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If you listen to this podcast chances are you are a growth oriented individual or you want to improve yourself and feel better about yourself

In todays episode I will talk about ‘tests’ you will run into along your way.

These tests will feel like setbacks and annoying obstacles 

You will feel regret for being on this new path like : why did I not stay in this previous relationship or job where I was semi-content. Why do I want to challenge myself if I could have stayed in my comfort zone ?!

These feelings and thoughts are perfectly normal and I want to show you how you can push through these moments of doubts.

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Hello, and welcome to the Borealis experience. Today,

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I'm especially happy to have you here. It's been a very, very

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tough day. And I was not gonna record anything you can maybe

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hear, still have a snotty nose. But I thought no, I show up for

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you every day. And that means that I'm going to be raw, I'm

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going to be honest. And I'm not going to put on a show. Because

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energetically, I wouldn't make it. If it was a once a week

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podcast, you will get the best version of me every week. But

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you get the daily Aurora. And Aurora goes through very deep

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downs and very high highs. So yeah, it's all good. Everybody's

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healthier, everybody's awesome. I just just problems with my

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phone, my main device for promoting and recreating and

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getting my work here done. That is causing me problems right

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now. And it was all about blaming and shaming from my

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phone provider and my cell service cellular provider,

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however you call it. And now they told me there's a huge

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amount of money involved to get things back into order. And they

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could have told me six days ago, so huge frustration. So all this

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to say I'm not perfect. I'm not living the perfect life. I run

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through shitty situations as well. And sometimes I just laugh

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because I think, Oh, I should live what I preach. I should

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really listen to my podcast today and do a meditation

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because it would do me so well. But recording really helps me to

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center myself and to feel good again. And I want to show up for

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you no matter what. Yes. All right. So let's talk about

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feeling stuck. feeling stuck was what we talked about yesterday,

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we all feel stuck during COVID confinement, and maybe get

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frustrated and maybe get depressed. And we have to find

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ways to be more resilient, because this might have not been

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the last time we run into a virus crisis. So we have to

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unlock our creativity, we have to be there. For other people

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without feeling drained afterwards, we have to find ways

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to be good with certain things being cut out of our lives. So I

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think if we run into problems like I did, and the last couple

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of days, we really have to make it discipline practice to be

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grateful for what we have, I kept reminding myself of my good

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health of my family of my friends and of my animals that I

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have around here. And that helps you to go through and to push

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through when you really want to throw the towel in and you want

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to give up and quit. You have to know that you shouldn't quit and

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you can quit. Because we need you out there and you need

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yourself to be strong. It is okay to feel desperate and

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frustrated and cry and everything. That's not the

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point. But you have to show up as soon as possible again,

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because again, we need you out there. We will always get

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tested. No matter what we do out there, we will get tested,

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especially if we want to challenge ourselves with a new

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project with a new hobby with

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a new partner. There's always going to be tests. Of course if

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you stay at home on your couch and binge watch Netflix, there's

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going to be lesser of a chance to be tested. But chances are if

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you listen to my podcast, you are out there and you want to be

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out there you want to be your best version. So once you start

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healing Once you start on stucking, on fucking yourself,

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you will run into tests. You can call it God is testing you, or

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the universe is testing you, Mother Nature's testing you, if

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you really want to be on that new path, if you're in it for

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the long haul, if you're in 120%, trust me, when I emigrated

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to Canada, it was exactly the same thing. Every time I ran

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into an obstacle, every time, I knew I had to start the process

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all over again, I knew it was testing me and just seeing if I

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wanted to immigrate to Canada 120%. So if we know that, I

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think we can look at our obstacles at our problems from a

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little bit more of a distance, and kind of boil them smaller.

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And really know that if we just stick to it, if we don't feel

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too discouraged. If we're just in there for 51% instead of 49,

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then we can do it, we can really do it. You will be tested, you

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will be tested from your coworkers, you will be tested

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from your parents, you will be tested. I think you say by and

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not from, by the way, you will be tested by your friends, you

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will be tested by yourself your resilience, once you start

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something new. And it is okay to feel like a failure, it is okay

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to compare yourself and feel really shitty for a moment.

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Because other out there, others out there might have more

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experience and a broader skill set. But you can learn those

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skills, you can learn to be your version, your best version and

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just shine out there just like the others. Don't feel

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discouraged. And know that you will be tested, your

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relationships will be tested, your friendships will be tested.

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When you came out of an abusive relationship, you will encounter

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people who will trigger you again. And you have to count

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until 10 then and know is it my trigger reacting now? Or is it

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my true self, myself that wants to be my best version of myself

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that is acting and living from the heart, you will have to make

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these decisions. And it's okay to take your time. You have to

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take that time in order to know what is real, and what is just

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past pain creeping up on you again. If you are in a romantic

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relationship, and you have trust issues, you will be tested. If

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you have abandonment issues, you will be tested. And you really

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have to be careful to distinguish is that person

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hurting me intentionally? Or is it my demons inside of me that

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are trying to protect me? Is it my demons inside of me that

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creating problems just to have that reality that I'm expecting,

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because I'm still not 100% healed. And then meditating and

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spending that 1015 minutes of meditation or a reflection

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meditate with me each day or a couple times a week, you will

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notice what's going on inside of yourself. And you will be out

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there as a more authentic person. You will be out there

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living from the heart and be okay with yourself. Embrace

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yourself and totally accept all your scars. So be okay. being

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tested. Don't feel like life is unfair and everything is bad and

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you're not meant to be on that path. I think you're meant to be

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on their path. You just need to stick to your guns and stick to

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it and take a break. But never bought walk backwards.

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Thank you so much for listening to today's episode. I'm

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shivering a little bit. Because I was sitting outside I needed

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the fresh air and I'm still very upset about my couple of days My

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precious hours that I wasted on my cell phone trying to fix it

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and yeah, that's it. I'm happy that I can be out here serving

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You I'm happy that you're listening to me. And I hope you

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received my message well, that you will feel stuck at times and

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when you unstuck yourself, you will maybe try a new path and it

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will feel awesome and right most of the time, but on those days

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it's not gonna feel good and it's gonna feel hard. I just

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don't want it to give up. All right, until tomorrow again,