What does it actually mean to weave the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine back into harmony? And how do we do this sacred union work within ourselves?

In this deeply personal episode, Kayla shares her journey working with the Lady of Communion archetype during her priestess training — and the profound blueprint she created for healing the wounded masculine and feminine energies within all of us.

This isn't theoretical. This is the inner work that creates outer change. Because as within, so without.

Kayla breaks down the core wounds of both energies: the wounded masculine's deep fear of "not being enough" (which creates control, power-over dynamics, and patriarchal structures), and the wounded feminine's fear of "being too much" (which shows up as people-pleasing, over-giving, self-doubt, and dimming our power).

She then shares a step-by-step blueprint for moving from wounded to divine — for both energies to come into sacred union within ourselves and collectively. This includes: understanding your masculine, letting down the armor, contrition and forgiveness, building trust, and finally, coming into harmony.

This is the foundational work for the new Earth. This is how we liberate individually and collectively. This is how the divine masculine holds safety while the divine feminine creates freely. This is sacred union.

Kayla also shares updates on the Holy Rage Circle (May 29 in Gig Harbor, WA) and Walk as Love Temple membership (coming soon) — both rooted in these three pillars: liberating from patriarchy, weaving divine feminine/masculine into harmony, and walking as love.

In this episode, we explore:

• Working with the Lady of Communion archetype (sacred union)
• Why we all have both masculine and feminine energy (not gendered)
• The wounded masculine: core wound = "not being enough"
• How fear of not being enough creates control, power-over, patriarchy
• The wounded feminine: core wound = "being too much"
• People-pleasing, over-giving, self-doubt, fear of our own power
• Divine Masculine = grounded container, safety, presence (stones around the fire)
• Divine Feminine = pure potential, creation, wild energy (the flame)
• Why boys are raised to "not be feminine" instead of taught what masculine IS
• The blueprint: 7 steps to sacred union within yourself
• Step 1: Know your masculine (who is he? what wounds does he carry?)
• Step 2: Let down the armor (drop the sword, release control)
• Step 3: Transform wounded masculine into divine masculine
• Step 4: Contrition — masculine apologizes to feminine for harm done
• Step 5: Forgiveness — feminine forgives and releases the resentment
• Step 6: Trust — divine masculine shows he's safe, trustworthy, protective of life
• Step 7: Sacred union — holding hands, hearts connected, dancing in harmony
• Why this work heals the collective (as within, so without)
• Holy Rage Circle (May 29, Gig Harbor WA) — hold grief/rage, alchemize into joy, vision the new Earth
• Walk as Love Temple membership coming soon

This is the foundation. This is the work. This is how we birth the new Earth.

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Welcome to Liberation Wisdom. I'm Kayla Moore, a Sacred Feminine priestess in training and guide on the path of walking as love in a world of chaos.

This podcast is for seekers, healers and.

Anyone who feels the old world crumbling and the new one trying to be born.

Each episode we explore how to liberate ourselves from patriarchal wounds, weave the divine feminine and divine masculine back into harmony and witness the real tangible evidence of the new earth manifesting through collective consciousness shifts.

This isn't about bypassing the darkness.

It's about alchemizing grief and rage into fuel for co creating what comes next.

We are the light and the love. When we choose love and peace internally,.

We are also sending those vibrations to be mirrored the world around us. This is Liberation Wisdom. Always choose love.

Welcome beloveds, back to the Liberation Wisdom podcast. I am Kayla, your host. I am a feminine liberation coach and a Sacred Feminine priestess in training. I didn't release an episode last week.

I had some life stuff come up that it just made doing a podcast episode hard to do last week. So if anyone was waiting for that and didn't get one, sorry about that.

I'm also trying to honor my need to only do what I can do and not push myself further than I can.

I only have so much time that I can dedicate to doing all the things that I'm doing right now and the podcast was just not one of those things that I could get done. So I appreciate anyone who is here this week.

So today I want to dive into talking more about weaving back the divine masculine and divine feminine into the fabric of what it means to be human.

