Goal setting can be a transformative process, and in this episode, Sara dives deep into the importance of setting both macro and micro goals to achieve your dreams.
She shares her personal journey from resisting goal setting to embracing it with newfound clarity and purpose.
By breaking down big ambitions into actionable steps, Sara emphasizes that consistency and discipline are key to making progress without feeling overwhelmed.
Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own feelings towards goal setting and to approach it with a sense of fun and simplicity.
Join Sara as she provides practical strategies to help you create a clear roadmap for success in the year ahead, all while reminding you that it's never too late to start over and rise to new heights.
Finding clarity in your aspirations is essential for achieving lasting change, and Sara's latest podcast episode dives deep into the art of goal setting with a refreshingly honest perspective.
Sara opens up about her previous struggles with goal setting, characterised by resistance and self-doubt, and how she allowed being a Mum complicated her ability to pursue her ambitions.
However, through reflection and a shift in mindset, she discovered a more empowering way to navigate her goals.
This episode serves as a guide for listeners who may feel overwhelmed or stuck, presenting a dual framework of macro and micro goals that can lead to tangible progress.
Sara also highlights the emotional aspects of goal setting, addressing common fears such as fear of failure and the less-discussed fear of success.
She encourages self-awareness and reflection, helping listeners identify and overcome these mental blocks.
The episode concludes with a powerful reminder: enjoyment and fulfillment should be at the heart of your journey toward your goals. By embracing this mindset, listeners can cultivate a sustainable and enjoyable pursuit of their aspirations, making each step a meaningful part of their growth journey.
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Today we're diving into the powerful topic of goal setting.
Sara Burton:I want to help you set the tone for the year ahead by getting your goal setting right now.
Sara Burton:I've got a confession to make.
Sara Burton:I didn't used to like this.
Sara Burton:I used to have a lot of resistance.
Sara Burton:I used to set big goals and set myself up for failure, for sabotage.
Sara Burton:But things are very, very different now.
Sara Burton:And so I want to share some some of those things that I've worked on.
Sara Burton:We're going to be talking about macro goals and micro goals and how you can create a clear and achievable roadmap so that you can make the things happen that you want.
Sara Burton:Whether you are starting over afresh, whether you are pivoting in a new direction or looking to build on the successes of last year, this episode will give you some actionable strategies to make it happen, happen.
Sara Burton:Welcome to Start over and Rise.
Sara Burton:I'm Sara Burton, your host, and this is the podcast for you.
Sara Burton:If you are ready for fresh starts to reclaim your power and create the life that you truly desire.
Sara Burton:Whether you are navigating a major life change, recovering from a setback, or simply just feeling a bit stuck, or that something is missing, this is your space for inspiration, practical tools and empowering conversations.
Sara Burton:Each week we'll dive into topics that help you step into the person you're meant to be so that you can rise to your new desired heights.
Sara Burton:Because here's the truth.
Sara Burton:It's never too late to make a change and it's never too early to start over with your thinking, with your approach, with your attitude so that you can be, do and have all you want in your life.
Sara Burton:So let's get started.
Sara Burton:Hey gorgeous and Happy New Year.
Sara Burton: Here we are finally in: Sara Burton:I hope you had a really great Christmas and New Year celebrations.
Sara Burton:Now isn't it funny?
Sara Burton:In the run up to Christmas and having that time off, there are so many thoughts that go through our head.
Sara Burton: ing and doing and planning in: Sara Burton:But I don't know about you, today is my first day back and I feel different.
Sara Burton: y stepping into this space of: Sara Burton:I have differing opinions on some of the things that I want to do.
Sara Burton:I've taken some of my goals off the table and I've put some others on the table.
Sara Burton:It's been A very strange and cathartic experience, to be honest.
Sara Burton:I don't know if you've had that, but when it comes to go setting, as I said in the intro there, I've had really mixed feelings about it.
Sara Burton:I know the research, I know from myself that in previous experiences, you know, we've all had them where we've set a goal, we've had full intention to make it happen.
Sara Burton:We've made the plan, we've been motivated, we've been consistent, and we've made it happen.
Sara Burton:But there has been something surrounding goals for me for many, many years, particularly since children and being a family and so on, that I think I finally gotten through it.
