Nobody puts this in the wedding planning timeline. But it might be the most important tool you have.
In this episode of the Science-Backed Wedding Prep Series, Dr. Kelsy Vick breaks down how learning to read your menstrual cycle as health data can transform your engagement season — from how you schedule high-stakes wedding moments to how you train, fuel, recover, sleep, and show up emotionally on the days that matter most.
This is not cycle syncing. This is individualized cycle awareness — and it changes everything.
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Welcome to Wellness Fixes the Pod, a
by Maven Media production, where we
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believe you deserve real education
from real experts, delivered
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in a way you can actually use.
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I'm Dr.
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Kelsey Vick, your board-certified
orthopedic doctor of physical therapy, and
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this podcast was built for the girl who
is done feeling overwhelmed and frustrated
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by conflicting health noise, and is ready
for something she can actually trust.
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Every week, we have honest, science-backed
conversations about your health,
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your hormones, your brain, your
body, and everything in between.
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No fluff, no fear-mongering,
just the truth.
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Because understanding your
body is the most powerful
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thing you can do for yourself.
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A table full of experts built for
the curious girl who wants the truth.
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So welcome.
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Your seat is waiting for you.
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What if I told you the single most
important thing you can do between
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now and your wedding day has nothing
to do with your workout routine, your
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skincare, or your fueling patterns,
and everything to do with learning
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to read the most sophisticated
health tracking system your body has?
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Because your body has been sending
you a monthly report card for
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pretty much your entire life.
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Most of us just never
learned how to read it.
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And hopefully allows you to view your
body as the superwoman that it is.
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You'll be able to see in real time your
relationship with your body transform
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from confusion to complete literacy,
and that's one of the most powerful
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things you can carry with you into
your wedding day, and every day after.
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It is the gift that keeps on giving,
the wedding gift that keeps on giving.
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What if I told you the single most
important thing you can do between
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now and your wedding day has nothing
to do with your workout routine, your
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skincare, or your fueling patterns.
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And everything to do with learning
to read the most sophisticated
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health tracking system your body has.
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Because your body has been sending
you a monthly report card for
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pretty much your entire life.
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Most of us just never
learned how to read it.
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Welcome back to Wellness Fixes the Pod.
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I'm your host, Dr.
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Kelsey Vick, a board-certified
orthopedic doctor of physical therapy
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and a pelvic floor physical therapist.
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And we've talked about the workouts,
we've talked about the body recomposition,
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but there is one wedding prep
tool that nobody, not your wedding
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coordinator, not your venue, not your
florist, probably not even your mom,
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your sister, or your best friends,
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is putting in your planning timeline.
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But it has been running your body
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every single month of your life.
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And that's your menstrual cycle.
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So let's talk about science-backed
wedding prep and one of the most important
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things you can do to go from a thousand
times yes to "I do" on your wedding day.
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My sister is getting married this month,
which really inspired this series talking
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about science-backed, research-backed
wedding prep that we all can incorporate,
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whether or not we are the bride, the
maid of honor, a bridesmaid, a wedding
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guest, or even if we just don't have
a wedding, we just want to hear how to
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feel the best and look the best in our
bodies for a certain event or activity or
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big milestone that we have
coming up, or even just for fun.
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And today we're gonna chat about the
menstrual cycle, which is something that
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so many girls can benefit from learning,
not only to help them feel their best
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on their wedding day and to use as a
tool throughout their wedding prep.
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But also when it comes to post-wedding,
if you are looking to start a family, it
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helps to learn it now so that when you are
looking into your fertility and what all
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goes into getting pregnant or not getting
pregnant, you have a better idea of how
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your body is working every single month.
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So knowing your cycle can help you
schedule really stressful events
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in your wedding planning era during
the times of your cycle where
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you can feel more motivated, more
beautiful, more like yourself.
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Something like your hair and makeup trial.
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If you're scheduling it possibly
in your luteal phase or that back
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half of your cycle, maybe your
mindset in approaching that trial is
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gonna be one of negativity already.
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where if you're scheduling it
during your follicular phase,
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you might already feel beautiful.
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So it can totally change the vibe
of how you experience certain
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things in this engagement era.
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it can also help you understand how your
body might feel on your wedding day, given
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the time of the month that you're in or
the phase of your cycle that you're in.
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So It can really help with scheduling
the grace that you give yourself on
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your wedding day, figuring out and
experimenting what can help your
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body feel the best on that big day.
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It means working with
your body, not against it.
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It makes making better fueling and
workout and rest and recovery decisions
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throughout your entire engagement
to where you're able to show up each
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and every day as the best version of
yourself, as well as showing up on your
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wedding day feeling the most confident
in your body and in who you are.
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Your menstrual cycle is not
an inconvenience, it's data.
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And data is the most powerful
wedding prep tool you've been given.
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Your menstrual cycle is so
much more than just a period
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tracker or an ovulation tracker.
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It can really help give insight into
how your body is doing physiologically,
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how you are doing mental health-wise,
how motivated you are, how tired and
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fatigued you are, how your body might
respond after a certain workout.
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It gives so much more insight
than the days of your period
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and your ovulation day.
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We just have to learn to become
more aware of what each of those
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signs and symptoms are telling us.
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Understanding your own menstrual cycle,
not just the days of your period or
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ovulation, but the entire twenty-eight-ish
day cycle, can help you understand why you
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might feel so motivated at one point in
your cycle and not as motivated the next.
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Why your workout feels absolutely
incredible in your body during one day,
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and then two weeks later, you do the same
workout and feel absolutely miserable.
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It gives you insight into why one
meal might make you feel so strong
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and so lean, and why that same meal
two weeks later might leave you
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feeling a little puffy and sluggish.
