Anything that gets kids reading deserves an A+. Maria Dismondy decided to roll the dice, leaving behind her secure teaching job for the world of being a writer. And it has paid off for her in spades. Not only selling thousands of copies of her books but also spreading a positive message to over 20,000 students. Her latest book, Buddy the Bucket Filler, is now for sale.
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I don't know if it was so important to getting people to
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:buy my book, but it was getting the
message of the book into the world.
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:If you look at the current society
and things that you'd like to change.
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:I think one way you can do that
is by educating youth and gearing
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:them in a different direction.
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:that is one of the biggest advantages is
helping our youth do something different.
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:So you don't see what we're seeing.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Hello everyone and
welcome back to Total Michigan, where
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:we interview ordinary Michiganders
doing some pretty extraordinary things.
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:I'm your host, Cliff DuVernois.
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:And this introduction is
going to take me a minute.
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:So just sit back and relax.
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:We got an award winning author
with us today of 11 books, and you
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:probably know some of the books.
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:Some of our early ones, actually a
"Juice Box Bully, Empowering Kids
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:to Stand up to Others", as well
as "Spaghetti in a Hot Dog Bun".
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:Which makes me just want to try that.
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:Okay.
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:Having the courage to be who you are.
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:And of course she's here talking about her
latest book, "Buddy, the Bucket Filler".
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:And she's been featured in the
Detroit free press NPR, Fox News,
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:Time, and the list goes on and on.
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:She owns her own publishing company.
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:And if she wasn't busy enough
with her husband and kids.
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:She's running a non profit.
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:Ladies and gentlemen, please
welcome to the show, Maria Dismondy.
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:Maria, how are you?
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:Maria Dismondy: Great.
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:Thanks for having me.
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:That was really fun.
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:And if I was having a bad day, I would
just need you to say that one more time.
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:Cliff Duvernois: I'll have this
on audio so you can listen to
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:it as many times as you want.
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:Bad day play.
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:Yes, exactly.
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:All right, let's talk about you.
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:What do you want to know?
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:Where are you from?
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:Where did you grow up?
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:Maria Dismondy: I grew up in
Michigan in Canton, Michigan.
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:Okay.
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:And then I went to
Michigan State University.
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:And, then now I'm in Novi.
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:Cliff Duvernois: So what did you
study when you went to Michigan State?
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:Maria Dismondy: Elementary education
and English as a double major.
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:And I thought I was going to be
a teacher for my entire life.
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:Cliff Duvernois: What made you think
you were going to be a teacher?
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:Maria Dismondy: because I played teacher.
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:My, all the time when I
was little and I loved it.
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:Cliff Duvernois:
Everybody's playing house.
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:You're playing school.
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:Maria Dismondy: I was playing
school and I loved it.
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:And I loved children.
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:And I thought that you went to
school and you became something.
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:And that's what you did
for the rest of your life.
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:Cliff Duvernois: So
you get out of college.
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:Now, did you actually become a teacher?
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:Maria Dismondy: I did and I loved it.
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:So I taught for 11 years and
that's where I went on the journey
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:of writing a children's book
was when I was in the classroom.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Oh, interesting.
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:Okay.
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:Now, had it always been your
thought to write a book?
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:Maria Dismondy: No, no.
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:Apparently I don't have plans.
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:They just Come to me.
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:Come to me!
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:No, I, I taught in Plymouth, Canton
and my classroom was super diverse.
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:I had a lot of, Indian American students.
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:They were so kind.
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:Their families invited me
to their home for dinners.
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:They gifted me saris,
these beautiful gowns.
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:They would send in food with
their children to give to me.
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:I mean, there were just
these amazing humans.
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:And so I always, when I chose books
to read to my students, I wanted
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:to make sure I was representing
the whole picture of my classroom.
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:And it was really difficult in the
year:
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:A lot of books that talked about courage
and these character traits featured
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:teddy bears and dinosaurs and cats.
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:There wasn't a lot of
realistic fiction at the time.
