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31 | The Sound Mind Series - Ephesians 5 & 6 (AUDIO)
Episode 319th February 2026 • I Can't (HE Can) • Sarai Collado
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This is Episode 31 (and the last part) of our Sound Mind Series for the book of Ephesians 5 and 6. Join us as we read Ephesians 5 & 6, verse by verse.

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Welcome back everyone to

episode 31 of I can's.

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He Can.

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I'm Sarai and we are continuing

our Sound Mind series.

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we are finally wrapping up Ephesians.

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I feel like since this is a once a

week thing, it's just taken forever,

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but I truly hope that you guys have

enjoyed this journey through Ephesians.

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I know that.

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Even other parts of the Bible that I have

been reading, it's like a little light

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bulb just kind of turns on in my head and

I'm like, ah, that sounds like what I read

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here and what Paul was explaining there.

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And it's just amazing to see the

progress that you make as you

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continue to dive in the word.

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I am going to read chapter five.

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and then read chapter six, Other times

I will read it in full and then go

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back and explain, but because this

is two chapters, Through the spirit

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I think that I'm just going to.

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try and explain as I go, what I

have already underlined and circled

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and little notes that I have taken.

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it is very straightforward.

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it's definitely things that we have

already heard Paul say in the other

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first four chapters of Ephesians.

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So I, I don't really think that.

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We need to decipher much more of what

he's trying to tell us in five and six.

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But before we start five and six, This

is not having to do with Ephesians.

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This is just kind of like a little

preface of what I've had on my mind

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this week, and this message is.

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Really for any person who's a

non-believer or not a Christian who

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happens to just stumble upon the podcast,

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I want every person who comes across this

episode I want you guys to analyze your

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life with God, and Without God, when you

lose faith, when you don't believe, when

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it becomes hard for you to say, God,

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Thank you for waking me

up, If you even say that,

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analyze, take a moment and just

imagine what your life would be

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like if you would have no hope in

anything and just go day by day.

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Just saying, well, this

is what life has given me.

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I think that would be a

very dark and lonely life.

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Doesn't matter how many people

you have with you, that would

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be a very dark and lonely life.

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But if you have Jesus, if you have

God, if you walk in the Holy Spirit.

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Then what do you have right now in life?

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What do you have?

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yes, you're still gonna

go through problems,

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but you have hope.

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You have hope.

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You have faith.

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And through him, through that hope and

through that faith, you have strength

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and it's not as dark.

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It's not as dark, it is not as

lonely because no matter how many

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times you speak to someone, they may

say, oh yeah, it's not a big deal.

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Don't worry.

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You'll get through this.

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That person doesn't really

sympathize with you.

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They say they do, but they go about

their life and they truly don't care.

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They don't solve your problem.

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But you know what, God is there.

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God is always there and God is

trying to do a work in your life.

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He is trying to move things

around in your life, but he can't.

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He can't because you don't let him.

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So step aside,

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step aside and let him work.

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And if you have that faith, if you just

let yourself take that leap and give

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your life and surrender your life to God,

your life is gonna be a lot different.

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You may still go through all the

things you're going through, but you

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have hope and you have faith, and you

have strength, and you are not alone.

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And guess what?

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Doesn't matter what you're going through.

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At the end of your race, at the end

of it all, you have eternity With him,

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the people of God we're going

to be basking in the same glory.

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Just because you endured, you

believed and you said, God, I'm here.

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I am here and I'm yours.

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Your will be done.

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Sometimes that's all it takes,

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but that's all I had in my heart.

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Things that I have been thinking

about and that I just wanted to

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say before I start reading, before

we finish Ephesians five and six.

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Um, Without further ado, Disclaimer,

I'm reading New King James

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version, so grab your Bibles.

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Do not continue.

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If you do not have your Bibles, and

like my pastor says, with all this

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technology and stuff that's going on

nowadays, get yourself one of these.

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Get yourself one of these.

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Do not just rely on the apps.

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Do not rely on the internet.

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Do not rely.

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On this.

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Why?

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Because these things

are being tampered with.

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These things are being

changed, and it's true.

