You've been running on autopilot through the holidays — buying, wrapping, planning, coordinating — because that's what you've always done. But have you ever stopped to ask: why am I doing this?

Most working moms don't question it. You just assume it's your job. That if you don't do it, it won't get done (or won't get done right). And honestly? Part of you might not even want to stop — because being the holiday coordinator gives you something. Control. Identity. Proof that you're a good mom.

This episode isn't about adding more to your plate. It's about creating awareness around the beliefs that are keeping you exhausted.

Strategic Journal Prompts:

• What would happen if you didn't coordinate everything this year?
• What are you afraid your family would think, feel, or say if you didn't coordinate everything this year?
• What does being the holiday coordinator give you? Is it identity, control, or maybe proof that you're a good mom?

These prompts might make you uncomfortable. That's the point. This is how you start questioning the beliefs keeping you stuck — and find a way forward that doesn't require burning yourself out to prove your worth.

Resources Mentioned:

• Free Calm Mind Blueprint: http://www.samanthapenkoff.com/calm-mind-pod

Work with me:

• 90 min Breakthrough Intensives: We get to the root of what keeps you performing instead of enjoying. Plus a 30-minute follow-up call 2 weeks later. Click here for details.
• Private Coaching - 4 open spots: www.samanthapenkoff.com/privatecoaching

Connect with Sam: Instagram | Facebook | Reply to my newsletter