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:And I thought, huh, maybe I should
write a book that talks about courage
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:and is from the perspective of a real
human child and has a diverse classroom.
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:And so that's what I did.
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:Cliff Duvernois: So your first
book, "Spaghetti in a Hot Dog Bun".
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:So I got to ask the question
because I was reading up on
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:"Spaghetti in a Hot Dog Bun".
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:Is that semi autobiographical?
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:Maria Dismondy: Semi.
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:Yes.
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:it, this is my hair and we're
at the end of summer right now.
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:It's huge.
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:And yes, I was teased for my big hair.
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:I was teased for the weird foods
that I ate, which I still do.
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:yeah, it really, it, it sparked
the inspiration for the story.
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:It really did.
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:I was teased for who I was and I tried to
change to, make other people like me and
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:that didn't work because I am who I am.
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:and so yeah, that's where the story
was inspired from, definitely.
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:And my mom really did give me
"Spaghetti in a Hot Dog Bun"
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:for lunch and I loved it.
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:and she had to duplicate it, but the
reason she gave it to me initially
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:was because she didn't have any bread.
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:So she thought, okay, well, I'll
put my leftover "Spaghetti in a
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:Hot Dog Bun" and she'll eat it.
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:So quirky.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Oh, I love that.
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:So you've had the idea for
"Spaghetti in a Hot Dog Bun".
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:You put it together in a book.
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:Sales take off.
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:You have gotten a lot of
love for this book online.
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:I checked Amazon and it's like 2,
900 plus four and five star reviews.
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:Maria Dismondy: Yeah, it might be around.
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:Yeah, something like that.
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:Yeah, it's interesting.
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:I think teachers and families
just connected with the character
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:because she is in this situation
where someone's being unkind to her.
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:And then that person needs help.
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:And she knows the right
thing to do is to help him.
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:So I think people can connect with that.
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:And again, like I said, in 2006,
when I wrote it,:
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:was released, there weren't a
lot of realistic fiction books.
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:So it made a name for itself.
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:And even today, after writing 11 books,
I don't think it's the most well done
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:book of mine by any means, but it's
still selling more than any other title.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Were you really
prepared for the reception
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:that you got from this book?
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:Maria Dismondy: No, I was not and
My dad was mad that I quit teaching,
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:that I resigned from teaching.
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:Because he said how are you
gonna have health insurance?
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:And I said, I'll figure it out But I
started to realize gosh I can write
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:and speak at schools and I can make an
income that is very close to what I was
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:making as a teacher and do less work.
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:And at the time we were starting
a family and so I just took
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:the risk which It's a big risk.
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:And, my husband believed in me.
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:So that was, helpful.
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:We were living in a one
bedroom home at the time.
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:And, I found out I was pregnant right
when the book was about to come out.
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:So it was a big risk to do
this and to leave that income.
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:But we did it.
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:Cliff Duvernois: And you talked
before about speaking engagements.
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:And I know that you've been to a lot
of schools talking about your book.
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:How important was that to
getting people to buy your book?
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:Maria Dismondy: I don't know if it
was so important to getting people to
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:buy my book, but it was getting the
message of the book into the world.
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:That was my goal and I'm not really
sure how people bought the book.
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:Maybe they heard about
it from their friends.
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:We have surveyed people and word of
mouth has always been our number one
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:answer on how people find our books.
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:But, right before COVID, I had a
really busy, lineup the year before.
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:And I think it was in four weeks,
I was in front of almost like 15 to
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:20, 000 children speaking in schools
with the message of these books.
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:So that to me is Whoa, I know the world
is really big and people get overwhelmed.
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:What can I do to make a difference?
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:But I really felt the needle moving
when I was going into schools.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Yeah, if you're talking
in front of 20, 000 people, that's a lot.
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:Maria Dismondy: And little people like
little friends who are growing up and who
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:are going to be our leaders and they're
going to be raising other humans and
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:they're going to be shaping our world.
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:So it just felt really important
to me and I love my job.
