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WELCOME TO OUR KITCHEN: What have we learned after publishing thirty-seven cookbooks?
Episode 914th August 2025 • Cooking with Bruce and Mark • Bruce Weinstein & Mark Scarbrough
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We've learned a lot after writing and publishing after thirty-seven cookbooks. We'd love to share with you those lessons.

We're Bruce Weinstein & Mark Scarbrough. We've actually written forty cookbooks, including two knitting books by Bruce and a memoir by Mark. We've been around the block! We'd love to tell you what we've learned over this long publishing career.

We've also got a one-minute cooking tip. And we're really excited about a specific type of melon and Mark's really excited about a specific way to cook goat.

If you'd like to get a copy of our latest cookbook, COLD CANNING, please check it out at this link right here.

Here are the segments for this episode of COOKING WITH BRUCE & MARK:

[01:22] Our one-minute cooking tip: Store garlic at room temperature

[03:27] What have we learned after writing and publishing thirty-seven cookbooks.

[23:27] What’s making us happy in food this week? Melons and goat!

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Hey, I am Bruce Weinstein, and this is the Podcast

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Cooking with Bruce and Martin.

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And I'm Mark Scarborough.

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And together with Bruce, you know we

have written 37 cookbooks, but you

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also know that our latest cookbook,

cold counting is on sale now.

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Finally.

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Mm-hmm.

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Finally, we've talked about it enough.

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It is.

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Out there, small batch canning.

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It is a gorgeous book.

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Go out to our TikTok channel and

watch me do an unboxing video of

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the first time we see this cookbook.

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It's kind of fascinating.

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I think I posted it on Instagram on my

personal account too and on Facebook.

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Um, it's fascinating 'cause a, I hate.

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Author unboxing videos,

but BI get to see it.

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And, uh, this thing weighs a ton.

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425 recipes on really high

gloss, beautiful paper.

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Tons of photographs.

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How many photographs?

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I

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Bruce: don't

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Mark: even remember.

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A

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Bruce: 2 25.

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Mark: Yeah.

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Lots of photographs beautifully

designed, beautifully laid out.

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The publisher.

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Little grounded.

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Uh.

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Bang up job on this book.

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When we turned in the manuscript,

I never expected it to look like

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this, so go check out cold canning.

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But before that, we do

have a podcast to do.

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We've got a one minute cooking tip.

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We'll tell you what we have learned after

the publication of our 37th cookbook.

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What have we learned about

this cookbook career?

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And I will tell you what's making

us happy in food this week.

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So let's get started.

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Bruce: Our one minute cooking tip.

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Store garlic at room

temperature, not in the fridge.

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I, I don't

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Mark: think a lot of people know

that garlic is a dried food product.

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Mm-hmm.

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It is dried.

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And you talk about that for a second.

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Well,

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Bruce: Gar, when garlic comes outta the

ground as fresh garlic, it's very wet,

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very pungent, and it has to dry out.

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The husks have to dry out.

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The cloves shrink a little bit.

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Mm.

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I mean, they're not dried

like gradable dried.

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No, but they are, they shrink, they

condense, they get dried and is the

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real term, even though they're not.

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You know desiccated,

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Mark: right?

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Bruce: They're not like dried oregano,

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Mark: but

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Bruce: is a dry, you have

to hang it and dry it.

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Yeah.

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My friend Rich has a beautiful garden.

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He grows so much stuff and he grows

like hundreds and hundreds of garlic

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bulbs, and every spring and early summer

he comes over and he brings me these.

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Beautiful braids as he's tied up of

garlic bulbs and I hang them in my

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kitchen and cut them off as I need them.

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True.

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All

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Mark: winter long.

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True.

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He also hangs onions.

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Yep.

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Right.

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I don't think a lot of people

know that onions have to be

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hung for a while and dried out.

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I mean, you can't eat them

right outta the ground.

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You can't eat raw garlic too, or raw.

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You can't eat fresh garlic too.

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But um, it's best to let it dry.

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It concentrates the flavor.

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There's a whole

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Bruce: reason for this.

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And garlic right outta the ground

also can cause stomach distress.

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So there are chemicals in that that.

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Break apart that you really don't

want to eat too much of when they're

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first fresh outta the ground.

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Not too much.

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I mean, you can eat fresh garlic,

but you shouldn't eat a ton of it.

