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00:00:00 The Independent Thinker Written by Patrick King Narrated by Russell Newton.

00:00:42 The Levels Of Mastering Independent Thought.

00:01:56 Level 1 - A Patchwork Identity.

00:03:27 Level 2 - Developing trust in the self.

00:06:22 Level 3 - Truly independent thought.

00:14:53 The Fundamentals Of Independent Thought.

00:15:15 Habit 1 - Critical reading.

00:18:10 Habit 2 - Not getting too fond of your own perspective.

00:20:30 Habit 3 - Being O. K. With Being Disliked.

00:23:01 Habit 4 - Always staying curious.

00:29:00 Socrates – teaches us about challenging assumptions.

00:32:09 Niall Ferguson – teaches us the power of counterfactual thinking.

00:34:05 Friedrich Nietzsche – teaches us about perspective.


Are you tired of being spoon-fed information? Do you want to make

smarter decisions and see through manipulation? Independent thinking is

the key to a more examined life. In this video, we'll dive into the

ideas from Patrick King's book "The Independent Thinker"

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The Independent Thinker Written by

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Patrick King

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Narrated by Russell Newton.

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What does it really mean to be an

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independent thinker?

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In the spirit of originality,

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let’s begin not with the perspective

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of this book’s author,

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but with yours.

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When you opened this book,

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you had a few expectations about what

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you’d find inside,

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as well as some idea of why you were

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reading such a book.

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These expectations may be unconscious,

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or you may be more aware of them.

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But whatever they are,

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they’re an excellent starting point

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for the themes and ideas we’ll be

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exploring in the chapters that follow.

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The Levels Of Mastering Independent

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Thought.

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In choosing this book,

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you’ve already shown a desire for,

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or interest in,

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independent thought.

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Some part of you is already independent.

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And yet,

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ironically,

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in picking up a book that guides and

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teaches you how to be more independent,

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you must necessarily already lack this

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characteristic.

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If you were truly independent,

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you would not need the book,

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right?

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Take a moment to imagine in your

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mind’s eye everything you associate

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with an “independent thinker."

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Imagine it now,

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before you read on.

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Imagine what it looks like,

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sounds like,

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and how you envision you’ll be once

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you are a more critical thinker,

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a more authentic individual and

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self-governing agent able to live in

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the integrity of their ideals,

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instead of other people’s.

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Now,

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this somewhat disheartening start is

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simply to illustrate that many people

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are merely imitating autonomy in the

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personal development world.

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They have a picture of what they think

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this looks like,

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and they try their best to perform that

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image.

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Level 1 - A Patchwork Identity.

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Maybe in your mind,

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you’re attracted to the “cool

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guy” aesthetic that certain

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celebrities,

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authority figures,

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historical personages and fictional

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characters put forward.

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Maybe you like the attitude of the

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rebel,

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who is confident,

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a little arrogant,

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and so,

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so appealing.

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Maybe,

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without realizing it,

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you mimic the mannerisms,

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beliefs,

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thoughts,

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and speech patterns of people you

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admire.

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Or maybe you buy into certain shared

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cultural ideals of what intelligent,

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independent,

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enterprising or creative people ought

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to look like.

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Teenagers are masters at mimicry and

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creating patchwork identities from bits

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and pieces they find in their world.

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It’s as though you show up to the

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great Identity Marketplace,

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being a blank slate yourself,

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and pick and choose the costume and

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role you like best.

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It’s not a personality so much as a

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curated collection.

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While a 13-year-old going through a

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goth phase in the 90s may be a blatant

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example of this,

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we all do it to some extent.

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We even do this when we’re explicitly

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trying not to do it (i.e.,

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“I want to be a truly unique

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individual!

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Now,

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let’s Google some other people who

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are doing that and see how it’s

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done…”).

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This is the first level on the path of

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independent thinking.

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Level 2 - Developing trust in the self.

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If you’ve been in level 1 for any

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length of time,

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you’ll notice something obvious -

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it’s uncomfortable,

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and it doesn’t really “work."

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You don’t feel like yourself because

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you aren’t yourself.

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No matter how compelling and

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well-crafted the patchwork is,

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it’s still just a mask,

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and it doesn’t contain you.

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this isn’t a problem.

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Humans are social creatures,

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and imitation is a normal and healthy

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part of engaging the external world.

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But eventually,

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as we develop and mature into our

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authentic selves,

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imitation is not enough.

