Nobody puts this in the wedding planning timeline. But it might be the most important tool you have.
In this episode of the Science-Backed Wedding Prep Series, Dr. Kelsy Vick breaks down how learning to read your menstrual cycle as health data can transform your engagement season — from how you schedule high-stakes wedding moments to how you train, fuel, recover, sleep, and show up emotionally on the days that matter most.
This is not cycle syncing. This is individualized cycle awareness — and it changes everything.
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Welcome to Wellness Fixes the Pod, a
by Maven Media production, where we
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:believe you deserve real education
from real experts, delivered
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:in a way you can actually use.
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:I'm Dr.
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:Kelsey Vick, your board-certified
orthopedic doctor of physical therapy, and
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:this podcast was built for the girl who
is done feeling overwhelmed and frustrated
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:by conflicting health noise, and is ready
for something she can actually trust.
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:Every week, we have honest, science-backed
conversations about your health,
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:your hormones, your brain, your
body, and everything in between.
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:No fluff, no fear-mongering,
just the truth.
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:Because understanding your
body is the most powerful
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:thing you can do for yourself.
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:A table full of experts built for
the curious girl who wants the truth.
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:So welcome.
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:Your seat is waiting for you.
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:What if I told you the single most
important thing you can do between
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:now and your wedding day has nothing
to do with your workout routine, your
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:skincare, or your fueling patterns,
and everything to do with learning
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:to read the most sophisticated
health tracking system your body has?
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:Because your body has been sending
you a monthly report card for
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:pretty much your entire life.
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:Most of us just never
learned how to read it.
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:And hopefully allows you to view your
body as the superwoman that it is.
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:You'll be able to see in real time your
relationship with your body transform
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:from confusion to complete literacy,
and that's one of the most powerful
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:things you can carry with you into
your wedding day, and every day after.
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:It is the gift that keeps on giving,
the wedding gift that keeps on giving.
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:What if I told you the single most
important thing you can do between
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:now and your wedding day has nothing
to do with your workout routine, your
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:skincare, or your fueling patterns.
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:And everything to do with learning
to read the most sophisticated
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:health tracking system your body has.
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:Because your body has been sending
you a monthly report card for
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:pretty much your entire life.
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:Most of us just never
learned how to read it.
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:Welcome back to Wellness Fixes the Pod.
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:I'm your host, Dr.
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:Kelsey Vick, a board-certified
orthopedic doctor of physical therapy
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:and a pelvic floor physical therapist.
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:And we've talked about the workouts,
we've talked about the body recomposition,
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:but there is one wedding prep
tool that nobody, not your wedding
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:coordinator, not your venue, not your
florist, probably not even your mom,
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:your sister, or your best friends,
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:is putting in your planning timeline.
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:But it has been running your body
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:every single month of your life.
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:And that's your menstrual cycle.
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:So let's talk about science-backed
wedding prep and one of the most important
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:things you can do to go from a thousand
times yes to "I do" on your wedding day.
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:My sister is getting married this month,
which really inspired this series talking
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:about science-backed, research-backed
wedding prep that we all can incorporate,
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:whether or not we are the bride, the
maid of honor, a bridesmaid, a wedding
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:guest, or even if we just don't have
a wedding, we just want to hear how to
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:feel the best and look the best in our
bodies for a certain event or activity or
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:big milestone that we have
coming up, or even just for fun.
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:And today we're gonna chat about the
menstrual cycle, which is something that
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:so many girls can benefit from learning,
not only to help them feel their best
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:on their wedding day and to use as a
tool throughout their wedding prep.
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:But also when it comes to post-wedding,
if you are looking to start a family, it
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:helps to learn it now so that when you are
looking into your fertility and what all
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:goes into getting pregnant or not getting
pregnant, you have a better idea of how
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:your body is working every single month.
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:So knowing your cycle can help you
schedule really stressful events
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:in your wedding planning era during
the times of your cycle where
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:you can feel more motivated, more
beautiful, more like yourself.
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:Something like your hair and makeup trial.
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:If you're scheduling it possibly
in your luteal phase or that back
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:half of your cycle, maybe your
mindset in approaching that trial is
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:gonna be one of negativity already.
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:where if you're scheduling it
during your follicular phase,
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:you might already feel beautiful.
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:So it can totally change the vibe
of how you experience certain
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:things in this engagement era.
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:it can also help you understand how your
body might feel on your wedding day, given
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:the time of the month that you're in or
the phase of your cycle that you're in.
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:So It can really help with scheduling
the grace that you give yourself on
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:your wedding day, figuring out and
experimenting what can help your
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:body feel the best on that big day.
