Greetings and welcome to another episode of Queue Points podcast.
Sir Daniel:I'm DJ Sir Daniel.
Jay Ray:And my name is Jay Ray, sometimes known by my governments as Johnnie Ray
Jay Ray:Kornegay III And we are going back in time to something I somehow avoided Sir
Sir Daniel:Listen, I can't believe that you and I have been co-hosting
Sir Daniel:Queue Points for, what, four years now?
Sir Daniel:We've known each other for over a decade.
Sir Daniel:We've been entangled musically for as long as we've known each other.
Sir Daniel:The fact.
Sir Daniel:That you have never, ever watched an episode or seen an episode of
Sir Daniel:Being Bobby Brown is, I don't know.
Sir Daniel:It feels irresponsible.
Sir Daniel:And you know, you just knowing me, you know that I've seen
Sir Daniel:it because I like foolishness.
Sir Daniel:I like camp.
Sir Daniel:And Being Bobby Brown, um, was all of those things encompassed
Sir Daniel:in a, in like what an hour?
Sir Daniel:Hours worth of reality TV show.
Jay Ray:They were, uh, so I finally have
Sir Daniel:Oh,
Jay Ray:episodes, y'all, they were like 30
Sir Daniel:thank God.
Jay Ray:which was totally surprising.
Sir Daniel:It was only 30 minutes.
Sir Daniel:It felt like an hour.
Sir Daniel:Okay.
Sir Daniel:Okay.
Sir Daniel:Yeah,
Jay Ray:like baby though.
Jay Ray:We talk about it.
Sir Daniel:we'll talk about it.
Sir Daniel:So.
Sir Daniel:So we, when, um, Jay Ray and I were discussing, uh, us discussing Being
Sir Daniel:Bobby Brown on the show, I said, you know what, we've got to pull in someone
Sir Daniel:who was right there in the zeitgeist of reality, reality television, but
Sir Daniel:not just as a viewer, but somebody who, um, built a career as a. A commentator
Sir Daniel:of reality television shows, as well as other pop culture, um, phenomenon.
Sir Daniel:I want us to go back to the early two thousands, j Ray.
Sir Daniel:The early two, the mid two thousands I think
Jay Ray:where we, where we having like
Sir Daniel:Raised world.
Sir Daniel:Yes.
Sir Daniel:And there was a time when the blog Spot, blog Spot blogger, this and
Sir Daniel:that, blogs were just on fire.
Sir Daniel:Blogs were everywhere.
Sir Daniel:It was before we, you know, we had the tiktoks and the
Sir Daniel:Instagrams and the Twitters.
Sir Daniel:So actual people who took the time to write pieces, um, would.
Sir Daniel:Upload these nights, these diatribes on different, all kinds of topics.
Sir Daniel:You had some people who, who talked about music, who were
Sir Daniel:critics who would post Jay Ray.
Sir Daniel:I got a lot of free music back then in the blog, back in the blogger era
Sir Daniel:because people were uploading a whole bunch of, um, unreleased songs in
Sir Daniel:anyway, so people were doing that.
Sir Daniel:And then you had, of course people who were doing gossip and then you
Sir Daniel:had the reality television writer
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Sir Daniel:critique.
Sir Daniel:And so one of my favorites, and I've said this time and time again, and I've said
Sir Daniel:this, I've tweeted this to, to our guests.
Sir Daniel:There was a time when I was working down at CBS radio and would hang
Sir Daniel:out in Colony Square after, um, my job because I didn't, I was so
Sir Daniel:broke, I didn't have wifi at home.
Sir Daniel:So I would use the wifi in Colony Square to go and watch, look at
Sir Daniel:my favorite blogs every day, and.
Sir Daniel:There were two of them in particular that I could not go a day without looking at.
Sir Daniel:The first one was crunk and Disorderly.
Jay Ray:Yep.
Sir Daniel:That was run by Fresh Lina, AKA Ika, and I see her every now and then
Sir Daniel:on, on the socials, but I think she's, she's really fallen back from that.
Sir Daniel:And the next blog, who's just written by our guest, our special guest
Sir Daniel:today was a blog called Four four.
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Sir Daniel:And sometimes on this blog, our guests would, um, had
Sir Daniel:a cat at the time that would make appearances on his blog also, Jared?
Sir Daniel:Yes.
Sir Daniel:And that's how much I was into this.
Sir Daniel:I mean, I was into it.
Sir Daniel:I was into it heavy because our guest was so witty and had such a keen
Sir Daniel:perspective on different reality shows, like especially America's Next Top
Sir Daniel:Model, which always had me in stitches.
Sir Daniel:But Jay Ray, I want us to welcome our guest.
Sir Daniel:So ladies and gentlemen, before we introduce and show you our guest,
Sir Daniel:Jay Ray, I want you to do the man justice and give him his propers.
Jay Ray:Absolutely.
Jay Ray:We absolutely have to do this, and this is exciting y'all.
Jay Ray:Juzwiak is a writer and podcaster from Brooklyn.
