From the football field to the classroom, Mike Harris shares his incredible journey of faith, competition, and self-discovery. Discover how a former professional footballer found his true calling and learned to embrace God's unconditional love. Tune in to hear how he tackled life's challenges head-on and found freedom beyond the football pitch. Don't miss this inspiring story of transformation and faith!
ABOUT MIKE
Once a professional footballer who kicked the ball around for teams like Blackburn and Newcastle United, he's now scoring goals as a PE teacher in lively Liverpool! When he's not inspiring the next generation of sports stars, he's having a ball with his incredible wife, Debbie, and their two amazing little teammates. Mike's life is definitely a home run!
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Anna Kettle:Hello and welcome to What's the Story?
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Anna Kettle:I'm your host for this episode of What's The Story Podcast, and today I'm
Anna Kettle:joined by my good friend Mike Harris.
Anna Kettle:Now Mike is a P teacher from Liverpool, and he's also an
Anna Kettle:ex-professional footballer.
Anna Kettle:He's played for a number of different teams, including
Anna Kettle:Blackburn and also Newcastle United.
Anna Kettle:He's married to Debbie and Dad's two wonderful kids.
Anna Kettle:Now, Mike and I have been friends for, I was trying to work it out earlier
Anna Kettle:today, but certainly over 20 years now.
Anna Kettle:And in fact, we first met, um, at Christian Gap year that we both did
Anna Kettle:here in Liverpool in 2001, 2002.
Anna Kettle:So we've known each other for a good for years.
Anna Kettle:And incidentally, that was also the year where he first met his wife Debbie.
Anna Kettle:So it was quite an important year, all in all in your
Mike Harris:Very important.
Anna Kettle:Thanks so much for joining us today.
Anna Kettle:I'm so excited to have you on the show.
Anna Kettle:It's great to have you on here.
Mike Harris:here.
Mike Harris:Thank you for having me.
Anna Kettle:It's a pleasure.
Anna Kettle:So I guess we should start at the beginning really, shouldn't we, and find
Anna Kettle:out a little bit more about you, Mike.
Anna Kettle:So obviously you grew up in a Christian family.
Anna Kettle:You came from quite a religious background in many ways, but I guess I'm kind of
Anna Kettle:interested in when it really started to mean something for you personally.
Anna Kettle:Like when did you kind of.
Anna Kettle:Find a faith that was personal to you.
Anna Kettle:Can you tell us a bit more about that kind of journey sort of through your
Anna Kettle:childhood and into, into Christianity,
Mike Harris:So, um, I was one of five children, um, and
Mike Harris:grew up in a Christian family.
Mike Harris:Uh, we were all quite close in age.
Mike Harris:There was five of us under the age of four at one point.
Mike Harris:Um,
Anna Kettle:which being a parent now, you're like, how did
Anna Kettle:your mom and dad ever do that
Mike Harris:heck did they do that?
Mike Harris:Yeah, yeah.
Mike Harris:I mean, I, I never needed any friends growing up, uh, which,
Mike Harris:which was a nice thing cause cause I had enough of them at home.
Mike Harris:Um, and so, so that was good.
Mike Harris:So I had two brothers, two sisters.
Mike Harris:Um, and sport was a big part of my life, um, as well as going to church.
Mike Harris:So we went to church three times every Sunday.
Mike Harris:Um, and I'd also go to a youth group during the week at church.
Mike Harris:Um, and then I'd play a lot of sports.
Mike Harris:And in particular football.
Mike Harris:Um, and so when I was 12, really, I mean I played football all the time,
Mike Harris:but when I was 12 I was playing for my secondary school and my dad, um,
Mike Harris:like any dad thought that, um, their son was really good at football.
Mike Harris:Um, the difference was that my dad had a cousin who was a coach at Blackburn,
Mike Harris:um, Rovers, and so he invited them along to come and watch me play.
Mike Harris:Um, He thought that I was good as well.
Mike Harris:So then I went up to Blackburn for a trial, um, and I ended up
Mike Harris:staying there for four years.
Mike Harris:Um, so I was there til I was 16 and I absolutely loved it.