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Chad GBT is not always correct.

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So you guys, you guys that are

all up in Chad, GBT all the time

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asking for advice and for this, for

that know, use what God gave you.

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Use your brains as simple as that.

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Now we are gonna start, make

sure you have your Bibles.

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I'm reading from the

new King James version.

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And this one is titled Walk In Love.

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Um, every little section

has a different title.

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So this one is Walk in Love and

it says Chapter five verse one.

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Therefore be imitators of

God as dear children already.

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Verse one, I'm already stopping

imitators of God I'm an imitator.

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when I was younger people would say

like, oh, you're such a teacher's pet.

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You're such a.

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Oh my God, I'm already talking Spanish.

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This isn't the Spanish episode.

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People would always say,

ah, you pretend to be this.

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You pretend to be that.

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You know what?

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In this case, yes, I wanna

be an imitator of God.

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Why?

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Because I wanna be more Christlike.

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That's not a bad thing.

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Verse two.

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And walk in love as Christ also

has loved us and given himself for

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us an offering and a sacrifice to

God for a sweet smelling aroma.

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So if you guys haven't read any

Old Testament, when they talk about

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offerings, they always say that

it's a sweet smelling aroma to God.

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So in this case, they're saying that

Jesus, well first of all, that we

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walk in love like Christ, like Jesus.

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But then he offered himself,

he gave himself for us.

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And it was an offering and a sacrifice

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Like what they say in the Old Testament,

a sweet smelling aroma, which God loved.

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God loved all of those, you know, perfect,

um, animals that they would sacrifice.

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They would say that that was

a offering to God and it was

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a sweet smelling aroma to him.

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So in this case, that's

what Paul is saying here.

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It's just relating back to that

Old Testament lingo, verse three.

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But fornication and all uncles or

covetousness, let it not even be named

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among you as is fitting for saints.

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So do not let fornication, you already

know that is, I'm not even gonna explain.

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Do not let anything that is

unclean like covetousness being

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jealous of people and things, and.

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Seeing what their lives are like.

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Don't let that get to you because

that's not things of saints,

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that's not things of Christ.

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you can't let those

things get in your head.

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You can't let that move you.

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You have to move.

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Like who?

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Like Christ.

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Verse four.

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Neither filthiness nor foolish talking.

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Mm mm-hmm.

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Nor coarse jesting making.

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Raunchy jokes.

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I love raunchy jokes, or shall I

say loved, it's just, it's just

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what we were used to growing up.

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The second we could start cursing, we did.

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And man, I've personally

think have improved a lot, but

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sometimes, even now, sometimes I

let one slip and it's like, Ugh.

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Oh my God.

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Sorry, Lord.

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So that's one of the things

that Paul is talking here.

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We're never gonna be perfect, but

that doesn't mean we can't do better.

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Okay.

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Verse five, and I have

this one completely, um,

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underlined all of verse five.

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Let's see what it says.

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For this, you know that no fornicator

unclean person nor covetous man who

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is an idolater, has an inheritance

in the kingdom of Christ and God.

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So no person that is any of these things.

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What we just discussed has

a place in the kingdom.

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It's just as simple as that.

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Verse six, let no one deceive you

with empty words for because of the

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things, the wrath of God comes upon.

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The sons of disobedience.

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The sons of disobedience are

sons of the enemy, sons of Satan.

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So let none of those people

deceive you with empty words.

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Why?

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What are empty words from

the sons of disobedience?

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When the enemy starts whispering

your ear, you're not good enough.

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Oh, let's go.

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Let's have a few more drinks.

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Oh, let's go.

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Let's you know, have sex with

this person and that person.

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Empty things that are going to.

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Lead you to death.

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Sin equals death.

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Sin equals death.

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Whether it's today, a year from

now, or five years from now.

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If you continue no matter what it

is, it's going to deteriorate you.

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do not let those empty actions of the

flesh lead you because there is no

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place in the kingdom of God for that.

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It's a good reminder for myself

too, man, because man, it is hard.

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It is hard.

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But you know what, we

try, we try, we sure do.

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Try verse seven.

