How do you be whole and fulfilled after a divorce?

Today we explore another listeners' Human Design chart. And find her superpowers and magic to help her know if she is taking the next right steps in the next chapter in her life after a divorce.

Major life transitions are never easy, but I believe she will come out stronger and wiser than ever.

We covered:

• Her type: Generator
• Her Profile: 1/3 Investigator / Martyr
• Her Gates and channels
• Her Incarnation Cross: Tension

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Maybe ending and I'll change it into a different form. There's just this wide open space of opportunity that I'm. Just trying to embrace and find you know, a new way of living a new, I don't know, the essence of who I am is always going to be there. I know that. But, you know, it's like, you know, I was operating in a certain way because of just the relationship that I had and I've got kids and, you know, all the responsibilities around all of that and, you know, on and on.

Yeah. And it just seems like there's this, this chance to have an opening or an opportunity to, to, you know, just discover something new, something different. You know, but what that is, is, is pretty wide open. And I think it's also an opportunity as I turn 50 this year at the end of basically December 31st, that you know, there's this, this change in just.

You know, from where I was in my life and now I'm moving forward into a different sort of phase, if you

I want to find like, I'm going to be on maybe more on purpose and find more satisfaction in my life and all that. So there you go.

You have this sacral center. That is the center for The motor of having that energy to do. I'm sure you find yourself always exhausting yourself every day and getting a good night's sleep. If the generator doesn't, doesn't do all of their, you know, exhaust their energy and do all of the projects or things that they want to do then you might find a hard time sleeping.

I'm not sure right now it's a you're, you're busy with the home renovating, so I'm sure you are very busy still with that.

Yes. Keeps you on your toes, always putting out fires and making sure everything's going properly. Yeah.

Like before you take a trip or you travel, you're investigating and you're making sure you have all your ducks in a row. Is that right? And you're like,

It's just that. And that's who you are. The due diligence versus someone who's just like books a ticket and be like, all right, I'm just going to wing it. We're going to go wherever you're like, no, winging it is not your style. Well,

Yeah. And, yeah, anyway. We're going to get into these if I start talking about it, so let's just move on.

So like, I also host a podcast and I'm a renovation contractor and I'm a mom and you know, like all, all these different things. And. Yeah. I network a lot and like all that stuff. So

Nice. So yeah, we talk about basically anything to do with renovation. And right now the focus of my series is women in trades. So I mean, I'm interviewing a whole bunch of women who are in the trade sector, and this is my way of sort of. Reaching out, giving back, trying to encourage maybe other women or other men as well, or however you identify.

Yeah. It can trades as a viable career because we have such a skilled worker shortage. And the goal is to have 365 women on the show. And maybe turn it into a book. 365 days of women in trade about their stories. So that's sort of my off the side of my desk thing, but I love it. Cause I get to talk to so many really interesting women.

The awareness of the community of renovations, like, Hey, like this needs to change, there's not enough, like there needs to be more equality. So yeah, that is, that is right up your alley of this right angle cross of tension. Yeah.

So,

So there's This incarnation cross of tension here is all about, it's like, think about a violin or a guitar. Like, you have to have beautiful, for beautiful music, you need tension and it can be uncomfortable to tighten the strings, you know, like especially within our human psyche when the ego is, you know, on guard and we don't want to be tightened and that probably is what you experienced in your relationship that is.

Is ending and so it's a, it can be a really triggering thing and it can be a really good thing. So the key for you is to use your strategy, which we'll get into because you are a generator to respond in order to have the right opportunities for people to receive your mentorship, for your advice and you're like, I see what's missing.

I see what's out of tune and I'd love to share that with you. But if you just share it and no one's, you know, and it's not in response, they're not looking for it. It's not kind of like a, an energy, unsolicited at that point, right? Unsolicited. It's unsolicited. Right. Exactly. So unsolicited, which most times unsolicited advice is never received, but that's the wisdom behind this strategy of to respond is when you're responding to things, the things fall into your, your sphere, you're like, Oh yeah, I can help with that.