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In level 2,

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you gradually experiment with being and

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acting in the world as yourself,

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without a mask and the influence of

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other people.

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You begin to tire of other people’s

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filters and interpretations and become

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curious about your own,

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which you realize are valid.

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In all honesty,

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becoming an independent thinker can

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feel scary,

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awkward and outright weird.

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It can also feel lonely,

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like you are suddenly far away from the

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warm,

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comfortable crowd and have to suddenly

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take full responsibility for your own

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reality.

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So,

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in this stage,

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you are experimenting with being more

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independent,

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falling back into convention,

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playing with trial and error to test

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your perceptions,

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and developing resilience for being

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truly autonomous (yes,

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autonomy is a muscle that needs to be

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strengthened!).

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You realize that dependence on the

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external has its advantages and that it

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comes with a cost.

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While it can be intimidating to tune

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out other people’s opinions,

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culture,

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society’s expectations and so on,

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it can also be incredibly rewarding to

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remind yourself of your own sense of

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right and wrong,

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your innate feeling of what you want,

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and your deepest core values.

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Level 2 can be tricky,

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because it’s here that we start to

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encounter our own mindsets,

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biases and assumptions at a level

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deeper than their superficial

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presentation.

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We realize that we,

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like everyone else,

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possess a reality filter.

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We don’t encounter reality,

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but reality as it appears after it’s

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been pushed through this filter.

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The filter takes shape according to our

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past experiences,

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family history,

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cultural environment,

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religion,

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education,

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the historical period we live in,

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and class… .

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We all take in the same data,

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but we come to different

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interpretations of what that data means

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because of our different perspectives.

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The question at level 2 is,

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are the filters working for you?

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What do you want the filters to be?

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Can you live without filters at all…?

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Level 3 - Truly independent thought.

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Follow that line of reasoning long

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enough,

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and you start to understand something

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important - choice.

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As an individual,

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you can choose what material you take

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in,

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choose how you respond to it,

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and choose what you wish to create and

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put out into the world.

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And in that act of choosing,

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you express and experience your own

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perspective,

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desires,

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and will.

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When you choose,

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you self-create.

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When you allow others to choose for

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you,

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then they create you.

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When we are independent thinkers,

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we have our own weight and gravity,

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and stand strong in ourselves,

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regardless of what others are doing or

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thinking.

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We are tuned into our inner compass,

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values,

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and selfhood.

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We look within and evaluate actions and

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ideas according to our own criteria,

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and not criteria we’ve borrowed from

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others or had foisted on us when too

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young to realize.

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We are free,

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and we are consciously participating in

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our life rather than passively

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receiving it,

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pre-digested by others.

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We take responsibility for our

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worldview and perspective (yes –

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it’s our responsibility to know and

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maintain the state of being we choose)

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and engage with the external world with

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an unshakeable sense of our own dignity

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and value.

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We are comfortable testing our own

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assumptions and the assumptions of

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others.

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We don’t just think but reflect on

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our thinking (i.e.,

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metacognition),

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and we realize that we always have the

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power to choose our behaviors,

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thoughts and beliefs.

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We try to understand things from the

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inside out rather than happily

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believing everything we’re told.

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We are no longer an echo of someone

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else’s values or actions or

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perspectives,

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but our own original voice.

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Sounds great,

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right?

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“Think for yourself” is something

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people say,

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but it is an incredibly difficult thing

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to do.

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The world is filled with readymade

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opinions,

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untested assumptions,

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unintelligent biases,

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lazy thinking,

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denial,

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escapism,

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imitation,

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and unchecked ego.

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Ask yourself,

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when was the last time you had a truly

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independent thought?

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Something that your own mind generated,

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and which didn’t come directly from

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more forceful personalities and

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ideologies around you?

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The conventional,

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unadventurous thinker goes out into the

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world and asks,

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“what are the rules of the game here?

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What am I supposed to be doing?"

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In this way,

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he passively asks for the external

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world to tell him what to value,

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focus on,

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feel,

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and want.

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The independent thinker goes out into

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the same world and instead asks,

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“what can I create here?

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What’s happening,

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and how can I learn more about it?

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What could potentially be?

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What do I want to do?"

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There is only one way to think and be

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for conventional thinkers,

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and they figure that out by looking

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outside themselves - other people’s

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opinions,

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culture,

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politics,

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whatever.