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It helps you understand why your digestion
and cravings might differ throughout
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the month, And it can also help you
understand why your sleep quality
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changes throughout your menstrual cycle.
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So I never want us to look at our
menstrual cycle as something that we have
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to work against or fight back against,
but something that we can work with
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to really feel the best in our bodies.
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And I feel like understanding your
menstrual cycle allows me at least, and
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hopefully allows you, to view your body
as the superwoman that it is, as the way
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that we can understand what's happening
within our bodies physiologically based
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on our symptoms, and be able to adjust
certain behaviors that we do to really
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help us feel the best, no matter the phase
of our menstrual cycle that we're in.
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So let's go phase by phase, talk
about what's happening within our
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bodies physiologically, what you
might feel, and how we can use those
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symptoms that time in your cycle in
the best way in your engagement era.
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Starting with phase one.
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Phase one is your period.
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It's that days one through five, It's
that menstrual phase and that early
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follicular phase, which the phases
are labeled based on what's happening
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in the ovaries or in your uterus.
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So there's different ways that
we can categorize different
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phases, so I'll try and give both.
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I typically like to talk about it as
follicular and luteal because it's easy
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for me to remember two categories compared
to, like, four, including ovulation.
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Ovulation is part of both, so
technically three compared to five.
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But I like thinking about it
as, like, early follicular, late
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follicular, ovulation, and then
early luteal and late luteal.
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So Phase one is typically that days
one through five when you're on
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your period, and It is the menstrual
phase and the early follicular phase.
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So what's actually
happening within our bodies?
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The sharp decline in progesterone At
the end of your previous cycle triggers
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a systemic inflammatory response.
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This is the biological driver
of most period symptoms
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and is documented across multiple research
studies, but it's also what allows your
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period to happen, so it's not a bad thing.
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Inflammation is necessary within
the body, and it's necessary
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within your menstrual cycle.
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White blood cell count or those
immune cell counts also decrease,
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which means your immune system
might be a little shaky, but it
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also allows our immune system not
to fight the process that naturally
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needs to happen within our bodies.
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Our ability to regulate blood sugar is
also slightly impaired in this phase.
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So your appetite might become less
predictable, and you might notice
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yourself having more cravings, which
if you're like me, yes, definitely.
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So how can we actually work with this
phase knowing all of these changes
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that are happening in days one
through five when we're on our period?
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when it comes to nutrition, expect
appetite changes and expect blood
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sugar regulation challenges.
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For me, I know hydration really helps
fight against this in addition to
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really focusing on getting enough
macronutrients and micronutrients
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from whole food sources in my diet.
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So rather than pulling for the salty snack
that I might want, I try and check in.
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Am I hydrated well enough?
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Do I actually just want water?
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Or is this craving of a salty food,
can that be satiated with something
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like sauerkraut or dill pickles or
vegetables and cottage cheese, something
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that might give me a little bit more
sustenance than that salty tortilla chip
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that I actually feel like I'm craving?
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The same thing can be
said for sweet cravings.
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Oftentimes I'm craving dark chocolate
or something sugary like ice cream,
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so If you have this awareness of,
okay, yes, my appetite is changing.
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My blood sugar is not as
regulated as it might be later
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on in this follicular phase.
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So how can I make sure to have the
fuel that I need, the macronutrients,
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the micronutrients, the vitamins, the
minerals that I need so that I can
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combat these cravings and this lack of
blood sugar regulation in the best way?
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Since this is also an inflammatory
phase, we can start to think about
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fueling with anti-inflammatory foods to
help with that general feeling of like
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puffiness and bloatedness that we might
get because of the systemic inflammation.
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so thinking omega-3s, colorful
fruits and veggies, things
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like fish, berries, peppers.
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And then seasonings and condiments
that might also have anti-inflammatory
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properties like turmeric, ginger,
and healthy fats like olive oils.
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we're also losing blood in this
phase, which I have to give a shout
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out to my sister because she is so
thoughtful when it comes to this.
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I will tell her I'm on my
period as all girls do.
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We just talk about it.
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And I went over to her house for
dinner one night and she had cooked
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steak because she knew that I was
in a phase of blood loss and that
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I needed iron in my diet to help.
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So focusing on iron and really
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blood building type of foods
can really help in this phase.
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Red meat, lentils, spinach, pumpkin seeds.
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In addition to adding foods high in
vitamin C, red bell peppers, peppers
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in general, citrus, strawberries,
vitamin C, All that help with our
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body's ability to absorb iron.
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Antioxidants are also huge.
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So dark chocolate.
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I'm a huge dark chocolate fan in general,
but Dark chocolate can really help with
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some of the symptoms in this phase.
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Berries, green tea, pomegranate.
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All support our body's increased
antioxidant demand during
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this inflammatory phase.
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Making sure to get enough vegetables
and leafy greens to allow for a good,
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well-rounded micronutrient protocol too.
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And as I said earlier,
hydration is super important.
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I oftentimes feel like when I have
cravings, if I just drink twelve ounces of
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water, sometimes that completely subsides,
which allows me the time to check in.
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Is it actually something that I want or is
my body just sending that signal when it
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really needs something else, like water?
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When it comes to movement in this first
phase, exercise is always going to be key.
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I should preface all of this by
saying this is not cycle syncing.
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This is understanding what's happening
within your body and being able to
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implement behaviors with fueling,
with movement, with sleep hygiene,
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with giving your body grace because
of what's happening within your brain.
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It's understanding the science and
the physiology behind your menstrual
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cycle and being able to support it
with different foods and movement
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and other strategies that might help.
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So it is definitely not cycle syncing.
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It's not one size fits all either,
which is why I think this is one of
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the most beneficial things you can do
in this season of engagement in your
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bridal era, because it allows time for
experimentation, for learning your body.