And I want to start by really talking about the wounded masculine that we have in all of us and definitely playing out on a broader stage in society right now.

Before I get into that though, again, I want to let you know about the holy Rage so circle that is coming in a couple weeks on Friday, May 29th at A Touch of Marrakey in Gig Harbor, Washington from 6 to 8pm this is such a special circle that I'm really, really excited to bring to anyone who feels like this is the right space for them. The main thing that I want you to know about this space is it's about holding each other in community.

It's about you feeling loved and heard and seen and appreciated and feel like you belong. It's about you feeling like you belong to a community of people, of women that are doing and feeling and being the same as you.

Of course we are all different, we all have our flavors, but really Knowing that these are people that you can lean on. These are people that get it, that feel the weight of what we are all feeling in the collective consciousness right now.

We are all feeling the weight of what is happening in the world. And, you know, as without, so within. As within, so without. That is one of the main principles in spirituality as well as as above, so below.

And so you could be feeling the weight of the world, but there could be things that are happening in your own life that are also heavy and are taking a toll.

I know firsthand that the twists and turns that can happen on a dime in your life and how it can feel like, you know, the rug was just pulled out from under you when things felt like they were going in one direction, and now all of a sudden, they're going in another. So I understand what that feels like. And so this is a circle to hold you in the grief and the rage of anything that's happening out in the world.

Because there is enough out in the world to feel grief and rage around. And then also anything that's happening in your internal world, too, that needs to be felt and seen.

This is also a space where we don't just feel it and live in it and then let you go out into your day being soaked in that. We are feeling it all the way, because that's what our bodies need to move through.

If we can think of these emotions like a portal that when we feel them all the way, then we move through the portal into something completely new. And we can use these emotions to also alchemize. And alchemy just means turning something from one thing into another.

And so we can alchemize these emotions into joy and pleasure.

And that is the arc of this circle, is to be able to feel our grief, to feel our rage, to be in that in an embodied way, and have the love and the belonging and the holding of the people around you. And then to transmute or to alchemize those emotions into joy and pleasure. And then we don't just stop there either. We have a mission.

There is also activism that comes into this, that we are holding a torch for the collective.

The more that we do the inner work, again, as within, so without, the more we do our internal work, the more it is actually also helping the collective as well. It ripples out into the collective, and people start to shift and feel these things as we do.

So when we transmute or alchemize these emotions into joy and pleasure, and then we hold a vision of what we want tomorrow to look like, of what we want, of what we want this new Earth to look like, or new human to look like. We are sending the universe signals of this is what we want to be birthing and this is what we want help with.

We don't want to fuel what is continuing to crumble in our outer world or inner world that needs to crumble in order to give way to the new. And so we are holding the vision for what we want.

And everyone will hold hands and collectively and individually hold the vision of what their most beautiful life and world could look like, what your utopia could look like, what your heaven on earth could look like.

And I bet even if we're all doing that individually, that if we all talked about what we thought about or held in our hearts and in our bodies, that we would have a lot of similarities and commonalities between all of us and what we are seeking.

So we are here to hold each other, to be there with each other in community and to move through the things that need to be released so that we can then hold the vision of tomorrow and to feel joy and pleasure.

And once we're able to get to that place of feeling a sense of belonging, feeling like we have moved through the sticky parts and are able to hold a vision, then we get to move out into the world again in a place of love. We get to walk as love out into the rest of the world and back into our lives.

So if this is something that is like yes, this is a big, big yes for me, something that I really want and need, please come join us. The link will be down in the description below.

And I just really am looking forward to seeing and being a part of everyone's journey that wants to be a part of that circle. Okay, let's jump in.

So I'm going to start us out at the beginning of my story around working with the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine energies this month. So I am doing my priestess training all year this year. And each month we work with a different archetype.

And this moon cycles archetype is the lady of Communion.

And the lady of Communion is many things, but one of her main objectives is bringing both the Divine Feminine and Divine Masculine energies into sacred union, into harmony within each other. And I wanna remind everyone that these are not gendered energies. We all have masculine and feminine energy within us.

