If you’ve been raising your fees—or want to—but your inquiries don’t reflect it, this episode is going to feel like a necessary reset.
Premium-fee clients aren’t “better” clients. They’re not more deserving. But they do make decisions differently. And if your website is still written for someone who’s debating whether therapy is worth it… you may be unintentionally repelling the very clients who are ready to invest.
In this episode, I’m breaking down the subtle messaging shifts that separate “shopping” inquiries from “choosing” inquiries. Because the clients who are prepared to pay $200, $300, $400+ per session aren’t asking, Should I go to therapy? They’ve already decided. They’re asking: Who is the right expert for me?
When your website aligns with that mindset, everything changes.
Here’s what you’ll learn in this episode:
1️⃣ The key difference between “shopping” and “choosing” inquiries—and how to position your website for clients who are ready to choose.
2️⃣ Four subtle messaging mistakes that quietly repel premium-fee clients (even when your intentions are good).
3️⃣ How to shift your website from convincing people therapy works to confidently showing why you are the right fit.
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About Marketing Therapy
Marketing Therapy is the podcast where therapists learn how to market their private practices without burnout, self-doubt, or sleazy tactics. Hosted by me, a marketing coach, strategist, and founder of Walker Strategy Co—each episode brings you clear, grounded advice to help you attract the right-fit, full-fee clients and grow a practice you feel proud of.
Hey there.
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:Welcome back to Marketing Therapy.
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:If you're trying to attract premium fee
clients in this market, your marketing
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:has one job and one job only, and that is
to make you the obvious choice for them.
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:Now before we get into this episode,
I do want to note that as I prepare
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:for maternity leave the number of
spots available to work with us in
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:a done-for-you capacity are limited.
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:So if you are seeking expert led, industry
leading therapist specific support.
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:When it comes to writing and
or designing your website, now
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:is the time to be reaching out.
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:You can schedule a free discovery
session with me@walkerstrategyco.com
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:slash services.
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:My calendar will be closing at the end
of March, and we will not be booking
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:new projects until the summertime.
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:So if this is something
that you have been.
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:Interested in.
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:If you are looking to elevate your
online presence and really bring in
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:those premium fee clients, then perhaps
one of those project slots is yours.
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:Alright, now let's get into it.
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:Premium fee Clients.
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:You've heard me talk a lot recently
about the fact that in general,
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:client behavior has changed.
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:We're all different than we
were 3, 5, 10 years ago, right?
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:And when we look at who is paying
premium fees, who is interested in
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:dishing out 200, 300, $400 plus per
session, there are some indicators,
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:there are some qualities, there are
some characteristics of those clients.
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:Now let me be very, very clear that
the quality of the therapy you are
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:providing, the quality of them as a human.
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:Absolutely no different than if
they are using their insurance
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:or paying on a sliding scale.
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:That's not what I'm talking about here.
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:What I am talking about in this
episode is the mindset and the approach
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:that clients who are prepared to pay
your fee have about therapy and how
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:your marketing can meet them there.
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:Okay?
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:Now there are two types of therapy
inquiries, and I hear this from y'all.
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:There are two types.
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:One is shopping, one is looking around,
one is talking to this therapist
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:and that the other is choosing.
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:Let me say that again.
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:There are two types of therapy inquiries.
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:One is shopping, the other is choosing.
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:I want you to attract clients who are
choosing you, not shopping around.
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:That is not to say that you're gonna
get on every single consult and people
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:are gonna be a hundred percent sold
on you every single time, and people
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:should engage in multiple consultations
with clinicians if they need to,
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:but I would love to see you attracting
more people who call and say, I've been
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:looking and looking and looking, and I
know you're the therapist that I want.
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:That's what I want for you, and that's
what we're talking about here today.
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:Now, here's the important thing to know.
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:Clients who are willing to pay
a premium fee are not asking,
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:Hmm, should I go to therapy?
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:Should I invest in this?
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:I wonder if this would be helpful.
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:They've already decided
therapy is worth it.
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:They already value it.
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:That decision has been made.
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:So when they are looking for a
therapist, they're asking one question,
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:who is the right expert for me?
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:If your website and your online presence
is written and positioned in such a way
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:that you are convincing someone therapy
works or that they need it, then you're
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:speaking to the wrong mindset here.
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:So let's look in this episode at what
your clients are scanning for on your
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:website and what to change so that that
website can really start pre-qualifying
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:people instead of inviting the shoppers.