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But let me say, don't keep it unlike

your window sill on a sunny kitchen.

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No, because then your

garlic looks gonna sprout.

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It's gonna think it's time to grow, right?

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Keep it hanging where the sun don't shine.

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Mark: If you buy garlic in a jar

that is pre peeled, that should go in

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the fridge or pre minced even worse.

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Yeah.

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Garlic, as they call it,

garlic should definitely go in

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the fridge once you open it.

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Okay, that's our one minute cooking tip.

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Um, before we get to the main part of this

podcast, let me say that it'd be great if

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you could rate and like this podcast if

you give it a review that's even better,

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and subscribe so you don't miss a single

episode of cooking with Bruce and Mark.

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Okay, up next, what we've learned.

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Now that we're publishing

our 37th cookbook,

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Bruce: I learned how exhausting

it is that, I don't know, maybe

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it's, I'm getting older and

the books are getting longer.

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Mm-hmm.

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So it's like, shouldn't it

have gone the other way?

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Shouldn't the books be getting

shorter as I get older, but

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they're getting longer and bigger.

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Mark (2): Our agent always.

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Says about publishing that every year

we get older and they get younger, they

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'cause they get fired and a younger

person comes in and takes their place.

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So, oh, it is

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Bruce: true when we

were younger as authors.

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Our publishers and everyone who

worked at the publishing house

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was like our age that we are now.

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Or older.

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Or older as we are now.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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And now it's flipped.

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Here we are at our age being the

writers and our publisher and all the

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people working there are the age we

were when we published our first book.

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Mark: Right.

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They're all at 40 or under.

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Yeah.

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Which is really wild.

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So here's some of the things we've learned

about this cookbook career, and this is

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not about cookbooks in particular, but I

should say that this seems really funny.

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We learned to not give up on the dream.

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Mm-hmm.

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We wanted to write cookbooks.

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When we first got together, Bruce and

I did, Bruce had published a drink book

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with Clarkson Potter, an imprint of

Random House, and then he kept trying to

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publish books and nothing ever happened.

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And then I got involved

and we must have written.

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I can't even tell you.

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30, 40 proposals for cookbooks.

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We kept trying to sell a book.

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Mm-hmm.

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And we just kept at it.

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And I think a lot of people that

I've met in my life who have tried

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to get into publishing, have written

something, submitted it, gotten

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a rejection, and then never done.

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Another thing

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Bruce: I wanna say, this goes for.

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Any creative career, not giving

up on what you really want.

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Shit, when we go out to a restaurant

and if we start talking to the server

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and they say they're really an actor

or a dancer, my first question is

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always, where are you taking class?

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You know?

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'cause clearly you're not in a show

'cause you're in the restaurant, right?

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Okay, so where are you taking class?

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Where are you dancing?

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Where are you acting?

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If you're not doing that, then you're

not an actor, you are a waiter.

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So when we said to people, well,

we want to write cookbooks.

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The answer is, well, what

are you doing about it?

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Endlessly writing cookbook

proposals endlessly.

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Trying endlessly.

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I've got an agent.

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We are working on it.

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We are always writing.

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Mark: I mean, really, honestly,

we cranked out for about a

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year and a half, two years.

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Yeah, we cranked that proposal

after proposal after proposal

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for various cookbook ideas.

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Nothing came of it, but we just

wouldn't take no for an answer.

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I

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Bruce: will say that.

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It got to a point where I

did almost give up on this.

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You did.

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And we were running out of money and

two years of this, we were, I had

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been an advertising creative director

before this future year, Anna.

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I mean,

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Mark (2): honestly, we were

counting Nichols at this point.

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Mm-hmm.

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Bruce: And I had left my last

advertising job before I met

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Mark when my book came out.

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And now it was like, I

need to go back to work.

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So I did.

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I actually got a job as a creative

director again at a small ad agency,

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and the day I accepted that job.

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Our agent called and said

she had a book offer for us.

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Yep.

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So it was an interesting

moment, and we did both.

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I kept the job and the book,

and we did it all together.

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Well, we needed a

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Mark: few more nickels even

as we were writing that book.

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Yeah.

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So fortunately you kept that job, but I

should also say that we've learned that

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you have to be realistic about this dream.

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Whatever your dream is in.

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You do have to really

be realistic about it.