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:Cliff Duvernois: When did you start
doing the speaking engagements?
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:Maria Dismondy: First book in 2008.
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:I started doing the speaking
engagements in:
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:Cliff Duvernois: And where
did the idea come from?
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:For doing speaking engagements come from?
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:Maria Dismondy: Being a teacher.
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:yeah.
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:So I had been a teacher sitting in
the room when authors had come in.
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:I was part of helping to find authors.
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:And I saw the crazy prices
that we were paying.
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:And, I thought, I could do this
for a lot less because I'm not as
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:experienced, but I can totally do this.
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:Cliff Duvernois: And what was
it like going out and giving
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:that first presentation?
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:Maria Dismondy: it was scary,
but I'm not afraid of risk.
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:I got the adrenaline going and everything.
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:But, I think the hardest part
is I like to get feedback.
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:And so I have to like mentally prepare
myself for constructive feedback.
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:But that's what really helped me to become
the speaker I am today is from those
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:teachers giving that feedback to me.
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:Cliff Duvernois: And so you've got
Spaghetti in a Bun out there, and you've
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:got 10 other books that are out there.
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:You've reached, you've
released the, what was it?
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:The pink tiara?
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:Maria Dismondy: Yeah, Pink Tiara
Cookies for three, a lot of them
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:are from my personal experiences.
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:So I grew up in a neighborhood
and it was the three of us.
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:There was three friends.
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:And one always felt left out and it seems
as though, I have my own children now, it
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:seems as though I can see that threesome
is like a, is a tricky, it's a triangle.
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:So I guess I take my own personal
experiences and put them into
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:these realistic fiction stories.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Where
do you say to yourself?
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:Hey, I think this would
be a good idea for a book.
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:Maria Dismondy: I actually do my research.
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:And I look to see if there's
anything like it out there.
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:And I make sure that if there
is, I'm doing it differently.
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:And really the goal is that there
isn't anything out there like that.
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:And that's when you release it,
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:Cliff Duvernois: And between all these
books and the speaking engagements
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:that you're doing, just a ballpark
number, how many of these speaking
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:engagements do you think you've done
over the last, what, 15, 16 years?
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:Maria Dismondy: Yeah.
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:I'm not sure what the answer is.
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:But, if you take 10 years and
I was doing about 60 a year.
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:Whoa.
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:Yeah.
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:That's a lot.
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:It was really tiring too.
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:I actually, I got to the point
where I was like, Ooh, I'm tired.
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:This is tiring.
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:And, I said I wasn't
going to do them again.
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:And so I, it's been about two or three
years that I've done speaking like
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:in school speaking engagements, but
I recently got an offer for a school
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:that was two miles from my house.
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:And I said, how can I turn this down?
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:So I'm back in it.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Yeah.
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:Very short commute there.
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:I'm back.
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:And on top of all of this, as you're
going about and releasing these books.
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:At some point, you decided to
start a publishing company.
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:Maria Dismondy: Yes,
again, not in the plan.
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:So I hope people are
hearing the theme in this.
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:don't plan out your life because, you can
have these awesome detours that you go
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:down and they take you to great places.
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:yeah, I really.
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:I was getting tired of the limelight.
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:me, me, me, me, me, like
that's not who I am.
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:so I thought, what if I could teach
others and give this gift to others?
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:And so I started Cardinal Rule Press.
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:I don't, I think the year.
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:I'm not going to be able
to give you the year.
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:Maybe 2015, 2016.
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:And people submit their manuscripts
to us and we have a team of
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:individuals who look through them.
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:And we decide what we're going to publish.
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:And so it's really great because
I'm allowing other people to use
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:their voices and experiences and
get those messages into the world.
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:Cliff Duvernois: And your latest
book, Buddy the Bucket Filler.
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:So talk to us a little bit about that.
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:Maria Dismondy: Yeah.
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:So again, I was walking, the dogs,
we have two dogs, and, I was telling
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:my husband about a mentor friend of
mine and, she was a publisher as well.