We are all created from a sperm and an egg and they come together in sacred union to create a human being. And I think there are many different ways of seeing the sacred union actually within Our bodies.

There's a part in our brain called the hall of Brahman that is actually the marriage center between two different parts of our brains. There are so many blueprints of this sacred union within our bodies.

So knowing that we all have masculine and feminine energy within us is really, really important. And knowing that we are all a product, again, we are all part of a collective consciousness and a oneness with each other.

We are not accepting the lie anymore of separation. And we know deeply that we are all interconnected and interwoven.

And so when we are part of the collective, that means we all have the blueprints of what has been happening in the collective consciousness and our world that is being unveiled for us as well.

As much as none of us want to claim any of what is happening as something that we could have taken part in or had some form of it within us, or that we were part of the structure and the societal framework or tapestry that created this underground terror that is happening and is now being brought into the light. We all have that blueprint.

We all have that collective trauma that we have been cycling through over and over and over again that is finally rearing its most ugly head, like the worst of the possible worst is finally coming to the surface, because it needs to. Because, again, it needs to crumble. So knowing that we all have feminine, masculine in us is important.

And knowing that we are all part of the collective is important. In working with the lady of Communion, we do two big temple ceremonies every moon cycle with the archetype.

And the last one that I did this week, we really went in and understood the masculine, which is the gold frequency. Every archetype has a color frequency. And this archetype has two.

It has the gold frequency, that is the masculine, and the emerald green frequency, that is the feminine.

And we talk about how it is a mirror for the feminine of the earth, the earth being the emerald green of all the plants and beautiful creation that is green and lush and rich.

And then the golden coming from the sun, the golden sun that is there to shine light on creation and help it grow, that creation cannot grow without the sun. And so both of these energies come together to create the world that we see.

And when I was going through this journey for myself, I was having a really hard time actually connecting to the masculine for myself. I had a really hard time understanding, like, what. What does it mean for me to have masculine energy within me?

And I know, like, the outward appearance of this energy, whenever I judge myself or judge someone else, whenever I compare myself to Someone else.

Whenever I go against what my body is saying that I need in the moment just to push through and keep doing, whenever I again, like, overwork myself, try to cram too much into my week, and again, don't let my body rest in the way that it needs to. All of those are the masculine showing up. All of those are the wounded masculine, the patriarchal masculine that is showing up for me.

But I was having a really hard time understanding, like, who is this masculine? I am so connected to my divine feminine. And especially being somebody that is trying to empower women and help them reclaim their feminine self.

And I have been doing a version of this work.

I didn't realize that it was me reclaiming the feminine when I was a teenager, but I've always been somebody that was really for women being able to be full and whole and powerful in themselves. And I started unlearning a lot of patriarchal conditioning from a very young age.

And so I think it's hard for me to really sit in the masculine energy within myself.

I, like, know what it looks like for this energy to be something that is causing harm to me, but I don't know what it looks like for the divine masculine to really be in right relationship to my rising feminine that is so vibrant and so wild and wants to be expressed in so many different ways and is also, like, struggling against still this patriarchal conditioning, this wounded masculine that we've all been taught to express. So I really had to sit with myself at the end of my ceremony and think about, like, how.

How do I start to understand the masculine and how do I get the masculine to move from wounded warrior to divine masculine that is holding safety and love for the feminine. And so I really had to understand and move through different parts of what this could look like.

And I have not completed this journey at all for myself yet.

But I wrote down the specific steps and the blueprint that I thought I would need personally to be able to move into sacred harmony and sacred union between the divine feminine and divine masculine. And a few more things about both of these energies that I want to mention before I move into the blueprint.

Both of these energies have a wounded space. I've been definitely describing the wounded masculine. We know what that looks like out in the world.

But I want you to know that the wounded masculine comes from the deep fear of not being enough. Somewhere down our historical line, thousands of years ago, the seed was planted that the masculine was not enough.