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What I'm sharing with you today is what's
happening physiologically in general,
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but I have met so many girls who tell me
different things that help their bodies
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in certain phases compared to my own body.
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So it's helpful to understand the science,
but it's also helpful to be able to map
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it to your own body and figure out what
your own body needs and what your own body
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might benefit from during a certain phase.
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So exercise during any phase
is not contraindicated.
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It is great for all
symptoms and all phases.
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Just because you're in an
inflammatory phase right now does
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not mean you need to be doing light
exercise or low intensity exercise.
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Some of the time, myself
included, the first day of my
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period, I'm feeling so strong.
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I'm feeling so powerful because
we're also in that follicular phase.
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Our bodies are prepping and priming
and getting all of the hormonal
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regulation and appetite regulation
and blood sugar regulation, and all
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of that is about to become the most
optimal out of all phases of our cycle.
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So it's okay if that also hits a
little early during your period.
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It doesn't mean you have to adjust your
workout routine based on what you think
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you should be doing, when in reality,
what your body wants and needs and
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desires at that time is lifting the
heavy weights or running the harder
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distances or increasing intensity
with your sprint interval training
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or high intensity interval training.
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It is so individualized, and
even within the individual,
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it can vary cycle to cycle.
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the research supports exercise in all
phases of your menstrual cycle and not
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one form of exercise over the other,
which is why I wanna make sure people
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understand this is not cycle syncing.
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It's just understanding what's happening
within your body and being able to
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have the knowledge to understand why
your body's responding to something
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differently, possibly during
different phases of your cycle.
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So exercise during the menstrual
phase is hugely beneficial.
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Yes, it causes momentary inflammation.
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That inflammation is needed to allow for
all of the benefits of exercise to occur.
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But it also has anti-inflammatory
properties and really good
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antioxidant properties.
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So both super beneficial for
us in this menstrual phase.
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The endorphins that are released during
exercise are also hugely beneficial.
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Something to note, you might
recognize that muscle activation and
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recovery takes a little bit longer
during this phase, and that's okay.
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If you start to realize, like, "Hey, I
can't jump into my workout as quickly as
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I can, you know, six days from now," maybe
spend a little longer in your warmup.
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Maybe allow yourself a little longer
recovery in between your working sets.
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It's those sorts of adjustments that
can be made once you have the knowledge
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of what's happening within your body.
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During your menstrual phase, when
you're on your period, there's certain
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cognitive benefits that you might
actually be able to take advantage of.
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research suggests we have improved
cognitive abilities when it comes to
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more advanced brain tasks that we
have to do, like Deep thinking,
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planning, and creative problem-solving.
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So this might be your best phase
for vendor research, reviewing
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wedding contracts, wedding budget
analysis, or writing your vows.
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It might not be the best phase
for that hair and makeup trial,
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dress fittings, high-stakes vendor
meetings, or engagement photos.
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But due to the cognitive benefits,
it is one of the best phases for all
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of the deep thinking, administrative,
and planning tasks that require
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focus and strategic thinking.
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So if you happen to have any of those
things scheduled during this phase, just
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make sure to understand what's happening
in your body and give yourself a little
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bit of grace, especially if your hair and
makeup trial does fall during your period.
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Understand that, okay, if you feel
this way during your hair and makeup
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trial right now, just know maybe six
days from now, you might feel like the
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most confident version of yourself.
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So give yourself a little grace.
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Don't read into it too much, Knowing
what's happening within your mind
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and body during phase one or this
menstrual phase and early follicular
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phase of your menstrual cycle.
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Phase two, or those days six through
thirteen, is sort of your glowing era.
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This is where most girls feel
their absolute best, and I'll
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say this is when I feel my best.
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This is when my exercise is amazing.
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I feel so good.
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I feel so strong.
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I recover so well.
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It's when I feel the most lean.
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It's when I'm mo-most
motivated and creative.
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I love this phase, and I
think most girls will agree.
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I will say as a caveat, there have
been some months where I have a real
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mental health challenge in this phase,
and it really throws me for a loop
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because I know that typically my mental
health is like top notch in this phase.
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So there are some months and some
days when these patterns might not
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apply to your life and that's okay.
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It doesn't mean something's broken, but
something to just be aware of and be
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like, "Oh, I'm in my follicular phase,
but I'm really struggling with making
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this decision or feeling a little bit
down about this aspect of my wedding."
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Just taking mental note of that And
realizing typically your mental health
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might be the most optimal in this
state, and if it's still affecting
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you, it must need to be resolved.
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It must be something that you need
to make a decision on or talk to
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somebody about because it, it is
affecting you during one of the best
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phases for most girls' mental health.
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And this is just a blank slate
statement that might not apply to you.
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So that's why it's important to
understand your own cycle, and
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maybe you do notice that typically
you feel down during this phase.
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That's okay.
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But understanding that's where
your body is compared to what
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might be the population average.
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So this is the late follicular and
the proliferative phase, and in
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this phase, estrogen is rising.
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And it's doing remarkable
things across our entire system.
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Your skin, your energy, your mood,
your ability to recover, your ability
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to exercise, your motivation, all
of those things are benefiting
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simultaneously from this rise in estrogen.
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Blood pressure is also at its lowest
point throughout the entire cycle.
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So cardiovascular exercise
might physiologically feel a
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little bit easier in this phase.
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A twenty twenty-five systematic
review actually showed that the
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follicular phase is associated
with improved aerobic performance
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and more favorable recovery
compared to other phases.
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Another systematic review confirmed That
strength and power parameters also showed
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favorable trends in this follicular phase.
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So diving into how your fueling and
nutrition might feel in this phase.
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Your blood sugar is most stable here,
so you might notice the least amount
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of cravings over your entire cycle.