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:And she had called me about some
technical issues she was having.
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:And we were talking and she just
said how she was tired and she
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:was thinking about retiring.
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:And she wasn't sure what to do
with her publishing business.
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:So I'm telling this story to my husband.
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:Husband as we're just walking.
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:And he said, you should buy it.
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:And I was like, I don't have enough
money to buy a publishing company, . And
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:he's you don't pay for all at once,
you take out a loan, you buy it.
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:So I bought it.
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:So I bought her company.
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:So the bucket filler books
are, from Carol McLeod.
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:She used to live in Michigan
and now she lives in Florida.
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:And so in July of last
year, I bought her company.
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:She retired.
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:And she said, you know what?
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:I think we should do a book together.
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:And so that's where this book was born.
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:Cliff Duvernois: And what's
the idea behind the book?
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:Maria Dismondy: Yeah, so bucket
filling is the idea that Carol,
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:got many years ago at a conference.
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:She was inspired that we all walk
around with these invisible buckets.
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:So I actually want to turn to the page
that shows you what kind of You want to
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:imagine as you're going through life.
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:So here we are.
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:We're at a restaurant.
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:You can see all these invisible buckets.
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:So everyone has this invisible
bucket and there's hearts and
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:stars when you're feeling good.
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:You've got good thoughts and feelings.
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:And sometimes your bucket is empty
and that's when you don't have
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:those good thoughts and feelings.
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:So the whole concept around bucket
filling is that when you do and say
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:nice things to others and to yourself,
you're filling your bucket and it's full.
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:So it's a visual for children.
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:And when you're not kind to others, you're
dipping into their bucket, and you're
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:taking those things away from someone.
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:And if you're not kind to yourself,
you're taking things away from yourself.
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:And then there's also a lid, you
can put a lid, those are like the
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:boundaries we can set for ourselves
and we can help others to set as well.
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:Carol, her and I both published
our first books around the same
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:time from the same publisher.
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:So we have known each other for years.
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:And the bucket filling concept went crazy.
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:And, her books alone have
sold 3 million copies.
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:Nice.
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:Yes.
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:And so that's where we, she said, I want
to write a book with bucket filling.
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:And I said, you've never written
a realistic fiction book.
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:So let's combine my craft
with yours on bucket filling.
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:And that's where this book came in.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Absolutely.
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:And welcome back to Total Michigan,
where we interview ordinary Michiganders
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:I am your host Cliff Duvernois.
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:Today, we're chatting
with award winning author.
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:Maria Dismondy.
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out to the people at Charlin' Used
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:Maria, so before the break, we were
talking about Buddy the Bucket Filler.
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:and, you were actually telling me some
interesting facts actually about the
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:book, and I want to make sure that
we capture those for the audience.
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:So, if you would...
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:Share with us those facts.
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:Maria Dismondy: Yes, I think it's
important to note that the book is
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:actually set on a cherry farm in Michigan.
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:So both the author and I, Carol and I both
grew up in Michigan and live in Michigan.
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:Well lived for her.
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:And yeah, so we thought it was
really important to bring a
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:part of Michigan into the story.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Now, is this
bringing Michigan into your stories?
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:Is this something unique to this
book, or has it been a theme
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:throughout your other books as well?
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:Maria Dismondy: No, it actually
is unique to this book.
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:And, as authors, we like to add what we
call an author's wink into our stories.
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:It's something special.
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:So actually, my dogs are in this story.
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:And if you purchase or go to the
library and get "Spaghetti in a Hot
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:Dog Bun", there's a cardinal that's
hidden on almost all the pages.
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:So those are author winks.
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:A couple secrets to
share with your audience.
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:Ooh.
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:And what does the Cardinal stand for?
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:traditionally a Cardinal is a, reminder
of someone that you lost and, yeah.
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:And so I always loved Cardinal.
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:So I put it in my first book and
I named him a company after them.
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:Cliff Duvernois: And if you didn't
have enough on your plate already,
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:here we go with the nonprofit.
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:Talk to us.