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:Again, not that there's anything wrong
with the shoppers, but I want to see
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:you attracting more of the choosers.
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:So the old assumption.
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:It has often been that marketing
is about convincing someone to
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:do therapy, convincing someone
you can help, convincing someone
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:this is the right next step.
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:But in this new reality and in
this premium fee market, this is
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:about showing the right client
that you are their person.
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:Okay?
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:That's the shift here.
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:Premium fee.
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:Clients already believe
therapy is an investment.
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:They already know it's
expensive, quote unquote.
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:However, we measure that they're
not warming up to this idea.
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:They're prepared so when they
decide that you're the therapist
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:for them, it's because they see
your expertise, they feel the fit.
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:They've started to
cultivate some trust in you.
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:They get the sense that you see them
very, very quickly, that you're an expert
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:in the areas that they're looking for.
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:So attracting premium fee clients, we
talk about this often, but you're not
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:trying to be everyone's therapist here.
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:You're trying to be the obvious
choice for the right person.
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:Specificity right now is
your absolute greatest asset.
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:It is your greatest asset when it
comes to standing out to these clients.
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:Let's look at the two mindsets of people
as they make decisions about therapists.
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:And one of them was more prevalent a
few years ago, so if we think about,
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:The energy around that was very urgent.
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:People were looking for immediate
relief, like they needed a bandaid
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on availability, based on cost,
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:You can hear the urgency there, right?
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:So they were comparing
multiple therapists at once.
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:They were reducing the
decision down to logistics.
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:Is this person available?
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:Is this sort of what I need?
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:They're skimming for openings.
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:They're looking for proof that you can
do sort of what you say you can do.
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:Okay.
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:Do you hear the urgency?
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:Then?
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:We have the premium fee mindset,
and this is where we've seen it
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:shift to when studying full fee.
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:Clinicians that have continued to
be successful post pandemic, because
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so the clinicians who are continuing
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:to be successful in the premium fee
space in particular, they're speaking
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:This client has a different energy about
them that is calm, that is intentional.
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:Now, that's not to say that you
can't be a premium fee clinician
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:and meet people who have very,
very urgent or deeply felt needs.
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:Because at the end of the day, we
still need to meet a deeply felt need.
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the therapy shopping experience
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:They already expect to invest
their time, their money,
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:You love working with those motivated,
insightful, ready to do the work.
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:Clients, they have that energy about
them, so they are making decisions not
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do you seem like you know what you're
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:doing, but on fit on specialization.
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:On approach on does this person seem like
they would actually see and understand me?
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:Do they specialize in the very
specific challenges I am facing?
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:So their decision making criteria
is fundamentally different
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:So on websites and in your marketing,
they're reading things more closely.
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:They're looking for signals of
expertise, of specificity, of experience
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:that are gonna match the level of
investment they are prepared to make.
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:They wanna have that feeling of like,
oh, that's exactly what I've been
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:trying to put words to, or that's
exactly what I've been looking for.
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:That's the experience
that they're seeking.
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:And so this shows up in your inquiries
when you hear things like, your
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:website spoke to me, or I looked
at 10 other therapist websites and
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:I chose yours because of the way
it made me feel and what it said.
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:Or, I've been looking for
someone who specializes in this.
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:What's your process?
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:What's the next step?
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:There's a motivation.
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:So if you want more of that second type
of inquiry, your website has to be built
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:We are seeing more and more how
your website dictates your ability
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:to command hire fees, to establish
yourself as an expert and as a go-to
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:Your website's job is to convey
the professionalism and drive the
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:perception that your clients have of
you, because you can be a fantastic
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:therapist, but if your website doesn't
go before you and set that expectation,
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:then your clients keep looking.
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:That's the risk here,
but also the opportunity.
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:If your website can do its job,
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:your website is telling
on you one way or another.
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:It's either telling on you that you
are a therapist offering a fantastic
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:premium level boutique experience who
deeply specializes in the needs of
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:your clients or that you're more of a
generalist now we know that regardless
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:of the premium fee mindset or the
pandemic mindset, that people are making
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:fast and gut level decisions about
you when they land on your website.
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:Studies actually show us we
have less than a half second
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:It's one of the reasons design
matters so much more today than it
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making a gut level decision about
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:Do they feel specialized?
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:Does this match the experience
that I expect to have in therapy,
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:Right?
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:They're seeking out these signals.
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:And so your website has to
communicate specificity.
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:Again, you're not for everyone.
