I hate
881
:social media and still want to sell.
882
:Um, I am not a fan of social media.
883
:All the apps have gone from my phone.
884
:I try to avoid it if possible.
885
:However, there are some ways
that you can make sure that you.
886
:Firstly still selling in your
business, even if you're not selling
887
:via social media and maybe some
things that you could do in social
888
:media to make it feel less crappy.
889
:Um, because yeah, I think
social media used to be good.
890
:I started way back in
the heyday of, um, I.
891
:Oh my gosh, I'm aging myself now, but
back when, you know, I had a business
892
:page and we could put a post on and
we'd suddenly get 500 likes and watch,
893
:you know, Google traffic tick up
on the backend and sales coming in.
894
:It is no longer like that.
895
:It is really hard and sometimes
because it feels really hard,
896
:that is the reason why we hate it.
897
:So I'm gonna be talking all about that.
898
:I won't start rambling about it now,
but you know, content can be fun.
899
:You can do it in nice ways.
900
:So join me tomorrow.
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:This is what I do.
902
:If you can register for the last couple
of notifications of when I am starting
903
:these live, if you like, at The Unicorn
Advisory dot com slash this, I have got
904
:resources there as well and I probably
didn't talk so much about the technical
905
:aspect of it, but, um, you know.
906
:The idea is to just pick something
that's gonna let you start.
907
:I got the idea one day.
908
:I started the next day, and that
has been the thing that reminded me.
909
:We don't need to know all the
things we can learn by doing and
910
:just get enough to get started
and then go have a beautiful day.
911
:See you tomorrow.