Mike Harris:I mean, I loved football, I loved playing sport.
Mike Harris:I loved the affirmation that I got from it because I was good at it as well.
Mike Harris:Um, and all of that was very good.
Mike Harris:Um, and then when I was 16, Um, my, uh, coach at the time who was a guy
Mike Harris:called Allen Irvine, um, he left and went to Newcastle with Kenny Daglish,
Mike Harris:who was the manager of Blackburn.
Mike Harris:And, um, I went with him, um, to Newcastle.
Mike Harris:So at the age of 16 and I left home, went to Newcastle, um, signed as a
Mike Harris:YTS and then signed as a professional.
Mike Harris:Um, and I was there, um, for a few years.
Mike Harris:Um, I didn't really go to church whilst I was there.
Mike Harris:Um, I, I had to go to church when I was at home, but because I'd left home,
Mike Harris:my mum and dad said, it's up to you.
Mike Harris:Um, and they did have a friend in Newcastle who they
Mike Harris:used to send to the hotel.
Mike Harris:Cause we lived in a hotel at the time.
Mike Harris:Um, and they used to send this friend.
Mike Harris:Um, Nick to the hotel and every time he used to come, I used to hide.
Mike Harris:Um, and I used to, I used to tell the, the manager, hotel,
Mike Harris:just tell him I'm not here.
Mike Harris:Tell I'm not.
Mike Harris:Um, because, because for me, Christianity, um, and I, you know, I heard this
Mike Harris:said on the off course, um, but for me, for me, Christianity was boring.
Mike Harris:Um, it, it was irrelevant to my life.
Mike Harris:I was gonna be a professional footballer.
Mike Harris:You know, I, I was a professional footballer, so, um, It was irrelevant
Mike Harris:and, and I don't think I would say that I felt like it was untrue,
Mike Harris:but I definitely didn't know.
Mike Harris:Um, so it was a boring, it was irrelevant, and I didn't know if it was true.
Mike Harris:Um,
Anna Kettle:And it certainly wasn't top of your agenda when you're leaving
Anna Kettle:home at 16 and the living that football a lifestyle for the first time,
Anna Kettle:you got a first taste of freedom.
Anna Kettle:I'm guessing it's probably not the first thing you, you think, oh, I
Anna Kettle:need to go and find a good church.
Anna Kettle:Is it.
Mike Harris:Absolutely.
Mike Harris:And, and, you know, you, you just, I just didn't feel like I needed it.
Mike Harris:You know, I, I, I, I, I had everything that I'd, that I'd always wanted.
Mike Harris:Um, and, you know, um, So that was Newcastle.
Mike Harris:Um, but obviously Newcastle didn't, you know, I'm not currently a Premiership
Mike Harris:footballer, so Newcastle didn't work out.
Mike Harris:Um, I, I was a professional footballer there, which was great.
Mike Harris:Um, but unfortunately after a few years, um, my contract came to an end and I
Mike Harris:hadn't made it into the first team.
Mike Harris:By this time, Ken Daglish had been fired.
Mike Harris:Ruud Gullit came in as the manager.
Mike Harris:After the year, Ruud Gullit got fired and Bobby Robson became the manager.
Mike Harris:Um, I hadn't made it into the first team, and so new, uh, Bobby Robson decided that
Mike Harris:he wasn't gonna give me another contract.
Mike Harris:Um, I then went on trial to lots of different clubs, um, and, um, I went on
Mike Harris:trial to loads and loads different clubs over and, and it over a number of years.
Mike Harris:Some clubs I spent longer at, um, than others.
Mike Harris:Um, but I wasn't able to really find a club that was, um, That was prepared
Mike Harris:to give me a long term contract.
Mike Harris:Um, and I ended up at a club called Chester City.
Mike Harris:Um, and it was whilst I was there that, um, I became a Christian and I wish,
Mike Harris:I wish I could remember more about the actual, how it happened, but, but
Mike Harris:a few, a few things that happened.
