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From Shy Pricer to Confident Pricing – with guest Jeannie Dougherty
Episode 324th February 2025 • The Pricing Lady • Janene Liston
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Welcome to Live With The Pricing Lady.

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I'm Janene, your hostess.

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This show is all about helping you build a sustainably profitable

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business while making an unbelievable impact on your world.

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Learn from my 20 years of experience and from my guests as we discuss their pricing

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challenges, failures, and successes.

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Pricing is a way of being or behaving in your business.

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My mission is to help you confidently charge for the value you deliver.

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Pricing is either hurting or helping your business.

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Let's make sure it's helping you reach your dreams.

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Hi, Jeanie, welcome to the show.

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Thank you for having me, Jeanine.

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I'm very excited to be here.

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I'm super excited to have you along.

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So don't, why don't we start with a few rapid fire questions.

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I'd like to know where are you joining us from today?

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I am just outside of Washington, DC.

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Ah, super.

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What would you call your superpower?

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Ooh, my superpower, I believe, is that I'm a money whisperer.

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I can tell when people are hedging with their pricing and their value, and I

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can also see when people have the money and when they don't have the money.

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Interesting.

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Look forward to learning more about that.

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What's one interesting thing you'd like to share with us that

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most people don't know about you?

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Most people don't know I'm from the West Coast.

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Huh.

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Yeah.

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I agree.

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Okay.

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Interesting.

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Is that not something you share with people very often?

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Well, I, I

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mean, people think I'm like local here.

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They're, they're like, Oh, you totally grew up here.

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What high schools you go to?

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And I'm like, well, West coast.

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And they're like, what?

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So.

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Super excellent.

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So next question, share with us a bit about what your business offers and

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how, how you got to where you are today.

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Okay.

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Let's say.

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So my business offers really started from a place of, , I was a counselor

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and I really wanted to, do this money coaching thing, you know,

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whatever this was going to look like.

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And I was trained to do it in two separate modules.

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And I realized that those offers were incomplete for me.

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And

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because I wanted to share more value and give people a leg up and make it easier

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for them now, instead of like, you know, Buy this, buy that, buy this, buy that.

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I, I don't really like that as a pricing strategy.

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And I think people get exhausted from it.

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Yeah.

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Cool.

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Excellent.

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When you started your business, what was pricing like for you

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the first time you sat down and had to set a price for something?

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Yeah, it's a total comparison.

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This is totally the way I was trained and I'll explain.

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So I learned how to price myself as a counselor by not independent of

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insurance companies by like, I've worked how long I know this special,

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you know, I know anxiety or depression.

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This is how I treat, you know, and then you just came up with

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your price and nobody challenges you on it except for a few.

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You know, I has this this now.

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I never claimed to be here in the local area to price myself

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well over two or 300 an hour.

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Some people do.

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And that's totally fine.

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I'm not against that kind of pricing strategy.

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But you probably want to make sure that you have more than just the price.

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You better have a very nice office.

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You better have, the latest in technology, and you also probably

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better be a member of a country club.

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And my experience is that people who really want your

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help don't care about that.

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So that was my experience.

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So you totally find your own way by comparison, which is

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not always a great strategy.

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Right, right.

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I mean, there's, it's good to understand where you fit in the marketplace.

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But if that's the only thing that you're basing your prices on, it can be risky.

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True.

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And service service and products are, you know, when I think about it just

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from a money perspective, like how do you create a price products are often,

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you know, derived by like an algorithm, but service is like all over the joint.

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Like, it's amazing to me what people will call, call a service

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and then put a price on it.

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And you're like, Oh, okay.

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I didn't know that.

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I didn't know you would charge for that.

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Thank you for letting me know.

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Right, right, right.

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So when it comes to the topic of money and pricing, of course, there are a lot

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of hangups and hiccups that people have.

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What have been your observations in this area?

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My first observation is I think the differences between the type of pricers

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that I've seen, and I know Janine, you and I have talked about this.

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There are the people that I would say that are bold.

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There are some that I would say are stubborn.

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And then I would say there are some that are shy.

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And then there's some just have no idea.

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It's whack a mole.

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They just, it's like they throw anything at the wall, throw it at the wall.

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See if it sticks.

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And, and that's a, that's a very costly pricing, you know, process in my opinion.

