00:00 Do You Speed Us Up On Your Podcast?
01:46 PR Edits Out Silences
02:38 Listener Email: Forgiveness Dilemma (Go Astros!)
03:54 Biblical Insights on Forgiveness
09:27 David's Flight and Absalom's Betrayal
17:48 Absalom's Defeat and David's Grief
20:54 Conclusion and Prayer
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Hey everybody.
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:Welcome back to another edition
of the Daily Bible Podcast.
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:Hello.
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:Hello.
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:It is Saturday and we are
down at the men's conference.
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:We, we thought about doing.
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:This live from the men's conference, and
then we just thought, we thought better.
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:Nobody's gonna really wanna watch
this live because it's the same
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:thing that you hear on the audio,
except just you and me talking.
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:And it's slower because at least with
the podcast, you can speed us up.
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:I don't like how slow you guys talk.
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:Let me just double time this and I can
have it done in 10 minutes in real time.
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:You can't do that, sadly.
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:Not yet.
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:I'd be curious to know.
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:How many people listen
to us on double speed?
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:Triple speed.
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:Triple speed would be impressive
because I think we talk fast as it is.
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:I triple speed us.
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:You triple speed us.
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:Yeah.
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:Okay.
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:I do it for quality control.
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:I wanna know what the podcast sounds
like and make sure nothing sounds askew,
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:making sure you're not preaching heresy.
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:So I'll listen to us pretty
regularly, although not every day.
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:I'll find a time to listen to it,
and I'll listen back at three,
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:three and a half, sometimes four
if you're taking a long time.
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:I don't think I'm the only one.
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:Yeah that's fine.
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:Yeah.
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:Yeah.
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:One speed is hard.
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:Especially with some of
the podcasts out there.
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:So I wonder who out there listens to us on
on double speed, the challenge with that.
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:Is that you're training
yourself to hear faster, right?
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:To listen faster.
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:And I wonder I think it does, it has
carry over to real life where you become
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:intolerant of slow speakers and that's
not helpful in a church setting because
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:there's lots of different speeds.
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:Or the person that has to think
between their statements that pauses.
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:And you can see the wheels turning
as they're trying to come up with the
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:next thing that they're trying to say.
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:And you're like, can come on.
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:What?
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:Come on.
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:What is what?
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:It takes so much restraint
for me not to jump in.
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:I've practiced this for years
where I don't jump in the
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:middle of someone's thinking.
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:But I do.
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:I will seed your point.
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:That is a challenge.
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:And here's something funny.
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:I edit our podcast every
time we do it, and I cut out.
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:The long silences.
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:Did you know that?
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:I did not.
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:I cut that.
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:That doesn't surprise me.
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:I cut out the long silences.
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:Who needs that?
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:Nobody needs that.
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:And if they want it, they can pause.
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:You can add your own long
silences if you want them.
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:But I cut them out when
they're longer than one second.
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:I'll remove them.
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:So you just cut that part out?
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:I did.
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:Okay.
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:I did alright.
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:You wasted my three seconds.
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:But for them, didn't matter.
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:It's an act of love.
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:Act of love.
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:Is that what that is?
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:I guess I save us like
four seconds every episode.
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:For sure.
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:Good.
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:Maybe even somewhere.
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:Sometimes it's to 10 seconds.
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:So if they've listened to all of our
episodes ever, then they've probably
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:saved like four minutes in their life.
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:Maybe.
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:You're welcome.
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:Yeah.
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:I don't do it for the accolades, but you
can send a thank you card anytime to yeah.
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:Pastor Rod Gomez, compass Bible
Church 2 9 1 South Preston Road.
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:There you go.
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:Hey, we have an email.
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:Do we wanna hit the email today
or do we wanna hit it tomorrow?
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:You brought it up now.
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:We can do it tomorrow.
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:Alright, then we're gonna hit it today.
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:It's a significant one.
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:I would've done less googly if I'd known.
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:We'll see how it, we could save.
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:We'll see how long is no.
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:Let's do it now.
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:We had an email written in on the
subject of forgiveness and it's
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:a two part, a two part question.
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:Really.
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:The first part had to do with the scenario
the scenario being the building off
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:of what happened with Carmelo Anthony
and Austin Metcalf not long ago now,
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:here in Frisco, nearby where we are.
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:And this is a difficult one.
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:She asked the question that the
writer does and says, Hey let's
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:suppose that Carmelo is truly
repentant for what he has done.
