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It’s Not About You - Prosperity Is Not Self-Centred - Message 3 - Prosperity Without Purpose Becomes Pride
Episode 18517th March 2026 • The Message with NJ • Njabulo James
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The central theme of this discourse posits that "Prosperity Without Purpose Becomes Pride." Within the framework of our ongoing series, we delve into the perilous terrain where believers frequently falter, conflating divine increase with self-aggrandizement. It is imperative to recognize that money serves not merely as a medium of exchange, but rather as a crucible that reveals one’s true character. The teachings from 1 Timothy underscore that while wealth can be a source of significant gain, it simultaneously harbors the potential to foster arrogance and spiritual neglect. Thus, we are called to embrace prosperity with humility and generosity, lest we succumb to the insidious grasp of pride and materialism. The discourse presented in this episode elucidates a critical examination of the concept of prosperity, particularly emphasizing its potential to engender pride when devoid of purpose. The host articulates a foundational premise: prosperity, while often perceived as a blessing, can also function as a revealing agent of one’s true character. Through the lens of scriptural references, notably from 1 Timothy 6, it is asserted that the love of money is fraught with peril, leading individuals to arrogance and a disconnection from divine dependence. The message delineates the dichotomy between genuine prosperity, which fosters humility and generosity, and its counterfeit, which cultivates pride and self-worship. The host further illustrates this point with poignant anecdotes that resonate with the audience, creating a palpable tension between the allure of wealth and the necessity of maintaining a humble spirit. In essence, the episode serves as a clarion call to reassess our relationship with money and to ensure that our financial blessings translate into good deeds and service to others, rather than a mere elevation of self.

Takeaways:

  1. Prosperity devoid of purpose inevitably culminates in pride, leading to spiritual peril.
  2. Financial wealth serves as both a revelation of character and a test of values.
  3. The love of money, rather than money itself, poses the greatest spiritual danger to believers.
  4. Genuine prosperity should foster humility and generosity, countering the temptation of arrogance.

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Foreign.

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Welcome back to the series.

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It's not about you.

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Prosperity is not self centered.

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We've already established two things.

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Message one.

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God blesses you to bless others.

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Message two.

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Your hands are a pipeline, not a museum.

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So today we're going.

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We go to the dangerous middle ground.

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The place where many believers fail.

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The place where God increases you and you start acting like you increased yourself.

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Today's message is called Prosperity without purpose becomes pride.

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Because money, brothers and sisters, is not just paper.

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Money is a test.

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Money is a magnifier.

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Money is a microphone.

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It doesn't create a new you, it reveals the real you.

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Can I get an amen?

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1 Timothy 6, 6:10 tells us, but godliness with contentment is great pain, great gain.

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For the love of money is a root of all kinds of evil.

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And then later, 1 Timothy 6, 17, 19 tells us, Command those who are rich not to be arrogant, but to put their hope in God.

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To be rich in good deeds, generous and willing to share.

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Now, brothers and sisters, the Bible doesn't pretend money is harmless.

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It tells you straight.

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Money can make you arrogant.

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Money can make you forget God.

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Money can make you love yourself more than you love people.

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Let me tell you something.

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You've seen with your own eyes.

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Now there's a person you knew when they had nothing, Luto.

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Not a zip.

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They were humble, kind.

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They greeted everyone.

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They answered the calls.

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They showed up, then life changed.

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They got the tender, they got the promotion.

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They got a contract.

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They got the connections.

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Now suddenly, they don't pick up calls.

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They don't greet, they don't come around.

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They walk like their important air.

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And you sit there thinking your money did something to you.

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But here's the truth.

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Money didn't do something to them.

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Money revealed what was already inside them.

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It's like when you squeeze an orange, orange juice comes out.

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You can't squeeze an orange and get petrol.

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I wish you could nowadays in this economy.

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Right?

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But anyway, you can't squeeze an orange and get petrol.

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You can't squeeze an orange and get water again.

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In this economy, with some water outages happening.

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I wish you could do that.

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When pressure comes, what's inside comes out.

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So when money squeezes you, does generosity come out?

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Or does pride?

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Does wisdom come out?

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Or does arrogance?

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Does worship come out?

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Or flex?

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That's the titch.

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If God increases you before he disciplines you, your increase will inflate your ego.

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Y' all don't hear me?

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When God increases you.

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Sorry.

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If God increases you before he disciplines you, your increase will inflate your ego.

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Here's the big idea.

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If prosperity doesn't produce humility and generosity, it will produce pride and and slavery.

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Say it with me.

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Money will not master me.

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Can I get an amen?

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Paul is speaking to Timothy.

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He's basically saying, timothy, teach the people the truth.

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Because money can trap believers.

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He says, contentment is great gain.

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We came into this world with nothing.

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We leave with nothing.

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The love of money is dangerous.

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Not money itself, but loving it.

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Rich people must not be arrogant.

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Rich people must not hope in riches.

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Rich people must be generous and ready to share.

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In simple English.

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God is not against prosperity.

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God is against pride.

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God is not against wealth.

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God is against worshipping wealth.

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God may increase your resources, but he never gives you permission to increase your arrogance.

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While many people may object and say, but I worked hard for this.

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I deserve to enjoy it.

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People must see I made it.

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Now let me help you.

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It's fine to enjoy your money.

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Amen.

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Just don't let enjoyment become your identity.

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Because some people don't have a personality.