Mike Harris:Um, so one of the things that happened was that I, I was, I remember having
Mike Harris:a conversation with my mom, um, and she'd just come back from a Christian
Mike Harris:camp called, um, M C Y C, Christian Camps, which lots of people within,
Mike Harris:um, uh, Liverpool up been into.
Mike Harris:And, um, she was just talking to me about how amazing it was and how,
Mike Harris:um, What a great time she'd had.
Mike Harris:And I just remember thinking, um, that she had a peace and a joy that, that I didn't.
Mike Harris:Um, and also she had a peace and a joy that, that I hadn't seen in any of my
Mike Harris:heroes that I'd spent a lot of time with.
Mike Harris:And, and I knew because, because I've been brought up as a Christian.
Mike Harris:although it wasn't real to me, I knew that at that moment that the,
Mike Harris:the reason why I, my mom was like that was because she had a faith and
Mike Harris:because her faith was in Jesus Christ.
Mike Harris:Um, so that was one thing that I remember being a defining moment.
Mike Harris:Um, but there were others.
Mike Harris:So I remember when I was at Newcastle, I had bought a brand new car, me and my two.
Mike Harris:Roommates had, um, been out and we, we decided to buy, buy three of the same car.
Mike Harris:Um, I think we thought we'd get like three for the price of
Mike Harris:two or, or something like that.
Mike Harris:Um, but what what actually happened was that they, they just charged
Mike Harris:us far more than, um, they would've charged any other normal person.
Anna Kettle:They just saw three naive young footballers coming
Anna Kettle:through the showroom, I guess.
Mike Harris:And I remember, you know, the registration, I
Mike Harris:remember the registration number.
Mike Harris:So I got a blue one.
Mike Harris:It was a Vauxhall Tigra.
Mike Harris:Um, so I got a blue one, um, and they got a gray one and
Mike Harris:the other make got a black one.
Mike Harris:And we all parked them next to each other in, in our, in our
Mike Harris:triple garage, uh, that we had.
Mike Harris:Uh, and my registration was V293FBN.
Mike Harris:My other mate was V294 FBN and V295FBN.
Mike Harris:It's funny that you remember that, isn't it?
Mike Harris:Um, but anyway, about about three weeks after buying this car, I
Mike Harris:was traveling back up to Newcastle and um, I had my mate in the car.
Mike Harris:Um, Who'd also come from Blackburn to Newcastle with me.
Mike Harris:Um, and we had some coronation chicken in the Tupperware box on the backseat.
Mike Harris:And as we were traveling back up to Newcastle, we actually
Mike Harris:got back up to Newcastle.
Mike Harris:We were in Durham.
Mike Harris:Um, and I was traveling along an A road and I clipped the curb on the, at
Mike Harris:the central reservation and sent the car across the, the, a road and we hit
Mike Harris:a tree at 70 miles an hour head on.
Mike Harris:Um, Fortunately, quite a long, long story short, um, I was
Mike Harris:fine and my mate was fine.
Mike Harris:Uh, the coronation chicken wasn't, um, not so much.
Mike Harris:Um, but I remember thinking, um, at the time, I don't know what would've
Mike Harris:happened to me had I had I died.
Mike Harris:Most people who hit a tree 70 mile an hour die.
Mike Harris:And I didn't.
Mike Harris:I was, I was spared for whatever reason and I remember thinking,
Mike Harris:I don't know where I'd gone.
Mike Harris:I was brought up a Christian, I was brought up to believe in, in, in Heaven,
Mike Harris:and I was brought up to believe in Helen.
Mike Harris:And I remember feeling anxious, at least about the fact that
Mike Harris:I didn't know where I'd gone.
Mike Harris:Uh, had I been killed in that crash.
Mike Harris:And so I think those two things were the, were two of the, the catalysts,
Mike Harris:um, for me making a, making a decision.
Mike Harris:Um, that, that eventually, so that the car crash came first and then the conversation
Mike Harris:with my mom came later on, um, that, that I wanted to become a Christian.
Mike Harris:I can't remember exactly when it happened, but I do remember
Mike Harris:whilst there was at Chester.
Mike Harris:Um, and a time after I'd spoken to my mom, I remember opening up the Bible,
Mike Harris:which wasn't the first time because I'd spent a long time in church.
