Courage, a quality I believe we all need now in spades, if we are to move through the shifts and changes we are seeing in the world.
In this episode I look at where we need to be especially courageous, where we are already being courageous and may not recognise it and what I think courage really means.
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Hello, and welcome to the choosing happy podcast.
Speaker:I want to apologize for.
Speaker:Delay getting the next podcast to you.
Speaker:I had two weeks where I took time out to really reflect on what content I
Speaker:wanted to offer to this podcast now.
Speaker:And in the future, everything is changing as you probably know,
Speaker:Outside and around the world.
Speaker:And I just wanted to make sure that I was addressing the things that listeners
Speaker:might want to know about tonight.
Speaker:I'm looking at courage and the courage that it will take for us to move
Speaker:forward in this ever-changing world with these very strange circumstances.
Speaker:So I wanted to cover courage and what I am finding for myself around courage.
Speaker:Courage means in terms of having to step up to Wade through the really
Speaker:fast changes that are happening and the courage to choose, to be happy to
Speaker:let go of things that are dying away and to embrace the new and the courage
Speaker:to have a vision for the future.
Speaker:So all of that, and more in this week's choosing happy podcast.
Speaker:Courage.
Speaker:What does that mean to you?
Speaker:When are you being courageous?
Speaker:Do you think it takes courage to choose happy?
Speaker:For me, courage is not about not being afraid.
Speaker:It's about being frightened and doing it anyway, moving through that
Speaker:resistance, that feeling of being challenged, that feeling of wanting.
Speaker:Closed down rather than open up over the past few weeks, I've had what I believe
Speaker:in and how I believe the world works.
Speaker:Constantly being brought into question and challenged, and I'm
Speaker:learning that exploring or the perspectives of the premises.
Speaker:Other presuppositions and paradigms also takes courage to allow yourself to
Speaker:admit that how you thought and made your decisions and how you made your choices
Speaker:and how you believed your world work has been not just inefficient, but actually
Speaker:detrimental to how you've lived your life.
Speaker:And that that perspective has quashed your creativity, your personal power and your
Speaker:ability to create the life that you want.
Speaker:It's humbling, challenging, and unsettling.
Speaker:When your internal view of the world is shaken to the core, we want
Speaker:to navigate back to solid ground.
Speaker:I've been learning how to be happy living in the not knowing.
Speaker:And I'm not saying I'm doing it all the time.
Speaker:I'm struggling as though I've been learning, actually putting it into action.
Speaker:I find really challenging.
Speaker:All of my doubts, my fears, my shirts, my most, my limitations,
Speaker:my beliefs are coming up to get me to swim back to the shore and find
Speaker:that old island of solid ground when I'm on my way to somewhere new.
Speaker:And this is just my personal experience, my internal world and my experience
Speaker:of finding my truth and my reality.
Speaker:And when I look at the paradigm shattering things that are happening
Speaker:around the world, I acknowledged that this is the next step of my journey,
Speaker:and I believe it's the next step of a lot of other people as well.
Speaker:And there are unlikely to be many solid foundations to build on for
Speaker:quite some time as what we've known.
Speaker:Over our lifetimes is disintegrating, crumbling, and calling on us to
Speaker:create something new and magnificent.
Speaker:We can only begin to create something new by changing our thinking
Speaker:process by perceiving and intuiting in new and magnificent ways.
Speaker:Otherwise we're likely to replace the old was a copy of what came before
Speaker:as an it analyst and contracts.
Speaker:I remember working for a company who invested millions and the best
Speaker:cutting edge software package to your place and old system, they bought
Speaker:the package and switched off all of the cutting edge parts of the system.
Speaker:So what they ended up with was a festival version of the old system,
Speaker:nothing really had changed, and this is what we want to avoid.
Speaker:It takes courage these days to dream and envision beyond what
Speaker:we've been programmed to know what we feel we are limited to doing.
Speaker:It takes lateral thinking, critical thinking innovation and creativity,
Speaker:and that doesn't always come from the most experienced people often.
