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There’s a kind of loneliness that doesn’t look like being alone. It looks like a full life, a partner you care about, a home you’ve worked hard for, yet something inside you still feels distant or quietly aching. Maybe conversations feel shallow, you’re carrying more than anyone realises, or you feel misunderstood in the places that matter most.
In this episode, Lauren Dry is joined by Emma Gibbens, a speaker, author and mentor who helps people talk about the things they usually avoid. Together, they unpack why loneliness shows up for high-functioning adults, how dissociation can sneak in without noticing, and why connection can feel risky even when you want it.
This conversation is about clarity, honesty and learning to stay with yourself long enough to reconnect in a way that feels real and mutual again.
You’ll hear us explore:
- Why loneliness appears even when your life looks full and functioning
- The difference between healthy space and emotionally checking out
- How fear and survival patterns shape your reactions and assumptions
- Why friction and discomfort are part of real intimacy
- Small ways to make hard conversations feel safer for everyone involved
Resources & Links:
- Learn more about Rise into Regulation, the skillset for connection, communication, and nervous system safety in modern marriage → Rise into Regulation™
- Follow Lauren on Instagram → @lauren_dry
Connect with Emma Gibbens:
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Big love,
Lauren X