Mike Harris:But I just remember opening up the Bible and for the first time ever,
Mike Harris:it felt like God was speaking to me.
Mike Harris:Um, it felt like the book was alive.
Mike Harris:It felt like, um, It felt powerful.
Mike Harris:It felt like nothing had ever read before.
Mike Harris:Um, it felt amazing.
Mike Harris:Um, and so it, it was then that I decided that I wanted to be a Christian.
Mike Harris:I wanted to follow, um, um, wanted to follow, Jesus wanted to be a disciple.
Mike Harris:Um, I had wasted all of my money.
Mike Harris:Um, so I had three and a half thousand pound left.
Mike Harris:And so I decided that I wanted to do a year out and I looked all over
Mike Harris:the world, literally all over the world for somewhere to go to do a
Mike Harris:year out, uh, a Christian year out.
Mike Harris:And the only one that I could find was 10 minutes down the road in
Mike Harris:Wavery, um, which was the Omega team that, um, that me and you did.
Mike Harris:Um,
Anna Kettle:Yep.
Mike Harris:You know that that was a, another turning point, um, in
Mike Harris:my life and my relationship with.
Anna Kettle:Fab.
Anna Kettle:So obviously there, there's a lot in that and there's a lot you've covered,
Anna Kettle:you know, that sort of journey into faith and some of that disappointment
Anna Kettle:that you're working through around kind of your football career, not
Anna Kettle:working out quite the way you expected.
Anna Kettle:But I mean, what would you say is, would you say that's a big challenge
Anna Kettle:that you've had to overcome?
Anna Kettle:What, what's what, what's been the hardest thing up to now?
Anna Kettle:Cuz you know, a journey of faith is great, but it's not all.
Anna Kettle:Easy.
Anna Kettle:Is it, it's not necessarily an easy life being a Christian, so I'm in,
Anna Kettle:I'm interested where, where did it go
Mike Harris:Uh, yeah, so I think.
Mike Harris:One of the big, biggest challenges that I've faced and, and I'm still facing,
Mike Harris:you know, if, if I'm honest, is, um, just accepting God's unconditional love for me.
Mike Harris:Um, I have spent most of my life in a very competitive environment.
Mike Harris:Um, you know, I, I left home when I was 16, which very young, and
Mike Harris:I was thrust into a very, very competitive, um, situation where,
Mike Harris:um, You know, I, I was, I was faced with the competition of my peers.
Mike Harris:I wanted to do better than them.
Mike Harris:Um, all of us were focused on being in the first team and we were competing again.
Mike Harris:We were aware that we were competing against each other.
Mike Harris:Um, and um, so I was dealing with that.
Mike Harris:I was also dealing with the fact that I'd left home.
Mike Harris:Um, and that wasn't easy.
Mike Harris:I didn't have my mum and dad there, although my dad did come an awful
Mike Harris:lot of time, which was amazing.
Mike Harris:Um, I didn't have mum and dad there every day to say, you know, keep going.
Mike Harris:We think you're great.
Mike Harris:We love you.
Mike Harris:Um, I also had the pressure, which I felt, um, which wasn't always real,
Mike Harris:but, but, but I felt like it was real.
Mike Harris:So, uh, I wanted, you know, I'm a son so I wanted to please my dad.
Mike Harris:Um, I didn't want to be, I didn't wanna let get, let go.
Mike Harris:I wanted to be successful.
Mike Harris:I wanted to be captain of England.
Mike Harris:Um, and, um, So, so I had that pressure.
Mike Harris:Um, Alan Irvine had taken a ga a bit of a gamble on me, I suppose my coach, um,
Mike Harris:and brought me up to Newcastle and that, you know, I didn't wanna let him down.
Mike Harris:Um, and that was, that was a pressure, um, that I felt, you know,
Mike Harris:I have friends at home, um, and my peers at home who, who knew me as
Mike Harris:Mike, the lad, who's a professional footballer, and I didn't want to.
Mike Harris:I didn't wanna come home and say it's not worked out.