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:It means working with
your body, not against it.
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:It makes making better fueling and
workout and rest and recovery decisions
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:throughout your entire engagement
to where you're able to show up each
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:and every day as the best version of
yourself, as well as showing up on your
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:wedding day feeling the most confident
in your body and in who you are.
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:Your menstrual cycle is not
an inconvenience, it's data.
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:And data is the most powerful
wedding prep tool you've been given.
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:Your menstrual cycle is so
much more than just a period
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:tracker or an ovulation tracker.
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:It can really help give insight into
how your body is doing physiologically,
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:how you are doing mental health-wise,
how motivated you are, how tired and
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:fatigued you are, how your body might
respond after a certain workout.
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:It gives so much more insight
than the days of your period
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:and your ovulation day.
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:We just have to learn to become
more aware of what each of those
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:signs and symptoms are telling us.
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:Understanding your own menstrual cycle,
not just the days of your period or
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:ovulation, but the entire twenty-eight-ish
day cycle, can help you understand why you
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:might feel so motivated at one point in
your cycle and not as motivated the next.
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:Why your workout feels absolutely
incredible in your body during one day,
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:and then two weeks later, you do the same
workout and feel absolutely miserable.
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:It gives you insight into why one
meal might make you feel so strong
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:and so lean, and why that same meal
two weeks later might leave you
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:feeling a little puffy and sluggish.
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:It helps you understand why your digestion
and cravings might differ throughout
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:the month, And it can also help you
understand why your sleep quality
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:changes throughout your menstrual cycle.
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:So I never want us to look at our
menstrual cycle as something that we have
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:to work against or fight back against,
but something that we can work with
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:to really feel the best in our bodies.
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:And I feel like understanding your
menstrual cycle allows me at least, and
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:hopefully allows you, to view your body
as the superwoman that it is, as the way
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:that we can understand what's happening
within our bodies physiologically based
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:on our symptoms, and be able to adjust
certain behaviors that we do to really
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:help us feel the best, no matter the phase
of our menstrual cycle that we're in.
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:So let's go phase by phase, talk
about what's happening within our
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:bodies physiologically, what you
might feel, and how we can use those
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:symptoms that time in your cycle in
the best way in your engagement era.
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:Starting with phase one.
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:Phase one is your period.
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:It's that days one through five, It's
that menstrual phase and that early
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:follicular phase, which the phases
are labeled based on what's happening
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:in the ovaries or in your uterus.
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:So there's different ways that
we can categorize different
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:phases, so I'll try and give both.
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:I typically like to talk about it as
follicular and luteal because it's easy
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:for me to remember two categories compared
to, like, four, including ovulation.
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:Ovulation is part of both, so
technically three compared to five.
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:But I like thinking about it
as, like, early follicular, late
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:follicular, ovulation, and then
early luteal and late luteal.
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:So Phase one is typically that days
one through five when you're on
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:your period, and It is the menstrual
phase and the early follicular phase.
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:So what's actually
happening within our bodies?
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:The sharp decline in progesterone At
the end of your previous cycle triggers
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:a systemic inflammatory response.
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:This is the biological driver
of most period symptoms
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:and is documented across multiple research
studies, but it's also what allows your
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:period to happen, so it's not a bad thing.
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:Inflammation is necessary within
the body, and it's necessary
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:within your menstrual cycle.
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:White blood cell count or those
immune cell counts also decrease,
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:which means your immune system
might be a little shaky, but it
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:also allows our immune system not
to fight the process that naturally
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:needs to happen within our bodies.
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:Our ability to regulate blood sugar is
also slightly impaired in this phase.
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:So your appetite might become less
predictable, and you might notice
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:yourself having more cravings, which
if you're like me, yes, definitely.
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:So how can we actually work with this
phase knowing all of these changes
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:that are happening in days one
through five when we're on our period?
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:when it comes to nutrition, expect
appetite changes and expect blood
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:sugar regulation challenges.
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:For me, I know hydration really helps
fight against this in addition to
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:really focusing on getting enough
macronutrients and micronutrients
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:from whole food sources in my diet.
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:So rather than pulling for the salty snack
that I might want, I try and check in.
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:Am I hydrated well enough?
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:Do I actually just want water?
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:Or is this craving of a salty food,
can that be satiated with something
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:like sauerkraut or dill pickles or
vegetables and cottage cheese, something
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:that might give me a little bit more
sustenance than that salty tortilla chip
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:that I actually feel like I'm craving?
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:The same thing can be
said for sweet cravings.
