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Football Faith And Finding Your Identity In Christ
Episode 3011th July 2023 • What's the Story? • CROWD Church
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From the football field to the classroom, Mike Harris shares his incredible journey of faith, competition, and self-discovery. Discover how a former professional footballer found his true calling and learned to embrace God's unconditional love. Tune in to hear how he tackled life's challenges head-on and found freedom beyond the football pitch. Don't miss this inspiring story of transformation and faith!

Here’s a summary of this week’s story:

  • Mike Harris grew up in a Christian family and was one of five children. He was heavily involved in sports, particularly football, and church activities. He played football professionally for Blackburn Rovers and Newcastle United.
  • He left home at 16 to pursue his football career, which was a challenging time for him. He felt a lot of pressure to succeed and to not disappoint his family and coach.
  • After his football career, he struggled with accepting God's unconditional love for him due to his competitive background. He had to learn that God's love was not dependent on his achievements or success.
  • He returned to football at a lower level after feeling that God wanted him to do so. He played for several clubs but realized he needed to make a decision about his future as he wouldn't make enough money from football alone.
  • He decided to go into PE teaching and completed a degree. He also speaks about the importance of understanding God's unconditional love and how it has given him the freedom to accept his journey, including the end of his football career. He believes that understanding God's love would have made him a better footballer as it would have allowed him to play with more freedom and joy.

ABOUT MIKE

Once a professional footballer who kicked the ball around for teams like Blackburn and Newcastle United, he's now scoring goals as a PE teacher in lively Liverpool! When he's not inspiring the next generation of sports stars, he's having a ball with his incredible wife, Debbie, and their two amazing little teammates. Mike's life is definitely a home run!

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very special guest for today.

Anna Kettle:

Hello and welcome to What's the Story?

Anna Kettle:

My name is Anna.

Anna Kettle:

I'm part of the Crowd Church team here.

Anna Kettle:

I'm your host for this episode of What's The Story Podcast, and today I'm

Anna Kettle:

joined by my good friend Mike Harris.

Anna Kettle:

Now Mike is a P teacher from Liverpool, and he's also an

Anna Kettle:

ex-professional footballer.

Anna Kettle:

He's played for a number of different teams, including

Anna Kettle:

Blackburn and also Newcastle United.

Anna Kettle:

He's married to Debbie and Dad's two wonderful kids.

Anna Kettle:

Now, Mike and I have been friends for, I was trying to work it out earlier

Anna Kettle:

today, but certainly over 20 years now.

Anna Kettle:

And in fact, we first met, um, at Christian Gap year that we both did

Anna Kettle:

here in Liverpool in 2001, 2002.

Anna Kettle:

So we've known each other for a good for years.

Anna Kettle:

And incidentally, that was also the year where he first met his wife Debbie.

Anna Kettle:

So it was quite an important year, all in all in your

Mike Harris:

Very important.

Anna Kettle:

Thanks so much for joining us today.

Anna Kettle:

I'm so excited to have you on the show.

Anna Kettle:

It's great to have you on here.

Mike Harris:

here.

Mike Harris:

Thank you for having me.

Anna Kettle:

It's a pleasure.

Anna Kettle:

So I guess we should start at the beginning really, shouldn't we, and find

Anna Kettle:

out a little bit more about you, Mike.

Anna Kettle:

So obviously you grew up in a Christian family.

Anna Kettle:

You came from quite a religious background in many ways, but I guess I'm kind of

Anna Kettle:

interested in when it really started to mean something for you personally.

Anna Kettle:

Like when did you kind of.

Anna Kettle:

Find a faith that was personal to you.

Anna Kettle:

Can you tell us a bit more about that kind of journey sort of through your

Anna Kettle:

childhood and into, into Christianity,

Mike Harris:

So, um, I was one of five children, um, and

Mike Harris:

grew up in a Christian family.

Mike Harris:

Uh, we were all quite close in age.

Mike Harris:

There was five of us under the age of four at one point.

Mike Harris:

Um,

Anna Kettle:

which being a parent now, you're like, how did

Anna Kettle:

your mom and dad ever do that

Mike Harris:

heck did they do that?

Mike Harris:

Yeah, yeah.

Mike Harris:

I mean, I, I never needed any friends growing up, uh, which,

Mike Harris:

which was a nice thing cause cause I had enough of them at home.

Mike Harris:

Um, and so, so that was good.

