Since sharing the Momentum Formula framework, I’ve been asked multiple times if it works for people with ADHD. Today I’m answering the question and sharing how ADHD helped lead to the creation of the framework itself.
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Have you ever heard the joke about starting an ADHD house
Speaker:cleaning service? Now, if you do not have the same algorithm as
Speaker:me, it goes something like this. Someone says, I'm going to
Speaker:start an ADHD house cleaning service where I don't actually clean the
Speaker:houses. I just call the person with ADHD and tell them I'm
Speaker:coming over in an hour. Now, I love this joke
Speaker:because it's really. It's real. When I see it,
Speaker:I. I laugh. I think I feel a little attacked by this, but also I
Speaker:think this would work. Now, I start off with a joke
Speaker:because one, it is a representation of one of the
Speaker:ways the ADHD brain works. That sense of urgency that
Speaker:somebody's coming over to my house, I finally have to do the thing. But I
Speaker:also think it can help to have a sense of humor around some of
Speaker:the idiosyncrasies about adhd.
Speaker:Because if I'm being honest, there are times when it really
Speaker:doesn't feel funny. There are some days where it's
Speaker:a true struggle and you're wishing things
Speaker:were different and you don't really understand what's going on.
Speaker:And for a long time before I even knew about adhd, I just
Speaker:thought there was something fundamentally wrong with me. So there are real
Speaker:consequences and real struggles for people who live with
Speaker:ADHD or. Or who are undiagnosed. And a
Speaker:lot of productivity advice works really well for
Speaker:neurotypical brains, but doesn't necessarily work for
Speaker:people with adhd. And so it makes sense that when
Speaker:I started to share about the Momentum formula and a framework
Speaker:that says, I'm gonna help you to take action, I get
Speaker:why people were hesitant to say and ask that
Speaker:question. Does it actually work for people with adhd? Because a lot of
Speaker:advice just simply does not. And so
Speaker:today's episode is all about adhd. It is about
Speaker:the Momentum formula and its relationship to
Speaker:adhd, not just how it can help, but also how
Speaker:it's one of the reasons that the formula was ever
Speaker:developed and one of the first things I want to
Speaker:address as I start off this episode. I
Speaker:want to state upfront, I am not an expert on
Speaker:adhd and nor do I claim to be. Today, I am
Speaker:speaking from my experience as a person who's been
Speaker:diagnosed with ADHD and as someone who studied
Speaker:neuroscience in university. So I do have a strong baseline
Speaker:and understanding of how the brain works.
Speaker:With that in mind, I want to discuss. Guys,
Speaker:to take you back in time, when this understanding of the brain led me
Speaker:to have an aha moment in May of
Speaker:2024. I had not been diagnosed yet, but
Speaker:was kind of coming to terms with it. One morning
Speaker:I was journaling about some recent procrastination and
Speaker:obviously I was struggling and I was frustrating. I knew what I
Speaker:needed to do and I wanted to do it. But
Speaker:on that morning, it was the first, first time I asked myself, is
Speaker:this emotional procrastination or is this
Speaker:dopamine? You see, for a really long time I took
Speaker:a very binary approach to being stuck.
Speaker:I assumed based on my understanding
Speaker:and a framework called immunity to change, that if you were stuck, it was
Speaker:either logical or psychological. Basically, if you wanted to get
Speaker:unstuck, focus on skillset or mindset, it was one or the
Speaker:other. And that's really the way my brain worked. But I hit a point
Speaker:where I thought, this is not a psychological roadblock. I know exactly what
Speaker:to do. I'm not avoiding this because of maybe emotional or
Speaker:fear based reasons. I'm just straight up not taking action.
Speaker:And so that was the morning I finally asked, what if it's
Speaker:biological? And what if my brain won't initiate a task
Speaker:because of neurochemistry? And in particular, is
Speaker:this dopamine at play? And it was actually that journal
Speaker:entry that motivated me to look into getting
Speaker:a diagnosis. I had suspected for a couple of years. Friends who
Speaker:had been diagnosed as adults who kind of gently suggested it
Speaker:might work. I also do have a genetic component. It
Speaker:is in my family with multiple family members. But I would always say to
Speaker:myself, well, even if I have it, it's not that severe. I have
Speaker:done so many things in my life and, you know, never had a diagnosis.