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You can't just be a cockeyed

optimist to quote South Pacific.

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You have to be, uh, realistic about it.

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So, you know, I can tell you over the

years we have written books that we

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might not otherwise have written mm-hmm.

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On our own, because the

publisher have has that.

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I have said we want this book.

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Yep.

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And so we have written, I, I would say

that when we jumped from Rodale to.

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Uh, Clarkson Potter to Random House.

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Mm-hmm.

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Together years later, I don't think

either of us wanted to write a slow

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cooker book, but Random House wanted

us to write a big slow cooker book.

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Yeah.

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And we did.

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We threw ourself at it.

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Bruce: It was nothing I would've.

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Ever thought I wanted to do it.

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And it took me a while to figure out

how to make food in them really good.

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And in the end, we did a book

that was so full of recipes that

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were delicious and so successful.

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We sold out on QVC and that

book became a bestseller, right?

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So be realistic.

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Sometimes you're gonna do

things you don't want to do,

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but you're gonna do them anyway.

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Take the role you don't want as an actor.

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Work backstage as a dancer.

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Do what you have to do

to get in that theater.

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Be part of your industry.

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I think

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Mark: Old Cold Canning is a grand example

of this because we met with our publisher,

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uh, before, this is a year and a half ago

before we even started on cold canning,

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and we were talking about what our

next book would be and he said, I would

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really like a canning book in my list.

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So we went away and we thought about

it and we saw a billion canning books

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of for ball canning and all the.

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Big giant bestsellers, the homesteading

books and all this kind of stuff.

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And we were like, well, how

can we compete in that market?

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And we tossed it around between us

enough that we came back to him with this

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idea of cold canning, canning without

a canner where you just put it in the

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fridge or the freezer and for storage.

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And he loved it and bought the book.

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So it, that isn't an idea

that Bruce and I generated.

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It's an idea actually that it

began with him and then morphed.

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To by us.

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I will

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Bruce: say that unlike the slow cooker

book, though, it resonated with us

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because I had been making jams and jellies

and pickles and canning the, you know,

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with processing for years and years.

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So at least when he brought

that up, it was something

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that resonated and excited us.

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Yes.

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So it wasn't a hard stretch to

say, Ooh, let's figure this out.

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Mark: Yes, that's right.

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And I think that that's been, you know,

largely what a lot of the things we've

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done in our career, and not only the

books we wrote, but the books that we

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fixed for other people, they're not

necessarily books we would've touched.

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We, over the years, have fixed and even

written celebrities books and, um, some of

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them we would never have touched before.

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I can't talk much about them.

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Well, some of them confidentiality

agreements, but we would

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Bruce: never have written Dr.

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Phil's diet.

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Oh, there's one without

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Mark: a confidentiality agreement.

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Bruce: Ew.

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It was not a good experience

working with a celebrity like

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that who was so full of himself.

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No, it was terrible experience.

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No, it was not a good experience.

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The book was great.

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We did a great job on the book,

but it wasn't a good experience.

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So I

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Mark: think we've also discovered

that over the years that food is

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very personal and it's very divisive.

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Mm-hmm.

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And when you're a food writer and

you write a book or you write recipes

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and then you tell someone about it.

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Sometimes you get the idea response

of oh, or Wow or that kind of

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thing, but you get a lot of ew.

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And um, that is a really interesting

problem for a creative because I

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don't think a lot of people who

dance or sing or write novels, I

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don't think they often get the.

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Ew factor from it, right?

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I mean, somebody might write a

nasty review online of a novel.

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Well, that's refuse, but

gently not to your face.

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Mm-hmm.

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I've never seen somebody at all

the book events we've ever been

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to with novelists sitting around.

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I remember seeing somebody come up to a

novelist and go, I really hated your book.

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Bruce: No, it's about food.

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It's 'cause it's about food.

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If someone says they dance with a certain

dance company and you don't like that

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kind of dance, you're not gonna go ew.

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But if you Exactly.

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If you were to say to someone you're

writing a book about, I don't know,

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casseroles, and they had a terrible

experience with casseroles as a kid,

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they're gonna go, Ew, because it's food.

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And food triggers all of these

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Mark: emotions.

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And I think one of the big changes that

has happened in all these years of writing

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cookbooks for us is that cookbooks have

gone, and I'm gonna use weird words

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here, but they have gone from content.