Jay Ray:He is the co-host of the Pot Psych podcast and the co-writer of
Jay Ray:Slate's Love and Sex Advice column.
Jay Ray:How do you, how to do it?
Jay Ray:I love that title.
Jay Ray:His work has appeared in the New York Times, Pitchfork Time, Esquire,
Jay Ray:the Washington Post, the Los Angeles Times, and More Queue Points Family.
Jay Ray:It is our absolute pleasure to welcome Rich Juzwiak to Queue Points Rich.
Jay Ray:Hello?
Rich Juzwiak:Hello.
Rich Juzwiak:Thank you.
Rich Juzwiak:Thanks.
Rich Juzwiak:It was such a nice intro and such a nice walk down memory lane,
Rich Juzwiak:especially Crunk and Disorderly.
Rich Juzwiak:I read that.
Rich Juzwiak:Every day too.
Rich Juzwiak:I
Sir Daniel:Yes.
Rich Juzwiak:and I talked all the time.
Rich Juzwiak:She just felt like my people.
Rich Juzwiak:So this is really nice.
Sir Daniel:Absolutely.
Sir Daniel:Thank you.
Sir Daniel:Thank you for, for joining us and you know, as I, we set up in the beginning,
Sir Daniel:um, the topic, the focus of this episode is going to be Being Bobby Brown.
Sir Daniel:And.
Sir Daniel:It, it dawned on us before we start hit record.
Sir Daniel:It is like, there's probably a generation of people that have never even seen that
Sir Daniel:show and don't even know that it exists.
Sir Daniel:But as a writer, rich, like you've covered reality television,
Sir Daniel:like I said, for many years.
Sir Daniel:Um, how has reality television influenced you in your commentary as,
Sir Daniel:um, as a writer and someone who puts a focus on the culture for people?
Rich Juzwiak:Well, I think it's probably intensified my love of the
Rich Juzwiak:absurd, um, which I've, I've long loved.
Rich Juzwiak:I mean, you mentioned camp.
Rich Juzwiak:I always thought, especially in the early days, that reality TV was kind of like.
Rich Juzwiak:Ground zero of camp, uh, in modern culture.
Rich Juzwiak:You know, you just saw people acting out like extreme human behavior is
Sir Daniel:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:I wanted out of reality tv, you know?
Rich Juzwiak:So, uh, just the kind of.
Rich Juzwiak:I don't know, watching humans be and endearingly.
Rich Juzwiak:So I love that aspect of it, you know?
Rich Juzwiak:Um, and I think also probably it's affected my suspicions because just,
Rich Juzwiak:you know, not just watching the shows, but like hearing people talk about
Rich Juzwiak:them, understanding how they're made.
Rich Juzwiak:We know how much is manipulated, so.
Rich Juzwiak:I think in general it's made me a little bit more suspicious about
Rich Juzwiak:kind of the messages that we receive and how doctor they can be.
Jay Ray:Mm. So you actually, um.
Jay Ray:Bring up something that I think is really important because I think my thought is
Jay Ray:the early years, I'm thinking like real
Sir Daniel:Real world.
Sir Daniel:Yes.
Jay Ray:It really did feel real like, well one, these were people
Jay Ray:that we knew that the jobs that they were doing, we had seen, I had seen
Jay Ray:Heather B in like BDP videos, so I
Sir Daniel:Yes,
Jay Ray:no, like she's just doing what she normally
Sir Daniel:real.
Jay Ray:this is what she do.
Jay Ray:So it felt really real.
Jay Ray:But we get to this point, and by the time, uh, the show we're about to talk
Jay Ray:about comes out Being Bobby Brown.
Jay Ray:We've already had the Osborne's, we've already had newlyweds.
Jay Ray:And we've gotten, you know, many seasons of the real world by that point.
Jay Ray:So that idea of by the early two thousands, we kind of have
Jay Ray:a better, a more of a sense of the production of reality tv.
Jay Ray:But do you think, when you think back to those early years and thinking
Jay Ray:about the real world, do you see that as more real from your perspective?
Rich Juzwiak:sure.
Rich Juzwiak:Well, I mean, the first real world, nobody had any idea what that was gonna be.
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:understand what that would look like on tv.
Rich Juzwiak:You know, they were just, they signed up for a documentary basically, and
Rich Juzwiak:they just kind of lived their lives.
Rich Juzwiak:I mean, there was probably something of a Hawthorne effect, you know, um,
Rich Juzwiak:that's a term about like, uh, uh, scientific studies, how the very act
Rich Juzwiak:of being studied can affect people.
Rich Juzwiak:This is something that has been kind of, of observed and documented
Rich Juzwiak:for like a hundred years.
Rich Juzwiak:So you turn a camera on somebody, are they their truest selves?
Rich Juzwiak:Maybe not.
Rich Juzwiak:But when you don't have an entire industry or, or like a career path, uh, in front
Rich Juzwiak:of you that you know about, I think you're gonna get a far different effect
Rich Juzwiak:than a few seasons in, uh, when people understand that they can, you know, uh, do
Rich Juzwiak:the lecture, college lecture circuit than came the challenge and all of this stuff
Rich Juzwiak:where it behooves you to make TV so that they keep putting you on TV and
Rich Juzwiak:then you can have a career from that.
