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“Just choose yourself…” with social entrepreneur Elizabeth Mhangami
Episode 819th July 2023 • More Than Work • Rabiah Coon
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his week’s guest is Elizabeth Mhangami, social entrepreneur.

Lizz grew up in Zimbabwe and moved to the US when she was 19. After working in various jobs including at the Chicago Athletic Foundation, she also earned her bachelor’s degree at Loyola University. She then started the job that would define her career so far, working with young people from underserved communities. 

Prior to moving to the states the first time, Lizz was part of the Rotary international as a youth. Her later work with Rotaract started her thinking more about youth communities, especially at home. She founded Vanavevhu, a 5013c for kids in Zimbabwe, many who are heads of household. She ran the organization for 7 years and has handed over the day to day operations. Now, she is back in the US and heading up major gifts at the Mikva Challenge in Chicago. 

We talk about her childhood through adulthood and the influences and experiences that led to to a path of working in and leading service organisations. 

Topic we discuss:

  • Youth service organizations
  • Impact of having a mother who was engaged in service
  • Immigrating to the US
  • Poverty in America
  • Working with underserved communities
  • Being a founder and what that entails

Note from Rabiah (Host): 

This conversation was a long time coming since Lizz and I became acquaintances, virtually, and would often joke around but then would also get into serious conversations. It was a pleasure to bring this experience to More Than Work to share with you! She is a wonderfully interesting and intelligent person who has dedicated her career to serving youth. I learned so much about her experiences moving to the US from Zimbabwe and you will too. I hope you enjoy this insightful and also joyful discussion. Maybe it’ll inspire you too.

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Find Elizabeth

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/emhangami/

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Mentioned in this episode:

Vanavevhu: http://www.vanavevhu.org/

Rotary International: https://www.rotary.org/en 

bell hooks: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bell_hooks 

Mikva Challenge: https://mikvachallenge.org/ 

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Rabiah Coon:

This is More Than Work, the podcast reminding you that your self-worth

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is made up of more than your job title.

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Each week I'll talk to a guest about how they discovered that for themselves.

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You'll hear about what they did, what they're doing, and who they are.

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I'm your host, Rabiah.

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I work in IT, perform standup comedy, write, volunteer, and of course, podcast.

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Thank you for listening.

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Here we go.

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All right.

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Welcome back to More Than Work everybody.

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I am really excited to have this guest on.

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We've been talking for a while actually on other calls, not, not More Than Work, but

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actually my other work calls I would say.

Rabiah Coon:

And uh, I'm really glad to bring you Elizabeth Mhangami.

Rabiah Coon:

She is a social entrepreneur.

Rabiah Coon:

So thanks for being on the podcast, Lizz.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Thank you for having me, Rabiah.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I'm glad we finally found a time to do this that works for both of us.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah, totally, totally.

Rabiah Coon:

So where am I talking to you from today?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I am currently in Hoffman Estates, which is a

Elizabeth Mhangami:

suburb sort of northwest of Chicago.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So that's where I am.

Rabiah Coon:

Nice.

Rabiah Coon:

And the last time I talked to you, you were in Southern?

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

In Southern Africa.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

In Zimbabwe.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

And uh, just so people know why I was talking to you before, my boss, my former

Rabiah Coon:

boss now, just my friend and coworker Jamila and you are really good friends.

Rabiah Coon:

And we just ended up chatting on my work calls sometimes.

Rabiah Coon:

So

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Yes, I would listen in to you and Jamila's

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calls and have an opinion about a workplace that I do not work at.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I also don't actually know what you all do, but I had a lot of opinions.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

And you'd share them with me and that's how we bonded.

Rabiah Coon:

So now,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I suppose the experience of work is universal.

Rabiah Coon:

Exactly.

Rabiah Coon:

We're gonna find out, right?

Rabiah Coon:

That's what we're gonna do right now.

Rabiah Coon:

So, yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

So I guess first of all you're in Chicago now.

Rabiah Coon:

You were in Zimbabwe, that's where you're actually from originally, right?

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

So just let me maybe just tell people about you, kind of, you know, going

Rabiah Coon:

from Zimbabwe to the US back there now back, back here, and just whatever you

Rabiah Coon:

wanna say about, about that part really.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Yeah, sure um, so I left Zimbabwe for the first time

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to come to the US when I was 19, and I spent about 10 years in the US.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And during that time I was as an immigrant trying to figure out what

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opportunities existed for me in the US.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I started off working jobs as a nanny.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And then I started going to school, trying to work and go to school at the same time.

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And I managed to get myself a lot of really interesting work experiences.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I worked as a nanny.

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At one point I was a telemarketer selling insurance.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I wasn't very good at it.

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Then I worked in Victoria's Secret.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I worked at Smoothie King.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I didn't last at Smoothie King.

Rabiah Coon:

I worked at Dairy Queen, so I'm also a food court,

Rabiah Coon:

I'm food court royalty also.