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:And he wants to seek forgiveness.
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:Obviously, Austin Metcalf, the man
he murdered, is not here to give
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:him forgiveness for stabbing him.
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:So he asks Austin's family to forgive
him for stabbing and killing Austin.
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:Is the forgiveness for that act theirs
to give, or would the forgiveness
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:come from God on Austin's behalf?
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:And she says, I hope that makes sense.
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:Because she's looking at
Excel spreadsheets all day.
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:No, it does make sense.
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:It's a great question.
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:What about the Astros part?
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:Do you wanna put that in there too?
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:The Astros are not ahead of the Rangers
anymore, so she doesn't want me to
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:put anything about that in there.
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:'cause that would not be good
for, the Astros fan in her heart.
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:Anyways, this is a tough question.
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:Here's what I'll say, and I mentioned
this the other day with regards to
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:forgiveness and whether or not when
Jesus tells the disciples, when you
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:forgive sins, they're forgiven in heaven.
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:And when you withhold
forgiveness, they're withheld.
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:He's not giving them the power
to forgive sins on behalf of God.
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:In other words, we can't, if.
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:If your kid punches another kid
in the face, you can't go to
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:your kid and say he forgives you.
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:In other words, you can't absolve your
own child of the offense against another
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:person's child, let alone can we absolve
any one of their offense against God.
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:So even when the offense is against, I.
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:Is against us in this scenario.
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:Let's say, and this would've been
great had it been the case, but let's
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:say Austin had survived this attack.
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:Even if at that point Carmelo Repentant
had gone to Austin and said, Austin,
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:please forgive me for what I did to you.
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:Even if in that moment Austin
was willing to forgive Carmelo.
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:It still would not have absolved
Carmelo before the Lord.
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:So there is a horizontal transaction
of forgiveness and there is a
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:vertical transaction of forgiveness
that needs to be considered here.
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:So in this case, Carmelo could seek
forgiveness from Austin's parents, and I
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:think rightly because he did sin against.
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:Austin's parents by taking
away their child from them,
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:by by murdering their child.
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:And so to go to Austin's parents
and say, will you forgive me?
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:They're, he's not in, in that sense,
asking them to forgive on Austin's
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:behalf because they can't do that.
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:But he is asking them rightly to forgive
the offense against them, which is that
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:he took their child away from them.
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:They can forgive.
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:Forgive Carmelo for that, should that ever
happen, but again, even in that scenario,
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:Carmelo's sin against God is not absolved.
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:There's the vertical component
and the horizontal component.
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:Horizontally.
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:We can forgive other people, but they
need to do business with God when it
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:comes to their offense against God.
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:And that is in keeping with what
we've been reading about in our
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:daily Bible reading with David.
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:When David sinned against Bathsheba and
Uriah and everybody else involved in
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:that, then yeah, David could go to them,
not Uriah obviously, but the others
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:and seek their forgiveness for the sin
that he had committed against them.
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:But David's correct in Psalm 51 when
he says against you and you only have I
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:sinned, and he's saying that about God.
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:So he knew that.
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:Ultimately the rec the absolution
that he needed was not a man granted
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:absolution, but a God granted absolution.
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:So he needed forgiveness from God.
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:And that's true here.
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:God can't lemme rephrase that.
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:Car Austin's parents cannot
forgive Carmelo on behalf of God.
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:They're not in that position.
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:Carmelo has to be right before God
between him and God and Him and God alone.
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:And so they can forgive the offense
against them horizontally, but they
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:can't forgive his offense against.
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:God.
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:Any thoughts on that first part Pier?
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:Yeah, the only thing I would offer to
accentuate that I agree with all that,
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:that you just mentioned, and I would
say on top of that, the Christian's
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:position has to be one of forgiveness.
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:This is one that's really hard.
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:Jesus talks about this.
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:If we've been forgiven much, we also
have to be for willing to forgive
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:as much and perhaps even more.
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:Here's the thing, we're never gonna sin.
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:No one's ever gonna sin against
us more than we sin against God.
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:And therefore God expects
us to forgive others.
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:I know that you're asking this about
their forgiveness of him, but on our
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:side, if someone were to come to us
and say, I asked for your forgiveness
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:about this and that Peter says,
should I do it as many as seven times?
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:And Jesus says, Nope.
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:A lot more than that.
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:Basically multiply that by infinity.
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:That's how many times we.