Mike Harris:Um, and so that whole earning and um, that competition is something
Mike Harris:that when I became a Christian, was difficult to, to get rid of.
Mike Harris:Um, and so learning about how.
Mike Harris:Much God loves me and that it is unconditional has been a slow process,
Mike Harris:probably quite frustrating for God.
Mike Harris:Um, but it has been quite a slow process for me.
Mike Harris:And, you know, the Omega team was, was a massive, massive step, um, in
Mike Harris:the right direction for me in learning about God's unconditional love.
Mike Harris:Um, a huge step.
Mike Harris:Um, but it's something that.
Mike Harris:You know, it's still, um, a challenge, um, that I'm I had
Mike Harris:expecta lots of expectations that I didn't want to, um, disappoint.
Mike Harris:Um, I also came from a very, um, accomplished sporting background,
Mike Harris:you know, in that lots of my family were very, very good at sports.
Mike Harris:Um, my, my dad was a, a basketballer for England and, um, You know, a sister
Mike Harris:who represented Great Britain and athletics, a brother who represented
Mike Harris:Great Britain Athletics, another brother who was second in Europe in gymnastics,
Mike Harris:you know, so I've got lots of, um, very successful siblings and, and I
Mike Harris:just, I, you know, It's difficult.
Mike Harris:Then once you become a Christian, I found, um, to then accept that God loves
Mike Harris:me without me doing anything, without me winning a single medal, you know,
Mike Harris:without me, um, accomplishing anything.
Mike Harris:Um, and so I think for me, coming out of that world of, of sport,
Mike Harris:um, that has been one of my biggest challenges, um, and biggest battles.
Anna Kettle:Sure, sure.
Anna Kettle:And I, I'm interested like, cuz that's obviously huge and I, in
Anna Kettle:serious space, I'm interested in like, how did that theme then continue
Anna Kettle:to unfold in your life from there?
Anna Kettle:So what happened sort of after that?
Anna Kettle:So you came out of that professional football and Yeah.
Anna Kettle:What next?
Mike Harris:after the.
Mike Harris:I felt like God was wanting me to go back into football.
Mike Harris:Um, which, which at least was interesting for me because I, you
Mike Harris:know, I, I didn't really still have the same love for football.
Mike Harris:Um, but that was what I felt like God was asking me to do.
Mike Harris:And so I went back into football right at a very low level, um, and
Mike Harris:assigned fora club called Trafford.
Mike Harris:Um, loved it.
Mike Harris:Um, really enjoyed playing there.
Mike Harris:And then I got a move up league to, to Runcorn and then I got a, a move
Mike Harris:up another league, um, to Lee Rmi.
Mike Harris:Um, and however I realized that um, you know, by this time I was
Mike Harris:like 24, 25 and I needed to make a decision really about what was gonna.
Mike Harris:B, my future.
Mike Harris:Um, because, you know, I was, I was wise enough to understand that I wasn't
Mike Harris:going to be, um, I wasn't gonna make enough money from football for me to be
Mike Harris:able to, to do that as my only career.
Mike Harris:Um, at the time I was, you know, I was a semi professional footballer.
Mike Harris:Um, and so it was at that point I was married at the time, um, and
Mike Harris:my wife was a teacher, and so, um, I decided that I was gonna be, uh,
Mike Harris:going to PE teaching, so I did the degree, um, I managed to, Um, great.
Mike Harris:Um, very proud of that because school didn't go very well.
Mike Harris:Didn't go great for me because, you know, I felt like I was gonna be a
Mike Harris:professional footballer, so I didn't really have a lot of time for school.
Mike Harris:But, um, I managed to get that first in my degree.
Mike Harris:And I've been a teacher now, a PE teacher, um, at a big Catholic
Mike Harris:comprehensive, uh, for 14 years and.
Mike Harris:The way that I feel like, um, I've grown as a Christian is that, you know, it,
Mike Harris:what's interesting is at the moment, I'm at a point in my career where, um, I'm
Mike Harris:wanting to, I'm wanting to change and I'm wanting to make some decisions about, um,
Mike Harris:where I go and what and what I do next.