Rabiah Coon:

Yes,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I love it.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I've never heard of food court royalty, but I can't wait to start using it.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Then I had a stint as the membership director for the

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Chicago Athletic Association.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And then, and during that time I was.

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Attending community college, trying to get myself into a four year institution.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I eventually got myself into Loyola here in Chicago to do the last

Elizabeth Mhangami:

two years of a bachelor's degree.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And during that time I got a job working or running a youth employment

Elizabeth Mhangami:

program in the north neighborhood in Chicago called Rogers Park.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I was responsible to get the youth job ready and then also find them work

Elizabeth Mhangami:

opportunities in the community as well as do a little bit of fundraising to

Elizabeth Mhangami:

keep the program supported outside of the state funds that existed.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And so I would say that that job in particular started shaping what

Elizabeth Mhangami:

has ended up being a career for me.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And that's working with young people.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So that job led me to my graduation and I went on to work for a nonprofit

Elizabeth Mhangami:

in Chicago called Women Employed.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I was in a position that allowed me to work with human service.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Agencies that were helping people who were living in public housing.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And our focus, of course, was on women and trying to work on their asset building

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and employability that while that was going, I had Quite a robust volunteer

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life I was affiliated, still am I suppose, with Rotary International at the time.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And for people who don't know about Rotary, it's a service organization

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that was started in Chicago actually, but I learned about it in Zimbabwe

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because they have high school clubs, this service learning clubs.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And so I joined Interact in Zimbabwe in Lowai in the city that I grew up in.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I then, because it's a nat...

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International organization, it allows you to then meet other

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people who are affiliated with it in whatever city you are in the world.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So it's that you always have community.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I came to Chicago and joined the junior Rotarians called Rotoract.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And through that I was engaged in a project to send

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medical supplies to Zimbabwe.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And that really got me going on thinking about sort of a more sustainable

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way to be involved with some of the challenges that Zimbabwe was

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experiencing as a result of political in international sort of machinations

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that were happening at the time.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And coupling that experience with working with youth in, in Chicago and also working

Elizabeth Mhangami:

with women in low income communities, I really started thinking about what

Elizabeth Mhangami:

was happening at home and thinking specifically about youth communities in

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Zimbabwe and what was happening with them.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I ended up creating a nonprofit whose mission was to do something

Elizabeth Mhangami:

similar to what I'd been doing in Rogers Park with the youth.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So job readiness, entrepreneurship, targeted at young people who show an

Elizabeth Mhangami:

interest or an acumen for business, but don't have the social capital or the

Elizabeth Mhangami:

experience to to ha have that happen.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Been in a way that we hear about different entrepreneurs

Elizabeth Mhangami:

who have the wealth of network.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I moved back to Zimbabwe in 2008, 2009, sorry.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And at that time I set up a 501c3 in the U.S.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I had two entities; one that I fundraised through, and then the one

Elizabeth Mhangami:

in Zimbabwe working with the youth and did that for about eight years.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Our youth that we worked with were child heads of household, so they'd lost

Elizabeth Mhangami:

their parents mainly to AIDS related complications and the oldest of the

Elizabeth Mhangami:

children often always a girl would take on the responsibility of work of, of

Elizabeth Mhangami:

taking care of the family economically, socially in as much as a kid at that age

Elizabeth Mhangami:

can do when they no longer have parents.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And that really e evolved into a social enterprise where we were trying

Elizabeth Mhangami:

to help these young people create a business or businesses, and also

Elizabeth Mhangami:

help the organization find financial independence from donor funding.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But we wanted to create a business that had social impacts in terms of providing

Elizabeth Mhangami:

services and products that the community needed, but also providing young people

Elizabeth Mhangami:

with a source of income and also giving them experience to, you know, learn

Elizabeth Mhangami:

a skill learn how to work, because many of the youth we were working with

Elizabeth Mhangami:

weren't entrepreneurial out of a desire.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It was out of necessity.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So some of them, you know, really just wanted a job or some of

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them wanted to go back to school.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

There were different number of different interests, but then the organization

Elizabeth Mhangami:

itself also needed sustainability.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So we were hoping that the social enterprise could also keep the

Elizabeth Mhangami:

organization buoyant so that we could continue to impact the

Elizabeth Mhangami:

lives of different young people.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

As many people who might be listening to the podcast will know fundraising,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

nonprofit, fundraising also in a country that had its unique challenges, it became

Elizabeth Mhangami:

a little harder to keep myself in a salary as well as keep the organization going.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I started within the seventh year working toward transitioning leadership

Elizabeth Mhangami:

of the organization to the community that we were working within, and some

Elizabeth Mhangami:

of the youth that had been involved with the organization from when I started it.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I managed to do that at the end of 2018.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And then I took on a, a job, a salary was important at that point, in Swaziland,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

or it's now called the Kingdom of Eswatini, which is in Southern Africa.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So if people think of this map of South Africa, there's two countries within