Sara Burton:I used to dread it.
Sara Burton:I used to think, you know, I'd be setting goals for my business.
Sara Burton:And in the back of my head, I've now come to realize there were so many things that were stopping me that were enabling me to sabotage them because I didn't actually believe that I could do it, along with raising a family and all that goes with that.
Sara Burton:So with that realization, I think it's really important to break this down because I feel very, very differently about goals now.
Sara Burton:And, you know, all of these episodes are take it or leave it, but have a little think about it.
Sara Burton:How do you actually feel about setting goals?
Sara Burton:Do things come up for you that just make you feel like you're not going to achieve it?
Sara Burton:If that's happening, get self aware, become really conscious of it, journal on it, dive into it, discuss it with friends, get a coach, all of these things.
Sara Burton:Because you might find that you've been setting same goals over and over and over.
Sara Burton:And this podcast is called Start over and Rise.
Sara Burton:It doesn't mean keep doing the same thing over and over again and expect a different result.
Sara Burton:It means start over with your thinking, start over with your approach, because that's the only way you're going to make things different.
Sara Burton:So there's plenty of research out there.
Sara Burton:I mean, do a quick Google.
Sara Burton:But a couple of examples are, you know, Dr.
Sara Burton:Gail Matthews, a psychology professor at the Dominican University of California, says that individuals who write down their goals are 42% likely, more likely, I should say, to achieve them than those who, who don't.
Sara Burton:There are numerous reports that have come out on this kind of thing, you know, the power of writing down the goals.
Sara Burton:A study published in the Journal of Business Venturing found that goal setting can increase productivity by up to 25%.
Sara Burton:These figures are huge.
Sara Burton:Writing them down does something in your brain that really lays that intention down.
Sara Burton:It Starts getting your brain to check out the opportunities around you.
Sara Burton:It helps with motivation and so on.
Sara Burton:So we know that this is an important thing to do.
Sara Burton:And isn't it more fun to actually go into this with awareness around where you might sabotage yourself, how you might hold yourself back and just recognizing when your goals scare you.
Sara Burton:When you set big, big goals, you want them to scare you, you want them to push them, to push you outside of your comfort zone.
Sara Burton:But at the same time, you need that underlying belief that you totally can achieve it.
Sara Burton:You need to have that trust in yourself that you will find a way to do it.
Sara Burton:It is way, way, way more likely, more fun, less overwhelming if you start to take some of those things into account.
Sara Burton:But all of that said, we have to go through that practical process of looking at goal setting and it is essential for your growth.
Sara Burton:There's no way around it.
Sara Burton:If you don't set a goal.
Sara Burton:It's like trying to get into a car and just not knowing where you're going.
Sara Burton:You know, whoever's in the driving seat next to you will decide and you won't be on track for the success that you want.
Sara Burton:So it's essential.
Sara Burton:But the way that we set goals can determine whether we succeed or we stay stuck and stagnant.
Sara Burton:And that's where macro and micro goals come in.
Sara Burton:Now, I.
Sara Burton:This is sort of the technical term for them and I'm going to go into the definition, into a second in a, in a second.
Sara Burton:But I would definitely say that, you know, think of it in terms of what are your dreams, what are your big goals, you know, in terms of like, oh my God, that would just change everything.
Sara Burton:Think of macro goals as your big dreams and your micro goals.
Sara Burton:They are the small, actionable steps.
Sara Burton:They're the things that you have to do over and over again.
Sara Burton:They're the consistency, they're the discipline acts.
Sara Burton:They're all the things that are like the individual bricks that build the building that you want.
Sara Burton:So those macro micro goals are your habits, your routines, your.
Sara Burton:All of those things that keep you moving with little steps forward.
Sara Burton:So your macro goals are your big dreams.
Sara Burton:They're your big picture objectives.
Sara Burton:And think of them as your North Star, the overarching vision of what you want to be achieving.
Sara Burton:So let's have a look at an example.
Sara Burton:The macro goal could be that you want to build a thriving coaching business or that you want to improve your health and fitness.
Sara Burton:I'm going to go into how you need to be more specific and so on about these.
Sara Burton:But the micro Goals are the ones.