Sir Daniel:Hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:although I will, I do think that, uh, in terms of all of this,
Rich Juzwiak:uh, Being Bobby Brown is an example of something that did feel really real to me.
Rich Juzwiak:Um, in a lot of ways.
Rich Juzwiak:I mean, the show is basically about nothing.
Rich Juzwiak:It's about like sitting around the show's about like being in
Rich Juzwiak:hotels and going out to dinner,
Jay Ray:Right.
Rich Juzwiak:two things that like I love, uh, you know,
Jay Ray:So thank you so much, rich, for doing that, because when, so as,
Jay Ray:as, as, as Sir Daniel mentioned, um, I had not seen Being Bobby Brown.
Rich Juzwiak:Right.
Jay Ray:The early two thousands.
Jay Ray:So back in the day folks, cable had packages, right?
Jay Ray:So you got to determine what you got based on what package you had.
Jay Ray:And Bravo wasn't in the package that I had, and even as a music lover,
Jay Ray:I was like, I am not getting Bravo just so I can watch Bobby Brown and
Jay Ray:Whitney Houston in 2005 on reality tv.
Jay Ray:That sounds.
Jay Ray:Not like something I wanted to do, so I missed the whole thing.
Jay Ray:So thank you for kind of setting up, setting up the show, because when I
Jay Ray:went to watch it in preparation for this conversation, I was just sitting
Jay Ray:there like, oh, oh, is this, what?
Jay Ray:Is this what we're doing?
Jay Ray:We're not doing much today.
Jay Ray:This is like
Sir Daniel:Yeah.
Jay Ray:except Whitney, Bobby family, and a bunch of random other people in Atlanta.
Sir Daniel:Yeah.
Rich Juzwiak:that.
Rich Juzwiak:That was enough
Jay Ray:Right.
Sir Daniel:Right.
Rich Juzwiak:they
Sir Daniel:Yeah.
Rich Juzwiak:more than that.
Sir Daniel:I was completely sold from the beginning, but I will
Sir Daniel:say this, J uh, rich, I really do believe that Kathy Griffin is
Sir Daniel:really the one that set up and like.
Sir Daniel:Lobb that ball o out the, um, the ballpark when it came to Being Bobby
Sir Daniel:Brown, because she, I think was the, the, the, the starting point for us
Sir Daniel:having this interest in who Whitney Houston was outside of what we saw on
Sir Daniel:te on videos and, and, and performances.
Sir Daniel:Because Kathy Griffith's, um, accounts of celebrity accounts of
Sir Daniel:run run-ins with celebrities, but her Whitney Houston stories were always.
Sir Daniel:Way over the top and hilarious.
Sir Daniel:Like there was an instance where she said, I ran into Whitney Houston,
Sir Daniel:and she just stopped and stared at me and said, you're funny.
Sir Daniel:And the crowd erupted in laughter because we knew that meant like,
Rich Juzwiak:Yeah,
Sir Daniel:you might wanna run because Whitney Houston is probably about to,
Sir Daniel:you know, about, to push you really quickly, but like, um, but as far as the
Sir Daniel:show is concerned, like you set up the premise and Rich, you made, you made a
Sir Daniel:great point about a lot of reality shows.
Sir Daniel:Take people that don't necessarily have a, a career path.
Sir Daniel:Put them and, and create personalities or, well, I should say assign them
Sir Daniel:personalities and then give them a platform to become a star, quote
Sir Daniel:unquote, without any actual talent.
Sir Daniel:But the, with Being Bobby Brown, though Whitney Houston and Bobby Brown are.
Sir Daniel:Tried and true celebrities, performers, all of that.
Sir Daniel:Um, just looking back on being brown, why, why do you think it
Sir Daniel:became such a cultural touchstone?
Rich Juzwiak:Well, so, um, Whitney is the foremost reason I. Think, uh, you know,
Rich Juzwiak:we look at the years leading up to it.
Rich Juzwiak:Um, in 2001 there was the Michael Jackson tribute, which
Rich Juzwiak:Diane Sawyer referenced in her
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Jay Ray:Yep.
Rich Juzwiak:which had people worried.
Rich Juzwiak:And, you know, there were rumors around nine 11 that Whitney had.
Rich Juzwiak:Died.
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:like issue a press release being like, we have a lot
Rich Juzwiak:more important things going on.
Rich Juzwiak:I'm alive.
Jay Ray:Yes.
Rich Juzwiak:so there was the crack, his whack Diane Sawyer interview, which
Rich Juzwiak:like I thought was really overblown the way that people reacted to it.
Rich Juzwiak:I thought Whitney made a lot of good
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:I want to see the receipts because like literally
Rich Juzwiak:how would somebody else know about her drug bill if they didn't
Jay Ray:Yes, rich.
Sir Daniel:Absolutely.
Rich Juzwiak:of that, but she was right.
Sir Daniel:Do you know Diane, do you,
Jay Ray:Whitney, we love you so much.