Elizabeth Mhangami:

the borders of South Africa, and one of them is the Kingdom of Eswatini.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I joined an international school there called Waterford Kamhlaba.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's part of a network of 18 schools called the United World Colleges that

Elizabeth Mhangami:

focus on helping youth become change makers through a the IB curriculum

Elizabeth Mhangami:

in the last two years of high school.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I was there for four years as an advancement director, so I

Elizabeth Mhangami:

managed the school's fundraising for scholarships, alumni relations,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

marketing, and communications.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And that I did for, for four years until the end of last year, and I

Elizabeth Mhangami:

have just come back to Chicago in February to start a position with

Elizabeth Mhangami:

another youth organization here in Chicago called the Mikva Challenge.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And we focus on civic education and youth voice.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So we work with youth in community as well as teachers in schools.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And my role is director of major gifts.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I would say, I guess all the experiences that I've had with fundraising

Elizabeth Mhangami:

has sort of brought me to this position.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I think that kind of gives a synopsis of I come to be here now.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

I like that you have your story down cause I know I've moved a few times and you

Rabiah Coon:

kind of get the highlights going, right?

Rabiah Coon:

Through each thing.

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But, so, no, that was good.

Rabiah Coon:

And it just leaves me with a lot of questions now.

Rabiah Coon:

Your path definitely clearly even from high school was, you know, you

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had service kind of as a part of it.

Rabiah Coon:

What was it like for you, I guess growing up in Zimbabwe?

Rabiah Coon:

I mean, did you come from a family that is service oriented or is this just something

Rabiah Coon:

like, did you happen to just do it in high school cuz you had nothing else to do?

Rabiah Coon:

What, what, what drove that?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I think it's a combination of yes to the two questions

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that I heard out of that, do I come from a family that is service oriented?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's only until recently that I thought about it, but yeah, I do.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

My family is Catholic and I think social justice and service is

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a huge part of Catholicism and the tenants of being a Catholic.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I don't describe myself as as Catholic.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

In fact, I don't ascribe to any organized religion anymore.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But I watched my mother growing up being a part of different

Elizabeth Mhangami:

groups related to the church.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So the Catholic Women's League, there's a sort of an order of, I don't know.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Yeah.

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It's an order called St.

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Anne's that she's a part of.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I saw her take up roles on the committee.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And then in our community, my mom and her girlfriends would have these clubs.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

The official term is Village Savings Clubs.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's a model where women get together and we all put money in a pool.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

If there's, you know, five of us, we each get a chance to get that money to use for

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some sort of investment, but we always have to bring back sort of the seed money.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's called a round, so as that the next person can pick up on the round.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I definitely grew up seeing that and Interact.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I, I love to tell the story because I think it says a lot about me.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I went to a school in Zimbabwe.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

That is a school that was started by Bavarian nuns.

Rabiah Coon:

Okay.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

About 120, maybe 130 years ago.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So definitely as part of the colonizing mission of Africa,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

the school was established.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And as a student there in the nineties, it was a Catholic school that was very

Elizabeth Mhangami:

interested in protecting our chastity.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So we weren't allowed to engage or talk to boys in school uniform.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And the only way that you could do that sanctioned was to join

Elizabeth Mhangami:

the Interact Club because the Interact Club always had a social.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And so, you know, at 15, that was the first club I was joining

Elizabeth Mhangami:

because then you got to see boys and they're boys of a particular

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school that I was interested in that.

Rabiah Coon:

amazing.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So the year that I joined Interact, 1995, was

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10 years before Rotary International would be celebrating its centennial.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And so the, the, the international organization decided that they would spend

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that last decade leading up to a hundred years eradicating polio from the world.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So as Interactors joining the club, one of the first service activities

Elizabeth Mhangami:

we did was to help the Rotary Club members administer polio vaccines

Elizabeth Mhangami:

in communities that were peri-urban.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So surrounding the city that I was growing up in, and I think for me

Elizabeth Mhangami:

at fifteen, because my, I mean, my family is big and we have varying

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degrees of socioeconomic status.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So there are, some of my mom's siblings and herself we're like highly educated

Elizabeth Mhangami:

through my grandparents' efforts.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But then there are some members of the family who aren't.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I wouldn't say that, you know, doing that polio vaccination thing was

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exposure to difference in, in, in, in, in economic status and what people have.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But it, there was something about going a few minutes outside of my

Elizabeth Mhangami:

city, a few minutes outside of my high school and seeing people living

Elizabeth Mhangami:

in a way that one at that point could have described as abject poverty.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Yet I was going to the school and I, I must say that I was

Elizabeth Mhangami:

a, a bursary kid at the school.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

My mom was a widow.