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But to think independently,

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you need to turn within and generate

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your own original response,

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your own authentic perspective and your

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own view on life.

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This is infinitely more valuable than

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anything you’ve simply been told,

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because you value yourself,

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and you trust what you know,

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and what you’re capable of.

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It's a guarantee that almost all the

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content you encounter out there in the

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world is,

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essentially,

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telling you what to do,

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think,

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feel,

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or focus on.

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News headlines,

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social media noise,

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junk on the T. V.,

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advertising pasted on every square inch

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of your life,

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peer pressure,

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endless political squabbling... You

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just drift along and go with it without

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your own independent thought.

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But the next time you see a talking

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head on a pixelated screen,

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realize that you have a choice.

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You can become conscious in that moment

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and ask yourself,

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“this is what this person is creating.

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That’s them.

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But what do I think?

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What do I want to create?"

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Independent is not the Same as

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Contrarian.

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When I was a teenager and just becoming

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aware of the possibility of independent

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thinking,

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I got into the habit of mistaking

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cynicism and distrust for critical

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thinking.

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I had correctly learnt that the media

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often lied,

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and so every time someone mentioned a

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news article,

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I would say something like,

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“come on,

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you don’t honestly believe everything

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you read,

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right?"

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This annoying habit had come from the

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unconscious belief that if I wanted to

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stand apart and be independent,

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all I had to do was push against the

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popular opinion.

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I would never have admitted it at the

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time,

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but I assumed that intelligent,

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switched-on people were necessarily

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argumentative and oppositional.

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I was a contrarian,

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and not a truly independent thinker.

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What’s the difference?

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The clue is in the name - a contrarian

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is contrary to,

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or against something.

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You know the bratty two-year-old who

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will tell you the sky isn’t blue just

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because you said it is?

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This is the position that has,

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as its essence,

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the fact that it’s not some other

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position,

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but that’s all it is.

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It’s the “anti” position.

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However,

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an independent thinker forms their

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opinions and ideas from scratch,

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not merely in opposition.

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They do not care about what they

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disagree with or dislike.

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For them,

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critical thinking is not a competition

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with a winner or a loser.

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Something within them guides the

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formation of their opinions – their

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own experience,

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logic,

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reasoning,

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desires and values.

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Sure,

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the outcome is often at odds with

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convention.

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But being at odds is not the goal.

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There’s usually a hearty dose of

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emotional bias,

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excitement,

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passion,

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or ego driving their resistance for a

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contrarian.

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though,

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the thought process is less flashy,

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more reason-driven,

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and,

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well,

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not as glamorous!

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Meanwhile,

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for contrarians,

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the goal may be to bolster a certain

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ego-image,

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or it may be a deeply unconscious

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psychological need to dominate,

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to be heard,

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to stand out,

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or to protect against assumed attack.

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The focus and direction of such

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thinking is external – it pushes

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against other people and attempts to

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certainly affect other people.

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Some find them fun and interesting and

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creative and brave,

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while others find them annoying and get

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tangled in arguments with them.

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But for independent thinkers,

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other people are… beside the point.

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The goal is to understand.

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To figure things out.

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What other people think?

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Largely irrelevant.

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contrarians and independent thinkers

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often arrive at the same conclusions,

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but the question is why they end up

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there.

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They’ll often do the same actions

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(for example,

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“question everything”)

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but for very different reasons.

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Often,

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a genuinely independent thinker will

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win the admiration of others,

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who then attempt to mimic that person

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(see level 1 above)

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and attach themselves to that worldview

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to be contrarian.

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But the independent thinker does not

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consider the popularity of his position

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as an indication of its value – he

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isn’t interested in fame,

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but he also doesn’t relish notoriety!

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The Fundamentals Of Independent Thought.

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Let’s look at ways to develop

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autonomous,

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critical thinking in ourselves.

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Independent thinking is not a

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personality trait or fixed behaviors

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but a continually refined attitude

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expressed in habits.

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Habit 1 - Critical reading.

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To practice and strengthen your ability

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to generate your own opinion,

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you need to take in information from

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various sources and engage with it.

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Passive reading merely absorbs the

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content with no individual response.

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But critical reading is where you

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practice passing the material through

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your filters,

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turn it over in your mind,

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and examine it on many levels.

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There are two ways to read - Reading

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the words (i.e.,

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comprehending the surface level meaning

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being conveyed),

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and.