Sara Burton:Let's take the fitness one.
Sara Burton:So your micro goals are when you break them down into daily habits, weekly habits, monthly habits.
Sara Burton:So, for example, a micro goal could be you're going to drink 2 liters of water every single day.
Sara Burton:And that is something that you can be conscious of when you get up in the morning, you can decide when you're going to do it, and you can start to make it a habit.
Sara Burton:Another micro goal within that might be that you're going to exercise three times a week.
Sara Burton:Another micro goal might be that one of those is cardio and two of those are weights.
Sara Burton:You break it all down, and by combining your macro and your micro goals, you are not only dreaming big, but you're also setting yourself up for success because you are breaking down everything into actionable steps.
Sara Burton:And let's face it, when we're in overwhelm, you know, say I've got a few clients at the moment who are, you know, saying, right, this is a year that I'm going to lose my weight.
Sara Burton:This is the year that I'm going to give up alcohol and so on.
Sara Burton:And when you've got a lot of weight to lose, for example, it can feel like a mountain.
Sara Burton:Absolute.
Sara Burton:You know, you can think, oh, my goodness, this is going to take me a long, long time.
Sara Burton:But by breaking it down into these little habits very quickly, they will all start to build up.
Sara Burton:So why are both macro and micro goals?
Sara Burton:Why do they matter?
Sara Burton:Why do we need a combination of the two?
Sara Burton:Well, clarity and direction.
Sara Burton:This is something you hear me talk about all the time.
Sara Burton:But macro goals, those big dreams, they give you a clear sense of purpose.
Sara Burton:They give you that North Star that you know where you want to end up.
Sara Burton:They are behind your motivation to keep you going.
Sara Burton:The micro goals keep you grounded, keep you focused on what actually needs to be done, so that you can easily find that discipline that allows you to do those tasks consistently.
Sara Burton:The combination of the two helps you avoid overwhelm.
Sara Burton:Without micro goals, those macro goals can just have you feeling like it's just impossible.
Sara Burton:And I think this is one of the things that people fail on massively.
Sara Burton:You know, there's that saying, you only fail when you give up.
Sara Burton:I've seen it so many times when people set big goals for their businesses, for example, big goals for their business, and by the time they get to February, because they haven't broken it down, because they haven't got a solid plan of all those little micro goals, all those little actions and habits and consistent tasks that need to be done, they can actually give up on it as an idea because they think, well, it's February, it's near March now.
Sara Burton:There's no way I'm going to make that happen.
Sara Burton:And that's really, really sad, right?
Sara Burton:So the combination of the big goal and the little ones is that those little micro actions keep you on track.
Sara Burton:So we want to avoid the overwhelm.
Sara Burton:Keeping us on track means we got to track our progress.
Sara Burton:And micro goals let you measure your progress along the way, and they keep you motivated.
Sara Burton:So as you start to see the winds coming through, then you start to believe and trust that that big goal is actually going to be achieved.
Sara Burton:It starts to feel less overwhelming, more fun, more achievable.
Sara Burton:You're seeing your progress, you're seeing your progression, and so you can actually start to feel that it's going to happen.
Sara Burton:The lovely thing is with micro goals as well, is that you can pivot, you can adjust.
Sara Burton:I was going to say shit happens, but it's true.
Sara Burton:Life happens.
Sara Burton:Shit happens, right?
Sara Burton:And with micro goals, you can adapt without losing sight of your big overall dream, your big goal.
Sara Burton:You know, as they say, there's many ways to skin a cat, there's many ways to pay a mortgage, there's many ways to get to your ultimate goal.
Sara Burton:And if something's not working for you, it's so much easier to switch out the micro goal, switch out the habits, and try something new.
Sara Burton:Start over with the overall goal, but with a new list of actionable tasks.
Sara Burton:Doesn't have to be done in one way only.
Sara Burton:So you don't have to adjust the big goal.
Sara Burton:You can adjust the little goals.
Sara Burton:So thinking of those allows you that privilege to be able to adjust, to course, correct, to pivot a little bit, but you're still heading towards the same goal.
Sara Burton:Now, it's also important to be very specific, and I'm going to put this in here because, man, this has been the game changer for me.
Sara Burton:Tailor it to who you are.