And whether it's around envy of a womb and not being able to fully, like, create in the way that the feminine can, or they just lost their way. I'm not fully certain of what the origin is, but there is a deep, deep, deep wound of not feeling enough.

And it creates this fear, a fear of not being enough. And our entire societal framework has been built around this fear of not being enough.

It creates control and, like, power over dynamics, because that's what feels safe. And it's interesting thinking about this because I think this is what comes up in all of us, too.

So many women also have this fear of not being enough, myself included. And I always equated that with the feminine, But I think that's actually the masculine.

That's actually the masculine wound of not feeling like we are enough, not being enough.

And so when we try to take control of a situation and make it so that we think, you know, if I do X, Y, Z, then I'm going to get this output because I am controlling everything in this situation. It helps us feel a sense of safety and a sense of purpose.

That is actually a falsehood that actually we don't have as much control over as we think that we do, because the divine feminine is still there. The universe is still there.

There is so much that our human brains right now cannot comprehend about how the universe works and how synchronistic moments happen in our lives. We are not as in control of everything as we think that we are.

And yet we really feel like we need to control in order to feel safe and in order to feel enough and, you know, taking power and control over other people or over creation itself, over Mother Earth herself. I have seen so much of this through just everything that I have known growing up to the way that we garden. Now we're in the time of spring.

I am really just at the very beginning of trying to understand how to garden. But I really want to learn how to do it in a regenerative and organic and, you know, like, sustainable way.

And I've noticed that the way that my mother and my grandmother learned to be in relationship to the earth and to their garden was to control it, was to make it look pretty, to make sure that nothing is out of place and to, you know, control it with the chemicals that we have to try to go against what nature actually wants and needs and to instill our own belief of what it should be. And, you know, nature is not. It's not perfect. It's not meant to be perfectly manicured. That's not what the Earth is meant to do.

So there's so many through threads of what it looks like to take power and control over ourselves, over each other, over the earth, that are the. Through lines of this deep seated fear that the masculine does not feel enough.

On the other side of that, because we have been so inundated with the masculine in a patriarchal structure and society, and because the feminine was completely ripped away from us during the time of Constantine and really this like, want to take over and control humanity really through a patriarchal structure, the divine feminine was completely erased through killing of thousands, if not millions of women.

And we most commonly know this through what we call the witch trials and the witch hunts that happened all over Europe and then happened in America once people came into America.

And because we have been so disconnected from the feminine, I think the feminine has also been wounded in how we have tried to express her in today's society. So the wounded feminine, her core wound or her core fear is being too much. So the masculine not enough. The feminine is too much.

We don't want to feel like we're too much. We're so afraid of our power.

We're so afraid of all of the things that make the feminine feminine because they've been demonized by the patriarchal structure.

They've been told to us that they don't matter, that they're frivolous, that they're soft, that they don't hold a candle or stand the test of time in the societal structure that we've built anything feminine. And, you know, we have raised men or boys to men in this way of we don't raise them to be masculine men, we raise them to not be feminine.

And we demonize anything that is feminine. And, you know, also LGBTQIA plus gets lumped into feminine as well. So it's. You can't be any of that.

And then anything that's left over is masculine instead of really understanding the masculine.

And it may be just understanding this for the first time as I'm talking about this, but maybe that's why it's so hard to understand what the masculine is. Because the masculine has just always been taught to us as not this instead of here is what the masculine actually is.

The masculine is kind of a ghost, it's kind of a empty hole. And it makes sense of why they don't feel or why the masculine energy doesn't feel enough.

The wounded masculine doesn't feel like it's enough because the structure it's supposed to hold is not really there. So knowing that and understanding that is really important. So the wounded feminine is also Something we are very familiar with.

It's that people pleaser, it's the over giving, it's the not having very healthy boundaries around ourselves. It's the self doubt and again the fear of our own power. It's really being in a state of victimhood sometimes.

And again, that's not saying that like, you know, in the age of Epstein, there are real people that have been victimized and are now survivors. So I'm not saying that, but playing like I am, you know, basically the damsel that needs to be saved, that type of victimhood.