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:That I want you to forgive people
that ask for your forgiveness.
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:Now, here's my re here's
my question for you.
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:PPJ.
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:If someone doesn't ask for forgiveness,
do I still have to forgive them?
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:And therein on the part of the person
that's been offended, there's still
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:a horizontal and vertical component.
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:Your thirst for vengeance
has to be rolled over to God.
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:So in that sense, there is a release, if
we want to think about it that way, rather
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:than the idea of full forgiveness where
you are releasing your right to demand.
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:And exact your definition of justice
in this sit situation, you're gonna
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:roll that over to God and trust.
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:When God says vengeance,
his mind declares the Lord.
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:You're trusting him to
execute justice in that.
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:And so in that sense, you are freed
from the bitterness and the anger
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:and the the cloud that otherwise
this would hold over your heart.
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:But there are offenses that are gonna be
done against you wherein that horizontal
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:relationship may never be reconciled.
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:If that person doesn't come and seek
forgiveness in contrition and ask
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:for that there may be situations
where that earthly relationship
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:is never going to be reconciled.
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:There, there's not gonna be a point
where the two of you are going to
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:be on board with each other and able
to sit next to each other at church
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:again and have a meal together.
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:There, there may be those circumstances
and granted, we pray and hope and trust
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:that within the church, those are few
and far between because in the church,
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:to your point, pastor out our offense
is never gonna be as great as the
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:offense of God against our own sins.
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:So we need to be ready
to forgive one another.
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:But sometimes when somebody
doesn't seek our forgiveness,
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:that relationship earthly.
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:Speaking is going to come to an end.
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:But still in those moments, we need to
be able to release and to surrender our
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:thirst for vengeance and justice to the
Lord trusting that he's gonna met out
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:justice according to his perfect plan.
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:One of the ways I heard that
heard about, that talked about was
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:there's attitudinal forgiveness.
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:The forgiveness where you have
the attitude toward a person that
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:says I'm willing to forgive you.
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:I've released you to use your words,
and then there's transacted forgiveness.
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:Where forgiveness actually is
exchanged between both parties,
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:the offended and the offender.
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:So attitudinal forgiveness demanded of the
Christian transacted forgiveness only when
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:The second part of the question,
let's deal with that one tomorrow.
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:Okay, how about that?
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:So part two for this question,
tune in tomorrow for that one.
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:And then you also said Go Astros.
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:Is that what I heard you say?
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:I didn't, because the Rangers are actually
just behind the Seattle Mariners in second
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:place in the division and the Astros.
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:I can't see them anymore.
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:They're in the rear view mirror
somewhere, so she doesn't want
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:me to talk about that, okay.
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:We won't, anyways go Rangers.
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:Hey, let's get to our passage
for the day, second Samuel:
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:Go Dr.
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:Teen.
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:Second Samuel 16 through 18.
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:We're doing in chapter 16 with
the continued flight of David.
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:So David remember is running and
he's running from Absalom chapter 16.
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:Here we find Zeba.
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:Now we're gonna have to
flash back on who Zeba is.
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:Zeba is the one that was
the servant of Mephibosheth.
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:He was a part of Saul's
household servants.
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:And David had been me, Mephibosheth
and had installed Mephibosheth as
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:essentially for lack of a better way of
looking at it, part of his own family,
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:given him a seat at the royal table
given him all the possessions of land
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:that were entitled to his father's
household and told Zeba has Zeba.
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:You serve Mephibosheth, and so
we've got a unique situation here.
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:That's difficult for us because we're
not exactly sure who to trust here
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:because Zeba is gonna come with a
story that Mephibosheth is gonna have a
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:different account of when Mephibosheth
and David are reunited later on.
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:So we have to say we're not exactly sure.
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:Who's telling the truth here?
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:Because Zeba says, Hey, Mephibosheth
is staying behind because he
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:thinks this is the moment that
he's gonna get the throne back.
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:And he despises you, David.
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:And I'm here because I'm the one
that's really, truly loyal to you.
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:I side with Mephibosheth in
this encounter because I think
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:So he wouldn't have been able to
get there without Zebra's help.
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:Absalom made a play to the throne.
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:So it's not that like the throne was
vacant and Mephibosheth could have been
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:like, oh, we're gonna have elections now.
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:I'll be the one to sit
on the throne again.
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:There's somebody on the throne
still, and it's Absalom.
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:And Absalom has the power
and the strength right now.