Mike Harris:

So I had two brothers, two sisters.

Mike Harris:

Um, and sport was a big part of my life, um, as well as going to church.

Mike Harris:

So we went to church three times every Sunday.

Mike Harris:

Um, and I'd also go to a youth group during the week at church.

Mike Harris:

Um, and then I'd play a lot of sports.

Mike Harris:

And in particular football.

Mike Harris:

Um, and so when I was 12, really, I mean I played football all the time,

Mike Harris:

but when I was 12 I was playing for my secondary school and my dad, um,

Mike Harris:

like any dad thought that, um, their son was really good at football.

Mike Harris:

Um, the difference was that my dad had a cousin who was a coach at Blackburn,

Mike Harris:

um, Rovers, and so he invited them along to come and watch me play.

Mike Harris:

Um, He thought that I was good as well.

Mike Harris:

So then I went up to Blackburn for a trial, um, and I ended up

Mike Harris:

staying there for four years.

Mike Harris:

Um, so I was there til I was 16 and I absolutely loved it.

Mike Harris:

I mean, I loved football, I loved playing sport.

Mike Harris:

I loved the affirmation that I got from it because I was good at it as well.

Mike Harris:

Um, and all of that was very good.

Mike Harris:

Um, and then when I was 16, Um, my, uh, coach at the time who was a guy

Mike Harris:

called Allen Irvine, um, he left and went to Newcastle with Kenny Daglish,

Mike Harris:

who was the manager of Blackburn.

Mike Harris:

And, um, I went with him, um, to Newcastle.

Mike Harris:

So at the age of 16 and I left home, went to Newcastle, um, signed as a

Mike Harris:

YTS and then signed as a professional.

Mike Harris:

Um, and I was there, um, for a few years.

Mike Harris:

Um, I didn't really go to church whilst I was there.

Mike Harris:

Um, I, I had to go to church when I was at home, but because I'd left home,

Mike Harris:

my mum and dad said, it's up to you.

Mike Harris:

Um, and they did have a friend in Newcastle who they

Mike Harris:

used to send to the hotel.

Mike Harris:

Cause we lived in a hotel at the time.

Mike Harris:

Um, and they used to send this friend.

Mike Harris:

Um, Nick to the hotel and every time he used to come, I used to hide.

Mike Harris:

Um, and I used to, I used to tell the, the manager, hotel,

Mike Harris:

just tell him I'm not here.

Mike Harris:

Tell I'm not.

Mike Harris:

Um, because, because for me, Christianity, um, and I, you know, I heard this

Mike Harris:

said on the off course, um, but for me, for me, Christianity was boring.

Mike Harris:

Um, it, it was irrelevant to my life.

Mike Harris:

I was gonna be a professional footballer.

Mike Harris:

You know, I, I was a professional footballer, so, um, It was irrelevant

Mike Harris:

and, and I don't think I would say that I felt like it was untrue,

Mike Harris:

but I definitely didn't know.

Mike Harris:

Um, so it was a boring, it was irrelevant, and I didn't know if it was true.

Mike Harris:

Um,

Anna Kettle:

And it certainly wasn't top of your agenda when you're leaving

Anna Kettle:

home at 16 and the living that football a lifestyle for the first time,

Anna Kettle:

you got a first taste of freedom.

Anna Kettle:

I'm guessing it's probably not the first thing you, you think, oh, I

Anna Kettle:

need to go and find a good church.

Anna Kettle:

Is it.

Mike Harris:

Absolutely.

Mike Harris:

And, and, you know, you, you just, I just didn't feel like I needed it.

Mike Harris:

You know, I, I, I, I, I had everything that I'd, that I'd always wanted.

Mike Harris:

Um, and, you know, um, So that was Newcastle.

Mike Harris:

Um, but obviously Newcastle didn't, you know, I'm not currently a Premiership

Mike Harris:

footballer, so Newcastle didn't work out.

Mike Harris:

Um, I, I was a professional footballer there, which was great.

Mike Harris:

Um, but unfortunately after a few years, um, my contract came to an end and I

Mike Harris:

hadn't made it into the first team.

Mike Harris:

By this time, Ken Daglish had been fired.

Mike Harris:

Ruud Gullit came in as the manager.

Mike Harris:

After the year, Ruud Gullit got fired and Bobby Robson became the manager.