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They have a lifestyle.

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Yes, work hard.

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Scripture supports diligence.

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But the Bible says God gives breath, strength, favor, opens doors and ability.

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So even your hard work sits on top of God's work.

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Mercy.

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And Paul's warning is clear.

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Riches are uncertain.

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Today up, tomorrow down.

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One sickness, one accident, one retrenchment, one bad decision, one scandal.

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And that I made it.

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Story collapses.

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So put hope in God, not money, and prove you hope in God by being generous.

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This week, kill three things comparison to others.

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And the Joneses, you don't know who they are anyway.

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Kill flexing and kill arrogance.

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Replace them with three contentment, generosity and gratitude.

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Here are three points for this message.

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Pride is a silent thief.

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Now, pride doesn't always shout.

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Sometimes pride whispers, I'm better.

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I'm special.

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They must respect me.

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When you start treating waiters, petrol attendants and security guards like they're invisible, pride has entered the room.

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Room, say this with me.

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Pride steals what prosperity brings.

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Some of you are not successful.

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You're just rude with a budget.

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Point 2.

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Contentment is strength.

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Let's define a word.

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Contentment equals peace with what you have while you work for what's next.

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It's not laziness.

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It's not giving up.

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It's not, I don't want more.

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It's I won't be controlled by more.

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You can have 500 rand and sleep like a baby, or have 50,000 rand and still be anxious because you're competing with people on Instagram and they're not even real.

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You're competing with AI.

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Comparison is a thief.

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Contentment is a shield.

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Say this with me.

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I don't need to flex to be free.

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Now stop buying things you don't need to impress people you don't even like with money you don't even have.

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That's not prosperity, that's stress with receipts.

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Generosity breaks money's power.

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If you want to know whether money controls you, watch how you give.

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Generosity is not a fundraising trick.

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Generosity is warfare.

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Because giving breaks greed.

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When you can bless someone quietly, no posts, no status, no look at me, you're free.

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But if you only give when people clap, money is still your master.

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Say this with me.

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I won't serve money.

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I will send it now.

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Some people don't give.

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They perform.

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They don't sow, they show.

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Let's speak plainly.

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Some of you are not chasing purpose.

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You're chasing applause.

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Some of you don't want wealth.

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You want revenge.

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Some of you don't want prosperity.

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You want people to regret, underestimate.

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You think you could do this to me?

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That's the spread some of you have.

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Here's the antithesis.

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Not wealth to look big, but wealth to do good.

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Here's the triad in your thoughts, in your talk, in your transactions.

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God must be on it.

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Now let's cross examine ourselves with three questions.

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If nobody saw your lifestyle, would you still buy what you buy?

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My, my, my.

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When last did you thank God instead of thanking your hustle?

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Are you building a future or building an image?

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Are you blessed or are you simply busy?

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Because hear me.

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God will not anoint your ego.

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God will not sponsor your pride.

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God will not finance your idol.

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Here are some practical actions to do.

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Do a humility check daily.

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Greet people, look them in the eye.

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Speak kindly.

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Remove one flex expense this month and redirect it to giving or debt.

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Write 10 gratitude lines.

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Lord, thank you for not generic specific.

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Give secretly at least once this week.

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No post, no hint, no story.

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Nix.

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Stop comparison triggers unfollow.

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Five Accounts that make you feel behind.

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Ask God what is my assignment with this money?

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And write the answer.

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Put a generosity line in your budget like a bill, because it is.

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Let us answer these questions with honesty and not any drama.

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Question 1.

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What do you secretly want money to prove?

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2. Who are you trying to impress and why?

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Do you feel angry when someone else prospers?

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Is your giving consistent or emotional?

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If God asked you to downgrade your lifestyle for a season, would you obey?

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What purchase is your comfort idol?

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Do you treat people better when you have money?

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Do you treat people worse when you have money?

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Not all at once.

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Are you hoping in God or hoping in a number?

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10. Who needs to die in you so God can trust you?

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Here's a call to action Next seven days that we can measure and let's try do it properly.

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Every day, thank God for three specific things.

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Every day do one humble act, serve, help, greet and encourage.

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Once this week, give secretly to someone in need.

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And 4.

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Cancel one flex expense and give that money to debt or saving or giving.

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And 5.

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Write the sentence and say daily I have enough money to obey God today.

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If you do that for seven days, pride loses oxygen and purpose becomes your compass.

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Let us pray.

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Father, in the name of Jesus, deliver us from pride.

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Forgive us from loving money, chasing applause and comparing ourselves.

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Your word says the love of money is dangerous.

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So cleanse our hearts, Lord God, teach us contentment, teach us humility, teach us generosity.

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Bless our hands but keep our hearts low before you.

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Let our prosperity produce good deeds and let our increase serve your kingdom.

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And let us never forget you are the source, not the salary.

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We reject arrogance.

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We reject greed.

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We reject flexing.

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We choose purpose.

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We choose obedience.

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We choose generosity.

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In Jesus name, Amen.

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Now some of you don't need a financial breakthrough.

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You need a spending exorcism.

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And if your blessing makes you disrespectful, it's not a blessing, it is a test that you fail.

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Now brothers and sisters, the next message is the final one in this series.

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Kingdom wealth has receipts, justice, mercy and mission.

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Because God's prosperity always leaves a paper trail.

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People helped, families lifted, and Jesus glorified.

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Stay faithful, stay clean and stay assigned.

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