Sir Daniel:oh.
Rich Juzwiak:Right.
Rich Juzwiak:And then, and then there was, you know, the, the, the 2003 trip to
Rich Juzwiak:Israel with the black Hebrews,
Jay Ray:Yep.
Rich Juzwiak:now what are they doing?
Rich Juzwiak:And, and also, you know, before that Whitney and Bobby were
Rich Juzwiak:always this kind of topic of.
Rich Juzwiak:Conversation mystery, not just because of the, you know, then
Rich Juzwiak:lesbian rumors about Whitney,
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:that people said, oh, they're so mismatched.
Rich Juzwiak:Why are, why are they together?
Rich Juzwiak:That doesn't make sense.
Rich Juzwiak:So this show offered a, a view, a bird's eye view, a a, a bug
Rich Juzwiak:on the wall view of, of what?
Rich Juzwiak:That would be like, and um, and also because it was so raw, you know, a lot of
Rich Juzwiak:the kind of things that we, people were picking up on were Bobby talking about.
Rich Juzwiak:Digging stuff outta Whitney's butt and
Sir Daniel:Yeah.
Rich Juzwiak:sexual kind
Jay Ray:Yes.
Rich Juzwiak:the, the way that they related to each other, um,
Rich Juzwiak:in a very kind of sexual way.
Rich Juzwiak:Um, like I, I, for the record, I don't think I, I've been rewatching actually
Rich Juzwiak:for my podcast for like a Patreon tear.
Rich Juzwiak:Rewatching the osbournes who lived in filth, literal filth, I mean
Rich Juzwiak:like dog feces all over the place.
Rich Juzwiak:And I don't remember people really getting on them the way that they got on
Rich Juzwiak:Bobby and Whitney who were just, I mean, don't think this show is that outrageous
Rich Juzwiak:in terms of what it's portraying.
Rich Juzwiak:You know, they obviously were doing drugs and in
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:you know, they were smoking blunts and okay, maybe if
Rich Juzwiak:they had some Coke in the blunts, but it wasn't like, I don't know,
Sir Daniel:Just a look.
Rich Juzwiak:what we're seeing on that show is not
Rich Juzwiak:kind of the belly of the beast.
Rich Juzwiak:These are two functioning people spending time with each
Rich Juzwiak:other, laughing so much with
Jay Ray:Yeah.
Rich Juzwiak:for me at least, I, I never really doubted Bobby and
Rich Juzwiak:Whitney's love, but this show made me.
Rich Juzwiak:Absolutely certain that they were completely in love with each other,
Rich Juzwiak:uh, maybe codependent, but they, that love is so strong on that show.
Rich Juzwiak:Um, you know, if you wanna talk about family values, there you go.
Rich Juzwiak:Being Bobby Brown.
Jay Ray:Mm. That's such an interesting thing.
Jay Ray:So I, I, so one of the things I found myself having to do y'all
Jay Ray:when I was going back and getting ready for this show is I had to.
Jay Ray:Take off my 2025 Johnny hat and like, because at first when I
Jay Ray:started watching it, Ooh, fun story.
Jay Ray:So I wa watched the Christmas, there's like a Christmas special or whatever.
Jay Ray:And I kind of remember pieces of this because I remember when the choir came
Jay Ray:to the house and Whitney was, you know, like, and I'm like, Lord, this is a lot.
Jay Ray:So I do remember seeing that at some point at the time.
Jay Ray:But what struck me as an aside is.
Jay Ray:and the fur.
Jay Ray:I was like, Ooh, that's the fur that she was wearing when she went to
Jay Ray:the gas station and her white Hummer that she was telling Whitney about.
Jay Ray:That's the fur.
Jay Ray:that struck me immediately.
Jay Ray:Right now back to the show.
Jay Ray:So think at first I was like.
Jay Ray:God, I can't do, I can't do this.
Jay Ray:Knowing all the stuff that came later, right?
Sir Daniel:Right.
Sir Daniel:Yeah.
Jay Ray:know now about the totality of Whitney's life, her experience
Jay Ray:and what she was going through.
Jay Ray:I was kind of sitting with that as I was watching the show, but
Jay Ray:at some point I was like, okay, Johnny, but take a second, right?
Jay Ray:And then like take all of that off and just like watch this
Jay Ray:from like a 2005 perspective.
Jay Ray:then I'm like.
Jay Ray:I can kind of see how this would be entertaining for people to see in 2005,
Jay Ray:because we're getting to your point, a fly on the wall view of Whitney Houston
Rich Juzwiak:Yeah.
Jay Ray:home.
Rich Juzwiak:Right.
Rich Juzwiak:Doesn't get bigger than that.
Jay Ray:No.
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Sir Daniel:Yeah, I think,
Rich Juzwiak:I, I'm sorry.
Rich Juzwiak:Go ahead.
Sir Daniel:no, no, no.
Sir Daniel:You um, I was just gonna say, I think that was the draw.
Sir Daniel:That was the.