Let me respond to that. You know, and And so and so forth. So that's, that's the flow. That's the magic of your energy is to respond.

You feel it in your gut. But it's a yes or no question. So let's say an opportunity comes your way, you're like, should I jump into this? Is this something that seems like a good fit for me or that I would like to do that would, that would shine your, your, you know, your wisdom and your mentorship. Is this something great?

And then you would say, that's a, that's a yes or no question. So then, if it's a yes, you'll feel it in your gut, kind of light and excited. And from your gut, if you start practicing this every day, this yes or no questions to yourself, you will hear almost like a humming, and then it'll come up through your throat, and you'll be like, Mm hmm.

Yeah. Or if it's a no, like your gut will drop and I'm like no. And then if it's like a, maybe let me think about it, which you can still do. You can kind of test your gut again in another like 24 hours or so, just reassess it because you do have an open will center. So you want to make sure you're not jumping on the bandwagon of someone else real quick because you may feel good about it.

Like, Oh yeah, because you have an open will center, you're amplifying their excitement or their agenda. So give yourself time and if it's a hmm, I don't know, and you can't really feel for sure what you're feeling in your gut, then yeah, give it 24 hours and ask yourself the same question, yes or no, especially with them out of your aura, like just have your own alone time.

And then that will give your gut clarity.

Then you'll be able to feel it in your gut. Like, Oh yeah.

So I want to talk about what you want to in our short time.

Well, that's what they call it really in the human design. And it's something that. You receiving the energy and you receive it in a variety of ways depending on who you're around now Conversely the the colored in centers are your defined centers So therefore this is something that is consistent within yourself like your theme So you always experience yourself brandy as?

in your state of love consistently It's not like you experience multiple different brandies and you kind of morph and chameleon depending on who you're around because this yellow is an identity center. It's connected to who you are, your sense of self worth and your self love. Your, your spleen center is defined.

You're always in a constant state of just strength in survival. This is regarding like survival, immune system. And things like that your route down here also is a motor that's connected to like when to do things like you have a very, it's in a cycle, a motor, like you do things, you're not always in a hurried frenzied rush, like you do things when it's the right timing, and then you don't do things and you rest, you know, it's like you have a very nice cycle.

So these are consistent. So for instance, if someone around you has a defined. head center or even they can have an undefined head center. The head is where you're receiving ideas. So if you go out in public, you're going to be like having a flood of all these different ideas and inspiration, which could be really wonderful and exciting.

And like, you want that rush, but you also have to be careful that you're not like now applying that new idea that you got, because that might've been someone else's like, you're just amplifying it. It may not really truly be for you. And that's why. Always going back to your inner authority. It's like, Oh wait, but is that really for me?

And they're like, Oh no, actually no, that was just a really cool idea in the moment, you know?

So then all the numbers inside each center are related to gates in the human design mandala, which connect to an eaching symbol and they all lie, you know, lie in a Zodiac like the Zodiacal chart and it, and they all will always be in the same exact spot in every single person's chart. But every single person chart will have a different variation of numbers circled or defined.

So that's very similar to a colored in center. So you have, let's just say for instance, 10, 13, and 15 here in your yellow diamond, your identity center, those are all defined. And then we would go over to your, the list of numbers here and it's like, okay, 10, 10 is next to your North node. So then we would take a look at like.

What is your soul's desire to evolve into? Let's go look at that gate and that theme and that can help pinpoint a bit more about like what you should what you should or what you normally do sometimes It's just a recognition like yeah, I know I do that right in the black because that's your conscious in the red over here Let's say 48 you have to find in your spleen center.

Your son is in your subconscious right kind of like the Back in the background, we're not really as conscious about it, but this is also part of our personality that's in Gate 48. So what, what's Gate 48 and what's Gate 10? Let's take a look. So Gate, I have Gate 38 pulled up here because that was your conscious sun.

Okay. So this is , my book that is coming out in December, I've written about every single gate here in the book. So yes, gate 48 is the gate of the depth, the well in the I Ching it's called, and it is in the Libra. So this is your subconscious, this is 88 days before you were born. And I also have the gene keys here, which I think are, are really helpful because every single gate has. It's some type of evolutionary growth, right?