Sara Burton:So be specific about your goals so that you know when you're going to hit them.
Sara Burton:Right?
Sara Burton:For example, instead of saying, I want to grow my business, set a profit or an income goal.
Sara Burton:You know, alternatively figure out how many clients you need to achieve that income.
Sara Burton:You know, if money and numbers doesn't work for you, but satisfied customers, volume of clients that you're able to work with, then set the goal, set the wording around that, because if that motivates you more, then you'd be insane not to use your own language.
Sara Burton:Figure out what is going to work for you and what that success will actually look like, what those goals will look like, and again, do it on a big version, what your big dream is and then you're able to break it down.
Sara Burton:So if you want to run.
Sara Burton:I think I've used this example before, but I've done one 10k and I did one and I didn't enjoy it, if I'm honest.
Sara Burton:I got through it.
Sara Burton:I was so pleased with myself for actually completing it.
Sara Burton:But it made me realize that actually I really like 5Ks and that I don't want to be going on to marathons and so on.
Sara Burton:That's my personal thing.
Sara Burton:But the thing that kept me going was that if I just trained three times a week, if I do X number of hours of running per week, I will get better at it.
Sara Burton:I will be able to finish and complete a 10k, which I did.
Sara Burton:So tailor your goals to fit your personal aspirations, to fit your circumstances, to fit your definitions of what works for you.
Sara Burton:It's as simple as that.
Sara Burton:I think sometimes we are so hung up by what other people are doing or with how we feel we should be doing something or what we feel we should be aiming for.
Sara Burton:There's.
Sara Burton:I was in a conversation yesterday about lifestyle coaching businesses and one of the people that was involved, one of the, one of the people who was involved in the conversation was like, oh, you might as well have a hobby.
Sara Burton:Now my argument is if they want to have a lifestyle business that doesn't really make any money, but that's okay for them, what's wrong with that?
Sara Burton:There's absolutely nothing wrong with that.
Sara Burton:They might like to do lots of pro bono work, they might have different reasons for why they set their business up and so on.
Sara Burton:Whereas you can also have a lifestyle business.
Sara Burton:That is your definition of it's going to fit in with my lifestyle.
Sara Burton:And that might be.
Sara Burton:I'm not actually going to start work until 10am in the morning, but I choose sometimes to work until 9:00 at night.
Sara Burton:It's whatever works for you.
Sara Burton:So be specific and tailor your goals.
Sara Burton:Really understand what it is you want and why you want it.
Sara Burton:Patience and discipline.
Sara Burton:Achieving goals requires both of these.
Sara Burton:And I think this has been something that I've been guilty of.
Sara Burton:You know, if we want to be consistent, we have to be disciplined.
Sara Burton:There is no, no other way of doing it.
Sara Burton:But you've got to understand what discipline means to you.
Sara Burton:Now, for me, if things are fun, if they're simple, if I can feel the purpose in it, I Can be really, really consistent.
Sara Burton:And my three words, if you listen to the previous episode, fun, simple and abundant.
Sara Burton:And everything that I set now needs to be filtered through those three words, you know, and that having patience, mixing this in with patience and discipline is if you know that you just have to be consistent, have the right energy behind it, be enjoying it, not being overwhelmed by it, you will be progressive, you will move forward with your goals.
Sara Burton:That's me.
Sara Burton:Some people will discipline, even if they hate it, they will do it.
Sara Burton:But for me, I'd rather set goals that I know I'm going to have fun, that are simple and that will create abundance for me in, you know, lots of different ways, whether that is energy, fun, money, whatever it is, right?
Sara Burton:So think about your three words and the thing with patience.
Sara Burton:This is something I have very much learned this year because I have been somebody who's like, I want it and I want it now.
Sara Burton:It's just, just a personality trait of mine.
Sara Burton:However, I've come to learn that patience actually works way, way better for me because I can change my ideas very, very quickly.
Sara Burton:So if I now know that, have that self awareness about myself, maybe you are the same is actually my final decision.
Sara Burton:Why don't I allow myself to ping, you know, like a pinball wizard, go around all the different ideas, test out all the different things I want to lean in, get curious about everything that I want to do, but be patient in terms of knowing which one is right for me.