Sir Daniel:The, the, the, the hook, especially for the, for the channel was like,
Sir Daniel:because there would be a lot of scenes where she wasn't there, she wasn't
Sir Daniel:on camera, and then she would all of a sudden appear and it was like,
Sir Daniel:oh, oh, it's about to be on now.
Sir Daniel:Whatever's about to happen.
Sir Daniel:All the cameras were focused on her.
Sir Daniel:So, but yes, please go ahead, rich.
Sir Daniel:I I didn't mean to cut you off.
Rich Juzwiak:Oh, uh, no, not at all.
Rich Juzwiak:Um, I, I don't think, I mean, like Nick and Jessica were kind
Rich Juzwiak:of coming up and Ozzy Osborne
Sir Daniel:I forgot about
Rich Juzwiak:had, know, he had, he is a rock god, but I don't think
Rich Juzwiak:that you could really argue outside of the eighties that he was a-list.
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:Whitney Houston was a-list.
Jay Ray:list.
Rich Juzwiak:was
Sir Daniel:for sure.
Rich Juzwiak:you know, the time that you give good love
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:through
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:her life.
Rich Juzwiak:So it was a huge deal that somebody of that stature was
Rich Juzwiak:doing a project like this,
Jay Ray:Yeah, I'm, I'm wondering to that point then.
Jay Ray:Um, 'cause one of the other things, like I said, I had to kind of suspend belief.
Jay Ray:I'm, I'm thinking about two things.
Jay Ray:Um, I'm thinking about the legacies.
Jay Ray:Whitney's legacy specifically.
Jay Ray:'cause it's very, I was talking to Sir Daniel before you hopped on Rich
Jay Ray:about how different Bobby Brown is today and I can't imagine Bobby wanting
Jay Ray:to even see Being Bobby Brown, just kind of like looking at him in 2005
Jay Ray:and looking at where he is today.
Jay Ray:I'm sure he would be like, nah son, I just, I live that.
Jay Ray:I'm good.
Jay Ray:Right.
Rich Juzwiak:Yeah.
Jay Ray:I'm, I've been thinking about their legacies and the other
Jay Ray:thing I was thinking about is.
Jay Ray:One was this exploitative, like, okay.
Jay Ray:At the time, so Rich, how, how were you seeing this from, from your blog, right?
Jay Ray:Where do you see this show falling?
Jay Ray:Definitely entertaining.
Jay Ray:Was it exploitative?
Jay Ray:Do you feel differently today than you felt then?
Jay Ray:Like what's kind of your thought process?
Rich Juzwiak:well, it's, I mean, yeah, to, to your point, it's hard to watch
Rich Juzwiak:this show, uh, with like a. Light heart,
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:two thirds of the main family unit that we're
Jay Ray:Yes,
Rich Juzwiak:with
Jay Ray:yes.
Rich Juzwiak:you know, and, and I mean the, the, there's, there's
Rich Juzwiak:just tragedy upon tragedy there.
Rich Juzwiak:Like the, the fact that Bobby Christina died is
Jay Ray:Yes.
Rich Juzwiak:Like, I can't, sometimes I forget, you know, like
Rich Juzwiak:think about Whitney's death like.
Rich Juzwiak:Multiple times a week.
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:day for like the 10 years after basically.
Rich Juzwiak:And it's still very frequently, but Bobby, Christina is almost like
Rich Juzwiak:another level of just so tragic.
Rich Juzwiak:So there is that aspect, you know?
Rich Juzwiak:Um, I think, I think it's a really kind of complicated question.
Rich Juzwiak:I think exploitation in general is a really complicated question because like.
Rich Juzwiak:Entertainment and certainly like mass culture basically exists to exploit.
Rich Juzwiak:Um, sometimes it's done more ethically than others, but there's general, uh,
Rich Juzwiak:there's almost always a bunch of usually white, powerful people in control
Rich Juzwiak:of something and that are profiting.
Rich Juzwiak:You know, more heartedly than the people ever actually involved.
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:this is just the music industry.
Rich Juzwiak:Releasing a record is exploitation.
Rich Juzwiak:Um,
Sir Daniel:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:think that something that makes Being Bobby Brown a little
Rich Juzwiak:bit different is in my understanding, this show was filmed and wrapped
Rich Juzwiak:by the time they were selling it.
Rich Juzwiak:I'm, I'm pretty sure I might be wrong about that, but I think
Rich Juzwiak:that a lot of it was in the can when they were taking it to,
Jay Ray:Wow.
Rich Juzwiak:different.
Rich Juzwiak:Outlets and it was Bobby Brown's production company.
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:if it's exploitation, then Bobby Brown is exploiting himself.
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:I'm pretty sure in the Oprah interview I meant to
Rich Juzwiak:go back and watch it 'cause I've watched that interview so many times.
Rich Juzwiak:The uh, 2009 Oprah interview, I think it is 2009.
Rich Juzwiak:I'm pretty sure that Whitney said that she did it for him.
Rich Juzwiak:didn't want to do it and she did it for her husband who
Rich Juzwiak:really wanted to do this thing.
Rich Juzwiak:So, I don't know.