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Therefore, Paul loves, therefore,

therefore, do not be partakers with them.

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So let's read six and seven again.

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Let no one deceive you with empty words

for because of these things, the wrath of

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God comes upon the sons of disobedience.

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The wrath of God is going to come

upon those sons of disobedience,

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those people who are sons of Satan.

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If you are not a son of God, you are

a son of Satan, as simple as that.

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Therefore, do not be partakers with them.

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Do not partake.

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Do not sit with them.

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Do not allow them to

be a part of your life.

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Verse eight.

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For you we're once darkness, but

now you are light in the Lord.

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Ever since that very first sin took

place in Genesis, the entire world,

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all creation, everything is cursed.

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But here Paul says, we were once darkness,

but now you are light in the Lord.

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Why?

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Because the Lord came to sacrifice and to.

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Take us away from that darkness.

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So what we are light in the

Lord, it's because of him

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walk as children of the light.

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Then in parentheses it says verse nine,

for the fruit of the spirit is in all

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goodness, righteousness, and truth.

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Yes.

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The spirit isn't all things that are good.

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However, in verse 10, it says, finding

out what is acceptable to the Lord

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and have no fellowship with the

unfruitful works of darkness, have

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no fellowship, just like it says.

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Therefore, do not be partakers with them.

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Do not have fellowship even with

people that are not walking upright.

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Do not do it.

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Why?

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Because you will fall into that.

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it's as simple as that.

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It is like they say, you are what you eat.

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It's very similar to you

become who you hang out with.

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That's just as simple as that.

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Then it continues and it says verse

11, and have no fellowship with

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the unfruitful works of darkness.

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Everything dark, like nothing good

comes from that, but rather expose them.

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If you know something is bad in your life,

expose it, get rid of it or say wo to you.

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Well, you probably won't

say wo to you, but.

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Talk to that person.

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Say, Hey, I don't like what

you're doing, or what you're

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doing is making me feel like this.

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Expose it.

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Why?

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Because it's gonna change.

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It's gonna shift away from you.

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You have to part yourself

from those things.

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verse 12, for it is shameful

even to speak of those things

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which are done by them in secret.

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Nothing.

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Nothing bad.

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Is ever said out in the open

without being ashamed, all things

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good, you immediately celebrate.

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But if you fail at something, you're

not gonna post it on social media.

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No, absolutely not.

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And that's what it's saying here for it

is shameful even to speak of those things

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which are done by them in secret verse 13.

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But all things that are exposed

are made manifest by the light.

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Everything comes to light.

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Good and bad, especially bad.

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for whatever makes manifest is light.

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whether you're sitting today or tomorrow,

whether you are doing good or bad,

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all those things are gonna be known.

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And it's not being known to man.

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Maybe you get away with some things, but

those things are going to be known to who?

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To the Lord.

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Verse 14.

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Therefore he says, awake you,

who sleep arise from the dead

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and Christ will give you light.

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And he sure does.

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Verse 15.

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See then that you walk circumspectly,

not as fools, but as wise.

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Verse 16, redeeming the time

because the days are evil.

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So just walk righteously, walk

as upright as possible, try

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and do the best that you can.

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Try to not sin.

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Sit with people who are wiser than you.

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So verse 16 says, redeeming the

time because the days are evil.

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You have to be careful.

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the clock is running,

and these days are evil.

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Everything going on is just not good, and

it was at this time when Paul wrote it.

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Same thing right now, verse 17.

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Therefore, Do not be unwise, but

understand what the will of the Lord is.

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You already know what

the will of the Lord is.

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I already said that chapter four.

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And do not be drunk with wine

in which is dissipation, but

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be filled with the spirit.

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don't just waste your life away.

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Maybe this is metaphorically

also saying like, just don't, you

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know, don't, don't feel drunk.

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Don't be like, oh, okay, you know, just,

oh, I'm not gonna, I'm not gonna bother.

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No.

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Also, don't be drunk because drunkenness

never brings anything good at the

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end, but be filled with the spirit.

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You can let go of the drinking and the

partying and you will feel that same

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feeling of ex being excited and joyful and

happy when you truly do have the spirit.