Speaker:So what is the difference? But
Speaker:remember when I said, sometimes it's not funny. I thought about all of those days,
Speaker:I call them paralysis days, where I felt
Speaker:frozen, just unable to do things that I know how to do,
Speaker:things that are important. And I would just sit there and watch myself
Speaker:do nothing and just feel overwhelmed.
Speaker:So if I found out for sure whether I had
Speaker:adhd, then at least it could open the door to more options
Speaker:for how I could manage it. And that was really this initiating
Speaker:factor. But it was also that journal entry
Speaker:that got me thinking in terms of logical, biological
Speaker:and psychological instead of just binary. I started to think of it in
Speaker:three different ways, and that is what would later become the momentum
Speaker:formula or the basis for it. So what is
Speaker:happening in the brain of an ADHD person
Speaker:that makes it hard to actually initiate a task?
Speaker:And for this I want to come back to something. I've shared it before, but
Speaker:it's the BMAP model. So the
Speaker:habit expert, BJ Fogg has this model he calls
Speaker:bmap. And essentially it is the behavior
Speaker:happens when you have the combination of motivation, ability,
Speaker:and a prompt. And if you're watching on video, I
Speaker:have a visual I'm going to show, but I will also describe this
Speaker:for audio. But essentially you have your motivation
Speaker:levels, which can be high or they can be low, and you have your
Speaker:ability levels, which can also. It can be difficult to do or
Speaker:can be easy to do. And when it comes
Speaker:to taking action, the P is for prompt. Something has prompted
Speaker:us to take action. Whether you see something on a list or you realize, oh,
Speaker:I have to do this, there's some sort of prompt that is telling you it's
Speaker:time to initiate taking action. And in order to do that, you have to
Speaker:just meet a threshold. You will take action. The behavior will
Speaker:happen when you have the right level of motivation
Speaker:to cross the threshold based on how easy or difficult it
Speaker:is. So if something is really easy to do, you don't actually need a
Speaker:lot of motivation and you will simply be able to just meet
Speaker:that threshold and you will take action. If something's harder to
Speaker:do, then you might need a lot more motivation to
Speaker:cross that threshold and take action on it.
Speaker:And this is a really helpful way to think about why sometimes we can feel
Speaker:overwhelmed and not do it. However, in the ADHD
Speaker:brain, sometimes even something that is really easy to do, you can still
Speaker:just be sitting here under the threshold and just
Speaker:not crossing that threshold threshold. And so the brain doesn't have
Speaker:enough dopamine. That dopamine is involved with sort of
Speaker:wanting and seeking, and it's part of the reward pathway of the brain.
Speaker:And so this can drive behavior. And if you don't have enough
Speaker:dopamine in your brain, if it's the baseline is too low, you're
Speaker:not going to cross that threshold and you won't take action.
Speaker:And so it's really helpful to consider what
Speaker:does motivate an ADHD brain, because it's
Speaker:not that you can't do anything. In fact, there's a thing called hyper
Speaker:fixation or hyper focus that people with ADHD experience,
Speaker:where if something is really interesting or driving
Speaker:curiosity, or they're just this fascination, or maybe it's really
Speaker:challenging, they can actually concentrate deeply
Speaker:on something and time can just pass. They can actually get so absorbed in it
Speaker:that nothing else happens. And something that is very, very
Speaker:interesting, challenging, satisfying, these are the types of things that
Speaker:will easily cross the threshold and Drive action.
Speaker:But when something is important just
Speaker:on its own, that's not enough to cross the threshold.
Speaker:So I think it's a really important thing to understand where if you
Speaker:are not taking action and you don't have enough dopamine, it
Speaker:just, you literally, your brain is not firing enough. And so
Speaker:this frustration, these paralysis days that I would experience
Speaker:were happening because I was just not meeting that threshold and something
Speaker:simply being important just wasn't cutting it.
Speaker:And so that's where I started to really think about what do we
Speaker:do when we know this about ourselves. And that's really where the formula starts to
Speaker:come in. When I say that there's a biological issue
Speaker:when it comes to adhd. There's literally neurochemistry in your brain.