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:So for Mephibosheth to think
like Zeba iss saying, Hey,
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:I'm gonna get the throne back.
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:That doesn't make any sense.
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:And I just, I think zebra's a smarmy guy.
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:So that's my read on the situation.
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:But that's the first encounter.
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:After that, then we get Shiia.
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:Shiia is a guy, he he's a different
difficult guy because he's gonna
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:show up and he's gonna be cursing
David as David is fleeing.
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:I believe Shiia is a member of the tribe
of Benjamin, which is Saul's tribe.
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:And he's cursing David and throwing
rocks at David, and they're
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:saying, Hey, let's go kill him.
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:And David says, no, because
maybe God is the one who ordained
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:this and and to be the case.
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:And so he says, we're not gonna do this.
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:And so there, there's Zeba and Shiia
as his way on his way out of town.
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:Meanwhile, the rest of the chapter
flashes to Absalom entering town.
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:So David's leaving, Absalom's entering,
and when Absalom enters he does so
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:and commits a great offense in that
he takes all of David's concubines
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:and goes up to the rooftop and spends
time with them to keep it pg in a way
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:that would've been defiling to David
and his concubines there and flexes.
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:And tries to make it look like,
Hey I'm the king now look at me.
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:And this is a power grab from him.
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:Absalom does, wicked does evil here.
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:David is running.
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:It's still not a good situation.
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:At chapter 16, I guess
a couple notes on this.
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:One of the things that you should
notice is that a hit the Fell who
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:was previously David's counselor,
is the one behind Absalom's
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:willingness to violate these gals.
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:So that's important because you
seem to get a sense of some of that.
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:Betrayal and the hurt that
David has in the Psalms.
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:It could be that when David's talking
about the betrayal of a specific person,
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:he could be talking about Absalom, but
he also could very well be talking about
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:a heath fill who was David's counselor.
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:He would've been one of the
guys that is considered someone
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:David could rely upon and give.
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:Hard words and input to some
of David's big decision.
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:So that's an important
person to keep in mind.
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:And also I think it's interesting at
minimum I don't know exactly what to do
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:with it except to say that I think one of
the things that's endearing about David is
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:that he's entrusting himself to the Lord.
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:Even as he's being cursed.
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:He says Maybe God has told him to do this.
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:In fact, he says it
more strongly than that.
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:God told him to curse me.
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:This shimmy I guy.
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:So I'm gonna let it happen.
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:And perhaps he says, God will
look down on me and hear what he's
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:saying, and then he'll repay him.
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:With, he'll repay me with good
and he'll stop him at some point.
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:Such a fascinating interplay because I'm
not sure I would've done that, right?
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:I would've said, dude, I'm the king.
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:I'm still the king.
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:Even if I'm walking away from the
city you need to stop and have one
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:of my guys go and cause him to stop.
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:But he doesn't do that.
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:I find that so fascinating.
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:Again, for all that you
can say evil about David.
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:You can say so many good things.
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:This heart is a posture of.
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:I don't know, childlike trust.
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:Lord, you'll have to take care of me.
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:I'm not gonna do anything
about this guy 'cause I'm gonna
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:trust you to do something.
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:Yeah we just talked about that with
the idea of forgiveness right there.
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:There's a measure of
that with forgiveness.
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:That's what we're doing when
we're saying, Hey, we're gonna
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:trust you, God, to, to deal with
this in the way that you see fit.
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:Trust I hit the fell.
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:Maybe you could say as a guy that lacked
integrity, which might be something
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:relevant to, to what's going on in
the life of our men's ministry right
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:now with the retreat that we're on.
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:Just trying to draw connections there.
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:Oh, in integrity?
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:Yes.
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:The theme, the, anyways,
you can cut that part out.
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:I'm gonna keep it.
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:Alright, great.
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:I rarely cut anything out.
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:It's just awkward Hey, this didn't land.
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:I was No, that's okay.
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:I was trying to make a, I was
wondering where you were going with it.
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:I didn't realize you were setting me
up to swing because, and especially
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:with the a, a hit that fills words
that he proved to be a man of.
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:Not much into whatever I quit.
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:Hey, chapter 17, speaking of a hit
fell we're gonna see a hit fell.
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:Give abso some advice.
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:That was actually really
good, wise, strategic advice.
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:A hit fell, says it is time to
strike while the iron is hot.
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:He's running, he's going to
be in a state of disarray.
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:He's not gonna be expecting this.