So again, all these traits that we are trying to unlearn from patriarchal conditioning have created the wounded feminine as well. And so what we are trying to get to is the divine feminine and divine masculine.

And I've talked about this before in other episodes, but I'll say it again. The way that I like to define the divine feminine and divine masculine is like a campfire.

So I think of the masculine as the stone or brick, a ring that goes around the fire. It's grounded, it's from the earth. It creates a safe container and it comes alongside of the feminine.

It's not there to go above and put out the fire. It's there to hold the container so that the fire does not spread to everything that we don't want to be burned.

It holds the container of safety from a very grounded and like sword in the spine understanding of who you are. So if we know that the wounded masculines main wound or fear is not being enough, the divine masculine really knows that it is enough.

It knows its purpose, it knows who it is and why it's there and how it fits into the beautiful, you know, weaving and tapestry of all of creation. It has an important, important job. And it is not afraid of the feminine being her full true self either.

So it is very grounded, very rooted and very present, very present in the moment. Able to hold the safe container. Now the feminine is the flame.

I always think of my feminine as like this swirly twirly dancer because I love to dance and I love to sing and she likes to run free and frolic in the woods. She, you know, is very connected to nature. Again, Mother Earth. The divine feminine is all of creation. She is the womb that we all come from.

And so she is just pure like potential energy that is bringing all of creation through her into our reality. But she can't do it without the safety and the holding of the masculine.

And there are also some other masculine archetypes like Saturn, that are the ones that are like bringing it into form.

So sometimes I hear the divine feminine and divine masculine talked about in terms of, like, the divine feminine is this potential energy that is the creation. But then the masculine is what's helping her, like, focus that energy and bring it into actual form and 3D version of what it is.

So you can dance with that in a few different ways. But again, like, she is pure potential energy. She is creation in its most pure form. She is the womb that all of creation is birthed from.

And both of these have to dance together. Neither one can be fully themselves without the other.

And yet they hold each other in love and harmony and take sacred vows to make sure that each one is being held in wholeness and love. So now that we understand that, I will share with you the blueprint. That is for me.

But as I went through it, I really felt like this is what we need in society.

If we could take every individual and like all of our systems collectively and move through these steps, I think we would be creating the world that we want. We would, or I don't think we would be creating it. I think we would have it.

This would be the creation process, and I think we would have it at the end. So I'm gonna be reading from my journal.

So I was having a hard time again, really feeling into the masculine, really understanding who is my masculine. So I think that's the starting point that we all need is to really understand what is my relationship to the masculine within me?

And it doesn't matter what gender person you are. We can all ask that question, what is my relationship to the masculine within me? Who is my masculine? What have they been through? What is he seen?

What are the wounds that he is carrying and what love and acceptance is he seeking?

Really trying to understand for ourselves, like, who is this masculine that is within us, that I don't think a lot of us, especially, at least from my perspective, women have even really thought of. And I would say also. I would say men also don't know who their masculine is. They only know their wounded masculine.

And I think a lot of them have not done any introspection of, like, what even is my connection or relationship to masculinity in itself, which is more like patriarchal construct. But even thinking about, like, who is my masculine? Who is it? When I think of my feminine, I. I have her story because it feels like my story.

I know her story. I know her desires, I know her wants, I know her needs. I. I know her, but I. I really don't know my Masculine.

So that's the first step is like getting to know your masculine, getting to know our masculine. What? What is it? And it's. It's gonna be a wounded masculine for sure.

But once we get to understand the wounded masculine, then we can think into what would it be like to have it be divine? Like, who would my divine masculine be?

So really understanding our masculine is step one, then once we have really understood our wounded masculine again, I felt like I needed the wounded masculine to let down his armor, to drop his sword, to stop feeling the need for control.

And I think that comes with again, understanding who he is and meeting him where he's at and bringing some of the feminine to him of love and compassion and trying to help him understand that he doesn't have to be ruled by this fear and control anymore.