Like emotional growth that we can develop through. So the shadow of this gate, if you're operating in your unconscious ego about it, is you have a fear of inadequacy, which relates to your investigating everything to make sure you're got all your ducks in a row because you're not going to be inadequate.

Like that's kind of what's. churning that fear. But the gift here in the lesson is resourcefulness, right? Knowing all the information, having the resourcefulness to figure out a solution, to know that. You know, I am confident I can do this. I am not inadequate.

Yes. Figure shit out all of the time. All the time. All the time.

Yes. And I've said that like, like, all the time, like,

No, let's go back to your sun sign. Actually, a 38 is your conscious sun sign. Those, and those are just the biggest ones, right? Just like an astrology, like your personalities shines the most through your sun sign, but you have aspects all throughout your chart through the other gates too. So the fighter, 38, your conscious sun is the fighter.

The I Ching is opposition in astrology, your sun sign is in Capricorn, and the gene key shadow of this is struggle. And that's why I looked up your channels because you do have the channel of struggle in your chart highlighted which is something where you learn life. And you gain your wisdom through the right kinds of struggle.

Sometimes it might not feel like it's the right kind of struggle. Sometimes it sucks that you're struggling, but that is a major theme of yours. The lesson is the perseverance and the enlightenment is honor.

so between your spleen center, the triangle that's colored in on the left, down to the root center that's brown, you actually have your entire, you've got a whole bunch of channels connected there, all of them. Between these two not all but three. So again, we're talking about intuition is in the spleen your survival your immune system Connected to your root center, which is the doing energy the adrenal glands You know that again that feeling of like self worth you have a consistent within you.

You don't have to prove yourself You just do whatever needs to get done And the right timing when it gets done, there's no stress behind it. So when you have this here, 38 to 28, this, these two gates are connected, they're connecting the centers. That's called a channel. Why

The black is the conscious. So it's over here on the conscious side, the red is the unconscious. So sometimes, wait, why is that? You have both of them there. Gate 18 is over here in your unconscious in Pluto as well as Pluto, because Pluto is slow moving. So it's, it's in the same, it didn't move into another gate within those 88 days.

So then

So these we call a hanging gate. So a lot of times we will find somebody else in a in a hanging gate that we really need fulfilled through somebody else. Like let's say your partner or something like that. They may have their solar plexus defined. They may have 49 to find and then that connects and makes a channel when you guys are together, which can make, you know, you feel really good.

So like I was talking about, maybe it evolves into a mentorship or a coaching position in the field you have expertise in. Or maybe it morphs into something more like an emotional type of a coach or mentor through, you know, going through whatever separation, like a divorce coach or something like that.

It doesn't have to. Whatever feels right for your sake, girl, that's your path and you're designed here to now share your wisdom that you've experienced through your struggles. Yeah,

Yeah. There's always this element of healing that comes through as part of my makeup as well. Mm hmm. These two together would be a little bit interesting, I guess.

So just think of like how she exuded her theme in her life, the Dalai Lama, like. That's pretty incredible. That's his incarnation cross. He's very spiritual. And ironically, Tom Cruise. So you've got those three. It's really always the, the purpose is to provide tension so that life around you stays in tune.

It contains the intuitive energy to make things correct in order to create a perfect expression of the joy of life.

Go ahead.

But the sense of this one also has a transformation to drive or initiate business, right? The sense of pushing through and. Having that dedication day in and day out to get whatever needs to get done, done. You have that. So the fulfillment of your dreams can and will happen if you let the universe handle the details.

Which I know can be hard for you as an investigator, but that's the evolution. And then honor your energy to incubate your dreams and only share with those who value that dream.

Cherish that.

The other thing that I really loved, I saw here is 34 to 10. So you have 34 in your sacral and it goes up into the 10 in the yellow identity center, which It's all about identity, self love, it is like where the magnetic monopole is contained in order to connect with other people, to exude that heart center.