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:He's gonna be in a state of vulnerability.
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:Go get him.
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:Go kill him.
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:And honestly y'all, if Absalom had
done what a heel suggested right
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:here, I think Absalom wins the day.
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:And I think maybe even David
dies in that situation.
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:And yet God had ordained for Hai to
be there and with no reason, honestly,
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:because this was not only right to
Absalom, it seemed right to the rest
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:of the counselors in the room too.
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:And yet Absalom because of
God says let's hear from Hai.
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:And in a hit the fells you can almost
picture him in the background just.
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:His Gabber is Flad.
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:He's sitting there going I
don't know what to do with this.
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:Why are you consulting him?
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:I'm the guy.
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:Even David used to trust me.
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:And who is this HAI guy that
you're gonna ask about this?
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:So Isha comes in and he
says, no, don't do that.
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:Here's what you need to do instead.
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:David's gonna be ready for this attack.
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:You need to go this way instead.
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:And Absalom listens because why?
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:Verse 14, the Lord had ordained to defeat
the good counsel of a hit the fell so that
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:the Lord might bring harm upon Absalom.
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:And so God.
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:Is the reason why all the
questions, why would he consult Hoi?
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:Why would he believe Hoi?
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:Because of verse 14.
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:God ordained that it would be that way.
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:And so as a result of this,
Hoi sends word to David warns.
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:David says, Hey David, this
is what you need to do because
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:this is what's coming your way.
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:I.
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:In that way, God uses HAI to spare David's
life and save him from a hitha fell's.
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:Otherwise wise and shrewd counsel there
a hitha fell is not gonna take this well.
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:He he thinks, man, what more do
I have to live for if my role has
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:been undermined by this outsider?
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:This guy Hai.
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:So he goes home, puts his affairs in
order, and ends his hi, his own life here.
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:Chapter 17 is a.
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:Is a bad chapter for
Absalom on that front.
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:One of the things that may stand out to
you as odd is why a hit thetical would
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:respond so dramatically to, to something
that's seemingly small in its effect.
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:It's like saying, okay there's
a 25 cents offense here.
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:Let me just take a $10 response.
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:It doesn't seem to add up until
you recognize that under the Old
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:Testament mindset, the honor,
shame culture is a driving force.
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:It still is today.
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:It's huge.
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:Eastern mindset is honor and shame.
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:You do certain things because of the
honor that belongs to you and your family.
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:You don't do other things because of
the shame that could potentially, I.
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:Ruin you.
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:And so a hit the Fell's response
only is understood in light of
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:the timeframe that he lives in.
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:The shame that would've come along
from this situation would've been
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:unbearable to the point where it
might've been more honorable for
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:him not to live than it would be for
him to live and carry the shame of
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:saying my, my wisdom was overcome.
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:Another take on this is that he knew
the end, and that's another possibility.
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:He understood what this was gonna lead to,
and so he's just expediting the process.
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:They're going to lose if they do what?
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:What who shy says.
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:And so he says if that's the
case, I'm gonna die anyway.
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:When David comes back, he's gonna
execute his opponents, his enemies.
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:And so I'll just get to the process
before they do it better than I
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:better I do it than they do it.
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:Yeah.
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:Earlier in this, right before this we
have another one of those situations
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:where God allows and permits deception.
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:It appears as part of his divine plan
in order to accomplish the greater good.
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:When the spies come or when the
woman is hiding him as, and Jonathan
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:and the men of Absalom come to the
woman's house, she says, oh I don't
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:know what you're talking about.
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:They've gone over there and the reality
is she knew exactly where they were.
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:She was hiding them.
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:So here's very much the Core 10 boom
situation right here biblically for
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:us, where she's hiding somebody that
needs to be preserved, their life
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:needs to be preserved and God, at
least at this time, seems to ordain the
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:deception in a way that is permissible
in order for the greater good.
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:All right, chapter 18.
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:Chapter 18, under Joe Abs command.
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:Here, David is gonna go out and
lead the charge, and lead the battle
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:against, this is weird to say, against
Israel against Absalom, we should say.
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:And Absalom's men are gonna suffer defeat.
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:And in the process, Absalom is con of.
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:Very vulnerable position where
he is suspended by his neck
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:between these tree branches.
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:And some have suggested,
maybe it was by his hair.
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:Either way, he can't get down.
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:He's caught in midair.
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:Somebody tells job about this.
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:Joe EB says why didn't you kill him?
