Sex Spoken Here Sex Toys for Curvy Girls
Welcome to my virtual therapy room! I am Dr Lori Beth Bisbey and this is Sex Spoken Here. Remember that this podcast deals with adult themes so if you don’t have privacy you might wish to put on your headphones.
Today I am continuing my series on sex toys. So far in this series, I looked at vibrators and vibrating toys, dildos and butt plus. If you haven’t had the opportunity to listen to the first two episodes in the series, I encourage you to do so.
In addition to opening the only plus-size lingerie store in the nation (Curvy Girl Lingerie), Chrystal Bougon is an author, blogger, sex toy expert and owner/founder of BlissConnection.com, a tasteful online romance store. A high-tech corporate refugee who switched to sex tech in 2003, Chrystal’s mission is to teach women and couples of all sizes how to have better sex and incorporate toys into their romantic life.
Hi! Welcome to the show. Let’s talk about sex toys for curvy girls. Chrystal spoke about the best sex toys for women (and people) of size. She spoke about the particular problems of having lower belly fat that gets in the way of reaching the clitoris and/or shorter arms. People with these issues need a toy with a bit more reach. She started by talking about the old standard the Hitachi Magic Wand but did say that the power can be a problem for some people. She mentioned that for super size people, sitting on the wand can work well. She spoke about men who have erectile dysfunction finding the wand useful for being able to coax out an ejaculation even without getting an erection because the power of the vibrator helps.
She spoke about the Womanizer as being a game changing toy and that they have come out with a new one (the plus) which has an 8 ¼ inch reach so makes it better. She mentioned the orchid which is like a bullet with a long handle. She talked about the bullet as being the old standard and mentioned that it can be good for those people who are taking medication like antidepressants and anti-anxiety who can have difficulty with orgasm. Chrystal mentioned that Clarityn and other antihistamines can cause vaginal dryness as well.
Chrystal mentioned the Eva as one of the new toys she loves. This is also one of the new ones I love. She pointed out that it works particularly well for women who have extra fat on their vulvas. Chrystal gave a shout out to Sportsheets as a great company who has designed toys with fat people in mind. She spoke about the doggy style strap as being a brilliant toy to help people get into a better doggy style position and for deep penetration.
We spoke about how much better sex toys are when women are involved in the design process. We spoke briefly about electro stim toys which are now much more affordable. Chrystal and I both agreed that if you have someone you trust you can say yes to trying everything.
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If you want to purchase something from Curvy Girl, use the code ‘LoriBeth’ and get 20% off. The Womanizer is sold on Curvy Girl Inc so if you want to try it and find the price too high, the 20% may make it affordable.
Thanks for joining me for Sex Spoken Here with Dr Lori Beth Bisbey.
Write to me with suggestions for the show, questions you want answered at drbisbey@the-intimacy-coach.com, follow me on twitter @drbisbey. For a free 30 minute strategy session with me, go to www.the-intimacy-coach.com and click the button that says Schedule Now! I look forward to seeing you next week when I will continue the series on sex toys and we will be talking about pervertables and other interesting toys.