Speaker:It's not enough for you to trigger the action. And so when you
Speaker:understand that about yourself, then you can say, okay, how can I adjust
Speaker:how I work my mode so that I can start
Speaker:to initiate action? How do I cross that threshold? And there are
Speaker:multiple strategies that you can use. So the more you understand your
Speaker:brain, then the more you can start to test out and experiment with what
Speaker:works really well for your brain. Now, when I talk about
Speaker:mode, in particular, I like to talk about biology, environment,
Speaker:expectations and preferences. And let's use an example
Speaker:of body doubling. So body doubling is a
Speaker:productivity technique that is popular with ADHD but works for other people.
Speaker:But that is being able to better focus when you are surrounded by other
Speaker:people who are also focused on their work. And this can be
Speaker:in person. So I love working at a coffee shop or a co working space
Speaker:because other people around me are working and it helps me focus. This
Speaker:could also be virtual online. I. I really love attending virtual
Speaker:coworking sessions where we all just quietly work together. But it gets my
Speaker:butt in the chair because I have committed to showing up for this
Speaker:call. That's the thing that my brain responds to now,
Speaker:expectations. I've talked a lot around this idea that sometimes when
Speaker:no one else is involved, if it's just the thing you say you're gonna do,
Speaker:you might put it off and you might delay it. Now, for someone with
Speaker:adhd, if it's important but it's not urgent, there's no one
Speaker:waiting on it, it will just keep getting shoved off to the side.
Speaker:So using outer accountability, having other people be involved,
Speaker:that's another way that you can cross that threshold and you can make it
Speaker:not just important, but also add some urgency, add those expectations,
Speaker:which can be enough to drive that behavior. And then also I
Speaker:Do want to acknowledge the role of biology when it comes to
Speaker:strategies like medication? This is something
Speaker:you would work with a professional. I'm not giving any kind of advice.
Speaker:I just know that this is an option or strategy for people with
Speaker:adhd. And the way I think of medication is
Speaker:that it almost just brings down that threshold. It
Speaker:makes it easier to cross. And so that if something is important,
Speaker:that's actually enough to cross over the threshold and take action
Speaker:on it. And it's something that I've explored working with my
Speaker:health care team, and I did notice a difference with
Speaker:it, and it's not necessarily right for everyone, and I have to use a combination
Speaker:of things. But these are all strategies that are about
Speaker:understanding how you work so you can address these biological
Speaker:changes. So ultimately, when someone says,
Speaker:does the momentum formula work for people with
Speaker:adhd? I say, yes. It is all
Speaker:about understanding your brain, how your brain
Speaker:works, and then having a toolkit, having strategies
Speaker:that will adapt and help you to initiate and take action,
Speaker:if that's what's happening now. The other thing is when you've got
Speaker:yourself set up with these strategies and it's still not working well, then that
Speaker:might suggest that you need to look into more
Speaker:logical. Maybe it's a logical challenge where you actually don't have all the pieces
Speaker:and you need to work on that. But it could also be psychological. I mean,
Speaker:there are times where I genuinely am avoiding something because of
Speaker:trying to avoid discomfort, trying to avoid any negative consequences.
Speaker:But if I'm using the strategies that I know
Speaker:work with my brain that drive enough motivation to
Speaker:be able to take action, then I'm setting myself up for
Speaker:success. And then any other troubleshooting around that, I can
Speaker:do this. Now, something I do want to address with
Speaker:the ADHD brain is that they tend to
Speaker:respond well to curiosity. Like genuine interest can really drive
Speaker:taking action. Challenges can be
Speaker:motivating of, okay, I'm going to rise to the challenge. It kind of drives that
Speaker:behavior. If something's new, some novelty is really helpful.
Speaker:And then also urgency, which we already talked about.
Speaker:I want to address the novelty one, because sometimes a
Speaker:strategy is going to work for a while, but as it
Speaker:starts to lose its novelty, then you can start to struggle.
Speaker:And that's why I do also like having multiple strategies
Speaker:that are available, multiple ways to troubleshoot. And depending on
Speaker:the type of action you're taking, some strategies might work better than others.
Speaker:And regardless of who you are, whether you have ADHD or not, I
Speaker:think being curious about how you work, what
Speaker:fits, what feels natural is a constant evolution
Speaker:of figuring that out. Trial and error. Because when you find something that works,
Speaker:you are setting yourself up to be able to sustain something,
Speaker:to show up over and over again. And ultimately it
Speaker:can help you to find and keep your momentum.