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:Oftentimes I'm craving dark chocolate
or something sugary like ice cream,
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:so If you have this awareness of,
okay, yes, my appetite is changing.
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:My blood sugar is not as
regulated as it might be later
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:on in this follicular phase.
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:So how can I make sure to have the
fuel that I need, the macronutrients,
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:the micronutrients, the vitamins, the
minerals that I need so that I can
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:combat these cravings and this lack of
blood sugar regulation in the best way?
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:Since this is also an inflammatory
phase, we can start to think about
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:fueling with anti-inflammatory foods to
help with that general feeling of like
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:puffiness and bloatedness that we might
get because of the systemic inflammation.
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:so thinking omega-3s, colorful
fruits and veggies, things
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:like fish, berries, peppers.
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:And then seasonings and condiments
that might also have anti-inflammatory
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:properties like turmeric, ginger,
and healthy fats like olive oils.
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:we're also losing blood in this
phase, which I have to give a shout
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:out to my sister because she is so
thoughtful when it comes to this.
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:I will tell her I'm on my
period as all girls do.
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:We just talk about it.
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:And I went over to her house for
dinner one night and she had cooked
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:steak because she knew that I was
in a phase of blood loss and that
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:I needed iron in my diet to help.
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:So focusing on iron and really
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:blood building type of foods
can really help in this phase.
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:Red meat, lentils, spinach, pumpkin seeds.
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:In addition to adding foods high in
vitamin C, red bell peppers, peppers
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:in general, citrus, strawberries,
vitamin C, All that help with our
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:body's ability to absorb iron.
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:Antioxidants are also huge.
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:So dark chocolate.
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:I'm a huge dark chocolate fan in general,
but Dark chocolate can really help with
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:some of the symptoms in this phase.
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:Berries, green tea, pomegranate.
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:All support our body's increased
antioxidant demand during
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:this inflammatory phase.
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:Making sure to get enough vegetables
and leafy greens to allow for a good,
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:well-rounded micronutrient protocol too.
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:And as I said earlier,
hydration is super important.
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:I oftentimes feel like when I have
cravings, if I just drink twelve ounces of
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:water, sometimes that completely subsides,
which allows me the time to check in.
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:Is it actually something that I want or is
my body just sending that signal when it
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:really needs something else, like water?
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:When it comes to movement in this first
phase, exercise is always going to be key.
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:I should preface all of this by
saying this is not cycle syncing.
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:This is understanding what's happening
within your body and being able to
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:implement behaviors with fueling,
with movement, with sleep hygiene,
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:with giving your body grace because
of what's happening within your brain.
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:It's understanding the science and
the physiology behind your menstrual
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:cycle and being able to support it
with different foods and movement
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:and other strategies that might help.
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:So it is definitely not cycle syncing.
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:It's not one size fits all either,
which is why I think this is one of
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:the most beneficial things you can do
in this season of engagement in your
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:bridal era, because it allows time for
experimentation, for learning your body.
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:What I'm sharing with you today is what's
happening physiologically in general,
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:but I have met so many girls who tell me
different things that help their bodies
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:in certain phases compared to my own body.
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:So it's helpful to understand the science,
but it's also helpful to be able to map
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:it to your own body and figure out what
your own body needs and what your own body
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:might benefit from during a certain phase.
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:So exercise during any phase
is not contraindicated.
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:It is great for all
symptoms and all phases.
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:Just because you're in an
inflammatory phase right now does
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:not mean you need to be doing light
exercise or low intensity exercise.
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:Some of the time, myself
included, the first day of my
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:period, I'm feeling so strong.
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:I'm feeling so powerful because
we're also in that follicular phase.
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:Our bodies are prepping and priming
and getting all of the hormonal
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:regulation and appetite regulation
and blood sugar regulation, and all
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:of that is about to become the most
optimal out of all phases of our cycle.
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:So it's okay if that also hits a
little early during your period.
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:It doesn't mean you have to adjust your
workout routine based on what you think
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:you should be doing, when in reality,
what your body wants and needs and
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:desires at that time is lifting the
heavy weights or running the harder
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:distances or increasing intensity
with your sprint interval training
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:or high intensity interval training.
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:It is so individualized, and
even within the individual,
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:it can vary cycle to cycle.
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:So
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:the research supports exercise in all
phases of your menstrual cycle and not
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:one form of exercise over the other,
which is why I wanna make sure people
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:understand this is not cycle syncing.
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:It's just understanding what's happening
within your body and being able to
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:have the knowledge to understand why
your body's responding to something
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:differently, possibly during
different phases of your cycle.