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And I will testify to that because

I have surely felt the same.

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I don't need to to have

all those things anymore.

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Verse 19, speaking to one another

in Psalms and hymns and spiritual

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songs, singing and making melody in

your heart to the Lord worshiping.

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Worshiping in a different way in music.

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Even reading the Bible,

just reading Psalms.

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It's you can worship the

Lord however you want.

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Point is just, just do it.

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Verse 20.

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Giving thanks, always, giving thanks.

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Giving thanks always for all

things to God the Father, in the

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name of our Lord Jesus Christ, 21.

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Submitting to one another

and the fear of God.

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Fear of God is not necessarily

being afraid of God.

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It is respecting the Lord, having

that reverence for the Lord.

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So I'm gonna read 15 through 21 without

stopping so that it all makes sense.

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See then that you walk circumspectly

not as fools, but as wise redeeming

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the time because the days are evil.

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Therefore, do not be unwise, but

understand what the will of the Lord is.

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And do not be drunk with wine

in which is dissipation, but

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be filled with the spirit.

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Speaking to one another, and Psalms

and hymns and spiritual songs.

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singing and making melody in your heart

to the Lord, giving thanks always for

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all things to God the Father, in the

name of our Lord Jesus Christ, submitting

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to one another in the fear of God.

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Verse 22 wives.

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Very important.

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Those of you who are married.

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Wives submit to your own

husband's as to the Lord.

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Are you submitting?

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Did you submit?

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I sure as heck didn't submit,

but now I know better.

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That's the thing.

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When you don't read the Manual of

life that I continue to call this

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the Manual of Life you don't know.

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You have to read.

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You have to get in the word.

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You have to understand us.

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Women nowadays do not know our role.

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All this feminism stuff.

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I had another episode on

that in the very beginning.

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I don't remember what number it was,

but all this feminism stuff is garbage.

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Garbage.

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I don't care who I offend.

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I don't care if anyone shuts off

YouTube right now or whatever.

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You know, wherever you're listening from.

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Feminism is garbage.

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It's not real.

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What is real is that we were

made from the rib of a man.

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Our purpose is to be there

for them, to be their support,

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to be their their companion.

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And yes, we should submit, but you need to

ask yourself, are they leading correctly?

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You submit openly if they lead correctly.

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If you feel fulfilled by your

leader, your man of God, then

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you will submit with no problem.

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But today's society is

completely turned upside down.

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So of course, women don't wanna submit

because they have these men who are just

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wishy-washy, who are more women than men.

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I don't care who I offend,

but it's the truth.

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It is the truth, and it is plain as

day that anything that isn't here

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is not good to society nowadays.

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So I'm telling you, if you find

a man of God, a man of this

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word, not a man of their word.

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Because their word, my word is the flesh.

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If you find a man of their word,

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you will submit and

you'll be happy doing it.

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You will

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feel incomplete if you don't submit,

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because that is just our

nature, our true nature.

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Anyway.

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Rant over for that verse 22.

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Wives submit to your

husbands as to the Lord.

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Verse 23 It says for

the husband is head of.

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The wife as also Christ

is head of the church.

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So again, you remember, Christ

is the head of the church and

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we the people are the body.

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So here is explaining that the man,

the husband is the head of the wife.

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So when a home, it's the Lord,

the man, the woman, children.

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Let's read that all

again so it makes sense.

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That is verse 23.

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For the husband is head of the wife,

as also Christ is head of the church

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and he is the savior of the body.

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Therefore, just as the church

is subject to Christ, so let the

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wives be to their own husbands in

everything just like the church us.

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We will do anything to serve the Lord.

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The wife should do anything

to serve her husband.

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That's just how it is.

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That's just how it is.

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That means calling them in the morning

to wake them up, bringing their coffee

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to bed, making their breakfast, making

sure that they eat before they leave,

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making sure they ate after work,

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that they don't go without anything.

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Need.

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I say more?

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It sounds a lot like caring for your kids.

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And it's not saying that you're caring

for another kid, but you're submitting,

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you're making sure that they are good

so that they can lead, so that they

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can lead you in a better direction.