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Reading beyond the words (i.e.,

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not automatically assuming the words

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are a perfect and truthful

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representation of reality,

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and becoming curious about how and why

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the words have been written as they

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have).

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For example,

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you may read a popular current events

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magazine piece about the dazzling new

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frontiers of cryptocurrencies and how

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tech empires are being built to reshape

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the digital world.

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If you are just reading the words,

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you merely try to comprehend and absorb

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the material as it’s given.

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You assume the excitement and optimism

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in the piece is natural and obvious,

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and the author’s opinion is an

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objective reflection that this topic is

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exciting.

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At the end of the piece,

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you think what the author thinks.

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Or you could read the words,

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and also read what isn’t written -

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What is fact,

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and what is just presented as fact?

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What are the assumptions the author is

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making?

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In what ways is the reader being led,

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convicted or even manipulated?

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Why was this piece published and not

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literally any other piece?

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Who is this author,

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and what is their incentive –

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economically,

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psychologically or culturally?

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Who benefits from you reading this

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article and going along with its

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premise?

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What is the evidence for the view being

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put forward?

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Independent of what the author thinks,

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what do you think about this topic?

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You could read to find out what other

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people’s opinions are so that you can

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have them too.

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Or you can read to gather information,

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analyze it,

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and use it to inform your own position.

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It’s a mistake to think that

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“critical reading” means exposing

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yourself only to that material you

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already like and agree with.

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But an independent thinker is not

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threatened by low-quality or

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challenging information – because

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they trust their ability to appraise

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and evaluate whatever is in front of

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them.

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Habit 2 - Not getting too fond of your

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own perspective.

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Don’t be the person who finds their

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position and then clings onto it

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forever after,

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no matter what.

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Humans have a natural bias for

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protecting and defending the opinions

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they already hold.

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They naturally seek information that

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confirms these opinions,

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and work hard to discount everything

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that directly challenges it.

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To be an independent thinker,

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you need to get into the habit of

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poking holes in these cherished

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opinions.

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Now,

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this is not a cognitive or intellectual

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exercise.

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It’s a psychological one.

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Most people have ample brain power to

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see the plain truth.

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However,

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even ultra-intelligent people

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jeopardize themselves when allowing

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bias,

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ego and fear to control them.

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Getting too attached to your

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perspective means you don’t abandon

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it when you should – i.e.,

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when confronted with ample evidence

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that something is rubbish.

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Many people like to style themselves as

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smart philosopher types yet only seem

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to invoke their vast intellectual

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powers to reinforce sloppy beliefs and

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opinions they formed without a second

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thought.

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Be independent of other people’s

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opinions,

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but free yourself from the chains of

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your own outdated opinions,

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too.

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This takes two things - humility and

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curiosity.

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Thinking novel,

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original thoughts means we have to go

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outside our comfort zone.

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The biggest threat to generating a

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truly unique and new idea is the

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assumption that you have the best idea

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already!

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Independent thinkers can think outside

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themselves and try different worldviews

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for size.

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They genuinely want to see the world

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through the eyes of people different

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from them.

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That means that they don’t engage

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others to argue or win them over but to

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actively expand their own understanding.

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They don’t read new material,

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get into conversations about the idea

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that they need to defend themselves,

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or forcefully make their point until

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the other person recognizes them as the

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winner!

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Habit 3 - Being O. K. With Being

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Disliked.

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Independent thinking means thinking

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that is not dependent.

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But,

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dependent on what?

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The thoughts,

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opinions,

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reactions or behavior of others.

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So,

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you think what you think even if other

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people don’t agree,

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don’t understand,

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or actively don’t like you because of

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it.

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It comes down to how you view the

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purpose of thinking - For conventional

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thinkers,

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an opinion or thought is an identity

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marker,

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or a stick to beat others with.

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It’s something done to win other

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people’s approval or comply with

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norms and fashions.

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They engage at the superficial level,

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i.e.,

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within the realm of other people’s

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thoughts about reality.

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For independent thinkers,

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the primary goal is always to learn,

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understand,

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and directly engage with reality.

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Therefore,

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having their thoughts and opinions

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disliked is not a problem.

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It’s far more satisfying to be

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respected than to be liked.

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Being the same as people around you can

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outwardly make you feel safe and

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accepted.

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Isn’t it better to witness and

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appreciate the differences in one

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another and still respect them and

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cooperate,

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not in spite of differences,

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but because of them?