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My dad died when, I'm the youngest of four kids, so my dad died when I was three.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And so my mother ma was managing to educate my siblings and myself on her own.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I did have a bursary.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I wasn't one of the rich kids of what is a private school, but I

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certainly was aware of the privilege that I did have in comparison to

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the families that we were meeting.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I was seeing a lot of young women who might have been my age or, or a

Elizabeth Mhangami:

few years older than me, maybe the ages of my sisters, who were carrying

Elizabeth Mhangami:

babies and were obviously in a stage of life that I, you know, the, the

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Falcon College Boy chaser was not in.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And that just, it had an impact on me, you know, in years, now that I talk

Elizabeth Mhangami:

about it, I don't talk about it the way I used to in my twenties when I would

Elizabeth Mhangami:

sort of say that it changed my life.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And Rotary's motto is "service above self".

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Because I would, I used to say that service above self became

Elizabeth Mhangami:

what I am about, but I think I'm, I've, I've moved slightly on that.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But it did really that, that experience impacted me.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I did go on to chase boys and go to socials, but I was definitely quite

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aware of the role that I had within this Interact Club as a young person to be

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able to do or make a difference or just be in, involved in community development

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in a way that I hadn't been exposed to.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I would say that those are kind of what my influences are, but I,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

yeah, it's, it's, it's being raised and educated by Catholics and then

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having this orientation around service and community at such a young age

Elizabeth Mhangami:

and it having a lasting impression.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah, definitely.

Rabiah Coon:

And what did you study when you were in school?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So at Loyola, I graduated with a degree in

Elizabeth Mhangami:

political science and women.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It was called, Women's Studies.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I had courses in international relations as well.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So there was a time where I really felt that my place for work would

Elizabeth Mhangami:

be the UN or an international organization of some sort.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I was very interested, especially having left Zimbabwe because of, you

Elizabeth Mhangami:

know, economic challenges and political challenges, I was very interested

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in affecting change politically, geopolitically in Zimbabwe because

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that kind of the history of Zimbabwe at that time and my being in the US

Elizabeth Mhangami:

as an immigrant, I found that that was something that I spoke about a lot in

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terms of explaining why I was in the US and also just trying to find purpose

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within a survivor's guilt that comes from leaving your home country because

Elizabeth Mhangami:

of political and economic challenges.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Because you leave family and friends there and you are now in a different place.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And so I felt a compulsion to be representative of Zimbabwe somehow.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So that's what I studied and I met jamila in graduate school where I started off

Elizabeth Mhangami:

as an International Studies master's student but then I ended up switching to,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

to Women's Studies and my focus then was around looking at ideas of citizenship

Elizabeth Mhangami:

and, and na and national identity for women in post-colonial Southern Africa.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I was looking at, because at the time Zimbabwe was had seen the

Elizabeth Mhangami:

rise of opposition politics and there was one party in particular

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that was giving the then ruling.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Party a run for their money.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And the women within that party were emerging as strong leaders,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

but also ones that were severely targeted by the, by the state.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And through that, that targeting questions around citizenship and national identity

Elizabeth Mhangami:

where women were concerned were coming up.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And as you know, a, a a, an academic aspiring academic at

Elizabeth Mhangami:

the time, I was very interested

Elizabeth Mhangami:

in, in the sort of creation of nation state and the, and

Elizabeth Mhangami:

the role that women play.

Rabiah Coon:

Hmm.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

I mean that's, I was gonna make an assumption, but I'd rather just ask you,

Rabiah Coon:

was, what was the biggest shock to you if there was one about coming to the

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US and just seeing things in the US and then in the parts of Chicago you were

Rabiah Coon:

in versus in Zimbabwe where you grew up?

Rabiah Coon:

Cause I think I, like, I live in England now, right?

Rabiah Coon:

So, and I'm from the States, so I had ideas about things and of

Rabiah Coon:

course culturally they're not, that, they're not as dissimilar as

Rabiah Coon:

everyone pretends they are, you know?

Rabiah Coon:

But for you, how is that, I guess, going from the country and, and

Rabiah Coon:

what it was like, but still loving your country, clearly loving it.

Rabiah Coon:

And then going into the us what, just, what was that experience like?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

so I, it's, it's poverty.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Let me, let me answer things succinctly.

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Poverty.

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I was not expecting to see as much poverty, was I expecting to

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see it at the level that I did.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Now, I will also caveat that by saying I think that as an immigrant, especially

Elizabeth Mhangami:

an immigrant who comes into this country with education and social capital.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So my experience, my, and, and, and that of my family is that we have arrived

Elizabeth Mhangami:

in the US and managed to participate in American society at a middle class level.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So that also means that socially our family wasn't immediately exposed

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to the experience of being of lower income and being of color in the US and

Elizabeth Mhangami:

having those two things work against you and because of the way society, I

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think it's, it's, it's, it's existent in any society, there is always that

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elevation of the good immigrant.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I think that we, in our initial years, we played at that level and often

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didn't see what was really The diversity of experience and also because even a