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:So exercise during the menstrual
phase is hugely beneficial.
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:Yes, it causes momentary inflammation.
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:That inflammation is needed to allow for
all of the benefits of exercise to occur.
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:But it also has anti-inflammatory
properties and really good
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:antioxidant properties.
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:So both super beneficial for
us in this menstrual phase.
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:The endorphins that are released during
exercise are also hugely beneficial.
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:Something to note, you might
recognize that muscle activation and
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:recovery takes a little bit longer
during this phase, and that's okay.
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:If you start to realize, like, "Hey, I
can't jump into my workout as quickly as
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:I can, you know, six days from now," maybe
spend a little longer in your warmup.
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:Maybe allow yourself a little longer
recovery in between your working sets.
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:It's those sorts of adjustments that
can be made once you have the knowledge
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:of what's happening within your body.
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:During your menstrual phase, when
you're on your period, there's certain
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:cognitive benefits that you might
actually be able to take advantage of.
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:research suggests we have improved
cognitive abilities when it comes to
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:more advanced brain tasks that we
have to do, like Deep thinking,
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:planning, and creative problem-solving.
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:So this might be your best phase
for vendor research, reviewing
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:wedding contracts, wedding budget
analysis, or writing your vows.
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:It might not be the best phase
for that hair and makeup trial,
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:dress fittings, high-stakes vendor
meetings, or engagement photos.
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:But due to the cognitive benefits,
it is one of the best phases for all
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:of the deep thinking, administrative,
and planning tasks that require
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:focus and strategic thinking.
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:So if you happen to have any of those
things scheduled during this phase, just
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:make sure to understand what's happening
in your body and give yourself a little
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:bit of grace, especially if your hair and
makeup trial does fall during your period.
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:Understand that, okay, if you feel
this way during your hair and makeup
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:trial right now, just know maybe six
days from now, you might feel like the
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:most confident version of yourself.
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:So give yourself a little grace.
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:Don't read into it too much, Knowing
what's happening within your mind
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:and body during phase one or this
menstrual phase and early follicular
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:phase of your menstrual cycle.
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:Phase two, or those days six through
thirteen, is sort of your glowing era.
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:This is where most girls feel
their absolute best, and I'll
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:say this is when I feel my best.
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:This is when my exercise is amazing.
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:I feel so good.
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:I feel so strong.
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:I recover so well.
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:It's when I feel the most lean.
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:It's when I'm mo-most
motivated and creative.
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:I love this phase, and I
think most girls will agree.
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:I will say as a caveat, there have
been some months where I have a real
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:mental health challenge in this phase,
and it really throws me for a loop
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:because I know that typically my mental
health is like top notch in this phase.
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:So there are some months and some
days when these patterns might not
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:apply to your life and that's okay.
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:It doesn't mean something's broken, but
something to just be aware of and be
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:like, "Oh, I'm in my follicular phase,
but I'm really struggling with making
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:this decision or feeling a little bit
down about this aspect of my wedding."
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:Just taking mental note of that And
realizing typically your mental health
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:might be the most optimal in this
state, and if it's still affecting
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:you, it must need to be resolved.
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:It must be something that you need
to make a decision on or talk to
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:somebody about because it, it is
affecting you during one of the best
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:phases for most girls' mental health.
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:And this is just a blank slate
statement that might not apply to you.
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:So that's why it's important to
understand your own cycle, and
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:maybe you do notice that typically
you feel down during this phase.
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:That's okay.
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:But understanding that's where
your body is compared to what
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:might be the population average.
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:So this is the late follicular and
the proliferative phase, and in
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:this phase, estrogen is rising.
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:And it's doing remarkable
things across our entire system.
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:Your skin, your energy, your mood,
your ability to recover, your ability
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:to exercise, your motivation, all
of those things are benefiting
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:simultaneously from this rise in estrogen.
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:Blood pressure is also at its lowest
point throughout the entire cycle.
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:So cardiovascular exercise
might physiologically feel a
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:little bit easier in this phase.
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:A twenty twenty-five systematic
review actually showed that the
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:follicular phase is associated
with improved aerobic performance
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:and more favorable recovery
compared to other phases.
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:Another systematic review confirmed That
strength and power parameters also showed
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:favorable trends in this follicular phase.
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:So diving into how your fueling and
nutrition might feel in this phase.
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:Your blood sugar is most stable here,
so you might notice the least amount
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:of cravings over your entire cycle.
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:Protein remains a non-negotiable,
especially if you're pushing
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:yourself in your exercise routine
because it's just feeling good.