Sara Burton:It's incredible just how different that can make you feel.
Sara Burton:So discipline keeps you showing up every day.
Sara Burton:And you know, whether that is.
Sara Burton:Let's take.
Sara Burton:Oh, gosh, when I was first working and I was in sales, I used to have to hit the phones and I'd have to put in a lot of calls.
Sara Burton:Well, for the first few weeks, oh, my goodness.
Sara Burton:It feels like it's a relentless, pointless task because you're putting out all the calls and nothing's really happening.
Sara Burton:But you are because you're having the conversations, you're moving things forward.
Sara Burton:And then before you know it, a couple of months down the line, sales start coming in and you built that momentum.
Sara Burton:But you need the patience, you need to keep the faith that your chosen strategy is going to work for you.
Sara Burton:So it's the same with going to the gym.
Sara Burton:You can go to the gym.
Sara Burton:If you're starting out and you're going three times a week, it might be weeks before you say, do you know what?
Sara Burton:My energy levels feel higher.
Sara Burton:So that keeps you going again.
Sara Burton:Then you jump on the scales and you're like, oh my gosh, my weight is going down.
Sara Burton:Maybe your appetite is changing.
Sara Burton:It takes time for you to start to see the benefits.
Sara Burton:But oh my goodness, because you put that consistency, because you had that trust that it's going to work, because you had that belief in yourself that if you keep going, you'll see the results, guess what happens, you start to see the results and then bam, you are in.
Sara Burton:And what you've done is you've those little micro goals that you showed discipline with and you did time and time again and you've got that consistency.
Sara Burton:You've created a habit, you've now created something that you got through the worst of it.
Sara Burton:You got started, you got to that level of consistency where you started to see results.
Sara Burton:And too many people, and have done this myself, too many people give up before they get to that stage.
Sara Burton:And that's what we've got to keep in mind with the power of these little micro goals, these lovely little habits.
Sara Burton:So by the time the habit is established, it's so much easier for you to keep going.
Sara Burton:So how do we actually set macro and micro goals?
Sara Burton:Let's make this practical.
Sara Burton:You know me, I like to be.
Sara Burton:Yeah, practical.
Sara Burton:That's the word, practical.
Sara Burton:So if you can grab a notebook or open, you know, a note taking app, personally, I would prefer you to write it down because it really does embed some intention.
Sara Burton:It really has an effect on your brain in terms of.
Sara Burton:Yep, that's going to be happening.
Sara Burton:So start with defining your big goals.
Sara Burton:Ask yourself, what do I want to achieve this year?
Sara Burton:And there are four main areas that I tend to work with in terms of coaching and self coaching and that is health, income, relationships and me self.
Sara Burton:So what I tend to do is pick one for each of those and they will vary in different levels of importance depending on what it is.
Sara Burton:And that might not be right for you, but for me, I like to kind of have a nice rounded look at what do I want to do this year.
Sara Burton:I don't recommend that you go any more than three or four, to be honest, because they are big, big goals.
Sara Burton:And if you think about it, we're then going to break them down into smaller goals.
Sara Burton:So it's going to feel a lot more overwhelming.
Sara Burton:You are more likely if you've got three, four goals, big ones, to actually, you know, make them happen.
Sara Burton:It doesn't have to be that much.
Sara Burton:If you've got one thing you want to focus on this year, do it.
Sara Burton:Yeah.
Sara Burton:You will know instinctively what those big macro Goals are what those big dreams are, the things that excite you.
Sara Burton:And then I want you to apply your themes for the year.
Sara Burton:So these are your three words.
Sara Burton:As I said before, mine are fun, simple and abundant.
Sara Burton:And then what we're going to do is you're going to break down, take them one at a time and break it down.
Sara Burton:So for each macro goal, I want you to write down all the smaller steps you need to take, make them actionable, put time limits on them.
Sara Burton:So, for example, okay, I'll share one of mine.
Sara Burton:I want to write a book this year, so I want it to be done by the end of the year.
Sara Burton:So I've got a whole 12 months, well, not even that now, 12 months to go ahead.
Sara Burton:And what I do when I'm setting these tasks is I use a brainstorming method.
Sara Burton:If you know me and you've ever been in my office, it is.