Elizabeth Mhangami:

person who is on state benefits is often in a better position materialistically

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to a person who is in that same level of being without in Zimbabwe.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So we were also of the opinion that black and brown people in America,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

especially those born here were the luckiest black and brown people in the

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world because they have all these things.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But for me, then working within programs that were funded by the state trying

Elizabeth Mhangami:

to implement social changes through the varying programs, I sort of came

Elizabeth Mhangami:

to face-to-face with poverty in America and those people who are living in,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

in that bracket of, of vulnerability.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It gave me a, just, that was a shock for me.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It took me a while to understand.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And it's actually a story Jamila likes to tell just in terms of --I don't know how

Elizabeth Mhangami:

familiar you are with Chicago, but Chicago has, you must have heard of Cabrini-Green.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's been transformed now to be a mixed income neighborhood, but there

Elizabeth Mhangami:

were the towers and, and the row houses that people will remember.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I had a job working for a human services organization there,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

and it was just eye-opening.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I hadn't seen or experienced and didn't expect it in America because it's the

Elizabeth Mhangami:

land of milk and honey, so everybody is just got cash and everything they need.

Rabiah Coon:

So then, yeah, in your view, changes of what the impoverished

Rabiah Coon:

in America really are experiencing and I don't know if it's a fair like comparison

Rabiah Coon:

to make, but it's not much different than I think kind of what's happened in general

Rabiah Coon:

with people having a different perspective like white people having a different

Rabiah Coon:

perspective on people of color, right?

Rabiah Coon:

Because.

Rabiah Coon:

I think, you know, in the last couple years with what happened with

Rabiah Coon:

the death of George Floyd and then other things, I think that became

Rabiah Coon:

a big thing where all of a sudden people are like, whoa, now I get it.

Rabiah Coon:

Like, people who before said, oh, why, why are, you know, it's the same

Rabiah Coon:

thing, men say, why do women complain?

Rabiah Coon:

Well,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Yeah, just work hard.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Pull up, pull yourself by your bootstraps.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah and like, you know, you can't say anything anymore.

Rabiah Coon:

Well, why do you have to say sexually explicit things to me?

Rabiah Coon:

I don't understand.

Rabiah Coon:

You know?

Rabiah Coon:

But then it goes to the more serious thing of like race in America

Rabiah Coon:

where it's white versus whatever.

Rabiah Coon:

And, and white people really, I mean, a lot of them not like the, you have

Rabiah Coon:

the white people who say they don't see color, which is totally ridiculous,

Rabiah Coon:

unless they mean they're color blind and then it's red and green.

Rabiah Coon:

It has nothing to do with people.

Rabiah Coon:

Or the white people who completely ignore the fact that there's an issue.

Rabiah Coon:

And then, but then you get into like another subset of people who you learn

Rabiah Coon:

about what other people are going through and go, oh, wow, that's going on there.

Rabiah Coon:

But I don't know.

Rabiah Coon:

It's, it's a, it's a thing of, of perspective and gaining

Rabiah Coon:

perspective and, and seeing, you know, what, it's, what's going on.

Rabiah Coon:

One, one thing that struck me a lot was when you just talked about leaving your

Rabiah Coon:

organization in Zimbabwe and leaving it to the people, really, the leadership

Rabiah Coon:

and, and having the community then lead and that reminds me a lot of, you know,

Rabiah Coon:

servant leadership, which I don't know if that's something that you feel you

Rabiah Coon:

practice, but also something I learned.

Rabiah Coon:

I was in a program at Harvard, a Public Leadership Credential, and

Rabiah Coon:

we learned about moral leadership.

Rabiah Coon:

But that really, truly is what you were doing there by, by putting

Rabiah Coon:

the people at the focus and then ultimately having them be empowered

Rabiah Coon:

to kind of run the organization.

Rabiah Coon:

Or even what you talked about the women in Zimbabwe would do with the money and, and

Rabiah Coon:

they would be empowered to make decisions.

Rabiah Coon:

I mean, that just really strikes me as really forward thinking because a

Rabiah Coon:

lot of people who are quote unquote leaders won't think in that way.

Rabiah Coon:

They'll make themselves the most important.

Rabiah Coon:

And how did you come to that decision?

Rabiah Coon:

Or what, did you learn something that made you go that way?

Rabiah Coon:

Or is that instinct?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

You know, it's something that I, I, I don't know.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I have a lot of discomforts around certain things.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I think one of the things that I have really struggled with embracing

Elizabeth Mhangami:

and, and being able to articulate for myself is that I am a leader.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I, I have a lot of discomfort with that because I immediately

Elizabeth Mhangami:

go to thinking that people see ego in me saying and stating that.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I, I think that I was always keenly aware of wanting to make

Elizabeth Mhangami:

sure that the organization is not about me or dependent on me.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So there was always an intention, an intentionality around.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

My dream was that the first group of youth that I started working with, that

Elizabeth Mhangami:

one of them would replace me and, and continue the organization without me.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