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:Protein remains super important.
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:Complex carbohydrates are really,
really good for you in all phases,
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:but especially in this phase.
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:Since our body is able to use fuel a
little more efficiently in this phase,
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:we wanna be able to support that.
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:So things like oats, sweet potatoes,
quinoa, brown rice, all great in all
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:phases again, but you might want to
incorporate them a little bit more in
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:this phase, knowing that your body is
just using that fuel super efficiently.
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:The really important thing here
is you do not want to undereat.
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:In order to maintain all of these
really positive variables that happen
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:in this sort of glowing phase of your
menstrual cycle, we wanna make sure
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:that our body has enough resources to
utilize to fuel all the processes that
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:need to happen for us to feel that way.
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:When it comes to movement,
physiologically, this is
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:our peak performance time.
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:You might notice increased flexibility,
increased aerobic capacity, and
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:better recovery during this muscle
tissue repair and adaptation are
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:also optimized in this phase.
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:And all of these really positive variables
means that it's really easy to overtrain
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:in this phase, and since your blood sugar
is pretty regulated, you're feeling pretty
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:good, your body's using fuel efficiently,
you might also be tempted to under fuel.
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:So we need to continue to fuel
appropriately and not under eat, and also
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:make sure to incorporate those recovery
days, even though our bodies might feel
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:like we wanna just exercise and exercise
and exercise be-because we feel so good.
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:This is generally the phase that
you can push new personal bests.
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:You can increase weight
in your strength training.
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:Increase repetitions, improve
volume and intensity in some way.
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:This is not saying you have to or you
shouldn't, it's just saying you might
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:feel like doing that, and That's just
saying your body might be craving
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:something like that, and that's okay
given this sort of optimized feeling
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:that we have in our bodies when
it comes to fueling and movement.
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:And lastly, it's also a very
optimal time for our brain health.
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:Motivation and energy are elevated.
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:This is like my natural and probably
your natural like, "Let's go out
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:there, let's do it," sorta phase.
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:Your confidence might be higher.
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:Communication feels easier.
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:Social energy is at its peak.
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:This is not a coincidence or
mood, it is hormonally influenced.
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:So when it comes to preparing
for your wedding, this is the
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:phase for everything high stakes.
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:Your hair and makeup trial, engagement
photo sessions, final dress fitting,
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:difficult family conversations.
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:First meeting with new vendors or anything
that makes you a little more nervous,
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:you can schedule it in this phase.
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:You might be able to schedule it in this
phase and utilize the confidence and
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:the easier communication that you have
in this phase to help in those meetings
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:I often plan my most intense workouts,
the workouts where I'm pushing my
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:weight here because I know that my
body will enjoy it and will love it.
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:And that's not saying that I also
won't put them somewhere else if my
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:body likes it, but I know that my
body is prepped and primed for muscle
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:building recovery in this phase.
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:So I usually try and
push it in my workouts.
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:But as always, notice how your body feels.
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:This is why it's so, so important in this
engagement season to really understand
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:what's happening in your body and listen
to it because what I'm telling you here
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:might not be the same for your body.
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:It is the general population
experience, I guess, but you might
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:have a drastically different experience
based on your cycle and your hormones.
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:And it's important to be
able to understand, read,
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:and listen to your body for
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:both your fitness, your health,
your mental health, your physical
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:health, your social life, your
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:brain health, but also to understand
your fertility for later on where if you
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:are trying to get pregnant or not trying
to get pregnant, some of these symptoms
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:and understanding how your body responds
in different phases of your menstrual
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:cycle is really going to give you that
extra insight for either getting pregnant
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:or not getting pregnant, depending on
what your goals are after the wedding.
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:so the next phase is days fourteen
through twenty-one, and this
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:includes your ovulation and then
also your early luteal phase.
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:So in this phase, your resting
heart rate and your exercise
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:heart rate both increase.
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:Meaning the same workout at the
same intensity done in this phase
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:compared to the follicular phase
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:might require more cardiovascular demands
and will feel physiologically harder.
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:Your immunity gets a
little bit of a boost.
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:And when we covered the menstrual cycle,
we've covered it so many times, so many
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:episodes, and the research just keeps
evolving, so I'm sure we'll revisit it
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:again in sort of a phase by phase way.
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:But I remember reading back in
the fall some of the research and
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:some of the hypotheses why our
immunity improves during this phase.
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:And it is hypothesized that should
we become pregnant and should egg
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:get fertilized We want to have a
body and environment that is able
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:to protect that growing baby.
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:So that's why your immune system might
ramp up at this phase in order to protect
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:a potentially growing baby inside of you.
