Does any of this sound familiar? Your day can turn grumpy if you haven’t heard from the guy you’re talking to. You can’t stop overanalyzing every text. You check your phone, rotating through every social media hoping for a DM. Today, we’re talking about how to stop being so obsessive when you first start seeing someone.
Why does it happen in the first place? No one’s immune and emotions can run away with us. With a brand new relationship, sometimes that spark and instant connection can make you lose your damn mind. Those who are especially vulnerable to toxic relationships usually “need” external validation.
Time to take notes. Let’s get you some skills to keep off that slippery slope.
Relationships are mirrors. In healthy relationships, feeling an intense connection is when both people bring out the best in each other and lift each other up. In difficult relationships, the “mirror” gets distorted because one or both people doesn’t have the internal validation to sustain the connection.
Don’t fall for the magazine tricks of “send these 5 texts and he’ll fall for you” because it will set an expectation that isn’t real or organic. It sets you up for more external validation, which just means more heartache. What tends to happen then is that your mood goes up and down based on what your phone is doing.
The real hack is to enjoy yourself so much that anyone wanting to come into your life needs to be better than your solitude. Getting a boyfriend won’t make your life better automatically.
This is going to be a 3-part series this week! We’re going to look inward to find where your catch points are and how to work through them.
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