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I think it's fine if you're going to do it to start off, if you just, you don't

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know, and you're just kind of curious and you're very small, but eventually

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you're going to have to have some methodology, I think, to your pricing

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eventually.

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Right, right.

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So tell me more about the Shy Pricer.

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I'm curious about that.

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So the Shy Pricer is one that probably started off a little bit like me,

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very much in comparison, doesn't always understand their value.

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And if they do understand their value, they're often a people pleaser because

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they want to make sure it's a perfect price and they want to give you the

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best price and then they're going to pull back and give you a discount, which

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works in the brain very differently from when I say brain, I mean, the

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money brain and that's it's kind of to your detriment if you do it that way.

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Right.

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So what do you mean by the money brain?

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So I'm so glad you asked, I'm in the world of talking about money brain

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all day long and everyone else is like, what are you talking about?

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I'm like, sorry.

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So if you go to a doctor, they're going to say, no, I'm sorry,

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you don't have a money brain.

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And they're right, because your entire brain works with money.

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But from an emotional and behavioral rewiring perspective, which is what I

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do, I talk about the left and the right.

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Now there's always more to the brain.

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There's always more complexity, but I find that your average

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person won't not remember.

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So why, why go there?

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We're not neurologists.

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Let's all just kind of cruise along.

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So when I talk about the left side of our money brains, this is how

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we primarily understand and learn and practice and fail with money.

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So it's like, hey we're going to learn about numbers.

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We're going to learn about logic.

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We're going to learn about mistakes.

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We're going to learn about sometimes money trauma.

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And we're going to learn that from our families, from our communities and, you

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know, our governments and social media.

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Yep.

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That's how we learn it.

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And it's usually very negative.

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Yeah.

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It's not pretty good.

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So if you want to get to the right side of the brain, which is where you're

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more likely to experience forgiveness and empathy, if you've made a mistake,

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you're going to be able to actually harness your creativity to navigate away

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from a problem or a situation and go towards what the solution, which might

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be a price or adapting your value in some ways so that the price will fit.

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And the last piece, what I always love is about activating your, your

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money brain, like I don't know about you, but sometimes we're exhausted,

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you know, for all kinds of reasons.

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And so when you go to approach your business or you go to approach your

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service or your price, and if you're like, I'm going to start this today, then

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you're probably going to price too low.

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And it's not going to be good for you in the long run.

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And I think people really need to take a good look at like,

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are you ready for business?

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Are you ready for a phone call?

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Are you ready for a zoom?

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Are you ready to talk to your customers or clients?

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This is really important because when you're not ready, You owe, like

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I've seen people miss buying cues.

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They think that the person's going to buy just like the way they do, which

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they might take a really long time.

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Or like I wanted an answer now.

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, I had a, I had an interesting conversation with, another woman

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business owner who, her pricing, as far as she was concerned, she was fine.

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She knew what she was doing, but she would try, she tried to walk

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away from the sale in front of me.

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And I was like, no.

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I actually need you.

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You don't get away from me like that easily.

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And she was like, I never thought you did.

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And I was like, no, I need you for this.

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And she was like, Oh, well, this is my price.

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I know.

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That's why I'm here.

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Cool.

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So it's, you know, people are like, I didn't think you need me.

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Yeah.

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I've

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had people tell me, Oh, I'll say, you know, as a business owner,

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blah, blah, blah, blah, blah.

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And they'll be like, Oh, I never thought of myself as a business owner.

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Yeah.

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Ding, ding, ding, ding.

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Yeah.

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You're not just kind of like freewheeling it out here.

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Right.

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Right.

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Yeah.

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So what would you say are the characteristics of a shy pricer?

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Like if someone were to like reflect on their own behavior or their own

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thinking, what are some of the cues they might see that, that might

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indicate that that's where they are?

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So my experience as a shy pricer is somebody who wants to get

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ahead, but doesn't know how.

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Like their numbers never match.

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They can't get them to a place that makes sense to them.

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That's why all the numbers look the same, which is somewhat true

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and somewhat not true, right?

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You know, sure, you can price it as anything, but you better

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know what you're pricing it for.

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Meaning like what is, you know, the service that you're getting or

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the product that you're getting.

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I would also say that these folks are like heavy duty people

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pleasers and they know that.

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They know they're probably not going to stop anytime soon.

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But, you know, again, do you want your ideal client only?