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Mature adults can disagree without it

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threatening their relationship or

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causing trouble.

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They also don’t expect everyone else

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to be identical to them as a condition

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of their friendship or affection.

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They enjoy and relish challenges and

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differences.

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They like the friction and find it

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useful and generative.

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A group where everyone thinks the same

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is not experiencing true harmony and

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closeness;

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rather,

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they have all merely agreed to mimic

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one another in non-threatening ways.

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There is one big difference between the

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contrarian thinker and the independent

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one - the ego.

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For the former,

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the most important is the ego,

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and their way of thinking and being in

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the world is present to serve that.

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Meanwhile,

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the most important thing is genuine

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insight,

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understanding,

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creativity,

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and mastery for the latter.

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If the selfish ego hinders that,

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then that ego is dropped,

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every time.

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Habit 4 - Always staying curious.

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The ego wants to have all the answers,

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like a precious possession to be

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hoarded and guarded from others.

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Conventional thinkers prefer the

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feeling of being seen to be right than

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they do actually being right.

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One final habit that sets independent

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thinkers apart is their commitment to

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curiosity,

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instead of clinging to assumed

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“facts” and never questioning them.

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Genuinely questioning the world is a

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lot harder than it looks.

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How many of us assume that if someone

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quotes a scientific paper in their

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argument,

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this is automatically sound and has to

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be accepted?

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How many of us see statistics and

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assume that it is correct – because

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numbers are more trustworthy than

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words,

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right?

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How many of us believe that if a Doctor

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of Philosophy expert in their field

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says something,

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it must be true?

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Well,

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this information may be true.

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But if it is true,

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it’s not because it was in the right

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publication,

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or written by the right author,

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using the right terminology.

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It’s true because we could find

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enough sound evidence to support the

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fact.

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This is a subtle but major distinction.

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As independent thinkers,

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we question everything,

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including the ingrained and culturally

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sanctioned methods of questioning what

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others have taught us!

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You are most at risk for sloppy and

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useless thinking when you are most

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blind to your own shortcuts,

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assumptions,

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prejudices or expectations.

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It’s great to challenge all the

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biases you’re already familiar with,

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but what about all those biases

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currently invisible to you?

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How are you going to uncover them?

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Independent thinkers are driven not by

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the desire to conform and win

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everyone’s approval,

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but they are also not reacting

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defiantly by being automatic rebels.

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Instead,

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they care most about real,

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valuable ideas,

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thoughts they generate themselves,

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and using that power of thought to its

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maximum potential.

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Independent thinkers are driven by a

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passion far greater and more lasting

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than the compulsion to aggrandize the

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self – they want to improve in life,

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learn,

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grow,

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and bring illumination and

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understanding to the world in general.

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It’s a much bigger prize,

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isn’t it?

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What independent thinking actually

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looks like.

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At this point,

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let’s clarify a few characteristics

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of the independent thinker -

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•They can gain awareness of their own

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thinking as thinking,

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and take conscious control over it

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rather than passively and unconsciously

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going along with others.

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•They trust their own perceptions,

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will,

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desires and interpretations and do not

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automatically privilege other people's

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over their own.

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•They are comfortable going outside

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their comfort zone,

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and don’t mind admitting errors or

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being disliked for their positions.

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•They take in enormous amounts of

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information but actively engage with

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it,

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not just on a superficial level but

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also critically.

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•They know their cognitive biases,

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expectations,

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blind spots,

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and the ever-present ego and try to

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minimize any disturbance to their

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genuine understanding.

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A conventional thinker occupies a

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mental model unconsciously,

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and the model they use may be something

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of someone else’s creation.

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An independent thinker knows many

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mental models,

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and owns their responsibility to choose

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which one to occupy,

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and for what reasons.

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This section will look at a few key

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historical figures who are broadly

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considered to embody the above

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characteristics.

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These thinkers and theorists have

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demonstrated thoughts and opinions so

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genuinely novel and independent,

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that they always have changed the

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course of history or else drastically

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broadened the existing paradigm.

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But in reading about these people,

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we are not trying to answer the

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question,

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“how can I be more like them?"

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That is simply level 1 thinking!

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Instead,

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we want to see what we can learn from

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their experience,

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and understand what it says about our

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own.

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You may wonder if independent thinkers

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are always philosophers and scientists.

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Independent thinking can manifest as

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the scientific method,

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but this is not all it is.