So when you have that channel defined, that channel is called exploration. It connects power, the channel of power, to the channel of self love. So through responding to people. You are able to act in your power correctly, just through pure empowerment. You're able to empower others through just your love, through your being and responding to people.

And I see that very much in that project you just described, you know, bringing together all of the female empowerment in the trade. Interesting.

On each side there? No,

You got a, you got some struggles there. That's what that means is there's a, this planet is in detriment here connected to an aspect in the astrology chart. Your Pluto, which also is a planet of healing your Venus and the moon. I don't, I don't know that the aspects in your chart, I'd have to take a look, but then you also have this up arrow is an exaltation like, so either 28, 29, 30, 40, 40, 50, 50, In your chart here.

Mercury is in a really happy place. Maybe it's in Virgo or I don't, like I said, I don't know what your chart looks like, but it's in a really nice, or it's in a trying like it's exalted. So subconsciously, let's just say there's a lot of communication in your job subconsciously. Yes. Like you are a very good communicator and your mercury is happy there.

Like you had mentioned, you are in the next chapter on your own and there were struggles in your marriage. I mean, this, this doesn't really give me much here with the triangle. It just, you know, talks about if we go into gate 19, I guess that might give us more information. Wanting. I still,

So Gate 19 is Wanting. In the I Ching it is Approach. And it is connected to the astrology energy Aquarius. So this, this down arrow points to the shadow, the struggle of codependency. The gift in this lesson here is the sensitivity. And the enlightenment is sacrifice. So wanting is like always wanting more, like never enough, never enough. Which can, in the shadow, right, leads to codependency on money, your career, the person you're with, like whatever it is for that, you know, you, that could have been the case when you were younger.

Now that you're in your new chapter, maybe, yeah, you're older and wiser, so you're not codependent on him anymore. Yeah, so it's approach, this really symbolizes the idea of approaching a goal or desire with determination and focus, desires and ambitions. So focusing, determination, magnetism, goal oriented, yeah, driven by wanting.

So really it's like the sacrifice, I see the ultimate gift here is, you know, like when you're wanting something, you're pushing, pushing, pushing so hard. All you have to do, like, but you're still pushing against, like, whatever that block is energetically. But then all you have to do is just kind of like, open up your hands and be like, okay, let go.

I'm just gonna let the universe, like, take the details. I let go. And then, oof, something pops in your lap the next day. You're like, or the next hour. You're like, oh my gosh. Like, all I need to do is let go. Right? That's, that's what I see here in this gate. Very cool. Yeah. So we have five more minutes left.

You let me know if there's one last question I can answer for you here in the chart. We answer your original question, how to better approach next season of my life in all areas to be wholly fulfilled.

I'm like, Oh, I should have like. My body was telling me I needed to, to do something or, you know, whatever, or even like something that there's a project we have and all of a sudden something popped in my mind. I'm like, that, that's going to be a problem. I have to make sure I, you know, investigate that or, or make sure that that, that part of the project is going to go well because something in me just says, Oh, this is maybe going to be a problem.

So like pay attention. And I find anytime I have not paid attention that's when stuff goes sideways. As soon as I like, okay, yes, I'm acknowledging something's like twigging me and then I deal with it. It's like that. It's fine.

You have the sacral, you're like, Oh, got to listen to that. Yeah, you're right. You're right. I think for you, it's really just tuning into your mentorship, you know, moving forward in your next chapter and then listening to your sacral, continuing to listen to your sacral, practicing not to ignore it. To move forward and into, you know, what, what that tension can look like in life, right?

To bring empowerment and love. So speaking

Or if it feels heavy or kind of like, Oh, I don't know. Yeah, you, and also to take your time because with that open will center, they may come in depending if they're toxic. Well, I know they will, if they're toxic, they're going to come in and they're going to sweep you off your feet and be super love balmy.

And you'd be like, Oh my gosh, this is so exciting. And you're like on the bandwagon and you're writing it. But that can not be good because you're not listening to your safe role, right? It's like. The distraction and amplifying in the will center and that agenda is distracting from what your sacral feels and if that's right.

Okay, very cool.

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