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#210 10-Day Wellbeing Habit Quest Day 3 – Use Cues, Not Motivation
Episode 2107th January 2026 • The Happiness Challenge • Klaudia Mitura
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Welcome to Day 3 of the 10-Day Wellbeing Habit Quest.

Today’s episode is all about using cues, not motivation because motivation comes and goes, but the right cue can make your habit feel automatic. Klaudia breaks down the simple habit loop (cue–routine–reward) and shows you how to “lock in” a reliable trigger.

Hit play to set your cue and make “habit time” happen on autopilot.

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Klaudia:

Hello happiness seekers.

Welcome back to the day three of the ten day well being Habit quest where we are not chasing a life overhaul, we are building one tiny well being habit that actually sticks.

Klaudia:

In the words of Sonia Lubomirsky, amazing researcher, happiness is a formation of habits. So we do need more of these positive and powering and meaningful habits to.

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Maintain positive well being in our life. Now, if you haven't already done so.

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Do Visit my website thehappinesschallenge.co.uk where you'll.

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Find some useful resources to support you.

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You can grab a science backed PDF.

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Workbook with some practical templates.

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You can download a list of science.

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Backed microhabits that you can try.

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You can grab a signed copy of my book the Alphabet of Happiness to.

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Get more inspiration and you can sign.

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Up to one of my webinars and.

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Workshops to engage with other people on this topic.

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But now you have chosen in day.

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One your habit and in day two you have shaped your environment to support that habit. So today we are going to lock in the cue that tells your brain now it's a habit time. Because habits are built as loops.

You have a cue, you have a routine, and you have a reward.

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And the consistent cues like the same.

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Time and the same place make habits more automatic over time.

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So what I would love you to.

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Do is to decide your time, place and anchor behavior. So your cue. By completing this sentence every day at.

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This time, in this place, after this.

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Specific anchor or queue, I will this is your tiny habit.

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So for example, every evening in my kitchen, after I made my herbal tea.

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I will engage in creative writing for 10 minutes. So here we go. I have the time. It's evening, I have the place.

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It's the kitchen, I have my anchor or the queue I'm making. Cup of tea. I've made the cup of tea and I have my tiny habit.

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I'm engaging in creative writing for 10 minutes.

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So now again, my journal is in the kitchen next to my workbooks, so it's easy to be grabbed.

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Remember yesterday's episode?

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But the idea is that I'm giving.

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A clear instruction for my brain.

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And when my brain is scanning the.

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Environment and sees the cue, it says, oh, okay, now I'm engaging in this specific tiny habit. So when you reflect on this and you think about your cue and you.

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Think about your anchor, think about are.

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You able to notice that cue? And if you've missed your cue, what was happening instead and what small tweak could you make?

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Your cue is absolutely your habits starting point. So you need to make it very.

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Clear, associate with the habit, so your brain automatically will say, all right, that's the cue. That's what I'm going to do.

Klaudia:

So I hope this is helpful. Tomorrow we'll add a tiny reward so your brain actually wants to come back.

Klaudia:

To your tiny habit. So I see you there. Bye.

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