So getting him to drop his armor, getting him to drop his sword and make way for the divine masculine, letting him really, again, transform and alchemize into the divine masculine. And then learning like, who is the divine masculine and what does he look like, what is his story, what does he want and need?

Once I feel like the wounded masculine has given way for the divine masculine and is open and has an open heart again, then I want there to be some contrition and some remorse to the divine feminine. The wounded masculine for me, in my body needs to.

Once his armor is down, once he's not gonna be defensive, once he's not gonna try to control something, needs to understand how he has wounded the feminine and to really bring some contrition to it, to say I am sorry and to really, like, fully understand, deep in the core of the wounded masculine, how the control and how his fear has harmed the divine feminine. So that needs to happen.

I feel like for me, at least, I've unpacked my wounded feminine enough to be open to the wounded masculine and be open to the divine masculine and to have, like, understood how she has taken part in the patriarchal structure as well, because that's also an important piece. Like, we are co creating this together.

And so personally, I feel like I have done that work to understand how the wounded feminine in me has taken part in our patriarchal structure. I'm sure I could still do more work around that. But I have empathy for where the wounded masculine is at.

Doesn't mean I don't still have rage around it, but I have empathy around how the wounded masculine got to where it is and wanting to be in relationship to the divine masculine again.

If that is not a journey that you have Taken yet to really unpack your wounded feminine and get her to a point where she could also bring contrition and empathy to the wounded masculine. That would also be a step.

So for me, though, it was, I need to bring to the Divine Feminine the understanding from the wounded Masculine that he has done harm and that he is sorry for that harm. And then I need her to be able to forgive him.

That I need, I want the Divine Feminine again to have enough empathy for the wounded Masculine that she is willing to forgive.

She is willing to hear and understand and forgive the apology that he has to her so that we can move on and allow the wounded Masculine to finally dissipate and crumble and bring the Divine Masculine forward.

And the final piece of this before they can come into harmony, I think, is then the Divine Masculine coming forward and really showing the Divine Feminine again that he's going to hold safety. He is going to hold that safety and make sure that he is always protecting life.

And that just means that we are not making decisions from scarcity, from fear, from control, that at all costs we are making decisions based on what is best for humanity, what is best for all energy and all souls in all of creation. So the Divine Masculine really needs to show that he is trustworthy to the Divine Feminine so that she can finally, like, let go.

Because that might be like a wounded feminine finally coming back into Divine Feminine, like, let go of the hypervigilance and the trauma that she has endured and so that she can come to a place where she can receive the Divine Masculine and not have a barrier up that a lot of us have, like, worked in this place of reclaiming the feminine. But we have not even touched the masculine. And we still have a lot of anger and hate and resentment around what has been done to us.

That does not mean that we hate men, just that we hate the structure. And again, the wounded Masculine that has overtaken everything. There's so much rage and anger and saying absolutely no more.

But it creates a barrier between us and the Divine Masculine being able to actually fully receive the safety and the love and the protection and the container that the Divine Masculine is there to hold. So he needs to show up, he needs to say, I am trustworthy, I am love, I know who I am, and I am here to be by your side.

And when that happens, and then the Divine Feminine can, can receive that, then they can come into union, then they can come into union within all of us and within again as within. So without in our collective.

And I really picture them like holding hands and putting one hand on each other's hearts and really like feeling embodiment around who each other are and how we can move and dance together in harmony. So that's my blueprint for how we weave the feminine, the divine feminine and divine masculine back into what it means to be human.

And again, I think if we are able to do this in ourselves and work on this in our collective, in couples work, this is going to be the new paradigm. This is going to be what leads us to seeing and really like birthing new earth and new human together. All of what I'm doing has this as a pillar.

The walk is Love Temple that I am working on and creating in the background.

I'm really excited of putting together my sales page and putting together the membership so I hope to be able to start getting it out into the world in the next like handful of weeks to a month. But that is one of the central pillars. So again, if any of this is resonating with you, please stay in my orbit. Please join my newsletter.

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I promise you it's coming. I'm very excited and know that this is the foundation of where we need to go. So I love you all so much.

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