Mike Harris:

Um, I hadn't made it into the first team, and so new, uh, Bobby Robson decided that

Mike Harris:

he wasn't gonna give me another contract.

Mike Harris:

Um, I then went on trial to lots of different clubs, um, and, um, I went on

Mike Harris:

trial to loads and loads different clubs over and, and it over a number of years.

Mike Harris:

Some clubs I spent longer at, um, than others.

Mike Harris:

Um, but I wasn't able to really find a club that was, um, That was prepared

Mike Harris:

to give me a long term contract.

Mike Harris:

Um, and I ended up at a club called Chester City.

Mike Harris:

Um, and it was whilst I was there that, um, I became a Christian and I wish,

Mike Harris:

I wish I could remember more about the actual, how it happened, but, but

Mike Harris:

a few, a few things that happened.

Mike Harris:

Um, so one of the things that happened was that I, I was, I remember having

Mike Harris:

a conversation with my mom, um, and she'd just come back from a Christian

Mike Harris:

camp called, um, M C Y C, Christian Camps, which lots of people within,

Mike Harris:

um, uh, Liverpool up been into.

Mike Harris:

And, um, she was just talking to me about how amazing it was and how,

Mike Harris:

um, What a great time she'd had.

Mike Harris:

And I just remember thinking, um, that she had a peace and a joy that, that I didn't.

Mike Harris:

Um, and also she had a peace and a joy that, that I hadn't seen in any of my

Mike Harris:

heroes that I'd spent a lot of time with.

Mike Harris:

And, and I knew because, because I've been brought up as a Christian.

Mike Harris:

although it wasn't real to me, I knew that at that moment that the,

Mike Harris:

the reason why I, my mom was like that was because she had a faith and

Mike Harris:

because her faith was in Jesus Christ.

Mike Harris:

Um, so that was one thing that I remember being a defining moment.

Mike Harris:

Um, but there were others.

Mike Harris:

So I remember when I was at Newcastle, I had bought a brand new car, me and my two.

Mike Harris:

Roommates had, um, been out and we, we decided to buy, buy three of the same car.

Mike Harris:

Um, I think we thought we'd get like three for the price of

Mike Harris:

two or, or something like that.

Mike Harris:

Um, but what what actually happened was that they, they just charged

Mike Harris:

us far more than, um, they would've charged any other normal person.

Anna Kettle:

They just saw three naive young footballers coming

Anna Kettle:

through the showroom, I guess.

Mike Harris:

And I remember, you know, the registration, I

Mike Harris:

remember the registration number.

Mike Harris:

So I got a blue one.

Mike Harris:

It was a Vauxhall Tigra.

Mike Harris:

Um, so I got a blue one, um, and they got a gray one and

Mike Harris:

the other make got a black one.

Mike Harris:

And we all parked them next to each other in, in our, in our

Mike Harris:

triple garage, uh, that we had.

Mike Harris:

Uh, and my registration was V293FBN.

Mike Harris:

My other mate was V294 FBN and V295FBN.

Mike Harris:

It's funny that you remember that, isn't it?

Mike Harris:

Um, but anyway, about about three weeks after buying this car, I

Mike Harris:

was traveling back up to Newcastle and um, I had my mate in the car.

Mike Harris:

Um, Who'd also come from Blackburn to Newcastle with me.

Mike Harris:

Um, and we had some coronation chicken in the Tupperware box on the backseat.

Mike Harris:

And as we were traveling back up to Newcastle, we actually

Mike Harris:

got back up to Newcastle.

Mike Harris:

We were in Durham.

Mike Harris:

Um, and I was traveling along an A road and I clipped the curb on the, at

Mike Harris:

the central reservation and sent the car across the, the, a road and we hit

Mike Harris:

a tree at 70 miles an hour head on.

Mike Harris:

Um, Fortunately, quite a long, long story short, um, I was

Mike Harris:

fine and my mate was fine.

Mike Harris:

Uh, the coronation chicken wasn't, um, not so much.

Mike Harris:

Um, but I remember thinking, um, at the time, I don't know what would've

Mike Harris:

happened to me had I had I died.

Mike Harris:

Most people who hit a tree 70 mile an hour die.

Mike Harris:

And I didn't.

Mike Harris:

I was, I was spared for whatever reason and I remember thinking,

Mike Harris:

I don't know where I'd gone.

Mike Harris:

I was brought up a Christian, I was brought up to believe in, in, in Heaven,

Mike Harris:

and I was brought up to believe in Helen.