The one thing that I didn't anticipate was that when you are a founder

Elizabeth Mhangami:

of something almost, you birth something so it, it becomes your baby.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's your thing.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And you also have very clear ideas about where this baby's going to end up in

Elizabeth Mhangami:

college, what career it's going to have.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I had a very clear idea about my organization becoming a youth led

Elizabeth Mhangami:

youth run social enterprise that had three businesses encompassed in it,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

a organic market garden, a beekeeping enterprise that produced beeswax candles

Elizabeth Mhangami:

and beeswax lip balms, and a soap.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Cold press soap, that was also going to have inputs from our organic garden.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And then we were also going to have a business that was doing

Elizabeth Mhangami:

rooftop gardens for hotels and putting soaps in hotel rooms.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And it would become the.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Beautiful.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I still see it.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

This beautiful ecosystem of product being made from the organization is called

Elizabeth Mhangami:

vu, which means children of the soil.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And, and yeah, and, and, and we were going to be this wonderful machine where

Elizabeth Mhangami:

the youth would find job opportunities within the social enterprise or they

Elizabeth Mhangami:

would start their own businesses related to that ecosystem selling us beehives,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

repairing our beehives, making bee suits.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

There was all the stuff that could happen, but it was a vision that

Elizabeth Mhangami:

was based in my subjectivity and not in the subjectivity of the youth.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I came to a realization when we finally, and I, I, I was a bulldozer about a

Elizabeth Mhangami:

lot of things, but we finally got to a point where a hotel agreed to us

Elizabeth Mhangami:

putting a rooftop garden on their roof in Victoria Falls, which is the, you

Elizabeth Mhangami:

know, premium destination in Zimbabwe.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I was closer to our social enterprise, finding business within

Elizabeth Mhangami:

the tourism sector, and then I took a group of our youth to Victoria Falls.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

We sat in a hotel room and one of them went into the bathroom of that

Elizabeth Mhangami:

hotel room and walked out, holding a piece of soap and said, so this

Elizabeth Mhangami:

is what you've been talking about.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And in that moment it was, and you'd think as a social worker, I would've remembered

Elizabeth Mhangami:

this, but then I was like, oh my goodness, these kids have just been following me.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Blind faith.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Because they either believe in me or I am a source of income at the moment.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So whatever this crazy lady is talking about, we are gonna do it with her.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But of course, they'd never seen a hotel.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Or understood the con, cuz I kept, because they kept asking, why

Elizabeth Mhangami:

are we learning how to make soap?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Because we are gonna make smaller soaps that will go into the hotels.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And they'd be like, oh, okay.

Rabiah Coon:

They're like, fine.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But in that moment is when I thought, okay, so is

Elizabeth Mhangami:

this my dream or is it their dream?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

They have the skillset because they're the ones who put up the,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

we did um, raised beds for this rooftop garden with drip irrigation.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I mean, the skillset and the, the, the level of expertise that these youth

Elizabeth Mhangami:

developed, I will always be proud of that.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But the concept was not theirs.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And that's when, and that was, I think that was 2017 and that's when

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I really realized that it was, it was time for me to make a decision.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And, a few years before that, I had been of the opinion, I

Elizabeth Mhangami:

don't know how I came to it.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's very specific that a nonprofit founder should not be the head of

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that organ, the operating head of that organization past seven years.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I don't know where I came up with that.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I said that in a New York Times article in 20, 11, so I also had seven

Elizabeth Mhangami:

years was always playing on me and so I had essentially signed my resignation

Elizabeth Mhangami:

date and, but in terms of the organization and the mission, that moment in that

Elizabeth Mhangami:

hotel room showed me that I had to allow this organization that I had created in

Elizabeth Mhangami:

partnership with a community of young people had to evolve in what it was going

Elizabeth Mhangami:

to be and not what I wanted it to be.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I started the process of letting go at that point.

Rabiah Coon:

Wow.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah, I mean that's, that is eye-opening cuz to to just be

Rabiah Coon:

like, their lived experience was so different by then from yours, even

Rabiah Coon:

though you had in theory grown up in.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's so funny that I didn't click in that moment because I.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I was like, yeah, we're the same.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

We're the same.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I just have had this experience, but I'm sharing this

Elizabeth Mhangami:

experience with them, you know?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I was thinking, my experience was that of having gone to the US but my

Elizabeth Mhangami:

experience was so different in terms of the school I went to, the neighborhood

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I lived in, the fact that I was from a different ethnic group, from many of them.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

The organization is named Vanavevhu which is Shona, the language that I,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that's my mother tongue, although I grew up in Ndebele speaking

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Zimbabwe, so I speak in Ndebele and I could speak to many of the youth.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

They mostly spoke in Ndebele.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So even the naming of the organization was deeply entrenched in my, in

Elizabeth Mhangami:

my identity and subjective lens.

Rabiah Coon:

Wow.

Rabiah Coon:

Wow.

Rabiah Coon:

So one thing you mentioned too about the life experience.