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Seeking evidence,

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establishing the truth through

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experiment and falsifiability,

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and using reason and logic are all used

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in the sciences,

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but they are more rightly a part of a

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broader approach to reality.

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You need not be a scientist to be an

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independent thinker!

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As long as you are questing for deeper

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understanding and will consider your

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role in the equation,

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so to speak,

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then you are a critical and independent

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thinker.

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The people we’ll discuss below all

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liberally used analytical,

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logical,

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conscious,

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and reflexive mental models.

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These models gave them a richer and

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more lively perspective on reality than

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people who merely swallowed convention

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without a second thought.

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You could argue that independent

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thinking should just be called…

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thinking.

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Everything else is a knee-jerk

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reaction,

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habit,

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ego,

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coping mechanism or piece of culture.

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Let’s see what we can learn from the

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independent thinking heavyweights.

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Socrates – teaches us about

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challenging assumptions.

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Socrates was basically a one-trick pony.

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That trick?

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Asking questions.

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That’s it.

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Socrates wanted to understand.

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He wanted to dig dep,

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and when he thought he found an answer,

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he questioned that.

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He knew that correctly honed mental

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faculties were humanity’s saving

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grace,

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and he took it as his mission to use

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dialogue,

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logic and reason to uncover the truth.

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Besides Socrates’ philosophy,

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he was known for what’s now called

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Socratic dialogue.

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Reality is revealed to us when we

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engage with our ignorance.

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In curiosity,

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we ask questions,

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and keep on asking them.

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We question even our questions,

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and our means of interpreting the

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answers.

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We start from the bare bones,

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assume nothing,

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and take small logical steps to

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discover what we absolutely can know.

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Socrates would demonstrate this

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dialectic to uncover hidden assumptions

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in a literal conversation.

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Step by step,

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the Truth is revealed.

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In classical Socratic dialogues,

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two people discuss higher concepts like

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virtue,

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the nature of knowledge,

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and art.

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But we can use a similar approach to

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uncover assumptions in our everyday

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lives.

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We can ask questions such as - “What

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do I mean by X. Y. Z. ?"

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(what assumptions have I made about

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definitions?)

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“What is my evidence for thinking

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this?"

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(do I have any reason to believe it?)

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“What do I know here?"

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(and what am I simply guessing?)

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“What am I (or you)

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not seeing?"

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(I may have made an error by omission)

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Getting a handle on your own

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assumptions means being willing to

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think from scratch.

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Consider even what you think is obvious

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and ask,

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is it really that obvious?

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Is it a given?

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You might ask yourself a series of the

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above questions five times in a row to

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get to the root of your deepest held

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assumptions.

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This process might not illuminate the

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truth,

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but it will show you more clearly any

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impediments to seeing that truth!

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“I think I’ve got cancer."

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Is that so?

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“Well,

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I’ve got this weird lump,

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and I know what that means… cancer!"

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Does a lump always mean you have cancer?

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“Well,

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I don’t know.

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But I’ve read that it’s a big

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warning sign."

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Is what you read absolute proof that

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you have cancer right now?

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“Well,

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no,

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obviously not.

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But I could."

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What is the evidence?

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“There’s no evidence exactly…”

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So,

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what do you really know?

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“Uh.

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I guess the only thing I really know is

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that I have a lump."

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Niall Ferguson – teaches us the power

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of counterfactual thinking.

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Famously a historian who wrote about

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alternative history (specifically,

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what life would have been like if

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Germany had won World War I. I. ),

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author Niall Ferguson was a master of

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using the all-powerful phrase,

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what if?

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Counterfactual thinking is an

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out-the-box approach that is

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intrinsically innovative and creative.

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Every independent thinker must be

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familiar with the process of seeing

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what is… and being curious about what

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isn’t.

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For example,

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in business,

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you could use counterfactual thinking

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to look at past failures and imagine

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how things could have played out

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differently,

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thus devising an improved strategy that

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prevents those mistakes in future.

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If you’ve asked a question and gotten

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a puzzling answer,

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it’s counterfactual thinking that

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helps you imagine what the right

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question would look like.

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This thinking style is a little strange

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and unfamiliar to those used to working

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only with what’s right in front of

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them.

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Still,

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for those natural inventors and

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creatives of the world,

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thinking about what could be is as

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important as thinking about what is.