Mike Harris:

And I remember feeling anxious, at least about the fact that

Mike Harris:

I didn't know where I'd gone.

Mike Harris:

Uh, had I been killed in that crash.

Mike Harris:

And so I think those two things were the, were two of the, the catalysts,

Mike Harris:

um, for me making a, making a decision.

Mike Harris:

Um, that, that eventually, so that the car crash came first and then the conversation

Mike Harris:

with my mom came later on, um, that, that I wanted to become a Christian.

Mike Harris:

I can't remember exactly when it happened, but I do remember

Mike Harris:

whilst there was at Chester.

Mike Harris:

Um, and a time after I'd spoken to my mom, I remember opening up the Bible,

Mike Harris:

which wasn't the first time because I'd spent a long time in church.

Mike Harris:

But I just remember opening up the Bible and for the first time ever,

Mike Harris:

it felt like God was speaking to me.

Mike Harris:

Um, it felt like the book was alive.

Mike Harris:

It felt like, um, It felt powerful.

Mike Harris:

It felt like nothing had ever read before.

Mike Harris:

Um, it felt amazing.

Mike Harris:

Um, and so it, it was then that I decided that I wanted to be a Christian.

Mike Harris:

I wanted to follow, um, um, wanted to follow, Jesus wanted to be a disciple.

Mike Harris:

Um, I had wasted all of my money.

Mike Harris:

Um, so I had three and a half thousand pound left.

Mike Harris:

And so I decided that I wanted to do a year out and I looked all over

Mike Harris:

the world, literally all over the world for somewhere to go to do a

Mike Harris:

year out, uh, a Christian year out.

Mike Harris:

And the only one that I could find was 10 minutes down the road in

Mike Harris:

Wavery, um, which was the Omega team that, um, that me and you did.

Mike Harris:

Um,

Anna Kettle:

Yep.

Mike Harris:

You know that that was a, another turning point, um, in

Mike Harris:

my life and my relationship with.

Anna Kettle:

Fab.

Anna Kettle:

So obviously there, there's a lot in that and there's a lot you've covered,

Anna Kettle:

you know, that sort of journey into faith and some of that disappointment

Anna Kettle:

that you're working through around kind of your football career, not

Anna Kettle:

working out quite the way you expected.

Anna Kettle:

But I mean, what would you say is, would you say that's a big challenge

Anna Kettle:

that you've had to overcome?

Anna Kettle:

What, what's what, what's been the hardest thing up to now?

Anna Kettle:

Cuz you know, a journey of faith is great, but it's not all.

Anna Kettle:

Easy.

Anna Kettle:

Is it, it's not necessarily an easy life being a Christian, so I'm in,

Anna Kettle:

I'm interested where, where did it go

Mike Harris:

Uh, yeah, so I think.

Mike Harris:

One of the big, biggest challenges that I've faced and, and I'm still facing,

Mike Harris:

you know, if, if I'm honest, is, um, just accepting God's unconditional love for me.

Mike Harris:

Um, I have spent most of my life in a very competitive environment.

Mike Harris:

Um, you know, I, I left home when I was 16, which very young, and

Mike Harris:

I was thrust into a very, very competitive, um, situation where,

Mike Harris:

um, You know, I, I was, I was faced with the competition of my peers.

Mike Harris:

I wanted to do better than them.

Mike Harris:

Um, all of us were focused on being in the first team and we were competing again.

Mike Harris:

We were aware that we were competing against each other.

Mike Harris:

Um, and um, so I was dealing with that.

Mike Harris:

I was also dealing with the fact that I'd left home.

Mike Harris:

Um, and that wasn't easy.

Mike Harris:

I didn't have my mum and dad there, although my dad did come an awful

Mike Harris:

lot of time, which was amazing.

Mike Harris:

Um, I didn't have mum and dad there every day to say, you know, keep going.

Mike Harris:

We think you're great.

Mike Harris:

We love you.

Mike Harris:

Um, I also had the pressure, which I felt, um, which wasn't always real,

Mike Harris:

but, but, but I felt like it was real.

Mike Harris:

So, uh, I wanted, you know, I'm a son so I wanted to please my dad.

Mike Harris:

Um, I didn't want to be, I didn't wanna let get, let go.

Mike Harris:

I wanted to be successful.

Mike Harris:

I wanted to be captain of England.

Mike Harris:

Um, and, um, So, so I had that pressure.