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:The most successful practices
right now are exclusive.
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:They are very comfortable with
being the right fit for some clients
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:and the wrong fit for others.
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:Confidence.
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:You're leading, not
pleading for inquiries.
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:You are showing up in your
marketing as the clinician
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:you want to be and competence.
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:You know what it is
that you specialize in?
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:You claim that expertise, and
there's a heir of authority in
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:how you present yourself that
makes you immediately trustworthy.
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:Because these clients, again, they're
not hunting for the cheapest option.
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:That's not the criteria by which they
are deciding who they're gonna work with.
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:They are trying to reduce risk.
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and your job is to make that
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:That's the job of your website.
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:So here are a few mistakes that I
sometimes see clinicians make and
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:that we are really, really mindful of.
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clinicians and done for you and
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:what our students in Confident
Copy learn to avoid as well.
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:The first mistake is attempting
to actually sell therapy.
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:So long explanations of why therapy
matters, as if the client doesn't already
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that could really apply to anyone about
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:Now, this backfires because again,
premium clients don't need to be
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:convinced that they wanna go to therapy
or that it can work, and so it can make
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:you sound like a more of a generalist.
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I want you to write as if you are
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:assuming that they're already bought in.
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:They already know they need this
speak, like the guide that they're
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:searching for, the person who's gonna
lead them to the change that they're
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:wanting, not convincing them that
they need a guide to begin with.
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:This is focusing more on why you, on what
you bring to the table and how you work
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:and displaying your level of understanding
as opposed to convincing them that
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:this is something that they need.
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:You don't have to make the argument
for therapy in your marketing, okay?
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:This is about making the argument
that you are the right therapist
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:for them, and that shift is serious.
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:When you make that shift,
that shift is huge.
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:Now, if you've been in Confident copy, you
say, Anna, what about the empathy blocks?
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:Or if you've seen us write copy, we
are acknowledging the pain points.
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:Absolutely, because your clients
premium fee or pandemic or
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:whoever are still coming motivated
by challenges in their lives.
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:But when we overemphasize them, it
can sort of create a desperation
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a therapist website who.
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:Has had their website live for a long
time, and man, I scroll for days on that
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:homepage, just painting this dire picture
of what the client is experiencing.
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:27 ways your life is
falling apart right now.
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:Empathy is all about displaying
a level of understanding.
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:That's why we have to acknowledge these
pain points, but when we do it too much,
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:then we end up leading them back into the
spiral that they're trying to get out of.
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:So there's a balance here in naming
the experience that brings your
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:But doing it maturely, doing it
with nuance, displaying enough as
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:we call stickiness for someone to
be like, oh, you're in my head.
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:Or, oh, I had that thought last
night at 2:00 AM but not so much
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:so that we are assuming that they
lack self-awareness or complexity.
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:Right.
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:So we're not catastrophizing
on your website.
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:We are acknowledging, we are displaying
understanding, but we're not inviting them
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:And that's a balance, a
really, really fine one.
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:The tangible elements of your work,
the center of your client's decision.
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:Now again, there's a balance here
and it, this is fundamentally about
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:knowing what it is that your clients
need and are seeking out of therapy.
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:If you do very, very structured
therapy with a very clear process,
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or it's a concentrated timeline,
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we've gotta share about the process.
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aren't likely to base.
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sessions, oh, well this therapist
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sessions, and this one said 16.
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:That's probably not why they're
gonna choose you, right?
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:They're choosing based on the kind of
change they want to experience on the
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:experience they're gonna have with you
and on your ability to lead them there.
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expectation setting that needs
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:We're actually gonna talk about
that in next week's episode when
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:But we wanna even further emphasize
outcomes and transformation
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:because at the end of the day,
that is what they're motivated by.
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:If you're gonna tell me that I'm gonna be
able to stop bending over backwards for
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:everyone else to put my own needs first
and to feel better in my relationships
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:the way we get there, whether it's 16
sessions or there's lots of structured
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don't, doesn't matter as much to me.
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:So again, making sure that we are
highlighting and most heavily emphasizing
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:those outcomes and transformation is
what's going to invite someone to actually
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by when deciding who to work with.
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:This is also about being able to share
your approach without the jargon and
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:sharing about what you bring to the room,
why you're really good at what you do,
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:the process that you take people through.
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:That's hard.
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:It's one of our favorite things to
translate in our done for you clients
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I've never been able to say the way
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:that I work that way before is one
of the coolest compliments we get.