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:And the guy says, because David
told us not to, which is true.
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:David said, treat my son gently.
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:And job says, we're not doing that.
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:Takes three Javelins and.
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:Ends his life with three spears.
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:And then it says on top of that
there were other men that gathered
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:around and continued to attack the
body, and it seems like potentially
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:even abused the corpse afterwards
as far as doing violence to him.
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:Then they take him, they throw
him in the middle of the road,
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:they pile a bunch of rocks on him.
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:So this is not an honorable end
for Absalom, nor is it an honorable
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:treatment of him after his death either.
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:And following this, there's two runners
that come back to tell David of the news
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:and they think that it's gonna be met
with good news and rejoicing from David.
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:But David, all David can think
about is the death of his son.
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:And so he mourns over the death of Abso,
he grieves over the death of Absalom, and
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:we're gonna see that's gonna impact his
relationship with Israel and specifically
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:with Joe Ab in the coming chapters here.
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:This is where Joab is something
of a questionable character.
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:There's times where he does good things
and there's things that you admire
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:and perhaps even say this is good.
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:This is one of those
times where I'm confused.
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:I'm not sure.
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:'cause I do think he does
the right thing both times.
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:Killing Absalom was the right move.
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:That's my hot take.
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:And I could be wrong on that, but
I think he did the right thing.
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:He needed to do that for the
sake of the unity of the people.
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:Even though David didn't want that,
David didn't know what was best for him.
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:And so I think Job does
something that's necessary.
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:And I think job's also gonna do what's
necessary in this upcoming chapter.
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:But I think David is clouded because
of his relationship to his son.
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:And this is again.
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:Part of the problem for David, he
is not doing what he needs to do
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:because of the people involved.
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:And this goes back to what we were
talking about either yesterday or
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:the day before, that our allegiance
has to be first and foremost to God.
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:When Jesus says this in the New Testament,
he says, your love for me ought to be
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:like you hate your mother and father
because your love for me is so great.
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:Of course, he's not
telling us to hate them.
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:Scripture tells us to honor our
mother and our father, but Jesus
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:is making the point by hyperbole
saying, we need to make sure that.
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:In our allegiance, Jesus is always
first place, practically speaking.
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:That has a lot of impacts
for how we live our lives.
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:If we're wise enough to discern those
things in our culture, especially in
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:our, I don't know our culture where
the family is the, it's a thing.
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:It's a thing here.
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:People do the thing people love
putting their family first.
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:They talk about work life balance,
which I think is a good thing
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:generally speaking, but sometimes
families can idolize their family.
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:Where their allegiance to their
family is clearly greater and stronger
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:than their allegiance to Christ.
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:Now, that's not.
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:Always the choice.
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:But if there ever is a choice,
let it be true for you that you're
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:not choosing family over Jesus.
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:Jesus must be first.
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:And in fact, when you love Jesus
most, you'll love your family best.
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:That's a good line.
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:That's that man.
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:Put that on a shirt.
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:We should, yeah.
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:And then I also agree with
everything that you just said.
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:Not that one.
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:Not that one.
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:Yeah.
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:Alright hey, lemme pray and
then we will be done with this
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:episode and move on to the next.
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:God, we thank you for this day and we
we want to love you most to be able
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:to love others best and help us to
do that and to figure out what that
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:looks like for us and how to balance
all of those obligations that we have.
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:Lord, I know that's a hard thing.
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:It's hard to figure out how do I
love you most and love my spouse as
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:you're calling me to love my spouse
and my kids, and so forth and so on.
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:This is something that we need wisdom.
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:And that's why it's so good that
if we do love you most, we're gonna
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:spend a lot of time in your word.
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:We're gonna spend a lot of time with the
Bible, and you've given us some clear
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:instructions and guidelines and helps and
admonitions and encouragement, and you've
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:given us your spirit to take these things
and actually help us to live them out.
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:And so it's not a, just.
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:Strange out there.
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:Call to, to love you without any
guidelines as to what that looks like.
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:You've given us your word to help
express how we love you and what
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:that should look like in our lives.
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:So I pray that we would be people
that love you well through the word
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:and we pray this in Jesus name.
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:Amen.
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:Amen.
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:Keep your bibles.
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:Y'all in.
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:Tune in again tomorrow for another
edition of the Daily Bible Podcast.
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:See ya.
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:Bye.
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:you against tomorrow for another
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:Yeah.
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:I would agree with
everything that you said