Rabiah Coon:

I mean, you were working with youth who maybe were head of household as a

Rabiah Coon:

children and you mentioned also aids, which that's one thing in the US too.

Rabiah Coon:

AIDS was never in the us what it was in African countries.

Rabiah Coon:

It was different.

Rabiah Coon:

There was a different discrimination over here.

Rabiah Coon:

It was very much entrenched in, you know, more around sexuality and that kind of

Rabiah Coon:

thing I'd say, more than just general people, but then thinking you're talking

Rabiah Coon:

about in the two thousands that where here in the US it's not even, I don't know.

Rabiah Coon:

I mean, I don't wanna speak for everyone and I'm not in the US now, but I mean,

Rabiah Coon:

just thinking about prevention and people just, you know, you can live

Rabiah Coon:

with HIV now and stuff, but in, in African countries that still wouldn't

Rabiah Coon:

be necessarily true in the same way.

Rabiah Coon:

Just availability of drugs and stuff.

Rabiah Coon:

And so people losing their parents to AIDS when they're young is that

Rabiah Coon:

still, has, has there been changes to that or is that still something

Rabiah Coon:

like your organization's serving now or the, your former organization?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I think that No one in, in, in Southern Africa, at least

Elizabeth Mhangami:

there's very few people who weren't touched by the scourge of HIV/AIDS.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

There's just, everybody has some experience.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I mean, within my family, their stories, I could tell.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

What has been at least comforting is that socially the disease is not as

Elizabeth Mhangami:

stigmatized as it was when it first started appearing in the early nineties.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I think that that has a lot to do with communities losing just huge sections.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Like there was a time where you would read stories about Uganda, I know

Elizabeth Mhangami:

as a country that was written a lot about how there were just communities

Elizabeth Mhangami:

where there weren't any people between the ages of 18 and 40 anymore.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And you know, these are the people that were parents to the youth that I was

Elizabeth Mhangami:

working in, working within Zimbabwe.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And so I really was moved by a lot of statistics that I, again,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

it's all subjectivity statistics that were related to myself.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I know the year that I founded Vanavevhu in 2007, the statistic

Elizabeth Mhangami:

coming out of Zimbabwe was that life expectancy was 34 and I was 27.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And that again, was another thing of looking at myself and saying, okay,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

so this statistics, this statistics says that in in seven years at 34

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I, in seven years I could be gone.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So what do I do in seven years, maybe?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Actually that's where seven comes from.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

From is this fatalistic connection to life expectancy in my home country.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But that's really, you know, something that I, I thought about.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But there is definitely a lot of work that has been done and people are

Elizabeth Mhangami:

living with HIV, people are taking, have access now to the, the medication.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And they're taking the medication and it's not so much the life sentence that

Elizabeth Mhangami:

it used to be because I really argue or would argue that many of the deaths

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that we saw in our part of the world were because a diagnosis meant death.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Because there was no medication.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And we can, we can criticize are they called international NGOs who

Elizabeth Mhangami:

do public health work in, in Africa for a lot of things, but being able

Elizabeth Mhangami:

to bring communities and put in mechanisms from medical treatment

Elizabeth Mhangami:

being available to behavior modification interventions to changing social

Elizabeth Mhangami:

structure just so that people have access to meds has done a huge thing.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And living in Swaziland, which was one of the countries, the tiny, a tiny

Elizabeth Mhangami:

country that was heavily affected by HIV and AIDS, being there in the last four

Elizabeth Mhangami:

years and, and being around people in the public health sector, there's been

Elizabeth Mhangami:

a lot of wins and it's, it's definitely something that we are grateful that we

Elizabeth Mhangami:

were able to get a hold of it get a handle on the impact that it was having.

Rabiah Coon:

That's incredible.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

Well, I, I think it is, it's great to hear about the progress and just it's

Rabiah Coon:

really inspiring just to hear about how you're, you have evolved into this,

Rabiah Coon:

this service-oriented life and also just kind of the boundaries you've

Rabiah Coon:

set to move on when you needed to.

Rabiah Coon:

So, one thing I like to ask every guest is, do you have any advice

Rabiah Coon:

or mantra that you'd like to share with the people listening?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Do you know, I thought about that and, and I, I, it,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

there's actually like a thank you for this conversation because I'm looking

Elizabeth Mhangami:

forward to watching listening again, because there's realization that has

Elizabeth Mhangami:

come up in this conversation that I don't think I had prior to us pressing record.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So thank you for that and I think choose you.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Just choose yourself all the time.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I'm 42 now, and so there comes, you know, sage and wisdom with that.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

But I really, and I'm trying not to live in regret because it's futile, but I'm

Elizabeth Mhangami:

really trying now to be present and to choose me and be comfortable with selfish.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

That's awesome.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

I love it.

Rabiah Coon:

That's perfect.

Rabiah Coon:

The conversation would be great for me too, so I'm, I'm really glad.