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Based to vibe based.

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I explained that.

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Okay.

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So when we started writing cookbooks,

cookbooks were compendiums of recipes.

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So you get a book and the whole

point of it was that it was all this

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giant encyclopedic list of recipes.

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But now a cookbook is as much about

its design and it's vibe and it.

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Feel right, the current word, the

style vibe, that it gives you a certain

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feeling, a certain emotional landscape.

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You look at it and you

think certain things.

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I think that one of the things that's

changed huge over our career is

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this shift toward vibe based books.

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It's really bizarre, uh, for

people who came up in the era

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of like the joy of cooking.

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When you have these books or you

know, the big Julia Child mastering

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the Art of French cooking that are.

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Encyclopedias.

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Bruce: Well, you know who did that?

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I mean, that was Martha Stewart.

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She did that single handedly.

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She

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Mark: was one of the people

who started the vibe trend.

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Yep.

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Bruce: She did that with

her book Entertaining.

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It was all about, oh, it's not

just that I'm doing a clam bake.

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I'm doing a clam bake at my beach house.

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Right.

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And these.

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This is the way I should decorate

it, and this is the music that should

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be played and the drinks served.

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It was a lifestyle.

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She turned content into lifestyle, and she

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Mark: also turned herself, I mean herself,

former Wall Street Trader and all that.

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She was into this, um, to use the current

word, tra wife into the traditional wife.

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She turned herself into a character

in the same way that Paul Rubins

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turned himself into Peewee Herman.

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Mm.

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There's this way that especially in

the late eighties and early nineties,

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people were creating characters.

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And the characters were actually in

front of them in terms of the fame.

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And I would argue that Martha Stewart

was a character of Martha Stewart.

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Bruce: yeah.

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That wasn't really who she was.

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No,

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Mark: not

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Bruce: at all.

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But she did something else with books.

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She's the one who started

the trend for photography.

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She did.

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'cause before then.

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Cookbooks didn't have photography, or if

they did, they were very few pictures.

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That's usually, it was just on the cover.

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Our first 13 books that we published had

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Mark: no photos and, and that's none.

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Sorry.

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I was gonna say, and that's

part of the vibe thing.

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Yeah.

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Photos are the prime way that vibe gets.

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Uh, communicated when you flipped

your book in a bookstore as if you do

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this anymore, as if anyone goes to a

bookstore and flips through a book.

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Um, I went to Barnes and Noble the

other day and, uh, I don't know, it

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seemed like a greeting card store to me.

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Mm-hmm.

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But anyway, like anybody goes to a

bookstore and flips through books, but,

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um, uh, when you do, you're looking at the

pictures, you're not reading the recipes.

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Sara, you're getting this

vibe sense outta the book.

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Bruce: you can't have a book

without photography these days.

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So when you make a book proposal

and you're trying to sell a book,

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we have to even put in there how

many photos we think the book should

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have to really get the vibe going.

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Right.

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And our books tend to get more.

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And more and more photos in them

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Mark: and, and that's also part

of this trend over the years of

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that, we've published 37 books that

recipes have shifted and nobody

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really wants to know the how.

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This is really interesting.

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I think when, when we got into, I mean

people still wanna know the how, 'cause

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they wanna see the recipe, but when we

got into writing cookbooks, the head

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note, that is the note above the recipe.

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The head note was all about the how.

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Well make sure that your temperature

of your custard is blah, blah, blah.

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Was all the tips as you're

going through the recipe,

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right, of how to make it better.

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Now that has all changed and the head

notes to recipes are all about why.

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Mm-hmm.

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Why should you make this recipe?

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Why is this a good recipe?

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Why does this recipe beat other recipes

for, I don't know, blueberry preserves?

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Mm-hmm.

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And that change, it may sound

subtle to you, but it is.

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Huge in terms of how we

approach books because

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Bruce: it's part of the whole

pitching a book idea to our

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publisher in the first place.

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Right.

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Not only why this recipe, why this book?

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Right, right.

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Why should somebody buy this book?

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The thing we always hate to

hear from our publisher is.

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Your book is the answer to a question

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Mark: nobody's asked.

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Yeah, that's his, that's his constant

comment is that a book has to answer a

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question that people are actually asking.

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And so, uh, this is why Google

Trends searches are really important.