Sara Burton:Well, it's not full, but there are lots of big A3 pads knocking around.
Sara Burton:If you've ever come to any of my in person workshops, of which I haven't done any for a long time, but I am going to be having some this year.
Sara Burton:You will be issued with an A3 pad and some felt tip pens.
Sara Burton:And what I like to do is I put the goal in the middle and then this is where I mix it in with the patients.
Sara Burton:I start with the fun element.
Sara Burton:Okay, so what are the jobs that I need to do?
Sara Burton:What are the smaller tasks that I need to do in order to make this book happen?
Sara Burton:So I'm going to have to outline the chapters and I've got to look at publishing and how to pitch.
Sara Burton:There's so many different jobs right now.
Sara Burton:The patience element is I get it all down on paper to start with and I have it all higgledy piggled everywhere, use different colors because that's how my brain likes to work.
Sara Burton:And it makes it feel fun, it keeps it simple because it's all on one page.
Sara Burton:And the abundances that by starting to do that, I become more conscious of it.
Sara Burton:So the patience comes in because over a matter of days I will keep going back and going.
Sara Burton:Actually, there's something else.
Sara Burton:There's something else.
Sara Burton:I will also add in how I want to do it.
Sara Burton:And the thing I'm contemplating at the moment is do I take a month off, send myself somewhere and do it all in a month, write it so that I can just completely immerse myself in it, take myself somewhere inspiring and do it that way, or do I go with the actually, all I need to do is dedicate two hours a week, maybe on a Friday morning, for example, two hours a week and sit down and do it.
Sara Burton:Now I'm leaning towards, at the moment I'm leaning towards the take myself off somewhere because I think I know myself and I know that if that I'm giving myself a hard deadline, that at the end of that time it's got to be completed and ready to be edited.
Sara Burton:That's something that I respond to.
Sara Burton:I love a hard deadline.
Sara Burton:I'd be going away, so I'd be removing many, many distractions and self sabotage opportunities of oh well, this has come up and that's come up.
Sara Burton:So I'm having the patience to sit with it for a while, I'm having the patience to allow it to all process and I suggest you do the same.
Sara Burton:So once you've then broken down all of those goals, all of those things, then you can start to put it into a timeline, you can start to set deadlines, you can assign both your macro and your micro goals so that you can stay on track.
Sara Burton:And this is where you need to start prioritizing what's got to be done.
Sara Burton:You might get yourself a nice Gantt chart and map it all out and go, well, you know, reverse engineer what your goal is and work out how long each of those is going to take.
Sara Burton:What has to happen first.
Sara Burton:For example, I'm not going to start writing the chapters until I've done the outlines of what the chapters are actually going to be because that would just be completely pointless and would have no method behind it.
Sara Burton:So put all of these into a place into place and then you need to get started.
Sara Burton:So what you'll have is you'll have a bank of daily habits, daily things that you need to do.
Sara Burton:Okay?
Sara Burton:It's important that you review and you reflect on how this goes.
Sara Burton:And the one thing I've put in my diary this year that I didn't have last year and it really did make a difference is I like to have a bit of a CEO morning when it comes to my business and I've changed it because I took it out, I started skipping it, which is really bad and it is a form of self sabotage.
Sara Burton:But this year the reflection and how my business is going is a massive priority to me.
Sara Burton:Much more than it's been in the last couple of years, if I'm absolutely honest, because there's been other things going on.
Sara Burton:But this year it's a number, you know, it's right up there.
Sara Burton:So in terms of my Financial goals, I'm reviewing them on a daily basis.
Sara Burton:I've got daily targets, I've got weekly targets, I've got a system in place and I'm monitoring it on a daily basis.
Sara Burton:It's actually on my whiteboard because I see that every single day.
Sara Burton:And there's nothing worse than if you sort of looking at it and find that, you know, three or four days has gone by and actually nothing's come in.
Sara Burton:So I'm using that because I know I respond to that well in my business plan I'm also looking at, okay, so if I'm, I'm doing coaching goals, for example, I need to make sure that I've got passive income coming in as well.
Sara Burton:So there's lots of creation going on there.