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Are you, you know, is it like somebody in the ballpark is fine for your price?

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Or is it just a sweet spot that you just want these people?

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And I think that's where it really scares people why they become very shy, because

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it's easier to say you're working on it than committing to this is the price.

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Right, right.

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Do you think comparison plays a role in the personality type?

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Yes, and competition.

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And I'll, and I'll explain.

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So, you know, a lot of times a shy pricer is looking out because

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what other data do you have?

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You just look out, you know, what, what is a 97 course on anything?

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What's 27?

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I've heard, shy pricers tell me like, well, I just want to know what

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it'll sell at and versus, versus like, what should I price it at?

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And, and I think that's a very interesting, sneaky money brain

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switcheroo that we do with our brains.

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What do

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you think is, if we could just hit the right price, then it'll sell.

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And it's like.

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If you have a strategy behind it.

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Yes.

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I call that the build it and they will come theory.

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Yes.

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Yes.

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Gosh, darn Kevin Costner.

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And that, you know, the corn fields of, I think it was Iowa, but anyway,

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I mean, we'll just follow this crazy little voice in our head.

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We're going to knock down the corn, build a baseball farm, and then, or

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basically, you know, baseball field, and then everyone's going to show up and.

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It's kind of true, but there was like hundreds of millions

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of dollars thrown at it too.

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It's, I mean, in my opinion or my experience, actually,

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it's rarely how it works.

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Because people need to understand the value and then your price needs

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to match with what you're saying.

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I would say another characteristic of the shy pricer is what I

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call preemptive discounting

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where they

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discount the offer before the client's even seen it.

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Or they're throwing discounts out there preemptively because

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they feel uncomfortable with the price themselves and they're

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afraid of getting that rejection.

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Yes.

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Yes.

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Like I feel like in coaching circles, like the 000 off for the

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value is a common pricing gimmick.

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I

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mean, I appreciate if you're going to give me the discount, but if the thing

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was always worth 5, 000, but you're pretending you're giving me 1, 500 off.

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Okay.

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I mean, I'm going to figure it out.

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Yeah, I mean, those tactics work more often than we think they would because

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a lot of buying is so emotional.

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But again, there still has to be a layer of value expectation

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there before people will still, you know, will make the purchase.

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And if the discounts are too deep, then it starts to come on people's radars.

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It's too good to be true as well.

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Right.

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I think so.

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And I mean, of course, we haven't talked about the shy buyer, but I

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mean, but the shy pricer for sure.

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It's somebody who's like, I gotta get it just right.

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And I hope everyone's gonna like it.

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And it's like, no, they're not.

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No one necessarily has to like your price at all.

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Right, right.

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Well, before, because I'd like to get into some tips.

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I'd like to understand the shy buyer a little bit more because I would guess

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when the shy buyer and the shy price are come together, things get interesting.

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Well, I think so.

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I mean, like my experiences of a shy buyer, sometimes they're

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referred to as tire kickers because they, they mimic the same behavior.

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They're checking you out.

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They don't know they want to maybe ask some questions.

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Maybe they don't want to ask any questions, but they're

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just, they're lurking, you know?

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And so a shy buyer might only purchase one thing from you and then

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they'll study it very carefully.

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Maybe they'll come back if they think it's a deal.

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Maybe they'll ask a question.

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Maybe they won't.

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And I think trying to, to, to market to a shy buyer is a waste of time and money.

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It really is.

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I think it's better to find the buyer that's ready to buy today.

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I think you were going to spend less frustration on that.

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Than, you know, somebody who's sort of the lurking secret, not entirely

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sure may want to ask you 5 times.

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I've heard them also called the super slow cooker buyer, meaning they need a year

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and a half to think about this decision.

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Right?

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I'm like, you know, that's somebody on your newsletter list, or maybe following

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on social media who's just staring at you.

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Right?

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Okay.

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Who knows what they're thinking.

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Combing the

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archives of your posts.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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And I'm sort of like, who has that kind of time and

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energy?

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Yeah.

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I agree.

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It's a harder sell , in terms of, for a long period of time, you might

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not even know that they're there.

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Right.

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Right.

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Or you do have maybe like a minor interaction.

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You try to be helpful and then they just.

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You know what I mean?

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Like they just kind of quietly disappear into darkness.

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They're a little bit shy and we're all like,

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okay.