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:What is the nonprofit?
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:What is it about?
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:Maria Dismondy: many years ago,
my girlfriend and I met Keys.
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:We started Making Spirits
Bright, and we just knew that
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:we were blessed in our lives.
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:And we wanted to do something for others.
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:And then life we worked on
it for a couple of years.
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:Life took off took over.
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:We put it aside.
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:And so more recently, I
just said, you know what?
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:I want to bring this back, but
I want it focused on books.
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:So Making Spirits Bright is a
non profit here in Michigan.
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:And we are dedicated to getting
books into the hands of children
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:who don't have access to stories.
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:A lot of times you hear
them called book deserts.
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:so we're trying to Go into those deserts
where they don't have books and fill them.
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:And we're right now, I, we're
partnering with some really cool
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:partners in Detroit, two different
partners that I can't mention yet.
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:But if you check out non, our nonprofit,
you'll find out soon, but we are doing
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:book donations, book drives, we're
getting books and we're sorting them.
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:And we're don't, we're distributing
them and it's really great.
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:Cliff Duvernois: So you
just give away the books.
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:Maria Dismondy: Yes, and I'm hoping that
we can also provide tutoring with that.
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:So I'm just in the beginning
phases of redeveloping it, and it
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:literally keeps me up at night.
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:And I can't stop thinking
about it, and it's joyful.
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:So you said You said something,
around the fact that as if you
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:didn't have enough on your plate.
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:I, I thrive on these things.
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:And they bring me such joy.
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:It's not, it doesn't feel like work.
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:And so you talked about, the
whole podcast is about, and the
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:whole show is about ordinary
people doing extraordinary things.
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:Like these people aren't doing
them to be extraordinary.
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:They're doing them because
they, they feel this joy.
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:Doing these things certainly.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Yeah, and that's
actually the next question that I
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:want to ask is because you do have
a lot on your plate Yes between
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:writing books, publishing books, your
nonprofit, you've got three kids,
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:Maria Dismondy: three kids, two
dogs, a husband, who's awesome.
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:Yeah, but I have a team.
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:I've built a business with a team.
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:And so I'm not alone.
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:And volunteers with the nonprofit.
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:And, a focus, right?
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:So I've core values and anything that
kind of is outside of those core values.
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:It's easy to say no.
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:Cliff Duvernois: So then how did you
go about putting your team together?
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:Maria Dismondy: slowly but surely, I,
the first distributor that I worked
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:with said, tell me about your team.
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:And I said, there isn't a team.
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:And they said, you can't
be doing this by yourself.
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:And I said, Oh, I am.
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:And at that point when I got off
the phone, I was like, maybe I
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:shouldn't be doing this myself.
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:So I started with a virtual assistant.
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:And then it just grew from there.
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:But everyone that I work with is remote.
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:We have some interns from U of M,
Michigan State, Ohio State right now.
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:and our team, no one on
our team is full time.
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:So everyone is doing what brings
them joy with Cardinal Rule Press.
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are also running side gigs too.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Got you and
how has your experience with the
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good Yeah communication.
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where you're meeting on Zoom.
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it works for me as a mom because
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that typically comes up, especially
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starting to understand now how your
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is when you first get that first
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to when you're doing everything
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you're bringing somebody in.
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I know that there's a key difference
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that are at U of M and Ohio state.
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:Maria Dismondy: No, I have some
out of the country as well.
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I had a friend who was already
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she's a loving, caring person.
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to be a business owner.
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:I've made so many ridiculous mistakes.
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and they do make mistakes,
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Oh my gosh, they made a mistake.
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when people make mistakes, it's okay.
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that haven't worked out.
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to learn all these things through
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supposed to be a business owner?
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and trying, trial and error.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Hey,
experience is a great teacher.
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:When you're going out and getting your
first VA, the lady that you hired from the
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the responsibilities that you gave her?
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:Maria Dismondy: Areas
that were my weaknesses.
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I really didn't have in my wheelhouse.
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keeping my strengths with me.