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Protein remains a non-negotiable,
especially if you're pushing
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yourself in your exercise routine
because it's just feeling good.
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Protein remains super important.
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Complex carbohydrates are really,
really good for you in all phases,
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but especially in this phase.
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Since our body is able to use fuel a
little more efficiently in this phase,
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we wanna be able to support that.
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So things like oats, sweet potatoes,
quinoa, brown rice, all great in all
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phases again, but you might want to
incorporate them a little bit more in
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this phase, knowing that your body is
just using that fuel super efficiently.
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The really important thing here
is you do not want to undereat.
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In order to maintain all of these
really positive variables that happen
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in this sort of glowing phase of your
menstrual cycle, we wanna make sure
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that our body has enough resources to
utilize to fuel all the processes that
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need to happen for us to feel that way.
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When it comes to movement,
physiologically, this is
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our peak performance time.
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You might notice increased flexibility,
increased aerobic capacity, and
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better recovery during this muscle
tissue repair and adaptation are
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also optimized in this phase.
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And all of these really positive variables
means that it's really easy to overtrain
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in this phase, and since your blood sugar
is pretty regulated, you're feeling pretty
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good, your body's using fuel efficiently,
you might also be tempted to under fuel.
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So we need to continue to fuel
appropriately and not under eat, and also
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make sure to incorporate those recovery
days, even though our bodies might feel
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like we wanna just exercise and exercise
and exercise be-because we feel so good.
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This is generally the phase that
you can push new personal bests.
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You can increase weight
in your strength training.
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Increase repetitions, improve
volume and intensity in some way.
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This is not saying you have to or you
shouldn't, it's just saying you might
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feel like doing that, and That's just
saying your body might be craving
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something like that, and that's okay
given this sort of optimized feeling
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that we have in our bodies when
it comes to fueling and movement.
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And lastly, it's also a very
optimal time for our brain health.
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Motivation and energy are elevated.
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This is like my natural and probably
your natural like, "Let's go out
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there, let's do it," sorta phase.
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Your confidence might be higher.
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Communication feels easier.
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Social energy is at its peak.
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This is not a coincidence or
mood, it is hormonally influenced.
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So when it comes to preparing
for your wedding, this is the
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phase for everything high stakes.
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Your hair and makeup trial, engagement
photo sessions, final dress fitting,
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difficult family conversations.
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First meeting with new vendors or anything
that makes you a little more nervous,
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you can schedule it in this phase.
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You might be able to schedule it in this
phase and utilize the confidence and
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the easier communication that you have
in this phase to help in those meetings
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I often plan my most intense workouts,
the workouts where I'm pushing my
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weight here because I know that my
body will enjoy it and will love it.
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And that's not saying that I also
won't put them somewhere else if my
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body likes it, but I know that my
body is prepped and primed for muscle
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building recovery in this phase.
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So I usually try and
push it in my workouts.
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But as always, notice how your body feels.
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This is why it's so, so important in this
engagement season to really understand
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what's happening in your body and listen
to it because what I'm telling you here
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might not be the same for your body.
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It is the general population
experience, I guess, but you might
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have a drastically different experience
based on your cycle and your hormones.
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And it's important to be
able to understand, read,
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and listen to your body for
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both your fitness, your health,
your mental health, your physical
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health, your social life, your
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brain health, but also to understand
your fertility for later on where if you
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are trying to get pregnant or not trying
to get pregnant, some of these symptoms
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and understanding how your body responds
in different phases of your menstrual
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cycle is really going to give you that
extra insight for either getting pregnant
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or not getting pregnant, depending on
what your goals are after the wedding.
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so the next phase is days fourteen
through twenty-one, and this
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includes your ovulation and then
also your early luteal phase.
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So in this phase, your resting
heart rate and your exercise
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heart rate both increase.
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Meaning the same workout at the
same intensity done in this phase
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compared to the follicular phase
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might require more cardiovascular demands
and will feel physiologically harder.
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Your immunity gets a
little bit of a boost.
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And when we covered the menstrual cycle,
we've covered it so many times, so many
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episodes, and the research just keeps
evolving, so I'm sure we'll revisit it
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again in sort of a phase by phase way.
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But I remember reading back in
the fall some of the research and
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some of the hypotheses why our
immunity improves during this phase.
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And it is hypothesized that should
we become pregnant and should egg
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get fertilized We want to have a
body and environment that is able
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to protect that growing baby.
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So that's why your immune system might
ramp up at this phase in order to protect
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a potentially growing baby inside of you.
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This is the phase where your
body temperature also raises.
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That affects both exercise
quality and sleep, unfortunately.
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So nutrition in this phase, hydration
becomes an even bigger priority.
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I mentioned hydration.
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Hydration is always important, but
in that early follicular phase, that
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period phase, sometimes I utilize
hydration as a tool to help with
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cravings and blood sugar regulation.
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In this phase, hydration's super important
because of that elevated body temperature.
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Our ability to thermoregulate is a
little bit limited in this phase.
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Protein both before and after exercise
is super critical so that our body senses
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safety, that we have enough fuel for the
exercise that we're about to partake in.
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That's the benefit of early protein
and carbohydrates before the workout.
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In addition to after the workout
so that we can appropriately
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rebuild after exercise.
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Our body has a harder time recovering
in this phase and really rebuilding
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in this phase, so we wanna make
sure that those building blocks for
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that recovery are readily available.
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Our blood sugar becomes a little
less stable around ovulation, so
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making sure to hit all of those
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macronutrient and micronutrient components
and making sure to get protein and
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complex carbohydrates in combination.
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Focusing on anti-inflammatory foods to
prepare for the end of that luteal phase
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when inflammation starts to cue that...