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But I think there's some things that you can do to filter those types of people

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out, you know, for like your one to one calls or discover calls, whatever

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you call it, you call that initial call that you have with a client prospect.

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There are things you can do to not end up on the phone with those people, if

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you will, or on a call with those people.

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So that.

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You know, they have the time to look at without wasting your time

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by, by hopping on a call with you.

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Not that it's wasted time.

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Maybe I'm putting that a little bit harshly, but, , a better use

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of both of your time, let's say.

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I actually think that's really a good point because I've seen

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this more often in people's discovery calls or first meetings.

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They ask you, are you ready to buy today?

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Not like, cause then it helps set the tone of you're not going to invest.

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You want to know.

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It's a conversation versus if you are ready to buy today,

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then it's a conversation about here's my product or service.

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Are you interested in this?

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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So one of my earlier episodes is actually on the topic of discovery

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calls and how to position them.

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Yes, like the pricing.

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So good topic there.

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So let's go back to the shy buyer for a moment because we've talked

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about how to identify if that's where you're, you know, operating right now.

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So what are the things, some of the things that you can be doing

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to shift yourself out of that shell shy buyer mode or pricer mode?

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Yeah.

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Oh, the shy pricer mode you mean?

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Mm-hmm . Not the buyer.

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Gotcha.

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Yeah.

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So what I always try to say is, you know, to folks is that if you feel at least

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80% certain on the price, go for it.

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Mm-hmm . I mean, you can always change it.

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Mm-hmm

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. You can always have a sale.

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You can always raise your rates, whatever you wanna do.

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I've learned to just increase my rates because there's certain people I

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would rather target than other people.

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I've heard people say this over and over in business schools.

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Like you will be dealing with people for a thousand dollars on a product

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or service, like over and over who are constantly dissatisfied.

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You raise it to 10, 000 and it's all sudden a different buyer.

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And it's like, yeah you get somebody who's prepared, ready to spend the money

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and is going to, you know, really get themselves in line to be like, I'm going

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to take every note that I need to take and ask all those questions and follow

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what you tell me because they understand the value, like you said earlier,

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of what it is that they're buying.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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I think that's one of the things that to me indicates a shy pricer is

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someone who really doesn't understand the value of what they're offering.

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And, and by value, I don't mean like a list of benefits.

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I mean, the actual economic value of what your offer brings people.

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And I think that's also an indicator, which means that if you do the work

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to understand that better, then you can pull yourself out of that

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shyness mode because you'll feel more.

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Tell people it's like having the little secret in your back pocket that nobody

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else knows when you understand that.

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Yeah.

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Hopefully other people get it, but you can't rely on them just to know it.

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You have to be out there doing the work, helping people to understand that.

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Yes, exactly.

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Because if people don't understand, a confused buyer, that's like the

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worst buyer will not buy from you.

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Like they're done.

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Like, and there's times that I look at people's stuff and I'm like, what is this?

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And then I'll try to like, I'll, you know, may I appear like a shy buyer.

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I'm trying to figure this out.

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It's not for me.

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I'm like, I'm obviously not the buyer.

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I can't get it.

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Yeah.

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I don't, I don't even care.

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Cool.

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I love this topic of the shy buyer because it's something I've seen so much over

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the years, still see, , regularly today.

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I think it's something that's here to stay.

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, one of the things that I like to talk about in this aspect is that,

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you know, it's not your fault.

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fault necessarily that you're a shy buyer.

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It's only your responsibility to make sure that you pull yourself out of there.

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One of the reasons I think a lot of people are stuck in this mode also

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is because The aspect of pricing that they've been exposed to.

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Yes.

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It's from being a consumer and the retail industry.

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And then they try to take what they see happening in the retail industry

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and apply that to their small business, whether it be consulting or coaching or

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product or software, it doesn't really matter, but they try to take those

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tactics and strategies and apply them in a context where they're not suitable.

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So that's one component, but then the other is sort of these money habits.

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that people have.

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what money habits?

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are really contributing to that as well.

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So again, I think it's that left side of the money brain and how people

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try to cross over to the right side.

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So the habits often are, I have money, I'm right, I'm not going to buy anything.

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Right.

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You know, I hear people say that.

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And next thing you know, they bought something right.

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And that is a retail thing.

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That is like retail knows how to kind of slowly position.