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Google keyword searches are really

important to sell a book because, uh,

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the people, he wants people to see an

answer to a question they're asking.

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I, I should say that when we first got

into this business, uh, we wrote the

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ultimate candy book and we turned it in.

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This is.

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2000, we turned it in.

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Mm-hmm.

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And, um, the head notes were full

of stories about Bruce's, uh,

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relationship with Kandy as a kid.

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His grandmothers going to candy stores.

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The head notes were all full of hiding

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Bruce: it under my

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Mark: bed.

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Yeah.

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Rotting my teeth out.

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All bits about.

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Candy from his childhood, and that book

was kicked back and we had to rewrite

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it because the publisher had a strong

dictum at Harper Collins that no personal

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information can ever appear in a recipe.

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So a recipe had to almost be

like a science experiment.

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It had to be.

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Clean and objective.

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These days there was no vibe, right?

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No.

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These days, what everybody seems to

want is personal information like,

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oh, Bruce made me this the other

night for dinner, and la da da da.

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People seem to want the story.

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Now I can argue, and this is bigger

than this podcast, I can argue that

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part of why we were told to take.

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Out personal material is the fear

of homophobia in the year:

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But I think it was also a

part of a general trend.

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A lot of those books

made a heater's books.

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They don't include, I made a heater

making this and how she made it.

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Mm-hmm.

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Now she found this recipe.

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Mm-hmm.

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And yada, yada, yada.

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It's all about how to make this right.

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The tips to make these cookies right.

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Bruce: But she did have this

interesting thing going on in her books.

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A lot of her recipe titles.

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Were sort of personal and

no one knew what they meant.

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Yeah.

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Like 22nd floor blondies.

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'cause some woman in her condo in Florida

on the 22nd floor gave her this recipe.

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Mark: Yeah.

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Bruce: So it's like, what,

what a 22nd floor blondies.

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But,

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Mark: but it still, her

head notes were not.

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Very personal or I think

about Marcella Hasan.

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I mean, yes.

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Did you know about Venetian cooking

and Marcella Hasan and her experience?

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Maybe you knew, maybe you knew

about her experience in the

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war, but maybe, maybe not.

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No.

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Um, and it was a, it was a whole.

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Different vibe to the Cook Bowl.

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Well, in a vibe, it was this

idea that a recipe's supposed

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to be something objective.

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This is the best way to make roast land.

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I still think that over the years we

have discovered that US citizens are

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not afraid of metric measurements.

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Bruce: Not anymore.

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They were, it was terrified of it

were they were, oh my goodness.

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It meant you were communist, but

now people are weighing their flour.

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Mm-hmm.

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Weighing their sugar.

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Mm-hmm.

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Mark: Mm-hmm.

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Bruce: You know, sugar's

one thing, this is

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Mark: particularly a millennial and

Gen Z thing, they are not afraid

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of the metric measurements when

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Bruce: it comes to cooking some things.

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Weighing is not that

crucial, in my opinion.

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If I am pouring oil into a wok to stir fry

a dish, I'm not gonna measure out or weigh

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my oil by the milliliter or the gram.

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It's not that important.

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Right?

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But if I'm baking bread, I am so

weighing that flour because four of us.

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In this house can take up a measuring

cup, dip it into that pot of flour,

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and each come out with a different

weight of flour for that one dip.

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Mark: Yeah.

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Yeah.

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I mean, in cold canning.

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Uh, we put all the ingredients in both,

um, volume amounts, like a cup and

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a tablespoon, but we also have every

single ingredient in a metric amount,

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15 milliliters, 50 grams, 190 grams.

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And that's because people are not afraid

of the metric measurements anymore.

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Mm-hmm.

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Many people do have kitchen scales, and it

is a far more accurate way, particularly

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when you deal with things like sugar,

where the grind of sugar in North

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America, what we call granulated white

sugar, is different than castor sugar.

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In the uk the grind is different.

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So you really have to buy the

weight of the sugar involved

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to make the recipe work.

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Bruce: Absolutely.

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Because you're canning, right?

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You're preserving, so

you want your ratios.

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Sugar and vinegar and salt

and all of that to be precise.

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So it comes out and it stays fresh.

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Mark: Right, exactly.

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And so what's the most important

thing about this career?

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Bruce: Oh, keep things new.

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Keep things fresh.

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Yeah.

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Keep things exciting.

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Yeah, absolutely.