Rich Juzwiak:I mean, did he exploit her, uh, kind of Whitney also?
Rich Juzwiak:I mean, you watch this show.
Rich Juzwiak:Do you think Whitney was gonna do anything she didn't want to do
Rich Juzwiak:for like a long period of time?
Rich Juzwiak:I
Jay Ray:Absolutely no.
Sir Daniel:Absolutely not.
Jay Ray:she was very much in control of what Whitney Houston wanted to do.
Rich Juzwiak:Exactly, exactly.
Rich Juzwiak:She knew.
Rich Juzwiak:I I, so it's hard, know, drugs are involved and
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:led to her downfall, but
Sir Daniel:Mm-hmm.
Sir Daniel:Right.
Rich Juzwiak:but I certainly would understand that argument given
Rich Juzwiak:entire context of what was happening.
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Sir Daniel:You know, I think that's fair because if you fast forward to
Sir Daniel:today, like there was supposed to be a DeBarge, um, reality show, and we,
Sir Daniel:we were, we're well versed in the, the triumphant tragedy of the DeBarge family.
Sir Daniel:And we saw the trailers and it was like, okay, that's, that's a bit much.
Sir Daniel:And it leads me to think about where we are now as far as reality
Sir Daniel:television is, is concerned.
Sir Daniel:And to your point, rich earlier about it being like a, you know, a industry
Sir Daniel:that calls for your pound of flesh, but the people, but the sheep per
Sir Daniel:se, are kind of leading themselves in by the leash themselves now because
Sir Daniel:reality television has become.
Sir Daniel:This, this springboard for stardom, for fame, for wealth.
Sir Daniel:And I think a lot more people are more intrigued by the fame part.
Sir Daniel:Now, that's my opinion.
Sir Daniel:Um, but as far as the quality of reality television today.
Sir Daniel:Is, and you know, so Daniel will say that Being Bobby Brown was quality television.
Sir Daniel:I'm sorry.
Sir Daniel:It was, it was good
Rich Juzwiak:Yeah.
Rich Juzwiak:Yeah,
Sir Daniel:me.
Sir Daniel:I had a good time.
Sir Daniel:I had a good time watching it.
Sir Daniel:But now there are things that I just have absolutely no interest
Sir Daniel:in watching because it just feels, it just, everybody feels contrived.
Sir Daniel:We know that there is a, a room, a control room full of people.
Sir Daniel:Everybody has like workshopped their personality and their storyline
Sir Daniel:before they even got on camera.
Sir Daniel:So it just doesn't, it just, it's not satisfying to me anymore.
Sir Daniel:So where are we now with reality television, rich.
Sir Daniel:And what about the future of it?
Sir Daniel:Is it, are we still gonna have reality television saying the next five years?
Rich Juzwiak:Yeah.
Rich Juzwiak:Uh, well, I mean, I, I think that like this specific type of reality
Rich Juzwiak:TV of celebrities existing has kind of fallen off in a big way.
Rich Juzwiak:I mean, there are still shows, there was the Baldwins, um,
Jay Ray:Oh yeah,
Rich Juzwiak:Sylvester Stallone is on a reality
Jay Ray:Izzy.
Rich Juzwiak:about
Jay Ray:I didn't know that.
Rich Juzwiak:Yeah.
Rich Juzwiak:Yeah.
Rich Juzwiak:I didn't
Sir Daniel:It doesn't sound.
Rich Juzwiak:commercials for it and I was like, I'm gonna skip that.
Rich Juzwiak:I didn't
Sir Daniel:Yeah.
Rich Juzwiak:that.
Rich Juzwiak:Um, so, but, but, but.
Rich Juzwiak:As it kind of fell off, uh, social media and Instagram and, and ways of capturing
Rich Juzwiak:celebrities, ways of celebrities capturing themselves via video kind of took off.
Rich Juzwiak:So there's less of a need for it.
Rich Juzwiak:And here's where like the kind of exploiters like are useful because I think
Rich Juzwiak:that what you get a lot of the time is, you know, like anybody's social media
Rich Juzwiak:feed, very curated, very kind of like.
Rich Juzwiak:Not the reality, but the reality that they want to show you.
Rich Juzwiak:Whereas if you have people in control, like, uh, like, like on
Rich Juzwiak:Hey Paula, that's a crazy show.
Rich Juzwiak:You could definitely argue that's exploitation, but that they can't
Rich Juzwiak:take your eyes away from it.
Rich Juzwiak:But you would never get that side of Paula Abdul if she were left to her own devices,
Jay Ray:Hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:Uh, you know, it, there is, there is something to be said for
Rich Juzwiak:having a kind of, uh, person in charge, you know, from a journalistic standpoint
Rich Juzwiak:that's actually going to help show the story as it will look to observers
Rich Juzwiak:as opposed to, oh, I'm having this.
Rich Juzwiak:Subjective experience, and I'm gonna show you what it is.
Rich Juzwiak:So for me, like what's come close to Being Bobby Brown is something like Justin
Rich Juzwiak:Bieber crashing out on Instagram or,
Sir Daniel:Hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:like Britney Spears' memoir.