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When you ask what if,

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you step out of your comfort zone,

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drop all assumptions and pet theories,

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and take a leap into the possible,

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potential,

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and theoretical.

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This is where novel solutions are

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found,

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new ideas are explored,

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and fresh views are taken on old

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situations.

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In a way,

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Socrates was also a counterfactual

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thinker in the sense that he repeatedly

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asked,

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“what if everything I think I know is

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actually wrong?

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What then?"

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Friedrich Nietzsche – teaches us

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about perspective.

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Nietzsche was a philosopher who knew

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how much ego stood in the way of

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understanding,

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and he made liberal use of teasing,

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criticism and humor to poke holes in

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the prevailing yet unexamined

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ideologies of the time.

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Rather than being a nihilist,

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Nietzsche was instead keenly aware of

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the fact that every person inhabits a

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particularly conditioned perspective,

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informed by where they’re born,

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when,

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how they’re educated,

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who their parents are and what their

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culture teaches them.

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Unaware of their impact,

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we are slaves to these influences.

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But if we become aware of our

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circumstances,

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we give ourselves choice.

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We master ourselves and the world at

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large,

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and become the creators of our

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experience rather than at its mercy.

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Nietzsche believed that one way to get

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outside of these perspectives was to

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liberally try on as many as possible,

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and genuinely see the world through

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other people’s lenses.

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Nietzsche said,

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“There is only a perspective seeing,

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only a perspective "knowing";

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and the more affects we allow to speak

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about one thing,

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the more eyes,

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different eyes,

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we can use to observe one thing,

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the more complete will our "concept" of

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this thing,

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our "objectivity," be."

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Thus,

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all there is in the world for us as

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human beings are different subjective

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perspectives of that world.

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But if we can appreciate as many

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perspectives as possible,

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we gain a richer and more intelligent

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view of that world.

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For Nietzsche,

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there are no facts,

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only interpretations,

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and every person adopts their worldview

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and mental models to serve their needs.

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Our egoism is merely a narrowing of

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perspective;

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to free ourselves as much as possible,

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we need to widen that perspective and

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mix it up.

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One great way to do this - find a point

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of view that is diametrically opposed

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to your own,

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and pretend it is your own.

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Make arguments for it.

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Imagine that,

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in its way,

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it makes complete and perfect sense.

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Genuinely engage with people who

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disagree with you – imagine that in

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doing so,

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you are accessing another aspect of the

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issue that you were previously blind to.

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Your world becomes bigger.

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Summary -

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•Independent thinkers can think

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logically,

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clearly and autonomously,

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outside the pressures of their

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cultures,

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upbringings,

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past experiences or historical period.

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They are conscious and aware,

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rather than reactive and automatic,

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and can truly think (and experience)

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for themselves.

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•Cultivating independent thought

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takes time and effort.

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The first stage is to assemble a

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patchwork identity as an independent

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thinker,

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and mimic others we see around us.

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The second stage is to gradually

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develop trust in our own perceptions

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and intellectual faculties,

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while occasionally deferring to

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convention.

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The final step is truly independent

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thought.

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This free,

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adventurous,

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creative,

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and proactive thought originates purely

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within us.

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•The fundamentals of critical thought

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include learning to take in information

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(especially reading)

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critically,

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dropping the ego so that you don’t

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get stuck in any one perspective or

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opinion,

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having the bravery to be disliked for

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being different,

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and maintaining an open and receptive

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rather than closed mind.

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Conventional thinkers differ from

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independent thinkers in their approach

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to reality itself,

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and how they see the function of

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thinking.

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For the former,

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it’s to bolster the ego.

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For the latter,

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it’s for the thrill of encountering

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reality directly.

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•Independent thinking is a way of

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being that can be practiced and

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nurtured.

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We do this by cultivating awareness,

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dropping ego,

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and learning to engage critically with

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the information we take in.

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This is not the same thing as being a

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contrarian,

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who goes against the grain merely to

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rebel.

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•Many famous independent thinkers

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throughout history shed light on how we

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might develop the capacity in ourselves.

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Socrates teaches us the power of asking

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questions and uncovering our

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assumptions by taking nothing for

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granted.

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Niall Ferguson teaches us about

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counterfactual thinking,

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and imagining answers to the question

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“what if?”,

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and Nietzsche teaches us the value of

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perspective-switching to enrich our

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perception of the world.

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This has been

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The Independent Thinker Written by

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Patrick King

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Narrated by Russell Newton.

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