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:This is the phase where your
body temperature also raises.
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:That affects both exercise
quality and sleep, unfortunately.
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:So nutrition in this phase, hydration
becomes an even bigger priority.
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:I mentioned hydration.
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:Hydration is always important, but
in that early follicular phase, that
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:period phase, sometimes I utilize
hydration as a tool to help with
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:cravings and blood sugar regulation.
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:In this phase, hydration's super important
because of that elevated body temperature.
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:Our ability to thermoregulate is a
little bit limited in this phase.
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:Protein both before and after exercise
is super critical so that our body senses
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:safety, that we have enough fuel for the
exercise that we're about to partake in.
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:That's the benefit of early protein
and carbohydrates before the workout.
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:In addition to after the workout
so that we can appropriately
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:rebuild after exercise.
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:Our body has a harder time recovering
in this phase and really rebuilding
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:in this phase, so we wanna make
sure that those building blocks for
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:that recovery are readily available.
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:Our blood sugar becomes a little
less stable around ovulation, so
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:making sure to hit all of those
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:macronutrient and micronutrient components
and making sure to get protein and
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:complex carbohydrates in combination.
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:Focusing on anti-inflammatory foods to
prepare for the end of that luteal phase
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:when inflammation starts to cue that...
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:shedding of the lining that happens
during our There are also foods that
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:can support progesterone production.
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:Zinc-rich foods like pumpkin seeds,
chickpeas, and beef help us support our
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:hormonal transition into that luteal phase
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:When it comes to movement, your
heart rate will run measurably higher
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:during the same workout, and
the research confirms this is
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:physiological, not a fitness
regression, so don't worry about it.
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:It just helps to understand that
a workout might feel a little more
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:intense in this phase compared to the
same workout in the follicular phase.
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:and recovery might feel a
little bit slower in this phase.
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:So just being aware that your body might
not feel as great after a certain workout
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:compared to in the follicular phase.
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:So what's happening mentally?
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:Rising then falling progesterone
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:brings emotional sensitivity,
which I definitely resonate with,
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:and slight lethargy as this phase
progresses, which I also resonate with.
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:Completely hormonal,
not a personality shift.
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:I've talked about this a lot.
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:I feel like the unlock for me when
it came to learning my own menstrual
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:cycle was being able to give myself
grace when it came to my mental health.
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:I would feel so negative in this phase,
so just down on myself, so emotional.
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:And then once I learned that was actually
related to my hormones and not who I am,
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:I started to make light of the situation
and understand that give myself a few
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:days and I'll feel so much better.
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:When I had Dr.
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:Sam Moore on back in January where we
talked female physiology, performance,
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:training, all the things, we joked that
I always say, that's not real Kelsey.
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:That's fake Kelsey in the luteal phase.
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:It's not real Kelsey.
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:The real me is in the follicular phase."
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:So it's a fun way to personify or
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:to separate yourself from what
you think is happening within your
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:brain that's not a personality
shift, but more of a hormonal shift.
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:Some women might feel most connected
and most social around ovulation.
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:That is also okay.
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:Sometimes that's my
experience, not very often.
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:So this is maybe where
I divert from the norm.
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:But during ovulation, that day
fourteen, fifteen, plus or minus
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:three days, you might feel a little
bit more social, a little bit more
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:connected, and that's okay too
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:So when it comes to how to apply all
of these principles to your wedding,
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:you might adjust your workout intensity
and frequency and really prioritize
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:recovery in this phase, understanding
that maybe pushing yourself in a
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:certain exercise and allowing longer
rest in between some of those exercises
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:or day by day, allowing maybe two to
three strength training days, one or
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:two cardio days, followed by a little
bit more recovery days in this phase.
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:This also might not be the
phase for high stakes meetings
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:or highly stressful situations.
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:Just like we talked about the immunity
piece of this puzzle, where our
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:immune system is actually heightened
in this phase for the potentially
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:evolutionary reason of protecting
the growing baby inside of us.
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:The same thing has been said about
mentally what happens within our brains.
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:Where in our follicular phase,
we are more likely to chase
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:opportunities, that's our focus.
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:And in the luteal phase,
we're more likely to
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:sort of protect against potentially
negative experiences and protect
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:ourselves and the potential growing baby.
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:So our brain is on high alert to
anything that might be considered
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:threatening, whether that is an
actual threat or whether that's
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:just something that we sense is
threatening because we are feeling
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:stress or anxiety about that meeting
or that activity or that conversation.
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:So just another thing to be aware
of that it's a really cool thing
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:within our bodies that we have
these built-in ways of protecting.
