“You have gifts, talents, and support to develop and become exactly what you want. Because love is your birthright, and you are worthy of love.” - Kellan Fluckiger

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What you are about to learn

Love is a choice; it is a verb, and it means to put someone’s benefit higher than your own. So if you love someone, you're putting their health well-being benefit, welfare in very high regard. 

Love is all that is real. There's a commandment in the New Testament somewhere that Jesus tells us followers that the first commandment is to love God with all our heart might mind and strength, or something like that. And the corollary truth that we don't talk about very much, is we're commanded to love God with all of our heart might mind and strength and in other religious traditions, there are other words used, but the meaning and add since is the same, and the reason that's so is that God, the Creator loves us. Love is all that is real and is the enormous power. If you learn to love, I learned to love, which means put the benefit and growth and good stuff toward another at the highest price. Even above my own, if I learned to do that and be selfless and giving and kind, then I am more and more like our Creator, who is that in perfection. 

Now, this is the question some people might argue about this statement that each person is worthy of love, especially if some people are not a good person, do they still deserve to be loved? Of course, this could be an issue because the topic is that EACH person is worthy of what we called love. And it seems hard to accept the reality that we are going to love a person even if that person has done something wrong to us. And usually, instead, we feel the love in our hearts. We tend to feel the opposite, to hate. It would be hard to shift the feeling from hatred to love a person if this is the case. 

Regardless of the fact, they are still worthy of love, and they always can change. Now, they have to participate, and they have to want to no one's going to make them because we talked earlier about that choice or thing somehow being one of the inviolate commandments, or inviolate framework or frameworks, I guess commandments in violet rules that govern this existence. You and I, we can change, we can grow we can be something different than we were. And that is an internal choice that has nothing to do with the body. It has to do with the mind and focus and spirit. So no matter where you are and no matter what you've been through, and no matter what you've done or what's been done to you, you here listening to this are worthy of love. And no matter what has happened before, you can change and grow and be better than you are today. 

Give that person a chance to be loved if that person feels that he or she is loved and gives them all the opportunity in the world to be good. They will change. Love is our birthright. From the moment you were born in this world, it is your prerogative to be loved. No matter who you are, whether I say this in a non or biblical sense, we all have the right to be loved. That is our gift when we first open our eyes. This is something that each and one of us must do with each other. To be loved and to give love. 

Key Takeaways 

“So if you love someone, you're putting their health well-being benefit, welfare in very high regard, and perhaps even higher than your own, then you can say, okay, you love someone. And then there's evidence of that because of how you talk how you think how you feel, how you think about that person, even when they're not there, how you interact with them, things you might do for them, and then you can argue either side of the tough love thing. So that's all I'm going to say about that.”

“Love is the only thing that lasts; everything else is lesser and will fail. So the next step there is to remember it. Remember, in that context that you are divine, every person is worthy of love, because you're divine, every person, even those who have done dumb things, bad things, things that right now are worthy of punishment. Some people haven't do things that are worthy of punishment, and we have a system of laws to take care of that. They are still worthy of love. And the notion that we can never change and never get better and never get fixed is just not consistent with how growth and development work.”

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