Mike Harris:

Um, Alan Irvine had taken a ga a bit of a gamble on me, I suppose my coach, um,

Mike Harris:

and brought me up to Newcastle and that, you know, I didn't wanna let him down.

Mike Harris:

Um, and that was, that was a pressure, um, that I felt, you know,

Mike Harris:

I have friends at home, um, and my peers at home who, who knew me as

Mike Harris:

Mike, the lad, who's a professional footballer, and I didn't want to.

Mike Harris:

I didn't wanna come home and say it's not worked out.

Mike Harris:

Um, and so that whole earning and um, that competition is something

Mike Harris:

that when I became a Christian, was difficult to, to get rid of.

Mike Harris:

Um, and so learning about how.

Mike Harris:

Much God loves me and that it is unconditional has been a slow process,

Mike Harris:

probably quite frustrating for God.

Mike Harris:

Um, but it has been quite a slow process for me.

Mike Harris:

And, you know, the Omega team was, was a massive, massive step, um, in

Mike Harris:

the right direction for me in learning about God's unconditional love.

Mike Harris:

Um, a huge step.

Mike Harris:

Um, but it's something that.

Mike Harris:

You know, it's still, um, a challenge, um, that I'm I had

Mike Harris:

expecta lots of expectations that I didn't want to, um, disappoint.

Mike Harris:

Um, I also came from a very, um, accomplished sporting background,

Mike Harris:

you know, in that lots of my family were very, very good at sports.

Mike Harris:

Um, my, my dad was a, a basketballer for England and, um, You know, a sister

Mike Harris:

who represented Great Britain and athletics, a brother who represented

Mike Harris:

Great Britain Athletics, another brother who was second in Europe in gymnastics,

Mike Harris:

you know, so I've got lots of, um, very successful siblings and, and I

Mike Harris:

just, I, you know, It's difficult.

Mike Harris:

Then once you become a Christian, I found, um, to then accept that God loves

Mike Harris:

me without me doing anything, without me winning a single medal, you know,

Mike Harris:

without me, um, accomplishing anything.

Mike Harris:

Um, and so I think for me, coming out of that world of, of sport,

Mike Harris:

um, that has been one of my biggest challenges, um, and biggest battles.

Anna Kettle:

Sure, sure.

Anna Kettle:

And I, I'm interested like, cuz that's obviously huge and I, in

Anna Kettle:

serious space, I'm interested in like, how did that theme then continue

Anna Kettle:

to unfold in your life from there?

Anna Kettle:

So what happened sort of after that?

Anna Kettle:

So you came out of that professional football and Yeah.

Anna Kettle:

What next?

Mike Harris:

after the.

Mike Harris:

I felt like God was wanting me to go back into football.

Mike Harris:

Um, which, which at least was interesting for me because I, you

Mike Harris:

know, I, I didn't really still have the same love for football.

Mike Harris:

Um, but that was what I felt like God was asking me to do.

Mike Harris:

And so I went back into football right at a very low level, um, and

Mike Harris:

assigned fora club called Trafford.

Mike Harris:

Um, loved it.

Mike Harris:

Um, really enjoyed playing there.

Mike Harris:

And then I got a move up league to, to Runcorn and then I got a, a move

Mike Harris:

up another league, um, to Lee Rmi.

Mike Harris:

Um, and however I realized that um, you know, by this time I was

Mike Harris:

like 24, 25 and I needed to make a decision really about what was gonna.

Mike Harris:

B, my future.

Mike Harris:

Um, because, you know, I was, I was wise enough to understand that I wasn't

Mike Harris:

going to be, um, I wasn't gonna make enough money from football for me to be

Mike Harris:

able to, to do that as my only career.

Mike Harris:

Um, at the time I was, you know, I was a semi professional footballer.

Mike Harris:

Um, and so it was at that point I was married at the time, um, and

Mike Harris:

my wife was a teacher, and so, um, I decided that I was gonna be, uh,

Mike Harris:

going to PE teaching, so I did the degree, um, I managed to, Um, great.

Mike Harris:

Um, very proud of that because school didn't go very well.

Mike Harris:

Didn't go great for me because, you know, I felt like I was gonna be a

Mike Harris:

professional footballer, so I didn't really have a lot of time for school.

Mike Harris:

But, um, I managed to get that first in my degree.