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And I'm getting emotional.

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Um.

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Because for many years

I did not have that.

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I did not have that,

and I would not submit.

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But when you find something that

moves you in this direction,

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you know, and you'll

do anything, anything.

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To submit because it's your

role so that it can continue to

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have Christ at the center of it.

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That's just how it is.

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That's just how it goes.

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Verse 23, excuse me, verse 25.

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Husbands love your wives, husbands.

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Husbands, love your wives just

as Christ also loved the church

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and gave himself for her.

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I didn't have that either, but guess what?

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When you have it and you

know you have it, you submit.

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That's how you know husbands love

your wives, just as Christ also loved

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the church and gave himself for her.

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Verse 26.

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That he might sanctify and cleanse her

with a washing of water by the word.

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He's not gonna cleanse you with his words.

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No.

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He's gonna cleanse you with this word.

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He's gonna make you whole with this word.

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He's gonna lead you here, which

is going to lead you there

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27, that he might present her

to himself a glorious church.

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Not having spot or wrinkle or any

such thing, but that she should

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be holy and without blemish.

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verse 28.

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so husbands oughta love their

own wives as their own bodies.

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He who loves his wife, loves himself.

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Self-explanatory.

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I'm not even not even gonna go in that

verse 29 for no one ever hated his own

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flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it.

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Self-explanatory.

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What do you do?

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You don't let yourself starve.

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No, you take care of it.

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You feed yourself Same thing for your

husband, same thing for your wife.

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For no one ever hated his own flesh,

but nourishes and cherishes it, just

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as the Lord does the church, the

Lord does the same thing for us.

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He loves us.

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He cherishes us.

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Verse thirty.

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For, for we are members of his body.

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We are parts of his body,

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of his flesh and of his bones.

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Verse 31.

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For this reason, a man shall leave his

father and mother and be joined to his

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wife, and the two shall become one flesh.

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This is very important when a man

and a woman get married, that's it.

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You become one.

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You become one, and it's just

you and her Against everything.

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And what should be at the center

keeping you guys like this,

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keeping you guys together?

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The word the Lord should be at the

center because you guys are now together.

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Now you guys, it's not you against her.

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No, it's you and her against

the spiritual warfare.

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It's you and her against the world.

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It's you and her against

the sons of disobedience.

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Against the enemy, against

anything that you guys face.

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It's you guys together.

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And again, the enemy is going to whisper

things in your ears and it's going to tell

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you things that are gonna make you seem

like you guys are fighting each other.

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And it shouldn't be like that.

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So if you find yourself a man of God,

your man of God is going to lead you here.

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And if he doesn't know what to say in that

moment, he's going to jump in here first

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before he goes to you and women hush.

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I need, I need to work on that.

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I'm still working on that, on

Hushing and being quiet and taking

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a step back and submitting I am.

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It's hard, but you know what?

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When you are guided

correctly, it'll come easier.

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Much easier.

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So.

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Like 31 says, for this reason,

a man shall leave his father and

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mother and be joined to his wife,

and the two shall become one flesh.

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You and your husband are one

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verse 32.

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This is a great mystery, but I speak

concerning Christ and the church, One day.

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We'll understand that mystery, but we

will become one with Jesus and with

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the Lord all because of his sacrifice.

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We are going to be joined back

together, the body and Christ

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33.

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Nevertheless.

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Let each one of you in particular, so

love his own wife as himself and let the

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wife see that she respects her husband.

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I really love Ephesians.

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All right, that's the end of chapter five.

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Wasn't that long.

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Let's jump into chapter six of Ephesians.

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And Remember, new King James version.

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Open your Bibles.

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Have it with you.

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chapter six, verse one.

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Children obey your parents in

the Lord for this is right.

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I roll my eyes because nowadays

there's, there's like no

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respect for adults anymore.

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It's crazy.

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It's crazy.

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Oh my gosh.

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I'm not even gonna jump into that.

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'cause if not, I'll talk

about it for five minutes.

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Honor your father and mother, which

is the first commandment you read.