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:if your goal is to get pregnant, where
our immune system ramps up, our mind
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:starts to become one of a little bit
more protecting our space and protecting
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:our environment to protect the growing
baby inside of us, And we can link that
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:back to the way our bodies were created
to protect life growing inside of us.
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:And
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:I like to think of it from, you
know, a safari perspective or a, a
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:mama lion's perspective of trying to
protect her growing cub and becoming
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:more on high alert because of that
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:So last phase is that late luteal
phase where your body is really
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:trying to prepare for your period.
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:It's day twenty-two to twenty-eight.
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:It is that late luteal
and the secretory phase.
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:So the decline in estrogen
and progesterone triggers
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:that inflammatory response
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:which affects our muscle performance,
our exercise performance, our aerobic
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:performance, our cardiovascular
performance, everything.
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:Our blood sugar becomes a little
less stable, so you might experience
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:a few more cravings in this phase.
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:You might also get PMS symptoms
or premenstrual symptoms.
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:And I did an episode a few weeks
back talking about how I'm creating
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:my hottest version of myself in this
trimester zero phase before I consider
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:pregnancy and starting a family.
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:And I talked about how adjusting my
fueling has really helped with some
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:of these symptoms that I've had during
this late luteal phase and my period.
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:So highly recommend take
a look at that episode.
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:I'll leave the link to it below.
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:That way if you guys are curious, but
there are ways to positively affect these
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:symptoms, and I think when we're talking
about wedding prep and engagement prep,
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:a lot of this process is experimentation.
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:So it's figuring out, okay, I do
experience bloating and irritability,
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:but can I adjust my fueling patterns,
my hydration patterns, my workout
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:patterns, my sleep hygiene in order
to positively affect those symptoms
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:so that, you know, when you're on your
honeymoon and you might be in your
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:late luteal phase or on your wedding
day in your late luteal phase, you'll
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:have a better understanding of how to
help your body in that phase, knowing
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:what's happening underneath the surface.
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:Sleep is also directly impacted by
this drop in estrogen and progesterone.
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:So connecting it back to our
glymphatic system episode or that
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:brain cleansing episode that we did.
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:The deep sleep stage, that cleansing
phase of our sleep cycle is hugely
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:affected by these hormonal shifts.
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:For nutrition, all of
the same pillars apply.
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:This is why I hate the term cycle syncing.
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:Same with exercise.
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:The pillars are the same, but
understanding what's happening within
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:your body can really help adjust and
maximize some of the different foods
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:and nutrients that these foods offer
during different phases of your cycle.
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:So focusing on complex carbohydrates,
fiber, protein, really balanced meals to
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:help with that blood sugar stabilization.
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:All of these things also help with
serotonin production, which can help
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:with our mood, especially in this phase.
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:Things like sweet potatoes, oats,
brown rice, legumes, vegetables, chia
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:seeds, flax seeds, protein at every
meal, Greek yogurt, meats, all of
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:these sorts of things can really help.
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:another focus on antioxidants
and anti-inflammatory foods,
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:like in all the phases, right?
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:We need all of these things.
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:But if we can understand why, I
feel like that also helps me want
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:to purposefully choose some of
those ingredients for my meals.
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:So omega-3s, turmeric, ginger,
dark leafy greens, berries, all
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:of these directly target the
inflammatory driver of PMS symptoms.
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:In this phase, really focusing
on sleep supporting foods and
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:supplements, things like magnesium,
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:bananas, oats, walnuts,
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:tart cherry, dark chocolate,
pumpkin seeds, all of these
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:things are sleep promoting foods.
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:This is something I need to focus
on because I notice my sleep
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:hugely affected in this phase.
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:Foods to reduce or eliminate
in this phase, processed foods.
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:Research has consistently linked them to
worse PMS symptoms, which is likely why
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:a lot of my symptoms last menstrual cycle
were so much better because I had pretty
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:much eliminated a lot of the processed
foods that I was eating in my diet.
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:Limit alcohol.
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:As we said in our liver and hormonal
connection episode, alcohol is
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:prioritized in the liver and one
of the liver's jobs is helping with
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:estrogen and with hormonal balance.
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:So if alcohol is having to be metabolized
in the liver, it deprioritizes some of
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:its other roles in hormonal balance.
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:You also might experience an
increased appetite in this phase.
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:It's okay to honor that.
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:Your body is asking for more fuel
because it genuinely needs more
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:fuel, and it's okay to listen to
that cue that your body's giving you.