Rabiah Coon:

So now I'm gonna do the Fun Five.

Rabiah Coon:

It's the last five questions that I ask every guest.

Rabiah Coon:

So what is the oldest T-shirt you have and still wear?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

The oldest T-shirt I have and still wear is a

Elizabeth Mhangami:

T-shirt my brother gave to me in 1998.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And it's a t-shirt that says Bungee Extreme.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It was a T-shirt, I think he bought in the town of Victoria Falls, where in

Elizabeth Mhangami:

that time, bane Jumping was just coming on the scene and there was a, a tourism

Elizabeth Mhangami:

company there that was promoting bungee jumping and there were stories that

Elizabeth Mhangami:

you could bungee jump naked for free.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And so I wore this t-shirt in the hopes that I would do that one day.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And I still wear it because it was, they made good clothes back in the nineties.

Rabiah Coon:

Nice.

Rabiah Coon:

So if every day was Groundhog's Day like it seemed during the pandemic, especially

Rabiah Coon:

like, you know, where the days were all the same, um, what song would you have

Rabiah Coon:

played to wake you up every morning?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

This question was so hard.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I wonder if this will age well.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

. It would be, I'm sorry to not follow the rules, but it's gonna be two

Elizabeth Mhangami:

songs and it's going to be the Indigo Girls galileo and Closer to Fine.

Rabiah Coon:

Oh, nice.

Rabiah Coon:

Okay.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

They would flow into eachother

Rabiah Coon:

We'll pretend it's an A and a B side or something.

Rabiah Coon:

All right, cool.

Rabiah Coon:

And then coffee or tea or neither?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Tea.

Rabiah Coon:

Tea.

Rabiah Coon:

All right.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Vestiges of colonialism, baby.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Four o'clock.

Rabiah Coon:

And I live in the co the colonialism country, believe me.

Rabiah Coon:

So can you think of a time when you like laughed so hard you cried,

Rabiah Coon:

or just something that always cracks you up when you think of it?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Oh gosh, there's so many.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I would say that the scene in The Big Lebowski where his landlord

Elizabeth Mhangami:

comes in, comes to him and says, dude, it's already the fifth.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And he's like far out.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And then the realization happens that his rent is due.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Bar none, will always get me,

Rabiah Coon:

Cause it's so great.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

and I think he's mixing a white Russian.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I'm gonna watch it

Elizabeth Mhangami:

tonight too.

Rabiah Coon:

I know.

Rabiah Coon:

Now we both have something to do this evening.

Rabiah Coon:

I really think I will.

Rabiah Coon:

Oh my God.

Rabiah Coon:

All right.

Rabiah Coon:

That's awesome.

Rabiah Coon:

All right.

Rabiah Coon:

And then the last of the Fun Five, who inspires you right now?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I would say that at the moment it would be Bell Hooks because

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I'm reading all About Love, which I was assigned to read in graduate school.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I read differently.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

And so I'm reading it now again and it It's just one of those things

Elizabeth Mhangami:

where I'm like, oh gosh, she was alive in my time and I just wish I

Elizabeth Mhangami:

had paid a lot of attention, but I just did say regret is wasted energy.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I don't regret it, but I am sort of, I don't know, reading her and,

Elizabeth Mhangami:

and receiving and understanding her differently in this moment.

Rabiah Coon:

Yeah.

Rabiah Coon:

Huh.

Rabiah Coon:

That's great.

Rabiah Coon:

Well, Liz, this has been awesome.

Rabiah Coon:

I wanna ask if you, if people wanna find you, wanna reach out to you or

Rabiah Coon:

anything like that, where's, where are the best places for them to go?

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Trying to wean myself off all the social media.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

So I think the best place and I think for this context, if anything I've said

Elizabeth Mhangami:

is useful to somebody is on LinkedIn.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

It's just Elizabeth Mhangami, but once they see the spelling on the

Elizabeth Mhangami:

podcast, they could just find me.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I'm not, I'm not hard to find.

Rabiah Coon:

Super.

Rabiah Coon:

All right.

Rabiah Coon:

Well, Liz, thanks so much for taking the time to chat with me.

Rabiah Coon:

I really appreciate.

Rabiah Coon:

It was really great.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

Thank you Avia.

Elizabeth Mhangami:

I'm glad we finally got to do this.

Rabiah Coon:

Me too.

Rabiah Coon:

Thanks for listening.

Rabiah Coon:

You can learn more about the guest and what was talked about in the show notes.

Rabiah Coon:

Joe Maffia created the music you're listening to.

Rabiah Coon:

You can find him on Spotify at Joe M A F F I A.

Rabiah Coon:

Rob Metke does all the design for which I'm so grateful.

Rabiah Coon:

You can find him online by searching Rob M E T K E.

Rabiah Coon:

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Rabiah Coon:

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Rabiah Coon:

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Rabiah Coon:

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Rabiah Coon:

And the website is more than work pod dot com (morethanworkpod.com).

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