Sara Burton:I'm digressing a little bit, but the point is brainstorm the overall goal, look at all the little pieces and make sure that you review and you reflect.
Sara Burton:So set a schedule for regular check ins, make them work for you and see work out.
Sara Burton:How can you see when you are making progress?
Sara Burton:So common one for people who are losing weight might be your measurements and your weight on a daily basis.
Sara Burton:It might be giving yourself some kind of reward system or checklists for when you've completed your two litres of water or your three sessions in the gym, for example.
Sara Burton:And when you're reviewing and reflecting, you need to ask yourself, do you need to adjust, do you need to change something?
Sara Burton:If you can see that something is consistently not happening, that's an area that you need to look at, okay?
Sara Burton:And finally, when you're setting these goals, enjoy it, get excited about it.
Sara Burton:It not only keeps you motivated but it also helps you find, find the joy in the journey.
Sara Burton:You know, Atomic Habits, James Clear's book is, I read it on a regular basis, I have to say, but it is about that, you know, enjoying the journey, finding the fun in setting the little goals, creating the little habits, sticking with it, feeling that progress and so on.
Sara Burton:Those habits will take you to the success you want.
Sara Burton:What got you here won't get you there.
Sara Burton:And that's where we're starting over with these things in a very different way.
Sara Burton:Not doing the same thing again, starting over, new thinking, new approach.
Sara Burton:Okay, so I think the last thing that I want to go into is I don't think.
Sara Burton:I know overcoming challenges.
Sara Burton:Now, goal setting isn't always smooth sailing, okay?
Sara Burton:And I said right at the beginning is, you know, think about, feel, feel it right as you're writing down these goals, what's happening with you physically Are you getting sweaty palms?
Sara Burton:Are you feeling excited?
Sara Burton:Are you feeling small?
Sara Burton:Are you feeling like you want to run away and go sit in the corner, Put blanket over your head and rock yourself gently?
Sara Burton:That was way too, way too descriptive, but it's true, right?
Sara Burton:How are you feeling about it?
Sara Burton:Because you're going to have to overcome these.
Sara Burton:So here are just four, okay?
Sara Burton:Four that, that come up.
Sara Burton:They always have done for me in the past, but I'm much more aware of what's going on now.
Sara Burton:Procrastination, this is one that I really, really want to nail this year.
Sara Burton:I've made massive progress in the last couple of years.
Sara Burton:But procrastination, you know, the easiest thing to do is start with one micro goal.
Sara Burton:Now, one thing that you can do that can start to build momentum and you'll know what it is.
Sara Burton:You have your goal in mind.
Sara Burton:You've gone through this process.
Sara Burton:What is stopping you and what are you going to do to get over it?
Sara Burton:There is a fear, okay?
Sara Burton:If you feel fear, is it fear of failure?
Sara Burton:Is it fear of success?
Sara Burton:Failure only happens when you give up.
Sara Burton:I totally, totally believe that.
Sara Burton:Because if you keep moving forward, you're taking your lessons, you're reframing that failure as feedback, and every step you take is therefore progress.
Sara Burton:You know, you can fail at something 25 times before you find the right way.
Sara Burton:Okay, you'll fail at it forevermore if you don't try different ways.
Sara Burton:So fear of failure actually for me isn't even really there anymore because I just don't see it.
Sara Burton:Whether it's rejection, whether it's a case of looking at and going, this just isn't a good match.
Sara Burton:It's not that I have failed, it's that, that, you know, it's not working in the right way.
Sara Burton:And take what you will from that, but for me, that's a game changer.
Sara Burton:Fear of success, on the other hand, that is very, very common and people don't really pay too much attention to it.
Sara Burton:But sometimes we can, you know, say, for example, what will happen if you do reach all of your business goals.
Sara Burton:One of mine has always been, I worry that I'm going to be ill because in the past I've burnt out.
Sara Burton:But if I put a strategy together, if I'm looking at my macro goals and my micro goals and my daily habits and I'm looking after myself and I'm staying out of overwhelm and I'm meditating and I'm calming my nervous system and all of these things, then why would I Be ill, you know, and that's been a big fear of mine for quite some time.
Sara Burton:So look at these fears that you have.
Sara Burton:Overcoming that challenge of losing motivation.