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shedding of the lining that happens
during our There are also foods that
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can support progesterone production.
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Zinc-rich foods like pumpkin seeds,
chickpeas, and beef help us support our
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hormonal transition into that luteal phase
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When it comes to movement, your
heart rate will run measurably higher
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00:26:08,267 --> 00:26:10,487
during the same workout, and
the research confirms this is
445
00:26:10,487 --> 00:26:13,697
physiological, not a fitness
regression, so don't worry about it.
446
00:26:14,027 --> 00:26:17,127
It just helps to understand that
a workout might feel a little more
447
00:26:17,127 --> 00:26:21,457
intense in this phase compared to the
same workout in the follicular phase.
448
00:26:21,607 --> 00:26:24,197
and recovery might feel a
little bit slower in this phase.
449
00:26:24,197 --> 00:26:29,287
So just being aware that your body might
not feel as great after a certain workout
450
00:26:29,287 --> 00:26:30,867
compared to in the follicular phase.
451
00:26:31,167 --> 00:26:32,707
So what's happening mentally?
452
00:26:33,007 --> 00:26:35,397
Rising then falling progesterone
453
00:26:35,697 --> 00:26:39,097
brings emotional sensitivity,
which I definitely resonate with,
454
00:26:39,397 --> 00:26:43,577
and slight lethargy as this phase
progresses, which I also resonate with.
455
00:26:43,877 --> 00:26:46,157
Completely hormonal,
not a personality shift.
456
00:26:46,157 --> 00:26:47,297
I've talked about this a lot.
457
00:26:47,337 --> 00:26:51,817
I feel like the unlock for me when
it came to learning my own menstrual
458
00:26:51,817 --> 00:26:55,277
cycle was being able to give myself
grace when it came to my mental health.
459
00:26:55,677 --> 00:27:00,597
I would feel so negative in this phase,
so just down on myself, so emotional.
460
00:27:00,597 --> 00:27:05,137
And then once I learned that was actually
related to my hormones and not who I am,
461
00:27:05,437 --> 00:27:09,157
I started to make light of the situation
and understand that give myself a few
462
00:27:09,157 --> 00:27:10,917
days and I'll feel so much better.
463
00:27:11,217 --> 00:27:12,037
When I had Dr.
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00:27:12,037 --> 00:27:17,257
Sam Moore on back in January where we
talked female physiology, performance,
465
00:27:17,257 --> 00:27:21,977
training, all the things, we joked that
I always say, that's not real Kelsey.
466
00:27:22,127 --> 00:27:24,507
That's fake Kelsey in the luteal phase.
467
00:27:24,507 --> 00:27:25,837
It's not real Kelsey.
468
00:27:25,837 --> 00:27:27,527
The real me is in the follicular phase."
469
00:27:27,527 --> 00:27:31,407
So it's a fun way to personify or
470
00:27:31,707 --> 00:27:35,087
to separate yourself from what
you think is happening within your
471
00:27:35,087 --> 00:27:39,347
brain that's not a personality
shift, but more of a hormonal shift.
472
00:27:39,647 --> 00:27:43,637
Some women might feel most connected
and most social around ovulation.
473
00:27:44,027 --> 00:27:45,317
That is also okay.
474
00:27:45,617 --> 00:27:47,977
Sometimes that's my
experience, not very often.
475
00:27:47,977 --> 00:27:50,507
So this is maybe where
I divert from the norm.
476
00:27:50,507 --> 00:27:53,627
But during ovulation, that day
fourteen, fifteen, plus or minus
477
00:27:53,627 --> 00:27:56,417
three days, you might feel a little
bit more social, a little bit more
478
00:27:56,417 --> 00:27:57,577
connected, and that's okay too
479
00:27:57,877 --> 00:28:01,027
So when it comes to how to apply all
of these principles to your wedding,
480
00:28:01,297 --> 00:28:06,217
you might adjust your workout intensity
and frequency and really prioritize
481
00:28:06,217 --> 00:28:10,957
recovery in this phase, understanding
that maybe pushing yourself in a
482
00:28:10,957 --> 00:28:15,707
certain exercise and allowing longer
rest in between some of those exercises
483
00:28:15,777 --> 00:28:20,187
or day by day, allowing maybe two to
three strength training days, one or
484
00:28:20,187 --> 00:28:23,327
two cardio days, followed by a little
bit more recovery days in this phase.
485
00:28:23,627 --> 00:28:27,317
This also might not be the
phase for high stakes meetings
486
00:28:27,317 --> 00:28:29,137
or highly stressful situations.
487
00:28:29,437 --> 00:28:33,827
Just like we talked about the immunity
piece of this puzzle, where our
488
00:28:33,827 --> 00:28:37,637
immune system is actually heightened
in this phase for the potentially
489
00:28:37,637 --> 00:28:41,807
evolutionary reason of protecting
the growing baby inside of us.
490
00:28:42,037 --> 00:28:45,607
The same thing has been said about
mentally what happens within our brains.
491
00:28:45,907 --> 00:28:49,867
Where in our follicular phase,
we are more likely to chase
492
00:28:49,897 --> 00:28:51,647
opportunities, that's our focus.
493
00:28:51,907 --> 00:28:55,377
And in the luteal phase,
we're more likely to
494
00:28:55,677 --> 00:28:59,707
sort of protect against potentially
negative experiences and protect
495
00:28:59,787 --> 00:29:02,327
ourselves and the potential growing baby.
496
00:29:02,327 --> 00:29:07,107
So our brain is on high alert to
anything that might be considered
497
00:29:07,107 --> 00:29:10,607
threatening, whether that is an
actual threat or whether that's
498
00:29:10,607 --> 00:29:13,877
just something that we sense is
threatening because we are feeling
499
00:29:13,937 --> 00:29:19,517
stress or anxiety about that meeting
or that activity or that conversation.