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The Old Testament, you know.

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Children, obey your parents

and the Lord for this is right.

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Verse two, honor your father

and mother, which is the first

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commandment with promise.

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Verse three, that it may be well with

you and you may live long on the earth.

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Verse four, and I actually have

a little stars written important

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reminders, so I'm gonna read verse four.

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It should be an important

reminder to you and you fathers.

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Do not provoke your children to

wrath, but bring them up in the

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training and admonition of the Lord.

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Why did I put important reminders?

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It says, and you fathers,

but you know what?

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Also you mothers.

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Do not provoke your children to wrath.

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That is me.

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Oh my gosh.

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When I read that, I was like,

Lord, give me patience, Lord.

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Give me softer words, Lord.

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Just close my mouth, zip up my lips.

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Whenever I wanna yell at my

kids, man, I still yell at them.

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I still do.

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But I yelled a lot more.

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Still a, a lot of work to do

there, but it's important.

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It's important that we don't

provoke our kids even more.

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They need order, they

need to be disciplined.

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But there is also a difference between

order discipline and provoking them

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to get mad or to the point where

they're not going to respect you.

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There is a difference, and for a long

time, I did that for a long time.

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I would take out my frustrations,

especially on my son, because

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my daughter is younger and I,

I feel horrible about that.

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I admit it because I'm not perfect.

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But you admit and you fix, you repent.

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You do better.

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That's what it's all about.

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Verse five, bond servants.

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Be obedient to those who are

your masters according to the

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flesh with fear and trembling in

sincerity of heart as to Christ.

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So bond servants, I believe,

are those who just choose to

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be servants to their masters.

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Um, gonna have to go back, Let

me look that up really fast.

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A person bound in service without

wages, so I'm not gonna go into every

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single detail, but that's what Google

is just telling me a little over the

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top without going into that link.

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But anyway, if you guys wish to

correct me in any way on that, Please

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send me a message on Instagram.

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I can't _ he can.

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Verse five, bond servants, be

obedient to those who are your

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masters according to the flesh.

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So be obedient.

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With fear and trembling and

sincerity of heart as to Christ.

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Verse six, not with I service as men

pleasers, but as bond servants of Christ

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doing the will of God from the heart.

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So in this time, Paul was saying to

those people, look, if you're a bond

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servant, if you are tied to that

person, don't just do it to do it.

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Do it with a good heart.

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And that reminds me of tithing.

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If you're gonna tithe and complain

about the $10 that you're giving at

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church, you might as well not give it.

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And I feel like that's kind of the, the

feeling that Paul was saying it with.

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If you're gonna be a bond

servant, do it with a good heart.

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If you're not, then why are

you serving your master?

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Verse six.

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Not with I service as men pleasers,

but as bond servants of Christ,

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doing the will of God from the heart.

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Verse seven, with goodwill

doing service as to the Lord.

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I just said that I should just keep

reading sometimes with goodwill, doing

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service as to the Lord and not to men.

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I have verse eight completely

squared off and it says, knowing

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that whatever good anyone does, he

will receive the same from the Lord.

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Whether he is a slave.

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Or free.

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knowing that whatever good anyone

does, whatever good you do, you

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will receive the same from the Lord.

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This isn't to say like the people

that you see on social media going

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around here have a hundred dollars,

hear this and you record and you put

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it all on the internet for the clout.

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No.

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but somewhere in the Bible it says,

do not let your right hand know what

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your left is doing or vice versa.

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Do not let your left hand

know what your right is doing.

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Something like that.

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But

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do things with a good heart.

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If you wanna do it, do it.

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Don't do it because you're

like, God, did you see that?

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God, did you see that?

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I'm tithing God, did you see that I

helped this lady cross the street?

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God, did you see that?

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No.

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No.

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That's not how it works.

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Verse eight again, knowing that

whatever good anyone does, he will

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receive the same from the Lord.

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Whether he is a slave or free.

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Verse nine, and you masters.

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Now, I was talking to the masters before

Paul was talking about bond servants.

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Now he's talking to the

masters and you masters.

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Do the same things to them.