Sara Burton:It can happen.
Sara Burton:So you have to pick yourself up.
Sara Burton:You have to recognize when that is happening.
Sara Burton:You have to pick yourself up.
Sara Burton:And rather than just beat yourself up for oh my goodness, why can't I find motivation?
Sara Burton:And so on, pick yourself up, revisit your big, big goal.
Sara Burton:Why is it important to you?
Sara Burton:Take some time out, stop doing all of the tasks, reset.
Sara Burton:Why is it important to you?
Sara Burton:Lean into that vision when the motivation starts to come in, because it will.
Sara Burton:And sometimes that motivation is lacking because you're just not looking after yourself.
Sara Burton:You're not conserving your energy in the right way.
Sara Burton:Maybe you're not being balanced.
Sara Burton:You're doing work, work, work all the time.
Sara Burton:And of course your motivation is going to fail you.
Sara Burton:It's going to reduce.
Sara Burton:So what do you need to do?
Sara Burton:Do you need to take a day off, go off on a solo hike?
Sara Burton:Do you need to go and see some friends for a weekend?
Sara Burton:Do you need to have a little break so that you can actually allow yourself to step out of overwhelm or whatever it is that you've lost motivation for so that you can come back to it?
Sara Burton:And over commitment.
Sara Burton:I say this because I'm afraid I've been the queen of this over commitment all the time.
Sara Burton:Which is why one of my words is simple.
Sara Burton:If it starts to becoming overly complicated, if I'm over committing to too many things, trying to jump ahead of the game, and this is where patience comes back into it again.
Sara Burton:You know, if you're constantly looking for how can I do this quicker?
Sara Burton:How can I create shortcuts?
Sara Burton:Brilliant way to think about things.
Sara Burton:And sometimes you can, but sometimes you can't.
Sara Burton:You know, sometimes you can't make progress any quicker by committing to too many things too soon.
Sara Burton:Think about weight loss, for example.
Sara Burton:I think that's a great one.
Sara Burton:Slow and steady wins the race.
Sara Burton:And that happens for so many things.
Sara Burton:Have faith in those consistent actions and you'll get so much further.
Sara Burton:Okay.
Sara Burton:And you know, when you have gone into over commitment, just pull it back, pull it back.
Sara Burton:Focus on what are the little goals that you need to get back on top.
Sara Burton:Don't worry about the next ones.
Sara Burton:Start again in terms of what is important, what is needed right now.
Sara Burton:So there's quite a lot there to recap.
Sara Burton:Combining macro and micro goals is a game changer.
Sara Burton:If you want a year full of purpose and progress, then having these two things working in tandem.
Sara Burton:You know, don't stop the micro goals or don't keep going with some of the micro goals and change your bigger goal.
Sara Burton:Right?
Sara Burton:The big goal is the North Star.
Sara Burton:You use your micro goals to make it all happen.
Sara Burton:They are the actions that brings everything to life that is going to help you make it happen.
Sara Burton:So start small, stay consistent, brainstorm your tasks.
Sara Burton:And you know what?
Sara Burton:Some of those micro tasks might be brainstormed again.
Sara Burton:You can go as far as you need, but break it down so that it is as simple, so it is easy, so you can build that momentum.
Sara Burton:And now I need to breathe.
Sara Burton:Thank you so much for tuning in on the first episode of this year.
Sara Burton:I'm so glad that you have joined me.
Sara Burton:I wish you, you know, enjoy this.
Sara Burton:Have fun.
Sara Burton:Let me know how you're getting on.
Sara Burton:What was your biggest takeaway from this episode?
Sara Burton:Or has it made you rethink any of your goals?
Sara Burton:Are you thinking, yeah, you know what, I could maybe change a couple of things or add in some new things.
Sara Burton:I would love to hear from you.
Sara Burton:You can find me on social media.
Sara Burton:All the links are in the show notes.
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Sara Burton:Or leave a review.
Sara Burton:Either way, let's look at this year in terms of a massive opportunity to start over with your thinking and your attitudes on something that you need to be working on, something that you want to improve this year.
Sara Burton:And let's rise together until next time.
Sara Burton:You take care.
Sara Burton:Thanks for joining me.
Sara Burton:Bye.