500
00:29:19,517 --> 00:29:23,857
So just another thing to be aware
of that it's a really cool thing
501
00:29:23,857 --> 00:29:28,027
within our bodies that we have
these built-in ways of protecting.
502
00:29:28,327 --> 00:29:31,987
if your goal is to get pregnant, where
our immune system ramps up, our mind
503
00:29:31,987 --> 00:29:37,317
starts to become one of a little bit
more protecting our space and protecting
504
00:29:37,317 --> 00:29:40,607
our environment to protect the growing
baby inside of us, And we can link that
505
00:29:40,607 --> 00:29:44,467
back to the way our bodies were created
to protect life growing inside of us.
506
00:29:44,497 --> 00:29:44,827
And
507
00:29:45,127 --> 00:29:48,817
I like to think of it from, you
know, a safari perspective or a, a
508
00:29:49,087 --> 00:29:53,567
mama lion's perspective of trying to
protect her growing cub and becoming
509
00:29:53,567 --> 00:29:55,317
more on high alert because of that
510
00:29:55,617 --> 00:30:00,357
So last phase is that late luteal
phase where your body is really
511
00:30:00,357 --> 00:30:02,867
trying to prepare for your period.
512
00:30:03,167 --> 00:30:04,337
It's day twenty-two to twenty-eight.
513
00:30:04,337 --> 00:30:07,047
It is that late luteal
and the secretory phase.
514
00:30:07,347 --> 00:30:10,137
So the decline in estrogen
and progesterone triggers
515
00:30:10,137 --> 00:30:11,527
that inflammatory response
516
00:30:11,827 --> 00:30:18,077
which affects our muscle performance,
our exercise performance, our aerobic
517
00:30:18,077 --> 00:30:20,957
performance, our cardiovascular
performance, everything.
518
00:30:21,257 --> 00:30:24,557
Our blood sugar becomes a little
less stable, so you might experience
519
00:30:24,587 --> 00:30:26,267
a few more cravings in this phase.
520
00:30:26,567 --> 00:30:30,547
You might also get PMS symptoms
or premenstrual symptoms.
521
00:30:30,547 --> 00:30:35,217
And I did an episode a few weeks
back talking about how I'm creating
522
00:30:35,267 --> 00:30:40,777
my hottest version of myself in this
trimester zero phase before I consider
523
00:30:41,017 --> 00:30:42,597
pregnancy and starting a family.
524
00:30:42,597 --> 00:30:47,137
And I talked about how adjusting my
fueling has really helped with some
525
00:30:47,137 --> 00:30:51,177
of these symptoms that I've had during
this late luteal phase and my period.
526
00:30:51,177 --> 00:30:53,457
So highly recommend take
a look at that episode.
527
00:30:53,777 --> 00:30:55,647
I'll leave the link to it below.
528
00:30:55,647 --> 00:31:00,817
That way if you guys are curious, but
there are ways to positively affect these
529
00:31:00,817 --> 00:31:04,517
symptoms, and I think when we're talking
about wedding prep and engagement prep,
530
00:31:04,557 --> 00:31:06,547
a lot of this process is experimentation.
531
00:31:06,547 --> 00:31:10,747
So it's figuring out, okay, I do
experience bloating and irritability,
532
00:31:10,787 --> 00:31:14,347
but can I adjust my fueling patterns,
my hydration patterns, my workout
533
00:31:14,347 --> 00:31:18,867
patterns, my sleep hygiene in order
to positively affect those symptoms
534
00:31:18,867 --> 00:31:22,037
so that, you know, when you're on your
honeymoon and you might be in your
535
00:31:22,037 --> 00:31:25,617
late luteal phase or on your wedding
day in your late luteal phase, you'll
536
00:31:25,617 --> 00:31:28,647
have a better understanding of how to
help your body in that phase, knowing
537
00:31:28,737 --> 00:31:30,517
what's happening underneath the surface.
538
00:31:30,817 --> 00:31:34,727
Sleep is also directly impacted by
this drop in estrogen and progesterone.
539
00:31:35,027 --> 00:31:38,177
So connecting it back to our
glymphatic system episode or that
540
00:31:38,177 --> 00:31:40,347
brain cleansing episode that we did.
541
00:31:40,647 --> 00:31:46,467
The deep sleep stage, that cleansing
phase of our sleep cycle is hugely
542
00:31:46,467 --> 00:31:48,067
affected by these hormonal shifts.
543
00:31:48,367 --> 00:31:50,867
For nutrition, all of
the same pillars apply.
544
00:31:50,867 --> 00:31:52,637
This is why I hate the term cycle syncing.
545
00:31:52,637 --> 00:31:53,557
Same with exercise.
546
00:31:53,837 --> 00:31:56,097
The pillars are the same, but
understanding what's happening within
547
00:31:56,097 --> 00:32:00,457
your body can really help adjust and
maximize some of the different foods
548
00:32:00,487 --> 00:32:03,667
and nutrients that these foods offer
during different phases of your cycle.
549
00:32:03,967 --> 00:32:08,607
So focusing on complex carbohydrates,
fiber, protein, really balanced meals to
550
00:32:08,607 --> 00:32:11,067
help with that blood sugar stabilization.
551
00:32:11,367 --> 00:32:14,587
All of these things also help with
serotonin production, which can help
552
00:32:14,587 --> 00:32:17,207
with our mood, especially in this phase.
553
00:32:17,507 --> 00:32:22,247
Things like sweet potatoes, oats,
brown rice, legumes, vegetables, chia
554
00:32:22,247 --> 00:32:27,107
seeds, flax seeds, protein at every
meal, Greek yogurt, meats, all of
555
00:32:27,107 --> 00:32:28,527
these sorts of things can really help.