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Like they know how to put all these little things at the end of the,

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you know, literally the days you had to go through the checking line and

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then you'd start buying things there.

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So they knew what it was.

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Food was the big motivator and some like razors and like lotion and stuff like

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that stuff that people needed, but forgot.

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Right.

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But I also think it's.

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This really sort of thing that we have that we're like, well, I do have the

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money I think, but I don't know if I should buy this or I should purchase this.

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And this gets into our own value.

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Do I deserve to pay for a service?

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This is one of the things I think a lot of women business owners, they

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try to do everything by themselves because that's the way they were raised.

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That's how they raised their, their kids.

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They did everything themselves.

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They're incredibly exhausted and burned out.

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And you're like, you just paid an extra 500.

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Somebody would have done it for you.

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What?

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Yeah.

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500 bucks.

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I bet you had that somewhere, right?

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You could have charged another client or whatever, you know?

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And, and I think it's.

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You know, this confusion too is, you know, I only want to work with my friends.

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So this is where I think people get really messed up in the shy pricing,

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shy buyer, you know, conundrum.

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And that if I'm only working with people that I know where their kids go

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to school, I like them, dah, dah, dah, dah, that can cause a major problem.

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If you're trying to ask for the sale and the person's like I don't know.

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So I'll give you an example.

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So this woman, I think.

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I really do think she was along the lines of the shy

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Pricer.

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She was working with a friend that she knew in her community.

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They absolutely needed her help and so she offered to do this invaluable

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service that they could get another job and this person did not pay them

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and why because they did not put that front they put it last because you're my

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friend i'll know you'll pay it they did not they still not paid them Yeah, and

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I thought it is a few hundred dollars.

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It wasn't a ton of money.

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It doesn't matter, right?

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Right.

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And then I was like, oh no, you are in this little network of you

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think because this person goes to the same grocery store to be nice.

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That you're right.

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I'll be nice and do this for you.

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And then you get screwed.

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And that's a nice way of putting it, but, you know, I always admire the

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women and men business owners who are like, of course, I'm going to help you.

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Here's where you sign up on my calendar and here's how

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you pay and then we'll meet.

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And if you're not able to do that, great.

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Here's some of my free stuff.

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Take it.

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I remember I had a guest a couple of years ago, Ronna Lewis, and she said, get

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your mind out of other people's pockets.

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Yes.

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You know, and I think the shy pricers also, you know, that person

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mentality is like, Oh, well, I don't know if they can afford it.

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And it's not your job as the business owner to decide what

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your clients can or cannot afford.

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It's up to them to decide whether or not they want to make the

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investment.

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That's right.

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Because the money can come from anywhere and it's not all credit cards and you

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know, your parents, but you know, people will just feel like, oh, I didn't,

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you know, and that's, that's part of what I coach on is to teach people to

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look at the opportunity is around you.

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How are you positioning yourself?

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How are you talking about what it is that you want?

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What are your goals?

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What energy or amount of energy you've got that you can actually

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work on that every single day?

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Because it's important.

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Thanks.

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single action that's going to compound into success, you know, versus people

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are like, but I thought I just, you know, like I crammed for all my

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other tests and quizzes at school.

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You just do everything last minute.

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And it's like, you can.

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But you're probably not going to have sustained power to do that.

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And that's the thing that certain buyers, like an ideal buyer, will

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say, Oh, you seem to be kind of front and center, but I don't see

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that you're posting consistently.

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Before we start wrapping this up, I have one other area that I

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think is, , let's say typical of the shy buyer in many cases, and

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that's being afraid to raise rates.

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Oh, yes.

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Yes.

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I think what it is is that they've got some folks, you know, they started them

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off with a grandfather them and they've kept them at this price as they raise

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their rates and increase the value.

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They don't want to have that conversation because they're scared

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to death they're going to lose them.

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And I'm sort of like, you know, it's been 5 years.

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Ask, just ask, you know, Hey, I just want to let you know.

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Well, that's true.

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But I find if you just ask them and say, Hey, are you liking my service?

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You're like, I've raised my rates.

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I don't know if you know that this next invoice will be da da da.

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Because when you put it out there, like, did you know not I've raised my rates,

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Janine, I mean, like, and I sit back, I said, I said, I'm like, this is my arms

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folded, like, Who the hell told you to have a money conversation like that?

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You just want to prepare people.

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So they know, right, right.