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of the other jobs and tasks that
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author, spreadsheets doesn't come up.
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if authors want their books
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mentors along the way who've taught
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hobby, that's wonderful, but you might
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these amazing people I'm looking at
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:Cliff Duvernois: Oh, that, that could
be a whole other podcast right there.
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writing children's books over adult books?
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you're really connecting with our future.
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and things that you'd like to change.
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is by educating youth and gearing
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biggest advantages is helping
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like warm winters in Michigan.
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:And one thing I noticed, too, is that you
chose not to do, not to have a pen name.
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but going back, maybe I would
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me when I'm out in public
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author profile and everything
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:Maria Dismondy: and, or when my son
Googles me, he learned how to Google.
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mom, I Googled you and there's a
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even to protect my children too.
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my kids are not featured anywhere.
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there that I'm still trying to take
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point that I want their digital
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developed by their mom.
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name would have come in handy.
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:Cliff Duvernois: What has been
some of the, most effective
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to, writing books, marketing.
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were talking about it, was word of mouth.
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surveys with our readers.
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:How did you hear about our books?
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:The big question is how do we get
people talking about your books?
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for schools and for teachers.
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our author panels and they hear
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books and people start talking
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:Another way is grassroots
marketing, so social media.
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Facebook ads a few years ago.
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sharing and, trying to get people
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:Cliff Duvernois: And that is one of
the things that I did notice when
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and taking a look at your books.
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you have written below that you have
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given away so the one of them was, I
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:There was a thing called the promise.
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it was something where like a kid would
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not going to be a bully or whatever
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:Maria Dismondy: And classrooms
use it all the time.
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free, because teachers do not want to
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and they do because they're amazing.
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:Cliff Duvernois: It's not only
money, but it's time as well.
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:Maria Dismondy: Money and
time to develop all of this.
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plans around all of our books.
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we have questions for parents and
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child, I can go a little bit deeper.
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questions because they're here for me.
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provide questions to ask before,
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level, questioning with children is huge.
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that we've done that have worked to
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:Cliff Duvernois: I'd also think, too,
that would be a great way for parents
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rather than just read it and say,
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:Maria Dismondy: Yeah, the stories start
to come out when you ask questions.
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with the character?
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can you connect with the character?
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something to me today.
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:Cliff Duvernois: So I'm loving
the creativity for this.
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because I haven't seen that before.
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:Maria Dismondy: This specific idea before,
during and after I did it as a teacher.
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you read to children, you should ask
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:I don't know who, maybe my teachers
at Michigan State University.
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:Cliff Duvernois: but to actually
incorporate that into a book.
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:Maria Dismondy: I don't know.
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Imagination does that.
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:Cliff Duvernois: So I gotta ask,
what is Dolly Parton's Imagination?
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:Maria Dismondy: Dolly Parton has this
book system where she sends a book to
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they're five years old.
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before, during and after.
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page is pretty ugly.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Yeah, it is.
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with Buddy the Bucket Filler.
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:Maria Dismondy: We have some really
great titles coming out next year
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:A story about choice, that's a little
girl and, a military family story.
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great things coming up.
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curate these books by simply saying to
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about foster families because there's not
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books about, what children go through
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looking for these things.
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:Cliff Duvernois: Just the fact that
you have an acquisition editor is a
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:Maria Dismondy: Yes.
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traveling to different trade shows.
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small, it's been scary.
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has been scary and intimidating
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big publishers at these events.
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American Booksellers Association, ALA.
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listening to this interview and they
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check out more, especially all those
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give away with your books as well.
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:Where's the best place
for them to do that?
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in your area, you should always
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:I think supporting these indie
bookstores is really important.
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all those free things on it.
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don't have the money to buy the books.
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libraries are amazing, or you go on
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:Cliff Duvernois: Maria, thank you so much
for taking time out to chat with us today.
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shout out to the people at Charlin's
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for letting us film here today.
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roll on over to total michigan.
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all the links that she mentioned above.
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talk to another Michigander doing
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