556
00:32:28,827 --> 00:32:31,757
another focus on antioxidants
and anti-inflammatory foods,
557
00:32:32,087 --> 00:32:33,627
like in all the phases, right?
558
00:32:33,627 --> 00:32:34,897
We need all of these things.
559
00:32:34,897 --> 00:32:38,147
But if we can understand why, I
feel like that also helps me want
560
00:32:38,147 --> 00:32:41,477
to purposefully choose some of
those ingredients for my meals.
561
00:32:41,777 --> 00:32:45,907
So omega-3s, turmeric, ginger,
dark leafy greens, berries, all
562
00:32:45,907 --> 00:32:50,377
of these directly target the
inflammatory driver of PMS symptoms.
563
00:32:50,677 --> 00:32:53,837
In this phase, really focusing
on sleep supporting foods and
564
00:32:53,837 --> 00:32:55,637
supplements, things like magnesium,
565
00:32:55,937 --> 00:32:57,907
bananas, oats, walnuts,
566
00:32:58,207 --> 00:33:00,967
tart cherry, dark chocolate,
pumpkin seeds, all of these
567
00:33:00,967 --> 00:33:03,067
things are sleep promoting foods.
568
00:33:03,277 --> 00:33:06,527
This is something I need to focus
on because I notice my sleep
569
00:33:06,527 --> 00:33:07,827
hugely affected in this phase.
570
00:33:07,827 --> 00:33:11,207
Foods to reduce or eliminate
in this phase, processed foods.
571
00:33:11,507 --> 00:33:16,417
Research has consistently linked them to
worse PMS symptoms, which is likely why
572
00:33:16,797 --> 00:33:22,887
a lot of my symptoms last menstrual cycle
were so much better because I had pretty
573
00:33:22,887 --> 00:33:26,927
much eliminated a lot of the processed
foods that I was eating in my diet.
574
00:33:27,227 --> 00:33:28,197
Limit alcohol.
575
00:33:28,237 --> 00:33:33,327
As we said in our liver and hormonal
connection episode, alcohol is
576
00:33:33,327 --> 00:33:36,667
prioritized in the liver and one
of the liver's jobs is helping with
577
00:33:36,747 --> 00:33:39,747
estrogen and with hormonal balance.
578
00:33:39,747 --> 00:33:45,177
So if alcohol is having to be metabolized
in the liver, it deprioritizes some of
579
00:33:45,177 --> 00:33:47,517
its other roles in hormonal balance.
580
00:33:47,817 --> 00:33:50,347
You also might experience an
increased appetite in this phase.
581
00:33:50,377 --> 00:33:51,697
It's okay to honor that.
582
00:33:51,997 --> 00:33:55,037
Your body is asking for more fuel
because it genuinely needs more
583
00:33:55,037 --> 00:33:59,207
fuel, and it's okay to listen to
that cue that your body's giving you.
584
00:33:59,507 --> 00:34:02,337
When it comes to movement in this
phase, exercise is one of the most
585
00:34:02,337 --> 00:34:06,437
research-backed ways to help with a
lot of the symptoms that a lot of girls
586
00:34:06,437 --> 00:34:08,347
experience in this late luteal phase.
587
00:34:08,647 --> 00:34:11,717
it combats inflammation and again,
helps with those mood changes
588
00:34:11,717 --> 00:34:13,607
and boost our happy hormones.
589
00:34:13,657 --> 00:34:17,277
I always think of the Legally Blonde
quote with this that's like, " Exercise
590
00:34:17,277 --> 00:34:19,547
makes people happy, and happy
people just don't kill people."
591
00:34:19,547 --> 00:34:20,367
You know, I don't know.
592
00:34:20,397 --> 00:34:24,547
It plays on repeat anytime I hear
about exercise and affecting mood.
593
00:34:24,547 --> 00:34:26,217
So if that helps you remember as well.
594
00:34:26,516 --> 00:34:31,337
During this phase, also understanding
that recovery takes a little bit
595
00:34:31,337 --> 00:34:35,556
longer, not only recovery within the
workout session itself and longer
596
00:34:35,556 --> 00:34:40,047
rest between sets, but also day by day
recovery, where after a super intense
597
00:34:40,047 --> 00:34:43,996
workout, you might need a little bit
longer recovery in between workouts.
598
00:34:44,297 --> 00:34:48,417
Mentally, your mood is genuinely affected
by this hormonal decline, and I notice
599
00:34:48,417 --> 00:34:50,027
this significantly in my own brain.
600
00:34:50,327 --> 00:34:52,947
Furthermore, this sleep disruption
and this disruption in sleep
601
00:34:52,947 --> 00:34:56,577
that we have during this phase
compounds all of those negative
602
00:34:56,877 --> 00:35:01,117
cognitive and emotional challenges that
we might have as a baseline in this phase.
603
00:35:01,417 --> 00:35:05,727
So any sort of stress-reducing
practices, mindfulness, breathwork,
604
00:35:06,027 --> 00:35:07,697
have a huge payout in this phase.
605
00:35:07,697 --> 00:35:10,577
This is something else that I
need to incorporate way more.
606
00:35:10,877 --> 00:35:14,387
I have gotten pretty good at some of the
fueling and exercise and understanding
607
00:35:14,667 --> 00:35:17,207
the mental health challenges that
I experience throughout my phase.
608
00:35:17,207 --> 00:35:20,557
It's something that I've become
more and more aware of over time.
609
00:35:20,557 --> 00:35:24,897
This is truly something that takes time,
which I think is why your engagement era
610
00:35:24,897 --> 00:35:27,687
is probably the perfect time to start
to understand that a little bit better.