Mike Harris:

And I've been a teacher now, a PE teacher, um, at a big Catholic

Mike Harris:

comprehensive, uh, for 14 years and.

Mike Harris:

The way that I feel like, um, I've grown as a Christian is that, you know, it,

Mike Harris:

what's interesting is at the moment, I'm at a point in my career where, um, I'm

Mike Harris:

wanting to, I'm wanting to change and I'm wanting to make some decisions about, um,

Mike Harris:

where I go and what and what I do next.

Mike Harris:

Um, I'm considering the possibility of maybe stepping back from my role.

Mike Harris:

Uh, I'm currently, um, head of PA and I'm, I'm currently thinking

Mike Harris:

about the possibility of me stepping back and maybe taking a less senior

Mike Harris:

position or even maybe coming out of teaching and doing something,

Mike Harris:

um, you know, something different.

Mike Harris:

And, um, I think it's only because I have grown to learn about how much that

Mike Harris:

God loves me, that I feel like I could.

Mike Harris:

Take a step back in my career, which, which many people would see as as, um,

Mike Harris:

you know, maybe me not doing so well.

Mike Harris:

But I think because I have grown in my faith and I've, no, I know more now that,

Mike Harris:

that, that God loves me unconditionally.

Mike Harris:

I feel like that is an option.

Mike Harris:

Um, and you know, it, it's only a small thing, but, but, but for

Mike Harris:

me that, that's quite a big deal.

Mike Harris:

Um, And shows.

Anna Kettle:

Yeah.

Anna Kettle:

It's quite counter-cultural, isn't it?

Anna Kettle:

Actually, it's quite, it's unusual, like there's kind of this idea that you should

Anna Kettle:

just always be going up another wrong on your career and earning more money

Anna Kettle:

and more prestige and, you know, that's, that's kind of how our culture thinks.

Anna Kettle:

So that, that sort of sense of freedom you have, that you can step outside of that.

Anna Kettle:

It's quite unusual I think like yeah, it's quite a big change from being

Anna Kettle:

in that high performance world that you used to be in where like actually

Anna Kettle:

feel like you've got that freedom to be like, I can explore different

Anna Kettle:

things and I can do anything I want.

Anna Kettle:

Like, you know, with God here and yeah, that's quite, quite incredible really, it?

Mike Harris:

One of the interesting things was when I was coming out of

Mike Harris:

football as I was sort of, um, you know, I was playing semi professional

Mike Harris:

football, I met lots of other footballers.

Mike Harris:

Um, Um, who had, had, had, you know, relatively successful careers and

Mike Harris:

they were sort of on their way out, if you like, and, you know, you could,

Mike Harris:

you could see that, that for a lot of people or a, a lot of lads who I knew,

Mike Harris:

you know, As a Newcastle professional people, people wouldn't recognize me,

Mike Harris:

but people would know that I played for Newcastle, mainly because of the

Mike Harris:

people who I was with at the time.

Mike Harris:

And so I could go to a party or I could go to a club, or I could go to

Mike Harris:

a bar and I could walk in and people would know that I played for Newcastle.

Mike Harris:

And so there was quite a lot of cudos and.

Mike Harris:

It as a young lad, that was, that was massive.

Mike Harris:

Um, and, and so when I was, you know, a semi-professional footballer

Mike Harris:

and, um, you know, it was very, very different, um, to being at Newcastle

Mike Harris:

and being with other players, and you could see how that was a struggle, a

Mike Harris:

big struggle for, for lots of people.

Mike Harris:

You know, they, they were struggling to come to terms with the fact that.

Mike Harris:

They weren't going to be that person.

Mike Harris:

They weren't gonna have that same sway and that same power and that

Mike Harris:

same, um, kudos going into those bars.

Mike Harris:

And so a lot of them would go into, a lot of them under, understandably,

Mike Harris:

in one way would go into drugs and things like that because that was

Mike Harris:

the only thing that, that, that, that meant you could go into a bar or to a

Mike Harris:

club or to a party and have a similar.

Mike Harris:

The cues that he got from being a footballer.

Mike Harris:

Um, and so, and, and that was interesting.

Mike Harris:

Um, for me, it, you know, it was never a temptation for me.

Mike Harris:

Um, but it, it, it was interesting that, that it's just such a battle for

Mike Harris:

people, um, to, to give it up and to, to be able to, you know, maybe take a

Mike Harris:

step back and, and accept that, that, you know, that that's the next step.