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That's it.

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Because when people tell me the race rights, I go, Great, how much is it?

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It's 10 more an hour or whatever it is, or I go, That sounds fantastic.

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I'd be happy to pay it.

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And then I went, Yeah, you do the following for me.

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Okay.

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I'm happy to pay it.

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Right.

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There's a lot of stress behind it.

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And I love how you preempt it with a reminder of the

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value that they're getting.

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That's really important when you're communicating the price change.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Because if they're like, I won't be able to do it, then

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you can have that conversation.

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Nine times out of 10, if they love you, they'll pay you the extra.

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No problem.

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Exactly.

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Exactly.

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I agree.

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I think the challenge is, is it when you haven't raised them with some consistency,

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and I've seen this a lot recently, the price discrepancy gets so big that then

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the conversation feels a impossible.

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And so it's really important for the shy pricer to understand that you should

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probably be doing something with your prices regularly rather than waiting

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five or 10 years and putting yourself in the position of having to do something.

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Significant, which feels more uncomfortable.

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Yeah, this is why I love newsletters and social media posts.

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You can definitely talk, I mean, and usually you see it like around Black

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Friday and here in America and then also, you know, towards the end of the

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year, next year, the prices are going up.

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They don't necessarily what they are, but they are going to go up.

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And so I go, great.

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And then when people tell me what their prices are.

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It's not, it's not like it's 10 million dollars.

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No, no.

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It's like a few hundred dollars.

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It

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amazes me how, , how stressed out the peep, you know, the person who's

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selling something gets over a couple of percent increase in their price.

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And in their minds, there's this image of, you know, thousands

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of customers running over.

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and it's, you know, it's, it's unrealistic, for sure.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, I actually chuckled at this.

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I saw this.

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This is a national news.

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There's a chain.

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It's called Waffle House.

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I've actually never been.

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I've never felt to go to the Waffle House.

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Not because I don't like waffles.

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I've just, I've never been.

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I don't do a lot of processed food.

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So I try to That's my thing.

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But anyway, there's a Waffle House somewhere out there and I'm not

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saying, but they're having to raise their egg rates by 50 percent like

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how much they charge for eggs.

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And I'm like, well, that doesn't sound bad in the midst of, you know, an avian

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flu outbreak and you know, whatever else is going on in the economy.

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And, you know, of course they have to find people who are like 50 cents.

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I don't know if we're gonna be able to eat there.

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And it's like, come on.

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Come on, that then that's

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obviously not in some ways that they hadn't made the

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announcement and they just did it.

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Probably 99 percent of people would never even have noticed.

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But now we know Waffle House is charging 50 cents more an egg.

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Oh my God.

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Crazy.

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Well, why don't we go ahead and start wrapping this up?

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What's one thing you'd like people to remember from our conversation today?

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I would love them to remember that the struggle for pricing

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is a money brain issue.

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It's not just this isolated thing that showed up in your life.

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Great.

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Love that.

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Do you have a book, a podcast, or something you'd like to share

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and recommend to listeners today?

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I don't have a book or a podcast.

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I'm actually I am publishing a book later this year, but it's not available now.

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Sorry guys.

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But, I've not had a podcast yet.

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I don't think I'm ready for podcasts.

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Or one that you listen to that you enjoy?

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Oh, you mean yours?

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I love, that's how I found you.

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You're already

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here listening, so maybe you can come join us.

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Well, you know, what I do have that is, I have a money type quiz, and that is

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available on my website, that is, , you can take it, and if you want to talk to

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me, you'll might find like, We're going to talk about your money making capacity,

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which is, you know, the whole point of what I'm looking at when I look at your

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quiz, like, as I said before, that money whisperer, I can tell what's going on.

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Excellent.

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So we'll put a link to that in the show notes.

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And one last thing before you go, if people want to reach out and connect

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with you, where should they go?

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GlobalMoneyCoach.

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com.

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Okay, we'll put that link there as well.

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Jeanne, thank you so much for joining me today here on the show.

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It was a great pleasure.

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Any last words before we part?

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Yeah, I'm here to help you make your money work for you.

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Super.

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Excellent.

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All right, everyone.

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Thank you so much for joining us for this episode of Live with the Pricing Lady.

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If you have any questions, you can reach out to Jeannie or I. We'll put her contact

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information in the show notes for sure.

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