Are you shutting off half of yourself and feel dull maybe even lifeless?

Chances are you are repressed! Maybe even depressed?

Where are the warriors?

Where are the radiant purposeful men ?

Where are the creative women ?

Where are the big limitless goddesses ?

Your sexuality is bad - except in beer commercials!

Expressing your desires is selfish!

You are too loud!

You are too much!

You are asking too many questions!

You are too dark!

You are too emotional!

Your body is wrong and needs to change!

You are supposed to be motherly/ fatherly and friendly.

Be friendly and put a smile on.

You look ugly when you are mad!

Be of service even if you don’t feel like it.

You sound pathetic when you are sad.

I’m sure women and men go through these judgments in their life

and secretly suffer ... I KNOW It

ENOUGH ALREADY

ENOUGH of all this bending and crawling to please and desperately wanting to fit in ..

Enough b**** and blaming and shaming . You do this because you are not aware of your own power and feel incredibly uncomfortable in your skin .... it makes me sick and it makes our society weak

I see how You dim your light

I see how you play small and crawl around

I f**^* see every bit of your people pleasing attitude and it suffocates me and makes me want to rage !!

Embrace your shadow

Don’t judge your weird thoughts and attitudes instead be curious about them . Bring them to the surface and look at them

The more you repress and let yourself be repressed the more you will die inside and end up being a shell of a people-pleasing person .

Make space for realness and in doing so you invite others to do the same

You’ll end up with real human connection and unshakable bonding

The day / months years I have been on this journey of self acceptance have been revealing, fun and terrifying but I can say today that I’m surrounded by real warriors and goddesses who open up about their stuff when in my presence and I won’t change a damn thing about this . Why ?

If you don’t know what your purpose is on planet earth start by lying less and building real genuine connection to yourself and others.

It will set you free

It will work wonders

It will make you feel ALIVE again

Cheers

you fabulous beings out there

don't be scared of being real humans

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Hello, hello, and welcome to the Borealis

experience. I'm your host Aurora, life coach and companion

on this beautiful journey called life. And I'm very excited to be

spending some time with you today. Your precious your loved

your real. My dear warriors and goddesses out there, I'm so

proud of you. Today I want to talk about being a nice girl

being a good boy. Also, I want to talk about not being a nice

girl not being a good boy. But being a real human being. Ah, I

got so much energy today. I don't know where it's coming

from. But I feel the need to strongly share with you what

I've observed over the last couple of months and years. I

see people desperately trying to fit in. I see people bending and

distorting to belong, I see people crawling on the floors of

self denial, and people pleasing. And it makes me sick.

It makes me so sick to see. Because I know you're dimming

your light. I know you're not living up to your potential. I

know you're not being real. You're showing up as a five year

old who's still scared of getting rejected by his parents,

don't get me wrong back then. You needed to adapt. You needed

to fit and you needed to belong because your life depended on

it. But today, you're wild and free. You're big, you're

powerful. And you're still doing the same bullshit like you did

when you were five years old. It is so important to know that

once we do what we want, once we pursue our desires or dreams,

once we get closer to our goals,

we're becoming ourselves, we're becoming the person that we're

supposed to be. And when I ask people, What do you think would

happen, if we will all do what we want?

Let's pretend from now on we're going to do what we want, we're

not going to do anything that we don't want anymore. And most

people freak out at this idea. They say, Oh wha I'm not going

to go to work anymore. I'm not going to make money. My kids

will be hungry. I will slap my coworker and next time he gives

me a shit comment. I will spit into my boss's face next time he

tries to grab me. I will leave my children and the truck at

minus 20 I will not attend any family dinners anymore. And

yeah, people imagine the very worse when thinking of society

doing whatever she or he wants. And I believe it is wrong. I

think that yes, in the first couple of hours and the first

days and the first maybe week we will go about and kind of test

out the limits. And behave weirdly because now we can do

what we want. But very quickly, we will come to sense that we

can actually do something with that beautiful freedom that we

all of a sudden feel creative. And if we really can do what we

want. Why not create something beautiful, why not being loving?

You see, I see people as animals and people will know how much I

love animals and not you know putting humans up there and

animals down there or now vice versa. Once we are being allowed

to express ourselves fully to do what we want we will be the most

creative are loving, best people best version that we can be, I

strongly believe in this. And to believe that we'll walk around

and destroy and upset and all this will not be for long. Don't

get me wrong, once you engage on a path of integrity, you will

face resistance, you will face bribery, you will face Harishon,

harshness and upset people. Because all of a sudden, you're

doing your own thing. And you challenge their beliefs, you

challenge their little box that they are sitting in and you used

to sit into. And that's fucking uncomfortable. That's not nice.

And that's the resistance, you'll be meeting. But if you do

what you want out of true integrity and love, you will

automatically create something beautiful for humanity, you will

not be selfish, like some people will call you, you will inspire

others to do the same to be their most authentic, powerful

self. And in doing that, you'll be starting to create a society

that is truly resilient, adaptable to change, loving,

caring. We're all lived, live such a suppressed life, we learn

to be quiet, we learn to agree when we don't really feel to

agree. We learn to serve on days that we really don't want to

serve because we are exhausted, we need to recharge our

batteries. But we still decide to serve and we don't do it out

of a loving and caring attitude. We do it because it's expected

from us. And if we don't serve, we're going to be facing drama.

And that's even worse. So we choose to serve, even if we

don't feel like serving. And then we do it out of spite we do

it out of resentment. Does that create a strong society? I don't

believe so. So why don't we all start engaging on a path of

lying a little bit less to ourselves. And we start taking

one degree adjustments, we're not going to steer the steering

wheel dramatically to a 90 or even 180 degree angle, we're

just going to start with one or two or three degree changes in

our lives. And these changes will work wonders. You will feel

more yourself you will be more authentic with people. They will

feel that and be able to connect more deeply with you. Because

they will see what you're made of you will be more trustworthy.

Take a deep inhale and then exhale. If you feel the time is

right. You have no time to waste. Life is so damn short.

And I want to be the person who reminds you of that. You'll be

lying on your deathbed one day. I hope you have a peaceful

death. And when you lay there, I don't want you to regret. I want

you to know that you lived a juicy life with laughter and

bonding to connection alive. That couldn't be more authentic.

Start steering your wheel towards integrity. We want to

see what you're made of. We trust that your core is good,

inherently good and so loving and so creative and so needed

out there. So please start engaging on this beautiful, fun,

revealing, but also terrifying journey of authenticity and

integrity. I'm sending my love out to you. I respect you so

much. And please don't hold back. If you have any comments

about this. Please share. If you're so resonates with my

content here, and you if you haven't already, please

subscribe to my podcast. If you feel you want to learn more

about all this, if you want to engage on a coaching journey

with me, reach out and I'll be there and I'll create a program

for you that is specific to your needs. take really good care of

yourself. I'll be out there very soon again.