Anna Kettle:

Yeah.

Anna Kettle:

Yeah, so I mean, your story is really outside of the norm, isn't it?

Anna Kettle:

In that sense?

Anna Kettle:

And it, to me, that just speaks of how much work God's done in your life.

Anna Kettle:

But I mean, obviously your story's not over yet.

Anna Kettle:

You are still thinking about what your next career step is or what you

Anna Kettle:

changed, what changes might be afoot.

Anna Kettle:

So, you know, I'm aware that you are certainly not at

Anna Kettle:

the end of your story yet.

Anna Kettle:

You know, there's still way more chapters to be written, which is exciting and.

Anna Kettle:

You know, I'm personally excited to see what God does with you

Anna Kettle:

next and where he takes you next.

Anna Kettle:

If you do, do something slightly different or step back from teaching a little bit.

Anna Kettle:

But I mean, just reflecting up to where you are right now, um, what

Anna Kettle:

do you think youve learned through all of this experience up to date?

Anna Kettle:

Like if you, I know it's a really hard thing to ask, isn't it?

Anna Kettle:

But if you could just distill it down to one sort of like, lesson in

Anna Kettle:

life, what would that thing be like?

Anna Kettle:

What's that thing that.

Anna Kettle:

You feel like this is what I know now that I didn't know before.

Mike Harris:

I think, um, it would, it, I've mentioned it before, but I

Mike Harris:

think it would be that, that, that God's love for me is unconditional.

Mike Harris:

Um, I've just finished reading a book, um, that, that talks about the fact that,

Mike Harris:

you know, that, that we have different, there's different sort of horizons and you

Mike Harris:

know, when we, when we know that God, um, has a future for us and, um, we can have a

Mike Harris:

hope in something that is certain and that is, um, not gonna change in the future,

Mike Harris:

then it impacts how we behave and how we.

Mike Harris:

The, the level of joy and freedom that we can have, um, in our own lives.

Mike Harris:

And you know what, what's been interesting for me is that coming out

Mike Harris:

of football is that people, you know, pupils ask me, you know, why did, um,

Mike Harris:

why are you not a football anymore?

Mike Harris:

Did you get an injury?

Mike Harris:

And what, what they want to hear is that I've got an injury.

Mike Harris:

They don't want to hear that, that No, actually my story is that

Mike Harris:

I, I wasn't quite good enough.

Mike Harris:

You know, I was good enough to be a professional footballer and that was

Mike Harris:

fantastic, but my football career didn't come to an end because of an injury.

Mike Harris:

And it's difficult, you know, it, it's almost like a, um, a kill Joey,

Mike Harris:

you know, in that moment to say to someone, no, I didn't get an injury.

Mike Harris:

I just wasn't good enough.

Mike Harris:

Um, but you just don't often hear that story, you know?

Mike Harris:

Yet the reality is for, for 95% of professional footballers, that's

Mike Harris:

the truth, you know, that they became professional footballers.

Anna Kettle:

Mm.

Mike Harris:

It wasn't that they got an injury, they, they just weren't good

Mike Harris:

enough in the end to be able to continue.

Mike Harris:

And so, you know, learning that God loves me unconditionally has given me the

Mike Harris:

freedom to be able to answer that question honestly and say, football was great.

Mike Harris:

Football was brilliant and I wouldn't change it for the

Mike Harris:

world, but I didn't get injured.

Mike Harris:

I just wasn't good enough.

Mike Harris:

And now I'm doing something else and I'm, I'm really proud of this.

Mike Harris:

Um, and even though you might not be as proud of me, um, as a, as you would

Mike Harris:

be if I was a professional footballer, you know, I know the goddess, um,

Mike Harris:

Uh, some of the words that are in the Bible, you know, I'm a father

Mike Harris:

at the moment, um, or I am a father.

Mike Harris:

Um, and the words in, in the Bible where, where Jesus speaks

Mike Harris:

and he says, my son, my son.

Mike Harris:

And he, he says it a number of times and it's, it, the, those words have

Mike Harris:

meant an awful lot to me because when I look at my son, The feelings that I

Mike Harris:

have for him that he does not need to do anything in order to make me pleased

Mike Harris:

and make me happy, and make me proud.

Mike Harris:

Um, and the more I have dwelt on those words, that, that God looks at me and

Mike Harris:

the first thing he says is My son.

Mike Harris:

son.