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Giving up threatening like the

parents like me, giving up, the

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threatening, the yelling, the bad stuff,

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do the same things to them.

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Giving up threatening, knowing that

your own master also isn't heaven.

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Just because you're a master of

this bond servant does not mean

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that you're a master of everything.

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You have a master.

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You have Lord, you have a God.

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And there is no partiality in him.

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Partiality.

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There's no bias.

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God, Jesus, the Holy Spirit, they don't

care who you are, what your career is.

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They don't care if you're

sleeping on the street.

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No, you belong in the kingdom.

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He doesn't care if you're

a master, a bond servant.

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If you have faith, if you believe in the

Lord, there's no partiality with him.

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Verse 10, finally, my brethren, be strong

in the Lord and in the power of His might.

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Be strong in the Lord.

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Your faith should be strong in the

Lord and the power that he has.

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Verse 11.

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Put on the whole armor of God

that you may be able to stand

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against the wiles of the devil.

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Now, you guys always see in social

media things of, oh, I have the

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armor of God, or I have my shield,

I have my this, I have my that.

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We're gonna go over that.

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Put on the whole armor of God that you

may be able to stand against the wiles.

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The problems and the things that

may come against you that are

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:

from the enemy of the devil.

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Verse 12, for we do not wrestle

against flesh and blood.

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We don't wrestle against actual

flesh, against people, but against

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principalities, against powers,

against the rulers of the darkness

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of this age, against spiritual hosts

of wickedness in the heavenly places.

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You cannot tell me that you go out on the

street and you get into a fight every day.

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When was the last time

that I got into a fight?

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The last time I got into a fight,

I was in third grade and it

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was against my neighbor, Ricky.

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Okay.

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You do not go out on the street and

you do not pick a fight with people.

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You are not wrestling and fighting people.

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No.

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When you're dealing with problems in life,

you are dealing against spiritual warfare,

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principalities, things of darkness.

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Against powers against the rulers

of the darkness of this age against

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spiritual host of wickedness.

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That is what we are dealing with.

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And yeah, that doesn't mean that

you can't deal with a problem

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that you created for yourself.

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Of course, we also cause

things for ourself.

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We can't give the enemy credit 24 7,

but the majority of the things that

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we deal with are things of the enemy.

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:

Verse 13.

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Therefore take up the whole armor of God

that you may be able to withstand in the

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evil day and having done all to stand.

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So if you take up the armor of

God, which Paul is going to explain

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:

now in the next verses, then you

can stand up to all to everything.

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:

Verse 14, stand therefore having

girded your waist with truth.

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So you have to know the truth.

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What is the truth?

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The word God, Jesus.

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He is the truth.

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Having girded your waist with

truth, having put on the breastplate

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of righteousness, you are good.

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Stand upright, that is your breastplate

and having sh your feet with the

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preparation of the gospel of peace.

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Yes, you know the gospel, you can share

the gospel, but the gospel is also peace.

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:

Jesus walked away from a lot of things

that could have caused bigger problems.

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Just because someone is attacking you

or saying stuff to you doesn't mean

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:

that you respond in a negative way.

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:

Don't level with them.

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:

Sometimes peace is better.

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:

So verses 14, again, stand there for

having girded your waist with truth.

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Having put on the breastplate

of righteousness, verse 15, and

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having shod your feet with the

preparation of the gospel of peace.

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:

Verse 16.

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Above all, taking the shield of faith

with which you will be able to quench

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all the fiery darts of the wicked one.

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So your shield of faith.

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Notice that soho are these

things that he's said

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have not been as simple as the shield.

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Your shield is going to

be the strongest thing.

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It should be the last

thing you ever lose faith.

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You need to have faith in the Lord.

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That is the last thing you

should ever lose faith in God.

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Why?

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Because he won't fail you.

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You need to have that faith that

he won't fail you and he's not.

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Just because what you want

isn't what he gave you.

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Doesn't mean he failed you,

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it's because that isn't

what he had for you.

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But you, you want things of the world.

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You want things that you're

making up for yourself.

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No.

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Have faith, have that shield

of faith no matter what.