Rich Juzwiak:I thought that, like that in terms of like, oh, we're going
Rich Juzwiak:to get something really good.
Rich Juzwiak:The Britney Spears memoir came closest to feeling like Bobby Brown Being Bobby Brown
Rich Juzwiak:since Being Bobby Brown to me, you know?
Sir Daniel:Okay.
Sir Daniel:Okay.
Jay Ray:I absolutely thank you so much for giving us that perspective
Jay Ray:and especially in the world that we live in now with social media.
Jay Ray:I think that's a really important point.
Jay Ray:I am curious before we transition out of, uh, Being Bobby Brown, we have a
Jay Ray:couple more things we want to chat about.
Jay Ray:Um, do you see.
Jay Ray:In the reality TV space, and I mean, when we think about Bravo now, Bravo
Jay Ray:is kind of synonymous with reality tv.
Rich Juzwiak:Right.
Jay Ray:we see Being Bobby Brown, like pieces of that and what
Jay Ray:they were doing there kind of echoed, um, in shows, uh, today.
Jay Ray:Are you seeing any of that?
Rich Juzwiak:I don't, I don't know because it's so singular, you know?
Rich Juzwiak:I mean, Whitney would show up on screen without makeup and kind of a wet look wig,
Jay Ray:Yes.
Rich Juzwiak:that was.
Rich Juzwiak:That was impactful in a
Jay Ray:Yes.
Rich Juzwiak:that
Jay Ray:Yes.
Rich Juzwiak:doing that wouldn't be because the nobody
Rich Juzwiak:else is Whitney Houston.
Rich Juzwiak:You know?
Rich Juzwiak:So it, it, it's very, it's very hard to kind of say.
Rich Juzwiak:And also keep in mind that like, people watch the show and people talk a lot
Rich Juzwiak:about Being Bobby Brown, but there was a lot of negativity about it.
Rich Juzwiak:And I don't know, that people would like, basically at the time
Rich Juzwiak:would've had, would have admitted to being influenced by it, you know,
Jay Ray:Mm.
Rich Juzwiak:and large.
Rich Juzwiak:So, so it's hard to say.
Rich Juzwiak:And then, and then of course, like, you know.
Rich Juzwiak:2007, two years later is the Kardashians, which kind of changes everything.
Sir Daniel:Yeah.
Rich Juzwiak:and so I guess, but that show was kind of boring too, right?
Rich Juzwiak:So kind of like nothing happened in a
Rich Juzwiak:way, but although also that's really when you started seeing the contrivance too.
Rich Juzwiak:So there's just something about the fact that, that you, you're, you
Rich Juzwiak:took like this, this couple that was.
Rich Juzwiak:So cared about by people who listen to pop music,
Rich Juzwiak:especially black music,
Rich Juzwiak:like just Whitney and Bobby are just a couple for the ages.
Rich Juzwiak:You
Rich Juzwiak:know, you say those names.
Rich Juzwiak:Everybody knows exactly what you're talking about, what
Rich Juzwiak:they were like, what that
Jay Ray:Yep.
Rich Juzwiak:you just, you, you don't really get that.
Rich Juzwiak:You're not gonna get real Housewives being like that because they're
Rich Juzwiak:not Whitney and Bobby, you know?
Sir Daniel:Yeah.
Sir Daniel:Yeah.
Rich Juzwiak:There is, there's actually a scene in being Bobby Brem, where,
Rich Juzwiak:where they're being interviewed on a red carpet and they're talking about the show
Rich Juzwiak:that was coming up and someone said, oh, are you gonna be like Nick and Jessica?
Rich Juzwiak:And she and Whitney says, they're cute, but we're Whitney and Bobby.
Sir Daniel:Bobby.
Sir Daniel:Yep, absolutely.
Sir Daniel:And she was right.
Sir Daniel:She was absolutely right.
Sir Daniel:AB absolutely nobody else can compare to those two.
Sir Daniel:Um, so quick transition, quick, you know, while we have you here because we
Sir Daniel:know you've got your ear to the street.
Sir Daniel:what, what is like really, what has really got you going these days, rich?
Sir Daniel:What do you just like tap your veins and you want to inject it into daily?
Sir Daniel:Uh, as far as pop culture is concerned.
Rich Juzwiak:Well, uh, my favorite record of the year is the Twigs record.
Rich Juzwiak:Speaking
Jay Ray:I love that it's sexual.
Rich Juzwiak:Usua.
Rich Juzwiak:Yes.
Rich Juzwiak:I, I, I, to me she's kind of like the platonic ideal of a pop star where
Rich Juzwiak:she does stuff that's so far out and yet is able to kind of keep things.
Rich Juzwiak:Intelligible to, to a kind of Yiddish audience.
Rich Juzwiak:You know, it's the thing that kind of like Bjork and Prince and Timbaland and Kate
Sir Daniel:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:had where they are making pop music, but it just
Rich Juzwiak:does, it sounds like, of another world to me, like Twigs does that.
Rich Juzwiak:So I've been a little bit disappointed with her attitude sometimes this year.