Speaker:It's the novices.
Speaker:The beginners that can think beyond the paradigm because they don't
Speaker:have a picture of what the paradigm should be, what the box looks like.
Speaker:There are no edges, they haven't been programmed into what the
Speaker:limitations of the system are.
Speaker:They can ask and dream of functionality and possibilities and creation and
Speaker:innovation and expand paradise.
Speaker:For instance, I remember writing a user guide and installation guide
Speaker:and a training course retrospectively for a mobile phone reporting system.
Speaker:The fact, I didn't know, the system turned out to be a huge advantage, but when I
Speaker:began, that's not what I saw when I began, I felt intimidated that I didn't know how
Speaker:the system worked, but I realized that.
Speaker:My gold.
Speaker:Every question I came up with was almost certainly going
Speaker:to be asked by someone else.
Speaker:Writing a client guide, a user guide and how it works was easy because I decided
Speaker:to document every place I got stuck.
Speaker:Every question I had, every step I took to learn and build the system myself.
Speaker:The other advantage was that the tech team who knew the system were too busy to help.
Speaker:So I had to figure things out.
Speaker:As I went along, I had to figure things out is if I was the trainee going through
Speaker:the training, sometimes lack of knowledge and preconceptions are huge advantage.
Speaker:If you have no preconception or don't understand what supposedly
Speaker:isn't possible, you come up with possibilities beyond the norm.
Speaker:And I believe it takes massive courage to operate from there.
Speaker:And you world is daunting.
Speaker:If you hadn't noticed and beyond the veil of propaganda and nonsense,
Speaker:there are millions of people around the world, forming new communities,
Speaker:exploring how we begin to create something new and wonderful.
Speaker:What do we want our new world to look like?
Speaker:How do we move through this transition together was a focus on harmonious
Speaker:communities, honoring mother earth, while raising consciousness
Speaker:and awareness and opening up to new realities and opportunities.
Speaker:We've never allowed ourselves even to contemplate or imagine I, for one,
Speaker:I'm realizing how much courage this.
Speaker:No matter the scale or the location or who you are.
Speaker:It takes courage to step up and commit to being a part of this new world and
Speaker:to be open to new ways of thinking new ways of being new ways of awareness,
Speaker:uh, new ways of openness to ideas that yesterday seemed like conspiracy theories.
Speaker:It takes courage to love and truth and integrity and service,
Speaker:and to have compassion and forgiveness around the world.
Speaker:Why does it take courage
Speaker:in opening up?
Speaker:We work through cognitive dissonance.
Speaker:A whole self wants to deny and disbelieve what has been presented because it
Speaker:feels threatened at a deep primal level.
Speaker:Our egos, my ego would rather have me die than to acknowledged the
Speaker:premise that it's been working with.
Speaker:The beliefs values and reality system it's created to keep me safe.
Speaker:And how it sees the world works, but it's no longer true.
Speaker:It has nothing to hold on to or to direct with.
Speaker:It doesn't know what's true anymore.
Speaker:It takes courage to be open, to questioning everything
Speaker:you once held as true.
Speaker:And to look beyond the reality structure you've created for
Speaker:yourself and that's being presented.
Speaker:All of your life to the possibilities and the other realities and
Speaker:paradigms that are out there.
Speaker:But once you've worked your way, courageously through the shift, through
Speaker:the cognitive dissonance, you're likely to find yourself was another challenge.
Speaker:You've crossed the bridge and you've left many people who
Speaker:are probably closest to you.
Speaker:On the other side, you could go back.
Speaker:And live a life with a memory of what the other side looks like.
Speaker:We could drop the bridge, preventing you from returning to that old
Speaker:paradigm to draw up the bridge takes.
Speaker:You learn that you have to leave others behind and step onto a path
Speaker:of self expansion that you had never imagined or anticipated before.
Speaker:One way you learn that responsibility for yourself, and then for those
Speaker:around you, and then for humanity lies with you in whatever form
Speaker:that takes for you in particular.