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Because you're gonna get all the

attacks, but if you have that

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faith that he won't fail you,

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you'll be able to get over the fiery

darts of the wicked one, verse 17,

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and take the helmet of salvation

and the sword of the spirit,

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which is the word of God.

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Verse 16 again.

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Above all, taking the shield of

faith with which you will be able

685

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to quench all the fiery darts of the

wicked one and take the helmet of

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salvation and the sword of the spirit,

which is the word of God, verse 18.

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Praying always,

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praying always with all

prayer and supplication in the

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spirit, and never stop praying.

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Despite having all these things in your

arsenal, all these things that make up

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the armor of God never stop praying.

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Praying always with all prayer and

supplication in the spirit, being

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watchful to this end with all perseverance

and supplication for all the saints.

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:

Verse 19, and for me, the

utterance may be given to me.

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That I may open my mouth boldly to

make known the mystery of the gospel.

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:

now Paul is just saying that.

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:

he's opening his mouth to speak it

boldly and to let you know, to make

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:

known the mystery of the gospel.

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:

He made very clear what that mystery

was, and here he is giving you extra.

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:

He is telling you what the armor

of God is that is going to help

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:

you surpass everything that you

are going to endure in life.

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:

Verse 20.

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For which I am an ambassador in

chains, that in it, I may speak

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boldly as I ought to speak.

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:

I have that whole verse squared

away and I have ambassador circled.

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'cause we are ambassadors, we

are spokespersons to the Lord.

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:

Maybe not when you start your

walk because you're getting

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:

your footing, you're alerting.

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Truly what the gospel is.

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You're growing your

relationship with the Lord.

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But once you are, once you are strong

in Christ, you become an ambassador.

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:

You should be speaking of the Lord.

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:

You should be proclaiming the good word.

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You should be doing that.

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:

And here Paul is saying that

I am an ambassador in chains.

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He was a spokesperson literally in chains.

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So you can take that literally, or

you can also take it metaphorically.

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His chains were sin before.

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They were sin.

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:

He's an ambassador even in

sin in this corrupt world.

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Just because he was an apostle.

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Was he perfect?

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No, but he was used.

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He was used by God to bring

the gospel to other people.

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:

And he was chained and prisoned for it.

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:

So he is an ambassador and a

spokesperson in chains, but he was

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:

also still in chains until the day

that he died and he was with the Lord.

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:

So that's, that's what I took from

that, that little verse there.

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:

It's amazing.

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:

Like you just read one, one

verse and your brain just starts.

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Firing off in all directions, verse

21, but that you also may know

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:

my affairs and how I am doing.

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Oh my gosh, this, this name t.

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Chika

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tka, but that you might also know

my affairs and how I am doing.

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T Chias, a beloved brother and

faithful minister in the Lord

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will make all things known to you.

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So remember, he was in prison writing

us, so he's saying that this person

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is going to give you this information.

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Faithful minister in the Lord

will make all things known to you.

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:

Verse 22.

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Whom I have sent to you for this

very purpose that you may know our

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affairs, the things that he's doing,

and that he may comfort your hearts.

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:

So the people that are reading this

letter from Paul, they already love Paul.

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:

They can't wait to hear what

it is that he's going to share.

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:

These are people that already

sound like they're followers.

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:

So he is saying, so that you know how

I'm doing, that you know that I am, okay.

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This is what I have to share.

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I'm sending this person to you.

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:

Verse 22 again.

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Whom I have sent to you for this

very purpose, that you may know our

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:

affairs, what they're doing, and

that he may comfort your hearts.

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:

Verse 23, peace to the brethren

and love with faith from God, the

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Father and the Lord Jesus Christ.

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Verse 24, grace.

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Be with all those who love our

Lord Jesus Christ and sincerity.

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Amen.

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Yes.

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I truly hope that grace

follows every single person.

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I pray that you find Christ.

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I pray that you seek Christ, but

just know that if you truly, truly

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love the Lord, as Paul says here,

grace will be sure to find you.

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I thank you guys for listening.

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I love you all so much.

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I can't wait to see you again next week.

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Take care.

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