Mike Harris:Um, I'm considering the possibility of maybe stepping back from my role.
Mike Harris:Uh, I'm currently, um, head of PA and I'm, I'm currently thinking
Mike Harris:about the possibility of me stepping back and maybe taking a less senior
Mike Harris:position or even maybe coming out of teaching and doing something,
Mike Harris:um, you know, something different.
Mike Harris:And, um, I think it's only because I have grown to learn about how much that
Mike Harris:God loves me, that I feel like I could.
Mike Harris:Take a step back in my career, which, which many people would see as as, um,
Mike Harris:you know, maybe me not doing so well.
Mike Harris:But I think because I have grown in my faith and I've, no, I know more now that,
Mike Harris:that, that God loves me unconditionally.
Mike Harris:I feel like that is an option.
Mike Harris:Um, and you know, it, it's only a small thing, but, but, but for
Mike Harris:me that, that's quite a big deal.
Mike Harris:Um, And shows.
Anna Kettle:Yeah.
Anna Kettle:It's quite counter-cultural, isn't it?
Anna Kettle:Actually, it's quite, it's unusual, like there's kind of this idea that you should
Anna Kettle:just always be going up another wrong on your career and earning more money
Anna Kettle:and more prestige and, you know, that's, that's kind of how our culture thinks.
Anna Kettle:So that, that sort of sense of freedom you have, that you can step outside of that.
Anna Kettle:It's quite unusual I think like yeah, it's quite a big change from being
Anna Kettle:in that high performance world that you used to be in where like actually
Anna Kettle:feel like you've got that freedom to be like, I can explore different
Anna Kettle:things and I can do anything I want.
Anna Kettle:Like, you know, with God here and yeah, that's quite, quite incredible really, it?
Mike Harris:One of the interesting things was when I was coming out of
Mike Harris:football as I was sort of, um, you know, I was playing semi professional
Mike Harris:football, I met lots of other footballers.
Mike Harris:Um, Um, who had, had, had, you know, relatively successful careers and
Mike Harris:they were sort of on their way out, if you like, and, you know, you could,
Mike Harris:you could see that, that for a lot of people or a, a lot of lads who I knew,
Mike Harris:you know, As a Newcastle professional people, people wouldn't recognize me,
Mike Harris:but people would know that I played for Newcastle, mainly because of the
Mike Harris:people who I was with at the time.
Mike Harris:And so I could go to a party or I could go to a club, or I could go to
Mike Harris:a bar and I could walk in and people would know that I played for Newcastle.
Mike Harris:And so there was quite a lot of cudos and.
Mike Harris:It as a young lad, that was, that was massive.
Mike Harris:Um, and, and so when I was, you know, a semi-professional footballer
Mike Harris:and, um, you know, it was very, very different, um, to being at Newcastle
Mike Harris:and being with other players, and you could see how that was a struggle, a
Mike Harris:big struggle for, for lots of people.
Mike Harris:You know, they, they were struggling to come to terms with the fact that.
Mike Harris:They weren't going to be that person.
Mike Harris:They weren't gonna have that same sway and that same power and that
Mike Harris:same, um, kudos going into those bars.
Mike Harris:And so a lot of them would go into, a lot of them under, understandably,
Mike Harris:in one way would go into drugs and things like that because that was
Mike Harris:the only thing that, that, that, that meant you could go into a bar or to a
Mike Harris:club or to a party and have a similar.
Mike Harris:The cues that he got from being a footballer.
Mike Harris:Um, and so, and, and that was interesting.
Mike Harris:Um, for me, it, you know, it was never a temptation for me.
Mike Harris:Um, but it, it, it was interesting that, that it's just such a battle for
Mike Harris:people, um, to, to give it up and to, to be able to, you know, maybe take a
Mike Harris:step back and, and accept that, that, you know, that that's the next step.
Anna Kettle:Yeah.
Anna Kettle:Yeah, so I mean, your story is really outside of the norm, isn't it?
Anna Kettle:In that sense?
Anna Kettle:And it, to me, that just speaks of how much work God's done in your life.
