Marriage

Phreddie asks, "What did marriage mean when you got married?" Jazzy asks, How is marriage defined?

Jazzy's marriage is arranged, and he discusses the boundaries between him and his wife -- yet, there is a family.

Jimmy recalls how he met Mary. Jimmy's father said Donald men are like geese -- they mate for life. Currently Mary and Jimmy are managing. It's a more difficult time -- Jimmy's dying -- they are not sure what they are doing. He's not building anymore. Curious time. Workin' it through. Jimmy looks at families to understand what to expect. He studied they family. The family things pop-up. Control issues. Jimmy doesn't like to be controlled.

Phreddie has been married 3 times. Phreddie's family pops-up. Phreddie recalls his three marriages. He describes what was in his head -- defines marriage -- when he married. Phreddie wants someone to play with -- a partner and/or companion.

Jazzy returns to recollecting his arranged married. In the West first Love then Marriage. In the East, Marriage then Love.

Jimmy says, in the old days, the family helped pick the partners. Jimmy would trust his mother and father to pick him a good partner. Prem Rawat -- Mary sought blissed out experiences festivals, led by the Maharaji.

The conversation concludes with a discussion of parents, who, Jimmy explains, have the data.

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