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Which is funny because for years.

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Like we did instant pop books.

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Right?

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Right.

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And so we did four instant

pop books in a row.

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It's so hard to keep that fresh and new.

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:

Oh my gosh, that's so crazy.

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And we were desperate

to do something else.

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:

And the publishers, no,

your books are successful.

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Let's do another one.

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Mark: The the worst was writing what?

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A 350 recipe instant pop book.

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And then having our publisher say, I

want another 350 recipe to follow it.

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To follow it.

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And I was like, oh my gosh, how are we?

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We thought in 350

recipes, we had killed it.

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We thought we had done everything you

could do in an instant pot and now

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we gotta do it again with new things.

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It was an insane, daunting task.

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It was

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Bruce: hard to stay fresh and exciting and

new, but we did, and we made a really good

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book that was new, but keep things new.

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Change your style,

change what you're doing.

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Learn a new language.

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Learn a new dance step.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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Take up a new instrument.

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Yeah.

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Walk a different

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Mark: path to the store tomorrow.

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Yeah.

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Yeah.

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:

It's really important, especially

as you age, because as you probably

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know, um, your memory is encoding

where you go, let's say, and it's

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:

holding those memories sacrosanct.

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:

So this is why you can drive

down the street and not realize

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:

you have driven down that.

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Street because you've driven down it

so many times that you get home to

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:

your driveway and you're like, wait a

minute, I don't even remember driving on

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:

the freeway or on the surface streets.

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:

Mm-hmm.

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:

To my house.

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And that's because you're not actually

registering it anymore in memory.

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:

Your memory is holding that.

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And so what your census are

picking up are not necessarily

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going into your hippocampus and

into your memory at that point.

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You're just, um, you know, we

would say doing it by rote,

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but you're, you're sensing it.

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:

Mm-hmm.

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You know what you're driving down.

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While you're doing it, but it's

not being laid down as a memory.

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:

So as you get older, this more

and more happens and you need

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to go different directions.

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:

Mm-hmm.

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:

And you need to take different,

uh, approaches to life and you

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need to watch different shows, and

you need to read different books.

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And you need to read, eat different foods.

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Mark (2): Absolutely.

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Mark: Because it's the only way you

can keep from petrifying as you age.

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And it's the truth of

a creative career too.

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Right.

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You

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Bruce: gotta keep moving.

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You do have to keep me.

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We watched.

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You did lose

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Mark: it.

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Watched a fabulous documentary last night.

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It's only 30 minutes long on Netflix.

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About the only woman in the orchestra.

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That's the name of the documentary.

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It's about this woman who was

the first woman who got a seat

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in the New York Philharmonic.

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She played the double

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Bruce: bass, actually, wasn't it

called The only girl in the orchestra?

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Maybe The only girl at the time.

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She was the girl.

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Okay.

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And back when she got in.

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People like Zubin Meda, who was then at

the La Philharmonic were saying women

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have no place in the Philharmonic.

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Mark: That's right.

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Bruce: And that by the time they

reached 60, they're no good anymore.

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While men are still good as musicians.

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Right.

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It's

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Mark: horrifying.

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So it was this whole thing about her, and

it was basically about her retiring at

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like 87 or 89 or something like that, 80.

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From the New York Philharmonic.

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And what was interesting to me about

that, she was moving out of her New

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York apartment into a smaller apartment.

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And you know, I mean she had these

four, um, antique double bases.

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So one, one was made in

the 17 hundreds, right?

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:

Mm-hmm.

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Bruce: And the Steinway Grand, right?

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It was,

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:

Mark: she was a huge apartment, right?

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:

And she was moving to

a smaller place, but.

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She was not stopping

teaching new students at 89.

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She had a whole coterie of double

base students who came from all

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over the world to study with her,

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Bruce: and she taught group

classes at the Manhattan School

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of Music, and she just kept.

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Ongoing.

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Mark: That's right.

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Even beyond retiring from

the New York Philharmonic.

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So it was really fascinating.

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She also talked about how she finally got

to go to concerts instead of having to

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play the concerts, she was actually going

and sitting and listening to the music,

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which is really a fascinating thing.

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Um, check out the documentary.

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The only Girl in the orchestra,

only about 30 minutes long.

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It's really fascinating.

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Okay.

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That's what we've learned

over the years in writing.