Speaker:Your contribution to the new vision, to the lights, to the higher resonance,
Speaker:to the new planets is truly valuable.
Speaker:And how that shows up for you is yours alone.
Speaker:It takes courage to let go of the past and to work out your role.
Speaker:As you watched the world crumble, you watch those, you love suffer
Speaker:while most people, you know,
Speaker:exist and an oblivious fog.
Speaker:It takes courage to navigate these two realities to be called insane,
Speaker:to be de-friended, to be shunned by friends and family for your new
Speaker:controversial and supposedly radical.
Speaker:As the old paradigm breaks down and the veil collapses and the wizard is revealed.
Speaker:It takes courage to sit with your truth to let go of the, I told you so, and
Speaker:two, instead of the compassion, support and guidance where you can, it takes
Speaker:courage through all of this to serve, to get your own wellbeing in place.
Speaker:To stay safe and strong and to take care of yourself on your family.
Speaker:First and foremost, it takes courage to choose happy and all of this,
Speaker:it takes courage to choose from your own flavor of illusion, your own bank with.
Speaker:It takes courage to choose focus, to choose, to recognize where your focus is
Speaker:and to choose to refocus when you need to, it takes courage to acknowledge when
Speaker:you are reacting rather than responding when you were in someone else's stuff,
Speaker:trying to be right, and to win rather than stepping back, letting them.
Speaker:And instead often compassion and the belief that they have full responsibility
Speaker:for their paths and their choices as you do yours, it takes courage to
Speaker:let go when you know, it's best and wisest that they go that path alone.
Speaker:Every emotion wants to challenge you and to fight and to persuade.
Speaker:These people, they, you know, better.
Speaker:It takes courage to let that go.
Speaker:It takes courage to observe when you've done all that you can, and to watch the
Speaker:consequences unfold, it takes courage to be right when you don't want to be right.
Speaker:It takes courage to stay focused on the purpose.
Speaker:On the reason you're here on the power of your variables.
Speaker:And the greater purpose, which is so much greater than us, it
Speaker:takes courage to feel the grief and the pain and to choose happy.
Speaker:Anyway, it takes courage to live with deliberate intent, recognizing that the
Speaker:choices we make in every moment satisfy a goal unconsciously or consciously.
Speaker:And it takes courage to question your motives.
Speaker:It takes courage to be brutally honest with yourself as everything
Speaker:unfolds and everything unfurls within
Speaker:and all of this would take courage and what we once would
Speaker:call normal circumstances.
Speaker:Yeah, everything feels so much more magnified now and much
Speaker:more noticeable as we shift.
Speaker:It takes courage to forgive, to have compassion, to be willing, to
Speaker:understand, and to allow each person their own task, their own choices,
Speaker:their own part in this great unfolding.
Speaker:It takes courage to recognize that they have their own responsibilities
Speaker:for their own journey.
Speaker:No matter how hurt you feel, watching them walk over.
Speaker:It takes courage to focus on a new future, a new and beautiful world, a
Speaker:new magnificence, a new life from of us while paying witness to the destruction
Speaker:of the old, it takes courage to trust that everything is unfolding perfectly.
Speaker:It takes courage to acknowledge.
Speaker:There is so much more.
Speaker:We do not.
Speaker:It takes courage to acknowledge the darkness.
Speaker:We still do not know.
Speaker:It takes courage to choose what we do with what we do know, and to take our
Speaker:own path in this magnificent unfolding.
Speaker:It takes courage to choose happy and all that.
Speaker:To recognize the magic that is with us in every moment, the magic of the sunrise,
Speaker:the spirit and vibration of a tree, the gratitude we feel for the food and water.
Speaker:We have the joy and the child's innocent smile, the open hearted
Speaker:freedom and laughing out loud.
Speaker:You are courageous.
Speaker:My friend.
Speaker:And what I want to offer you going forward was choosing happy is a way to stay
Speaker:courageous, to stay connected and to build a community of courageous Lightworkers
Speaker:who are helping humanity and the planet move into a new and beautiful world.
Speaker:Thank you for listening.
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