Anna Kettle:But I mean, obviously your story's not over yet.
Anna Kettle:You are still thinking about what your next career step is or what you
Anna Kettle:changed, what changes might be afoot.
Anna Kettle:So, you know, I'm aware that you are certainly not at
Anna Kettle:the end of your story yet.
Anna Kettle:You know, there's still way more chapters to be written, which is exciting and.
Anna Kettle:You know, I'm personally excited to see what God does with you
Anna Kettle:next and where he takes you next.
Anna Kettle:If you do, do something slightly different or step back from teaching a little bit.
Anna Kettle:But I mean, just reflecting up to where you are right now, um, what
Anna Kettle:do you think youve learned through all of this experience up to date?
Anna Kettle:Like if you, I know it's a really hard thing to ask, isn't it?
Anna Kettle:But if you could just distill it down to one sort of like, lesson in
Anna Kettle:life, what would that thing be like?
Anna Kettle:What's that thing that.
Anna Kettle:You feel like this is what I know now that I didn't know before.
Mike Harris:I think, um, it would, it, I've mentioned it before, but I
Mike Harris:think it would be that, that, that God's love for me is unconditional.
Mike Harris:Um, I've just finished reading a book, um, that, that talks about the fact that,
Mike Harris:you know, that, that we have different, there's different sort of horizons and you
Mike Harris:know, when we, when we know that God, um, has a future for us and, um, we can have a
Mike Harris:hope in something that is certain and that is, um, not gonna change in the future,
Mike Harris:then it impacts how we behave and how we.
Mike Harris:The, the level of joy and freedom that we can have, um, in our own lives.
Mike Harris:And you know what, what's been interesting for me is that coming out
Mike Harris:of football is that people, you know, pupils ask me, you know, why did, um,
Mike Harris:why are you not a football anymore?
Mike Harris:Did you get an injury?
Mike Harris:And what, what they want to hear is that I've got an injury.
Mike Harris:They don't want to hear that, that No, actually my story is that
Mike Harris:I, I wasn't quite good enough.
Mike Harris:You know, I was good enough to be a professional footballer and that was
Mike Harris:fantastic, but my football career didn't come to an end because of an injury.
Mike Harris:And it's difficult, you know, it, it's almost like a, um, a kill Joey,
Mike Harris:you know, in that moment to say to someone, no, I didn't get an injury.
Mike Harris:I just wasn't good enough.
Mike Harris:Um, but you just don't often hear that story, you know?
Mike Harris:Yet the reality is for, for 95% of professional footballers, that's
Mike Harris:the truth, you know, that they became professional footballers.
Anna Kettle:Mm.
Mike Harris:It wasn't that they got an injury, they, they just weren't good
Mike Harris:enough in the end to be able to continue.
Mike Harris:And so, you know, learning that God loves me unconditionally has given me the
Mike Harris:freedom to be able to answer that question honestly and say, football was great.
Mike Harris:Football was brilliant and I wouldn't change it for the
Mike Harris:world, but I didn't get injured.
Mike Harris:I just wasn't good enough.
Mike Harris:And now I'm doing something else and I'm, I'm really proud of this.
Mike Harris:Um, and even though you might not be as proud of me, um, as a, as you would
Mike Harris:be if I was a professional footballer, you know, I know the goddess, um,
Mike Harris:Uh, some of the words that are in the Bible, you know, I'm a father
Mike Harris:at the moment, um, or I am a father.
Mike Harris:Um, and the words in, in the Bible where, where Jesus speaks
Mike Harris:and he says, my son, my son.
Mike Harris:And he, he says it a number of times and it's, it, the, those words have
Mike Harris:meant an awful lot to me because when I look at my son, The feelings that I
Mike Harris:have for him that he does not need to do anything in order to make me pleased
Mike Harris:and make me happy, and make me proud.
Mike Harris:Um, and the more I have dwelt on those words, that, that God looks at me and
Mike Harris:the first thing he says is My son.
Mike Harris:son.
Mike Harris:And after that, you know, everything else that, that I.