Mike Harris:

And after that, you know, everything else that, that I.

Mike Harris:

Feel like I'm doing for God is almost irrelevant to the fact that, that he is

Mike Harris:

my father and he sees me as, as his son.

Mike Harris:

Um, and you know, I actually think had I known this when I was a professional

Mike Harris:

footballer, um, I think I would've been a better, better footballer.

Mike Harris:

Um, I think I would've played with a lot more freedom.

Mike Harris:

Um, you know, when I was a professional footballer, I, I felt like.

Mike Harris:

Everything was a risk.

Mike Harris:

You know, if I play with freedom, it's a risk.

Mike Harris:

It's a risk because what if it, what if it goes wrong?

Mike Harris:

And I, I get, I, I get subbed, or what if I get taken off?

Mike Harris:

Everything was a risk, you know?

Mike Harris:

And the, the more.

Mike Harris:

You learn about how unconditionally God loves you, less and less

Mike Harris:

of your actions become a risk.

Mike Harris:

It just becomes you acting out of freedom, acting with a whole lot more joy.

Mike Harris:

Um, one of my, one of my favorite verses in the Bible is, is Roman a 29, which says

Mike Harris:

that, God is changing me into the likeness of Jesus so that I, so that he will

Mike Harris:

be the first born among many brothers.

Mike Harris:

And for me, the, the reason why I like the best is because it says

Mike Harris:

that God is continually changing me into the likeness of Jesus.

Mike Harris:

Um, and you know, when we, when I reflect on.

Mike Harris:

When I reflect on what my life has been like and what my life is going to be

Mike Harris:

like in the, in the future, um, on Earth, um, I'm aware of the fact that, that

Mike Harris:

God is changing me to lightness Jesus.

Mike Harris:

And so there will be ups and there will be downs, and there will be, um,

Mike Harris:

things that are unexpected and there will probably be disappointments.

Mike Harris:

But, but when I know that my father has a plan, His plan to change me to

Mike Harris:

likeness of Jesus, that I, I can have a lot more, uh, assurance and peace

Mike Harris:

knowing that, that he is in control, um, that he loves me unconditionally.

Mike Harris:

Um, and therefore I am free.

Anna Kettle:

Yeah.

Anna Kettle:

Yeah, that's so true.

Anna Kettle:

It is amazing.

Anna Kettle:

And um, yeah, I mean that's, that's just an inspiring point to finish on really,

Anna Kettle:

cuz it's something we all need to know.

Anna Kettle:

It's something we all need deeper revelation of, I think.

Anna Kettle:

And, you know, such a powerful.

Anna Kettle:

Example that you've got in your own life.

Anna Kettle:

And you know, Mike, it's just, yeah, I'd love to talk to you

Anna Kettle:

loads more, but I'm aware of time.

Anna Kettle:

But it's been fascinating hearing your story today and hearing a bit more

Anna Kettle:

of your take on this, um, coming from that kind of performance world and

Anna Kettle:

learning that freedom and that joy of just being who you are and God.

Anna Kettle:

Um, so thank you so much for giving up your time and talking with us today, and

Anna Kettle:

it's just been a pleasure to have you on.

Mike Harris:

okay.

Mike Harris:

It's been great to be here.

Mike Harris:

Thank you.

Anna Kettle:

No problem.

Anna Kettle:

Just to say to anyone who's listening today, you know, if you may not have

Anna Kettle:

had a professional football career, but if your story, if Mike's story is like,

Anna Kettle:

resonated with you today in any way, if, if what he's talking about around

Anna Kettle:

knowing freedom and who you are and.

Anna Kettle:

In Jesus, uh, resonates knowing more of the father's love for you.

Anna Kettle:

Then I know Mike would be happy to talk to you one on one or can next, so you know,

Anna Kettle:

if you want to hear more or reach out to him personally, you can connect with us

Anna Kettle:

at Crowd Church through the website and.

Anna Kettle:

Drop us, just drop us an email or a message on the website

Anna Kettle:

and we can put you in touch.

Anna Kettle:

I'm sure he'd be happy to share more of his story with anyone who's interested.

Anna Kettle:

So thanks again for, uh, being here today.

Anna Kettle:

Mike, it's been a pleasure chatting to you.

Anna Kettle:

And thank you also to you listeners for being here and listening in.

Anna Kettle:

That's all from us right now, and we will, um, see you again soon.

Anna Kettle:

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