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:When it comes to movement in this
phase, exercise is one of the most
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:research-backed ways to help with a
lot of the symptoms that a lot of girls
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:experience in this late luteal phase.
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:it combats inflammation and again,
helps with those mood changes
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:and boost our happy hormones.
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:I always think of the Legally Blonde
quote with this that's like, " Exercise
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:makes people happy, and happy
people just don't kill people."
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:You know, I don't know.
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:It plays on repeat anytime I hear
about exercise and affecting mood.
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:So if that helps you remember as well.
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:During this phase, also understanding
that recovery takes a little bit
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:longer, not only recovery within the
workout session itself and longer
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:rest between sets, but also day by day
recovery, where after a super intense
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:workout, you might need a little bit
longer recovery in between workouts.
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:Mentally, your mood is genuinely affected
by this hormonal decline, and I notice
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:this significantly in my own brain.
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:Furthermore, this sleep disruption
and this disruption in sleep
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:that we have during this phase
compounds all of those negative
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:cognitive and emotional challenges that
we might have as a baseline in this phase.
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:So any sort of stress-reducing
practices, mindfulness, breathwork,
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:have a huge payout in this phase.
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:This is something else that I
need to incorporate way more.
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:I have gotten pretty good at some of the
fueling and exercise and understanding
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:the mental health challenges that
I experience throughout my phase.
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:It's something that I've become
more and more aware of over time.
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:This is truly something that takes time,
which I think is why your engagement era
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:is probably the perfect time to start
to understand that a little bit better.
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:But this is something that I need to
implement more and more because I know
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:my sleep's affected, I know my stress
is affected, I know my mental health
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:is affected, and yet I'm still not
very good at incorporating breathwork
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:and mindfulness and positive self-talk
strategies, especially in this phase
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:So this is maybe not the phase to
schedule anything important, anything
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:that you're looking forward to.
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:Dress fittings, final hair and makeup,
engagement photos, any sort of really
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:intense conversations, all of the
things that we've been talking about,
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:this might not be the best phase to
schedule them in if you have a say.
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:If you do, however, implementing some of
these strategies, breathwork, positive
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:self-talk, fueling yourself appropriately.
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:This is why we're doing this sort
of an episode, so that should any of
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:these things fall within that phase,
you have the tools and resources to
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:know how to experiment with your body
and figure out what can help you feel
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:the best during whichever phase of
your menstrual cycle that you're in.
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:It might be a good phase to dive into
that emotional side of your brain,
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:where you might write your vows in
this phase, write letters to your
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:parents, your mom and dad, your loved
ones who have been with you through
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:every step of this dating, engagement,
and now future marriage journey.
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:You might wanna do more gentle like
inner work, where you're not having to
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:perform for anyone, but you're really
just trying to be present in this time
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:in your life, in this moment in time,
and preparing for what marriage means
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:to you and doing, I guess, a little
bit more solo internal deep work.
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:And lastly, be willing to give yourself
grace, especially in this phase on
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:your wedding preparation journey.
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:If you notice more anxiety, more stress,
more emotional sensitivity during
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:this phase, make sure you call it out.
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:That really helps, understanding
that that's not the real you.
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:That's not real Kelsey.
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:That's what I tell myself, but you can
come up with something that works for you.
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:That's not the real you, and then
replacing it with, " I'm gonna check
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:back in in four or five days when
my mental state is a little bit more
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:positive and then see how I feel."
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:Your body has been sending you
all of this information for all
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:of the phases every single month.
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:The energy peaks, the performance windows.
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:The harder phases, the emotional richness
of the slower days, It has all been there.
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:We've just never been taught
how to actually read it
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:So start tracking all four phases.
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:Don't worry about catching patterns yet.
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:And slowly over time, you'll start to
notice certain changes, notice certain
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:patterns, and start to understand and
learn your body on a deeper level.
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:You'll be able to see in real time your
relationship with your body transform
654
:from confusion to complete literacy.
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:And that's one of the most powerful
things you can carry with you
656
:into your wedding day and every day after.
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:It is the gift that keeps on giving,
the wedding gift that keeps on giving.
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:So I hope you guys enjoyed this episode.
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:This is one of my absolute favorite topics
because it's been life-changing for me,
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:and I hope that in this phase of wedding
season, wedding prep, engagement prep,
661
:or whatever big phase you're preparing
for, even if you're not a bride, that
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:this is something That you can take and
implement into your day-to-day life to
663
:start to understand and love your body
and what it can do for you in a new way.
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:So thank you for joining me, and
I'll see you guys again on the next
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:episode of Wellness Fixes the Pod.