Sir Daniel:Yeah.
Rich Juzwiak:in general.
Rich Juzwiak:Um, I, I, I really, really love that record and I want more stuff to be
Rich Juzwiak:that good because like I, you know, I care about pop music, but a lot of
Rich Juzwiak:the kind of B tier working class pop girls that, you know, gay men love
Rich Juzwiak:so much, just don't do it for me.
Rich Juzwiak:There's a lot of mediocrity
Jay Ray:We talk about it all the time.
Rich Juzwiak:I mean, there's, there's just stuff I, I just don't get it a lot
Rich Juzwiak:of the time and, know, unfortunately as I've gotten older, I have.
Rich Juzwiak:Just found it harder to love stuff.
Rich Juzwiak:There's stuff I like, but like,
Sir Daniel:Yeah.
Rich Juzwiak:the way that, like, I would care about like a
Rich Juzwiak:Sierra album coming out, just it,
Sir Daniel:Yeah.
Jay Ray:Yeah.
Rich Juzwiak:that
Jay Ray:not the same.
Rich Juzwiak:me that much anymore.
Sir Daniel:There aren't stars anymore.
Sir Daniel:I, in my opinion, I don't, the rollouts aren't, there are no rollouts.
Sir Daniel:It just doesn't feel like you said, it just doesn't feel like
Sir Daniel:you we're not being edged enough.
Sir Daniel:I'm, for, for lack of a better term, we're not, you know, we're
Sir Daniel:not, there's no teasing, there's no titillating us anymore.
Jay Ray:listen, rich, before we get out of here, the people
Jay Ray:have to connect with you.
Jay Ray:You have a podcast, you have all types of things going on.
Jay Ray:So tell, how do you, how should people get into the Rich Juzwiak world?
Jay Ray:Like where should they start?
Rich Juzwiak:Okay, well, I mean, uh, my podcast is like where my
Rich Juzwiak:podcast is basically like my blog
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:days.
Rich Juzwiak:It's like where I put stuff that I'm not writing about, that I just have
Rich Juzwiak:like a thing or two to say about, you know, that I'm not gonna write
Rich Juzwiak:a whole essay about or whatever.
Rich Juzwiak:So that's pot psych, uh, that's, you know, anywhere.
Rich Juzwiak:You listen to podcasts, Spotify, apple Podcasts, et cetera.
Rich Juzwiak:You can listen to that.
Rich Juzwiak:I mean, it is a big bunch of nonsense, I have to say.
Rich Juzwiak:But, um, I wouldn't have it any other way really.
Jay Ray:Right.
Sir Daniel:We love.
Rich Juzwiak:know, the extreme human behavior, the absurdity I'm
Rich Juzwiak:trying to put back out into the world, what I love so much about it.
Rich Juzwiak:Um, and then, and then I write this column for slate, you know.
Rich Juzwiak:It's not pop culture, although I sometimes make a pop culture reference,
Rich Juzwiak:but it's called how to Do It, and we publish that like multiple times a week.
Rich Juzwiak:So, you know, I'm a, I'm the co-writer.
Rich Juzwiak:Uh, I write with Stoya, um, who's, you know, a former adult performer
Rich Juzwiak:and a thinker, and she's wonderful.
Rich Juzwiak:So we have a lot of fun with that.
Rich Juzwiak:We've been doing that for like six years.
Jay Ray:Awesome.
Rich Juzwiak:uh, you know, my Instagram, rich Jz, R-I-C-H-J-U-Z.
Rich Juzwiak:You know, I pub I put stuff up there from time to time, but I'm
Rich Juzwiak:not super, like I, I used to tweet all the time and now I don't.
Rich Juzwiak:And then I stopped and now I don't even know where I would start.
Jay Ray:Yeah.
Rich Juzwiak:don't have the capacity to just keep go like
Rich Juzwiak:I have other stuff to do,
Jay Ray:Yes.
Jay Ray:Yes.
Rich Juzwiak:I can't, I just fell off with that.
Rich Juzwiak:So I'm not like super, super active on social media,
Jay Ray:Mm-hmm.
Rich Juzwiak:see something that makes me chuckle, I'll throw
Rich Juzwiak:it on my Instagram stories.
Jay Ray:beads.
Rich Juzwiak:yeah,
Sir Daniel:Awesome.
Sir Daniel:Well, this has been a treat.
Sir Daniel:I, you know, I'm super, super grateful to have had you on
Sir Daniel:this episode of Queue Points.
Sir Daniel:Um, Jay Ray, let the folks know what they need to know.
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Sir Daniel:in this life, you have a choice.
Sir Daniel:You can either pick up the needle or you could let the record play.
Sir Daniel:I'm being Sir Daniel.
Jay Ray:I am being Jay Ray, are you gonna be rich?
Rich Juzwiak:being rich.
Rich Juzwiak:Je
Sir Daniel:And this has been podcast dropping the needle
Sir Daniel:on black music history.
Sir Daniel:We will see you on the next go round.
Sir Daniel:Peace everybody.
Jay Ray:Peace, y'all.