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37 cookbooks, some advice, maybe

things that we faltered on or that

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we've learned and gotten better at.

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It's all part of the process, I

guess, of being human, of learning

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and learning and learning and

adapting, and adapting and adapting.

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Before we get to the last segment of

this podcast, let me say that there is

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a TikTok channel called Cooking with

Bruce and Mark, and on there you can

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find all sorts of videos of, um, making.

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Food, talking to each other, talking

about our relationship, how we met,

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all kinds of, uh, stuff is on there.

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We also have a Facebook group cooking

with Bruce and Mark, and of course we have

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our own Instagram and Facebook feeds, and

I have my own Blue Sky feed, so you can

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connect with us in all sorts of places.

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:

Okay.

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As these traditional, the final

segment of this podcast, what's

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making us happy in food this week?

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Bruce: As often For me,

it's a kind of melon.

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:

I love these hammi melons, HAMI.

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:

It's a Korean melon.

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:

It looks a little like cantaloupe,

but it's not quite as sweet

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:

and it's got the crunchy.

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:

It's not nearly as sweet.

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:

No, it has a crunchy texture of cucumber.

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:

So it is so.

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:

Freshing and Delicious and Mars.

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Them.

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I, I know.

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I don't

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Mark: hate them.

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I just don't like them

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Bruce: because

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Mark: they are very vegetal.

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Bruce: Mm.

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I love them.

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It like,

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Mark: and it is like eating a cold

cucumber, but sweeter but orange.

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Bruce: Mm-hmm.

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With a slight hint, hint

of cantaloupe flavor.

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Mark: Yeah.

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It's not my favorite.

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I like the gushy soft,

super sweet cantaloupe.

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'cause that's what I grew up

with, so that's what I like.

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But, um, trying something new.

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:

Remember that's what we said.

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Well, I have tried it

and, uh, I don't like it.

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So there you go.

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Uh, I, I went outside once

and it scared me so I sign.

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Uh, so, uh, there you go.

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:

Um, I guess what's making me

happy in food this week is.

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We had friends over for dinner

this last weekend and Bruce

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slow roasted a leg of goat.

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And if you don't know, we wrote

the first ever goat cookbook all

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about goat meat, milk and cheese.

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Several years ago.

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I think that book is still out there.

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:

Mm-hmm.

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And um, it was the first ever

all goat book written and

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published in North America.

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And we, uh, became very fond of goat.

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Bruce sources goat from a local farm,

so he slow roasted this leg and it

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was really tender and delicious.

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We had it with Tahini sauce and Pita, and

a very simple Palestinian tomato stew.

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He.

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It was a really nice fine meal and we sat

at the table till like after 11 o'clock.

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Mm-hmm.

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It was really nice talking.

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:

Yeah.

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Yeah.

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It was really nice and

it was a beautiful thing.

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:

How long did you roast that thing For?

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Six hours.

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Yeah.

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:

See, a long, long time.

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:

I gave it.

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:

I don't have the patience to

get through a podcast, so Okay.

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Bruce: I gave it.

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Palestinian Rub.

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:

I used raw hannu and garlic and olive oil.

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:

What is raw?

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Mark (2): Han

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Bruce: Hannu is a blend of spices.

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:

It means top of the shop, so every

shop in the Middle East, it's

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:

gonna have their own version of

it, but it's Middle Eastern spices.

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:

I mixed it with garlic and olive oil.

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:

I put some sumac in for sourness and

some salt, and I rubbed that in and

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:

then I shoved it in a covered casserole.

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:

That's great.

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:

About six hours

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Mark (2): and kept it out on the grill

so it didn't heat up the kitchen.

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:

Mm-hmm.

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Which was also really great

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Mark: to keep it on a low grill,

a slow grill, as they say,

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:

and not heat up the kitchen.

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:

Okay.

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That's the podcast for this week.

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Thanks for joining us.

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Thanks for being a part of this journey.

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We appreciate your being

with us and we most.

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:

Appreciate that you connect

with us in some way,

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:

Bruce: and I've said this

before, I'm gonna say it again.

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:

No AI here on cooking of Bruce and Mark.

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:

You know that the internet is full of ai.

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You don't know what's real and what's not.

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:

Videos, podcasts, everything

you see, you will always get.

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Bruce and Mark here on

cooking of Bruce and Mark.

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