Mike Harris:Feel like I'm doing for God is almost irrelevant to the fact that, that he is
Mike Harris:my father and he sees me as, as his son.
Mike Harris:Um, and you know, I actually think had I known this when I was a professional
Mike Harris:footballer, um, I think I would've been a better, better footballer.
Mike Harris:Um, I think I would've played with a lot more freedom.
Mike Harris:Um, you know, when I was a professional footballer, I, I felt like.
Mike Harris:Everything was a risk.
Mike Harris:You know, if I play with freedom, it's a risk.
Mike Harris:It's a risk because what if it, what if it goes wrong?
Mike Harris:And I, I get, I, I get subbed, or what if I get taken off?
Mike Harris:Everything was a risk, you know?
Mike Harris:And the, the more.
Mike Harris:You learn about how unconditionally God loves you, less and less
Mike Harris:of your actions become a risk.
Mike Harris:It just becomes you acting out of freedom, acting with a whole lot more joy.
Mike Harris:Um, one of my, one of my favorite verses in the Bible is, is Roman a 29, which says
Mike Harris:that, God is changing me into the likeness of Jesus so that I, so that he will
Mike Harris:be the first born among many brothers.
Mike Harris:And for me, the, the reason why I like the best is because it says
Mike Harris:that God is continually changing me into the likeness of Jesus.
Mike Harris:Um, and you know, when we, when I reflect on.
Mike Harris:When I reflect on what my life has been like and what my life is going to be
Mike Harris:like in the, in the future, um, on Earth, um, I'm aware of the fact that, that
Mike Harris:God is changing me to lightness Jesus.
Mike Harris:And so there will be ups and there will be downs, and there will be, um,
Mike Harris:things that are unexpected and there will probably be disappointments.
Mike Harris:But, but when I know that my father has a plan, His plan to change me to
Mike Harris:likeness of Jesus, that I, I can have a lot more, uh, assurance and peace
Mike Harris:knowing that, that he is in control, um, that he loves me unconditionally.
Mike Harris:Um, and therefore I am free.
Anna Kettle:Yeah.
Anna Kettle:Yeah, that's so true.
Anna Kettle:It is amazing.
Anna Kettle:And um, yeah, I mean that's, that's just an inspiring point to finish on really,
Anna Kettle:cuz it's something we all need to know.
Anna Kettle:It's something we all need deeper revelation of, I think.
Anna Kettle:And, you know, such a powerful.
Anna Kettle:Example that you've got in your own life.
Anna Kettle:And you know, Mike, it's just, yeah, I'd love to talk to you
Anna Kettle:loads more, but I'm aware of time.
Anna Kettle:But it's been fascinating hearing your story today and hearing a bit more
Anna Kettle:of your take on this, um, coming from that kind of performance world and
Anna Kettle:learning that freedom and that joy of just being who you are and God.
Anna Kettle:Um, so thank you so much for giving up your time and talking with us today, and
Anna Kettle:it's just been a pleasure to have you on.
Mike Harris:okay.
Mike Harris:It's been great to be here.
Mike Harris:Thank you.
Anna Kettle:No problem.
Anna Kettle:Just to say to anyone who's listening today, you know, if you may not have
Anna Kettle:had a professional football career, but if your story, if Mike's story is like,
Anna Kettle:resonated with you today in any way, if, if what he's talking about around
Anna Kettle:knowing freedom and who you are and.
Anna Kettle:In Jesus, uh, resonates knowing more of the father's love for you.
Anna Kettle:Then I know Mike would be happy to talk to you one on one or can next, so you know,
Anna Kettle:if you want to hear more or reach out to him personally, you can connect with us
Anna Kettle:at Crowd Church through the website and.
Anna Kettle:Drop us, just drop us an email or a message on the website
Anna Kettle:and we can put you in touch.
Anna Kettle:I'm sure he'd be happy to share more of his story with anyone who's interested.
Anna Kettle:So thanks again for, uh, being here today.
Anna Kettle:Mike, it's been a pleasure chatting to you.
Anna Kettle:And thank you also to you listeners for being here and listening in.
Anna Kettle:That's all from us right now, and we will, um, see you again soon.
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