611
00:35:27,687 --> 00:35:31,907
But this is something that I need to
implement more and more because I know
612
00:35:31,907 --> 00:35:34,897
my sleep's affected, I know my stress
is affected, I know my mental health
613
00:35:34,897 --> 00:35:38,967
is affected, and yet I'm still not
very good at incorporating breathwork
614
00:35:39,047 --> 00:35:43,507
and mindfulness and positive self-talk
strategies, especially in this phase
615
00:35:43,807 --> 00:35:47,697
So this is maybe not the phase to
schedule anything important, anything
616
00:35:47,697 --> 00:35:48,607
that you're looking forward to.
617
00:35:48,607 --> 00:35:54,157
Dress fittings, final hair and makeup,
engagement photos, any sort of really
618
00:35:54,157 --> 00:35:57,287
intense conversations, all of the
things that we've been talking about,
619
00:35:57,637 --> 00:36:00,807
this might not be the best phase to
schedule them in if you have a say.
620
00:36:01,107 --> 00:36:05,147
If you do, however, implementing some of
these strategies, breathwork, positive
621
00:36:05,147 --> 00:36:07,527
self-talk, fueling yourself appropriately.
622
00:36:07,797 --> 00:36:11,497
This is why we're doing this sort
of an episode, so that should any of
623
00:36:11,497 --> 00:36:15,297
these things fall within that phase,
you have the tools and resources to
624
00:36:15,297 --> 00:36:19,037
know how to experiment with your body
and figure out what can help you feel
625
00:36:19,037 --> 00:36:21,967
the best during whichever phase of
your menstrual cycle that you're in.
626
00:36:22,267 --> 00:36:27,237
It might be a good phase to dive into
that emotional side of your brain,
627
00:36:27,237 --> 00:36:30,867
where you might write your vows in
this phase, write letters to your
628
00:36:30,867 --> 00:36:34,427
parents, your mom and dad, your loved
ones who have been with you through
629
00:36:34,427 --> 00:36:39,227
every step of this dating, engagement,
and now future marriage journey.
630
00:36:39,527 --> 00:36:43,327
You might wanna do more gentle like
inner work, where you're not having to
631
00:36:43,327 --> 00:36:47,407
perform for anyone, but you're really
just trying to be present in this time
632
00:36:47,407 --> 00:36:52,407
in your life, in this moment in time,
and preparing for what marriage means
633
00:36:52,407 --> 00:36:56,427
to you and doing, I guess, a little
bit more solo internal deep work.
634
00:36:56,727 --> 00:37:00,077
And lastly, be willing to give yourself
grace, especially in this phase on
635
00:37:00,077 --> 00:37:01,957
your wedding preparation journey.
636
00:37:02,327 --> 00:37:06,697
If you notice more anxiety, more stress,
more emotional sensitivity during
637
00:37:06,697 --> 00:37:08,787
this phase, make sure you call it out.
638
00:37:08,817 --> 00:37:12,007
That really helps, understanding
that that's not the real you.
639
00:37:12,007 --> 00:37:13,157
That's not real Kelsey.
640
00:37:13,157 --> 00:37:16,177
That's what I tell myself, but you can
come up with something that works for you.
641
00:37:16,177 --> 00:37:19,737
That's not the real you, and then
replacing it with, " I'm gonna check
642
00:37:19,737 --> 00:37:24,407
back in in four or five days when
my mental state is a little bit more
643
00:37:24,407 --> 00:37:25,817
positive and then see how I feel."
644
00:37:26,117 --> 00:37:29,547
Your body has been sending you
all of this information for all
645
00:37:29,547 --> 00:37:31,507
of the phases every single month.
646
00:37:31,807 --> 00:37:34,227
The energy peaks, the performance windows.
647
00:37:34,527 --> 00:37:39,427
The harder phases, the emotional richness
of the slower days, It has all been there.
648
00:37:39,477 --> 00:37:42,127
We've just never been taught
how to actually read it
649
00:37:42,427 --> 00:37:44,567
So start tracking all four phases.
650
00:37:44,867 --> 00:37:46,737
Don't worry about catching patterns yet.
651
00:37:47,037 --> 00:37:50,877
And slowly over time, you'll start to
notice certain changes, notice certain
652
00:37:50,877 --> 00:37:54,877
patterns, and start to understand and
learn your body on a deeper level.
653
00:37:55,177 --> 00:37:59,447
You'll be able to see in real time your
relationship with your body transform
654
00:37:59,747 --> 00:38:02,497
from confusion to complete literacy.
655
00:38:02,797 --> 00:38:06,887
And that's one of the most powerful
things you can carry with you
656
00:38:07,187 --> 00:38:09,677
into your wedding day and every day after.
657
00:38:09,707 --> 00:38:12,887
It is the gift that keeps on giving,
the wedding gift that keeps on giving.
658
00:38:13,187 --> 00:38:14,667
So I hope you guys enjoyed this episode.
659
00:38:14,667 --> 00:38:18,347
This is one of my absolute favorite topics
because it's been life-changing for me,
660
00:38:18,647 --> 00:38:23,847
and I hope that in this phase of wedding
season, wedding prep, engagement prep,
661
00:38:23,897 --> 00:38:28,217
or whatever big phase you're preparing
for, even if you're not a bride, that
662
00:38:28,297 --> 00:38:32,887
this is something That you can take and
implement into your day-to-day life to
663
00:38:32,887 --> 00:38:36,387
start to understand and love your body
and what it can do for you in a new way.
664
00:38:36,387 --> 00:38:39,467
So thank you for joining me, and
I'll see you guys again on the next
665
00:38:39,467 --> 00:38:41,107
episode of Wellness Fixes the Pod.