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:But you do need to find a way to
share about the way that you work,
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:You based on that, without leaning into
the clinical space where their eyes
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:It's about showing what it's like to
work with you in your language, that
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:process at a higher level so that
people, again, are understanding how
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end of the day, are most motivated
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paying for sessions.
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:They're paying for the shift, those
sessions are going to lead to, okay.
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:The last mistake I sometimes see
clinicians make is speaking to
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as I mentioned earlier, I want you
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:I want you to speak to the client
who already knows they're gonna do
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it or is the next therapist it.
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:So speaking to readiness in your
marketing, again, premium fee
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whether or not they need this.
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whether they are bad enough.
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into it or coerced.
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:They're there, but a lot of
therapist websites are written to
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:It's okay to reach out,
stop struggling in silence.
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:These are all good things to say and
sometimes people need to hear it.
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:That language is compassionate, but
it's also speaking to someone who is
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start therapy at all, and we wanna be
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:avoiding that energy in your marketing.
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in that readiness energy.
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about this for months.
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:Talked about it with friends,
budgeted for it, right?
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right therapist for me.
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hesitation, then it subtly lowers
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over the edge into therapy, speak
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forward and is now just deciding,
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:Assume that they know that they want
depth, that they value expertise,
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them that you are the right choice.
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:This is all very, very subtle, but these
are the types of things that a premium
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like you are speaking to me because of
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:All of these mistakes come
fundamentally from two things.
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do very, very well, what you bring to
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where your client finds themself, what
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are motivated by, and what type of
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:It can be tempting to feel like
you need to generalize your copy
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marketing, or stay broad or stay open.
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is your greatest asset, especially when
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deciding to pay premium fees for therapy
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you with a desire to relieve symptoms.
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spouse last night, or I snapped at
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and I feel horrible about it, or a
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completely at a crossroads in my life.
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coming to you with a.
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they're in right now.
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signing up for is the deeper stuff.
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in their lives in a way that they
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and to stop attracting the wrong
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the pattern that they keep
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to relieve anxiety, for instance, if
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primary challenge, they're here
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:Like everything is about to fall
apart and to stop waiting for
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frustrated with a pattern of people
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:pleasing that I can't get out of, really
what they want is to be able to say what
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just coming in because they keep fighting.
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:They're coming in 'cause they
wanna feel like a team again.
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:They wanna remember why they fell in love.
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:Your website's job is to
speak to this deeper desire to
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:help these clients feel seen.
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:So they're stopped in their
tracks and they say, oh yes,
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:Symptom relief, yes, but
ultimately that deeper change.
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:So here's some questions you can ask
yourself as you're looking at your
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to the mindset of a premium fee client?
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client already values therapy or does it
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:Two, do I sound specialized?
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other therapist sites that one can hurt?
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it elsewhere and it still fit?
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:If so, then we have some
opportunity for specificity.
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:Do I sound like a guide, an expert
with a clear approach, or like someone
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here, would they feel like
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:Fine isn't cutting it right now for
these premium fee clients, we need
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:to be making you the destination for
the symptom relief, but ultimately
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your clients are motivated by and
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:Now, as I mentioned, if you're sitting
here thinking, okay, I get it, Anna,
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this, or I don't know where to start.
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or I don't have a website yet,
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:That's why we offer our
done for You services.
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:This is about creating websites that
don't just look good, 'cause Pretty
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does some pre-qualifying, right?
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:I was talking to a potential done for
you client yesterday in a discovery
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of feedback we get from our clients
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is how good the fit is.
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they're getting on conversations with
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:people who are perfect for them, who are
quoting their website back to them because
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:their website is doing that filtering.
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mindset of their ideal client and
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who are not the right fit for them.
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:So it's about creating a website that
goes before you, that's priming your
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you are perceived by them matching
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create is to make premium fee
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is what I've been looking for.
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details about our done for you
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slots before maternity leave begins.
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like, Anna, I'm not ready for that,
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I wanna dig more deeply into this.
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Caseload Workshop on Demand, so this is
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and now is available for you to watch
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diving more deeply into the mistakes
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their website that are keeping them from
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how to do it, show me how to fix it
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full caseload would be awesome for you.
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CWFC, and jump right in.
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deeply into what those mistakes
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shifts on your existing website.
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this market do not need convincing.
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the obvious next step for them.
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website's job especially, is to
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do have to establish yourself as the
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to lead like the guide that you are who
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the life change that they are seeking.
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see you in our next episode.
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